How to Never Commit Sins of Impurity - Marian Friars Minor
ฝัง
- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 16 ต.ค. 2024
- On ways to preserve one's Chastity & Purity
𝐔𝐒𝐄 𝐂𝐎𝐃𝐄 "𝐑𝐒𝐁𝟏𝟎" 𝐅𝐎𝐑 𝟏𝟎% 𝐎𝐅𝐅 on Traditional Catholic Books:
Visit: romanseraphicb...
Special thanks to the Marian Friars Minor for their contribution of this talk.
www.marianfria...
Those interested in the Third of St. Francis visit: www.marianfria...
This format of Conferences are not typically made available to the public.
Please visit www.marianfria... for more Spiritual Formation from the Marian Friars Minor
𝐔𝐒𝐄 𝐂𝐎𝐃𝐄 "𝐑𝐒𝐁𝟏𝟎" 𝐅𝐎𝐑 𝟏𝟎% 𝐎𝐅𝐅
romanseraphicbooks.com/books
Can you let other people put subtitles in this video? I'd like to translate it to Portuguese, also, what are the songs names in the beginning and the end of the videos?
Guys trust me, St Joseph is the key! I been free from impure sin for a long time. Ever since I consecrated myself to him my life has change. My mirage is better and I am becoming a better dad!
The thing conspicuously missing from this, pretty good advice is prayer. Even if you do pray its almost certainly not enough. Pray without ceasing. Go to Mass, pray the rosary, pray the angelus, the magnificat, wake up with the psalms, study the scriptures, read the saints, meditate, talk to God, contemplate, but never stop praying. Make your entire life a prayer and there will be no room for evil.
To waste time is an offense to God and that is why he lets you fall into impurity. Very insightful.
Excellent speech, I joined the church this past easter. I was a very self indulgent person, I thought I was tough. I was a commercial fisherman, regularly take cold showers, worked hard, dealt with the heat in the summer, never cared to be too comfortable. I sleep on the floor sometimes, in the cold etc. then I joined the church and realized quickly that I had issues with gluttony, pride, self destructive addictions, and realized really quickly that I was only tough in some ways. I’ve lost 60 lbs since joining the church back in Easter, reduced all my addictions save one, and am trying so hard to get rid of my addiction to pot.
I’ve been smoking a long time and didn’t think the church had a real issue with it specifically. I thought it always helped me be more spiritual. Made me appreciate gods love, helped me forgive and feel forgiven, even led to me opening my mind to Catholicism. What I never realized is, it also increases my hunger, laziness, and sex drive. All these things help drive my addictions and mortal sins. I’m always learning and always trying to improve. If I wasn’t married I think I’d go for the friar life style. I love the minimalist lifestyle but it’s about impossible with a wife and two kids.
It's NEVER impossible. Sit in front of the ecurist. Go to adoration, regularly. Take the wife and kids or just go by yourself. It will change your world even more. Remember, we can't do this alone
And learn how to meditate
@@bradhoffman8079 Excellent advice! Unfortunately, for my situation it’s impossible to do all that right now. My wife is very very anti catholic, she acknowledges my improvements but will not credit them to the church. She actively tries to stop me or the kids from going to mass, refuses to listen to anything about the topic of Catholicism. I’ve been to several Protestant churches with her and she has a very modern idea of christ. She won’t read scripture, she said she likes Jesus the way he is, if she reads something she doesn’t like in scripture then it will ruin Jesus for her lol.
I do take my kids but one is special needs and very hard to control in church. The other goes to her grandparents every other week and they’re anticatholic as well. They’ve already fought me on getting the kids baptized. All of my family is anti catholic as well so if I do get the kids baptized the rest of the family already said they won’t attend nor consider their baptisms valid. So there’s THAT.
Anyway I will take your advice and try to meditate. I do pray the rosary but rarely have more than 30 mins without being needed by the kids or wife so that’s about all the concentrated time I have. My wife has literally called me three times while trying to write this !
Do you pray the Divine Mercy ? That prayer alone brings on miracles. If you find you don't have enough time,wake up 15 to 30 minutes earlier, yes its a sacrifice, but believe me,GOD does see all. You'll be amazed at what prayer prayed from the heart can do. And always ask Mary to interceded.she NEVER disappoints. Remember, Divine Mercy prayer for the intentions for your family. GOD BLESS
@@bradhoffman8079 Thanks brother! I will look it up and learn it! I was a little intimidated by all the prayers I thought I would have to memorize but really it hasn’t been bad. All my years as a Protestant the ‘our father’ was the only prayer I had learned. Now I’ve got the nicene, the glory be, oh my jesus, the Hail Mary, st Michael, and Gloria. Though, I admit it’s way easier to remember if we sing it. When it’s spoken, I almost always trip up somewhere at mass.
