absolutely right! She has totally wrong idea about this being first. All the women will share the same Yammie... might even be more than 2 one day. The youngest, prettiest and give birth first will be his priority, never her
Its in some of the Muslim culture but the 1st wife as all say if she say he can't be with wife number 2 then he won't. As far as I no from my Muslim friends. I just feel it for her coz she dont see he don't wont to marry her in real life, maybe this is for fame coz if he wanted a green card he can apply for study or something. Hmmmm makes u think 🤔 on his full intentions.
@@Diamond-sf5dk Pff course it is for money and trying to get fame in the us as he have not begomme rich and famous in Nigeria who is a country witj many ppl. Hollywood rich ppl to but is ppl Who is talented but is very few Who followes him who is a few thousend and is from a country where is hundred of millions of ppl. He is a user and he does not hode it well, he is might not smart enogh to hide it and she is not smart social and emotial she does not know how to be loved in a romanticly way as she show in the series att least. I hope she and all other women who can give hin a green card and money stay away from him so he dont use them to.
that's probably why he has moved clear across the country where nobody knows him or her and so he doesn't have to endure her ridiculous behavior in his every day life.
It is her choice, kids are not responsible for their parents stupidity, and addictions. Crap, she a skeezy old lady and playing the victim card while she makes herself a victim.
I agree she needs to leave I think it's gonna hurt her beyond belief if she stays but it's hard to feel bad for her she needs to leave and not go back.
In Africa, the bride is the prize. You cannot negotiate so much with a man about his family 'blessing' for them to accept you. It should be the other way round! Kim is literally begging for the blessing, for them to accept her. It's weird and so wrong!
Exactly.. this is sooo uncalled for .. no African man doing this .. that’s why the family having a big problem.. in our culture she being a man .. and if she gotta fight this hard that’s not ur man
Totally agree however age sometimes plays a role and the fact that his family can't directly communicate with Kim's family, it becomes this complicated
Period! My American husband knows I am the prize and followed tradition. I did not have to chase him even though he's from a different culture. I'm starting to think these people are acting lol
Kim. You need to leave him behind. You deserve better. Never the second wife. Stupidity. He's not for you. His family will never accept you as wife. Leave them
Does it really matter if she’s the first or second wife? If he doesn’t really love her and once he has a baby, does she honestly believe he’s going to abandon his baby mama and spend 24/7 with her? Whatever ounce of sympathy I had for her is gone.... She needs to move on and work on herself! Geez...
The fact that she wants another woman to be used as a brood mare make me sick. I do not feel bad at all for her being used for a green card. Horrible person. 🤢 what kind of woman wants a woman to be used to make babies and left alone?
She has treated him like he is a king 🤴 it's both of them that created this situation her for being for acting stupid and him to think he is God's gift to women....Kim has to accept 2nd wife status or go home Usman knows she's going to bow down to him...and yes Kim you need to think about your son and what you acting like a desperate white woman
She will accept it. I knew the second I heard her say “I don’t want you to meet her while I’m here”. It sounded to me like she had already resigned herself to it and the only stipulation to him meeting this other woman was that he not do it while Kimberly was, basically, sitting there watching. Usman was right, all he had to do was have some patients and wear her down.
Not really....its his culture. Thats all. Thjs is what happens when women run over there thinking they are gonna find a better man. Its a different ball game and these men are manipulators *the best* and their families have alot of power in their relationships.
After Usman's mother rejected Kim.. his true colors started showing even more. He's manipulative and thinks he can manipulate his own family the way he manipulates her.
Yess ! He’s Muslim. He’s supposed to give her a “ dowery” something like money, a cow, goat etc., or something of long term value , gold etc. She needs to do some research, she’s cheating herself.
Angela was giving a gift as a gift, nothing more. She wasn’t bribing the family or paying dowry. Since when is it gullible to gift a potential family member wrong? Would you like to discuss the traditions of gifting a play station? No prob not. These are 2 different cultures colliding, it’s not all one way dude.
My heart ♥ breaks for her son. Can't imagine the shame he has to endure watching a mother with such a low self esteem. His friends laughing at him etc. Gosh it's awful.
FINALLY!! Someone caught that the mom wants him to meet HIS COUSIN to possibly marry!!! No other blogger has reported that MAJOR fact except you. I started to think I was crazy. 😳
@kristi That’s because it not an exaggeration in those countries. That’s like being surprised in family marrying each other in game of thrones or house of dragons
I find it very touching to see Usman's brother and mother warming up and opening up and smiling, bonding over the black son and her service in the army
I admire Kim for standing up for herself and speaking for herself, even after Usman said he had a "plan" to get his family on board. Once his family showed up he was quiet and Kim took control over the situation. When he saw his family warming up, Usman had a voice.
Kim is ill advised. I am a lawyer in Nigeria. Statutory marriage under the Marriage Act entered into after a customary marriage to another person is null and void. As such, the U. S embassy should reject the marriage certificate to be presented. I advise people to seek lawyers advise on issues relating to marriage with legal implications in Nigeria. There are two types of marriages in Nigeria. Marriage under the Act also called statutory marriage and customary marriage under which we have Islamic marriage and traditional marriage. If a couple elects to marry in Nigeria under the Act, a second marriage is criminalized even if done only by customary law. It's strictly monogamous. The law provides further to sue for damages a concubine who interferes in the marriage and adultery is a Fact to disolve a statutory marriage. The other type is opened to the discretion of the man to whether or not to take subsequent wives. So, if a Nigerian man deceives a woman to enter into only customary marriage, you are sitting on a long thing. No sanctity of marriage enjoyable.
