The fact that she mentioned she’d have to “borrow the money for a plane ticket” speaks volumes about how she handles her finances. She traveled to a whole ‘nother country…brought gifts…had the intent in getting his family’s blessing… with not as much as a back up credit card or an emergency fund?
She would go in debt just to impress him.He don’t care get it in your head you are a green card no more .Go home and find a middle age man who will respect you.He is lying to you about the wife thing.Wake up .
It's sad that Kimberly is ok with another woman being treated as a piece of meat and only there to produce babies and no love. That's sad..who wishes that on a person?
Usman doesn’t love her and she is violent and abusive. She’s ahead already shown her character when she married a man in prison for murder after she started writing to him. She’s a sad excuse for a woman.
It really makes me sick the way she treats him especially in public with her drink throwing in his face.She needs a few drinks in her face then start acting her age.
Usman can not even afford his own apartment but lives in 1 room with 2 roommates but wants several wives to have many children 🤦🏻♀️ and Kimberly - just plain crazy to run after a guy like that. So embarrassing for her son😖
Exactly! What financial responsibility will Usman have to support this poly amours lifestyle? Are all the wives and kids living with the roommates? Is Kim aware of his finances? She shouldn’t wait to be married, but she should know now. The fact that she doesn’t research the culture/ religion and allows Usman to tell his interpretation, is crazy. Why hasn’t she spoken to an iman and Nigerian woman? I see every one speak dos and don’t about religion but no one is following the true religion. Usman and his friends can’t explain that. He had premarital sex against his religion for her. In Islam no one is placed above Allah, so how are you breaking a covenant and that’s ok, but can’t break the covenant of more than one wive. Culture/ religion are 2 separate ideals.
So she thinks that his second wife deserves to be treated like she is nothing? Come on now, the second wife will share his beliefs, culture, and birth his children. He's going to have deep love for his second wife of course, as he should. You aren't better than other women Kim damn.
if it was me I would of punched him one, he's taking the piss, Im not a favourite of kimberley but he should not have been saying 234 wife what the hell is that to say not a good man at all he's using her and he knows it there's good looking black men in America her own age I don't and understand why she wants him
I kind of get the feeling that Usman is trying to get rid of her by driving her off and turning her off as much as possible. He wants her gone but doesn't want to be the one to have to end it and look bad.
She's too damn old to be acting like this! 😂😂 she can't handle this kind of marriage, she's even lying to herself! I honestly believe Kim knew what a 2nd wife would REALLY mean way before Usman told her lol
KIM IS A WOMAN FROM 51 YEAR SHE IS FOOLISH HER SELF WITH THAT SOO CALLED BROKEN TEETH USMAN USMAN CALL HIM SELF THE SOYA BOY A DON'T SEE NOTHING THERE IS WHAST OFF TIME HE IS A LOSER HE ALSO IS LOOKING FOR A GREEN CARDS
Y'all keep cracking on Kim knowing damn well you would have took it the same way....yeah he ran after because he knows she is his ticket to that green card
she has that kind of energy which if put in the right direction, can break mountains. But she chose to put the energy into loving someone who's not worth it at all
Wow too much boo he deserves everything he gets hes open and not lying and that not wrong and because she doesn't want it doesnt make him not worth it kets be honest SHES NEVER BEEN WORTH IT
She can't have Usman and reject his kids, his culture, his other wife, etc. Why doesn't Kim understand that she would not be agreeing to just another wife. Usman is going to have an expanded family that she would be apart of. There is no way she's flexible enough to accept this lifestyle change. It would break her heart and her brain
He doesn't have to choose his culture, The body language says it alot, he needs this part of his culture, She got to see what he really is attracted too, This woman going to receive the short end of the stick, She knows she's just trying to figure out do she want to accept it, poor thing.
But he should not trick her into what he wants nor should he totally ignore her culture. Usman is slowly trying to figure or plot for he and his other wives and kids to come to America.
@@Windy-ns6rs I dunno Windy, Usman's lack of attraction is pretty clear. If Kim is saying she wants him no matter what, then it looks like she's the one that's going to need to make adjustments. Don't get me wrong. It's crazy to me. I think she should leave him! But she should have left him last season, so.... If she accepts this apparent scheme, that's got to be on her because Usman has looked shady from the beginning.
Kim is out of her mind , no self esteem , Usman is the only winner in this , getting his greencard , marrying several women to get as many kids as he desires plus all the gifts and money from Kim .The funny part is Kim thinks as long as Usman will love her more than the other wives ..Seriously did she lose it?
@@wayasaunooke3424 right, just the statement of "I get ALL the love right". Just a genuine disregard for another female......whatever she ain't getting the dream she has in her sleep, in real life.
@@BodegaCiggarat If this ever happened (and we all know they won't live happily ever after) Kim would be horrendous to the other woman AND her children out of jealousy, spite and all her own insecurities. Tbh it's so uncomfortable to watch as it's very "slave owner wife" sounding to me, even if that's a bit extreme as everything is hypothetical right now.
Her two friends were appalled by that. Kim is now embarrassed because how she portrayed the situation to her friends wasn't even accurate. "I'll be the first wife so I'll get all the love", etc. turns out to not even be true. She is humiliated in front of her friends and family and that's why she's so angry.
I'm Kim's age and I promised myself I would not be with a man who has an ex wife with kids attached to him because of crap like this...I'd rather be single 😂😂😂
It totally agree as well! I watched that whole interaction between Usman, his friend, and Kim twice and most of what Usman did was translate what his friend said and asked her other questions about her being okay with the 2nd wife..I don't feel like he was being rude to her at all she just didn't like what she was hearing and got mad at that
I think Usman is playing smart, as well he seems polite but he is definitely playing her. Yet Kim shouldn't be hereee 😂 she's trying so hard to be with this guy she has no self respect, both of them are in the wrong for different reasons
As an elderly Muslim lady, living in Nigeria since beginning 80s, having been married to a Northern prominent Muslim man (who passed away a few years ago. May his soul rest in peace) and also being a 2nd wife, (I also speak Hausa). I would like to clarify a few things to this lady Kim. 1. A Muslim man can marry a Christian woman without her having to convert to Islam. I converted long before getting married (as it was my desire since I was a child). Let us suppose that Kim and Usman get married In case (Allah forbid) something happens and Usman does, Kim (as a Christian) CANNOT inherit anything from Usman. The only things she keeps are the gifts (whatever they are) that Usman gave her during his life. 2. Kim is delusional if she thinks she can impose on Usman NOT to get 1 or up to 3 more wives. Nigerian Sharia Law (Islamic Law) allows a man to marry up to 4 wives. Of course, ideally, the man must treat all equally and fairly, but as I saw it (not only in Nigeria, but in other Muslim countries) that is not always happening . And it is not humanly possible. The man always has a favorite wife. 3. In function of the man's financial status, the wives either live in same house, same compound or different houses. It is an internal arrangement, how many days the man spends with each wide. 4. Kim is delusional and selfish. How would she not meet his children? 5. Suppose again that Kim is becoming 1st wife (uwargida), she cannot dictate how or where the other junior wife (amariya) will live or do...no way. 6. Suppose again that (Allah forbid) Usman does first and he does as Muslim, Kim (being a woman) cannot be administrator of his will. His brothers on his father's side would be. By the way, I think Usman said his father is a Mallam. He should have his father explain basic Islamic things to Kim. On another note, Usman does not behave as a true Muslim man. I observed that he wears earrings. A Muslim man does not do that. A Muslim man cannot wear gold jewelry (only silver). Only women can wear gold. It is clear to me that Usman is doing everything possible to achieve the status quo of a famous personality almost overnight. I live in Kaduna, Abuja and honestly people do not know who this Usman Sojaboy is. Yes, there are famous and talented Nigerian artists, but not Usman. I am not trying to put him down by no means, but I think he is trying in the wrong way. May Allah swt protect us, guide us and bless us. Ameen.
