How do You Know You're Ready for Marriage?

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 24 มี.ค. 2020
  • Dianna Nepstad and Rebecca Crews answer "How can we know we met the right man and you are ready for marriage."
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  • @ItsMyLifeDaralynn
    @ItsMyLifeDaralynn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +237

    When he doesn't inconvenience himself for you, he doesn't love you. Amen!

  • @nxtchpforme9154
    @nxtchpforme9154 3 ปีที่แล้ว +137

    She has a gentle demeanor.

  • @amandashongwe3521
    @amandashongwe3521 4 ปีที่แล้ว +154

    Thank you Mrs Crews. It was painful to hear but I needed to hear this.

  • @alanamaharaj
    @alanamaharaj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    I think another point to look for if YOU are ready is: are you ready to submit to him? God calls us to submit to our husbands (and surely he is supposed to be worthy of that submission as he must be submitted to Christ first), and not to try to lead him or be controlling, but able to submit to this man of God as the head of the household. If you are not ready to submit then I don't think one can be ready for a God-ordained marriage.

  • @aalayacooper2948
    @aalayacooper2948 3 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    When you become the aggressor in the relationship, you are with the wrong man.

  • @itsbelledivine
    @itsbelledivine 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    It's crazy because I'm hearing it through a lens of how we should love God: putting Him as priority above all else, making sacrifices, not having a compartmentalized life but going all in to love...

  • @MoMotivation0304
    @MoMotivation0304 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Lord this is what I went through for 10 years. I kept thinking he would treat me better and start showing love again through action. He was able once, but the damage was done & things never were the same. I finally left after 15yrs. Lord continue to give me strength, cuz it hurts.

  • @ladennayoung2939
    @ladennayoung2939 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Yep. This is true. Lord bless us to be patient, and wait for the one that YOU have for us in Jesus name. Amen.

  • @bluebelle6833
    @bluebelle6833 3 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    This is so true, I left my ex husband, because I was never first, even with the women he cheated on me with. I have never been happier, God told me to get out and I did

  • @dorisruffin4700
    @dorisruffin4700 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You ladies are saying all the right words! Diana Epps Ted well said, “When you (disconnect) from your mom, your dad and you (become) a unit all on your own.” Don’t get involved with anyone that’s not willing to cut the umbilical cord with their mama.

  • @thandoq
    @thandoq 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    They were just dragging me by the edges here 😭😭😭

  • @cnD64
    @cnD64 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Amen, so true!! I see that with my husband, he literally said he would do anything for me when we first started dating. It was then I realized he really does love me!

  • @FavouredNancy88
    @FavouredNancy88 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    I couldn't be more happier watching this. God bless this team. Found this channel a week ago. I've been blessed

  • @girlyessencee5273
    @girlyessencee5273 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    This message is so on time. I get a lot of pressure from the people around me to get a man and to get married. But deep down inside of me I know, that I'm not ready, I'm quite independent and still trying to figure out different aspects of my life. Marriage is truly about two people becoming one and building a future together in agreement.

  • @kathywherry9810
    @kathywherry9810 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Thank you for the confirmation. I broke up with this guy because I started seeing that he did not make sacrifices for me.. Glad I made the right decision.

  • @HotHoneyAndSpice
    @HotHoneyAndSpice 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I just want to say how grateful and blessed I’ve been by these videos. Thank you for sharing your Godly wisdom ☺️

  • @speakintothemicb
    @speakintothemicb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    That is so true! I've been engaged twice. Before going deeper in those relationships I asked myself can I see myself with this person 5 years from now? My answer was no. If you don't see a vision with him let him go. She is so right.

  • @wendyomanga
    @wendyomanga 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    am so blessed by this message. a blessed, prosperous and happy marriage is my portion here on earth. may God provide.

  • @adielegrace5135
    @adielegrace5135 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Loved the wisdom, these two women are simply overflowing with the Love and wisdom of God, like your fairy Godmothers who will not let you settle for any less than the best God has for you,😍...sending out bug hugs to you two😘❤️

  • @royaldominionauthorityglob4813
    @royaldominionauthorityglob4813 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I met Diana Nepstad a few years ago at a Women’s Conference in Savannah. I love this show/panel of diverse group of women on fire for God!