Classic Divorce Court: The Coldest Shoulder Ever - Givens vs. Gray
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Loren and Marshall have been together for 4 years. They live together and call each other fiancés, but there is no ring and no date for the marriage. Though they both love each other, they have reservations about each other as well.
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Who is still watching Judge Lynn after she retired? 😭😭 We want her back!!!
Me!!! #BringBackJudgeLynn
Meeeeee
We need to petition-
Yep!
I did not know she retired after she got a different looking courtroom .
He’s a veteran and has to give plasma to support his family. That’s all I’m gonna say about that right there.
Exactly
i caught that too
@@cassoudennard ...me too, it shouldn't be!!
This applies to almost every public servant out here.
Insanity!!
Sometimes, "I'm sorry", "how are you feeling today", goes a long way.
yes it does
Agreed. Esp. abt the apology.
That is so true a smile will work also. I truly agree with you 🌹
yeah too bad guys cant seem to get that
@@marygould7934 Uhh Idk about that now. I think saying some would be a good counterpart.
Judge Toler hasn't aged a day in the 14 years she's done the show. I'll have what she's having.
Melanin and inner peace
@@SynterraSteen ong i love that coment lmao
Kyle Castloo what’re you going on about lol
@Kyle Castloo why the negativity and the racism?
Black don’t crack
He served and he is broke. That's right America!
Could be his fault Give him your money I need mine
Metoo
America's disgusting. The soldiers need to stop fighting for it.
@@lenaely6146 other countries are much much much worse. I'm grateful for the freedom America provides
@Dexy Nash you do have a point there
The dude needed therapy and someone to help him deal with his PTSD. He needs his feelings to be heard and validated. Dude needs a safe space to express that junk. If he doesnt get that help, he'll be toxic to others he loves - not because he's bad but because he's not well.
Exactly. He (and she) also needs a job to give them some income and take some of the stress off of them.
He isn't the only problem
@@sciencerules4739 the women has a anger problem as well. He isn't the only problem...its like tic for tak with them
@@sciencerules4739 for one she broke his car window and punched him just bc she was upset with him and 2ndly she been starting crap with like locking the door as he was sitting in the car and then laughing about it...haven't u noticed she been laughing this whole time like its a joke?? I don't think u even watch this episode bc if u have u would see that she is to blame just as much as he is
@@sciencerules4739 he never laid a hand on her but she been abusive to him...why do people always over look that Domestic violence that women do to men and think its ok...I find it funny u over looked that but quick to point out his down falls...the man is a veteran and saved her life by donating his blood to save hers and most she can do is laugh and act like a angry women and think it's ok to put hands on him just bc his a man? Smh
I like these two. A real relationship. I like when she imitates him too. 😂😂😂
Yes! It's fucking hillarious!!!
Yeah they're actually kinda cute😊
Got him down to a tee😂😂😂😂
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I like this episode. They weren’t arguing over each other or yelling. They let each other speak. It was so sweet.
Felt they belonged together😊they both have a few issues, but I think it'll be a wonderful marriage❤.
@Embry Milo I just recently started watching this stuff do you know what platforms it is on? Or am I just late to the party and its not anywhere anymore? 😅
@@Siren_Sorcery_ I’ve only ever watched it here. I’m sorry! There’s plenty of episodes on TH-cam though bc I don’t think I’ve watched them all yet and I’ve been watching them for a long time 😂
@@embrymilo5316 Thank you anyways, much appreciated for the reply ^^
That's basic respect
Who loves Orange soda?? Kel loves Orange soda! I do I do I do I do ooooh
Yesssss! I'm not the only one!
I have been waiting for someone to comment that,thank you.
lol why did that pop in my mind
😂😂😂
Right?!? 🤣🤣
They both need full time decent jobs before even thinking of getting married!!!
IKR. they didn't mention that financial situation again but why didn't they have a dime and NO FOOD..
@@ChocolateSunshine1 far too many people, in this country- in my opine- desire the proceeds from various forms of "entertainment" over good ole' fashioned decent earnings...although that can be argued in a total other comment section! ~Be Well
No romance without finance
Erin Johnson no money no hunnies
@@SynterraSteen 😂😂 Right on!