@@aquariusmedia9307 Thank you! Have you thought of having your own channel on TH-cam? I really like how you explained the laws and how it affects the people on 90 Day Fiance. Have a blessed day.
LOL I was wondering if anyone else had caught the Cousin thing!!! Usman said “Mom has a friend she wants me to meet”. I wonder what Kim would have said if he actually told her that the woman his Mom wants him to see is his cousin?
Probably in a way that was going to get her a “hell no” as an answer. In my opinion if it’s a distant cousin (like miles down the family tree) and that he didn’t grow up with her, it wouldn’t be too too bad.
@@vlgx00x I was thinking the same thing but I do know for a fact in Islam you can marry cousins. East indians/Pakistani do it as well as Arabs….most people from anywhere who are Muslim.
It’s clear as day that she’s doesn’t want that. People need to do research before dating other people from different states and how marriage goes there
She doesn't want him anywhere near another woman. I'd hate to be anywhere near her when she knows he's giving the yammy to another woman. She's gonna be on the warpath straight up!
She has said that his children can’t come to America with him and that made me loose all respect for her. She has the audacity to want to put herself over his children. Truly a trash human being.
@@chocolatebunny3221 if usman had children before kim fine i would say no problem but to marry another woman and to make babies than bring them to US soil on kim dime hell nawl. Kim better wake tf up and roll tf out and find someone in U S already!
Does nobody realize that Kim cannot bring him here on a K-1 visa if he's already married to someone else? So it should be a non-starter. That gives Kim all the power. Although, I think she should just leave him there.
That's his mom's plan and making sure he doesn't leave the country. Nobody is remembering her saying he should not leave at all. His mom knows he can't have a wife therr and get a K1 visa to marry an American. She's not going to let him marry Kim 1st because she knows if that happens, he might not marry a girl there and he will just leave.
@@5050TM to me he is looking old! Maybe it's the stress of trying to be an entertainer or trying to keep Kim on the line as a provider etc but he's looking bad!
I'm sorry, Kim threatens him constantly and when he snaps now he's the bad guy. She has thrown drinks in his face on TV so who's really the disrespectful one. Also telling her friends " African women, are used to having babies and not being loved" WTF!!!!. Kim take your ass home!.
Kim I don't think she understands the whole concept of 1st or 2nd or 3rd wife....and at one point Usmans mom said they can't married until Usman marries the 1st wife and has a child then he can take a 2nd wife....but i think Usman will not want Kim as a 2nd wife he's might her be 3 rd or 4th....but she isn't going to get the status she wants
@@story_Tailer what hurts me the most that she is willing to settle for a first wife, like that changes anything. Does she know that in the northern part of Nigeria, when women are on their period they are considered unclean and they mostly married younger girls. Thats why the other parts of Nigeria, like the eastern, western and southern do not associate with them. Kim is just embrassing herself and i feel so bad for her son.
Kim thought showing a photo and talking about some common ground would change a person's mind on a strong religious/cultural belief, and all in the course of a 10 minute conversation? lol.
@@louisamoon5175 She knows he’s taking another wife, so why be annoyed? Geez, next thing she’ll tell him, you can’t mention your other wife in my presence.
@@louisamoon5175 bullshit, that's covert racism. He's Nigerian and explained the culture, his family and friends explained the culture, because she's a white American woman that is a sexual deviant, she believes it's her right to demand he charges his culture to fit her. Go home old lady, seek a man in your culture and stop stalking young ignorant Black men.
This woman legit tried to use her son Jamel as a race card. Holy crap !! 🥺First she tries to buy an African man with a MacBook and a PlayStation 5, then his Mom’s approval with a cow, now it’s my son is half black. OMG, I thought marrying a cop killer for clout was bad but this woman is so trashy I can’t even. Obviously Jamel got ALL the good genes. Poor guy.
THANK YOU FOR POINTING OUT JAMAL IS BI-RACIAL. HE IS VERY LIGHT-SKINNED. And being mixed myself, I know for a fact, that MOST Africans DO NOT ACCEPT BI-RACIALS "AS THEIR OWN". They are fully aware of mixed people having more rights in colonial Africa.
Ummmmm that's really what you're seeing? It's actually that his mom is racist. They're racist and that's why this worked on them. Before they saw that her son wasn't fully white they disrespected her severely just because she's white. THAT is racism.
I think it's time Kimberly put a stop to this relationship once and for all. I don't see how any American woman can think it's ok for your husband to have several wives...she needs to just end a really unfortunate situation...for her own sanity, well being and that of her family.
I sooo agree! Your advice makes the best sense! I can’t stand Kim’s lack of self-respect any longer!! It’s so embarrassing to watch!! Fly home Kim!! Please go home!!
She is so desperate she will do anything to marry him. Usman wants the green card. The writing is on the wall only she is not seeing it. Kim please go home with some of your self respect because it is fleeting fast.
I wanted to add that at the start of this whole thing with Kim and Usman, she seemed to want to be in control of everything. There are plenty of people telling her that she cannot 💰❤️. I am looking forward to seeing the end of this season and have a new season to begin with newer couples. I know that every couple are at odds with their partner about something, but how they treat each other says a lot. (Ex: I live in GA, and when the Falcons lose their game, they interview with some of the players, and they say what they need to do for the next game. They come back out a wk later and make the same mistake again)!!
