How To Deal With People Who Try To Be Superior To You
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 5 ก.ย. 2024
- Do you have people in your life that make you feel inferior?
What if that inferior feeling is just an awareness about how the other people really feels?
Superiority/inferiority is all just a creation based upon judgement.
Which means both point of views are created by a lie. Would a infinite being ever be superior or inferior? Or would it just be?
If you are willing to acknowledge just how aware you are of other people's points of view, it will stop you buying their lies as real.
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Genevieve is a Psychic Empowerment Coach & Healer that assists people all over the world to step into being more!
For more information about her services go to www.genevieve.faulkner.com
People are only thinking about themselves that's why they like acting superior. They are more self important because they are insecure and so into their ego . They need to act superior to boost their self-esteem. Confidence is about having high self-esteem and being nice and humble.
I totally agree with you
If you see yourself as a confident person as defined here and you abruptly meet somebody with a superiority complex who belittles you out of nowhere, what is the best way to approach the situation?
Thank you for your perspective :)
@@sjwiz5991 If people are being rude its best to say excuse me . or say lets keep it polite or say mind your manners . there is no need to behave like that. Its best to be polite about it. Because if you follow rudeness with rudeness people become more rude. Its best to be respectful and Classy and mind your own business to avoid being around inconsiderate people. Mature people can be classy and try and tolerate people who might not be as respectful and mature as they should be without making a drama about it. Ignore drama and you will feel calmer. If people show disrespect they lack respect. You will be less stressed if you care less
@@mariewilliams194 The "mind your manners" is a good one. Most of the time they will start to say that you misunderstood them if you tell them that they have been rude. They start to gaslight and put the situation aroujd to avoid shame and accountability. Any suggestions for if that happens?
Lets say someone makes passive agressive mean indirect comments...
You say: could you please stop doing that? And they go like.... oh, you must have misunderstood me because......(insert reason)
How would you respond to this?
This is so true. I had to take a step back and remind myself of this. It’s projection for sure! Man I have to be more careful with who I trust. I had to dissect the situation. I had to even ask myself, what ammunition might have given them to even think they could approach me in such a way and look at the source. SMH 🤦♀️
To anyone who is being bullied (either a child or an adult), I give you this advice: If at all possible, avoid these people like the plague, because that's exactly what they are. The day will come when they will have to answer for their evil words and deeds.
Would be neat! Some words are based on other staging and acts!
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I had people at college do this me when in fact they don't have any business telling me I'm not good enough when they had more problems than me to begin with talk about hypocritical.
Its funny how I have a family member who does that to me almost every time in a family gathering, not because he's smarter than me or richer than me, only because he is older than me smh.. It sounds ridiculous but ever since when we were child, he had been trying to make himself superior than me and that 'he's smarter than me'. But as I grew older, I realized that people who have properly educated and mature shouldn't even care about these type of people. They act like that because they have low self-esteem that's it. So I actually pity them so much..
Just let them be 'superior' it will not affect you anyways
People who think they are superior, are probably dealing with their own problems, and they think by acting like they have more power will give them supporters and respect.
Some people are strange. Dogs are your best friend
Everyone is in the same boat and we all need salvation from superiority, ego, selfishness and all of this dont think you are better and that others are worse this is the trap that is hardest to avoid because only God can root out our pride, just be humble and no one can be superior to you. You need to be humble, not a slave of people, you need to submit to God(Jesus Christ)He will set you free from people
I have a family member that was convinced that I was inferior due to the amount of money I made compared to themselves. The energy was so strong coming off of them when speaking to me that I had to cut all contact in order to break away. This was almost a year ago and my life has become peaceful and positive. Took years for me to realize what was making me so uncomfortable around them.
Good on you for recognising your own worth and for choosing you. People who think they are better than you are not worth their time, even if they are family!
@@GenevieveFaulkner thank you 🙏
Exactly, can kind of relate...
My former best friend had a serious superiority complex. He was very inconsiderate and did stuff that effected me negatively. Any time I asked him to stop, it was like pulling teeth with him. But even after we reached a compromise, he would turn the situation into a penis-measuring contest. He would say or do something to assert his so-called dominance. Eventually I got so sick of it that I just cut him out of my life. Anyways, thanks for this video. It helped a lot
Anyone that has a need to compete with you isn't a true friend so it sounds like a good move to say bye bye. Thanks for watching! I am glad it helped :)
Great Video! So positive and true. These are people who make you feel ashamed of yourself.
