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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 9 มิ.ย. 2020
- Are you currently crushing on someone you shouldn't be? Having a crush on someone can be one of the most fun, exciting experiences we can have in life, especially when we’re still young and life is full of possibilities. If you’re looking for signs to tell you when it’s time to move on from your crush, then you already know in your gut that something is wrong. To save yourself from that kind of pain, here are 8 warning signs that it’s time to let go of your crush. We did a video on signs you're more attractive than you think previously: • 8 Subtle Signs You're ... Perhaps, you can find someone more deserving of you.
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Writer: Chloe Avenasa
Script Editor: Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
Animator: Murielle Lindsley Dela Rosa
TH-cam Manager: Cindy Cheong
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1. They rarely acknowledge you.
2. They never initiate conversation.
3. They cancel on you, a lot.
4. They’re taking advantage of you.
5. You’re becoming obsessed with them.
6. Your friends want you to move on.
7. They’re interested in someone else.
8. They’re dating someone else.
;)
*o w*
Thank you...
2 and 8..
Such hero.
What if I got half of that lol
The way TH-cam recommended this to me feels like a personal attack
Same lmao
same here
Same 😔😔
Same lmao
Same T-T
How could u...... ;-;
'Don't be afraid to lose what wasn't meant to be'
My dad died- 13 days after my 11th birthday…
@@FNAFcutieTheHomeStudio Rest in peace, I wish u the best
@@FNAFcutieTheHomeStudio😂
I needed this bc I’m gonna have to either give up or confess to my crush at some point so
@@user-fm9yu5do6jdude what's wrong with you? You can't just laugh at someone dying like that
Congratulations to anyone in the world that actually got to date their crush.
Ong..
Thankyou :)
@@enmu451. Congratulations 🎊 to anyone in the world that actually got a to date
their crush. JoMurry.
Thx
Mine said he loves me but he’s married- Ik he didn’t mean love me love me- I think
every time I have a crush, I get so obsessed and feel like a stalker 😞
Every time i have a crush i know ima get heartbroken
I'm not the only one 😔
Me too
😂😂😂😂😂
Me too
“You’re obsessed with them”
Marinette: I’m gonna pretend I didn’t hear that.
Omg yes lol
Lol
@Anonymus Human it's from miraculous Ladybug
Yes lol 😂
Oop
Unrequited love/infatuation sucks like nothing else. I wouldn’t wish this pain on anyone.
I have a work crush who I thought had the same feelings, but my thoughts were speaking louder than reality.
Go where you're celebrated, not tolerated
Boom
Yet to find that place.
This should be called: 8 reasons that Psych2go knows my every thought. Wow I've never gotten this many likes before, Thank you all.
They make it pretty general so most of us atleast relate
😂😂or maybe they are controller our thoughts!! 😱
They can read our minds for sure😱
I know right!
😔👊
I don’t like having a crush it gives me anxiety
saaame i get really bad chest pains from it
Oof same, my heart drops every time I see them and when I’m with them 😳😶
This says it was 2 days ago but it just came out!
@@humancentipede. I know right? I noticed it too
Also don’t read my name
Same tho
A few times in my life I've gotten feelings for people to the point ive become obsessed, I don't want to fall back into that hole again. Keeping a busy routine for myself helps and having a better approach to asking them out is helping me a lot.
"Is your crush starting to cause me pain than happiness?"
This is a tough one for me, as its not really their fault. It makes me sad thinking abt them bc I feel like they'll never like me the way I do them, but at the same time I like thinking about me and her. There are so many contradicting facts that I don't know what to do.
Well for me it causes me happiness.
It has been causing me pain as well. We were very close friends during the first few months of school, but something has been tearing us apart. It makes me sad because they're just so disinterested in me yet I see so much of myself in them. I'm still clinging on to the idea of us being being best friends, but it looks like they prefer other people over me.
Me: *confesses to crush*
Crush: *rejects me*
Psych2Go: why don't i just add more salt to the wound
Psych2go: oh, here's some hand sanitizer while your at it as well!!!!
Same.. x
@@Mattieraus x: same
You feel me
@@zelixleo5 yes
“Why are you staring?”
Literally the scariest thing my crush could tell me.
