I didn't have a car when I started dating a woman 32 years ago. I rode a bike to her house. I saw someone who was worth the uphill ride. She saw someone who had character and ambition. We'll be celebrating 30 years marriage next month. A story I'm always proud to share.
My parents had over 40 years of marriage until my father died seven years ago and my mother stuck with my father through all of his health issues. It’s called love, loyalty and dedication.
Yes!!! My mom was a beautiful woman who got sick in her late 40s and became blind and disabled and my dad stuck by her and took care of her until she passed away 5 years ago. Looks and material things are not everything! My dad misses my mom so much because she was the love of his life even when her body failed her he made her feel beautiful and loved. Find someone who will love you no matter what through good and bad....that is real love and commitment!!!!
AB-SO-F'n-LUTELY! People walking around here like they'll never get sick and that's when you'll REALLY see their true character. It''s nothing short of treason if they cut and run at your greatest time of need.
I met my Boaz 6 years ago. He was not the norm I've dated. He is literally a Black Cowboy. I mean loves horses, boots, participates in the National Rodeo each year as one of his hustles to secure the 💰. He's a hard working entrepreneur. He was so different from the rest & I fell in love with how he treated me and my babies. We want for nothing. So his character was & 6 years later still is ~Priceless~ 🙌🏾🙏🏾. It was all about the his Character & intentions towards me. Some woman miss out on greatness, due to shallow thinking and this perfect man that does not exist. By all means standards are not to be lowered, but don't miss on a good one either. Men you too 🙏🏾
My husband was involved in an ATV accident not to long ago. His arm and legs were wrapped up for a months, I had to help him do everything. You never know what life will bring, better pick someone with good character. Your looks can go and so can your money without warning.
I stayed by my husband side held his hand until he took his last breath,and even after I kept holding his hand didn't realize it was five hours later until the doctor came to encourage me it was time for him to be removed before things began to happen I still didn't want to let him go but I had to 25 years of real love is so very hard to live without,and he was the kind of man who treated me beautiful ❤️ so please love the person for who they are not the things they can give you!
Thank you for sharing this beautiful memory so publicly. You and your husband embodied the best of what marriage entails. May God bless you and sustain you as you navigate the grief of your loss. 🙏🏾♥️
@@latricehubbard8789 people say that but if you had all the character, Friendship, honesty and loyalty and no money to pay your bills...We'll see how long that relationship last..Money is needed in any relationship...Foundation or not let's keep it real 💯
I was engaged once, big ring on my finger, he spoiled me rotten. Once he put that ring on my finger he changed, he still spoiled me , but I didn't like it and I gave him back his ring. My Family called me all kinds of crazy. I think he is on his third wife now. 😐
I surprised my wife at a jewelry store. I went to an area expecting to spend X of my monthly income. She went to another area and chose something far less expensive that she wanted. Never told her what I was prepared to spend. She never asked.
My Daddy always told me never marry a man who couldn't take care of me like he could. He also told me I would never be a burden so don't be in a hurry. Spend time with your daughters dads it makes a difference. My mom loved him ✌🏾
First Derrick Jaxon, now Saweetie and Quavo?! Shuler need to keep the real relationship talk coming. Because he is out here giving gems that a lot of people need.
It don't matter what type of money or whatever you have.. I will never forget I worked my ass off and when I got sick and almost loss my life, and wasn't able to work. My ex told me he couldn't look at me anymore and didn't wanna be with me anymore. I really didn't have family like that. But baby I had God! I pushed through work, put myself through school, and now doing some pretty amazing things. And through the struggle he worked it out for my good. Whoever needs to hear it keep pushing through and moving forward.
Man my husband just had this talk with me bout potential....6 months later I'm managing a 24hour mobil gas station.....I APPRECIATE MY MAN HE MAKES ME A BETTER PERSON....
I spoke to two different people on different days and about different subject matters. one male one female the male told me he and his wife have been married 53 years and the female told me she had been married to her husband 69 years both times I broke down and cried because there is not love like that anymore. #marriedlife #its #usandwe #not #iandme #LifeOfACallcenterAgent
@@Reshme77 That's what i call them. Some be one step away from being homeless, and will serve d*ck as a way to stay off the street. Some go as far as getting married to stay off the street, because some chicks will realize that what she's being used to prevent. Others will purposely pregnant a whole village of women, to use the children as leverage. Studies show that single men are homeless more than any demographic, so it makes sense that many, but not all, will do whatever it takes from being apart of that demographic.
He hit it right on the money, "Y'all want stuff that y'all ain't qualify for." it kills when a person want a gucci, Versace, Louis Vuitton, or Burberry. they can't afford themselves. preach brother💯😎
Amen Shuler, so many people including family were against my husband and I relationship when we dated because he isn’t the “hottest man” “I am Latin and he is white”. Well guess what, 14 years and counting of bliss and we have been through financial ups and down. Don’t regret anything.