My priest just says be patient, keep praying, keep improving, don’t expect too much out of my family. That my righteousness will help them greatly. My wife rolls her eyes if I even say a religious word these days. She has zero interest in scripture, the church, I can’t even get her to watch the chosen or listen to contemporary Christian music. She says she’s a Christian, she believes, she’s going to heaven, literally any other details could jeopardize her salvation so she isn’t interested. I pray that the Virgin Mary will break through to her and to give me the strength to lay down my vices. I will look for that prayer today I thank you!
Those who are pure of of heart and spirit see God and are in His presence
Are you?
@@glimmerman272 Keep the Faith. God is Good +
I wish I heard this when I was 15 years old.
Discipline is freedom praise the Lord Jesus Christ
Sleeping in? If you cannot get up, start praying immediately until your body can get up. Say recorded prayers like "The Our Father" and repeat it if you must until you can get up. Just a suggestion! 😊
🕯️🕊️🕯️
I pretend I am in prison and have to get up against my will. I think of my guardian angel as the prison guard, ha, ha. It sounds silly, but, it works. Plus, there are people who really had to and have to live in ways where they have absolutely no will of their own. Their every move dictated down to getting a glass of water.
Holy man speaks holy words. Thanks be to God!
"Soul of a Lion" , biography of Dietrich Von Hildebrand written by his wife Alice. A must read.
My prayer is to be blessed with a pure heart. Lord help me!
That is also my prayer 🙏🏾
Love this Holy Priest a real shepherd 🙏 God bless you Father
If I’m not mistaken, he’s a lay brother and not a priest
What is this priest name, please. Such a wonderful and meaningful preaching.
Please send me the name of the priest. God bless you 🙏
@@TheGamerDevious No he is a priest.
Friar Anthony of the Marian Friars Minor. They have a third order you should join, everyone who reads this comment should join it.
What a wonderful sermon, thank you Father, or Friar, I'm sorry I don't know which. But thank you for this, it actually brought alot of things to my attention that I do I didn't wven realize were bad habits. Constantly indulging, like bundling too warm at night, sleeping in and being lazy. This is great for an examination of conscience. I needed to hear this this morning. Thank you God for bringing this video up in my feed and bringing it to my attention. I love you, Jesus!
Very informative, tackling the root cause of impurity! An eye opener!
Wow! No holds barred! Kicked my butt. Thank you Father
Think I need to listen to this every few days :) Thank you, channels like this have helped me convert from the atheistic hell hole I was living in the past 25 years
I like that you picked out everyday things people don't even think about linking to impurity, not only because you brought it to my attention some of these things are problems in my life, but also why they're problems, which people often don't mention. When people don't give the reason why things are bad or just simply not good, they avoid them first, but later fall back into them thinking it's absurd or without reason to avoid them. But when reason is given, it is more understandable to follow, and can be better explained to others without turning them away before they get to hear the reasoning behind what might sound unreasonable at first. Please continue doing this good work, thank you, and God Bless you.
I would be so happy if i could have such a Godly priest just like this one in my parish
Wow. I was just thinking about this exact issue earlier today, and this video was posted at nearly the exact same time. It must be a sign, truly. Thank you 🙏
Thanks for this.
I now see the value of challenging yourself with uncomfortability.
Thank you father for speech, God bless you father, on the whole world
We need more of this!!! 🙌🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
This way a way more inspiring and insightful talk than what I had expected. I am pleasantly surprised!
You also shouldnt be stimulated all the time. Sometimes sitting around doing nothing (being bored) is good for the mind. Too many people give kids smartphones because they think it's a crime not to be engaged all the time. Sometimes just being still with God is the best thing you can do
Thank God for Priest and his sermon!
So beautiful to hear of chastity lived out before and after marriage! Especially in a man!
Its hard for everyone including women. Nowadays its pretty much the same since society has immodest content everywhere (billboards, tv, etc).
Yes! Most definitely! It’s a challenge.
This was an incredible talk. The speaker is gifted.
Fr. Anthony my alarms are set to the Horarium schedule. The hardest hour for me is getting up again at 5:00 AM after 12:30 Matins and Lauds, my new prayer when my alarm goes off is Lord, remove and rebuke the spirit of slumber, sloth and laziness from me.
Thank you for this! My New Year’s resolution is doing more penance and being on my phone less.
This is an excellent video! Thank you! 🙏🏻
Best video I heard from yall in awhile. And all your videos are usually good
Wonderful teaching. What’s the priest name, please.
