You should know how to gain your confidence and power back, because these people use you as source of narcissistic supply and you don’t wanna let them use you like that. Knowing that we have been able to develop a program helping people achieve that, and get their confidence back, make me love my job to transform people’s lives. DM me for more information!
My bissest challenge right now is my energy levels. I am constantly exhausted, and even the thought of turning back to that massive evidence report for the police is exhausting. I think my thyroid is shot. My stress feels so off the charts that all I have to do is lay down on my couch, and I am out.
You could be iodine deficient. An iodine deficiency causes hypothyroidism, which brings on fatigue. Stress can lower iodine absorption. Sea salt is the way to go to raise your iodine level.
@@CLHS1944 Thank you so much for your reply. I said that to myself and then I got stronger but then I start working on my case and finding more wrongdoing and then get scared again. Thanks again
@@ginaqc78 your welcome. I get ptsd moments having to go through all evidence to violate him but must do so because the injuries he gave me must also be corrected by surgeries. Stay strong!
My two cents is “Honesty, honesty, honesty.” If you own your own challenges and at the same time prove a couple lies, exaggerations, or other misrepresentations on the part of the other person, you will get the benefit of the doubt while they will be under suspicion of being dishonest when matters are unclear.
So many POS fathers out there who don’t care about their kids, and the ones who will do anything to protect their children and give them the best life possible happen to be the ones with narcissistic mothers who want to use your kids as weapons. Props to all the mothers and fathers, who are making sacrifices to protect the kids!
You said the word "whistle" in an entirely different context, but it reminded me of something. Whistling! The narcissist I'm dealing with is at work, and I make sure to literally whistle little tunes when they are around simply because it gives off the impression that I'm delightfully content and happy 😊
As Long As Your Not Living With Seriously Dangerous NARCS. IT Make Them Determined To Abuse To Break You. IT Would Be Mocking To Them Provoking MORE ABUSE.
If you can, use Google Docs to document--it keeps a log of EXACTLY when edits were made to the document. You can easily prove that you took the documentation as it happened and did not write it all down at one time.
Showing Exs shortcomings backfired in my case. He just pulled out that card and used cash. It is war and your children are in a direct line of fire. This is the problem. They won’t stop until your children are hurt. This is the problem ladies. If your a mother and care about your kids, and their mental health, and don’t have $20,000 for a retainer post decree, be prepared for PTSD
Thank You So Much Attorney Rebecca Zung And Also Dr. Ramani For This Important And Informative Video!!! So Smart!!! So Very Very True!!! I Appreciate You Both So Very Very Much!!! Both Of You Are Very Excellent Mentors!!!🎉❣️
The wild thing is that Dr Ramini and may be Rebecca Zung are also narcissist. Everyone has narcissistic traits and anyone who cannot recognize that is narcissist. 😮 This is where these people become a turn off, so we have to always check ourselves, and admit that we also have our faults. This is what I have learned in treating thousands of patients. Everyone has traits and we all have to self check. The body language between the two shows that they are uncomfortable together. It’s super sad to watch but also revealing. That’s why these videos are so great and Rebecca is doing a great job helping us also learn more about and help keep this human condition in check. 🎉
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Thank you than you! Your videos capture everything I've been dealing with. It's so hard to make sense if things and even explain what is happening. Thank you for bringing language and examples and an understanding to this very harmful issue.
A restraining order sometimes makes things worse you have to protect yourself cause sometimes restraining orders, meet the other person go wild so you have to be careful .
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My ex didn’t and doesn’t care about my PERM INJUNCTION against him. Yrs ago we were to reconcile and go to court to drop the injunction told him he had to go too. His response was “tell the judge to go f himself” he has absolutely no respect for authority or people period unless they are drug addicts or drug dealers. Smh!
@@CLHS1944 I would love a permanent injunction. How did you obtain this. I have plans for if I can get one but we share children. Did you have to show tangible proof?
I went through exactly what you two talked about-true winning is being able to be with your kids in freedom. The more time spent (narc-free) to guide them, the better. You both are doing God’s work!