@Laila of Kaduna Enjoyed your post! Thank you for writing such interesting facts. I especially was interested when you pointed out that Usman shouldn’t wear gold. Thanks for the education!
Rest in peace to your husband 🙏🏼 wishing you the best and thanking you for this post. It was so interesting! Can I ask about your experience as a second wife? I hope I don’t sound insensitive or anything, I’m just curious about what life was like, duties, if you ever felt any form of jealousy, how the relationship was between you and the other wife (was it a friendship?). I just find this absolutely fascinating. Thanks for educating us! 💕 in any case, I think Kim is quite disrespectful towards usman and his culture… I also think usman is only using Kim. Neither are a good match for each other.
It’s way too early in the season for them to be over. It’s called Repeat What Worked for the Show Before. 1) Kim throws a drink in Usman’s face and storms off, threatening to leave the country. 2) Usman performs a private concert and woos Kimberly back while just so happening to get the chance to promote his music on international television. Also, lol at how this other guy’s two wives aren’t being brought into the conversation at all.
A lot of muslim men dream about having 4 wives until they actually get married and the reality of being the breadwinner for ONE household hits. How can he manage 2, never mind 4? He cannot even afford ONE. Also, he is fooling himself if he thinks Kimberly would be able to be part of a polygynous marriage. You need faith in Allah to do that. She doesn't even know WHO Allah is.
Did Kimberly really believe that Usman wouldn't have feelings for the mother of his children or want to be a part of his children's lives? I wouldn't be surprised if he wanted to bring them to the United States. They need a father!
Usman chased her cos he wants that green card she can provide. The only way she won't marry him Is if He finds a better or candidate. Lost sympathy n respect for her.
Honestly it's very disturbing to hear Kim wish for any other woman to be nothing more than a breeder. The other wife is not going to have another husband in that country and Kim thinks it's okay that the second wife's husband is only there to impregnate her. I'm so disturbed that Kim would wish that on anyone. It's such a turn-off I can't look at her the same honestly. And yes the other wife's children would be family, she would be their other mother. The fact she doesn't look at any of this is gaining a bigger wider family is sad. I think it comes down to her insecurities. I'm going to miss his name up but Usmen, is a lot younger than her, and I know it sounds bad but we also do have to talk about attractiveness. He's a lot more attractive than her. She's let herself go, she's overweight, she doesn't look healthy. I'm just going to say what everyone is thinking. She's going to feel insecure with someone like that, who's younger who's popular who's fit. If she wanted to deal with her insecurities she should start being more active, eating healthier and work on herself growth and her physical growth. But to shame another woman or put another woman in a submissive loveless ranking system is backwards and weird
SLAYYYEDDD. She was okay with it thinking she would have her husband and all his love and the 2nd wife would be in some corner or sokoto. This is going to become toxic. Everytime he Usman talks to the 2nd wife kim will be jealous and insecure. Shes always gonna wanna fight for usmans love more. And i dont think she wants to fight at her age. She should just live peacefully instead of with all this drama. U love someone than u should let him go or if she can adapt and try to calmly talk to usman instead of getting mad and throwing a drink at his face. (Kinda am wishing Usman threw a drink at her face when she annoyed him about there yammy ) still dont see it going far.
Disrespect is not acceptable to a Nigerian man, yet that toad you were married to, disrespected you left, right, up, down, and sideways and you took it. Think we forgot? Kimberly shouldn't be acting out in such a juvenile manner. I think her anger though directed at him, is really meant for herself for painting a pretty picture in her head. She should thank her stars for finding out BEFORE marrying him. I think Useman was smart to arrange meeting his friend and bringing her back down to earth. Kimberly, for goodness sake, find a man in the U.S.
Exactly- her irritation at her friends was also a projection of her insecurities. She wanted to stay in her fantasy land not answer difficult questions.
@@Contessa6789 Women complain about men don't know how to listen, right? Well, women aren't good at listening, neither. To be blunt, Kim does look like a secret lovechild of Ursula and Danny Devito lol.
Amen they have their culture and they are used to doing things in that manner and I think if she just give herself a half a chance she will find love her life or he will find her
Kim doesn't need a husband, she needs a therapist! And the only reason he chased after her is because he wants to continue being on TV. He doesn't care one iota about Kim or her feelings. He's an opportunist and she's just delusional.
That's basically this entire show. People who struggle with attracting the kind of partner they want who are then love bombed by opportunists. Seems to be the theme.
That’s hilarious! She tried to make like she was cool with everything, come on polygamy is polygamy! There is no number associated! You don’t get to choose no matter if your wife number one or wife’s number 53! As long as he can treat you all the same! That’s how it is in his face… Kimberly please read more into it and stop assuming that you know and that he’s being honest with you! You are worth more than that and your son knows it!
If Usman really loved her 👀 😐 Um then he would understand she does not want to see the other wife. If Kim loved Usman she wouldn't have disrespected him in public. If either of them loved themselves, they wouldn't be in this relationship. 🤷🏾♀️
The second a friend of mine tells me she is buying expensive gifts for a man she barely knows and traveling to the other part of the world to meet him, the second I know my friend has issues and needs a shrink.
Go home Kim. He's really not into you. Why do you want a guy that wants more wives??? You will never be number one. This is never going to work. You have a gorgeous son at home who is so good to you You have friends. Why do you want to stay with Usman??? Don't be so delusional at your age. It is so sad to watch you act the way that you do So desperate.
Kim deserves all she gets if she thinks it’s ok for a girl young enough to be her daughter to be an enslaved baby making machine while she gets all the good stuff.