YES! Kim is in desperate need of a makeover! She needs a stylist! She has zero sense of style! She needs her hair cut and definitely a lighter color. That black hair is horrible! And she spent so much money buying jewelry and toys for Usman, she should have invested some in a different wardrobe. She looks like she shopped at a thrift store and just threw something on! Those tank tops and leggings are not flattering on her!
I am not Nigerian however I am African. Kim is very naive (expectedly) to African culture. On top of them wanting a younger woman who can assumingely have children, it is unheard of for a blessing to be asked of a grooms family. How “baby girl Lisa” got one, I don’t know how but she is not getting that blessing. They want a young first wife. Additionally Kim would “disrupt” the “natural” order of taking care of your husband and the children.
It is a setup to get her to sign the prenuptial Engagement Agreement which she believes is Usman's mother's Blessing upon their marriage. His mother doesn't want him to marry a White woman or to travel overseas. She wants grandkids from their own tribe, and a marriage to Kimberly will not be acceptable unless she agrees to that and gives up her inheritance rights.
Kim, please understand that Usman only wants a green card and then he will walk away, so it does not matter if you are the first or second wife. He is going to break your heart.
He’s not honest with Kim. I don’t like that mess. I don’t blame her for not wanting to be second I wouldn’t even want anyone else in my marriage. It would only be me him and I. Lol
Every single woman I know who has attempted to marry into this culture despite their religion faces the same problems. It doesnt matter if you are old or young, Muslim, Christian or even black or white or Asian. The issues with the parents, the sudden put downs that come out of nowhere, they wandering eyes, the hot and cold the lukewarm and the pride, disprespect and demands. My Aunt lived there for 2 years and she warned me to never, ever, ever,ever trust a guy from that culture ever and do not even for a second entertain him if he flatters you. She was adamant I got the message accross. Sure enough I got dozens of "offers" while in college and yep......she was right. Big let down. Several of my friends or people I knew made the attempt and every single situation was an absolute disaster. They all seems very well polished and educated and decisive but when they are back home things change drastically.
I don't think it's love so much as it's desperation. She saw him and got a crush on him. She doesn't even really know him. Kim is desperate, delusional and lacks self respect. She sits there and says how she won't settle for second wife, yet her desperation is so obvious. It's pathetic. She totally lost me when she turned into a predator when Usman refused to have sex with her. Lack of self respect, desperation, humiliating herself, trying to buy his "love", that's bad enough, but when she was begging him to have sex with her and got pissed off and was using threats and shit when he wouldn't, she showed a really ugly side to her. That was a wrap.
The way Usman's Mom Looks at Kim had me DEAD, That woman looks disgusted, now telling them she was in the military omg, that's supposed to change mom's mind? I THINK NOT, let alone throwing in her son because he's part black, lawdy Kim you look like a fool.
She snot Muslim and not all Muslims in Nigeria cover their hair. But if she’s going to the house and it’s a formal meeting then it’s more respectable to dress modestly compared to outside. I think that’s normal
THANK YOU...pissed me off that she said she fought terrorism... made it sound like she was in theatre! There are a lot of things questionable about her history!
Maybe that's why she is open to plural marriage? She has heard of it before, even though she has a very warped idea of how Islamic doctrine and law governs polygyny
Um Usman IS doing a favor to Kim by being with her, and she permitted that perception by being desperate and placing him on a pedestal by bribing sex, a relationship and love out of him.
At this point, Usman is weird. Kim is weird. They're both weird. It might have started off as love and a green card for Kim and Usman respectively, but now, I think they're both addicted to the drama, clout, and money they get from the show. Usamn knows Kim is not gonna go for the other wife thing. Kim (should) know that in that culture, his permission to marry her was denied and there is nothing to do about it. This is not a fairytale. This is not some Wattpad love story where the man is going to go against his family and flee to America with her and have their happily-ever-after. This is real life. I mean, do we not remember Brittany and Hasan? His family was going to unalive him. Sumit's in-laws and family dragged him out of his residence away from Jenny and now he's being emotionally blackmailed and disowned. I didnt mean to say all this but there's quite a few examples of how "sh*t has hit the cultural fan" and nothing but heartache came afterwards. She needs to cut her ties and leave.
In Islam a woman covers her beauty and is modest Her hair being covered is part of it. Its also respectful. He tried day one but now hes not bothered.. So her hair can be uncovered trying to say she has no respect or modesty. He is sick of her and is using her to promote himself via the show.
I don't know why she is so bothered she can't be anything but his second wife because baby Lisa will always be the first wife. Regardless of how it ended
I can't help but to think back to the time when Usman told babygirl Visa that she would never find a Man that looks as good as him!!! It was definitely a lol moment... LMAO 🤣
His mom gives 0 forks about Kim 😭
Heyyy girl!!!!!!♡♡♡♡
Kimberly is a covert racist and don't respect African women
HE gives zero forks about Kim 😔
Hey you!
Can’t wait until you cover this on your channel!
Kim doesn’t realize she will ALWAYS be second to the wife that bears the children, regardless of whether he calls her “first” or not 🤣
So many likes! Thank u 😅
It's because you're right lol
absolutely right! She has totally wrong idea about this being first. All the women will share the same Yammie... might even be more than 2 one day. The youngest, prettiest and give birth first will be his priority, never her
Its in some of the Muslim culture but the 1st wife as all say if she say he can't be with wife number 2 then he won't. As far as I no from my Muslim friends. I just feel it for her coz she dont see he don't wont to marry her in real life, maybe this is for fame coz if he wanted a green card he can apply for study or something. Hmmmm makes u think 🤔 on his full intentions.
