A JOURNEY OF MARRIAGE, GRIEF & VULNERABILITY WITH SELF & GOD ft PS AYANDA | REFINEDMARRIAGE

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  • Hi Fam !
    Happy 2023!!
    In todays episode of Wife Talk we unpack SO MUCH with Ayanda Mpungose-Ngcobo ! Please be kind and open to hear and learn.
    #REFINEDMARRIAGE #WIFETALK #BuliMakhubo
    Music by Brooks - 22 wonders - thmatc.co/?l=1357315C

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  • @sinothilebuthelezi7878
    @sinothilebuthelezi7878 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    Watching this for the second time- after seeing Ayanda on Kabelo’s channel ❤
    What a powerhouse of a woman.
    @Buli - when you are ready- please return wife segments. A live wife segment?! Sign me up.

  • @nompilopatience1393
    @nompilopatience1393 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    Can we take sometime to appreciate Buli for coming up with this amazing segment

    • @BuliMakhubo
      @BuliMakhubo  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      God Bless you ! Thank you 🥺❤️

    • @Kamogelo_Langa
      @Kamogelo_Langa ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@BuliMakhubo Forever grateful, this segment is helping a whole lot of us

    • @mbalimusubo
      @mbalimusubo ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@BuliMakhubo Bless you my sister how can I connect to Ayanda my God this is me

    • @ziyanda6521
      @ziyanda6521 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The only reason I come to this channel 🤞

    • @nompilopatience1393
      @nompilopatience1393 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She’s a god sent ❤️❤️

  • @boipeloandsipho
    @boipeloandsipho ปีที่แล้ว +17

    “Your anointing is not an excuse for poor character” 🔥❤️. Shu!! This is so good Buli.😭🙌🏽 This episode is so so good! 🙌🏽😭

  • @thobekakhumalo3182
    @thobekakhumalo3182 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Buli you're a good listener, I appreciate how you allow your guests to speak yet still manage to ask important questions and give clarity.

  • @_RuuM
    @_RuuM ปีที่แล้ว +46

    My biggest takeaway from this video is the beauty of having an authentic and vulnerable relationship with God. My goodness! What a powerful way to start the year 🥺 Thank you, Buli. May God continue to bless you so you bless others ♥️

    • @Bazzooooka
      @Bazzooooka ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I mean! So many nuggets here. Sis needs her own platform. We are hungry for this content

  • @EverHopeful555
    @EverHopeful555 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I love how Ayanda showed up as her true authentic self here! 👏🏾🙏🏾💕

  • @ntokozo_mazibuko
    @ntokozo_mazibuko ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Pastor A’ s Laugh? Contagious sana😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @Katleho-mafisa
    @Katleho-mafisa ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I cried so much watching this because of how relatable it is, I also got into ministry at around the same age as her and got married when I was 19 in the same manner she did. The shock she's talking about when reality hits is something I know too well. Thankyou so much Buli for this episode

  • @Bazzooooka
    @Bazzooooka ปีที่แล้ว +72

    This has to be the most authentic, beautiful and pure chat I have seen in a while. This lady is anointed and the Lord is going to do great and mighty things through her.
    My only request is a longer video where she can pour into us. We need a Bible sermon TH-cam channel, or a podcast. Sis, your voice is needed. This message found me amidst my own turmoil and this message has changed my perspective. Thank you.. Buli, what a gem!

    • @NeliseAbigael.
      @NeliseAbigael. ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She actually has a TH-cam and Instagram page where she does that

    • @motheowalerato701
      @motheowalerato701 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree!!!

  • @rosethembo3674
    @rosethembo3674 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    This has also taught me that just because someone is your soulmate. It does not mean that everything will be Rosy . Challenges will always be there

  • @ayandanyathi1331
    @ayandanyathi1331 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    What a force, what a woman. May God continue to heal her and give her new wisdom, joy, love, and peace ❤

  • @beulahbuys4144
    @beulahbuys4144 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I cried so much watching this. I remember visiting their church and being so inspired by them, not knowing what they were going through😢. Thank you for your vulnerability PS Ayanda❤️

  • @tshegofatsoleshomo4528
    @tshegofatsoleshomo4528 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I love how raw and real she is 😱 she speaks so well and with so much grace🥰😭🤩

  • @senamile_official
    @senamile_official ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Shooooh we really needed 4 hours with uPs Ayanda I didn’t want the chat to end😂❤. Thank Buli for bringing us such a phenomenal Christian woman, whom just by her speak, poured into to my life. what a power packed way to start 2023😊.