Absolutely!!!!!!! We , me and my husband , aint rich at all whatsoever. But our moral standards mean a LOT to both of us. Been married 22 yrs. Back when I could wear shorter skirts and he had all his hair. 😂. Still love each other. Standing together. Every single day. In God’s favor. Better than riches.
My wife and I were broke and fresh out of college when we got married. We had a one bedroom apartment and one car. Other than each other we didn't have much else. Fast forward a decade and a half. We've been blessed tremendously. There's not a day that goes by that I don't feel lucky to have her. I didn't need a "bag" win her over. I just needed to stand for something and be about something. Fellas there are still women out there with substance. I think the internet has a way of warping our perception. Celebrities aren't real life. And the internet is not real life. Social media damn sure isn't real life.
Love what you had to say. A man who finds a “wife” does a good thing. Truth is, you only get one real love. You found the “one” hold on and enjoy the ride. May God continue to bless ur Union. Don’t let anyone distract you from the abundance that will continue to come your way as you are a grateful receiver.
People don’t understand Character is a huge part of a relationship! People don’t look at character anymore it is about what they see online as “relationship goals”. We have to learn how to love someone for their character and not their body, materialistic items, money, bags or anything else. I can see why you have likely been married a while! Preaching my brother !
I preach this to my kids, now that they are of age to receive the message. When you first meet someone your meeting there representative. Take your time so you can see there true character.
Shuler, this was a profound message that we all need to hear especially if we're looking for a true "soul" mate to share the rest of our lives with, period!
@@longinusgalaxy411 You are correct, it's not just the younger generation. I'm sure a lot of this has been going on for awhile. The only difference is social media allows everyone to see it.
My mama and the rest of my family play this on every holiday and at cookouts I was born in 2004 but those songs from the 70s 80s and 90s gave me the greatest memories Cuz that's when love was real you can hear it through the music too bad I won't ever be able to experience it
My mother was telling me about this and I listen and took it to heart. So when I meet a guy I will look at their their character and their heart not their stuff. ❤️👍
@@OTG_thaONE Even more convoluted. The roles of a man & a woman are different. Our wants, our needs our desires are instinctively different. To say a man must treat you the way he wants to be treated is saying he wants to be treated like a woman. Stop expecting your men to have female tendencies. A man is to provide, protect and secure. A woman to nurture, groom and support. Learn what men want/like/need, then look to treat your man the way HE wants to be treated. It's the only way he treats you the way YOU wanna be treated. Start listening to men, stop speaking only amongst yourselves and if you care; know what men want.
Listen bruh...as a man I truly believe in what my mother said ( a single parent btw), you need to be able to carry the piano in the relationship but make sure that woman is at least carrying the piano bench........ for those that can't grasp this concept....in Layman terms.... make sure she's bringing something to the table.......
Ok Shuler!!! I appreciate you speaking your wisdom.. This is so true Character, you definitely dropping some gems that alot of ppl need to hear... don't judge a book by its cover but by its content & CHARACTER!! A WHOLE WORD👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💎💎💎💎💎
They just broke up. She said she was single and he said she wasn't the woman he thought she was so..........she lied, he lied, they're together and she is what he still wants. A mess!
Ive been saying for years that people need to stop putting celebrities on pedestals. They're just like you and me, that money can be gone today then what you gon do??
So True, I did get very sick but my husband stepped up while everyone else ran away because they were scared we would run out of Money, we now have new businesses and contracts keep coming...I'm so Blessed. Tell em brother
7 mins of Shuler's monologue and/ or commentary on this rightea can only mean one thang: Derrick Jaxn is being ex'd out as a so called "relationship/ dating guru"
They sure are all of em taking turns tag you're it doing each other no protection Aids and all the other sexual diseases they ain't told us about yet sitting back waiting to make their debut! It ain't too bad being single sometimes
"Y'all want stuff you ain't qualified for" 🙌🏿 🙌🏿 🙌🏿 🙌🏿 That's the stuff people don't want to hear. That does not mean you can't GET qualified, but if you won't even get clear on where you are so you can genuinely get to where you are trying to go 👀💯
I wish the people are hearing your message. People get so caught up in the glitz & glamor of "famous" people they don't see the true reality of their own lives or even know who they are. Someone else's reality isn't yours
One of my criteria when I was looking for a man was: Will this man get up in the middle of the night with a sick baby? I weeded out SO many with just that one thing.
I would get up and make bottles and sometimes take my girls for car rides, when they were sick they only wanted me. They play fight about who's my #1 , answer is all 4 .3 girls and 1 boy.
