A Charmer can inflict much more deep pain into the mind and spirit of someone than most bad boys today and other character traits. imagine a guy that makes you feel special , using flattery to make you feel good about yourself, Doing things for you, giving you focused attention and making you feel like the most desirable woman in the world. Then imagine he withdraws his affections and attentions , he is losing interest for you but now you are completely hooked by all those beautiful memories and pleasures he gave you . You will start to feel anxious and insecure and ask yourself why is he so distant , did he lose interest?? Perhaps he found someone else, or he could inflict deep pain which is the worst type of pain because you become weak and dependant on him , pain and pleasure creates powerful emotional bonds. Now think about a bad boy who did nothing for you at the start , did not treat you like a queen. Going from queen to servant is much worse than being a servant in the beginning. That’s why I think Charmer + some coquetry is probably the most deadliest and effective way of seducing men and women
I think you are right. A charming person casts a wider net than the rake. His endearing nature is intoxicating, the greater the intoxication, the deeper the depression from with-drawl. Some principled charm, is alluring. To be genuinely charitable and virtuous, charming, with 80% of the confidence of the rake, is almost irresistible.
Also to add to this the charmer has to have limits and boundaries. The limits make people have to earn the attention you give them after you intoxicate them like a user coming back for their fix. When you get to the point where people are fighting for your attention you’ve successfully done it.
Bad Boys give the same hit as charmers, especially if they beat up someone in front of your girl. That’s why guys in gangs/drug-dealers get girls most have no game but they have physical and psychological power.
To have the ultimate charm, you have to adapt the persons interests and their motives to you, and show them you are similar. Read what turns people on and makes them excited. You'll be like a missing part to this persons puzzle of life
idk if you're still ready for an argument but think of it like this. Charmers don't TRY to adapt to a person's interest. everything comes natural. think of James bond or like you said Kennedy. people like JFK because he was a people's president. People thought he was on their side. he hit them with a smile, and people loved him. kind of like obama. Charmers are good at calculating what it takes to get a certain result. he woos them with abstract thoughts, compliments. strong ideas. and complementing thoughts and likes. A good one can woo you with attention and presence. then take it away in a heartbeat. all strategic to cause desire. sorry fr the bad english
It's funny because I applied this charmer startagy without even realizing this, I was like wow when I read the book. Now I know why that woman fell for me
@@nonofyourbusiness8623 wow, amazing man. by the way I'm learning state control too these days it's very effective, being an actor. Would love to listen your story man. What's your insta handle?
As an ENFJ, this sorta comes naturally. But I don’t feel comfortable being that manipulative even though I could if I really really wanted to. I don’t have the time. But I relate to this seduction type over the others.
I am a charmer to. Some of the natural as well. If you gain muh knowledge by re reading you won't even have to think about it. It will just naturally come out in your daily life. That's the beauty.
@YD8189 Windows Movie Maker - The Art Of Seduction: Download Audio Book Slapped a picture over the audio file and pumped out a movie. sorry can't help you much more than that.
I do not want to be seduced. It means to me I would be losing control.and giving someone else me to control. I want to be sober knowing I want to do what I am doing.have a good night.
Anyone can be seductive, it’s a game of psychology not beauty. Physical appearance looses its seduction after repeated exposer, being charming is seductive always.
A Charmer can inflict much more deep pain into the mind and spirit of someone than most bad boys today and other character traits. imagine a guy that makes you feel special , using flattery to make you feel good about yourself, Doing things for you, giving you focused attention and making you feel like the most desirable woman in the world. Then imagine he withdraws his affections and attentions , he is losing interest for you but now you are completely hooked by all those beautiful memories and pleasures he gave you . You will start to feel anxious and insecure and ask yourself why is he so distant , did he lose interest?? Perhaps he found someone else, or he could inflict deep pain which is the worst type of pain because you become weak and dependant on him , pain and pleasure creates powerful emotional bonds. Now think about a bad boy who did nothing for you at the start , did not treat you like a queen. Going from queen to servant is much worse than being a servant in the beginning. That’s why I think Charmer + some coquetry is probably the most deadliest and effective way of seducing men and women
Yeah lots of people might think charmer is a weak type. It's not lol. It's the most deadliest type. Agree with you.
I think you are right. A charming person casts a wider net than the rake. His endearing nature is intoxicating, the greater the intoxication, the deeper the depression from with-drawl.
Some principled charm, is alluring. To be genuinely charitable and virtuous, charming, with 80% of the confidence of the rake, is almost irresistible.