‘Acknowledge how aware you are..’ that’s excellent thanks!!
Great advise and Great explanation. I personally know many people like this. For one reason or another, they choose me to try to berate in front of mutual friends. At first, I thought as though there was something wrong with me, but as I looked closer at the situation I truly believe they are actually threatened by me and are also jealous. The one particular person I'm speaking of hates the fact that I am employed where I work. I'm not conceded in any way whatsoever but I know he knows that I'm much more attractive and way more fit than he is. He's essentially an adult bully. Im not close friends with him but we all get together a few times a year as a group of 12. As we share these same mutual friends, I don't ever see him acting this way towards anyone else but me. Whenever I say something, he's always right there with a condescending comment to rebut anything that I may say, no matter what it is that I may say. Its rather annoying really, but now that I've learned it is not I with the problem rather a problem he has within; I feel a lot better. He still never lets down on me, but I've learned to tune him out to be honest.
How'd it go?
This is my experience video resinates with my life I know and met too many people with this kinda energy you're describing my father and his flying monkeys have this energy I feel it everytime I go around them so draining & exhausting!
I felt she explained this subject of her advice, in a very optimistic compassionate way! I feel this advice and Information will help me be more compassionate to those who struggle with feeling superior. Thanks for your video.
Thank you for watching it, I’m grateful for the comment :)
What if you're aware of all this but it still gets under your skin because you know they're wrong and hate they try to use you to prop themselves up, spreading lies about you to their friends?
That sounds like they gaslight, and people do that to get you to give up your awareness so they have total control. The greatest gift you can give yourself is acknowledge it for yourself and make choices to create a life greater than they have. You have a power they wish they had which is why the try to control. So be that power :)
@@GenevieveFaulkner thank you so much 🙏 really appreciate your reply
But how to make them shut up ?
Pull energy from them, like with martial arts but energetically. Often superior people will push a lot of energy at you and if you pull it from them they don’t have a wall to push against and so the will run out of energy to keep speaking faster :)
Depends on the person...Ladies...I always let them be Superior over me!
I recently exploded on someone with a superiority complex because they just had a habit of not backing down. But I still felt awful and guilty about it afterwards, and utterly low, because *I* overreached to challenge him (I felt like the bully there). I felt like I just was always going to wreck everything.
I just wish I knew how to deal with such people in a way that didn't end like this or turn me into this.
Sometimes manipulation is key, people with superiority complexes are pretty easy to spot, and often they just want to prove that they are right about everything. So agree with them, tell them they are right, and acknowledge to yourself that you know what you know beyond their reality. You can also just make everything they say interesting to yourself. If it's just interesting you dont react so much to their point of view because you won't buy their reality as true.
Some people are better than others just saying its just life and acceptance doesn't mean person who isn't they shouldnt have a go at something when it comes to work. Even if they are autistic or on spectrum have a disability.
It amazes me how people think they're smarter than everyone else's and can manipulate people. They will tell you other people are trying to control your life when they're the ones that want to manipulate and control your life.🙄smh
My situation is different because the person who has been treating me condescendingly is of a HIGHER class than I, makes MORE money, and just overall has a better life. Yet, every chance she gets she makes these comments to me to make me feel even more less of a human than I already do despite me being polite nonstop towards her and her mother (who is a whole other issue).... I need to know how to get her to kind of back off with the rudeness.. I can't ignore her and I can't tell her off as she's my bf's sister and we live in her house atm.. This is taking a toll on my mental health. Can anyone help me?
I'm not sure if being polite is the right call but being too blunt and letting her know she's rude isn't either so you're kinda stuck between two bad choices and I guess the only thing you can do is find new friends who make you feel good enough so it cancels out her rudeness
usually when someone try to be more superior to me, like underestimating my intelligence ...
they always come to me with those stupid riddles for me to solve, trying to tell me how smart I actually am...
but I don't play their game anymore, because that's their way of acting like they are more superior to me.
