No Jamal, I Don't See Any Red Flags...

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  • It's time for Kim, Usman and Jamal to meet Mahadi, the four year old nephew that Usman wants to adopt. When Usman breaks the news to his brother, Mohammed is shocked. But, surprisingly he doesn't rule it out. However, they'd need Kim to convert to Islam. Will converting her religion be one step too far for Kim? Or, will history repeat itself when she inevitably backtracks and readjusts her boundaries?
    In this video I'm recapping Happily Ever After Season 7 Episode 16 Kimbaaaaaly & Usman.
    👇 What are your thoughts? Agree? Disagree? Let's continue the conversation in the comments below
    #90dayfiance #kimandusman
    •••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••
    Missed an episode? Watch the full Kim & Usman Happily Ever After story here:
    Episode 1: What Planet Is Kim On? • What Planet Is Kim On?
    Episode 2: Usman Is FULL OF CRAP • Usman Is FULL OF CRAP
    Episode 3: Desperate Kim Is Left VERY UNIMPRESSED... • Desperate Kim Is Left ...
    Episode 4: Kim EXPLODES After Learning Usman Wants FOUR Wives... • Kim EXPLODES After Lea...
    Episode 5: Please Don't Break Up With Me Usman. I'LL DO ANYTHING... • Please Don't Break Up ...
    Episode 6: Kim's LUCKY To Be With Me. I'm Doing Her A Favor! • Kim's LUCKY To Be With...
    Episode 7: Sorry Kim, My Mommy Won't Let Me Marry You... • Sorry Kim, My Mommy Wo...
    Episode 8: You Mean I Spent All My Money FOR NOTHING??!! • You Mean I Spent All M...
    Episode 9: You Think I'm UGLY?? • You Think I'm UGLY??
    Episode 10: Your Mom Wants You To MARRY YOUR COUSIN??? • Your Mom Wants You To ...
    Episode 11: Yes, I'll Marry You But... I'VE GOT ANOTHER DATE TOMORROW!! • I'll Marry You But... ...
    Episode 12: Congratulations On Your Victory, Kim... • Congratulations On You...
    Episode 13: Oh Sh*t. What Do We Do Now?? • Oh Sh*t. What Do We Do...
    Episode 14: You Want To ADOPT?? Are You Kidding Me!! • You Want To ADOPT?? Ar...
    Episode 15: Jamal Meets Usman. IT GOES VERY BADLY! • Jamal Meets Usman. IT ...

ความคิดเห็น • 919

  • @zsofiaszaller3005
    @zsofiaszaller3005 ปีที่แล้ว +778

    At this point, Kim deserves everything She gets... But I hope they wont destroy an innocent child's life just because they are incredibly stupid.

    • @ladydeeelmansy-john6006
      @ladydeeelmansy-john6006 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes she does. She has mental problems

    • @DanceArchives24
      @DanceArchives24 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Exactly. It makes me sick that both of these ppl are willing to rip this baby away from everything he knows just to get what they want from each other. Its sickening. Im also questioning the parents so easily moved to give him up. I think they planned it.

    • @jaquelinvega6502
      @jaquelinvega6502 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I agree with your comment 100%

    • @Chrisxulo
      @Chrisxulo ปีที่แล้ว +16

      It's a scam. He will leave her after he got his citizenship

    • @zsofiaszaller3005
      @zsofiaszaller3005 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Grandesecole I don't know why anyone would want that 😅

  • @ChildofGod-g8f
    @ChildofGod-g8f ปีที่แล้ว +1008

    Nobody in the programme mentioned the trauma to this little boy to be taken from his home and mom and dad. This was heart breaking. The little chap is clearly very close to his daddy too.

    • @ellieantar809
      @ellieantar809 ปีที่แล้ว +80

      Absolutely ripping a child from his parents....how dare Usman !!!! and why are the child's parents seemingly agreeable...

    • @MamiTT237
      @MamiTT237 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      That ain’t happening! The parents obviously love their kids… even when the mother said she would have to seriously think about it.. I do not think she would say yes!

    • @deniseblackburn33
      @deniseblackburn33 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Agreed

    • @repentjesusiscomingsoon1529
      @repentjesusiscomingsoon1529 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@MamiTT237 Yes!!! The look on the mama's face said, "AIN'T NO WAY!!!!!!!!!"

    • @user-fy8sp3vw3h
      @user-fy8sp3vw3h ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Exactly my thought too @Sharon

  • @kamin3895
    @kamin3895 ปีที่แล้ว +556

    The man who had to ask his mommy's permission to get married to Kim, thinks her son is "too involved' 😂😂😂

    • @msbrit5178
      @msbrit5178 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      I was thinking the same things. It’s a whole mess.

