The Lord definitely has changed my view on marriage and I’m learning that it is truly a ministry bcuz it is utilized to promote and build up the kingdom of God
Marriage its not about making you happy it's about making you Holy. You have to be selfless, humble, submissive and if you not willing to that then don't get married
I remember the Lord taught me a big lesson, I literally prayed for a guy I liked in my church when I was new to the faith, I thought I was so ready for marriage….literally two months in he was going to pop the question when we barely knew each other. Long story short, i was not ready, i still had a lot to learn in the faith, in life, in him…so I apologized, and learned my lesson to not rush because God knew and will always know better.
I really glad that people are being more honest about what marriage is! I am excited to meet my man of God and serve him & grow in God with him. But Ik the Lord is still working on me 😭.. He’s like “You can wait.” 😂
What these young ladies are saying is SO on point. One of the first messages I listened to on this subject that actually helped me truly "get it" was by pastor Toure Roberts called 5 keys to your soulmate. This was one of the most powerful and insightful messages I had ever heard on marraige and its true purpose. I begin to have a whole different veiw and understanding of how important it is for your marriage to be in the perfect will of God!
Ewwww weee!! Y’all, I just got another revelation! We can also apply this to “Ohhh I want a baby! I want a family!” Being a mother or father is a ‘ministry’ and it requires a lot (a lot) of giving/serving unto another human life day in and day out whether you want to or not (feel like it or not) and let’s not forget the ‘baby shower’ phase when everyone is all “awww look at the belly! Awww congrats 🎊🎈🎉!” is over and after you have the baby (s) and when reality truly sets in after year 1, 2 & 3. Let’s talk about this too! Not everyone should do a thing just because you can do a thing especially if you are not “equipped” prior to but so many folks want to apply the “if God called you to it, then he’ll bring you through it” but many will take their children and spouses “through” so many ‘unnecessary’ hardships and traumas that they didn’t need to if they would have only waited a little while longer and been better equipped and prepared’ for what was up ahead. 🚫⚠️⛔️✝️
Facts! This is the main reason I am allowing the Lord, to clean, transform, and refine me before I meet the one and get married (and also pray for God also to do the same in your future husband). I want to be whole In Christ and equipped enough to honor a Godly Marriage, one that is aligned with God's will and purpose.
I’m so grateful to have a GREAT MARRIAGE. Great is NEVER perfect but I’m truly blessed… Ladies and Gentleman there’s great people out there don’t give up… And always be happy being single ❤❤❤
So trueee!! This is why the Catholic Church places Marriage as a sacrament, giving it very high importance in the Christian life. Marriage isn’t just some contract, it’s a mirror of the trinity!! It takes discernment to know if you’ve been called to the vocation of marriage or singleness, but regardless, the aim is to grow in love of God and neighbor! Not for how cute the couple looks together but for how you can help your spouse grow in holiness. I pray we all listen to the promptings of the Holy Spirit so we may find that good and perfect Will of God for us in our lives!! 🤲🏾
Giiiiiirrrrrlllll!!! 😂 I told my friend about a month ago that it is cool to talk about marriage in theory, yet when God is preparing you in the moment it's like,"wait a minute Father 😂 I wasn't ready".
I’m young but when I was younger I wanted marriage for the look and then 18-21 I didn’t want to be married at all. I got hurt and I didn’t care, but God and I had this agreement that my views on marriage are only going to change when I find my husband. My current bf is the first time I ever considered being somebody’s wife and we both want God at the center of it. I know I got my sign
Such a conviction! Praise God for the confirmation of releasing the idol of Marriage! Paul actually advises in 1 Corinthians against marriage because it is a distraction of serving God to serving your partner! #BeInformed 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️
I got saved at 24 and now I’m 56. I have never married, had kids and honestly haven’t been in many relationships, my longest relationship was 6 months in 2004, and I got engaged and called it off because he was not my husband because we would never have been in alignment with ministry! I learned this fact at 26, so I have always viewed men with the mindset that God will bring me to him for purpose and I have NEVER met a man who actually cared about my spirit;just my flesh. I look at people and how they treat each other when they claim they love each other, and I say I’ve never been in love before either. At first, I thought I had commitment issue, but I don’t stay in anything that isn’t nourishing me, so not even the same job for more than 3.5 years. I really live a pretty fearless life and have always trusted GOD! I sometimes think what my life will be like as I am now aging and all alone but I think God will call me home before I am without the help I may need if I get old and sickly!