Also to add to this the charmer has to have limits and boundaries. The limits make people have to earn the attention you give them after you intoxicate them like a user coming back for their fix. When you get to the point where people are fighting for your attention you’ve successfully done it.
Bad Boys give the same hit as charmers, especially if they beat up someone in front of your girl. That’s why guys in gangs/drug-dealers get girls most have no game but they have physical and psychological power.
@@11gurkha but how?
I don't understand exactly his point.
I read the book twice so this audio is so useful for my memory...Thank You
To have the ultimate charm, you have to adapt the persons interests and their motives to you, and show them you are similar. Read what turns people on and makes them excited. You'll be like a missing part to this persons puzzle of life
idk if you're still ready for an argument but think of it like this. Charmers don't TRY to adapt to a person's interest. everything comes natural. think of James bond or like you said Kennedy. people like JFK because he was a people's president. People thought he was on their side. he hit them with a smile, and people loved him. kind of like obama. Charmers are good at calculating what it takes to get a certain result. he woos them with abstract thoughts, compliments. strong ideas. and complementing thoughts and likes. A good one can woo you with attention and presence. then take it away in a heartbeat. all strategic to cause desire. sorry fr the bad english
Lil Rainbow ok
The mirror effect
Your profile pic is turning me on
I am mainly a charmer myself too. The book truly enlightend me! :)
Welcome.
I am a charmer for sure based on this video. I didn't read the book, but how do charmers deal with narcs and abusive people that push your buttons?
It's funny because I applied this charmer startagy without even realizing this, I was like wow when I read the book. Now I know why that woman fell for me
Same, realized why I had so many friends...
@@M1aocat you just need to add a sexual vibe to the charmer strategy, mate
me too hahaha
how?
I am most definitely a chamer in many ways
THE VOICE FOR THIS IS EPIC LOL!
Im definitely the charmer, I’m so good at it it scares me sometimes
how?
could you explain a lil bit ?
@@nonofyourbusiness8623 wow, amazing man.
by the way I'm learning state control too these days it's very effective, being an actor.
Would love to listen your story man.
What's your insta handle?
@@nonofyourbusiness8623 it's me but I'm in this stuff nowadays to become tough.
and at the same I' am learning how to balance this thing.
@@nonofyourbusiness8623 Fantastic write-up! Greatly appreciated
@@nonofyourbusiness8623 great write up, but you avoid creating tension??
the voice is fucking charming. that is all.
@tretelo
Thank You. Didn't see anything like this on youtube so i uploaded a few.
:D
As an ENFJ, this sorta comes naturally. But I don’t feel comfortable being that manipulative even though I could if I really really wanted to. I don’t have the time. But I relate to this seduction type over the others.
Same here for an INFJ, Are you also an MBTI geek?
@@TheHellBoy05 Yes!
I’m an ENTP and I do this
istp and I am naturally this and coquette
I am a charmer to. Some of the natural as well. If you gain muh knowledge by re reading you won't even have to think about it. It will just naturally come out in your daily life. That's the beauty.
this is so me its unreal
As long as you mean it
I would say since childhood my art of seduction is a mix of the coquette and the charmer
@YD8189
Windows Movie Maker - The Art Of Seduction: Download Audio Book
Slapped a picture over the audio file and pumped out a movie.
sorry can't help you much more than that.
He's a way better speaker than the guy who did the unabridged version. I guess he couldn't keep this "seductive" voice up for that many hours.
Yo who is the NARRATOR? 🔥🔥🔥
Ok I found him his name is Jeff David if anybody cares lol.
I do not want to be seduced. It means to me I would be losing control.and giving someone else me to control. I want to be sober knowing I want to do what I am doing.have a good night.
Does anyone know who's picture is on the cover?
It’s me daddy
oh yesss. this voice is sex...and I love the Charmer Personality haha
guys what I consider the most difficult thing is to find the way to understand mu personal trait does someone know any clue to find my seducer trait?
alejandro gutierrez read the book , you will find a click with one of the 9 types of seducers and see how to get the most of it
Also get out there, in the real world
then your
gifted a god!
And they... will fall under your spell :)))!
Tease to almost please.
im curious..does this work if your ugly? hahahaha
phiniusgenius any cute face works, beauty and cuteness are completely two different things, one can be ugly and cute, i 've seen it
Anyone can be seductive, it’s a game of psychology not beauty. Physical appearance looses its seduction after repeated exposer, being charming is seductive always.
From a woman’s perspective, it might work if you meet the minimum threshold of attractiveness.
Yup aha. Tons of examples in the book of "ugly" it less attractive people seducing attractive people .
nice I'm better then this