When you were talking about the dangers of restraining orders, I agree it's incredibly dangerous at that point. A friend of mine eventually had to deal with court ordered visitation granted to the husband (who previously had the restraining order) and on one of his visitations, he drove himself and the 6 yr old son up into the mountains and he killed himself and his son by gasing inside the car with the exhaust pipe overnight. Unbelievably heartbreaking for my friend.
In my case with my ex narc wife I had to in a way learn to think like a narc.. What can I twist to make it look like she can benefit from something that I need to benefit from.. I had to think this way to trick her to get custody of my 2 year old.. It was to protect my daughter bc she would be in danger down there.. Thinking this way and not showing emotions or reacting helped her not know my next move.. You have to turn emotions off in a way it turned her anger more outwards towards me doing that benefited in winning.. I didn't care about the money so I took all debts.. Just wanted my child..
Sometimes when you guys talk about the long text messages, which my husband calls verbal diarrhea makes me think that I’m the narcissist. I was using skills I learned in dbt to communicate how things they were doing were affecting the children. I am autistic and have a monologue style communication. He says I’m antagonizing but I’m always respectful and he can’t handle hearing anything that appears criticism. Such as blowing 1600$ on crypto and weed growing supplies when we had mortgage due. No that was all my fault because I couldn’t work. Constantly questioning if I’m the narcissist because I stopped bending over and apologizing to his behavior and became assertive
She wore a very pretty dress , she talked so kindly however she kept me constantly waiting .I was always waiting for the shoe to drop and yes do not make eye contact .
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One pattern you definitely want to show in a petition is how they undermine you time and time and time again.
I know they constantly want to distort everything
My whole life was made up of lack of empathy and narcissistic people so I am really exhausted
DONT LET THEM SEE YOU SWEAT!!!!
Totally agree!
I would pay $10,000. To watch these two take on my narcissist .
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You Seriously Needs HELP HERE The LADY Giving GOOD POINT.
@@valerieriggins3184 what?
Literally.
At first they will feel threatened and then they will just gaslight and blame shift😂
My bissest challenge right now is my energy levels. I am constantly exhausted, and even the thought of turning back to that massive evidence report for the police is exhausting. I think my thyroid is shot. My stress feels so off the charts that all I have to do is lay down on my couch, and I am out.
I know perfectly how it feels like. God bless you and protect you.
Same here! It’s just horrible 😞 ❤❤❤❤
🙏🙏🙏🛏️ 🛋️ 😴
You could be iodine deficient. An iodine deficiency causes hypothyroidism, which brings on fatigue. Stress can lower iodine absorption. Sea salt is the way to go to raise your iodine level.
I need to go through my evidence, too. I've been procrastinating for ages and just have to face it.
Good luck to you!
Taken me 10 yrs to learn how to correctly protect myself! I’m NAMAslaying🔥🔥🔥
You got this! 💪
How did you do it. I’m scared and I think the order of protection just will make things worse 😢😢😢😢😢
@@ginaqc78 must just do it. Understand being scared but it’s more important to not to fear for your life.
@@CLHS1944 Thank you so much for your reply. I said that to myself and then I got stronger but then I start working on my case and finding more wrongdoing and then get scared again. Thanks again
@@ginaqc78 your welcome. I get ptsd moments having to go through all evidence to violate him but must do so because the injuries he gave me must also be corrected by surgeries. Stay strong!
My 2 favorite narcissist experts together! The VERY BEST🙂👍
My two cents is “Honesty, honesty, honesty.” If you own your own challenges and at the same time prove a couple lies, exaggerations, or other misrepresentations on the part of the other person, you will get the benefit of the doubt while they will be under suspicion of being dishonest when matters are unclear.
Wow! They do it to create guilt to get us to do something.
You got this ❤
PLUME I don't feel guilty at all for cutting narcs and narc family out of life
@@joshuaanzalone2060 I don’t either-but it’s interesting that’s why they do it.
So many POS fathers out there who don’t care about their kids, and the ones who will do anything to protect their children and give them the best life possible happen to be the ones with narcissistic mothers who want to use your kids as weapons. Props to all the mothers and fathers, who are making sacrifices to protect the kids!
Ive seen it and experienced narcissists. I didn't know that back in the day but now I am an educated empath
I’m unstoppable
You DEFINITELY are! ❤
Karma never forgets, that’s so good Rebecca! John Lennon, maybe not instant but still Karma!