[Edit] Woahhh how did this get 2k likes?-
@Stella Moritz 😂
Mine too
"im not the one staring..."
@@ventingmachine101 🤣
@Stella Moritz yessssss
the moment when your crush asked your best friend if hes single🗿
Then my best friend should say goodbye
Happen
Im afraid this would happen to me because im always in her shadow🏃🏻♀️🏃🏻♀️
My bestfriend and my crush are dating after i told him that i have a crush on him 🙂
@@rissatriz7678 SAME- 😭
This is exactly what I've experienced. Even worse, I suffered from depression after being rejected because I didn't know how to control my emotions or my thoughts.
here a little something to save your time:
1. they rarely acknowledge you.
2. they never initiate conversation.
3. they cancel on you... a lot.
4. they're taking advantage of you.
5. you're becoming obsessed with them.
6. your friends want you to move on.
7. they're interested in someone else.
8. they're dating someone else.
Thankyou
guess i need to let go of sans now he doesn't love me and i dont level of violence him
my crush doesnt even exist
You the Real MVP
Thank u
" life is too short for you to be chasing someone who doesn't feel the same way"
Me on the 4th year:🕴🏻
Lol I'm in my 6th😬at this point I might just be killing myself from the inside
omg relatable sometimes you just cant let go ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
th-cam.com/video/Di4f3CtSH0c/w-d-xo.html
@@hayleyv.w8817 I'm also in the 6th year
I'm on the 5th lol
9th Warning Sign:
You actively searched to watch this video to find out whether you should let go of your crush.
She did cancel on me 3 times and then I stopped asking. Then suddenly, she asked me out to a concert. I think that the only way we truly know what someone is thinking is to ask them directly. This is hard and takes a lot of courage, but basically you have to risk it. You have to ask them not just to "hang out" but to ask them out on a date. Regardless of what the answer will be, you will walk with confidence knowing you gave it your shot.
My crush: Shows all of these signals
Me whos liked him for the past 8 years: N O
I feel the exact same way and I'd let it go but because it's been so long it's so hard
@@chloebiggs7175 Yes thats exactly what im thinking
@@mananda. omg it's so good to find someone who feels the same as me tbh
@@mananda. like I'm not even close to him, we have the cliche "nerd and popular guy" kind of situation going on but I just can't find a way to get over him
@@chloebiggs7175 Ikr i cant get over him ive liked him since 2nd grade and have only talked to him like 10 times
"they are interested in someone else and/or is toxic"
Me: *starts crying* 😭
I know the pain
ಥ‿ಥ
yup it hurts dude
Now I am dealing with it
Ye that's what happening with me now 😭
For the longest time, I thought I was completely straight. Throughout my early school life, I’ve had certain admirations for the same sex but it didn’t amount to anything as important as to whom I’m crushing on right now: one of my expressively gay friends.
It really started out as a simple admiration from him, especially in his confidence in speaking and utilizing his physical abilities. When we started talking more, well to put frankly, I was falling for him even more. What hurts the most though is that I know we’re not compatible; we have different life goals and he is in love with another guy. It really pains me at moments when I just want to confess my feelings for him, but then again not only will I jeopardize our friendship, but also my reputation.
So yeah, I just wanted to share my same sex crush story :)
If you are crushing over someone who's taken, (speaking from experience) you should always try to be their friend, because even if your crush doesn't fade, you still will have them for support to help you through tough times.
Sign #9: They are a fictional character and causing you not to be attracted to real people.
Literally me
Honestly
you read my mind.
Me: *sweats*
yes
"You start obsessing over them"
*examples show up*
Me: SHI--
**chuckles** youre in *danger*
I put the word pain Bcuz I dunno what the other word was..
Not "trouble"
Idk
U know what I mean tho right-?
Edit: THE WORD WAS DANGER HOW WAS I SO DUMB BEFORE
I CANT LET GO OF FINN WOLFHARD GODDAM
* Ha I'm in Danger *
Me searching for SPACIFICLY Damon and Klous*
OH SHI--
(Vampire Diaries)
200th like boi 😎
Man I watched this a long time back when I had loved someone for a long time but didn't understand and now I find it so relatable and every point mentioned here has happened to me.
yes me tho
Now I understand why I should get over my crush that rejected me almost a month ago, thank you.