    • @BuliMakhubo
      @BuliMakhubo  ปีที่แล้ว

      Yoh we really needed 4 hours! Thank you for watching sis❤️

  • @ronellecandice1536
    @ronellecandice1536 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This lady is so truthful that I can’t help but just feel that her authenticity is unmatched….
    I would love for Buli to be interviewed

  • @normawatchenuka9567
    @normawatchenuka9567 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    I don’t know how you pick out these ladies but each one always brings new lessons. Love it ♥️❤️

    • @BuliMakhubo
      @BuliMakhubo  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      The Holy Spirit gets all the glory! 🙌🏽 I was telling pastor A that I didn’t know of her and I don’t remember how I found her channel at 10pm at night lol but I did and I knew that she had to be next on the channel!

  • @AntonetteK1
    @AntonetteK1 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Hands down the best wife talks I’ve listened to. I absolutely love how open minded and candid Ayanda is. I love how mature in the faith she is and how she is also 100% relatable to anyone. This conversation had so many dimensions and I thoroughly enjoyed it and learned too. Thanks for sharing Ayanda with us Buli. I won’t lie I kept wishing I could understand everything when she kept switching to her language but all in all this was an amazing interview.

  • @tshiamochauke5915
    @tshiamochauke5915 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    One of the best segments on TH-cam
    Geeesh what an episode. Being vulnerable with God. That is my biggest take away. Thank you for speaking with such wisdom sis Ayanda. I've learnt a lot from your journey. Buli, thank you for heeding the call sis, Lord knows we need to hear these kinds of conversations.

    • @BuliMakhubo
      @BuliMakhubo  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much ❤️

  • @mongwaitshephangkekana4876
    @mongwaitshephangkekana4876 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I have never loved someone I have never even met this much. What a lovely human being! Proudly of God and proudly human. Just wow!

  • @SophiaRampedi
    @SophiaRampedi ปีที่แล้ว +7

    "I will serve only when it gives Him glory, not when it gives me glory". I am taking that for myself.🙌🙏 Thank you for such an honest conversation.

  • @preciousmedupe4564
    @preciousmedupe4564 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Buli where do you get the candidates you interview😩😩😩you forever get it right 😫😫

    • @BuliMakhubo
      @BuliMakhubo  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The Holy Spirit ! No lie! 🙌🏽❤️

  • @matodzidavhana
    @matodzidavhana ปีที่แล้ว +14

    First episode came in strong!!! Am speechless, Gods covering is undeniable in her life.

    • @BuliMakhubo
      @BuliMakhubo  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I must agree! ❤️

  • @khahlisolekalakala5427
    @khahlisolekalakala5427 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What a powerful chat… I’m sitting here listening to this and asking “Lord, am I ‘ME’?”

  • @tabbywaithera9112
    @tabbywaithera9112 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I don't know why am watching this now..Buli so wise for her years.

  • @kabello_mohale
    @kabello_mohale ปีที่แล้ว +15

    So so so good!! I looove the realness in this!! Absolutely a need ❤❤❤

    • @BuliMakhubo
      @BuliMakhubo  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for watching sis 🤗❤️

  • @kodwat2134
    @kodwat2134 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This conversation reminds me of the saying, "we are created by God for God". Serving God is not about us; it is about Him. Thank you very much for this conversation.