@@Diamond-sf5dk Pff course it is for money and trying to get fame in the us as he have not begomme rich and famous in Nigeria who is a country witj many ppl. Hollywood rich ppl to but is ppl Who is talented but is very few Who followes him who is a few thousend and is from a country where is hundred of millions of ppl.
He is a user and he does not hode it well, he is might not smart enogh to hide it and she is not smart social and emotial she does not know how to be loved in a romanticly way as she show in the series att least. I hope she and all other women who can give hin a green card and money stay away from him so he dont use them to.
I feel sorry for Kim’s son. Imagine watching your own mother make a fool of herself and allowing this man to disrespect her.
Imagine your mom using your race to win over a man’s family that treats her terribly 😭😭
that's probably why he has moved clear across the country where nobody knows him or her and so he doesn't have to endure her ridiculous behavior in his every day life.
@@naledisebati5858 like weird af
I m sure, he must have stopped watching it long time back
It is her choice, kids are not responsible for their parents stupidity, and addictions. Crap, she a skeezy old lady and playing the victim card while she makes herself a victim.
I can’t feel sorry for her anymore. She knows that she doesn’t want this whole wife thing…. Why can’t she just leave? 🙄 that’s crazy
Two reasons. Kim is an easy pushover for Michael Jackson aka Usman and Kim had always said She will win so it's all about winning for Kim
I agree she needs to leave I think it's gonna hurt her beyond belief if she stays but it's hard to feel bad for her she needs to leave and not go back.
She's annoying yet even the guy doesn't care all he wants is greencard
It's because of the Yammy 🤣🤣🤣😂
Can't believe you'd accept a second anything, poligamy is not your culture, your expected to live together, he can't afford several homes
In Africa, the bride is the prize. You cannot negotiate so much with a man about his family 'blessing' for them to accept you. It should be the other way round! Kim is literally begging for the blessing, for them to accept her. It's weird and so wrong!
Exactly.. this is sooo uncalled for .. no African man doing this .. that’s why the family having a big problem.. in our culture she being a man .. and if she gotta fight this hard that’s not ur man
Which part of Africa are you from ?
Kim aint no prize.
Totally agree however age sometimes plays a role and the fact that his family can't directly communicate with Kim's family, it becomes this complicated
Period! My American husband knows I am the prize and followed tradition. I did not have to chase him even though he's from a different culture.
I'm starting to think these people are acting lol
Kim’s been so degraded by this man and she continues to refuse to see it … she’s trying to compromise for this man’s love
She’s either extremely dumb or purposely begging men to love her
She's degraded herself. He hasn't chased her to another country, begged her for s*×, thrown multiple drink in her face. She did all that to him.
She enjoys being degraded. And she is very unattractive.
She is not even receiving love, just presence.
Kim. You need to leave him behind. You deserve better. Never the second wife. Stupidity. He's not for you. His family will never accept you as wife. Leave them
This is proof that Kim is NOT okay with Usman having another wife. She is such a joke 😂😂😂😂😂
Does it really matter if she’s the first or second wife? If he doesn’t really love her and once he has a baby, does she honestly believe he’s going to abandon his baby mama and spend 24/7 with her? Whatever ounce of sympathy I had for her is gone.... She needs to move on and work on herself! Geez...
The fact that she wants another woman to be used as a brood mare make me sick. I do not feel bad at all for her being used for a green card. Horrible person. 🤢 what kind of woman wants a woman to be used to make babies and left alone?
@@44LillPuffin Exactly!!
Eggxactly 💁🏽♀🥴
She's clueless
@@44LillPuffin 100%! Also for her to say she wants nothing to do with the child is disgusting! What a nut case 🤪
Usman thinks he is a king. It’s sad. Kim please run!
She has treated him like he is a king 🤴 it's both of them that created this situation her for being for acting stupid and him to think he is God's gift to women....Kim has to accept 2nd wife status or go home Usman knows she's going to bow down to him...and yes Kim you need to think about your son and what you acting like a desperate white woman
She needs to find a man in America her own age.
Every man is a king and every woman is a queen
Usman is a wannabe R. Kelly
@@tiffanesmith7482 he believes he '''is' fly'' xD
At this point all I can say if Kim agrees to be a second wife all I can do is applaud Usman because his manipulation game would be legendary lol.
She will accept it. I knew the second I heard her say “I don’t want you to meet her while I’m here”. It sounded to me like she had already resigned herself to it and the only stipulation to him meeting this other woman was that he not do it while Kimberly was, basically, sitting there watching. Usman was right, all he had to do was have some patients and wear her down.
Not really....its his culture. Thats all. Thjs is what happens when women run over there thinking they are gonna find a better man. Its a different ball game and these men are manipulators *the best* and their families have alot of power in their relationships.
Only weak people seek to manipulate.
Kim is allowing it! So don't feel sorry for her anymore
Kim will be the third wife babygirl lisa was the first. Usman african wife will be second and kim will be the third.
After Usman's mother rejected Kim.. his true colors started showing even more. He's manipulative and thinks he can manipulate his own family the way he manipulates her.
Yeah honestly, this is prove how bad of a person he was overall
@@Coco-chrispy ikr I've honestly started hating him
What is with all of these terrible people on this show? He's up there with Big Ed and Angela...🙄
@@amandaj3182 Not really. He is unlikeable, but they are abusive.