“They rarely acknowledge you”
“You’re obsessed with them”
Kpop stans: *We’re gonna pretend we didn’t hear that*
So true T.T
im gonna assume that you’re an army based on your name and profile pic, so lemme tell you that bts and army are equally delulu for each other😂
myulktae *” I- “* **Cries in corner**
@@sereneblossom2951 true dat
@@violet_8931 lets cry together T-T
“They constantly cancel”
Either they don’t like you, or they’re just introverts.
THATS MEEE
being an introvert isn't an excuse to make plans and then ditch them
@@ember5031 actually it kinda can be
Most introverts dont like either being put on the spot when talking or like being too close due to trust issues or something else
@@wienerdawg5832 Preach, someone had to say it.
I've developed a lot of crushes over the past year, and they've all been on close friends. And I've told them all how I feel, (except for one girl) and thankfully we're still friends. But it can still hurt, being overly fascinated about one person (or multiple) is exhausting
Yeah same and my most recent crush has a boyfriend and sense I am only 12 I was depressed for a few months
Man, this animation is awesome! Very well illustrated. SO relatable
I tried to let go of my crush
It didn't work
They like me back
I think it's more than a crush...
Sh!t
😂
Lucky mine likes boys and I'm a girl :(
Literally me!
YEY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11
@@LittleIcarus Been there, done that, haha.
Psych2go: 8 Signs to let go of your crush.
Me:
*Sweat intensifies*
So what was the conclusion? :)
@@Psych2go No need to worry! :D
I mean... I am indeed a little obsessed, but I (hope) believe it's normal.
Psych2Go I know that I need to get rid of this crush I have on my friend for 4 years. She even friend zoned me a couple months back and it’s still so hard to let go of this stupid crush. Got any tips for me?
Tayler Muilenburg thanks. I’ve already acknowledged that she doesn’t like me like, the hard part for me is trying not to be hard on myself. She also friend zoned over text, and we never talked about in person, so that might also contribute to why I still like her. As for hobbies I really like playing video games and they can distract from my crush, but the only problem is that my feelings tend to come into my mind when I’m not doing anything, like when I’m about to go to sleep, and once they’re there, it’s hard to get them out. As for friends, there really aren’t that many, if any, who actually be willing to strike a conversation with me, but also I guess it wouldn’t hurt to try. Overall, things have gotten a little better, but not to the degree that I would’ve liked, but thank you for the advice, it was pretty nice to get some else’s opinion on what I should do, rather than someone just telling me to get over it.
@@anyonereally it is when u are having a crush, just don’t get too obsessed 😭
this helps me a lot, thank you. i know it hurts for me, but thank for cheering me up, this videos always cheering me up
Thanks to those who makes these videos. It helped me big time. Appreciate you
"You're obssessed with them"
"They're interested with someone else"
fu-
It really hurts
2019 was the number 7 still hurts and I don't talk with that person since may? i think
Yep😶😐😑😬
Your not wrong
Your not wrong
I had a crush and my friend told him. Long story short he doesn’t talk to me anymore
Some friends can be stupid, but that’s part of the friendship package 🥲
Same, it’s really awkward when you see them in public after that
That sucks
@@Angel-nu4zn Ooh I hope you're alright
situations like that
i hate those
AND THAT'S WHY YOU SHOULDN'T HAVE FRIENDS, QUEUE END CREDITS
Boxes 1-7 check ✅
It hurts, a lot, but I must accept the truth and move on.
You've supported me alot, in the past 15 minutes. Thanks :)
I like how the personified "crush" is portrayed as being androgynous.
Well yeah but it's obviously a guy for the advice though.
theMRsome12 it doesn’t seem like it though
The animator, Murielle thought it through :)
@@trinf5511 how so? If you apply that advice to dating the average woman you will well, miss most chances basically.
@@Psych2go yes, props to the animator uwu
“Your friends want you to move on”
Jokes on you, I don’t have friends!