@Sometimes I Get Carried Away She doesn't want that. She just doesn't want to deal with wife no.2. Nothing was said about her being a slave to Kimberly. She doesn't even live in Nigeria. She's a sad woman that craves love. Somebody has hurt her terribly.
the fact she didnt think to look up how it works in their country,no he would love the second wife and have kids with her and they would live together..honestly knowing him he would like the younger wife better BECAUSE she would have more in common,have kids and be able to bond in other ways
Your perspective is so insightful. You make some of the most top quality content that has existed re reality television. Thanks for your work! It’s been great watching you grow.
I am shocked that at this Era Kim did not do a basic Google research on Muslim religion and marriage in Nigeria. It just blows my mind. Everything Usman says comes as a shock. She acts so childish and immature while claiming that she is a "grown ass women". She demands to be loved and cared better than the other wife .. why? Because she is superior ? Or because she is an American?
She assumed he will have a concubine to just carry his "illegitimate" kids since she knows that his marriage to a second wife will not be counted legal in the United States. As a woman, who's acting all independent and tough, would allow such thing to happen to another woman and child? Her selfishness and ignorance are unrepairable .
She said he kept interrupting her, what bullshit, she was jealous point blank period 🤣 she's too old to have a child , is supposedly accepting of another woman having his children ( very doubtful in reality ) but doesn't want anything to do with those children produced which isn't a very practical idea is it..they are her step children! There's never going to be a happy ever after here
Being married to a Nigerian, Usman wasn’t being disrespectful he was being funny. Kim was being sensitive if you listen to him he was ready to laugh at it. Lesson, before you fall for a man from a different culture do your research and don’t just jump on the yammy 😅. Notice, Usmans family is pushing it because Kim can’t give him a child which would be the main reason why he needs a second wife
I can see part of what you are saying. However everything of this is new to her. One think is search about it another thing is living that. And there is other way to get a child without having a second wife. I get that for Nigerian have multiple wife’s is something good. However she is not Nigerian. And Usman is not a saint too. Let’s remember that he knew how different the things is in the western. The best option to do is find a middle term btw them. I know sounds I’m totally defend her. But Kim was also very stupid. I hated how she talked about the second wife as the second one will only serve to have a child. Kim definitely thinks she is the best one. It’s very dumb of her thinking he wouldn’t get feeling for the second one who will be the mother of his child.😅
@@antonianogueira9134 Man...I just hate it when people assume that all Nigerians are supposed to have multiple wives. That is completely FASLE. Usman and his friends have second wives because they're MUSLIM. The majority of Muslims in Nigeria live in the northern part of Nigeria. The remaining Nigerians are Christian and DO NOT believe in polygamy.
Everything said in their fight was what they truly did believe. Kim hopefully the blindfold is off and you finally see what everyone was saying. Usman has just realized that he is letting his ticket to the US get away. That is why he is chasing her down in the hotel. If Kim doesn't see it now then she deserves what she gets.
@@speedmeisterkym6120 but if you watch the episode you will see it was at night, coz the fight happened right after they went to see his friend and that was at night, and when they drove home in the car it was at night, and the fight continued to the room, and she stormed out, So maybe there is something seriously wrong with the people on the internet because they only see Usman running after a greencard but they don't see that even if you don't love a person you do not watch them storm to the streets at night in a foreign country, you go after them. How is it people don't see these things, how do you not see that you can't watch a person walk into the streets at night in a foreign country because something bad can happen?
He tricked her into the extra wives thing… first he wanted 1 kid and now he wants 10 with 3 or 4 other women?!?! Also he wants twins so he would reach his 10 kids goal faster….: it doesn’t work like that Usman, you can’t choose to have twins like having 2 desserts after dinner and go for second dessert after that again 🤔🤣🤣🤣 Kim must orp speed to the airport and leave as fast as she can without looking back!!
@@want2thinkfree maybe so… but he knew how she was trying to understand how it would be with an extra wife situation and he was taking the piss… before it escalated he could have quickly say it was a joke and calm the situation down … After that he never mentioned it was a joke or explain himself ( tlc could have edited it out of course for the drama )
@@EsotericRoyalty777 true.. she wanted to know more about how this would go with second wife situations, but didn’t expected to be sort of a sister wife situation and that’s what freaked her out I guess 🤷🏻♀️
The fact she always stoops this low & quick to throw drinks @ him,,get loud & ignorant then storms off is pathetic 🤡🤡🤡. Besides the fact that Usman isn't truly into her like that, she's better off dumping him for good
Kim is not revealing a new attitude. She always throws fits. He is at least being upfront with her and bringing her to meet people who are living the life he wants. This is definitely a relationship that should end.
These people really don't take the time to learn anything about the other culture. All they want is the yummy and to get married and they wonder why the relationship fails.
I think Kim should’ve done more research on Usmans culture and how it really works with multiple wives before she decided to be with him. She set herself up being delusional
I was so focused on why in the world Kim is still dealing with this ridiculous relationship that I didn't even think about it as Usman trying to show off in front of his friend 😂 Edit: I don't even care if it's fake I would love to see Kim interview some potential wives hahaa.
Kim is a big ass baby always throwing tantrums when she doesn't get her way...she came into this thinking she could buy him with things, now she's throwing drinks at him and disrespecting his culture...now her stupid ass all in her feelings about a hypothetical wife and child after she already lied about being ok with it
In Islam, if you take on extra wives, you have to give them equal everything. You give one an 1 hour of roses and champagne, you give the other wife 1 hour of roses and champagne. My great grandfather in China had 4 wives (those days). The first wife is the most respected but I believe the 2 was his favorite. It’s going to happen. 🤷🏻♀️ and in those days, having the extra wives wasn’t all fun and games. The wives fight among each other and fight for the husband’s attention.
I grew in a Muslim country in the Middle East, but I'm actually Catholic. And most of the men who had a second wife was was either because they wanted more children or trying for a boy, or because the wife had some illness and couldn't perform her "wifely duty". However, having a second wife in the nation that I grew up in was almost rare because you needed Court order and approval to obtain a second wife. Having a second wife and secrets can get the husband in trouble. Other nations around that region can have a "Urfi" wedding. Meaning their marriage is not legal but you do have witnesses along with a special cleric signing a document stating that a form of "marriage" took place. The problem with such marriage is that wife cannot have any financial benefits from that husband and my even have a problem obtaining birth certificate for any child she has with that man along with giving him the husband's family name. Many woman unfortunately got into such marriage contract because they did not want to be single and agreed to such agreement until they end up in court seeking rights for their children. That's why many countries in that area require proper paperwork to have a second wife in order to protect the woman and the children.
It’s difficult enough, in this day and age, to find love, especially when older. Now let’s add in a huge age gap and an even bigger cultural gap…. For crying out loud: stay home, date people in your age group with a culture you can embrace.
spilling food on him is not ok. shes too old for that and how can you love someone and switch to hostility with them that fast. I would not do that if they told me they already had 10 mates. I would just leave. I don't own anothers body anyway so one can't get upset about how they use their body
I don’t know how in the world she thinks that he would have a wife that she would never speak to or see her. Especially a wife that would have children!