This couple has something real going on. My late husband and I would get testy with each other on a regular basis and referred to ourselves as 'The Bickersons'. But, we shared the same values and goals and would rather be with each other than anyone else. We were inseparable and had each other's backs for 32 years. When he was diagnosed with terminal cancer the thought of being separated from each other was excruciating, but we managed to both laugh and cry together till the end. When I hear a married person say "we've never had a cross word", I just think . . . how boring. He's been gone almost 5 years now, but I feel his presence around me often and I know he keeps tabs on what's going on with me, till we meet again. I wish this quirky couple a long and entertaining marriage filled with laughter and a goodly stockpile of orange soda. 🥤
This is beautiful. I love love 💜
This is the most beautiful thing I’ve ever read..❤️❤️❤️
@@tsionabune6786 Thank you for your kind words. After my husband passed, his sister told me that when her children were young, they used to refer to us as "The Love Birds". This rather surprised me since we weren't 'cuddle and crawl all over each other in public' type of people. Still, children tend to be very sensitive to vibration and connection and humour. Wishing you and yours a lovely life.
@@imperfectstranger8807 Wishing you lots of it❣️
This is amazing. Thank you for sharing your inspirational story
The man is selling plasma and turning tricks on the corner so she and her daughter can eat. Leave the man's orange soda alone. 😄
black yoda 😂😂😂
Not turning tricks!!!😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂💀
That’s so sad that he selling his plasma to feed his family when he live in us which’s number one economy in the world
You need to quit!! Not trickin??🤣🤣🤣
He wasn’t mad because he was lightheaded from giving up blood, he was angry cuz he was BROKE
Lol absolutely
Bingo 😂...
lmaoooooooooooooo
You can tell they love eachother. Everything else in there seems fixable to me. A beautiful couple. They made me smile. 😊
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Me too 😁
They are both funny
He almost died for them lmao 🤣🤣🤣🤣 im weak
😭😂😂 I CANT
😂😂😂😂
He is hilarious 😂😭😭
This is why men cannot be pregnant. Imagine what how petty they will be when experiencing that pain.
So was he 😂😂😂
wow it's actually nice to hear a couple say nice, loving things about each other lol
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“Her daughter lacks discipline” says the man that stormed off because someone took a glass of his soda
Lol
He gaslights, she reacts!
Judge Lynn raised a bar very high that no other judge will ever equal or pass. Great work ❤
She is 45 and seems to not have a stable job and he is a 38 year old veteran that has some troubling issues. Good luck😳
The emoji was perfect.
yeah she's looking
This is doomed neither should be with the other and they’re both broke
Youre right, he donates plasma so they can go out to eat!!!! Instead of getting some food to cook...smdh
I don't think the relationship is bad nor should you base a relationship solely on money. I'm pretty sure they have been together for a while and who knows if they had money before. Obviously in order to go broke you had to have money to begin with. I see distractions and conflict. If the judge gave them 50k right then and said i'm paying all your expenses now you can be happy together. Really? No my dear their issues have nothing to do with money. They have matters of the Heart but also a term in the vow (For Better or for worse) So, you see regardless if your married or not problems will come, Health issues will come, it is already in the Marital vow and Gods covenant. Even if you decide to write your own vow you can't Break Gods marital vows. Money is just the icing on the cake.
Finances isn't the root of the problem. People with money have more problems then them. They just fake it. Unconditional love outweighs financial hardship. Thank you
I love the way judge Lynn Toler can clearly see through all the mess and summarize what exactly is right or wrong in each case.
Judge Toler needs more education on PTSD caused by war environments.
He is doing great to just keep from going off......that daughter may send him there, one day......they are not good for each other.
@@VeronicaJohnson-yn1cr the daughter is a child and children make mistakes that’s apart of growing up. That why you’re supposed to get He need to get himself some help before he “gets there”
Why marry if you cant get along BEFORE the wedding to begin with?
Well these issue's weren't any of the Biggies,u no= cheating, hitting, stealing etc theirs are work outable,and their open they'll make it.