Damn man sad but I guess happy story
@@Cyborg0920 well, I don’t have friends but seriously, I have a best friend *and she’s a girl*
Edit: pls don’t call me simp... She’s my crush then but now we’re BFF’s
Ha same
Oop- 💀💀
(Y) same
Thank you so much, because of you I asked my crush if she is still interested in me but sad to say no,but now I know so we could be friends again. Thank youuu so much fr❤
I LOVE THIS ART STYLE ART GIVES ME SO MUCH ENERGY im sorry the art syle is just so cute
✓ They rarely acknowledge you.1
✓ They never initiate conversation.2
✓ They cancel on you.3
✓ They're taking advantage of you.4
✓ You are becoming obsessed with them.5
✓ Your friend want you to move on.6
✓ They are interested in someone else.7
✓ They are dating someone else.8
Edit: Thanks for 💯.
And he has a gf rn
I have four of it lmao-
I realized that I have 7 of them
F*ck
My crush is dating my best friend
If some of you has been friend zoned remember this you we’re lucky because you were able to talk to them....
*"Do you like somebody?"*
Me: has a crush on an anime character*
My crush dating someone else
Yes indeed
This hits hard than reality
Same
Off but true
1. They rarely acknowledge you
2. They never initiate conversations
3. They cancel on you a lot
4. They're taking advantage of you
5. Your becoming obsessed with them
6. Your friends want you to move on
7. They're interested in someone else
8. They're dating someone else
Everything about my crush is in this video except he is not dating anyone. But thank you, now I know I have to move on too. Really helpful video. A new subscriber here
“The worst they can say is no!”
My crush is really close to me, so he texted me that he got a girlfriend over text. I congratulated him, but felt dead inside.
Edit: guys now I have a new crush 😳
It be like that sometimes
True. I confessed over a year ago and the only response I got was “I don’t know” when I reached out to them a few weeks later.
It hurts like a bitch, and it’s so hard to tell whether or not you should move on when you don’t have any answer.
@Stephanie Sim I was in the same situation. I started getting feelings for a close friends literaly out of nowhere but I never admit it. I told some of my classmates and friends and long story short he found out but he was stilled chill with me and he would talk to me normally. The thing is that I started to get so nervous around him and I stop talking to him and felt awkward when we talk so i avoided him even though I still wanted to be with him. but anyways I can't really say to be brave and tell him when I did the opposite. My tip though If he rejects you or not, be confident. Also I know is late but I can't sleep so I though why not share my story that nobody cares about. :)
Bruh I asked a girl I liked at school and she said yes but at the end of the date she said she liked someone else and said they just wanna be friends 😢
@@idonthavethink4558 now now are we the same person? coz this same thing happened to me 🧍♀️
😐 I feel like the universe is trying to tell me something
Some time ago, I was obsessing about this boy that didn't like me back. I eventually got over it; now I'm dating someone else who is honestly better for me and it's been going since early last year.
Life has a way of surprising you. I thought my situation was completely hopeless.
Jordan Richardson 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@@Scream_Tail_0985 that's nice
Same here. 😓
fr
According to this video, it seems that my crush is actually someone I can try and know better to start something that might last❤️ obviously it's not just that easy, maybe I'm just a good friend to her, but I'm doing my best effort to overcome difficulties and doubts and try building something more, I hope she will feel the same and we can be together in the next future
Thank you so much! That really helped me!
What I really hate is when you stopped having a crush on them but then they start having a crush on you when you already moved on...Uufff I Hate that feeling😒😒
Marisa and Sam this seems like a brag of some sort
Oohh felt this kinda
IT’S HORRIBLE
Opposite for me. They liked me, never told me, I like them, they didn’t like me. Or I only see them as a friend. I’ve had that at least twice that I can think off the top of my head
Oml this happend to my friends
"They never initiate conversation"
Wait... they're supposed to do that???
Facts... someone has to start it, it doesn’t always have to be them. I’ve never started a conversation with my crush cause I got extreme social anxiety but that doesn’t mean I’m not dying to talk to them
Um YES
HOW WOULD YOU EVEN KNOW YOU LIKE THEM
True. My crush almost always was the one to initiate conversation, as I was way too anxious and scared to be the initiator. Doesn't mean I don't want to tho, I'm just awkward and my heart can't take the excitement
Although I did usually text him first cuz uh heheh, that's way easier lol
I usually start conversations, but she replies lightning fast and long texts so idk
@@melanymoon8900 Sounds like he's trying to control you, I'd tell him it's a two-way street and if he wants to hear from you, he needs to text or call as well. It can't always be you who does it first.
wow these are rlly good videos somehow im learning about more about crushes and stuff like that you just earned a sub :D
thank you, i really needed to hear this
It's honestly annoying how they always assume we have friends who care
Facts! Pisses me off too. I don’t even have 1 friend I could go talk to.