I wish I had your revelation earlier. I can't change my decision. There are children involved. There is nothing wrong in the marriage. I think that I was supposed to be alone.
@@denno3124 It doesn't matter where I met them, what matters is I didn't keep them. People can carry the same behaviors in the church, work, grocery store, online, etc. You focusing on the wrong thing!
@veewalker4472 I humbly disagree. You're misreading my questions and assume that I'm referring to meeting men at church. Actually I'm wondering if you have faithful and mature believers in your community and why they are not spotting these wolves. Ma'am, respectfully, if you're meeting and drawing the same type of man, good or bad, with consistency...it whispers about something inside of you. I used to draw a certain type of woman too...and it stopped when I stopped being the type of man that was appealing to them. I know plenty of men that are the exact type of man you're saying you never met...and they're just about all married. There is biblical self-examination involved, like it or not.
Very important 😊❤ praise God It’s always important to know and remember that relationship with Him is Most Important only He completes us satisfies us makes us whole 😊❤
❤❤❤❤❤❤ 💯 This is so correct and women who jump in and stay in long messed up relationships make comments about women that want to stay single until God sends them the right person. They're afraid to be alone they think you're at home crying but everybody not upset with being by themself. You have to be content with being by yourself 1st..
You better be equipped. Marriage is not for the look of it..marriage is a ministry. I am waiting, Lord. Equip me while I wait. I love these two ladies. I am a forever loner but I do not want a marriage for the look of it. I want a ministry.. Lord I am in your hans
You two, are tag teaching good stuff, good wisdom! Marriage is ministry! It is work! We need to be equipped and ready! Not at all, about the look of it! ❤😊
According to Jesus Christ when a Man finds a wife he has found a good thing an when the Man is Married he is going to do the things that please his wife! 😇🙏
Comeeee onnnnnn miss Megan!!! Wheww its crazy how the Lord has been working in your life since you and B first spoke about starting your walk with the Lord. Its a beautiful thing to see. 🥹🤍
Yes it’s our flesh that prioritizes how to get the need met of loneliness but it’s a HUMAN NEED. I want us to stop demonizing our needs and encourage one another more on healthier ways to seek those needs IN CHRIST…
Correct ✅ : I got married at 19 we both was young and was rushed into it. : Later in a life we ended in divorce after 17yrs of marriage. : Within the last two years my perspective has change drastically about marriage. : I just didn’t wanted to end up like my own mother. : I desire what my grandparents build but found out later in life there was infidelity also in their marriage. : I love this short clip,, because if though I am not rushing this time around. I am thriving for a great and peaceful union
yes marriage isn’t all about me me me , it’s all about God and same thing with living our personal lives , we live for God not for our fleshly desires .
❤❤❤❤❤ thanks thanks thanksss so good grateful for these, I am married and thanks so good excited how did I just discover you...more blessing talks GOD Bless you and your channel
Amen it's to glory the the lord not to please the flesh but the covenant we enter marriage for that's when two become one when find wife find good thing
The Lord definitely has changed my view on marriage and I’m learning that it is truly a ministry bcuz it is utilized to promote and build up the kingdom of God
So true ❤😊
That part.
When they said marriage is a ministry you are going to serve 🙌🏽🙌🏽
Marriage is simply a reflection of the covenant that God has & intended with his bride.
@@BabeKay01 true that n it's not about being us it's all about God
Marriage its not about making you happy it's about making you Holy. You have to be selfless, humble, submissive and if you not willing to that then don't get married
Exactly. A lot of people don't have this stance.
WOW....Ive never heard it broken down that way....🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤❤❤
Which is why a person should be wise to only marry a person who's willing to do the same.
Period
The Lord has taught me alot in my singleness
I remember the Lord taught me a big lesson, I literally prayed for a guy I liked in my church when I was new to the faith, I thought I was so ready for marriage….literally two months in he was going to pop the question when we barely knew each other. Long story short, i was not ready, i still had a lot to learn in the faith, in life, in him…so I apologized, and learned my lesson to not rush because God knew and will always know better.