It’s ridiculous that she seems to think that Usman wouldn’t be attracted to, and love his other wives - maybe more than her. As a wife, Kim has a purpose too. She is the ticket to a green card, and she has American dollars. I’m not sure this is going to translate into love…now or later.
How is Usman so fast to send the love of his life away? Wait it clicked in for Usman that he loves her because there he goes chasing after the potential green card, oops Kim. This is his second chance, he might not get a third. Sacrifices have to be made Usman. Think this through.
Usman is now a public figure in throughout the entire USA now, there are many women who now want him (crazy enough) he actually does not need Kim to get a green card if that is ALL that he wants. I think in some way he actually recognizes that she is a good person and a good friend who just wants love. I don't think he is in love with her but I think that he loves her and doesn't want to hurt her. I think she needs to grow up & recognize that this is not a match for her and allow herself to meet a great man that will love her the way she is trying to force him to love her and he needs to find someone for himself and his culture to be accepted.
@@livelifewithkaykay5050 it was a night, Kim is in a foreign country, you don't watch a person storm to the streets at night in a land they are not familiar with, you run after them. Something bad can happen and that would be on you
Hes so surprised at her cursing "at him" just so his friend believes hes in charge backfired 100% 😂 The second she threw the drink and he didnt stand up or anything showed his friend she dosnt submit to him and i love that 😂😂
Please tell me someone remembers the episode of Tales From The Crypt with the insurance guy that was forced to marry one family’s daughter…. Well Kim looks EXACTLY like the daughter
She is just saying anything she can to be with him and in her mind she thought he would fall so in love with her that he wouldn't want a second wife smh
His plan is to get to US with this lady. And have otherwise and kid like regular people. He will dump her as soon as he goes to US or as soon as he gets his green card
The fact that she mentioned she’d have to “borrow the money for a plane ticket” speaks volumes about how she handles her finances. She traveled to a whole ‘nother country…brought gifts…had the intent in getting his family’s blessing… with not as much as a back up credit card or an emergency fund?
You're absolutely right. I found that strange too.
Thank you for stating this. Her financial affairs are NOT in order if she needs someone to lend her money to go back home.
@@UppityOne she probably fantasized she'd marry Useman and not return home at all.
She would go in debt just to impress him.He don’t care get it in your head you are a green card no more .Go home and find a middle age man who will respect you.He is lying to you about the wife thing.Wake up .
I think she got a non refundable return ticket maybe. She may not be able to change the date. So she would have to stay a week by herself.
It's sad that Kimberly is ok with another woman being treated as a piece of meat and only there to produce babies and no love. That's sad..who wishes that on a person?
She doesn't want to lose him that's why she said that!
Kimberly is trying to change Usman into a one-woman man and wants to be the Head B**ch In Charge (HBIC).
trueeeeeee also usman is disgustin for agreein with that
Usman doesn’t love her and she is violent and abusive. She’s ahead already shown her character when she married a man in prison for murder after she started writing to him. She’s a sad excuse for a woman.
@@sherriegile3063 is that the father of her son?
Can't feel sorry for Kimberly, the red flags have always been there she just refused to see them.
Humongous FLAGS!!
She wanted the yammy!!
@@jomesias Yep! Blinded by the D
A little empathy and compassion never killed anyone.
Exactly!! I Just Don't Get it! There are Good Men here
The whole scene is her pretending to leave but really just standing there and waiting for him to chase her 😭😭
"repeat last season" 😅
Sarah, please provide me with a platinum card, because a green one will just not do.
Lol
It really makes me sick the way she treats him especially in public with her drink throwing in his face.She needs a few drinks in her face then start acting her age.
😂
She knows darn well she is a green card .She was married to a man who I'd in prison for murder .Shows you she does not know how to select men
Usman can not even afford his own apartment but lives in 1 room with 2 roommates but wants several wives to have many children 🤦🏻♀️
and Kimberly - just plain crazy to run after a guy like that. So embarrassing for her son😖
What celebrity can't afford to have their own place unless they suck
@@alongfellow4147 usman is not a celebrity tf 😂 no one knows him in Nigeria, Americans know him more than us even 🤣 it’s crazy
Userman needs kimbalay to pay for his 10 kids lol
@@alongfellow4147 Took the words right out of my mouth...
Exactly! What financial responsibility will Usman have to support this poly amours lifestyle? Are all the wives and kids living with the roommates? Is Kim aware of his finances? She shouldn’t wait to be married, but she should know now. The fact that she doesn’t research the culture/ religion and allows Usman to tell his interpretation, is crazy. Why hasn’t she spoken to an iman and Nigerian woman? I see every one speak dos and don’t about religion but no one is following the true religion. Usman and his friends can’t explain that. He had premarital sex against his religion for her. In Islam no one is placed above Allah, so how are you breaking a covenant and that’s ok, but can’t break the covenant of more than one wive. Culture/ religion are 2 separate ideals.
So she thinks that his second wife deserves to be treated like she is nothing? Come on now, the second wife will share his beliefs, culture, and birth his children. He's going to have deep love for his second wife of course, as he should. You aren't better than other women Kim damn.
Like I said she's acting like the other wife(s) will be straight out of The Handmaid's Tale and only used to produce an Usman heir. SMH
She sees the second wife as a birthing cow. How horrible
Exactly how selfish
She thinks a second wife would be subservient to her!
@@darkpninja I said literally the same thing while I was watching this. Offkim!
Why does she think it’s okay to always throw drinks at someone else when things don’t go her way 🙄
if it was me I would of punched him one, he's taking the piss, Im not a favourite of kimberley but he should not have been saying 234 wife what the hell is that to say not a good man at all he's using her and he knows it there's good looking black men in America her own age I don't and understand why she wants him
Right like kim u had your moment the first time, this is starting to become a tradition
@@marig6202 tradition.. it became her culture xD!!
Right!! That’s so sloppy!
Shes trying to keep up with Angela and baby Lisa level of being disrespect to keep viewers entertained
I kind of get the feeling that Usman is trying to get rid of her by driving her off and turning her off as much as possible. He wants her gone but doesn't want to be the one to have to end it and look bad.
I'm hoping that's the truth... She is too controlling and he is trying to get clout from the show. Both are toxic
Dont feel sorry for Kim he's not interested in her its that plain🙄
Seems so
I doubt that, because he really hasn't been saying or doing anything wrong. He's been abiding by everything she wants to keep the peace.
Exactly. Short of telling her to F off, he’s been very clear - both verbally and with body language - that he’s not into her at all.
