SEDUCTION vs ATTRACTION: What is Appropriate for the Elegant Woman | 8 Tips to attract man

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  • @jacquelinesmith-gaston2071
    @jacquelinesmith-gaston2071 3 ปีที่แล้ว +166

    Thank you for this needful and very useful information. As a married lady of almost 22 years, I can tell you that the teachings you're doing will help those ladies who truly desire the right man for their life. Glad I did it the right way...your way. I didn't throw myself at him. He was attracted to me because I carried myself like a lady. He's STILL happy...he's still in love with me. You're awesome! Again, thank you!

    • @WomanOfElegance
      @WomanOfElegance  3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I'm so glad♥ Thank you so much

    • @elefoundation3703
      @elefoundation3703 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      But all for the man who provides not for broke dusty men

    • @sallymrombeds2888
      @sallymrombeds2888 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@elefoundation3703 😃😃😃

    • @Sketchbook9999
      @Sketchbook9999 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sounds like my life

  • @blueazura
    @blueazura 3 ปีที่แล้ว +237

    1. Smiling - Smiling automatically makes you look more attractive, appealing & approachable. Look the man directly in the eye, maintain eye contact and give him a smile from time to time.
    2. Dress Neatly & Smartly - Clean & tidy at all times, ensuring that your dressing fits the occasion. Men find bold colours such as red quite fascinating and attractive. Don a red lipstick, a beautiful gown or dress, paint your nails red, carry a red handbag. Wear more colours, don't dress in all black or in a single shade but don't go overboard.
    3. Show A Little Skin - But never appear trashy (e.g. off shoulder top with knee length skirt)
    4. Don't Hide The Curves - Play up your assets, accentuate your curves with a less revealing attire.
    5. Makeup - Good makeup highlights the good features of your face and tones down the not so pleasant features you might find. Wear makeup to match the event.
    6. Keep Hairstyle Attractive - Make sure your hair is tidy and attractive at all times. A woman's hairstyle is one of the first things that a man notices.
    7. Accessorise - Put on attractive but simple hair accessories, necklaces, jewellery, a lovely handbag. Use them to enhance your look, don't go overboard.
    8. Smell Nice - A beautiful scent, something that is different and alluring, has the power to drive men wild. Do not neglect your daily hygiene routine, perfume cannot mask poor hygiene.

  • @jamiepaulse9898
    @jamiepaulse9898 2 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Please never stop investing into us, young ladies. You're such an inspiration to me! I value your teachings and I am becoming so mindful of my manners, poise and presentation. God bless you! This is your calling! 🌷

  • @Nancytheredhead
    @Nancytheredhead 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    9:25 You're laugh is so beautiful! In contrast with your more professional tone it stands out as simply invigorating! 😂🥂😍 You're definitely portraying your previous point to a tee💥

  • @SeaMee
    @SeaMee ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you for schooling me on the difference! This makes so much sense for a lot of things going on in my dating life. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @AmalyaHunter
    @AmalyaHunter ปีที่แล้ว

    This hair color and makeup colors look soooooo good on you! I can't stop admiring!

  • @dubbyx8490
    @dubbyx8490 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Excellent advice! As an aspiring high-value man I desire to be with the attractive woman you described in your video

  • @leashines9937
    @leashines9937 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Thank you very much for this insightful video Vivienne. These tips can be used even in my mariage. I hope to hear your own leveling up journey one day. You are an inspiring woman.

    • @MsViva710
      @MsViva710 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes do share your journey miss Vivian

  • @ritaamolegbe5200
    @ritaamolegbe5200 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I stumbled upon your channel yesterday and I have been hooked!
    You give valuable contents!
    And you are exactly what you preach, an elegant woman.
    Hope to be here for long.❤️

  • @Peep1988
    @Peep1988 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    All your points on how to be attractive are accurate. If a woman does not sincerely smile at a man, it is actually a turn of for most men. A woman right of the bat wanting to seduce a man sends a man a message that she is not marrying kind.

  • @sabella69
    @sabella69 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Thanks for this excellent video. This time we live in oversexualizes women. Many men don't respect and value this. It's good to talk about these matters. Bless you!

  • @mabvutosilomba-cr8us
    @mabvutosilomba-cr8us ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great and good teaching this wonderful,,, exactly

  • @ShamimMunywanyi
    @ShamimMunywanyi ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks darling, you really helped me make up my marriage after realising my mistakes

  • @bfoodii3237
    @bfoodii3237 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have learnt so much from you my elegant lady. God bless you loads💞

  • @supermodeljaz6829
    @supermodeljaz6829 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "A slither"I love it. Thank you, Beautiful Vivienne!🌹

  • @kathyabeauty
    @kathyabeauty 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I really am enjoying your video lessons. Such good advice! Thank you!