@@ritanewell6828 i hope they wont regret it cause i think you should 100% free of issues when you come to bind yourself
TICKING TIME BOMB WITH OUT THAT NECESSARY COUNSELING. 4 BOTH she NEEDS to learn how to TALK to him....Good luck yaLL 👍😷🎉🎉🙏🙏
I see your point, but people do argue and have disagreements in relationships whether they are married yet or not. At least this couple was mature and self-aware enough to come on this show to get a professional perspective as to whether or not they SHOULD get married, and if so, what to do to prepare for marriage. In my eyes, that speaks very highly of them!
@@AlishaArlene didnt say anything bad about them
He needs anger management/therapy and some VA assistance, and I think once he calms down with the drama and irritation, she'll calm down. Her anger seems more reactive than anything. Think they'll be ok 👌🏾 hope they're doing well so far.
Yes! Once they get therapy and employment! 🙄
You're right!!!! Therapy and anger management is needed. They both need employment to help alleviate some stress and financial burden
Her behavior it's not dependent on him dependent on her and her alone...,
I was thinking similar thoughts I believe her build up over time of letting things go
@@jaynehogue2459 now you know some women don’t like to take responsibility for their “own” actions…🤦🏾♀️
They need counseling n jobs. Hope they take judges advise
advice. counseling in jobs??? What does that mean?
@@Michelle-pn9xt it’s meant to be read counseling and jobs
This is the only couple I've seen hug on their way out of the courtroom. And I've seen every episode!
Others have on old court too
I've seen others do it
May hug at the end and many are very toxic but those look quite adorable
His biggest issue seems to be that he doesn't feel appreciated as a veteran. He wants be reassured constantly as a hero and savior and he not only doesn't get it from the world, but he feels he doesn't get the same appreciation from his home. That was really his complaint and that is a huge one.
Veterans that have hero complexes tend to cheat and/or gamble; needing satisfaction of feeling like a hero or a winner. I would not be surprised if he cheated. Or gambled.
So that's why he is always upset. The fiancee is at a boiling point with it. Judge Toler only saw anger issues and not the full package. I am happy they sought help and I hope he seeks more help in coping with life after serving for the military.
You are on point
welchless I strongly agree, well said 💯💯💯💯💯
You absolutely hit the nail on the head. Those exaggerations used to be called, “war stories” back in the day. Someone that used to be very close to me fit your description to the tee. I too am a veteran and I’ve seen it for years.
GREAT observation! He needs to take himself down from his own pedestal.
people with narcissistic traits or nacissistic personality disorder have some similar issues.
It all comes down to the point of being in touch with reality and how you deserve to be treated...
...how big is your sacrifice for real?
Omg I love her sooo much. She has so much sense. She is so fair and so smart. Please bring her back. We miss you Judge🙏
Once her music and his writing pays off....get back together and marry. Until then, you all can't afford a relationship. A broke man is an angry man.
And she’s just as broke
@@mikebratton2751 Real men dont care how broke his lady is.....only broke dudes care.
Mike Bratton ...but she said that. Calm down
@@tiffanysaffold591 so I assume broke women are happy being broke?
That's the truth! There's no romance without finance! 🙄smh
Lynn Toler is a human being who happens to be a judge, not a judge trying to be a human being. That's why DC was so insanely popular during the thirteen years she sat on the bench...
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ABSOLUTELY‼️ No one will ever be able to connect in the manner of which she does. She is The Very Best Judge that Divorce Court has ever had❤❤❤
@@elizabethdentis8598 I like her so much & I especially liked when she started hosting "Divorce Court" back in 2006 when the show still used the same theme song & logo which was used during Judge Mablean Ephriam's third & final seasons of the show.
Judge Toler is absolutely Beautiful!!!!!!🤩
The Phantom - I agree, thought the same. Graceful and wise, as well.
As a heterosexual woman,I cannot take my eyes off her,her smile and facial expressions.Really a gorgeous woman!!
@@shannondonnelly7985 that she is class 👏 and understanding 👏 I love all of her decisions ❤ truly miss her at 10:00am during this Pandemic 😢 Lord i would love seeing my favorite person.
And smart.Peace
They both can go to counseling before marriage.