@@rgw1380rw You watch him. You pay attention to the gentleness of his spirit, how he treats people, how he responds to you when you are sick, whether he is willing to put others before himself. You never know anything with 100% certainty, but with time, you can see someone's heart and character. You know if he is the TYPE of man who would get up with the baby.
@@Footswalker1977 I guess that is your way of figuring things out🤔. In my experience and observations, that type of guy you described is the guy that finishes last.
@@rgw1380rw Yes. I loved my husband's spirit. I remember introducing him to people who didn't know him, before we were married. When I asked what they thought of him, they would mention his calm spirit. It was exactly who he was. It's true, a lot of those "nice" guys might finish last. But it's not a race, it's life. Even people in last place eventually cross the finish line.
@@moderndaycynic695 no ma’am Ike and Tina are💯 percent hood. It was not an act or facade! They lived not too far from my aunt and uncle. Everyone knew how crazy they were.
You are telling the absolute truth. I am getting ready to celebrate 56 years of marriage to a wonderful man who is patient, loyal, trustworthy, kind, respectful, trusting and has the character that you are talking about. We are so blessed and I wish the same thing for all young people.🙏🏾❤️
ShulerKing today I doff my hat for you. I am from Nigeria and what you just said in a 12mins video is how life operates in a nutshell. How i wish men and women, particularly women all over the world would apply this in their life. Your message cuts across every endeavour of life. I appreciate your contribution to humanity with your humour filled wisdom.
I actually heard about the relationship ending earlier today and she posted it saying that she was single because she wasn't happy anymore and that he had been cheating on her and tried to make up for it by buying her stuff. In the end she said that it wasn't doing anything for her and she would rather be by herself and so she left and then not long after he came on and was saying that she wasn't the person he thought she was and basically trying to get her to act out and instead of that happening she just replied with take care. Despite what probably brought them together she realized that she actually wanted somebody to actually love her for her instead of just buying her stuff so in the end I feel like she elevated herself and realized that she wanted more than what he was providing and that she was also hurt by what he did.
Hi shuler king. That's so right. Character is the most important thing in life. So many times they make it about that bag I seen them fighting just disgraceful.
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I didn't have a car when I started dating a woman 32 years ago. I rode a bike to her house. I saw someone who was worth the uphill ride. She saw someone who had character and ambition. We'll be celebrating 30 years marriage next month. A story I'm always proud to share.
Right on 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿 Congratulations to you both and Have a Happy Anniversary 💗🎊
Facts
AMEN!!
That's what's up!!
Love it, may Jesus bless you both!
"Character is permanent, Circumstance is temporary " ....Me.
Say that👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
I like that
@@latashamuhammad217 I was just about to type that!
@@maniandbuddymama7548 well said right
@@latashamuhammad217 definitely!
"Many people would be scared if what they saw in the mirror was not their faces but their character"
Sooo! Preach it 🙏!!!
That mirror is the holy Spirit. The problem is we dont listen and after awhile of ignoring the Spirit it gets harder to hear.
@@childofthealmightycreatora9414 Amen and HalleluYAH!
@@moderndaycynic695 SAY THAT!!!!! 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
Watch twilight Zone. True episode
My parents had over 40 years of marriage until my father died seven years ago and my mother stuck with my father through all of his health issues. It’s called love, loyalty and dedication.
Amen 🙏 🙏
Amen
🙏🏾 Amen for better or for worse
That's right Mary!
Awww hope she os doing well
“When you have the right one, Gods favor will fall upon your relationship” 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
So true☝🏾
So true! Amen
AMEN! AMEN! AMEN!
Amen
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥💯
Yall worried about that bag and some of yall can't get a person to wipe your azz when life happens 🤷
So true! People look to the world and these celebrities to tell them what they should have and what their spouses should have and should be doing
Keisha YES!!!
Let'em know 🤗
Oh Wow!...Keisha went there!🤣🤣🤣
Why worry about the “bag” when ya can’t afford a “bag” of chips! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Yes!!! My mom was a beautiful woman who got sick in her late 40s and became blind and disabled and my dad stuck by her and took care of her until she passed away 5 years ago. Looks and material things are not everything! My dad misses my mom so much because she was the love of his life even when her body failed her he made her feel beautiful and loved. Find someone who will love you no matter what through good and bad....that is real love and commitment!!!!
Real talk!
True love 🇺🇸💞
I'm sorry for your loss.
Thank you.
AB-SO-F'n-LUTELY! People walking around here like they'll never get sick and that's when you'll REALLY see their true character. It''s nothing short of treason if they cut and run at your greatest time of need.
When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time. -Maya Angelou
“What a man can’t conquer, he will destroy.” -Aretha Franklin
@@maryjanesbaby9392 Or at least some try too.
So true!!!