Or friends who know.
Yeah I'm with you on that one, I think these videos are made from the perspectives of mostly people who are likeable enough to have friends
Well, we also have families? Unless you are living far away and can't interact with anyone, but still there are many ways to communicate with close people
@we are we are together bulletproof I’m not open to people, but I tend to joke a lot about it.
I have a 4 year crush, and "if it's causing you more pain than happiness" really struck me.
To everyone who's letting go of their crushes, cheer up! We all deserve someone who'll love us too, not just one-sided. May you find your "someone" in the right time.
I have a feelings for her for 2 years. Feel like she doesn’t like me back. So i wanted to ask you that should i confess to her or just letting her go. My guts told me to confess her but idk what to do rn. Your opinion?
@@tasfaith confess, better to live without regret
@@trinityg.5620 aight 👌👌, I’ll confess to her but not rn bcoz she invited me to hang out in the near time. So, it will be a lil’ awkward. I’ll let u know if i do so. Thx for ur advice, really appreciate that 🙏🙏
I already let go of her a few days ago, I feel wayyy better than I do now. I feel thankful that I can focus on other people more than on her.
@@tasfaith so?? How’d it go??
this channel makes me feel so much better
I can relate to at least one of these but you know it’s just hard but in the right time everyone will find someone 😮💨
“They never initiate conversations.” That one was really painful.
Ikr
Yeh, I experienced that too
That hit home for real😮💨
Maybe they're just shy, like me...
@@naoeaschmidtesim9386 shyness doesn't makes sense if they really like you
see but here's the thing: I'm an extremely shy person so i rarely initiate conversations, but i still like him a lot.
Oh wait, that’s also a problem
Same
Ok completely get that. Mine has a girlfriend also so like-
Oh shii so maybe there is a real she is into me...
Let's go boys!
Don't worry Katara, you know that Aang is crushing really hard on you right?... You might be talking about Jet here... Well we both know jet, he's not a match for you 👀😅
imagine being able to simply choose to loose feelings
The truth hurts but I'm glad this video was made bc it seems fruitless to continue on crushing on something that may well just be nothing at all.
"Are you the only one that starts the conversation?"
No, because I'm to scared to even make eye contact with him.
Edit: thank you all for the likes and comments! ☺
I see ...........were long lost twins
I don't have a crush but this video was helpful for when I do
I'm scared to make eye contact too. We have a similarity.....😏
Bakugo: hahahah IDIOT.
Well me too
I have a crush. And I’m young.
Too young to date.
And I’m obsessed with them! It’s plaguing my mind and inflicting my studies and I hate it.
I’m to young to love. But I trying to get out of this crush craze before I burn out. And every time they talk about their own crush it just absolutely rocks my self esteem.
Wish me luck internet people
I’m gonna try to move on
I feel you
Good luck!
Best of luck
Same im only 11 bruh
just kill their crush its the best way
Man this video is the reality I needed to fix myself. Met this girl online and fell for her day one, we gamed all the time and enjoyed talking to each other a lot. We knew we liked each other but never made a move, I was to scared cause she’s be my first girlfriend ever. Eventually she said she’d fallen hard for a guy and she started to become more distant from me, to the point where she basically ticks every box in this video. (She doesn’t really use me for anything though since we’re not close to each other). But this is the clarity I need to realize that I’m hurting myself more than I should. She’s my first love, I truly care about her, but when the signs are so prevalent it’s time to move on away from my own pain. Thank you for making this video, I couldn’t have fixed myself alone and am feeling much better now. All my friends said is that “if she ever reaches out, don’t be hesitant.” Which I won’t, cause I care a lot about people. It hurts a lot in the moment, but you’re the only one hurting yourself. Keep your head up cause she’s not the only one 😊
Getting over my crush wasnt that hard when I'm already used to being lonely
It’s like I always say now, “you can’t miss what you never had” 🤷♂️
How'd you get over tho?