@@Valoelify manipulative narcissist
Usman knows exactly what he is doing getting more tv time
Usman knows that Kim is desperate. He is manipulative and toying with her. Please Kim find your respect and self esteem.
Kim: HEY I GOT YOU A COW
No.
Kim: HEY I HAVE A BLACK SON
Hell no.
Lmao she just KNEW her son was about to get her through that first wife door.... SIKE!
Lmbo
😂😂😂. I swear lol
Her son ain't even black, he mixed. She tried to play the race card and fumbled😭😭
It was really a bull lol
In Africa there is a "bride price" not a groom price. She didn't have to buy a cow for his family for any reason whatsoever.
Yess ! He’s Muslim. He’s supposed to give her a “ dowery” something like money, a cow, goat etc., or something of long term value , gold etc. She needs to do some research, she’s cheating herself.
Angela was giving a gift as a gift, nothing more. She wasn’t bribing the family or paying dowry. Since when is it gullible to gift a potential family member wrong? Would you like to discuss the traditions of gifting a play station? No prob not. These are 2 different cultures colliding, it’s not all one way dude.
@@muepoweri2935
Depends on the tribe, I know some where the bride takes gifts to the groom like the Banyakole of Uganda during Kuhingira
Africa is not a monolith. There are different customs in other cultures.
Kim is sad and pathetic to keep allowing this drama of being a sister wife to Usman!! He’s rude and egotistical and she’s stupid !!
Very stupid
My heart ♥ breaks for her son. Can't imagine the shame he has to endure watching a mother with such a low self esteem. His friends laughing at him etc. Gosh it's awful.
As soon as my partner told me “ I have 100 other women that “ that would’ve been it
😅❤🎉😅
FINALLY!! Someone caught that the mom wants him to meet HIS COUSIN to possibly marry!!! No other blogger has reported that MAJOR fact except you. I started to think I was crazy. 😳
Maybe it's an exaggeration to scare Kimbahhhlyy off
I caught that too!
@kristi That’s because it not an exaggeration in those countries. That’s like being surprised in family marrying each other in game of thrones or house of dragons
In some places it's quite common
@@arjoseph93 Not in Nigeria
But I honestly can't speak for all of nigeria
Kimbalee please run while you can!🙏
While she can? Nobody's keeping her there, they can't get her to leave!
I find it very touching to see Usman's brother and mother warming up and opening up and smiling, bonding over the black son and her service in the army
I admire Kim for standing up for herself and speaking for herself, even after Usman said he had a "plan" to get his family on board. Once his family showed up he was quiet and Kim took control over the situation. When he saw his family warming up, Usman had a voice.
Finally someone in this comment section said it
Kims son is half black and half white , please . He is an Afrobrit .
They are basically rascist. His mother has a problem with White women.
She cannot file for a green card for him if he gets married to a women I his county. The law in American will not allow that.
She doesn't even realize it, plus immigration is watching closely.
Kim is ill advised. I am a lawyer in Nigeria. Statutory marriage under the Marriage Act entered into after a customary marriage to another person is null and void. As such, the U. S embassy should reject the marriage certificate to be presented.
I advise people to seek lawyers advise on issues relating to marriage with legal implications in Nigeria.
There are two types of marriages in Nigeria. Marriage under the Act also called statutory marriage and customary marriage under which we have Islamic marriage and traditional marriage.
If a couple elects to marry in Nigeria under the Act, a second marriage is criminalized even if done only by customary law. It's strictly monogamous. The law provides further to sue for damages a concubine who interferes in the marriage and adultery is a Fact to disolve a statutory marriage.
The other type is opened to the discretion of the man to whether or not to take subsequent wives.
So, if a Nigerian man deceives a woman to enter into only customary marriage, you are sitting on a long thing. No sanctity of marriage enjoyable.
@@aquariusmedia9307 Thank you! Have you thought of having your own channel on TH-cam? I really like how you explained the laws and how it affects the people on 90 Day Fiance. Have a blessed day.
We need a lawyer from Nigeria to sort this mess of Kim's out. Maybe she will realize that she is making a FOOL of Herself.
I keep trying to tell everyone that...
Kim is just a glutton for humiliation at this point. Never in my life have I seen someone so committed to disappointment after disappointment.
LOL I was wondering if anyone else had caught the Cousin thing!!! Usman said “Mom has a friend she wants me to meet”. I wonder what Kim would have said if he actually told her that the woman his Mom wants him to see is his cousin?
Probably in a way that was going to get her a “hell no” as an answer. In my opinion if it’s a distant cousin (like miles down the family tree) and that he didn’t grow up with her, it wouldn’t be too too bad.
@@chocolatebunny3221 In Islam they can marry cousins. Most black people don’t do this. Only in Islam.
@@chocolatebunny3221 ehh first cousins can still end up with birth defects. I wonder where Usman’s father is in all this
Maybe the translation was wrong. I know in some African tribes when you belong to the same tribe you consider each other as family in a sense.
@@vlgx00x I was thinking the same thing but I do know for a fact in Islam you can marry cousins. East indians/Pakistani do it as well as Arabs….most people from anywhere who are Muslim.
i wonder if Kim wants Usmans future children to grow up without a father, as she does not want him to remarry anyone around her, not even un US soil.
It’s clear as day that she’s doesn’t want that. People need to do research before dating other people from different states and how marriage goes there
She doesn't want him anywhere near another woman. I'd hate to be anywhere near her when she knows he's giving the yammy to another woman. She's gonna be on the warpath straight up!