    • @longliveethiopia123
      @longliveethiopia123 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Different cultures and different ways! Open your minds

    • @kamin3895
      @kamin3895 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@longliveethiopia123 Culture or not he's a fucking hypocrite. He schemed and lied a whole season and threw her to the wolves in front of his whole family to get his bullshit "blessing" but as soon as her son starts talking sense then he's "too involved" Nah, he's just a man child who's upset someones talking sense to his love scam sugar mommy 😂😂

    • @SonjaElizabethTeal
      @SonjaElizabethTeal ปีที่แล้ว +9

      The audacity, huh?

    • @SonjaElizabethTeal
      @SonjaElizabethTeal ปีที่แล้ว +45

      @@longliveethiopia123 It has nothing to do with damn culture or closed minds. Any fool can see that it's a double standard!!!

  • @KSun-yq1yp
    @KSun-yq1yp ปีที่แล้ว +223

    What kills me is that Kim is a mother herself. She knows the pain that mothers feel. She knows how much it’ll destroy the parents but she STILL goes with it

    • @danasandoval624
      @danasandoval624 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      And the child that little boy will never feel safe again. Regardless of what he is told he will think his parents stopped loving him and at some point Usman and Kimbalee will also give him away, this is so bad it’s not funny at all.

    • @irishva2314
      @irishva2314 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yeah, she didn't raise jamal, his father did! She's got some crazy history, and is just off! Let's keep playing this game cuz I want the attention, paycheck, yammy! All valid reasons to continue this charaDe...NOT!

    • @danasandoval624
      @danasandoval624 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@irishva2314 well said. This adoption situation is sick and the little boy will have major issues if they do this!!

    • @blueneptune825
      @blueneptune825 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I think we can rest easy. Those parents aren't going to let that little guy go anywhere. They're willing to give TLC a storyline but they won't be willing to give that little boy to Usman.🐦

    • @jessicajamesspeaks
      @jessicajamesspeaks ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Usman and Kimbalee are plotting to kidnap Mahadi 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @ZebraZoom007
    @ZebraZoom007 ปีที่แล้ว +336

    All Usman just has to say is "This is the Nigerian way" and Kim will take it as the truth 🙄 it's exhausting

    • @Arista177
      @Arista177 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      She seems to not have access to google??

    • @SonjaElizabethTeal
      @SonjaElizabethTeal ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@Arista177
      To have been someone supposedly been in the military Kimbaaaalys' research and investigative skills are lacking! My four year old Niece can utilize the internet to find out things.

    • @marknewton6984
      @marknewton6984 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Kim is nuts
      .

    • @olgasantiago9436
      @olgasantiago9436 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      She Is Definitely Desperate For Some Ñami!..Her Priorities Are to The Lowest of the lows 😞

    • @barbararipani1331
      @barbararipani1331 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Why does she only say Well, this is his culture” as if her own culture is totally unimportant.

  • @lynnyhen
    @lynnyhen ปีที่แล้ว +309

    Usman is an opportunist and obviously does not love her. Kim has the emotional maturity of an adolescent. Kim, go home and get therapy.

    • @N0N4M30
      @N0N4M30 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Usman is a user and con artist a really bad one for that matter lol

    • @StandYourGroundHomestead
      @StandYourGroundHomestead ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@N0N4M30 that's why he can only pull desperate old women. Lol

    • @erikascholten8994
      @erikascholten8994 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Useman has her number! Hook, Line and Sinker.

    • @lorrainegraham4726
      @lorrainegraham4726 ปีที่แล้ว

      Usman want to get to the United States so he can be a star. He heard about how men use dumb older women , he is bought and paid for. The more money she spends the more grins. He really thinks he's hot, why don't he go for his younger fans, that can have babies, he's a dam opportunist to the 1 degree

    • @lexizaino7093
      @lexizaino7093 ปีที่แล้ว

      She’s a moron.

  • @BeckBeckGo
    @BeckBeckGo ปีที่แล้ว +105

    I love Jamal. He’s such a straight shooter. He knows when to ask the hard questions. And he asks them without uuuhming and ahhing. And he remains respectful.

    • @leonortriglia3311
      @leonortriglia3311 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Jamal is very mature to understand this crazy mother relationship with this man.

    • @Aliza9990
      @Aliza9990 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@beatlesfan491 what happened ??

    • @nicoleblake2700
      @nicoleblake2700 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@Aliza9990 he came off as a player with him and Veronica. Acting like such a sleeze ball

  • @shayne2954
    @shayne2954 ปีที่แล้ว +230

    Jamal seems so responsible in this vs. his recent appearance in The Single Life. Oh well.. at least he’s honest in both shows 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @M0-nique
      @M0-nique ปีที่แล้ว +57

      How is it honest, sleeping with a woman who he knows wants more, knowing he doesn't see her more than a "good time"? He's far from honest. He's a hypocrite. He doesn't want his mom wasting her time, money, and love on someone who's just gonna hurt her. But it's OK for him to do it with Veronica??