I really glad that people are being more honest about what marriage is! I am excited to meet my man of God and serve him & grow in God with him. But Ik the Lord is still working on me 😭.. He’s like “You can wait.” 😂
Same.
🤣🤣🤣😂
My former pastor used to say the single are praying to get in and the married people are praying to get out...iykyk
Chiiiiile😂
😂😂😂
This goes for the man also God says we must love our wife as Christ loves the church 💯
What these young ladies are saying is SO on point.
One of the first messages I listened to on this subject that actually helped me truly "get it" was by pastor Toure Roberts called 5 keys to your soulmate. This was one of the most powerful and insightful messages I had ever heard on marraige and its true purpose. I begin to have a whole different veiw and understanding of how important it is for your marriage to be in the perfect will of God!
"You better be equipped." ❤🙏🏾
Ewwww weee!! Y’all, I just got another revelation! We can also apply this to “Ohhh I want a baby! I want a family!” Being a mother or father is a ‘ministry’ and it requires a lot (a lot) of giving/serving unto another human life day in and day out whether you want to or not (feel like it or not) and let’s not forget the ‘baby shower’ phase when everyone is all “awww look at the belly! Awww congrats 🎊🎈🎉!” is over and after you have the baby (s) and when reality truly sets in after year 1, 2 & 3. Let’s talk about this too! Not everyone should do a thing just because you can do a thing especially if you are not “equipped” prior to but so many folks want to apply the “if God called you to it, then he’ll bring you through it” but many will take their children and spouses “through” so many ‘unnecessary’ hardships and traumas that they didn’t need to if they would have only waited a little while longer and been better equipped and prepared’ for what was up ahead. 🚫⚠️⛔️✝️
That There Is A Word In Itself AMEN❤
This is it!!!
Talk about it!!!
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Preach!!!!
Facts! This is the main reason I am allowing the Lord, to clean, transform, and refine me before I meet the one and get married (and also pray for God also to do the same in your future husband). I want to be whole In Christ and equipped enough to honor a Godly Marriage, one that is aligned with God's will and purpose.
I’m so grateful to have a GREAT MARRIAGE. Great is NEVER perfect but I’m truly blessed… Ladies and Gentleman there’s great people out there don’t give up… And always be happy being single ❤❤❤
So trueee!! This is why the Catholic Church places Marriage as a sacrament, giving it very high importance in the Christian life. Marriage isn’t just some contract, it’s a mirror of the trinity!! It takes discernment to know if you’ve been called to the vocation of marriage or singleness, but regardless, the aim is to grow in love of God and neighbor! Not for how cute the couple looks together but for how you can help your spouse grow in holiness.
I pray we all listen to the promptings of the Holy Spirit so we may find that good and perfect Will of God for us in our lives!! 🤲🏾
Giiiiiirrrrrlllll!!! 😂 I told my friend about a month ago that it is cool to talk about marriage in theory, yet when God is preparing you in the moment it's like,"wait a minute Father 😂 I wasn't ready".
Exactly
Ive never been married.
"I wanted the family goals"
That was a word.!!.
The Holy Spirit spoke to me after that.
Thank you!!
How old are you?
Praise God 😊❤
Yes God changed my view on this. I am a single mother but I know God won't make me do marriage a mistake ❤
That was my mindset but God is working tremendously on my right now. I’m truly blessed to have found him before it was too late
I’m young but when I was younger I wanted marriage for the look and then 18-21 I didn’t want to be married at all. I got hurt and I didn’t care, but God and I had this agreement that my views on marriage are only going to change when I find my husband. My current bf is the first time I ever considered being somebody’s wife and we both want God at the center of it. I know I got my sign
Such a conviction! Praise God for the confirmation of releasing the idol of Marriage! Paul actually advises in 1 Corinthians against marriage because it is a distraction of serving God to serving your partner! #BeInformed 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️
I got saved at 24 and now I’m 56. I have never married, had kids and honestly haven’t been in many relationships, my longest relationship was 6 months in 2004, and I got engaged and called it off because he was not my husband because we would never have been in alignment with ministry! I learned this fact at 26, so I have always viewed men with the mindset that God will bring me to him for purpose and I have NEVER met a man who actually cared about my spirit;just my flesh. I look at people and how they treat each other when they claim they love each other, and I say I’ve never been in love before either. At first, I thought I had commitment issue, but I don’t stay in anything that isn’t nourishing me, so not even the same job for more than 3.5 years. I really live a pretty fearless life and have always trusted GOD! I sometimes think what my life will be like as I am now aging and all alone but I think God will call me home before I am without the help I may need if I get old and sickly!
you the strongest. wish I never got into relationships.