She's too damn old to be acting like this! 😂😂 she can't handle this kind of marriage, she's even lying to herself! I honestly believe Kim knew what a 2nd wife would REALLY mean way before Usman told her lol
Tell me honestly how many women are able to handle this kind of marrage
Honestly I had to look up her age she’s only 50!!! I honest to god thought she was 65
KIM IS A WOMAN FROM 51 YEAR SHE IS FOOLISH HER SELF WITH THAT SOO CALLED BROKEN TEETH USMAN USMAN CALL HIM SELF THE SOYA BOY A DON'T SEE NOTHING THERE IS WHAST OFF TIME HE IS A LOSER HE ALSO IS LOOKING FOR A GREEN CARDS
Y'all keep cracking on Kim knowing damn well you would have took it the same way....yeah he ran after because he knows she is his ticket to that green card
@@dorothyshinani6862 0
she has that kind of energy which if put in the right direction, can break mountains. But she chose to put the energy into loving someone who's not worth it at all
Wow too much boo he deserves everything he gets hes open and not lying and that not wrong and because she doesn't want it doesnt make him not worth it kets be honest SHES NEVER BEEN WORTH IT
She can't have Usman and reject his kids, his culture, his other wife, etc. Why doesn't Kim understand that she would not be agreeing to just another wife. Usman is going to have an expanded family that she would be apart of. There is no way she's flexible enough to accept this lifestyle change. It would break her heart and her brain
Her brain 😂😆
Exactly..she is a baby..not a grown ass woman as she says!!GO ON HOME...STOP YOUR NONSENSE KIMBERLY..NO SYMPATHY!@@
He doesn't have to choose his culture, The body language says it alot, he needs this part of his culture, She got to see what he really is attracted too,
This woman going to receive the short end of the stick, She knows she's just trying to figure out do she want to accept it, poor thing.
But he should not trick her into what he wants nor should he totally ignore her culture. Usman is slowly trying to figure or plot for he and his other wives and kids to come to America.
@@Windy-ns6rs I dunno Windy, Usman's lack of attraction is pretty clear. If Kim is saying she wants him no matter what, then it looks like she's the one that's going to need to make adjustments. Don't get me wrong. It's crazy to me. I think she should leave him! But she should have left him last season, so.... If she accepts this apparent scheme, that's got to be on her because Usman has looked shady from the beginning.
Kim is out of her mind , no self esteem , Usman is the only winner in this , getting his greencard , marrying several women to get as many kids as he desires plus all the gifts and money from Kim .The funny part is Kim thinks as long as Usman will love her more than the other wives ..Seriously did she lose it?
Yes she lost it all. Pathetic.
So Kim understood it as having another female as the slave/breeding female of the relationship.......idk I think that's the fucked up part.
right!! The way she spoke and generalized about Nigerian women is a huge problem
@@wayasaunooke3424 right, just the statement of "I get ALL the love right". Just a genuine disregard for another female......whatever she ain't getting the dream she has in her sleep, in real life.
@@BodegaCiggarat If this ever happened (and we all know they won't live happily ever after) Kim would be horrendous to the other woman AND her children out of jealousy, spite and all her own insecurities. Tbh it's so uncomfortable to watch as it's very "slave owner wife" sounding to me, even if that's a bit extreme as everything is hypothetical right now.
It’s disgusting
Her two friends were appalled by that. Kim is now embarrassed because how she portrayed the situation to her friends wasn't even accurate. "I'll be the first wife so I'll get all the love", etc. turns out to not even be true. She is humiliated in front of her friends and family and that's why she's so angry.
I'm Kim's age and am quite happy to be alone. I couldn't handle all the drama
Age is no excuse for stupidity. You’re likely much smarter than Kim is. Most people are.
I'm Kim's age and I promised myself I would not be with a man who has an ex wife with kids attached to him because of crap like this...I'd rather be single 😂😂😂
Same lol no thank you
i CRACKED when she started mocking her self “oh i love usman oh i would do anything for osmun” 😭😭😭
😆😂🤣
Kim is frightful.
Kim’s gonna call the Love Accountant to make sure the love percentages are paid out correctly. 😂
I really didn’t feel like Usman disrespected, interrupted or belittled Kimbaaaaalyyyy.
She didn’t like what he was saying, but he didn’t belittle her.
Ageeeee100000009%
It totally agree as well! I watched that whole interaction between Usman, his friend, and Kim twice and most of what Usman did was translate what his friend said and asked her other questions about her being okay with the 2nd wife..I don't feel like he was being rude to her at all she just didn't like what she was hearing and got mad at that
She so white lady! When I watch them how they act I see this alot because they don't have a culture that tells NO .
I think Usman is playing smart, as well he seems polite but he is definitely playing her. Yet Kim shouldn't be hereee 😂 she's trying so hard to be with this guy she has no self respect, both of them are in the wrong for different reasons
As an elderly Muslim lady, living in Nigeria since beginning 80s, having been married to a Northern prominent Muslim man (who passed away a few years ago. May his soul rest in peace) and also being a 2nd wife, (I also speak Hausa).
I would like to clarify a few things to this lady Kim.
1. A Muslim man can marry a Christian woman without her having to convert to Islam.
I converted long before getting married (as it was my desire since I was a child).
Let us suppose that Kim and Usman get married
In case (Allah forbid) something happens and Usman does, Kim (as a Christian) CANNOT inherit anything from Usman.
The only things she keeps are the gifts (whatever they are) that Usman gave her during his life.
2. Kim is delusional if she thinks she can impose on Usman NOT to get 1 or up to 3 more wives.
Nigerian Sharia Law (Islamic Law) allows a man to marry up to 4 wives.
Of course, ideally, the man must treat all equally and fairly, but as I saw it (not only in Nigeria, but in other Muslim countries) that is not always happening .
And it is not humanly possible.
The man always has a favorite wife.
3. In function of the man's financial status, the wives either live in same house, same compound or different houses.
It is an internal arrangement, how many days the man spends with each wide.
4. Kim is delusional and selfish.
How would she not meet his children?
5. Suppose again that Kim is becoming 1st wife (uwargida), she cannot dictate how or where the other junior wife (amariya) will live or do...no way.
6. Suppose again that (Allah forbid) Usman does first and he does as Muslim, Kim (being a woman) cannot be administrator of his will. His brothers on his father's side would be.
By the way, I think Usman said his father is a Mallam.
He should have his father explain basic Islamic things to Kim.
On another note, Usman does not behave as a true Muslim man.
I observed that he wears earrings.
A Muslim man does not do that.
A Muslim man cannot wear gold jewelry (only silver). Only women can wear gold.
It is clear to me that Usman is doing everything possible to achieve the status quo of a famous personality almost overnight.
I live in Kaduna, Abuja and honestly people do not know who this Usman Sojaboy is.
Yes, there are famous and talented Nigerian artists, but not Usman.
I am not trying to put him down by no means, but I think he is trying in the wrong way.
May Allah swt protect us, guide us and bless us. Ameen.