    • @raulmontr
      @raulmontr ปีที่แล้ว +55

      @@M0-nique he told everyone on the show many times, it’s an open thing. He openly said so, I’d say it’s Veronica’s fault for choosing this type of relationship and she has herself to blame. At least Jamal isn’t dangling the possibility of a relationship/wanting kids/sweet talking her/marriage at her face. In that regards, he’s honest and purely looking for fun. But choosing Veronica, just nah bruh

    • @gottabeme1560
      @gottabeme1560 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      ​@@M0-nique that's exactly what I was thinking when I watched that amazing tell all! It was highly disappointed in Jamal I'm very concerned and shocked if Veronica would let herself in for this and Tim was 100% right!

    • @primadonna2819
      @primadonna2819 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@gottabeme1560 But can you really expect Jamal to be a stand up guy with a mother like Kim? He views all women through the stupid, easy lense, so he treats them accordingly. It's pathetic all around.

    • @sabir1208
      @sabir1208 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@primadonna2819 not just Kim but his dad too. Serial cheating same bm everyone else gets. And their sons aren't usually any better

  • @lala-es3qy
    @lala-es3qy ปีที่แล้ว +150

    Let me get this straight….. so Usman and Kim are willing to put a young innocent child through trauma by permanently taking him away from the his loving mother and father just to fulfill their own selfish agendas…. Really??? The moment Kim found out the selfish devious plan that Usman thought up, she should have said “I am out of here”. Kim nor Usman want a child and this little boy is going to know this. Kim should know better because she has already raised a child. Kim and Usman both need to get out of their fantasy world and stop creating chaos for everyone around them. Go home Kim

    • @gorgeouzgaltiara3711
      @gorgeouzgaltiara3711 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It NEVER in their plan to adopt Mahadi till d fact TT Usman can't do polygamy in US n therefore d only way is adopting a child! So why not Mahadi! No hassle, no papers, no $ n easy! So why not take his nephew! NO plans for tomorrow! It's wats now!!!!!

    • @jab6223
      @jab6223 ปีที่แล้ว

      Idiots

    • @SonjaElizabethTeal
      @SonjaElizabethTeal ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I would have production taking me to the airport so damn fast...

    • @debbieizhere
      @debbieizhere ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah she really should’ve packed up and ran back to the states months ago

    • @UppityOne
      @UppityOne ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You are right! Usman and Kimbaaalee are incredibly selfish.

  • @kimaniwaiyaki1603
    @kimaniwaiyaki1603 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Usman can't stand the fact that Jamal is there to keep his mom's head straight. Jamal is not entertaining his mom's little love story and brings a sense of reality to the situation.

    • @aliasteward5705
      @aliasteward5705 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      But even with Jamal there her heads still not on straight, she’s never leaving that man lol

  • @sandytrimble5081
    @sandytrimble5081 ปีที่แล้ว +214

    How is adopting his brother's child supposed to placate Usman's mother? She is expected to be happy that Usman is taking her grandson to America rather than marrying a Hausa girl and having his own children? I think his mother will have a melt down over this.

    • @stuntcellist3338
      @stuntcellist3338 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Agreed! 💯

    • @24karate
      @24karate ปีที่แล้ว +9

      He completely forgot about the contract

    • @HamsterLife_EnglishLearning
      @HamsterLife_EnglishLearning ปีที่แล้ว

      Useman did tell Kim he was going to be back home 4x a year after he moves to America. So he will have children with another woman, perhaps the young girl he met. No mention of him not still marrying or having more children. He doesn't communicate his plans with Kim ever.

    • @SonjaElizabethTeal
      @SonjaElizabethTeal ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Use-Man thinks everyone is stupid except him...

    • @danasandoval624
      @danasandoval624 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I hope she does but I don’t think it will change Usman’s evil plan, or wake up stupid Kimbalee.

  • @sparklesnthings2273
    @sparklesnthings2273 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    The way Usman squints when he looks at kim he does not even like looking at her🤣

    • @Chitownhomestead
      @Chitownhomestead ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I don't blame him

    • @mymai5859
      @mymai5859 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yep he's going to have multiple affairs on her if he hasn't already.

    • @lonelybutnotlooking3733
      @lonelybutnotlooking3733 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Could he look at Baby girl Lisa 🤣🤣🤣

    • @lexizaino7093
      @lexizaino7093 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Would you like looking at her? She looks like Herman Munster.

    • @marknewton6984
      @marknewton6984 ปีที่แล้ว

      Would you?

  • @mondeeelshaddai4722
    @mondeeelshaddai4722 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    You should have paired Angela with Usman and Micheal with Kim 😂

    • @marknewton6984
      @marknewton6984 ปีที่แล้ว

      I can't keep all these losers straight.

    • @bbj4613
      @bbj4613 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      But Michael likes being a door mat and so does Kim so ultimately it wouldn’t work because the dynamics of each relationship are controlling & submissive. Two controlling & two submissive wouldn’t work. They need therapy … badly 😂

    • @annadaigle4368
      @annadaigle4368 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree 💯%

    • @beingawoman7575
      @beingawoman7575 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Michael is being abused. He trying to get a green card. Don't be mistaken. What that woman is doing is abuse. Usman is a lying jerk. There is a different.

