Lovers do seem to be in dire trouble without philosophy. You said it well when you pointed out how many “vague terms” are found in romance, and how so much trouble emerges in this “space of vagueness.” And what is something that philosophers are obsessed with? Defining terms. Additionally, they really try to get down to the fundamental level to determine “what is meant” when a person says that they desire this or that-which is when it quickly becomes clear that we have no idea what we want. You’re right that a “dialectical relationship” (in every sense of the word) is needed, but that requires facing our anxieties…and that’s kind of hard and stuff…
Lovers do seem to be in dire trouble without philosophy. You said it well when you pointed out how many “vague terms” are found in romance, and how so much trouble emerges in this “space of vagueness.” And what is something that philosophers are obsessed with? Defining terms. Additionally, they really try to get down to the fundamental level to determine “what is meant” when a person says that they desire this or that-which is when it quickly becomes clear that we have no idea what we want. You’re right that a “dialectical relationship” (in every sense of the word) is needed, but that requires facing our anxieties…and that’s kind of hard and stuff…
20:35 "simple, but hard" -- that's right
4:03 Mistake, never ask that, wait for her to do it!
4:12 B**** WTF?!
Wild? Right ? 🤣🤣🤣 If I would've never asked, I would have found out I'm already in a relationship I didn't know about 🤣🤣