She has said that his children can’t come to America with him and that made me loose all respect for her. She has the audacity to want to put herself over his children. Truly a trash human being.
@@chocolatebunny3221 if usman had children before kim fine i would say no problem but to marry another woman and to make babies than bring them to US soil on kim dime hell nawl. Kim better wake tf up and roll tf out and find someone in U S already!
@@starstepney2332 but she isn't even with him herself to talk about his future wife and children .
The denial with this woman is strong. Crazy 😬.
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It's not denial, it's called desperation and insecurity.
She doesn't own a mirror.
She likes being played
Does nobody realize that Kim cannot bring him here on a K-1 visa if he's already married to someone else? So it should be a non-starter. That gives Kim all the power. Although, I think she should just leave him there.
Baby girl Lisa married to someone else so they have to be divorced at this point.
That's his mom's plan and making sure he doesn't leave the country. Nobody is remembering her saying he should not leave at all. His mom knows he can't have a wife therr and get a K1 visa to marry an American. She's not going to let him marry Kim 1st because she knows if that happens, he might not marry a girl there and he will just leave.
They get religious marriage not official one
kim is really to old for him she looks like his grandmother
I don't think he looks younger anymore. He's aged drastically in the last few years
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@@jayneanthony5652 because he's wicked
@@jayneanthony5652 He still looks 25 years younger than Kim. That doesn't mean he's worth more than her of course.
@@5050TM to me he is looking old! Maybe it's the stress of trying to be an entertainer or trying to keep Kim on the line as a provider etc but he's looking bad!
Kim looks like a Simpsons character! She's so funny looking and even funnier sounding. Kim is 5th wife energy not first wife
The fifth wives are usually the super young ones once the man is like over 50
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One of Marge's sisters
That is not nice.
Thats funny! Lol
Where are the 100 women waiting to get with a world wide star that is taking. Money from an oldlady
In his mind 🛸
I'm sorry, Kim threatens him constantly and when he snaps now he's the bad guy. She has thrown drinks in his face on TV so who's really the disrespectful one. Also telling her friends " African women, are used to having babies and not being loved" WTF!!!!. Kim take your ass home!.
Kim I don't think she understands the whole concept of 1st or 2nd or 3rd wife....and at one point Usmans mom said they can't married until Usman marries the 1st wife and has a child then he can take a 2nd wife....but i think Usman will not want Kim as a 2nd wife he's might her be 3 rd or 4th....but she isn't going to get the status she wants
@@story_Tailer what hurts me the most that she is willing to settle for a first wife, like that changes anything. Does she know that in the northern part of Nigeria, when women are on their period they are considered unclean and they mostly married younger girls. Thats why the other parts of Nigeria, like the eastern, western and southern do not associate with them. Kim is just embrassing herself and i feel so bad for her son.
She is obsessed with what she wants him to be for her … not with the reality of the situation
Kim thought showing a photo and talking about some common ground would change a person's mind on a strong religious/cultural belief, and all in the course of a 10 minute conversation? lol.
But apparently it worked?
@@Sciencegrinds Yes it worked. She signed a contract requiring Usman to do something illegal in the US and get him deported if he does it lol.
Why does Kim think she is running the show? She “forbid” Usman to go see this girl while she is still there.
Because she's white
@@louisamoon5175 She knows he’s taking another wife, so why be annoyed? Geez, next thing she’ll tell him, you can’t mention your other wife in my presence.
@@louisamoon5175 bullshit, that's covert racism. He's Nigerian and explained the culture, his family and friends explained the culture, because she's a white American woman that is a sexual deviant, she believes it's her right to demand he charges his culture to fit her. Go home old lady, seek a man in your culture and stop stalking young ignorant Black men.
She signed up for this
I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, there’s no fool like an old fool 🤷🏻♀️
Except a young one?!
@@marknewton6984 ya, but at least they’re young,they’re still learning by their mistakes, an old fool is just stupid!
That’s happening when you have low self esteem. Begging for acceptance…
i love your channel bc you always show me these episodes early LOL
He's a gaslighting narcissist. This is just a game for him. She's not stupid she should be able to see right thru him by now.
This woman legit tried to use her son Jamel as a race card. Holy crap !! 🥺First she tries to buy an African man with a MacBook and a PlayStation 5, then his Mom’s approval with a cow, now it’s my son is half black. OMG, I thought marrying a cop killer for clout was bad but this woman is so trashy I can’t even. Obviously Jamel got ALL the good genes. Poor guy.
THANK YOU FOR POINTING OUT JAMAL IS BI-RACIAL. HE IS VERY LIGHT-SKINNED. And being mixed myself, I know for a fact, that MOST Africans DO NOT ACCEPT BI-RACIALS "AS THEIR OWN". They are fully aware of mixed people having more rights in colonial Africa.
Ummmmm that's really what you're seeing? It's actually that his mom is racist. They're racist and that's why this worked on them. Before they saw that her son wasn't fully white they disrespected her severely just because she's white. THAT is racism.
The cop killer isn’t Jamal’s dad fyi, but she dated a prison inmate
LOL 😂
I cringed so much 😭 my son is black guys don’t worry I’m not just some white lady ….
90 Day Genetic Defects!!
These losers amuse me.
I enjoy the commentary on this channel so much.
When I found out that she met and married a man who was on Death Row I knew she was a lost cause. Hell, Usman is a come up. L O L
normal people do not do things like that. She really has some serious psychological issues.