Yes
Yes
Yes
Yes
Yes.....& thank you Maya Angelou❤
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I met my Boaz 6 years ago. He was not the norm I've dated. He is literally a Black Cowboy. I mean loves horses, boots, participates in the National Rodeo each year as one of his hustles to secure the 💰. He's a hard working entrepreneur. He was so different from the rest & I fell in love with how he treated me and my babies. We want for nothing. So his character was & 6 years later still is ~Priceless~ 🙌🏾🙏🏾. It was all about the his Character & intentions towards me. Some woman miss out on greatness, due to shallow thinking and this perfect man that does not exist. By all means standards are not to be lowered, but don't miss on a good one either. Men you too 🙏🏾
Yes!! And he took care of Naomi. Blessings to you and your household!!
My husband was involved in an ATV accident not to long ago. His arm and legs were wrapped up for a months, I had to help him do everything. You never know what life will bring, better pick someone with good character. Your looks can go and so can your money without warning.
I stayed by my husband side held his hand until he took his last breath,and even after I kept holding his hand didn't realize it was five hours later until the doctor came to encourage me it was time for him to be removed before things began to happen I still didn't want to let him go but I had to 25 years of real love is so very hard to live without,and he was the kind of man who treated me beautiful ❤️ so please love the person for who they are not the things they can give you!
That's the end goal of marriage
So beautiful. Sorry for your lost.
Thank you for sharing this beautiful memory so publicly. You and your husband embodied the best of what marriage entails. May God bless you and sustain you as you navigate the grief of your loss. 🙏🏾♥️
So beautiful. You have experienced something that is truly one in a million. Give glory to God sis he was definitely look out for you.
Thank you with tears in my eyes
Character, Friendship, and Loyalty.
Money should never be the foundation of a relationship.
Plus honesty.
In that order!👏🏾💯
Trye👏🏿👏🏿
If you have all 3 qualities you'll get plenty of prosperity.
@@latricehubbard8789 people say that but if you had all the character, Friendship, honesty and loyalty and no money to pay your bills...We'll see how long that relationship last..Money is needed in any relationship...Foundation or not let's keep it real 💯
Or sex shouldn’t be a foundation
“Y’all want stuff y’all ain’t qualified for.” Oof! 😬😥
I feel personally attacked. ☹
thatpart!!!!
Man!! Say no mo💯💯
He hit hard with that one.
"She get sick and lose that butt. Then what?" Bars! 🔥🔥
Sir mix a lot ain’t got nothing on ShulerKing..😂😂😂😂😂
She has breast implants. Who knows if her butt is an implant, plus shes got money to pay people to make her look that way everyday.
Facts!!
🤣🤣😅😅😅😅
Never give lifetime expectations to someone seasonal
Never give husband benefits to a temporary bedroom fling.
SOMEBODY GET THIS MAN A SWEATY GLASS OF WATER BECAUSE HE PREACHIN. JUST DROP THE MIC
Randy WATSON!!!!!
A sweaty glass of juice and a hallupper aka a straw. Lol..lol...😆 🤣 😂 😹
Shuler out here giving y’all that fatherly advice, real talk we need to give our kids more of these talks.
I definitely got them. May be why I have a good husband.
🎯
Shuler got a lot in him for real. He got some preach in him and everything
& I JUST LOVE HIM FOR IT♦♠♣✖✔💯
I was engaged once, big ring on my finger, he spoiled me rotten. Once he put that ring on my finger he changed, he still spoiled me , but I didn't like it and I gave him back his ring. My Family called me all kinds of crazy. I think he is on his third wife now. 😐
Hello young lady you did the right thing and God will bless you with the king you deserve blessings
I surprised my wife at a jewelry store. I went to an area expecting to spend X of my monthly income. She went to another area and chose something far less expensive that she wanted. Never told her what I was prepared to spend. She never asked.
Remember it’s better to be called “crazy” rather than “stupid” 💯
My Daddy always told me never marry a man who couldn't take care of me like he could. He also told me I would never be a burden so don't be in a hurry. Spend time with your daughters dads it makes a difference. My mom loved him ✌🏾
You did the right thing Queen.
First Derrick Jaxon, now Saweetie and Quavo?! Shuler need to keep the real relationship talk coming. Because he is out here giving gems that a lot of people need.
He’s already in the car like Derrick Jaxn
It don't matter what type of money or whatever you have.. I will never forget I worked my ass off and when I got sick and almost loss my life, and wasn't able to work. My ex told me he couldn't look at me anymore and didn't wanna be with me anymore. I really didn't have family like that. But baby I had God! I pushed through work, put myself through school, and now doing some pretty amazing things. And through the struggle he worked it out for my good. Whoever needs to hear it keep pushing through and moving forward.
" But baby I had God"...
✝️HALLELUJAH ✝️
Amen sis!!! And may the blessings keep raining.
God is good. Amen
Just aging alone can change an apple into a pear if you’re not careful!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣 So, don’t marry just for looks!