  • @tebogomolefe
    @tebogomolefe ปีที่แล้ว +2

    All I know is...God is not the cause of our suffering. He's thoughts for us are thoughts if peace and not of evil. God allows the devil to present challenges in your life however He does not cause them. The enemy's main mission is to make us think that God is not there for us ,he will do anything in his power to get you in a position where to constantly doubt God.
    God promises to be there for us when we go through challenges. Continue to persist in your prayer, pray without ceasing , make your requests known to God and He will direct your paths and give you peace. You will ALWAYS connect with your destiny no matter how long it takes

  • @tebogomolefe
    @tebogomolefe ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I looooooooooooove this interview 😟❤Beautiful is an understatement 🥲
    Sis Ayanda! I have no words for you.
    "I'M ANOINTED BUT HAVEN'T BEEN INSTRUCTED" 🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @hlayisanimabunda
    @hlayisanimabunda ปีที่แล้ว +13

    "Holy Spirit, I feel your presence" killed me.
    I love this woman. I really enjoyed watching this episode 💯

  • @dimakatso_shaz
    @dimakatso_shaz ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I love Pastor A, used to serve at her church with her late husband. She's a masterpiece and a amazing vessel. I trust and believe that she will continue to touch many lives ... Thank you for this video ... I just subscribed

  • @mmothoagae_
    @mmothoagae_ ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I want that 4 hours for myself 😂 so raw and authentic, so much wisdom between you two ladies. urgh I was hooked 👏🏽 ❤

  • @adv.tebellomatsela
    @adv.tebellomatsela ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Being anointed and human must be a permitted in spiritual family. Loved this Sis Ayanda. Buli also announcing that anointing does not mean character. Come on! so privileged to listen to this as a single woman.

    • @nthatilemathe91
      @nthatilemathe91 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow! Amen! Someone please show this to all churches tu!

  • @seipatimathibela5448
    @seipatimathibela5448 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I cried so much shame! This episode was amazing, breaking boundaries that are created by society, wow! Ayanda keep doing what you doing and allow God to give you strength and courage to pull through..

  • @Imiolz
    @Imiolz 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This woman is so honest. 😭❤️

  • @Samantha-bc2uu
    @Samantha-bc2uu ปีที่แล้ว +5

    not married, but i needed this.

  • @boipeloandsipho
    @boipeloandsipho ปีที่แล้ว +3

    “There’s so much grace can do”🥺🥺

  • @Kevin_Makhubo
    @Kevin_Makhubo ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This right here is gold...Siyabonga Mrs Makhubo 👏🏿🔥👌🏾

  • @nomazizigabhayi5133
    @nomazizigabhayi5133 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Wow! I am touched by her testimony. I have recently lost my mother and I feel like “God for real? What the hell!?” I have prayed and fasted. All my life I have been serving God and nothing seems to work on my favour. I really feel robbed.
    Deep within me I want to commit to God again but I feel so much bitterness that I don’t have the capacity. At times I pray and worship but end with “Arg, whatever 🙄”
    I’ve been hearing the phrase from psalm 23 “He restores my soul” over and over again. I am waiting for a fresh encounter 😌

    • @NeliseAbigael.
      @NeliseAbigael. ปีที่แล้ว

      Go to God for healing, I promise Holy Spirit your counselor will guide and heal you through the grief

  • @jaqualenephasha
    @jaqualenephasha ปีที่แล้ว +2

    🥺Shuuu... It's amazing how we could live the rest of our lives on Earth not being ourselves... Anointed people go through the most💔. Who would have thought that this power couple was going through the most in private.
    Ps Ayanda❤️ you are still an amazing woman. Thank you Buli.

  • @boitumelokutlwano1716
    @boitumelokutlwano1716 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love Ps Ayanda...just 20 minutes in and I love her honesty and vulnerability. She's so real

  • @princessnamethe7334
    @princessnamethe7334 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    WHAT A CONVERSATION 🥺🥺I'm in AWE... WOW.. Shuuu

  • @mrsayeni
    @mrsayeni ปีที่แล้ว +7

    “Holy Spirit , I feel your presence”…. That part has me 😂🤣😂🤣😅🥹
    This conversation really made me realize that we actually need a lot of teaching on marriage and building a home. Because most of us come from broken homes where marriage and family life is very different from what the Bible teaches.
    So if we don’t learn to love ourselves and each other like Christ did, it becomes a real disaster 😢.
    Thank you so much sis Ayanda for sharing your story. And condolences for the loss of your husband. May the Holy Spirit continue to comfort and hug you at all times.
    Thank you so much Buli for such an amazing episode and a great conversation. Well done 🎉❤