What????? Are you serious? I didn’t know that!
Me either but I wouldn't doubt it
What?
Jesus Christ! This is one nice woman. Why lord!!
God I ask that I don’t be this desperate for a partner. PLEASE!!!!
I think it's time Kimberly put a stop to this relationship once and for all. I don't see how any American woman can think it's ok for your husband to have several wives...she needs to just end a really unfortunate situation...for her own sanity, well being and that of her family.
I sooo agree! Your advice makes the best sense! I can’t stand Kim’s lack of self-respect any longer!! It’s so embarrassing to watch!! Fly home Kim!! Please go home!!
Yes, please leave that country with some dignity that you have left. 🙁
She is so desperate she will do anything to marry him. Usman wants the green card. The writing is on the wall only she is not seeing it. Kim please go home with some of your self respect because it is fleeting fast.
I just feel sad for her son and mother , who seems to love her a lot
Please send him a green card and send her home. She is a embarrassment to older females.
Is the green card so cheap to be distributed like candy?
She has a weak tormented mind set. She is still a kid in her mind
She's so sick and desperate i can't watch anymore
I cannot watch this anymore either
She wants basically everything
She makes me sick. What has happened to American womanhood?
I do not know Mark. When you find out please let me know
What is your opinion about Liz and Ed?
I wanted to add that at the start of this whole thing with Kim and Usman, she seemed to want to be in control of everything. There are plenty of people telling her that she cannot 💰❤️. I am looking forward to seeing the end of this season and have a new season to begin with newer couples. I know that every couple are at odds with their partner about something, but how they treat each other says a lot. (Ex: I live in GA, and when the Falcons lose their game, they interview with some of the players, and they say what they need to do for the next game. They come back out a wk later and make the same mistake again)!!
@@francesbraswell4578 Hahaha!!!
I think she could do with a huge makeover; maybe add bangs and a layered haircut. Also, use firming cream for the skin.
Sounds nice yet she will still be the same age and cannot bear children no doubt?
she looks like herman munster
YES! Kim is in desperate need of a makeover! She needs a stylist! She has zero sense of style! She needs her hair cut and definitely a lighter color. That black hair is horrible! And she spent so much money buying jewelry and toys for Usman, she should have invested some in a different wardrobe. She looks like she shopped at a thrift store and just threw something on! Those tank tops and leggings are not flattering on her!
It's a friend's daughter - "cousin" is a loose term in Africa. Everyone is your sister/brother/cousin.
Including your real cousins that are blood related,that you can still incestuously marry
She said paternal cousin
@@emmajanewatts4388 it depends which generation of cousins. First cousins are a problem, but second are not.
Gosh kim... Wake up
Never would I allow a man or his family, of any culture to treat me this way.
She's a fool not to get up and go home.
I am not Nigerian however I am African. Kim is very naive (expectedly) to African culture. On top of them wanting a younger woman who can assumingely have children, it is unheard of for a blessing to be asked of a grooms family. How “baby girl Lisa” got one, I don’t know how but she is not getting that blessing. They want a young first wife. Additionally Kim would “disrupt” the “natural” order of taking care of your husband and the children.
Exactly. She’s delusional!
I think they gave a blessing because they knew it would end fast
It is a setup to get her to sign the prenuptial Engagement Agreement which she believes is Usman's mother's Blessing upon their marriage. His mother doesn't want him to marry a White woman or to travel overseas. She wants grandkids from their own tribe, and a marriage to Kimberly will not be acceptable unless she agrees to that and gives up her inheritance rights.
Even if she got the blessing and he got to come over here he would leave her so fast ! So she's fighting for nothing really .
The money they pay them must be good for her to be so pathetic on social media I feel sorry for her son back in the States
Kim stop begging he's no prize
Well said. Real women don't beg.
HEY KIM, SECOND WIFE ?? YOUR A SISTER WIFE 😆🤣😄😂😅😁🤣😆😂😃😅🤣🤣😂😅
Don’t call other women “some chick” please
Kim ain’t going Nowhere no matter what happens she’s sticking beside him which is totally insane but hilarious
Kim, please understand that Usman only wants a green card and then he will walk away, so it does not matter if you are the first or second wife. He is going to break your heart.
They are so Lucky Kim didn't throw ah drink on bro & momz😂😂😂
He’s not honest with Kim. I don’t like that mess. I don’t blame her for not wanting to be second I wouldn’t even want anyone else in my marriage. It would only be me him and I. Lol
They’re Muslim, it’s common to marry your cousin.
Every single woman I know who has attempted to marry into this culture despite their religion faces the same problems. It doesnt matter if you are old or young, Muslim, Christian or even black or white or Asian. The issues with the parents, the sudden put downs that come out of nowhere, they wandering eyes, the hot and cold the lukewarm and the pride, disprespect and demands. My Aunt lived there for 2 years and she warned me to never, ever, ever,ever trust a guy from that culture ever and do not even for a second entertain him if he flatters you. She was adamant I got the message accross. Sure enough I got dozens of "offers" while in college and yep......she was right. Big let down. Several of my friends or people I knew made the attempt and every single situation was an absolute disaster. They all seems very well polished and educated and decisive but when they are back home things change drastically.
Awesome comment!
I guess that love is blind, and Kimberly is love. ❤
This is not love it is delusion mixed with desperation.