    • @voluntaryismistheanswer
      @voluntaryismistheanswer ปีที่แล้ว

      I like this thought lol

  • @plk_0626
    @plk_0626 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Jamal's got more brains than Usman and his mother . . . . . Put together 🙄

  • @alongfellow4147
    @alongfellow4147 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    Kim was right for once. She's not Muslim, and I'm proud of her for being honest. I just hope she keeps her word, which she probably won't.

    • @gorgeouzgaltiara3711
      @gorgeouzgaltiara3711 ปีที่แล้ว

      She may not be a Muslim but her reply to ALL will be I'm not a Muslim but I'm learning Abt Islam from Usman. I know better now!
      Please understand learning Abt Islam isn't just NO PORK n NO ALCOHOL! But hey Usman drinks during his b/day! It's much Much MUCH more than TT! U REALLY must know Islam, understand why we do wat we do n many more! Kim will accept n believe anything Usman says ltr cuz she DESPERATELY want Usman true luv! She hs NO confidence in his luv for her! She secretly knows TT tho she isn't telling or confronting it herself. It will tire her eventually n slowly! Takes times n times will make her 60yrs or more old. Too old to regret!

    • @shruti5505
      @shruti5505 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@1zy he's married a woman of other religion as well. why shouldn't he change his religion

    • @erikascholten8994
      @erikascholten8994 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She won't! She wants what she wants!!!
      How pathetic!!!

    • @aliasteward5705
      @aliasteward5705 ปีที่แล้ว

      She won’t

    • @aliasteward5705
      @aliasteward5705 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@shruti5505then they can’t have the little boy

  • @ingood0867
    @ingood0867 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    I agree with Jamal, Usman is running her ragged and she just goes along with whatever, eventually.

  • @shazzymapatazzie3117
    @shazzymapatazzie3117 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Usman says that Jamal is in his mothers relationship too much? WTF? Says the grown ass man who needed his mothers permission to marry for the second time. Usman is going to control Kimberly as much as he possibly can so Jamal had better keep a close eye on him that's for sure.

    • @lonelybutnotlooking3733
      @lonelybutnotlooking3733 ปีที่แล้ว

      Next he is going to say Jamal is toooo much i can't marry you which is sick....he is going to try to break that bond....Kim will try to guilt Jamal and cry that HE is ruining everything. Through this experience Jamal is clearly seeing though his adult eyes that his mother's past relationship issues when he was a child was MOSTLY due to her low-self esteem. I respect how he is keeping real, but respecting that she is an adult and not speaking with her with contempt despite her poor decisions that he is now seeing as her adult child. KIM is abusers dream.... flexible boundaries then blames the other person when it goes up in flames. This is a train wreck

  • @meowmom3296
    @meowmom3296 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I'm getting the ick from the cute little boy being with those clowns 🤡.

  • @bettydavis829
    @bettydavis829 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    JAMAL is so protective over his mum and she is just blind he is a good son

  • @shaniceokubena4975
    @shaniceokubena4975 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    The problem is she has 0 boundaries almost anything Usman says its like she'll eventually agree. That's not healthy in any relationship.

  • @veronicamcminn7775
    @veronicamcminn7775 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    Love the recaps. It saves me from watching the entire show. You pull out the best parts lol

  • @debs7876
    @debs7876 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    This couple needs to breakup before they ruin some poor little child’s life …

  • @lornaramson5079
    @lornaramson5079 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I would be shocked if Usman’s brother and sister in law gave up their beautiful child!

  • @zoraidita2022
    @zoraidita2022 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    WHAT NOT TO DO IN DATING. DATE A 33-YEAR-OLD MUSLIM WHO WANTS CHILDREN AND YOU ARE A 50-YEAR-OLD WOMAN. This woman is desperate she'll do anything for him. KIM MOVE ON!

  • @elliebennett4987
    @elliebennett4987 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    We are talking about a child here, not a pair of shoes.. I cannot even believe that his parents are even considering this😑🤬

    • @marknewton6984
      @marknewton6984 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes children are not trading cards.

  • @ykskes2561
    @ykskes2561 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    I remember one episode Kim firmly stated she doesn’t want to raise any young children and now she is considering it?
    Converting religion is out of the question but heck in a few episodes she will consider it as Usman will talk her in to it as “ it doesn’t mean that much” and she doesn’t have to be Muslim in America but only pretend when visit his hometown… mark my words… it’s going to be something in that area to convince her…
    And another note : where is Usmans engagement ring?? 🤔
    Again captured this episode like a boss 👍🏼 thank you ♥️

  • @nancykhan3574
    @nancykhan3574 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    She can’t even be a Mom to her own son, let alone raise someone else’s 😂

  • @gia-abcd
    @gia-abcd ปีที่แล้ว +48

    I feel for the poor mum of the baby, she probably won’t get a say in the decision and no mother wants to lose their baby like this

    • @allthatsheiz
      @allthatsheiz ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Well in appearance maybe but I think each relationship is different. The man may speak but when they go home they may have the type of relationship that is more balanced. Note it’s just him and one wife. It would behoove him to keep a happy/decent home.