  • @Judah-pu5lc
    @Judah-pu5lc 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yup that's right respect yourself and you will be respected.

  • @odidijemima6235
    @odidijemima6235 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love ur mastery of our bad conducts and how u come so proudly, confidently and with alot of love to teach and impart in us good manners and habits. #journey to elegancy💙🥂

  • @olivettenkafu7332
    @olivettenkafu7332 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Nice hair that matches with your skin tone

  • @reelmermaid8844
    @reelmermaid8844 ปีที่แล้ว

    Vivienne I love your videos, such a broad array of topics that women of any age can use. I'm sharing these tips with my young nieces who have started to notice that they are not attracting the type of man they want to build a life with. Keep up the great work and cheers from Canada!

  • @sandrascrib
    @sandrascrib 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    i am so glad i discovered your channel... Been catching up on old videos and am really learning a lot.

  • @angelaferrante7234
    @angelaferrante7234 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much Vivienne. Your videos are so eloquently informative.

  • @CoachAdeja
    @CoachAdeja ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is so important, thank you!

  • @jacquelinesmith-gaston2071
    @jacquelinesmith-gaston2071 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You always look very pretty in your videos!

  • @l.christinejones8164
    @l.christinejones8164 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Vivienne, you have such beautiful teeth & skin.💜

  • @aesthetic_9239
    @aesthetic_9239 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Advance congratulations for 200k
    Iam following you since 90k subscribers. Iam so happy that you are reaching to people.Lots of love to you mam 💗💗

  • @lamandadavis9135
    @lamandadavis9135 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    SLITHER!!! YES! Diptique is my fav brand for fragrances

  • @ohsostylish60
    @ohsostylish60 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You are so right Vivienne! Thanks for another great video - I will also try out that perfume you suggested! ♥️

  • @haniamakram3399
    @haniamakram3399 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Great video! I love it 😍 it was worth the wait

  • @yishertgrueso3145
    @yishertgrueso3145 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love your content, it has helped me a lot to practice my English and also to be my best version... If you have any book that you recommend to those of us who are starting on this path, I thank you, greetings from Colombia.

  • @yvannenora998
    @yvannenora998 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    l think you doing a beautiful job sister, thank you.

  • @diomariscapellan5919
    @diomariscapellan5919 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks❤ I am learning a lot from you 🙏🏼❣️

  • @bargainoutlet7784
    @bargainoutlet7784 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really enjoy listening to her that projects beauty and class. I don't know how I got here but this will help a lot of women to get that quality man and be more classy.

  • @mansurprecious249
    @mansurprecious249 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Dear Vivienne, thanks for the good work... Please what types of books would you recommend for the elegant woman?

  • @nyaradzochatikobo2569
    @nyaradzochatikobo2569 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Now this is gold. Thank you Viv.

  • @jacquelinesmith-gaston2071
    @jacquelinesmith-gaston2071 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Chanel 5...that's my favorite! My husband loves it too

    • @sulusu4812
      @sulusu4812 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Coco by Chanel is beautiful too

  • @elohoroghorodi196
    @elohoroghorodi196 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for these very educating tips on elegance.

  • @anapierce8204
    @anapierce8204 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I like this wig on you very much.

  • @akoskumako9725
    @akoskumako9725 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow thank you

  • @geniealison7785
    @geniealison7785 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I can’t help myself from laughing while watching this video. I’m in my 40’s, honestly I had never seduce a man. I was married and I had many relationships but never into seduction part. I just simply smile and just be me! I never intentionally dressed or do extra effort to seduce a man! That’s completely not in my vocabulary to seduce a man even if he’s attractive!

    • @scooterlovya
      @scooterlovya 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You THINK YOU didn't

    • @madhusagdeo9406
      @madhusagdeo9406 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Right...even i dint try....

    • @Salvation123..
      @Salvation123.. 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's a good reminder ..

    • @janetmash
      @janetmash ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes you right

  • @MellisaDowner
    @MellisaDowner 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Red is my favor colour❤❤

  • @pamelajohnson9810
    @pamelajohnson9810 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi I'm new to your channel I love it it's so true what you are teaching.I love you and Anna Bey.