Tell it louder, you nailed it
If someone gets with the wrong person, they may age like a banana! 😂😂😂😂😂
@@joemomma3208 LOL!!!!🤣🤣😭😭😭😭 You are too funny!!!😂
@@KM7661 Lol!🤣🤣🤣Thanks!
I like pears better anyway 😌
I've been a nurse for 25 years in seen plenty of rich people who got rid of their partner as soon as they got sick.
Heart breaking
I'm not surprised. Living a lie will make a person sick, and they both knew what the breach of terms were going into the arrangement.
Diary of a Mad Black Woman
Yes and that's so sad... 😰🥺
This video must have hit too close to home for the 7 people who disliked it.
Enough said....
Mmmm. How about that! Ha...won't it hit.....♦♠♣✔✖💯
Idk the other 5 but the 2 are him and her
@@shototodoroki4816 Probably Cardio B. and the other Migos.😂
"Relationships can be DEAD but look LIVE to us..." -Common Truer words never spoken💯
PREACH!!!!!!!!!!!!
Man my husband just had this talk with me bout potential....6 months later I'm managing a 24hour mobil gas station.....I APPRECIATE MY MAN HE MAKES ME A BETTER PERSON....
Wow that’s amazing!! I’m happy for u! U really have a great man 🤩👏🏾
Amen! That's awesome! God Bless You and Your Husband!
Congratulations!!!
Some people are married and can’t stand to be around their spouses.
This pandemic showed a lot of folks their true colors.
Preach. I hear folks complaining about this on my job. They hate to go home. 😏😫
I spoke to two different people on different days and about different subject matters. one male one female the male told me he and his wife have been married 53 years and the female told me she had been married to her husband 69 years both times I broke down and cried because there is not love like that anymore. #marriedlife #its #usandwe #not #iandme #LifeOfACallcenterAgent
Those are the people who just want to say( I gOt mArRiEd) to look good but in reality know it's not working
Xactly
Almost cry 😭 when he said “homeless-sexual”
I was like i didn’t heard right had to rewind ⏪
😭😭😭😭😭😭
Or hobosexual
@@Reshme77 That's what i call them. Some be one step away from being homeless, and will serve d*ck as a way to stay off the street. Some go as far as getting married to stay off the street, because some chicks will realize that what she's being used to prevent. Others will purposely pregnant a whole village of women, to use the children as leverage. Studies show that single men are homeless more than any demographic, so it makes sense that many, but not all, will do whatever it takes from being apart of that demographic.
It’s “some diseases that will take your ass off” for me🤣
😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣 Yes its true
I died laughing!
How is this funny it's the truth 9 out of 10 you end up leaving this earth. That's not funny at all.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 yeeeesssss!
He hit it right on the money, "Y'all want stuff that y'all ain't qualify for." it kills when a person want a gucci, Versace, Louis Vuitton, or Burberry. they can't afford themselves. preach brother💯😎
Amen Shuler, so many people including family were against my husband and I relationship when we dated because he isn’t the “hottest man” “I am Latin and he is white”. Well guess what, 14 years and counting of bliss and we have been through financial ups and down. Don’t regret anything.
Nothing like supporting one another no matter what!🤗
AMEN 🙏
“CHAR-ACT-ER!! Who is this person???” Yeeesssss, Shuler! Preaching on point again today I see. 🗣🙌🏽
Yesss indeed... I been here for it all🙌🏾
Yep
Well said!!!!!!!!
That’s an word🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
He said that with his whole chest.....love the lessons he spreading/teaching hope they can hear in the back
Character is SO important nowadays
Factsss... More important than looks IMO
Nowadays people don’t have character, they are characters! 💯
Yesss...always
@@joemomma3208 way to accurate
@@joemomma3208 You're so correct.
"Charater is more important than anything" this statement is so true and important.
My father, May his soul Rest In Peace, said your character will beat you to the door. Good character Is tour most valued possession.
This was Pastor King right here...carried me to church and brought me back home. Can I get an "Amen", somebody?
Amen to that
Absolutely!!!!!!! We , me and my husband , aint rich at all whatsoever. But our moral standards mean a LOT to both of us. Been married 22 yrs. Back when I could wear shorter skirts and he had all his hair. 😂. Still love each other. Standing together. Every single day. In God’s favor. Better than riches.
AMEN 🙏 AMEN 🙏 AMEN 🙏 🙌 👏 ❤
Amen December will make 10 years for us we are far from rich...but we are making it work...am not even working right now..but God have us😇
Congratulations! Amen!
My wife and I were broke and fresh out of college when we got married. We had a one bedroom apartment and one car. Other than each other we didn't have much else. Fast forward a decade and a half. We've been blessed tremendously.