You said the word "whistle" in an entirely different context, but it reminded me of something. Whistling! The narcissist I'm dealing with is at work, and I make sure to literally whistle little tunes when they are around simply because it gives off the impression that I'm delightfully content and happy 😊
As Long As Your Not Living With Seriously Dangerous NARCS. IT Make Them Determined To Abuse To Break You. IT Would Be Mocking To Them Provoking MORE ABUSE.
Just like everybody else, you must respect an Empath. Everyone deserves Respect.🙏
"stalking", "coercive control", "financial abuse", "ongoing menacing behavior"
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I’m unstoppable
Amen
Great to see these two Ladies together, a very positive force for good! Thank you!
I’M UNSTOPPABLE!
Proud of you! You got this ❤
I believe you're so able to spot it because you got it
STAY STRONG!!!!
You got this! 💪
@@RebeccaZungEsq Thank you!
I've seen it. Seen all these. 20 years trapped with a narcissist. I'm starting to finally take the steps to be free
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This is exactly what happened for me. 50/50 but I have my child a lot more. I see it as a win.
If you can, use Google Docs to document--it keeps a log of EXACTLY when edits were made to the document. You can easily prove that you took the documentation as it happened and did not write it all down at one time.
Showing Exs shortcomings backfired in my case. He just pulled out that card and used cash. It is war and your children are in a direct line of fire. This is the problem. They won’t stop until your children are hurt. This is the problem ladies. If your a mother and care about your kids, and their mental health, and don’t have $20,000 for a retainer post decree, be prepared for PTSD
Agreed.
To the powers that be;
Bring it on!
Thank You So Much Attorney Rebecca Zung And Also Dr. Ramani For This Important And Informative Video!!! So Smart!!! So Very Very True!!! I Appreciate You Both So Very Very Much!!! Both Of You Are Very Excellent Mentors!!!🎉❣️
I wish I could personally thank each of you for how helpful you have been! (My two favourite people at the moment!)
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The wild thing is that Dr Ramini and may be Rebecca Zung are also narcissist. Everyone has narcissistic traits and anyone who cannot recognize that is narcissist. 😮 This is where these people become a turn off, so we have to always check ourselves, and admit that we also have our faults. This is what I have learned in treating thousands of patients. Everyone has traits and we all have to self check. The body language between the two shows that they are uncomfortable together. It’s super sad to watch but also revealing. That’s why these videos are so great and Rebecca is doing a great job helping us also learn more about and help keep this human condition in check. 🎉
Two of my favourite people together on one video! Hugs! 🤗🤗🤗
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I am UNSTOPPABLE ❤❤❤❤
Totally agree!
Thank you than you! Your videos capture everything I've been dealing with. It's so hard to make sense if things and even explain what is happening. Thank you for bringing language and examples and an understanding to this very harmful issue.
I’m unstoppable!
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I’ve been watching the videos all the last 2 weeks and it totally saved my mindset. Went from an anxious wreck to confident in my court case.
I think i may be dealing with a malignant sadistic dominant narcissist..
this might help you better as well slay.rebeccazung.com/home
RUN!
Superb Rebecca and Dr. Ramani
"I'm Unstoppable"
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True. I’ve gotten a restraining order and called the police, but it hardly helped, only inciting them even more.
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I am unstoppable thank you for this information. 🙏🏽 ❤
You got this ❤
YES LordJESUS HelpUS ALL 2 Be AWARE of A lot of people's out there - grew up with it !!!
A restraining order sometimes makes things worse you have to protect yourself cause sometimes restraining orders, meet the other person go wild so you have to be careful .
I love this woman
I've seen it and I see it everyday and people I know who knows me see's it too.
I'm unstoppable❤
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Thanks for your information and have a Nice Day 😉👍
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TOTALLY!
Yeah my mom and my step dad didn't care about my restraining order 🤷 and my ex it just seemed to make him more persistent
My ex didn’t and doesn’t care about my PERM INJUNCTION against him. Yrs ago we were to reconcile and go to court to drop the injunction told him he had to go too. His response was “tell the judge to go f himself” he has absolutely no respect for authority or people period unless they are drug addicts or drug dealers. Smh!