@Laila of Kaduna Enjoyed your post! Thank you for writing such interesting facts. I especially was interested when you pointed out that Usman shouldn’t wear gold. Thanks for the education!
@PandaRush...you are very welcome. May Allah swt bless you.
@@lailaofkaduna9781 Thank you, and to you.
Beautifully put. Love and Duas from a fellow Muslimah 📿💜🤲🌹
Rest in peace to your husband 🙏🏼 wishing you the best and thanking you for this post. It was so interesting! Can I ask about your experience as a second wife? I hope I don’t sound insensitive or anything, I’m just curious about what life was like, duties, if you ever felt any form of jealousy, how the relationship was between you and the other wife (was it a friendship?). I just find this absolutely fascinating. Thanks for educating us! 💕 in any case, I think Kim is quite disrespectful towards usman and his culture… I also think usman is only using Kim. Neither are a good match for each other.
It’s way too early in the season for them to be over. It’s called Repeat What Worked for the Show Before. 1) Kim throws a drink in Usman’s face and storms off, threatening to leave the country. 2) Usman performs a private concert and woos Kimberly back while just so happening to get the chance to promote his music on international television. Also, lol at how this other guy’s two wives aren’t being brought into the conversation at all.
It’s like watching Baby Goat VISA all over again
The only person getting hurt in this relationship is Jamal.
Usman should have let Kim talk to other women, to better understand. Having said that, Kim's a damn fool so it wouldn't matter who she talked to lol.
Basically, he wants 4 wives and Kimmie supports them all? *lol* The audacity he has is amazing. *lol*
A lot of muslim men dream about having 4 wives until they actually get married and the reality of being the breadwinner for ONE household hits. How can he manage 2, never mind 4? He cannot even afford ONE. Also, he is fooling himself if he thinks Kimberly would be able to be part of a polygynous marriage. You need faith in Allah to do that. She doesn't even know WHO Allah is.
he needs to not order drinks when shes around XD
🤣🤣
Haha right he has worn several drinks.
Usman's change of heart when he got up and ran after Kim was Usman realizing that if Kim leaves so do the 90 Day cameras.
I couldn’t handle my man having a second wife let alone 4. Kimberly would be a green card wife! 😮
Usman: Shit there goes my green card lemme go chase after it again.
“ I’m not a show pony “ holy fuck is that true lol
Show donkey maybe lmao
Did Kimberly really believe that Usman wouldn't have feelings for the mother of his children or want to be a part of his children's lives? I wouldn't be surprised if he wanted to bring them to the United States. They need a father!
And he wants a better future for his children. Every normal parent thinks this way...
Usman chased her cos he wants that green card she can provide. The only way she won't marry him Is if He finds a better or candidate. Lost sympathy n respect for her.
Honestly it's very disturbing to hear Kim wish for any other woman to be nothing more than a breeder. The other wife is not going to have another husband in that country and Kim thinks it's okay that the second wife's husband is only there to impregnate her. I'm so disturbed that Kim would wish that on anyone. It's such a turn-off I can't look at her the same honestly. And yes the other wife's children would be family, she would be their other mother. The fact she doesn't look at any of this is gaining a bigger wider family is sad. I think it comes down to her insecurities. I'm going to miss his name up but Usmen, is a lot younger than her, and I know it sounds bad but we also do have to talk about attractiveness. He's a lot more attractive than her. She's let herself go, she's overweight, she doesn't look healthy. I'm just going to say what everyone is thinking. She's going to feel insecure with someone like that, who's younger who's popular who's fit. If she wanted to deal with her insecurities she should start being more active, eating healthier and work on herself growth and her physical growth. But to shame another woman or put another woman in a submissive loveless ranking system is backwards and weird
No one is putting another woman in that position. This is out there, if they still agree to it then that is their prerogative.
SLAYYYEDDD. She was okay with it thinking she would have her husband and all his love and the 2nd wife would be in some corner or sokoto. This is going to become toxic. Everytime he Usman talks to the 2nd wife kim will be jealous and insecure. Shes always gonna wanna fight for usmans love more. And i dont think she wants to fight at her age. She should just live peacefully instead of with all this drama. U love someone than u should let him go or if she can adapt and try to calmly talk to usman instead of getting mad and throwing a drink at his face. (Kinda am wishing Usman threw a drink at her face when she annoyed him about there yammy ) still dont see it going far.
She wants nothing to do with the children the 2nd,3rd,or 4th wife have
She needs a load of therapy. Who does she think she is? The queen of Nigeria??
Omg thank you for saying this, I had Handmaid's Tale flashbacks from her taking that standpoint
Disrespect is not acceptable to a Nigerian man, yet that toad you were married to, disrespected you left, right, up, down, and sideways and you took it. Think we forgot? Kimberly shouldn't be acting out in such a juvenile manner. I think her anger though directed at him, is really meant for herself for painting a pretty picture in her head. She should thank her stars for finding out BEFORE marrying him. I think Useman was smart to arrange meeting his friend and bringing her back down to earth. Kimberly, for goodness sake, find a man in the U.S.
Exactly- her irritation at her friends was also a projection of her insecurities. She wanted to stay in her fantasy land not answer difficult questions.
@@Contessa6789 Women complain about men don't know how to listen, right?
Well, women aren't good at listening, neither.
To be blunt, Kim does look like a secret lovechild of Ursula and Danny Devito lol.
Ummmm. No. She will get back with him the moment he snaps his fingers.
Amen they have their culture and they are used to doing things in that manner and I think if she just give herself a half a chance she will find love her life or he will find her
@@cenkpasha4090 or when Usman sings another lame love song to "Kimbaaly".
The fact that she’s talking about a second wife, but isn’t his wife yet either is just 🫠🫠
"I have no idea what caused that change of heart with Usman"? Really? You dont think the fact he wants a green card has anything to do with it? Lol
🤣🤣 I was trying to be diplomatic but yea... That's the one
Kim doesn't need a husband, she needs a therapist! And the only reason he chased after her is because he wants to continue being on TV. He doesn't care one iota about Kim or her feelings. He's an opportunist and she's just delusional.
That's basically this entire show. People who struggle with attracting the kind of partner they want who are then love bombed by opportunists. Seems to be the theme.
0:02 Tradition?
Seriously, is there a season where Usman doesn't get covered in water (or liquor) by Kim?
How did she not have a return ticket already?
That’s hilarious! She tried to make like she was cool with everything, come on polygamy is polygamy! There is no number associated! You don’t get to choose no matter if your wife number one or wife’s number 53! As long as he can treat you all the same! That’s how it is in his face… Kimberly please read more into it and stop assuming that you know and that he’s being honest with you! You are worth more than that and your son knows it!
If Usman really loved her 👀 😐 Um then he would understand she does not want to see the other wife. If Kim loved Usman she wouldn't have disrespected him in public. If either of them loved themselves, they wouldn't be in this relationship. 🤷🏾♀️
The second a friend of mine tells me she is buying expensive gifts for a man she barely knows and traveling to the other part of the world to meet him, the second I know my friend has issues and needs a shrink.