There's not a day that goes by that I don't feel lucky to have her. I didn't need a "bag" win her over. I just needed to stand for something and be about something. Fellas there are still women out there with substance. I think the internet has a way of warping our perception. Celebrities aren't real life. And the internet is not real life. Social media damn sure isn't real life.
🙏 AMEN 🙏 🙌 👏
Love what you had to say. A man who finds a “wife” does a good thing. Truth is, you only get one real love. You found the “one” hold on and enjoy the ride. May God continue to bless ur Union. Don’t let anyone distract you from the abundance that will continue to come your way as you are a grateful receiver.
Usually I’m dying laughing, but I appreciate the real talk.
This is so true cherish a good person. Respect goes a long way.
Speaking facts in the most comical way possible. Many can’t handle this reality.
Brother Shuler out here dropping jewels like a clumsy burglar! 💎 💎 💎
WOW! CLUMSY BURGLAR!!!! LOVE IT!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤
😂😂😂
🤣😂🤣💀☠️💀
I LIKE THAT PHRASE
Lolol
When you have the RIGHT one, "God's favor will fall upon your relationship..." Amen. And God's favor is the ONLY favor I NEED.
🙏 AMEN 🙏 🙌 👏 ❤
So well said! Amen 🙏🏾 ❤️
Amen
“Homeless sexual”😂👀💀
🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂✊ikr💀🔊🔊🔊
That one almost flew over my head
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6:49 “How do you know you are in a good relationship????” 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾. Been with my husband for almost 18 years 💕 We are highschool sweethearts 😊
People don’t understand Character is a huge part of a relationship! People don’t look at character anymore it is about what they see online as “relationship goals”. We have to learn how to love someone for their character and not their body, materialistic items, money, bags or anything else. I can see why you have likely been married a while! Preaching my brother !
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And let the children of GOD say:
Amen!
Amen!
Amen!!!
As the old folks say, AMEND, AMEND and AMEND💯
Amen My brotha! Now pass the plate!
Amen!!!!!
Yeah looks and material things are not everything. That true love and affection would last a lifetime.
Facts!! 🙌🏾
Beauty fades and charm is deceptive! 💯
@@moderndaycynic695 that’s God’s word and God’s word ain’t no hustle! (Shout out to my big bro Denzel) for that quote! 😂😂😂
Right on
Facts...
Total sermon right here. Hit the target!
Someone ....said he got the bag and flipped it and tumbled it
Tell it.
YES
Pass the offering plate!!!
Preach!
I preach this to my kids, now that they are of age to receive the message. When you first meet someone your meeting there representative. Take your time so you can see there true character.
So I take it the dislikes are the ones who always screaming relationship goals....lol
Yep!
Celebrity lives just shouldn't be a basis for anything. They don't live in the same world we do.
Bingo
I'mma give you 1000 "likes" for this.
Just stay single...the Peace that comes from it is worth more than Gold!
I sweeeeeear
Oooohhhh YES!!!! Peace as we speak!! It is SO worth it! I'm a witness✋
Yes
No fun getting older alone... very depressing. Go visit a nursing home and you'll see
BIINGOOOW 😂👍!
Looks attract a person, character keeps them!
He see's people and life different ,being a child of funeral home owners and a child of God. He speaks from the heart.
Your speaking facts. Alot of us need to reevaluate what matters most in a long last relationship!
If "all that glitters ain't gold" was Quavo Ft Swaweete's dysfunctional skruggle relationship
"skruggle" LOL
Lmmfao 🤣 @skruggle
🤣🤣🤣 skruggle
AYE! Peoples don't undastand country gramma. We out hurr skrugglin’ in deez skreets tryin’ ta survive off of this stimmi check
That's looks like a picture of popeye and olive oil
“It’s diseases out here that’ll take ya a$$ OFF!”
See that part no one hit the MF like on but I DAMN SURE WILL LIKE IT
Lmao !!!!! He is so funny
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Shuler, this was a profound message that we all need to hear especially if we're looking for a true "soul" mate to share the rest of our lives with, period!
Indeed
Yes...it's a shame he even needed to say it at all🤦♀️
@@kyvministries Amen
Yes, Shuler been on it all week
Yes Shuler them again and again!!!
Character and morals are no longer in this younger generation vocabulary. Those words have been replaced by Money and stature. 🙄
Yes!
Please say that for the people that are not even in the building 💯💯💯
Preach
And not just younger.
@@longinusgalaxy411 You are correct, it's not just the younger generation. I'm sure a lot of this has been going on for awhile. The only difference is social media allows everyone to see it.
I just love this man's advice. We need more positive comedians like this. This needs to be shared EVERYWHERE.
I think I speak for all those within my generation when I say: "young, dumb and full of ....."
Yup!!!!
Exactly
Full Of Old Clabbered Buttermilk!