I wish I had your revelation earlier. I can't change my decision. There are children involved. There is nothing wrong in the marriage. I think that I was supposed to be alone.
You've never met a man that cared about your spirit....ever? Who and how are you meeting these men you've met?
@@denno3124 It doesn't matter where I met them, what matters is I didn't keep them. People can carry the same behaviors in the church, work, grocery store, online, etc. You focusing on the wrong thing!
@veewalker4472 I humbly disagree. You're misreading my questions and assume that I'm referring to meeting men at church. Actually I'm wondering if you have faithful and mature believers in your community and why they are not spotting these wolves. Ma'am, respectfully, if you're meeting and drawing the same type of man, good or bad, with consistency...it whispers about something inside of you. I used to draw a certain type of woman too...and it stopped when I stopped being the type of man that was appealing to them. I know plenty of men that are the exact type of man you're saying you never met...and they're just about all married. There is biblical self-examination involved, like it or not.
Very important 😊❤ praise God
It’s always important to know and remember that relationship with Him is Most Important only He completes us satisfies us makes us whole 😊❤
❤❤❤❤❤❤ 💯
This is so correct and women who jump in and stay in long messed up relationships make comments about women that want to stay single until God sends them the right person. They're afraid to be alone they think you're at home crying but everybody not upset with being by themself. You have to be content with being by yourself 1st..
1 Thess. 5:17-"Pray without ceasing."
Truth!
Amen. Thank you Lord Jesus for always showing us Your Perfect Way. Marriage . 🙏🏻✝️
This is biblical Truth 🙏🏾 Great conversation!
So good! Thank you Jesus for these words full of wisdom!
Marriage is an assignment from GOD. STAY IN YOUR LANE AND RUN THE RACE. HIKE THE BALL, PLEASE.
Don't submit to nobody who isn't submitted unto the Lord!!!!
Amen our Lord heavenly Father!!!😊😊🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
That is why I am not longer keen to get married, I realised that marriage is not what I thought it is. I am enjoying the single hood.
Sounds like wisdom. You might find yourself more prepared than the ladies that want it.
same!
Haha good viewpoint
Me too facts
You better be equipped. Marriage is not for the look of it..marriage is a ministry. I am waiting, Lord. Equip me while I wait. I love these two ladies. I am a forever loner but I do not want a marriage for the look of it. I want a ministry.. Lord I am in your hans
It is all about everyone else ....can you serve, submit and have God say at the end "Well done good and faithful servant?"
Wow.
Absolutely love your content. Thank you for being a pillar to help my spirit grow! 🙏🏾
God doesn't want us to be confuse he give us peace as we keep our mind on him
Wait on the Lord let your husband choose you never have sex before marriage and sure he is not a half devil. Now me and my husband need deliverance.
I thank God for his grace and blood and mercy. I should be dead but to God be glorified I am not.thank you Jesus 🙏 💯 ❤
It is dangerous to be unevenly yoked this is my part of my testimony
Stay playful ladies Jesus love you
You two, are tag teaching good stuff, good wisdom!
Marriage is ministry!
It is work!
We need to be equipped and ready!
Not at all, about the look of it! ❤😊
❤❤❤❤ I love both of them. They hit the nail on the head.
Powerful word ❤️ ❤God bless you 🙏
It’s ALL MINISTRY!!! ❤ For you and them🫶🏾
AMEN👏🏼👏🏼 Family is your first ministry!
I love this message. God is all over me and I love it 🙌🏾🙌🏾
What edge control do you use??