I still watch her old shows good advice never get old pure wisdom is priceless.
A man that gives blood to feed his family. A+
exactly and takes care of a child that is not his.... leave his soda alone
A man that gets two job to feed his family is even better. She needs a job as well.
I like them together 😊, they can work it out if BOTH parties try .
He better quit chugging that sugary ass soda
😂😂😂😂😂 bruh
I love the judge! She definitely knows what to say about a relationship. I hope this couple does well. They are cute together.
Ugh my heart melted in half.
I hope these two are happily still together.
Live seperately until he get counseling. He needs counseling.
They sound like they both just get caught up with petty things. If they get the past that they'll be fine. Both should get help for their anger.
If you have no food or job volunteer at a food pantry.
My husband is a disabled veteran I work over sixty hours a week and he was bored you can clean so much and the kiddos are at school so he started to volunteer at the local food pantry. He has a lot more friends too and a social life with wonderful people besides the VA
The bonus? Our food bill for four people is now about $50 a week the rest we get for free
that is great
J Peavy exactly! She’s so proud to be working like a dog while her man doesn’t bring in income.
@@coconutwater4531 He's a disabled veteran?
Dang...
@@Dream-Me according to them hes hould still be able to work 80+ hours a day, lmao
I’m not saying he’s a bad guy, but she needs to move on. He’s too petty and selfish. One thing my mama told me that was dead on: if it’s bad in the beginning, it’s going to get exponentially worse as time goes on. See the red flags girl! Don’t even THINK about it until he’s had individual counseling and both of you have gone through couples therapy.
Dead on 👏🏾👏🏾
I'm not UNDERSTANDING why your comment doesn't have more likes because you are 100% right rt...
I totally agree 👍. Without long term therapy, his angry will continue to carry throughout their relationship. She will lose herself tolerating his behavior.
I agree with your mom to a certain point but I think that's only if you don't do something about it. If you have issues and you both try to work it out, it usually wouldn't get worse because you guys already solved/know how to solve it now if it happens again. If the guy actually had anger issues because of navy or whatever then they could try therapy and see if that'd work
She’s no prize... sounds like he can’t afford a ring and she can’t afford nothing either.
I'm still watching, I love her. She's beautiful, intelligent, and full of wisdom.
He's very dramatic. How's getting locked out traumatic?
I understand now.
@Selena G why the word females? Do we call them males?
Selena G he did NOT give a gallon of blood. Ive given blood before and im a third his size. It is NOT that bad.
Because his PTSD from his experience at war causes him to gave a disproportionate view of small situations. In top of him having blood that made him light headed and weak. All that compounded with him being locked out gave him an anxiety attack
@@toniiblack7014 I have ptsd so i know that is true. I also donated plasma and those containers they use to collect it is huge lol but not a gallon.
i lived with someone like him once----it was exhausting. folded the chip bag a certain way so he'd know if anyone had gotton into his chips.....couldn't dust on "his" side of bed so he'd know if things had been "messed with...." would ask me what i thought about something, then give me 50 reasons WHY----"THAT AIN'T GONNA WORK...." at some point, it all became soooo stupid that i took up the "challenge...." i got into those chips AND folded 'em back so he never knew!!...messed with stuff on his side WITHOUT disturbing dust and.....quit answering----"what do you think about......" questions. needless to say, he lives with his quirks by himself now as far as i know, and if he doesn't.....more power to her....she has somethin' i don't......
I know people like that and they didn't serve in the military..
They are just quirky...they may have some other trauma issues...ijs
How about you!? How are you doing after you left him and his quirks...
@@darksidehavok blessed....thank-you for asking. peace and blessings.....
@@debisybesma5855
Good. I pray he is as well
I like this two, I hope they work it out!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣❤
Kenan: "Who loves orange soda?"
Kel: "K-K-Kel loves orange soda."
Kenan: "Is it true? Is it TRUUUUE?"
Kel: "MMMHHMMM! I do, I do, I do-oooh!
I think both of them have some anger issue's to sort out....but they really do look like they belong together and really love each other....
Her kicking the windshield was to avoid kicking him
They are cute. We all have issues that others have to deal with.