    • @materenemolaoa1752
      @materenemolaoa1752 ปีที่แล้ว

      It sent me too mntakabawo. Haibo what! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😫

  • @silindilembongwa8379
    @silindilembongwa8379 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Oh this made me cry. I’ve never related so much to a video 😢we also met at church, got married in 5 months and so much happened. The cheating also happened and it was with a big girl 😅I wondered why I exercised so much Kanti he’s into big girls. 11yrs later 2 kids and we still together but it’s been quite a journey and a half

  • @nthatilemathe91
    @nthatilemathe91 ปีที่แล้ว

    AUTHENTICITY! ❤🙏

  • @ronellecandice1536
    @ronellecandice1536 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wooowwe this woman is a powerful woman of God, this is a Pastor

  • @lesegosenoelo
    @lesegosenoelo ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Buli we need Ps Ayanda back. omg this was so good. 🙌

  • @thandekaradebe19
    @thandekaradebe19 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Notification gang 💃... Another wife talk, ngi happy

  • @jloveclothingzaweartheword1315
    @jloveclothingzaweartheword1315 ปีที่แล้ว

    Woah😮! We enjoyed this

  • @materenemolaoa1752
    @materenemolaoa1752 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I can’t believe we are having this frrrrr. It’s so surreal. The vulnerability? Goodness.
    I never imagined it was going to end in him dying at the beginning of the story. Yho! 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 GOOD LORD! I’m so broken bathong

    • @materenemolaoa1752
      @materenemolaoa1752 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am so sorry, Pastor Ayanda. I’m terribly sorry.

  • @sybillamula
    @sybillamula ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow pastor A, what a powerhouse🙌🏿🙌🏿

  • @reammokankuna8916
    @reammokankuna8916 ปีที่แล้ว

    That was toooo goood 🔥🔥🔥❤️❤️

  • @Ntombi_Lusenga
    @Ntombi_Lusenga ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved this interview❤

  • @siphesihlemdletshemkhwanaz864
    @siphesihlemdletshemkhwanaz864 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow, what a conversation ❤

  • @happym3585
    @happym3585 ปีที่แล้ว

    Shuuuu what a conversation, thank you for sharing 👑👑

  • @maphanganomcebo4584
    @maphanganomcebo4584 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Ooohw the importance of dating (to find the character)… it’s so important
    Thank you for this video Buli 😊❤

  • @sibongilepooe9949
    @sibongilepooe9949 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Vulnerability is beautiful 💛

  • @lifewithlethu
    @lifewithlethu ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Was so captured from the start to finish, thank you for these episodes ❤

  • @anelemlambo5868
    @anelemlambo5868 ปีที่แล้ว

    Enjoy this❤❤❤

  • @osirohT
    @osirohT ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Powerful 🙏🏾

  • @naledimonaheng9836
    @naledimonaheng9836 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was truly empowering ❤

  • @kholofelomanhlwa2265
    @kholofelomanhlwa2265 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The honesty and vulnerability in this video🥹❤

  • @modiehiponyane6448
    @modiehiponyane6448 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This conversation is so good.

  • @lulahlatshwayo8423
    @lulahlatshwayo8423 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was wonderful, Thank you ladies!!!

  • @khudu_mthe
    @khudu_mthe ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Much needed video, thank you for bringing Ayanda ♥️ it's REAL

  • @thato_lioness
    @thato_lioness ปีที่แล้ว

    This was truly wholesome, so much wisdom 👏🏽❤

  • @lindiwekhumalo9189
    @lindiwekhumalo9189 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow sis, wow, I’m lost for words.

  • @phumelelazuma4704
    @phumelelazuma4704 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved Ayanda ngingamazi.. Love you Buli ❤

  • @sitdownswithsphiweLevenim6417
    @sitdownswithsphiweLevenim6417 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is quality content, loved this so much.