@@CLHS1944 I would love a permanent injunction. How did you obtain this. I have plans for if I can get one but we share children.
Did you have to show tangible proof?
@@TruthPrevails30 yes I had neighbors witness his physical abuse on me multiple time. They made statements to police state atty etc.
My two favorite people!! Love you two in a dialogue!💕👏💕👏💕
Thank you! ❤ Care to share what you like the most?
I went through exactly what you two talked about-true winning is being able to be with your kids in freedom. The more time spent (narc-free) to guide them, the better. You both are doing God’s work!
When you were talking about the dangers of restraining orders, I agree it's incredibly dangerous at that point. A friend of mine eventually had to deal with court ordered visitation granted to the husband (who previously had the restraining order) and on one of his visitations, he drove himself and the 6 yr old son up into the mountains and he killed himself and his son by gasing inside the car with the exhaust pipe overnight. Unbelievably heartbreaking for my friend.
In my case with my ex narc wife I had to in a way learn to think like a narc.. What can I twist to make it look like she can benefit from something that I need to benefit from.. I had to think this way to trick her to get custody of my 2 year old.. It was to protect my daughter bc she would be in danger down there.. Thinking this way and not showing emotions or reacting helped her not know my next move.. You have to turn emotions off in a way it turned her anger more outwards towards me doing that benefited in winning.. I didn't care about the money so I took all debts.. Just wanted my child..
"Totàlly"
I AM IN CONTROL!
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Im Unstoppable
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I've seen it like just can't wait and have some patience for just a while longer
Im unstoppable!!!
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@@RebeccaZungEsq already have. It Gave Me Strength. Knowledge is Strength!!
Stay Strong
You got this! 💪
How do you prove that the other parent is playing games and wouldn't a judge look at that?
Yes we Always have to try to be strong! Heal and recover 🙏❤️❤️❤️
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Ive seen all of this, dealing with it now
Sometimes when you guys talk about the long text messages, which my husband calls verbal diarrhea makes me think that I’m the narcissist. I was using skills I learned in dbt to communicate how things they were doing were affecting the children. I am autistic and have a monologue style communication. He says I’m antagonizing but I’m always respectful and he can’t handle hearing anything that appears criticism. Such as blowing 1600$ on crypto and weed growing supplies when we had mortgage due. No that was all my fault because I couldn’t work. Constantly questioning if I’m the narcissist because I stopped bending over and apologizing to his behavior and became assertive
you had to contend with two coverts, that's why you understand it so well !
I've seen and experienced it.
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I've listened to this one a couple of times before I just wanted to say that
I'm unstoppable!
She wore a very pretty dress , she talked so kindly however she kept me constantly waiting .I was always waiting for the shoe to drop and yes do not make eye contact
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Excellent discussion. Thanks
I am strong❤
This was great.. Thanks Dr. & Rebecca...❤
Proud of you! You got this ❤
I’m unstoppable!
Louder!
Oh my 2 faves together
I’m unstoppable x
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I'm un stopable
Thanks! You woman have brought a powerful point to the hose social distinctions. Amen.
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YES they love that supply high BUT I AM STRONG!!! N by Faith my Sons Are Strong !!!
I don't anywhere alone. I'm never alone at home like I use to be before I met them online never in person. I'm an Introvert and Empath.
If you gotta sneak to be yourself, should you be there?
Im unstoppable
I’ve seen most of these traits in my 24yr son and his father
I’VE SEEN IT!!!
I don't miss all that drama!
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I'VE SEEN IT
I’ve seen it!
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I've seen it..!
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Thank you both though 4 your time n sharing !!! N again apologies Just Frustrating!
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I've seen all 7 currently dealing with now 😢
357 works well.
YES Just A Revenge - I got my boys ! Didn't really want just Revenge! SAD 😔 4 Them !!!
I seen it
Amen!
Thank you! ❤
Wow who would think our lifes are in this situtaion
Yes they jerk you around and get off on it. So sick.
Thank you for your videos. I thought they were supposed to get arrested, but...ok.
TOTALLY!!!!
Proud of you! You got this ❤
Yep yep gaslighting junk in the trunk many times over n over !!!
Stay strong
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I’ve seen it !
Totally..............................
I have seen it many times.
That’s exactly what they do to people
I’ve seen it