Brain Damage, Entitlement, Crap quite frankly alot of words can finish off this sentence
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"Many of y'all can't buy no damn Birkin bag" ... king out here roasting all of us, lool 😂😂😂
Ayy hey right, I can afford bootlegged Birkin bag tho🤷♂️🤣
"He talking 'bout y'all, he ain't talkin' 'bout me! I don't do none of that stuff!" 😂🤣😂
@@MsTraydale 😄
Nah he roasting people who are materialistic
Great points!!! I wish all of your videos were this long or longer!!! Your opinions be on point.🙌🏽🙌🏽
Tammy can I stop by for a meal or several meals?🤓🤓🤓🤓🤓
@@MichaelLee-nn9fo 😂😂😂
Hi Tammy!!! Love your channel..
Thanks @@Pureabundance8🤗🤗
Real life lol
Shuler is dropping pearls of wisdom. Great advice
“Smelling her draws making sure it don’t smell like cologne” IM TALKING BOUT YALL! I ain’t here doing that stuff 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂hmmmkay
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I think it got personal for a minute. I had to rewind that part over again like 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
@@missbdainty1 ha! It sure did 😂😂😂
He went DEEEEEPPP lol! I was like, is he okay or is this is a personal story coming through? 😂
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Go back to the old soul music, "Let's stay together," "Just the two of us we can make it if we try"
My mama and the rest of my family play this on every holiday and at cookouts I was born in 2004 but those songs from the 70s 80s and 90s gave me the greatest memories
Cuz that's when love was real you can hear it through the music too bad I won't ever be able to experience it
My mother was telling me about this and I listen and took it to heart. So when I meet a guy I will look at their their character and their heart not their stuff. ❤️👍
You will be truly happy in your life,
If you do this. Character!
@@southernsass2937 I'm single at moments.
I got a huge heart!!!!!
Just be patient and don’t get fooled by their “representative”
@@joemomma3208 I will.
As much as I want a stable man I want a good man more. I want a man who loves, support me, and treat me the way he wants to be treated
"Treats me the way he wants to be treat", what?
@@rickyrunks510 if a man wants to be treated good then he should be treating his woman good is what it means....
Your statement sounds like a one-sided desire! What is your definition of support, love, and how you should be treated?
@@koladejobi it is not one-sided, it goes both ways
@@OTG_thaONE Even more convoluted. The roles of a man & a woman are different. Our wants, our needs our desires are instinctively different. To say a man must treat you the way he wants to be treated is saying he wants to be treated like a woman. Stop expecting your men to have female tendencies. A man is to provide, protect and secure. A woman to nurture, groom and support. Learn what men want/like/need, then look to treat your man the way HE wants to be treated. It's the only way he treats you the way YOU wanna be treated. Start listening to men, stop speaking only amongst yourselves and if you care; know what men want.
Listen bruh...as a man I truly believe in what my mother said ( a single parent btw), you need to be able to carry the piano in the relationship but make sure that woman is at least carrying the piano bench........ for those that can't grasp this concept....in Layman terms.... make sure she's bringing something to the table.......
Ok Shuler!!! I appreciate you speaking your wisdom.. This is so true Character, you definitely dropping some gems that alot of ppl need to hear... don't judge a book by its cover but by its content & CHARACTER!! A WHOLE WORD👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💎💎💎💎💎
Can't live in no birkin bag, tho it is a down payment on a house! But you will be fashionable homeless🕳️
Preach Shuler! Nothing but the truth! Pride goeth before destruction and a haughty spirit before a fall.
Preach sista!
So true King Shuler!! 🙏🏽As the elderz say, U want the finished product, but not the journey ✌🏾 envy not😌
AMEN
Facts
Tabernacle!
Preach my sista ❤️💯
Your a very wise person
They just broke up. She said she was single and he said she wasn't the woman he thought she was so..........she lied, he lied, they're together and she is what he still wants. A mess!
Ive been saying for years that people need to stop putting celebrities on pedestals. They're just like you and me, that money can be gone today then what you gon do??
Trying to see if her draws smell like Cologne 🤣🤣🤣🤣
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@@ASHELYR90 🤣🤣🤣🤣
SPEAK SHULER!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽. Say it again for the people in the back that CANT hear.
So True, I did get very sick but my husband stepped up while everyone else ran away because they were scared we would run out of Money, we now have new businesses and contracts keep coming...I'm so Blessed. Tell em brother
When Shuler got into going after a big 🍑lady, I died😂😂😂
I want to like this 1000 times. Yes Shuler King keep giving the advice that needs to be given. We appreciate it. This is gold. 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
7 mins of Shuler's monologue and/ or commentary on this rightea can only mean one thang: Derrick Jaxn is being ex'd out as a so called "relationship/ dating guru"
Sign of the times!! Shuler is using his head!! 😎
Good riddance! Never listened to that DJ guy he didn’t seem right.