Yeah same
Rip
I’ve had a crush for 6 years he knows but I’m going to let go I don’t care
U a no longer crushing....u love him
If he didn't return the same let him go
Christa Rothgerber I had a crush for 3 years
U been crushing for 6 years!? I been crushing for like 3 months and my crush shows signs of liking me back. Definitely let go.
@@rcmtsmaster214 why? your crush is already starting to like you..have patience
Also by the way good job on editing and making the videos keep it up 👍👍👍👍👍
Thanks for everything ❤️
I had a crush on someone for 7 years now... he still doesn't give a damn about me. It's just so hard to let go...
Trying to get over someone takes Time
7 Years is too much
You need to let go. You can't keep waiting forever. Either that or make a serious move.
I'm in the same boat...you aren't alone.
Darlin', are you really in love with him, or with the *idea* of him? Those can be very easily confused.
We often fall in love with an ideal, and then project those qualities on the object of our affection. But they may not match up with our notions.
See how his personality and behavior in your daydreams matches with the real-life him. (If he really is acting like he doesn't give a damn about you after 7 years, then I'm guessing he *isn't* a match.) Be brutally honest with yourself.
If you are in love with the fantasy, and keep associating the fantasy with the person, it's near-impossible to let go. And we shouldn't let go of our fantasies! We can use them to help us figure out what is important to us in a partner, in a relationship.
But I'm sure you know it's time to let go of your crush. If he's shown no signs of getting closer with you in all this time, it's not going to happen, he'll never be the person you want him to be. Move on and make space in your heart & life for someone that will appreciate and love you. Not saying it will be easy, but it'll be worth the struggle.
I get the feeling most people here know how to let go but just dont want to
Ong tho :( he shows a lot of toxic traits but I just keep telling myself he'll change bc I don't wanna let go
I alreedy know but i choose to let go because im too young lts good for me
I feel the same way 😭
Is there something where you have been friends with them for a while and aren’t afraid to talk to them but you still wanna do epic things for them?
Ur voice makes me feel ok with my flaws when I’m in love with someone
Yep, if your crush or whatever you want to call it. We had a situation where I think he had a crush on my daughter. But, his way of showing it was to show attention to every other girl around her instead of just talkingto "HER". Then one day he asked her who she liked? She was like what? In a weird twist, he all of a sudden acted like he had a crush on her and was trying to make her jealous??? All she thought was that he was a big flirt, and didn't want to end up getting hurt so avoided him at all costs. I told her I didn't really understand this, but felt if a guy really has a crush on YOU he should be trying to talk with just YOU and find out something about YOU. He now has a girlfriend from entirely somewhere else; Again, don't understand so I told her to keep avoiding him.
Everyone: **talking about how their crush doesnt like them back**
Me who hasn’t had any of the signs except the obsession: **takes out sunglasses**
Samee
me as well
Same I feel so lucky
KaileyRH
Me, who was never even close enough to her to have any more than 3 of the signs:
😶
I have had almost all the signs
*When you don’t have a crush on anyone yet still watch the video*
😂😂😂 same
Same lol
Same😂
I just love hearing her voice
cant relate
I've had a crush on my friend for 15 long years I've met back in jr high school. I finally told her I had a crush on her and liked her for a very long time through message but it didn't happen they way I wanted it to be. She already knew from the start I've liked her but it looked like she didn't really appreciate it. She just told me straight up that we're just friends and said I should stop crushing on her and find someone else because she's not the I thought I was gonna love. It hurt so much but I have to accept and respect her answer. I guess holding my feelings for my longtime friend for 15 years was really all for nothing. I don't ever want to tell my crush how I feel about them ever again after that because I might get the same answer. It might be more hurtful or brutal. I'd rather just keep feelings for someone inside my heart forever. No matter how much it hurts, no matter how much I get jealous, no matter how long it lasts until it slowly or quickly tears me apart.
not lovers , not enemies, just strangers with memories.
Who else is crushing on this artwork by Murielle Lindsley Dela Rosa? Comment below!
Me I luv it
Love it
uvu
I am!