Ain't that the Truth.Peace
No cheating ,etc.one of the best couple ever to come to the show.Good luck.have a best life ahead.you are a true couple.
PLEASE PLEASE dont drink my mountain dew lmao frfr but on the real PTSD is no joke. work with getting him the help he needs. Let him get into his work/writing
Don't touch my Coke 😈👿
So true! If he don't get help soon, he will think that she is..the enemy!🙄
My grandma and papa would almost always argue with each other but never leave one another's side. it may seem like a problem, but it shows that they can speak their mind without a problem, agree to disagree, and love each other regardless.
At 16:13 everyone was laughing then there’s this man behind him that’s like 😐😐😐😲 ‘ha ha ha’ I’m dead
LMAOOOOOO I CAN'T BREATH like what was that about 😂😂😂😂
Oh, my! I donated plasma twice/week for over a year when I was 63 years old, possible 1.5-2 times his age. He did not give BLOOD, but plasma.Every drop of his red blood cells was returned to him during the process. If he got light headed in the process he didn't eat and drink enough before hand. He was NOT NEAR DEATH as he dramatized. He needs to grow up if he wants a fulfilling relationship.
He donated to get money to feed them, so maybe he didn’t have the nourishment he needed. Then they didn’t show a level of appreciation he found appropriate.
@@MalikEmmanuel He should probably get a stable job then so he doesn't have to do those things. He can have a full-time job and still do his writing.
@@juliusdv6657 he is getting a check 2 times a month probably for the rest of his life. She needs to grab a job and help out.
@@dh22mr.heavyhanded15 or they both do. Just because you have a job doesn't mean it's good one. But their problem, not mine. Because Mr.Accountant over here is paid -shrugs-
@@juliusdv6657 Contracting to build the new “Air Force Ones” pays a pretty penny. So ima 🤷🏾 with you too! 🤣
*(**3:24**)* Marshall: "But I almo- I gave my life, I almost died for these people, ya know?" LOL! were you in combat outside the house?
なじ Nah, the plasma center is the front line, don’t you know!
I love him because he is a fast learner isnt so romantic
It is though. People get turned on and see different things as romantic.
JUDGE TOLER IS NEEDS TO BE SEEN IN EVERY HOUSE HOLD. SHE IS NOT JUST A JUDGE IN Tv BUT SHE IS HELPING AND FIXING PEOPLE’S THINKING. PLEASE BRING HER BACK!!!!!!
Shes My Favorite judge to watch , love the way she handles things
loved this! He walked out like she was his trophy
Maybe he does have PTSD however I would have been upset too if I had to give blood just to buy some food and my family forgot me outside. But then...I probably have anger issues to soooo 🤷🏾♀️
loving the natural me but it doesn’t sound like she meant to do it to be malicious. It sounds like she did it out of habit, and it in all homage isn’t that big of a deal. My mother has down the same thing to me a couple of times
@@PrincessZaire100 I'm quite sure she didn't do it purposely...it's not the incident itself but the circumstances surrounding the incident that inspired the irrational response.
@@miztinkerbellno2 PLEASEEEEE.... IF HIS ASS DONT GROWN TF UP.. And be a damn STRONG man, I stead of a weak Beta man.. He is annoying asf...
@@INDIGO.GODDESS_573 don't you yourself need to grow up?
I dieing laughing at my place of work right now. This comment is golden
They can work this out. However ppl that blow up over little things make me nervous
They're Gonna have One Fun Ass Wedding!! And to All Veterans who may be viewing this....Thank you For your Service!!!! ❤❤❤👨🏽✈️👩🏾✈️
She is very animated
Love her character lol. She tells it how it is in detail, and makes it interesting haha
Drama queen
She needs to run now. This type of anger isnt going to change
She the one kicking windshields out... why is he the problem!?
@@darksidehavok 🤣🤣🤣
@@darksidehavok he's always the first one to get angry over minor things tho...
@@NaomiIsSoAwesome98
Yes he gets angry and does what... complains and curses.
She gets angry and starts breaking things...
Which is worse?
No. They are a good couple. They need counseling.
