Workplace Bullies Want to Be the Cool Kids. |
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1. You’re not crazy. Workplace bullying is real, and your feelings are valid.
2. You’re not alone. Unfortunately, others have experienced the same thing.
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This is so accurate. They are insecure and target anyone who threatens them. It’s the same reason they always accuse of us “thinking we’re better”
Soooo true! I just got back to the working world after raising kids and I'm often shocked at how people operate.... It's like the only ego boost these people have is a negligible amount of retail power and they're gonna abuse it to its fullest worth 😅
And if for some reason I ever get obscenely wealthy, gotta send you some money.
I just have to take care of my real friends and good coworkers first…in this hypothetical scenario 😂
Thank you Claire ❤
I seem to be the exception to the rule here. I was bullied at school by both teachers and pupils alike. I was the one made to stand in corners. I was bullied at home as well. I was the scapegoat
When i made adulthood
I didn't become a bully. I continued to be bullied in a lot of places I worked in. From the age of 45 onwards, i was diagnosed with severe anxiety and depression. This got worse over the years. From 2018 onwards, at 58 years old. I could no longer work. Now I trust very few people. This is what a lifetime of bullying does.
There is no "rule." I've stressed the importance of not generalizing in multiple videos. I didn't say that EVERYONE who is bullied in childhood becomes a bully in adulthood. I was bullied, too. We all were. I'm saying that workplace bullies were bullied - because everyone was. Some people choose to become bullies. "If you can't beat 'em, join 'em." Some of us choose to become victims. What's the difference? I don't know.
There’s anther level to this beyond bully or bullied victim or abused , basically once you heal and find peace your grow like a tree roots to hell and branch’s to heaven and in the moments of no thought there is no bully or
Bullied it’s basically
When we’re trapped in fight flight survival mode and fear thoughts lust wrath that these take hold , but in the formless love there is no bully or bullied and take that negative use to propel yourself the bully’s are stuck at grade 2 level they feel good but they sooul polluted us we might be brought down but we can expand so long as yo don’t lose love and drop the victim mentality and that whole thought loop you’ll just become a wise warrioir in a garden with a peace that they wish they had like we could go to the beach and relax bully’s can only go there superficially like there stuck in maya not to downplay bullying but bullying not as bad as our own thought loops weve become wise as serpents but gentle as doves
So like they on the outside bully’s loook nice but the inside is hell and they immature and boxed in and sheep us we on the outside look rough but inside is diamonds built from
Pressure that transcend this plane we grow into butterfly’s sooner or later they stay turds that the difference
They turn into demons feeble d minded us we get there energy temporary yes but we wrestle with demons and eventually cast them out from our soul and mind and turn into God like beings so there always gonna be cheap counterfeits to us we use that fertilizer to turn into grand trees them basically stay as something less noble than an animal or the walking dead
We got universal love they get cheap pleasure and ashes
Well put!! 💯💯💯
Claire, I think I finally found my place in the world.
It took a lot of work and time to get here and watching your videos was part of my survival and navigation.
I hope you always have peace and a safe home in your life.
❤
Such beautiful words.
Thank you so much. Happy to help. Good for you for putting in the work. Some people (bullies) never do. You will be rewarded.
Makes sense, because a lot of them are so insecure over the most naive ridiculous things about themselves.
Some will apologize a lot and consistently admit they lost their cool, but the pattern is so pervasive the apology no longer means anything. I've found it helpful simply forgiving them from my mind, my time, my energy - forgive them from my life - and that they happened to merely be toxic individuals at one point within it, making realistic adjustments to adapt or change the situation to not include them as much, if not at all, in the remainder of our legacy, moving forward. Humble about it as mere experience but simply that and not a key individual in the close social circle.
I really like the true power of the inner-forgiveness, to forgive the thinking about them, merely integrating and moving on. Also sometimes an immediate forgiveness in the strike of a conflicting moment, walking away, internally written off. I'm glad this has been an effective strategy for many, I think it just requires an open mind.
Very well put, and I'm sorry I missed your comment earlier. Yes, self-compassion is vital in the aftermath of abuse. We all wish we could have responded differently, but none of us did because no one can be prepared for this stuff because it's so shocking. That regret generates much of the ruminating that is so damaging to our mental health. I've never had any bullies apologize to me ... EVER. When people apologize, at least they have enough empathy, self-awareness, and humility to acknowledge their mistakes, but you're right: apologies don't fix everything. At some point the behavior has to change.
@@clairehuntonline Awesome, thanks for the feedback! No worries about the delay - it’s great to revisit and reflect on these past ideas from earlier this year. I can confidently say they still hold true.
Book Called to Forgive by Reverend Anthony B. Thompson.
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