  • @nosisandlovu801
    @nosisandlovu801 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Notification peeps, am looking forward to the refined Journey aka Wife talk. My Lord always lead

  • @nyeletinsovo9216
    @nyeletinsovo9216 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤❤❤thank you Buli and ps ayanda

  • @portiasoji
    @portiasoji ปีที่แล้ว

    "in the anointing you wait for instruction" 👌

  • @nalediseokoma6651
    @nalediseokoma6651 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Notification gang🎉
    Looking beautiful as always Mrs Makhubo❤

  • @khunindlovu3310
    @khunindlovu3310 ปีที่แล้ว

    I loved this soo much the vulnerability

  • @kutlwanopooe8112
    @kutlwanopooe8112 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🥹Yoh! What a powerful episode , thank you Buli, you are truly redefining marriages 💕

  • @NolwaziMshengu
    @NolwaziMshengu ปีที่แล้ว

    This convo.... Top tier! So many takeaways. Thank you!

  • @mphobubbly
    @mphobubbly ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Shu! What a chat! What an amazing, empowering and heartwarming chat ladies! I absolutely enjoyed this! Thank you Ayanda and Buli!❤

  • @faithngwenya7634
    @faithngwenya7634 ปีที่แล้ว

    The transparency I love this learnt alot speechless👌

  • @silindilembongwa8379
    @silindilembongwa8379 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How I wish I can hug that lady 😭💛

  • @balungile_maswazi
    @balungile_maswazi ปีที่แล้ว +1

    “I’m angry kodwa wena ungubayede”

  • @tabbimaepe3867
    @tabbimaepe3867 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow what a powerful podcast . Thanks ladies

  • @basetsanaratlhogo2922
    @basetsanaratlhogo2922 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow I love Pastor A already, her honesty ❤

  • @Nganekafekza
    @Nganekafekza ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This touched me 🥹🥹🥹That's all I can say for now

  • @siszama2294
    @siszama2294 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ayanda is amazing 💕

  • @lerato_phakathi_
    @lerato_phakathi_ ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow, thank you for such a beautiful episode! We truly bless God that such conversations are out there for us to listen to and learn!

  • @FaeChapunza
    @FaeChapunza ปีที่แล้ว

    What an amazing segment 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺❣️

  • @Onalenna_Thobega
    @Onalenna_Thobega ปีที่แล้ว +1

    she was soooooo amazing. Argh💞💞💞💞

  • @tebogomohwaduba7529
    @tebogomohwaduba7529 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What a brave conversation. Thank you, Pastor A❤

  • @classwithtrimofa6171
    @classwithtrimofa6171 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this❤

  • @masanarikhotso5780
    @masanarikhotso5780 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is so relatable ♥️

  • @nomthimkhize3675
    @nomthimkhize3675 ปีที่แล้ว

    OH Buli meaningful conversations thank you so much Aya for sharing with us.....

  • @lindatafeni9402
    @lindatafeni9402 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good work Buli 🙌💞

  • @nandiphasomana8501
    @nandiphasomana8501 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Buli maaaarn😍🤗

  • @DearLisa
    @DearLisa ปีที่แล้ว +1

    DELIVERED. Thank you Bui and Pastor Ayanda, may God continue to bless both of you

  • @roselineuiras8603
    @roselineuiras8603 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Powerful, powerful. Thank you Buli for always bring the best for me to learn from. Took away so much. 💖💖🌹🌹💕. This year is going to be all that which HE has in store for you and yours.

  • @arinahosharon6354
    @arinahosharon6354 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yooooh Buli what a beautiful segment👌👌👌👌

  • @mandisadlamini3565
    @mandisadlamini3565 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What a beautiful and honest conversation, I feel revived

  • @rukudzokariwo6190
    @rukudzokariwo6190 ปีที่แล้ว

    The transparency!!!!!!! thanks Buli for serving relevant content.

  • @Aphiwe.Q.Mramba
    @Aphiwe.Q.Mramba ปีที่แล้ว

    WOW I'm astounded.

  • @kundaipatson1771
    @kundaipatson1771 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was everything! the wisdom, the vulnerability honestly left me in awe. Thank you

  • @lorrainezimbizi1326
    @lorrainezimbizi1326 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wooooow what a powerful episode!! Definitely need a part 2. Thank you ladies for being so honest and allowing God to use you 🙏