See this is exactly what my “trainer” does to me at work. Asking me ridiculous questions out of the blue. Asking me if I know the answer. I always just say I don’t know. And make them tell me. I’m just so over it
Wow, sounds like an energy vampire 🧛♀️ 😊
I just said goodbye
For real! They gotta go
iv just found your channel u r awesome :) 👍
This is why it is good to know the word of god and self help books so that you are ready to handle these people. I deal with a lot of people like this. If my confidence is low that day it affects me
There are other reasons ... some Christians come at you as their Christian project. So if you do just as they suggest ....because they know the right way to do everything ...all is well ....but if you decline to go along with their life plan for you...well, God help you! An older adult member of my congregation attempts to interact with me like this all the time. Like she feels she is my big sister....Please! I am 69 yrs old and perfectly capable to running my own life with God's help...not yours!!!!!
I hate dealing with this shit every single week day at work. Thinking about it in between. My coworkers, my boss. It’s a fucking ego orgy. It’s ridiculous. I really feel outside of it all. I just started there a few months ago and it’s starting to feel very toxic. I dunno what to do.
I feel for you, toxic environments suck. In a practical sense I’d say look for another job if you know you can’t stand it. From a Law of attraction” point of view you could look at if any of what’s going on reminds you of anything you grew up with? Sometimes we attract toxic environment because we have suppressed stuff and when we do energy work or clearing on the original stuff it can change the way people treat you in the current environment.
When it comes to work some people are good at what they do dosnt mean someone isn’t they can’t learn be paid the same stay in their jobs like others be trained just saying
Yeah....my girlfriend...she makes me feel like shit in band. We both play the tuba and she ruined my life
We have the same job title, no you don't have to see it for yourself. I saw it and I make the decision about it.
Right on the nail.
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THANK YOU for this! Very clear and helpfull.
Thank you :)
Lol, yeah talking from your perspective! Your giving information to people like myself! Let the reader's know not to be wrong to those people and really where's the solution to those pricks?
Some people do it to protect themselves because other people do it to them.
You have got this high awareness to see through all this, I've got it too that's how I recognize this, you are lot like me seeing the kinds of videos you've made.. Do you think that pain/suffering caused you to jump to higher awareness? Coz that's true for me, I was wondering same happened with you?..
same*
Yes absolutely. Everything I have experienced in my life has contributed to me being more aware. Including having depression and being medicated as a teen :)
Genevieve Faulkner
True for me too!! I am 20 yr old and have past of depression which is comparatively reduced now, also have social anxiety, but working my way through it.. Also many other factors/circumstances and my own intent lead to this.
"When u are as great as I am, it's hard to be humble" Muhammad Ali
"When u ask hey bruce are u really that good? And if I say to you , "yes" Then you might think I am arrogant. But if you ask me hey bruce ? Are u really that good? And I say "No." you KNOW I am lying.
-Bruce lee
What I am trying to state is that it ain't bragging if u can back it up. Some people are just better than u at this game of life and they can rub it in your face. Deal with it.
Ok just remember that when someone is better than you and brags about it 20x more than you and you can’t beat them Lol!
You are absolutely right
Love your lecture miss..... Could you please share how you got to this conclusion about how they have a embedded inferiority complex... I wish I could read people like that
Thank you for watching!! So basically when people are doing a lot of superiority it’s because they are trying to prove they superior or greater than others. When you are trying to prove something though, it’s because you have the opposite belief that you’re not that. So while proving they are superior they subconsciously often believe they are inferior at the same time. :)
They are crazy
Now im ready to make a twitter account
Great video..Thank you👍
Thank you!
What a word salad
It’s hilarious as fuck
Romans chapter 1 vs 28
fucking bible basher, im better than you. worshiping an imaginary character
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That plant needs watering. Yep I noticed so I am better than you. Oh shit it is plastic.
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@genevieve Faulkner hey, what about if I’m struggling and making $12 working at Walmart and customers treat me like there better than me I’m still trying to better myself
Acknowledge you, what you earn doesn’t determine your worth, neither does your job. Don’t buy into their projections. Ask yourself “what’s great about me I haven’t acknowledged?” And the more you ponder that, the less their judgements will matter :)