    • @fatimaslifeline
      @fatimaslifeline ปีที่แล้ว

      Who said she don’t have a say 😳

    • @gia-abcd
      @gia-abcd ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@fatimaslifeline well I did say probably, it was very clear Usman only wanted his bothers approval

    • @voluntaryismistheanswer
      @voluntaryismistheanswer ปีที่แล้ว

      I pray for her resolve and courage to keep her child from being snatched up like Madonna's purchased children who now live THAT lifestyle - David Banda was not an orphan and his father intended to take him home after the tomato harvest! PS adoptions in Africa are like how adoption used to be everywhere before the baby traffickers took over- open and a matter of formality, legalities, and a way for a childless uncle to have children to inherit, etc. Never to take them away from all family ties!

  • @robbinwilliamson9235
    @robbinwilliamson9235 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Kim is so desperate!!!

  • @jp8615
    @jp8615 ปีที่แล้ว +370

    Kim sees how wrong this is and STILL going through with it. Wild

    • @oumryeternity7871
      @oumryeternity7871 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's the power of the yummy banana, sorry I mean persuasion 😂

    • @annaleebillings
      @annaleebillings ปีที่แล้ว

      Because she is under a spell.
      Kimberly is the one getting Bamboozled here Kimberly and her son the Africans they all are in cohoose together all about that little boy coming to America is the plan of the Nigerians that's why they need somebody like Kimberly is just to get them an American visa one by one this is how it works the little boy gets to come to America he grows up he file for his mother he filed for his father they get to come to America okay it's all about that little boy coming to America and they don't care really if he grows up Muslim or not they're just pulling Kimberly's leg Kimberly's the innocent one here she's the sacrificial lamb you're sacrificing her life for theirs.

    • @melodyespinoza650
      @melodyespinoza650 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Kimberly is hard up to have a man in her life

    • @jessicajamesspeaks
      @jessicajamesspeaks ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The fact that Kim is going along with Usman "kidnapping" his nephew and cosigning it speaks volumes about her character and lack of sense.

    • @cecilejoubert7933
      @cecilejoubert7933 ปีที่แล้ว

      It is because she is desperate and stupid! Usman feels nothing for her - he is just using her to go to the US and get a green card.

  • @arjoseph93
    @arjoseph93 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Yea she’s saying no to converting just like she said no to his second wife lol now look at her. Contemplating how she’s going to raise this toddler at her big age

  • @dengyldnesvaneHop
    @dengyldnesvaneHop ปีที่แล้ว +22

    The mom.. The poor mom, that they will take her beautiful boy from her, and she is probably not the one who decides in the end. And it's so sad for the boy, he's losing his father, mother and siblings. It's so bad

    • @aliasteward5705
      @aliasteward5705 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That’s what I said, damn shame

  • @augenstern60
    @augenstern60 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    There are so many
    children without parents there...why not adopt an orphant?

  • @LilD1ablaa
    @LilD1ablaa ปีที่แล้ว +34

    At least Jamal is in Kim’s corner this time

  • @IbriyGad
    @IbriyGad ปีที่แล้ว +5

    How can Kim sit there and not the feel the disgust coming from the child’s mother sitting across from her?

    • @lexizaino7093
      @lexizaino7093 ปีที่แล้ว

      Because she’s a slob and a moron who doesn’t care about anyone but herself and getting laid from a guy who can barely stand to look at her or touch her.

  • @3001ale
    @3001ale ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Kimberly is a terrible person and deserves everything back at her. How she is actually considering to rip a child from his family ? Does anyone thinking the trauma and pain that child will feel? Shame on her and Usman, by the way another terrible human being.

  • @gentlestorm322
    @gentlestorm322 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    What a desperate and needy woman who ignores ALL those Usman red flags. She needs to find a mature adult man on her level.

  • @veronamarie
    @veronamarie ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Mahadi it’s already Guseman’s mother’s grandchild. So I don’t see the whole point of making him Usman son. This whole thing is so selfish.

  • @ritafoster8625
    @ritafoster8625 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Kim is totally blind. She is ignoring even Jamal. So many red flags. Could she actually take that cute little boy away from his parents and everything he knows. That is cruel

  • @kimberlysmith4494
    @kimberlysmith4494 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Am very surprised that Kim son Jamal went to Nigeria for all this negotiations...

    • @Tuoyo3005
      @Tuoyo3005 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      For real! These have now actually turned into negotiations 🤣

    • @M0-nique
      @M0-nique ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Now he thinks he's some star lol. His head got big and he acts like a teenager lol. He's a punk...

    • @Pandagurl218
      @Pandagurl218 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How so when a woman needs a male to get married in Islamic cultures, seemed very strategic honestly

    • @M0-nique
      @M0-nique ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Pandagurl218 i can think of 4 women off hand, who got married on the show with NO male. Not exactly sure what you mean they need a male.