The judge and that lady can pass as cousin. They look similar and the way they speak and sound.
OH HOW I LOVE JUDGE BEAUTIFUL WISE AND MY ROLE MODEL GORGEOUS COUPLE LITTLE ISSUES HERE FIRST 😂😂😂😂😂
I love their profession of love, best of heard on this entire show. Just need some more compromise, empathy and support for this veteran
At the end of the say it was his soda and if she knew he didn't like it , why touch it?😂
Here to pay my respects to one of the greatest judges on Tv.
She is amazing, Blessed with wisdom. Hope a lucky network will hire her.
Here. I love Judge Lynn Toler!👩🏾⚖️
I love judge Lynn, she's sensible and fair.
So do I. Judge Lynn Toler was like the wise Auntie people would need to listen to.
He exaggerates and dramatic...so far. I'm not ignoring his possible PTSD. She may be very nonchalant..
I can see how you see that, but I think he was being humorous and behaving in a not so serious manner as a self defence mechanism and to cope with feelings of anxiety and hypervigilance. It’s an interesting one.
@@user-en1bw7ze7r Thanks for the different perspective 😁
Exactly
The way he described his love for her is all about her doing things for him
This was the funniest divorce court episode
Please bring her back I have been watching her for years and never missed her show she is the best ever😅
I love how this judge brings everyone back to reality and even asks the couples what they love about the other, to remind them what's important. Bring em back to the beginning. Folks get too focused on what they dislike, rather than why they fell in love to begin with. BTW, love is not a feeling but rather a VERB which most don't grasp.
Hi five me girl, especially for that last part of yr statement.
These two are so sweet, I love them together
Aww I hope they are happily married today 💕
Title: tHe cOldEsT sHouLdEr eVer!
Also the video:
He left and came back in 5 minutes with another bottle of soda
Judge is SO HILARIOUS!! I love her!!!!
Aww I love them together. I hope they work out but I got the feeling they will.
Blessings ❤️
I love Judge Lynn she is so awesome in trying to help the people that she is dealing with I wish she would come back 🥰😍💖🌹🌹
My husband is so literal I also have to explain things in 20 different ways for him to really get it! 😂 He's so intelligent and so smart that he's so literal and everything is black and white and I have to explain the grey areas 😂😂😂
I’m glad for them and pray their marriage works for the both of them.❤
PTSD is really hard to handle if you don't have enough patience and understanding.*sigh...
Awesome video, awesome judge. I loved it that you told them to say all the good things they love about the other.
Aint nothing wrong with no wanting your stuff touched. Its called boundaries. If its something that's mine and not for sharing, then don't touch it
Judge Toler:
Excellent. I miss you. I used to watch your show when I lived in Florida. I moved back to CT where I'm from. It's Oct. 2022 but I wanted to go back a couple years of your shows to see some of what I missed out on. Thank you
JUDGE TOLER.
N D from CT.
The brother is a little ridiculous and he need some kind of help
A big O grown baby 🙄
Yes, I still watch her old cases. I wish she would come back, seriously!!!
I still watch her, I learn so much from her,the best one yet.
Those two can get married no issue that can be fix
Damn. I use Maya and that software ain’t no joke. Takes most people 1.5 years to get that down. If he learned that in a month like she said then he’s aptitude level and IQ has to be high.
Yes! I think so too! Has to be well over 175!!
I was married to a soldier who used to have violent out bursts over something stupid...I divorced him in the end...watching from the uk 🇬🇧
This by far is my FAVORITE one ever. Love these people.
This was fantastic. She's amazing!
Yesssss, another loving couple 😊
You might need to see a counselor. People donate blood all the time.
They sure do! I used to work at a donor center.
It ain't even blood. Its plasma. They put your blood back in, you're just a lil dehydrated after.
Smh
I donated plasma twice a week my whole freshman year of college.
Risked his life...puh-lease! Risked needing some extra water.
This dude is being dramatic as hell.
🤣🤣🤣
I love the couple and Judge Lynn Toler for guiding them (and all the couples that stand before he) with sound wisdom and common sense solutions for resolution, I would like to see more seasons of Judge Toler.