Megan your edges look amazing🎉🎉🎉🎉
They dropping fire over this beat 😂
This completely changed my mind, positively. Thank you so much for this episode
According to Jesus Christ when a Man finds a wife he has found a good thing an when the Man is Married he is going to do the things that please his wife! 😇🙏
Comeeee onnnnnn miss Megan!!! Wheww its crazy how the Lord has been working in your life since you and B first spoke about starting your walk with the Lord. Its a beautiful thing to see. 🥹🤍
I needed to hear this. Bless you ladies for sharing how God is growing yall!🎉
This just set me back lol I’m not ready and I’m not in it for the “look”. Thank you for having this conversation😊
Same!!!
It’s a ministry! That hit🤧
Powerful, marriage is a Ministry.It should be all about God
Yes 🙌🏾 we have to equip ourselves fully 🤍
We need the whole episode like yesterday ❤😂.
Yes it’s our flesh that prioritizes how to get the need met of loneliness but it’s a HUMAN NEED. I want us to stop demonizing our needs and encourage one another more on healthier ways to seek those needs IN CHRIST…
Really good!!!!
Very well said. Being lonely is not demonic. We just need to know that it can lead us astray if not properly channeled.🙏🏾
Laniiiii ❤ we’re so proud of you!!!
This conversation is rich and so timely💜💜
Correct ✅
:
I got married at 19 we both was young and was rushed into it.
:
Later in a life we ended in divorce after 17yrs of marriage.
:
Within the last two years my perspective has change drastically about marriage.
:
I just didn’t wanted to end up like my own mother.
:
I desire what my grandparents build but found out later in life there was infidelity also in their marriage.
:
I love this short clip,, because if though I am not rushing this time around. I am thriving for a great and peaceful union
Ohhhh I needed this! Laced my boots up real good!!
This is what Tiphani Montgomery teaches in her book “The year of the bride”
Spot on.. 🙏🏿💕💕
But the sentiment and the rest is spot on !!!
This young lady is so wise in The Lord.
Love this podcast, they cover a range of topics
Doomed is the word!!! She nailed it 😮💨💯
Amen needed to hear this 🙏❤
May God Speed❤❤❤
This part!!!!❤
Absolutely 💯 💯 ❤
WOW THAT JUST HIT ME. THANKS FOR THIS!!!
yes marriage isn’t all about me me me , it’s all about God and same thing with living our personal lives , we live for God not for our fleshly desires .
Girl where I stand today Im convinced like crazy! Did I not walk into a relationship and try and please a man?!
Absolutely! Thanks for sharing, God bless you.
Amen blessed ladies
Cmon Megan with the TRUTH ‼️👏🏽
This hit me❤
Period!!! Love this
❤❤❤❤❤ thanks thanks thanksss so good grateful for these, I am married and thanks so good excited how did I just discover you...more blessing talks GOD Bless you and your channel
SN: Ashleys braids always look so good!
Say it.... This episode is sooooooooo good 😭😭😭
What’s the name of the episode? I couldn’t find it.
@@NiyaLatriceaudio is out on sportify Ep 35, visual out on Wed.
Thank you!
Amen it's to glory the the lord not to please the flesh but the covenant we enter marriage for that's when two become one when find wife find good thing
Ma'am you were sent for me....this literally God talking to me
Marriage is an institution set up by God. But yet we forget God and take him out of it
You be having some good clips!
Ministry ❤
💯Say it louder🗣🗣🗣📢📢📣📣🔊🔊
You girls are so beautiful 🔥🔥🔥
Love the look, not the maintenance
I follow her on IG. So I’m looking forward to watching this
does she have youtube page?
@@tryittamixo I can’t remember if she does. I know she’s in fitness.
yu better be equiped, Girrrl that catch my senses
Good topic💯👏🏽
It's most definitely about your husband just as much as Christ and the Heavenly Father.
So true ❤😊
Talk about it 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Amen
This made me think of B Simone since she's always talking about wanting to get married. Hopefully she watches this episode. ❤
The truth !!!!!
Interesting topic discussed! Can you tell me name of song playing in background? ✝️✝️✝️
Confusion is of Satan always remember that.
It’s a MINISTRY😊
ITS A MINISTRY!!! Cmon!!!
These are the facts
Where is the rest of the video? I need to hear this before I get married.
Once you have 2 healthy whole God fearing person in a marriage, it is easier to submit to each other and key word, being SELFLESS