  • @scintillatingddl
    @scintillatingddl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    You look like Serena Williams

  • @madhusagdeo9406
    @madhusagdeo9406 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks dear...your vedio is very helpful for me.. i realky follws these valuable tips...

  • @sheriffokuta4617
    @sheriffokuta4617 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much ma all your tips are exactly what I want at the moment. I gave birth 8months ago to my first childt and sincerely all the pregnancy processes to birth played alot of germs in my mind and I'm not that ladylike I use to be, in the area of self-esteem, carriage n packaging. I really wanna jack back up! I wish they can be a video specifically for such people like me

    • @muta_othernames
      @muta_othernames 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ♥️ Take heart. Congratulations

  • @alirashada2006
    @alirashada2006 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sister keep up the good work i think your doing a beautiful job.

  • @feminineone9610
    @feminineone9610 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just looked up the perfume… they should give you a fee.. bc I will purchase it👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🇯🇲💜🌺🙏🏽

  • @Yieldedtojesus
    @Yieldedtojesus 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    💜💜💜. Thank you Vivian

  • @shesanne2
    @shesanne2 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    first time here and i really learned a lot thanks

  • @teenah2494
    @teenah2494 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have been looking out for your next video. Thanks so much for these lovely tips 🙂

  • @deborahwalker695
    @deborahwalker695 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so very much for all this knowledge 🙏

  • @jessicamazloomi3057
    @jessicamazloomi3057 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your lessons .

  • @deborahwalker695
    @deborahwalker695 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much! You are absolutely beautiful!

  • @ramcess6075
    @ramcess6075 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’ve subscribed I love your videos

  • @bintyhasiatuturay2906
    @bintyhasiatuturay2906 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks very sister I love English so much

  • @sarahadekola
    @sarahadekola 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love this channel ❤️

  • @KathrynH-f5j
    @KathrynH-f5j 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I agree.

  • @stellaschnell6652
    @stellaschnell6652 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lovely thanks for these tips. Powerful!

  • @delaliabena4423
    @delaliabena4423 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for sharing...

  • @Starrr-ro8hg
    @Starrr-ro8hg 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your the best ❤

  • @fisayomioluwasuyi655
    @fisayomioluwasuyi655 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much ma'am for the videos especially the point that says smell nice.

  • @snowvale8815
    @snowvale8815 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    New follower of yours!
    You share a great concept😊
    Is there or will be there a video of your beginnings?
    Since becoming elegant is not going to happen over night.

    • @WomanOfElegance
      @WomanOfElegance  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you🥰. Sure. I will do a video on my elegance journey

    • @strawberrylover999
      @strawberrylover999 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@WomanOfElegance im so excited!

  • @Dee.Ola_
    @Dee.Ola_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video

  • @She_is_P
    @She_is_P 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I enjoy your videos so much. Thank you!

  • @katiekrupa6608
    @katiekrupa6608 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very interesting 🥰 thank You for your precious time

  • @jacquelinesmith-gaston2071
    @jacquelinesmith-gaston2071 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My other favorite I've found that works well for me is "Beautiful" by Estee Lauder

    • @anele5696
      @anele5696 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thats a very lovely perfume.

    • @sulusu4812
      @sulusu4812 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ooh yes! Grace by philosophy.

  • @am-harris7458
    @am-harris7458 ปีที่แล้ว

    You look a lot like Serena Williams!🤩🤩🤩

  • @memonagull408
    @memonagull408 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lovely lady ❤️

  • @elvifontiani4133
    @elvifontiani4133 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much 🙏🏻🤗

  • @HephzibahFrances
    @HephzibahFrances 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much

  • @tambekongenowebot641
    @tambekongenowebot641 ปีที่แล้ว

    I subscribe because of ur language manner u speak so well please how can I lean to speak like you

  • @dabrenajohnson5142
    @dabrenajohnson5142 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awww I love your voice

  • @TechKeenah
    @TechKeenah 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for this maam

  • @ctrldeletealt4648
    @ctrldeletealt4648 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have to start smiling more 😊

  • @christychristo7433
    @christychristo7433 ปีที่แล้ว

    Unfortunately i have a problem with perfume because of sinuses. So i use antiperspirant deodorants

  • @terraiznajem105
    @terraiznajem105 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤thank you

  • @DailyHoroscopes111
    @DailyHoroscopes111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for this wonderful Video. Can you let me know where you purchased the Parfum? I tried looking it up, but it was in a different bottle. I wonder if the package was recently changed.