Taking advice from Derrick Jaxn is equivalent to getting legal advice from security guard! 😂😂😂😂😂
@@joemomma3208 💀😂
@@kennyking4554 👊🏽
Appreciate you dropping them gems Shuler ‼️
“Homeless-sexual like a mug!” 😂😂😂😂
They sure are all of em taking turns tag you're it doing each other no protection Aids and all the other sexual diseases they ain't told us about yet sitting back waiting to make their debut! It ain't too bad being single sometimes
Around 6 minutes I didn't expect to start crying but here I am... garbage man, contractor, janitor,..... as long as he's a good dude. **weeping**
If everyone had insights like you, ""just maybe we would be in better relationships!!""
Shuler...where can I send my offering bruh.. you aint lied yet!!!
"Y'all want stuff you ain't qualified for" 🙌🏿 🙌🏿 🙌🏿 🙌🏿 That's the stuff people don't want to hear. That does not mean you can't GET qualified, but if you won't even get clear on where you are so you can genuinely get to where you are trying to go 👀💯
Factssss
🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 AMEN
💵💵👈🏾that’s my offering...that was a message! ✌🏾
Damn bro we need more videos like this from you. You give excellent advice!
Amen! Character is the most important thing. So many people caught up in what you got instead of who you are.
I wish the people are hearing your message. People get so caught up in the glitz & glamor of "famous" people they don't see the true reality of their own lives or even know who they are. Someone else's reality isn't yours
That's it right there! "Someone else's reality isn't yours ..."
One of my criteria when I was looking for a man was: Will this man get up in the middle of the night with a sick baby? I weeded out SO many with just that one thing.
I would get up and make bottles and sometimes take my girls for car rides, when they were sick they only wanted me. They play fight about who's my #1 , answer is all 4 .3 girls and 1 boy.
How would you absolutely know what that man would do until the moment is crying in the cradle?
@@rgw1380rw You watch him. You pay attention to the gentleness of his spirit, how he treats people, how he responds to you when you are sick, whether he is willing to put others before himself. You never know anything with 100% certainty, but with time, you can see someone's heart and character. You know if he is the TYPE of man who would get up with the baby.
@@Footswalker1977 I guess that is your way of figuring things out🤔. In my experience and observations, that type of guy you described is the guy that finishes last.
@@rgw1380rw Yes. I loved my husband's spirit. I remember introducing him to people who didn't know him, before we were married. When I asked what they thought of him, they would mention his calm spirit. It was exactly who he was. It's true, a lot of those "nice" guys might finish last. But it's not a race, it's life. Even people in last place eventually cross the finish line.
This definitely was not “love in an elevator” 😂😂😂😂😂
@@moderndaycynic695 they were from my hood so I seen that coming 😂😂😂😂
@@moderndaycynic695 I’m serious too! Ike and Tina were from my old hood. Those two were a hot mess even before they got famous.
FAXZ
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@@moderndaycynic695 no ma’am Ike and Tina are💯 percent hood. It was not an act or facade! They lived not too far from my aunt and uncle. Everyone knew how crazy they were.
You are telling the absolute truth. I am getting ready to celebrate 56 years of marriage to a wonderful man who is patient, loyal, trustworthy, kind, respectful, trusting and has the character that you are talking about. We are so blessed and I wish the same thing for all young people.🙏🏾❤️
ShulerKing today I doff my hat for you. I am from Nigeria and what you just said in a 12mins video is how life operates in a nutshell. How i wish men and women, particularly women all over the world would apply this in their life. Your message cuts across every endeavour of life. I appreciate your contribution to humanity with your humour filled wisdom.
Mental health, peace, youth isnot worth trading in for the bag.... They are priceless
YES they are.💖
Piece of mind, peace, and self worth are priceless! 💯
I actually heard about the relationship ending earlier today and she posted it saying that she was single because she wasn't happy anymore and that he had been cheating on her and tried to make up for it by buying her stuff. In the end she said that it wasn't doing anything for her and she would rather be by herself and so she left and then not long after he came on and was saying that she wasn't the person he thought she was and basically trying to get her to act out and instead of that happening she just replied with take care. Despite what probably brought them together she realized that she actually wanted somebody to actually love her for her instead of just buying her stuff so in the end I feel like she elevated herself and realized that she wanted more than what he was providing and that she was also hurt by what he did.
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Good for her.
Why you aint use no punctuation??
@@LadyAngela678 why did you use TWO...lol
Hi shuler king. That's so right. Character is the most important thing in life. So many times they make it about that bag I seen them fighting just disgraceful.
The best thing or advice u have given! Ppl need to hear this 💜💙💜💜💜🌻💐🌷🥀🌺
When people hook up for all the wrong reasons, their whole relationship gonna be an altercation.
YES! DISASTER FROM THE START!