Me
"Life is too short for you to keep chasing someone who doesn't feel the same way".
Me:Sasuke
Lol
YOU ARE MY FRIENDDDDD AHHH
@@arkham_miami are you guys actually friends lol
@@arkham_miami I know that opening.
LMFAOO
I really needed this video
Thank you i needed this
the worse thing than your crush not liking you is never knowing if she liked you or not and be trapped in the eternal anxiety which leads to everyday pain and makes you unable to stop liking them and being lost to the endless anxiety of not knowing...
Edit: Guys dw everyone of you deserve the best for your, you all will find someone or the other that will keep you happy!
Ask her. Get the answer. We can try to live in the good friendship zone, but that won’t do anyone any good in the long run
@Aishani Ojha damn, nice stuff. Seems like the thing most want but never get
@Aishani Ojha did he go out with you tho?
Aritra Ghosh
I honestly knew that she didn't when I snapped back to reality and the sparks started to fizzle out... she really know me, I probably remember everything she's ever said, the last of them being "sorry" when I almost walked into her out of a door.
I don't say that to be creepy; I mean to say that she's literally said roughly 50 words to me and I remember them because I remember things like and there' such little to remember.
@Aishani Ojha I commented on his stories saying he was too cute and he replied.. awe thanks, you too. I replied thanks and that was it. I’m not sure if that’s a green light or he’s just being kind 🥶
“they never initiate conversations” called me out so badly 😭
update: i feel like she actually likes talking to me now!! we’re really close
update: a few months after the original comment i ended it bc our friendship felt one sided. couple months after we became friends again n this time it’s different. she’s my best friend and one of my fav people ever. she feels the same n i don’t want anything to change
SAMS
💔
Yesss😭
Lol they initiate conversations but I don't 😂
Yep
Thanks so much i really need this
This really helped thank you!😊
This video: "Exist"
Literally everyone who said that this artstyle was great: "I was looking forward to this"
I even had a heartache by this artstyle
The part I’m most afraid of is getting rejected, which is why I try to avoid having feelings for someone, but sometimes it can be so hard...😔😕
Same
I faced my fear. I asked a guy out that I liked. We dated for almost two years until I dumped him. I’d go for it if you think they’re a good person for you. Mine didn’t end up being a good person for me, but I’ll still try again with someone else when I’m ready to
@Arah Ya Well said!
@Arah Ya thank you for your encouraging words, and giving me courage to face this fear. I will keep them in mind for the future!🥰
The Spider Web or in class, in front of all your classmates and the girls u don’t like...💔
Thank you for your guidance ❤️
Thank you so much.since my first crush was always cancelling on me.i noticed that she was avoiding me.thanks to this i think i can move on
Just moved on from crushing on someone after 5 years
Same bro,I hope you're doing well (even Idk you lol)
Please.. tell me your ways!!
me too, now we are just friends
I'm crushing my best friend since 3 years, i was texting him first everytime, he was never interested as much i was. But i always dreamed
about him everyday, for weeks, months, and years.. And after some time ,i realised that he never liked me,and just sees me as his best friend. When i realised that, i didn't text him for weeks. I was feeling useless, and desperate. And one day, i got a text from him, he said that he has a crush in school, and she was a beautiful, intelligent, perfect girl for her. Okay that was totally horrible- I was shocked at the moment, and start saying something absurd to make him stop talking to me about the girl. And he started to say that i'm a horrible friend. And blocked me. we didn't talk for 7 months. That was AWFUL :D - "You had the chance to be with him!." That was what im telling to myself everytime. But it was never like that. Now he apologized me, and said that he wants to continue our friendship. What can i do? IDK THAT STORY WAS HELLA LONG BORING AND FAST. BUT PLEASE HELP ME. WHAT SHALL I DO???
@@cinnamongirl404 If he doesn't want to be with you then just move on
If you keep crushing on him it will become unhealthy for you
And your friendship will fall apart once again
I know it's hard to move on from a long time investing on someone but it is for the best
The best way to move on is to look for someone or something you can keep your mind of the person you are trying to move on from
This is what I did and it helpt me
Me and my ex-crush are know closer than ever since I moved on
summary of the video:
1. They rarely acknowledge you
2. They never initiate conversations
3. They cancel on you.. A LOT
4. They’re taking advantage of you
5. You’re becoming obsessed with them
6. Your friends want you to move on
7. They’re interested in someone else
8. They’re dating someone else
Thanks dude
my crush has been in a relationship for 3 years
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@@mikepencestoes awww the sucks
_ death I know the feeling. Just move on, it isn’t worth being on one person for so long
Very helpful 😅 thank you!
good point .