    • @WomanOfElegance
      @WomanOfElegance  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi darling thanks very much. Mine was purchased from Harrods. Link: www.harrods.com/en-gb/shopping/alexandria-iii-pure-perfume-50ml-16525994?gclsrc=aw.ds&gclid=Cj0KCQiAw9qOBhC-ARIsAG-rdn77_69lPmKQ5IN8GrgQGgRnHdngYPME7sw5J-Ob3Ge9gHJGo4kq2YgaAp4FEALw_wcB

    • @lolashewa
      @lolashewa 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      But still not the same bottle as yours.

  • @divadynastyllc377
    @divadynastyllc377 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What do you think that having natural kinky hair ? Does is make a woman less elegant as apposed to having straight hair? I remember when I started pageantry I was told to relax my kinky hair to seem more like an elegant beauty queen.

    • @elegantsoyabean
      @elegantsoyabean 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Hello, sweetheart.
      Please don't do it. There is more beauty and elegance in rocking every part of you in its natural state -hair included- as long as it is neat and clean❤️

    • @sulusu4812
      @sulusu4812 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh my gosh, no way. You're elegant & gorgeous with kinky hair. Never think otherwise my dear. It's true. Whatever our hair is in it's natural state, but healthy & loved hair is the best.

    • @Chahlie
      @Chahlie ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I feel your pain- I am Caucasian, with 'Viking' hair. Thick, curly and lots of it! Sometimes I think I will never be polished :)

  • @pamelajohnson9810
    @pamelajohnson9810 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You and Anna Bey are good inspiring teachers and you both are from the UK and so knowledgeable.I love you both.👌

  • @chinyereotaka7517
    @chinyereotaka7517 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beautiful

  • @BrigitteStanley33
    @BrigitteStanley33 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    New subscriber. Just found your channel so I'm making my way through your videos. Lovely content. So important especially in the day and age we're living in. Unfortunately I nearly jumped out of my skin seeing MM in that red dress. IMHO she does not fit into my idea of classy or elegant. Just my opinion however. Looking fwd to watching all of your videos

  • @easterndakondja4328
    @easterndakondja4328 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome

  • @dorahamrick-mcguire8921
    @dorahamrick-mcguire8921 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you

  • @alexandrax4331
    @alexandrax4331 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you so much for sharing this with me 💞

  • @bukonla
    @bukonla 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for the advice. Do you have a video on where to met high class men? I don't meet any in my industry unfortunately, but I would love to meet a man who is a professional i.e. working on the sciences for example.

  • @nklynworld1612
    @nklynworld1612 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good message, Pls put the name of the perfume here, I couldn't get the name correctly as you pronounced. Thanks

  • @dmwarui
    @dmwarui ปีที่แล้ว

    You turn heads alright....❤

  • @wendymurangi
    @wendymurangi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    From Namibia wendy murangi

    • @naaatswei7179
      @naaatswei7179 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you, I love this video and l have learned something new from it

    • @sofiaondemand
      @sofiaondemand 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Learning how to be elegant

  • @scintillatingddl
    @scintillatingddl 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love you so much omg youre a saviour

  • @dmwarui
    @dmwarui ปีที่แล้ว

    What am I going to do with this adorable girl...way adorable...go 👧 😊😊

  • @faithchollom4427
    @faithchollom4427 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    love you😍

  • @victoriacutshall7170
    @victoriacutshall7170 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    How do we keep our figure looking great..without any added surgeries making us looking over balanced with our must larger chest ...?

  • @scsophiecowan8634
    @scsophiecowan8634 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🥰 lovely video.

  • @supermodeljaz6829
    @supermodeljaz6829 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    @10:10 Gorgeous🌹

  • @dorcastagoe1973lulu
    @dorcastagoe1973lulu 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you lovely l really love that.

  • @prophetchrist1994
    @prophetchrist1994 2 ปีที่แล้ว

  • @mcfashion9385
    @mcfashion9385 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Dressing Elegantly doesn't mean dressing like a nun🙌🙌🙌

  • @tritzispoosa
    @tritzispoosa ปีที่แล้ว

    We don’t have to prove anything to men about our sexuality until it’s a honeymoon night. If he can’t wait he is not worth it

  • @Suaveone-mm8yw
    @Suaveone-mm8yw 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    🤗😊👍

  • @adelineferim9107
    @adelineferim9107 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    U just got a new subscriber.. love the contents. Do u ve a Facebook page? Would love to share ur posts👍