@@danutapeace2808 I actually have no idea unfortunately. Sorry
Friar Anthony from MFM
Never is too strong of a word. The most effective way that I have managed to become open to God's grace is self-talk. Specifically, at least one must say to oneself "I distrust myself." It would probably be best to add "I trust in God alone." Also, to actually reverse one's excitation of the body it is necessary to counter the passion of hope with that of fear. Self-talk along the lines of "this leads to Hell" and imagining Hell should help accomplish this. Of course, it is always necessary to want to avoid sin.
I LOVE THAT STORY OF ST FERDINAND
I need to follow his example
Wow this was Gold.
After hearing this I feel like I wasted my life
Still have time to turn it around! God bless you
Is there a part 2? I would love to keep listening to this holy man.
Words of Wisdom
This is one of my favorite videos.
Very useful video, full of fruit
Thank you Father. Oh mg Goodness does our Lord almighty work in mysterious ways ❤️🔥
So just want to start off with respect and appreciation for the goal of this sermon. It strikes me as a sermon to college students or high school boys/young men.
I honestly have never once ever heard anyone say anything about sleeping on one's stomach, but I also don't sleep on my stomach, so I can neither confirm nor deny, it just sounds more wives tale though to me
I will probably get lobbed some misunderstanding replies for this response. But I disagree with the accusation that sleeping in causes impurity. Here's why: It is pitiful to use sleeping in as an excuse for impurity. To clarify, sleeping in doesn't cause you to do anything, any more than being hungry causes you to lash out at someone. It may be a cause, but the result is taking place because of your lack of self-control in that respect. Yes, we should be disciplined about sleep and rest, but if you're using sleeping in as an excuse for impurity, you're making that choice, sleeping in isn't doing it to you.
The rule of thumb to watch by is that typically few virtuous things are happening late at night (Not always, but that's the case more often than not, so "be sober-minded and vigilant" or go to sleep at a reasonable time), and that in the morning, should one choose to sleep in, when the brain's chemical response to waking up are strong enough to clash with the brain chemistry that indicate it should be asleep, that's when some of the weirdest things tend to happen in the mind, which in turn triggers hormonally mixed signals in the body, which essentially together combine in a dangerous concoction of what will likely turn into an occasion of strong temptation, among other things, to impurity, if one isn't prepared to ignore those chemical and hormonal responses of the mind and body. For most, it is easier to simply wake up when they first wake up. But if one does sleep in, *ONE NEED NOT ENGAGE those chemical and hormonal responses of the body and mind.
It's similar to phone usage. Phone usage probably shouldn't take place around or when lying in bed, which is probably more to blame for impurity / sleeping in than the sleeping in itself. So a similar rule might be to avoid lingering in bed, especially avoiding use of one's personal cell phone in that area. Charge it about 5-10 + feet away from the bed, or in another room altogether, and don't bring it to you in bed in the morning. Just asking for trouble at that point.
That's what I mean when I say it's not necessarily a guarantee that impurity will be the result of sleeping in.
the priest is talking from experience, he's talking about what he does himself.
Fantastic listen!!
Thank you..steve,hope your well.
Mark, we need Lofton to review this video.
Es genial, conseguiré el libro sobre el rey Fernando.
I certainly fail please Jesus help me and forgive me! Holy mama Mary intercede for me! The help of my guardian angel. St Michael the Archangel pray for us! St Joseph pray for us!
Unbelievable. Really great. My whole life no one told me about it
Great talk. Just need clarification for why sleeping on your stomach is impure.
Same, I wish he would have expanded on that. I have been trying research it and have not found any satisfying answers.
It's because your pressed up against the bed in a way that can cause pressure or sensations which could lead to 'wet dreams' and other things.
Loved the video ! Thank you Fr.! Anyone got the links to where we can find the books about St.Ferdinand he was referring to ? Would be much appreciated. Thank you!
Please, what is the name of the books he propsed about Saint King Ferdinand III?
That's crazy he said don't sleep on your stomach, I thought it was just me who couldn't do that 😅
There is a valid reason for not sleeping in the stomach
🎶Grant us, when this short life is past, The glorious evening that shall last; That, by a holy death attained, Eternal glory may be gained.🎶
Just want to say a priest recommended a small but daily mortification for me when I came to confess sins of impurity. It worked. Years long bad habit just gone
Do you mind sharing what the mortification was?
@@ogechiagada6213 Oh, anything! The mortification was up to me. It just had to be daily. Except, I presume, Sundays and solemnities/major feast days.
So for example, today I'm giving up lunch. Tomorrow I'll be cutting down my screen time. Friday, being a penitential day, I will do both.
But he said it could be as little as just giving up your third cup of coffee or something. I find small mortifications worked best for me since I could actually stick to them better.
Thanks for sharing!