  • @suzeelewis718
    @suzeelewis718 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    How dare that poor boys parents even consider this sickening nonsense. SHAME ON THEM!!

  • @Lulumelon205
    @Lulumelon205 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I’m a South African woman and I can say that it is normal for siblings to treat each other’s children like their own and take them in but only if the parent is unable to and you are able to give them a better life and again this usually happens if the parent dies this is kinda weird though

    • @SonjaElizabethTeal
      @SonjaElizabethTeal ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It's not an unusual practice in most families no matter where they are from...and I know from experience. What's unusual is two idiots doing it to keep their wacky ass relationship together!

    • @natlew867
      @natlew867 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@SonjaElizabethTeal Very common in the Caribbean culture also.

    • @SonjaElizabethTeal
      @SonjaElizabethTeal ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@natlew867 Exactly.

    • @mundovibes9715
      @mundovibes9715 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I guess here he uses the child as his insurance to be able to stay in the USA, once he divorces her or is being found out of cheating. Because once it's legally both their child, the child gets US citizenship, which then allows Usman to change to a visa to take care of a minor, without having to stay with her. He can bribe his brother easily by stating: she isn't going to raise him, it will be me and your child will have a better future in the US.

  • @SimplyTrish.
    @SimplyTrish. ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Coming up in the next episode… Kim converts to Islam and becomes a Muslim 😅

    • @sabir1208
      @sabir1208 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Ironically if they were practicing genuine Islam, he wouldn't be allowed to marry her unless she converted

    • @gia-abcd
      @gia-abcd ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sabir1208 Muslim men can marry non Muslim women from Abrahamic religions. It’s just the women who can’t marry non Muslim men

    • @janicejohnson9350
      @janicejohnson9350 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wouldnt surprise me at all! Kim is soooooo thirsty!

    • @chynnadoll3277
      @chynnadoll3277 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yep!!!

    • @unknownangel64
      @unknownangel64 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sabir1208 what do you mean he wouldn't be able to marry her without her converting? Muslim men are allowed to marry Christian or Jews.

  • @borneoboii5776
    @borneoboii5776 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    "sometimes i think jamal gets too much into his mum's business". says the guy whose mum gets too much into his business

  • @HolySpiritActivated
    @HolySpiritActivated ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Another person's kid don't just fall into ur lap to raise. Ur stealing it.

  • @Dia_7hom
    @Dia_7hom ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Kim kneejerks, but when she calms down she backtracks and Usman knows this, it’s who she is. He also knows that it’s easier to ask for forgiveness rather than ask permission so he does stuff and worries about the consequences later… if at all. Usman is gonna get his family over to the US one step at a time and Kim is being so love-bombed she can’t see the wood for the trees

  • @montana10155
    @montana10155 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    He wants a green card by any means lmao

  • @twilla6437
    @twilla6437 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I find it soo disrespectful how they're discussing the adoption of this beautiful child in front of his mother as if she's not there and especially as if she doesn't has a say so in the matter! I sure would love to hear what she has to say about all this!

    • @aliasteward5705
      @aliasteward5705 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Unfortunately she may not have much of a say

    • @marknewton6984
      @marknewton6984 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes. Disrespectful!

  • @CrazyPlanetFacts
    @CrazyPlanetFacts ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I cannot believe how desperate is that woman…having a man next to you is not everything Kimberly!!!!!!

  • @gia-abcd
    @gia-abcd ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Besides how horrible it is to take a child from his parents, that’s already his mums grandchild. adopting him dosent give her more grandchildren and that’s all she wants

    • @SonjaElizabethTeal
      @SonjaElizabethTeal ปีที่แล้ว

      Use-Man is a fucking idiot but a cunning manipulative one and will say anything to Ding a Long and she's lap it up like a puppy...

  • @dianne7184
    @dianne7184 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Is Jamal the only one with a heart and brain here?!?

  • @tonirome3920
    @tonirome3920 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Kimberly's believe if she adopt this child Osman will not have children or marry a second wife

    • @star_light_kid
      @star_light_kid ปีที่แล้ว

      She’s a joker

    • @Pandagurl218
      @Pandagurl218 ปีที่แล้ว

      I mean adopting him would create an immense amount of leverage though. Imagine if and when he tries to leave her and she sues for custody of their son just out of spite

  • @h.knuffke6773
    @h.knuffke6773 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I don't feel bad for any of these people. They ALL are consenting ADULTS. period. It's just so cringy how desperate Kim is.

  • @joaquinortiz8407
    @joaquinortiz8407 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    They don’t think your crazy, they know.

  • @LinTree25
    @LinTree25 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    America for education? 🤣🤣😂🤣

    • @SonjaElizabethTeal
      @SonjaElizabethTeal ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly!! Use-man is full of shit...

    • @extemporaneous4545
      @extemporaneous4545 ปีที่แล้ว

      When he returns to Nigeria as a woke gender fluid puddle they're going to regret it.