I don’t trust “friends” advice about me and my crush cause they’re snakes and will ruin everything. It has happened to me before and now I don’t trust anyone.
Sorry to hear that. Sounds like you need better friends. It's normal for some friends to tease or joke or poke fun at each other. But purposefully trying to jeopardize your relationships? Those aren't friends at all.
Saeed Baig I know but I just can never make the right friends 😭 and always when I do make some good friends they always move☹️
I can relate everyone in my life leaves me no matter how nice I am so I'm not gonna open up anymore
When we walked to the cafeteria for the lunch my friends saw my crush and said his name loud and told him that I like him, oh god it was embarrassing! But now I'm still friends with them but we don't talk a lot like before we did
i feel like my best friend likes my crush :(
1:17 DONT LISTEN TO THIS ONE
I WOULD NEVER INITIATE A CONVERSATION I WOULD BE WAYYY TOOOO NERVOUS
so not initiating a conversation doesn’t mean anything
This comment is underrated.
I think not initiating conversation the first time is understandable since some people are shy. But if it's someone you meet often and who def knows you cause you've talked to them multiple times (e.g. a classmate) but you STILL are the one who always has to initiate the convo, that's a sign they just want nothing to do with you.
Saeed Baig
Yeah I agree but then I realized even when someone tried to start talking to me I was still to nervous to start the conversations or in this case FaceTime 😬 oops🤭😢
Creative Sparks stop Youself
I ticked almost all of these… And didn’t even realise until I fell in too deep and got really hurt when she said no to me asking her to become my gf after we went on several dates over around two months. Before this rejection she said she liked me a lot, but that was her just leading me on because I always bought her nice dinners and gifts. I was being taken advantage of but I denied that reality. I sent her a final message saying I respect her decision and wish her well, but she didn’t even bother to reply. It hurts to care so much about a person who doesn’t care about you anywhere near as much. I want to move on so bad
no. 7 and 8 hurt a lot but then the advices came up and Im feel better again
how about having a crush on someone who has anxiety/depression? they constantly cancel plans and lock themselves inside. what do you do then??
As someone with depression I would advise to let them feel at ease. Message them and make them feel comfortable, maybe set up a video call? They have to let you in and be secure with you. Good luck!! :)
Don’t pressure them! Also, no phone calls. I have anxiety and I always freak out in phone calls, I definitely prefer text, and maybe they do too. Maybe to plans at their house.
Let them know you care but don't press/push them. It usually takes a while for them to open up to/trust people.
The other comments so far before mine are dead on. Phone calls can be rough, and let them feel comfortable first. I would go even further in that, I'd say focus on being JUST friends for a while while they get comfortable wiith you. If you genuinely care for the person, and you know they're battling depression, you gotta want to work alongside them to deal with the mental stress, if that makes sense? I'm not saying don't pursue them as a crush at all, hell I have depression and I wouldn't want that to stop anyone from being attracted to me. I guess what I'm saying is approach their depression as a buddy, a friend, putting your romantic desires in the backseat at first and concentrate on helping them better themselves. At the same time though, it's tricky because you shouldn't force help on them. Just because you have a crush on them doesn't mean you should invest all your energy into "fixing" them. They have to go at their own pace---unless it's destructive behavior like self harm. Let them come out of their shell when they want to. Do enough to let them know they can count on you as a friend, invite them places, offer to hang out, but definitely don't press them to say yes. That could scare them away and you won't even be friends, let alone date them.
So yeah, go slow, be their friend, no phone calls, no pressure. Jebus cripes, this comment is a trainwreck inside a dumpster fire, I apologize. That's anxiety for ya!
We have a video on how to love someone with depression, you might want to check it out. But for that, you just have to be the more active one, or alternatively, just go at their pace. What has worked or didn't work for you in the past?