Who believes that Kim will leave? Seeing is believing.
not enough self respect to end the relationship and why is he with her anyway???
Go home Kim. He's really not into you. Why do you want a guy that wants more wives??? You will never be number one. This is never going to work. You have a gorgeous son at home who is so good to you
You have friends. Why do you want to stay with Usman??? Don't be so delusional at your age. It is so sad to watch you act the way that you do
So desperate.
She won't she thin kn d he cares she is a green card that's it.He is not attracted to her st all
@@AirQuotes848 only to be on the show.
No green card is worth being with Kim.
He saw his American dream getting away. 😅
Wait didn't she tell her friends she was okay with sharing him before she went there??
In her mind she though second wife means child carrier only 😅
Kim deserves all she gets if she thinks it’s ok for a girl young enough to be her daughter to be an enslaved baby making machine while she gets all the good stuff.
I feel sorry for her. Someone has hurt her badly.
She hates herself, needs a treatment, later she can fond someone, her age and on America 😅
She needs therapy
Ya his name is usman
@Sometimes I Get Carried Away She doesn't want that. She just doesn't want to deal with wife no.2. Nothing was said about her being a slave to Kimberly. She doesn't even live in Nigeria. She's a sad woman that craves love. Somebody has hurt her terribly.
First husband did.
the fact she didnt think to look up how it works in their country,no he would love the second wife and have kids with her and they would live together..honestly knowing him he would like the younger wife better BECAUSE she would have more in common,have kids and be able to bond in other ways
Your perspective is so insightful. You make some of the most top quality content that has existed re reality television. Thanks for your work! It’s been great watching you grow.
Wow! Thank you so much. That's a huge compliment. I appreciate your support
Usman saw that green card slipping away!! That’s why he ran after her !! Lol
How many drinks will Usman take to the face before he calls it quits, 10? maybe Kim should throw two drinks at once (Usman likes the idea of twins).
😂😂😂😂
I am shocked that at this Era Kim did not do a basic Google research on Muslim religion and marriage in Nigeria. It just blows my mind. Everything Usman says comes as a shock. She acts so childish and immature while claiming that she is a "grown ass women". She demands to be loved and cared better than the other wife .. why? Because she is superior ? Or because she is an American?
Because she white
@@ladydeeelmansy-john6006 and Because she stupid
She assumed he will have a concubine to just carry his "illegitimate" kids since she knows that his marriage to a second wife will not be counted legal in the United States. As a woman, who's acting all independent and tough, would allow such thing to happen to another woman and child? Her selfishness and ignorance are unrepairable .
At least that time it was not water!
Delusional kim...she would never truly be ok with him having another wife
Where did she get that from "Women there are brought up to do this"
No they are not and there are a lot of Nigerians in the US now who will tell you.
She said he kept interrupting her, what bullshit, she was jealous point blank period 🤣 she's too old to have a child , is supposedly accepting of another woman having his children ( very doubtful in reality ) but doesn't want anything to do with those children produced which isn't a very practical idea is it..they are her step children!
There's never going to be a happy ever after here
At Kim’s age wanting a younger man she’s delusional to have him all to herself. Go get an older man !
Being married to a Nigerian, Usman wasn’t being disrespectful he was being funny. Kim was being sensitive if you listen to him he was ready to laugh at it. Lesson, before you fall for a man from a different culture do your research and don’t just jump on the yammy 😅. Notice, Usmans family is pushing it because Kim can’t give him a child which would be the main reason why he needs a second wife
Exactly!!
I can see part of what you are saying. However everything of this is new to her. One think is search about it another thing is living that. And there is other way to get a child without having a second wife. I get that for Nigerian have multiple wife’s is something good. However she is not Nigerian. And Usman is not a saint too. Let’s remember that he knew how different the things is in the western. The best option to do is find a middle term btw them. I know sounds I’m totally defend her. But Kim was also very stupid. I hated how she talked about the second wife as the second one will only serve to have a child. Kim definitely thinks she is the best one. It’s very dumb of her thinking he wouldn’t get feeling for the second one who will be the mother of his child.😅
@@antonianogueira9134 Man...I just hate it when people assume that all Nigerians are supposed to have multiple wives. That is completely FASLE. Usman and his friends have second wives because they're MUSLIM. The majority of Muslims in Nigeria live in the northern part of Nigeria. The remaining Nigerians are Christian and DO NOT believe in polygamy.
These breakdowns are awesome.
Thank you ♥️
Kim please get some therapy.
Everything said in their fight was what they truly did believe. Kim hopefully the blindfold is off and you finally see what everyone was saying. Usman has just realized that he is letting his ticket to the US get away. That is why he is chasing her down in the hotel. If Kim doesn't see it now then she deserves what she gets.
Or he chased her because it was at night and she is in a foreign country, which is dangerous.
@@lizbetkasape447 actually trailer show them quarrelling in the car park.
@@speedmeisterkym6120 but if you watch the episode you will see it was at night, coz the fight happened right after they went to see his friend and that was at night, and when they drove home in the car it was at night, and the fight continued to the room, and she stormed out,
So maybe there is something seriously wrong with the people on the internet because they only see Usman running after a greencard but they don't see that even if you don't love a person you do not watch them storm to the streets at night in a foreign country, you go after them. How is it people don't see these things, how do you not see that you can't watch a person walk into the streets at night in a foreign country because something bad can happen?
He tricked her into the extra wives thing… first he wanted 1 kid and now he wants 10 with 3 or 4 other women?!?!
Also he wants twins so he would reach his 10 kids goal faster….: it doesn’t work like that Usman, you can’t choose to have twins like having 2 desserts after dinner and go for second dessert after that again 🤔🤣🤣🤣
Kim must orp speed to the airport and leave as fast as she can without looking back!!
Sorry I think he was joking about that extra wives or just the second wife
Granny is desperate and delusional!!
@@want2thinkfree maybe so… but he knew how she was trying to understand how it would be with an extra wife situation and he was taking the piss… before it escalated he could have quickly say it was a joke and calm the situation down …
After that he never mentioned it was a joke or explain himself ( tlc could have edited it out of course for the drama )
@@EsotericRoyalty777 true.. she wanted to know more about how this would go with second wife situations, but didn’t expected to be sort of a sister wife situation and that’s what freaked her out I guess 🤷🏻♀️
@@jomesias granny as in Kimberly?