Anyone who wants to eliminate distraction in your life and get closer to Christ. Do the Exodus 90 program and then implement it into your life. Life changing
Father, Men with respiratory issues need to sleep on the belly due to less resistance in the chest cavity. I have been in the medical field for 30 years and suffered from severe COVID and still need to sleep prone to breathe better. I typically am a natural back sleeper though. San Fernando lll de Castilla y León conquered Sevilla. I didn't know that he wrote books. I will definitely look into these books.
Sleeping on your back is very difficult for people with the issues you mentioned
What is his reasoning against sleeping on your stomach?
He speaks with a lot of absolutes but you'll notice he often mentions exceptions too. I wouldn't worry too much about that if you're combating impurity otherwise.
But I have definitely noticed that sleeping on my back or side really helped it
Fact, we hoped to find a dirty magazine nowadays. It's all in your hands. Wow
I’m in need of help in this, this rly helps
This is awsome ❤📿🙏
Thanks!
Joseph castíssime, ora pro nobis.
Wow we are screwed, but if I sleep on my back I have nightmares.
Amazing teaching ❤🙏 What’s the priest name?
Long Live Christ the King. This warrior is Friar Anthony
Thanks, never heard of Saint Ferdinand of Castille
Why does sleeping on one's abdomen cause impurities? Thank you.
I believe this priest is addressing young boys in this sermon.
As a man, i have some experience with this. Friction with the genitals = stimulation = big trouble.
Speaking about men only.
Not sure why but I've noticed it too
@@CatholicMailman That still doesn't explain how that causes impurities.
Anybody else struggling with the correlation between exercise and sins of impurity?
How do we handle that?
Excellent.
👍👍💯
It’s not the body doing stuff it’s an attack and if you can be conscious of it you can prevent it from occurring it can be prevented from spilling ever
Little correction, Muslims invaded Spain in 700s, not 400s
Dang that was epic
I found a sure method: get old. 😂
So why shouldn’t men sleep on their stomachs?
It's because your pressed up against the bed in a way that can cause pressure or sensations which could lead to 'wet dreams' and other things.
KF3 - pray for me!
Hmm… i’ve also heard if the Devil can’t make you sin he’ll make you busy…
What book is he talkin aboutt?
Interesting thumbnail choice
5:24
Sleeping on stomach, saints have been saying that for years? Don't sleep in?
Citations needed.
I appreciate the zeal but I'm still sleeping on my stomach
Ferdinand lll that's a leader
What is the name of the book of St.Fernand the King?
“Effeminate” why do people equate being feminine to weakness-women don’t use the word , that “masculinates” you to describe something that weakens them. So why is it men must belittle women like that. I am a woman and I am proud of being feminine. It does not make me weak.
Effeminacy and Femininity are not the same things. Effeminacy is a vice and Femininity is a virtue, that is the full understanding and intention of this speaker
What’s the name of the book they’re referring to? 2:22
St. Jerome was working during the nights.
What does being a "chased man" mean? I have tried googling it but I may be spelling it wrong. Thanks!
chaste
Chaste, i.e. chastity. Basically only using sex for it's purpose (marriage, reproduction, etc).
What's the deal with sleeping on the stomach?
Stop scaring me with the intro Steve 😅
Jesus Mary and Joseph
hello, someone knows the book of Saint Ferdinand III?
I like
Can someone explain to me why men should not sleep on their stomachs?
It's because your pressed up against the bed in a way that can cause pressure or sensations which could lead to 'wet dreams' and other things.
@@Justin-kn6dp Thanks. I couldnt find much info on this
I don't think it was the 400's concerning the Muslims, Islam didn't exist until at least the 600' if I'm not mistaken. Brilliant sermon though, stuff we really need to hear.
🙏 Amen🔥
how are you able to switch to sleeping on your back? I just lie there for hours until I flip over. I'm also unsure how this causes impurity.
Think it's got to do with the genitals being stimulated with the bed surface. During a difficult period that might make one weaker.
@luv4da80s can't the sheets and your clothes do the same thing? I don't know, maybe I'm thinking too much about this, but I hope he never finds out I sleep on my side with a body pillow between my legs. 🤣🤣
@@tdogtexan3445 actually I do the pillow between the knees thing too. Difficult to get rid off 😁
Amen 🙏🏻
Who is this Friar?
What examples are of wholesome recreation?
Literally any hobby that is active. Fishing, woodworking, gardening, studying an interesting topic etc.
@@tMatt5M Thankyou!
🌹🌹🌹
Why shouldn’t men sleep on their bellies - please cite source
It's because your pressed up against the bed in a way that can cause pressure or sensations which could lead to 'wet dreams' and other things.