  • @SonjaElizabethTeal
    @SonjaElizabethTeal ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Happy Holidays!
    People sound so damn ignorant.
    One doesn't covert to Muslim.
    One converts
    to Islam which makes one a Muslim. 🤦🏾‍♀️
    And that snort by Use-Man said it all.

  • @tealandsilver
    @tealandsilver ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Wrong reason to adopt a child to please your mother. Hes going to figure out real quick how much your life changes when you have to be a caregiver. Its a 24 hr situation that requires commitment for the rest of your life.

    • @Thepotatothatchokedamber
      @Thepotatothatchokedamber ปีที่แล้ว

      Right? And he's gonna have to be changing Kim's diapers soon too!

    • @Reba24u
      @Reba24u ปีที่แล้ว

      He’s not going to make any changes, he is an incredibly selfish human

  • @claireastone5049
    @claireastone5049 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    IF KIM DUMPED HIM NOW SHE'D SAVE FACE BEFORE ITS TOO LATE.. BUT ONE STEP INTO THIS CARCRASH & HER LIFE'S ULTIMATELY RUINED!! OH MY GOD THIS IS SO FRUSTRATING 😨😡🤯🤯

  • @shaunak2968
    @shaunak2968 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Their whole relationship is a gigantic RED FLAG.

  • @thawkereynolds
    @thawkereynolds ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I can’t imagine How frustrating it is for Jamal to deal with these idiots

  • @lillolita1031
    @lillolita1031 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Usman's goal is to come to America and try to be this rapper star so how can his brother expect him to raise his son Muslim and proper but at the same time he's going to be trying to become this huge rapper?! No way is he going to come to America and settle down to raise this son perfect like cuz he's going to be just worrying about becoming famous... He's in for a rude awakening lol

  • @kiss101love
    @kiss101love ปีที่แล้ว +12

    A man needs to know he has someone to answer too when you mess with someone’s mother or daughter! Jamal is doing right by taking up for his mother because Kim is beyond delusional and she’s not protecting her self.

  • @leonortriglia3311
    @leonortriglia3311 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    To be a blind at this age is very sad!! Poor son he sees what his mother doesn't want to see.

  • @denisevasquez545
    @denisevasquez545 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I just can't get over Kim's gap between her nose and mouth..lol ahh

  • @freewithnature
    @freewithnature ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Lord have mercy, I hope they can’t take the poor innocent child 😢 that’s just an awful idea all around.

    • @marknewton6984
      @marknewton6984 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes children are not trading cards.

  • @raulmontr
    @raulmontr ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I just noticed how younger usman’s brother’s wife looks like.. the fck?

  • @nanopanda
    @nanopanda ปีที่แล้ว +8

    this is honestly the most terrifying thing to happen to a mother. i couldnt imagine mohammed's wife emotions in that moment. raising and loving two beautiful babies and suddenly ur in law wants to spirit one away to the USA bc they cant just get a surrogate or somethin

  • @BackSeatHump
    @BackSeatHump ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I have felt all along that Usman is a charming fellow and that his main problem is his youth and that he's able to mature and step up when needed. But that little snort of his (at 3:18) changed EVERYTHING for me. Run Kim, run! Leave him in Nigeria and don't look back! ⚠

  • @paperjellyfish143
    @paperjellyfish143 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Why are they going to take this little boy from his loving parents and his little brother??? Kimberly, karma is not kind, you know better, leave that family alone. Usman does not care about anyone, not even his own family, let alone anyone else. He does not even speak to her with kindness, he looks at her like she is nothing, so many red flags. Lord, protect this little boy from these wolves.

  • @kalpanabharatme
    @kalpanabharatme ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Uncle Fester is becoming crazier. If this is even possible 😵😵😵

  • @buttermepancake3613
    @buttermepancake3613 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    That poor child. He's already indoctrinated by a horrible cult but to be put through this too?
    How is this not abuse?

  • @nikib7791
    @nikib7791 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Kim is a typical flip flopper with low self esteem when it comes to a man , she has boundaries but if it looks like she will lose him those boundaries disappear. 🙄

  • @punkbeluga5091
    @punkbeluga5091 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This relationship required of Kim
    E V E R Y T H I N G
    under the SUN at this point 🤣🤣😂😂

  • @lauranoon
    @lauranoon ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Man! She is so desperate it's hard to watch!

  • @shaunak2968
    @shaunak2968 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Kim's business is Jamal's business, Usman!!!

  • @shaunak2968
    @shaunak2968 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Is she out of her mind? Whaaaaaaat? She has to talk to Jamal away from Usman. Why?

  • @debbieangel9376
    @debbieangel9376 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I'm very Proud of Jamal not bcos he stands up for his silly Mom but he's airing his views and wants them answered, go Jamal

  • @janebaker4912
    @janebaker4912 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Mahadi shouldn't be torn from his parents

  • @HSH-hx8gb
    @HSH-hx8gb ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Oh lordy. Did anybody see 90 day tell all Tuesday 12/13?? Jamal (kims son) is now DATING Tim's ex & best friend!!! (Why can't I remember her name?!) What a coincidence!!!