I don't think it's love so much as it's desperation. She saw him and got a crush on him. She doesn't even really know him. Kim is desperate, delusional and lacks self respect. She sits there and says how she won't settle for second wife, yet her desperation is so obvious. It's pathetic. She totally lost me when she turned into a predator when Usman refused to have sex with her. Lack of self respect, desperation, humiliating herself, trying to buy his "love", that's bad enough, but when she was begging him to have sex with her and got pissed off and was using threats and shit when he wouldn't, she showed a really ugly side to her. That was a wrap.
Kim is stupid she's eat up with it
And thought Baby Lisa was crazy bath Kim”s bake the cake
😂😂😂
Let us not gloss over Usman’s mom’s bombastic side eye - her dirty looks are giving. 😂
The way Usman's Mom Looks at Kim had me DEAD, That woman looks disgusted, now telling them she was in the military omg, that's supposed to change mom's mind? I THINK NOT, let alone throwing in her son because he's part black, lawdy Kim you look like a fool.
I lived overseas with my boyfriend and he had three wives, and the first wife that had the children was treated way way better than the other wives.
Kim is thirsty and desperate. If this makes her happy, I say go for it. 🤣
She snot Muslim and not all Muslims in Nigeria cover their hair. But if she’s going to the house and it’s a formal meeting then it’s more respectable to dress modestly compared to outside. I think that’s normal
Did anyone else catch the confirmation that Kim’s army experience was in Saudi Arabia, not “fighting in desert storm”?
THANK YOU...pissed me off that she said she fought terrorism... made it sound like she was in theatre! There are a lot of things questionable about her history!
Yup.
She was a clerk. Hahaha!!! Who's she kidding?
Ya lost it 🤣🤣
Maybe that's why she is open to plural marriage? She has heard of it before, even though she has a very warped idea of how Islamic doctrine and law governs polygyny
"Im,surprised to see you today"(mother givea side eye)lolol😅😂
Kim looks like the grinch
If wasting your life to be validated by others and not healing your traumas was a person. I wish her well.
How can a woman be so desperate for a man to put up with all this crap....Pathetic
This isn’t compromising. This is obeying.
Um Usman IS doing a favor to Kim by being with her, and she permitted that perception by being desperate and placing him on a pedestal by bribing sex, a relationship and love out of him.
At this point, Usman is weird. Kim is weird. They're both weird. It might have started off as love and a green card for Kim and Usman respectively, but now, I think they're both addicted to the drama, clout, and money they get from the show. Usamn knows Kim is not gonna go for the other wife thing. Kim (should) know that in that culture, his permission to marry her was denied and there is nothing to do about it. This is not a fairytale. This is not some Wattpad love story where the man is going to go against his family and flee to America with her and have their happily-ever-after. This is real life. I mean, do we not remember Brittany and Hasan? His family was going to unalive him. Sumit's in-laws and family dragged him out of his residence away from Jenny and now he's being emotionally blackmailed and disowned. I didnt mean to say all this but there's quite a few examples of how "sh*t has hit the cultural fan" and nothing but heartache came afterwards. She needs to cut her ties and leave.
Best commentator! Thank you for the updates. I don't even watch any of the 90 Day Franchise anymore.
I am so confused. One of my friends was on the same situation and his family had to pay a bride price for her.
Never pay to play.
Yes, if Usman decides to marry his “cousin” then he will have to pay the bride price..
@@AbigaillOwusu But why is Kimberly bringing The prizes to his family. Shouldn’t they be giving gifts to her family? Thank you for answering me!
In Islam a woman covers her beauty and is modest Her hair being covered is part of it. Its also respectful.
He tried day one but now hes not bothered.. So her hair can be uncovered trying to say she has no respect or modesty. He is sick of her and is using her to promote himself via the show.
The desperation in this woman is pathetic. But if she loves being treated like crap I love it.
The gaslighting...... dear lord, does this show intentionally pick the worst humans on earth?
Yes, because they're entertaining.
Yes.
How many times she said "it's over" 😂😂
Kim is mental gymnastic queen
Her or Jenny. Can't decide which is worse
1st. No wayyyyyy lol, poor Kim hahahahaaaa xD It'll be 90 Day The Incest Way next
Apparently her ex husband is a 2-time cop killer and she’s still “great friends” with the guy doing life.
@@famalam943 I know I read that, wtf right? ://
WTF? This is a major twist in the Usman/"Kimbaaly" storyline lol.
Whew Chile, SMH. 😳😳😳
What was that at 2:35? It was hilarious! 🤣
8:07 even Usman mom is suporting Ronaldo 🤣
How?
@@mahiii913 Ronaldo celebrates his goals the same way Usman mom looks like at 8:07 🤗
Have we ever found out what happened to Usman's dad?
Did u see the post from his 1st wife she said Kimberly will never be the 1st bride.. Wow low blow lol
I don't know why she is so bothered she can't be anything but his second wife because baby Lisa will always be the first wife. Regardless of how it ended
Kimbalyyyyyyy 🤣🤣🤣😳😳😳🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️ she stop old to get used, she actually know what is going on .
Oh well if h she likes it love it 😅
my do old white ladies like young men😭😭 i really don’t get it
They want men they can control.
This show is all about the Benjamin baby😂😂😂😂
I can't help but to think back to the time when Usman told babygirl Visa that she would never find a Man that looks as good as him!!! It was definitely a lol moment... LMAO 🤣
Cute laugh at 4:34 and yet another spot on review!
All these people on this show, especially the older ones. It's all so sad.
We all know a Kim just let her be she won’t walk away till she had enough
He needs a young wife to love and give him children. He needs the older woman to get him US Citizenship.