The fact she always stoops this low & quick to throw drinks @ him,,get loud & ignorant then storms off is pathetic 🤡🤡🤡. Besides the fact that Usman isn't truly into her like that, she's better off dumping him for good
Usman's change of heart is caused by him remembering 🐐 Lisa🐐 ripping off his TLC paycheck and doesn't want that to happen with Kim.
she can be as dramatic as she wants.... she will go back for more 🙄🙄🙄🙄
I feel sorry for her but I'm still not over the fact about what she said about Nigerian women It made it so hard for me to feel bad for her
Nope no sympathy whatsoever for her. How she characterised the 2nd wife to her friends, disrespectful. She's disgusting.
She has no right to throw things at him, that is physical abuse.
Why didn’t she do any research about Islam?
Everybody is right, lesson learned
Kim is not revealing a new attitude. She always throws fits. He is at least being upfront with her and bringing her to meet people who are living the life he wants. This is definitely a relationship that should end.
IT IS THE SAME OLD ATTITUDE REPEATING PATTERNS.
What a toxic relationship!!!! Kim should not have got involved in this and Usman should not have dated her for the green card.🤢
My grandfather had 4 wives. He kept them in separate houses on opposite ends of the city 😅
These people really don't take the time to learn anything about the other culture. All they want is the yummy and to get married and they wonder why the relationship fails.
I think Kim should’ve done more research on Usmans culture and how it really works with multiple wives before she decided to be with him. She set herself up being delusional
She picks at him she is a narrsasist like that
Usman is sooo disrespectful..and Kimberly keeps allowing herself to get hurt. UNBELIEVABLE...
I was so focused on why in the world Kim is still dealing with this ridiculous relationship that I didn't even think about it as Usman trying to show off in front of his friend 😂
Edit: I don't even care if it's fake I would love to see Kim interview some potential wives hahaa.
What if kim wanted to marry more men too? They would need their own series 😝
Kim you need too come back to America and forget about did you can't do better than that please don't let people play with your respect please
Kim is a big ass baby always throwing tantrums when she doesn't get her way...she came into this thinking she could buy him with things, now she's throwing drinks at him and disrespecting his culture...now her stupid ass all in her feelings about a hypothetical wife and child after she already lied about being ok with it
@@mariecarisme8143 No she can't do better or she would .
she veery desperate
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Whatever guys he wants Kimberly to take care of his second wife and his wife's kids and that's ridiculous
That marriage is doomed before it gets started if that is how she behaves.
She has no business getting married. To anyone. She’s got to fix herself.
Why on earth is it necessary to have 10 kids - is the planet not overpopulated enough already....?
In Islam, if you take on extra wives, you have to give them equal everything. You give one an 1 hour of roses and champagne, you give the other wife 1 hour of roses and champagne.
My great grandfather in China had 4 wives (those days). The first wife is the most respected but I believe the 2 was his favorite. It’s going to happen. 🤷🏻♀️ and in those days, having the extra wives wasn’t all fun and games. The wives fight among each other and fight for the husband’s attention.
I grew in a Muslim country in the Middle East, but I'm actually Catholic. And most of the men who had a second wife was was either because they wanted more children or trying for a boy, or because the wife had some illness and couldn't perform her "wifely duty". However, having a second wife in the nation that I grew up in was almost rare because you needed Court order and approval to obtain a second wife. Having a second wife and secrets can get the husband in trouble. Other nations around that region can have a "Urfi" wedding. Meaning their marriage is not legal but you do have witnesses along with a special cleric signing a document stating that a form of "marriage" took place. The problem with such marriage is that wife cannot have any financial benefits from that husband and my even have a problem obtaining birth certificate for any child she has with that man along with giving him the husband's family name. Many woman unfortunately got into such marriage contract because they did not want to be single and agreed to such agreement until they end up in court seeking rights for their children. That's why many countries in that area require proper paperwork to have a second wife in order to protect the woman and the children.
It’s difficult enough, in this day and age, to find love, especially when older.
Now let’s add in a huge age gap and an even bigger cultural gap….
For crying out loud: stay home, date people in your age group with a culture you can embrace.
Oh no girl... cant disrespect your man like that whatever your feelings. Especially in front of his friend.
She isn't healed 😢 💔 😕 😔 😞 she is really hurting n reaching she beeds to love herself
They need to have a huge fight every season so he can sing to her his newest sucky song for clout.
She’s never survive on Finding Sister Wives lol
spilling food on him is not ok. shes too old for that and how can you love someone and switch to hostility with them that fast. I would not do that if they told me they already had 10 mates. I would just leave. I don't own anothers body anyway so one can't get upset about how they use their body
kim also was rude in front of his friend usman throwing water to his face waaaa.. respect and control of our emotions in front of other people..
I don’t know how in the world she thinks that he would have a wife that she would never speak to or see her. Especially a wife that would have children!
It’s ridiculous that she seems to think that Usman wouldn’t be attracted to, and love his other wives - maybe more than her. As a wife, Kim has a purpose too. She is the ticket to a green card, and she has American dollars. I’m not sure this is going to translate into love…now or later.
“Safe flight”. 😂 🤣
How is Usman so fast to send the love of his life away? Wait it clicked in for Usman that he loves her because there he goes chasing after the potential green card, oops Kim. This is his second chance, he might not get a third. Sacrifices have to be made Usman. Think this through.
😆Exactly!!!
Usman is now a public figure in throughout the entire USA now, there are many women who now want him (crazy enough) he actually does not need Kim to get a green card if that is ALL that he wants. I think in some way he actually recognizes that she is a good person and a good friend who just wants love. I don't think he is in love with her but I think that he loves her and doesn't want to hurt her. I think she needs to grow up & recognize that this is not a match for her and allow herself to meet a great man that will love her the way she is trying to force him to love her and he needs to find someone for himself and his culture to be accepted.
@@livelifewithkaykay5050 it was a night, Kim is in a foreign country, you don't watch a person storm to the streets at night in a land they are not familiar with, you run after them. Something bad can happen and that would be on you
@@livelifewithkaykay5050SWeq#¢aZsAzaa, 10 tt
Hes so surprised at her cursing "at him" just so his friend believes hes in charge backfired 100% 😂 The second she threw the drink and he didnt stand up or anything showed his friend she dosnt submit to him and i love that 😂😂
“I have no idea what caused that change of heart” it’s definitely the green card being on the line 😂
Kim, if you can’t accept the way things are in another country, try to find someone in the beautiful 50 states of the USA.
Kim please move on. He’s not worth your time or love
Let's play a game. We take a 🥃 everytime Kimbalee says she's booking a flight back to the states and Usman says "safe 🛫"
Kim, go home, focus on yourself and your family, get therapy so you can find a good man and build that loving home with picket fence.
Please tell me someone remembers the episode of Tales From The Crypt with the insurance guy that was forced to marry one family’s daughter….
Well Kim looks EXACTLY like the daughter
She is just saying anything she can to be with him and in her mind she thought he would fall so in love with her that he wouldn't want a second wife smh
His plan is to get to US with this lady. And have otherwise and kid like regular people. He will dump her as soon as he goes to US or as soon as he gets his green card