  • @mkxv
    @mkxv ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Not Mahadi looking exactly like a baby Usman lol their family has strong genes!

  • @joanngoodman3761
    @joanngoodman3761 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Usman is out of his damn mind!!

  • @nancyvega3287
    @nancyvega3287 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    If they have 2 children why only 1 gift was. bought?

    • @cooperedith958
      @cooperedith958 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Cuz he's the one they tryna take.

  • @erenyeager4139
    @erenyeager4139 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am Muslim and I have to say even if she did revert to Islam, it would be very clear that she wouldn’t have love for the religion or true belief in it, which would be quite offensive. Anyone can SAY their Muslim, but it comes down to truly believing from your heart in Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala and prophet Mohammad PBUH. Kimberly knows nothing about Islam and Usman doesn’t follow it properly. I truly hope they aren’t given the chance to adopt, because his brother and his wife would definitely regret it as their son would be strayed from Islam.
    Also another thing, it’s prohibited to force someone into the religion so all parts in this would receive bad deeds and answer for them on judgement day.

  • @elizabethkhan4482
    @elizabethkhan4482 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Kim is disgusting, does she think taking a child from his family, is a good idea? They are both delusional if they think this relationship will last .

    • @jab6223
      @jab6223 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Kim go home and never look back at that idiot

    • @lexizaino7093
      @lexizaino7093 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She’s so gross on so many levels.

  • @jesussaves6625
    @jesussaves6625 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It's so weird to me to even imagine sitting down with someone and saying "I would like to adopt your child".

  • @shaunak2968
    @shaunak2968 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Why is Kim acting as if she is upset? It isn't as if she will channel her anger and ditch Usman.

  • @margaretdonato7888
    @margaretdonato7888 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is a ridiculous request. Usman's mother wants more grandchildren not switching. It's just part of the stupidity of this season and these tired couples and the obvious scripting.

  • @angellight9500
    @angellight9500 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Let's see she has to accept a second (or more) wife for Usman to have a baby with, she has to adopt his brother's child and change her religion to Muslim. This might make other women think they aren't on the same page and destined for a happily ever after but not Kim. No she keep trying to shove a square peg into a round hole and doesn't see it can't work.

  • @shaunak2968
    @shaunak2968 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Kim has NO boundaries at all. Whatever Usman says goes whether or not he blindsided her or not, she will fall in line like the good woman that she is. Red flags be damned!

  • @yvettemoreel4237
    @yvettemoreel4237 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    How would Kim like it if another woman took her son when he was three

  • @thawkereynolds
    @thawkereynolds ปีที่แล้ว +1

    “I’ll be here I’m not going nowhere”.. that was f-ing strong

  • @katymaz77
    @katymaz77 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Kim is so desperate for Yammi 🤣. She won't get any when Usman will move to Us

    • @marknewton6984
      @marknewton6984 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Please delete yammy from our vocabulary. It belittles a beautiful thing.

  • @dianehereshko2051
    @dianehereshko2051 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Useman only wants the green card he has delusions of being a celebrity

  • @bonnielucrezi6733
    @bonnielucrezi6733 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Kim is in such denial. Jamal needs to tell Kim she is being duped by Usman. He is taking ad of her more and more every day.

    • @aliasteward5705
      @aliasteward5705 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And do you really think that would make a difference Kim is never going to leave that me and no matter what her son says

  • @BEV0323
    @BEV0323 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    And no one even THOUGHT about the child and how devastating it would be to take him away from everything he is familiar with and how it's going to be on the most important person in this group!!! You are totally SELFISH USMAN!!! 😠😡🤬

  • @sunsprite4545
    @sunsprite4545 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    How can Kim sit with a straight face and pretend that these ridiculous scenarios are reasonable or even doable. At this point I believe she and Usman are orchestrating these ludicrous ideas and playing them out in the scenes on the show in order to boost their screen time so TLC will not consider their story line to be winding down.

    • @SonjaElizabethTeal
      @SonjaElizabethTeal ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I want you to be so right! I've never wanted a part of these reality shows to be scripted so badly in my life!

  • @kathleen4083
    @kathleen4083 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    TLC has gone too far with storylines. Disgusted. Now Jamal is dating Veronica from Tell All. They are all desperate for D list TV time

  • @coym5452
    @coym5452 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Kim is a type of woman that feels like she’s not special and the only thing that makes her special was having a mix kid or happy of a boyfriend or ex-husband as black.

    • @AMNBatSE
      @AMNBatSE ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I wish you were wrong, but sadly, you're not.

  • @enochia
    @enochia ปีที่แล้ว +2

    They can just adopt a child who doesn't already have a family

  • @this.is.pointless
    @this.is.pointless ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wait a minute. Is that the same Jamal that Tim's ex is dating? Veronica? Wtf