Breaking News : Nigeria Parents In Uk Children's Removed From Their Care , In Serious Problem
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- In this video, we are going to share the story of a Nigeria 's family who recently moved to the UK whose children have been removed from parents ' care. Watch the video so that you can learn, share with anyone who lives in the UK who has children, or anyone planning to move to the UK.
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UK is that last place l will advise any family to migrate to with children. It is not actually the fault of these countries. It is the fault of the stupid govts we have in Africa. Why should we in the first place have thought of migration if things are ok in our various countries.
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This law should apply anywhere in the world. Children has rights too, they should not be abuse by their parents.
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I agree with you. Children needs to be protected across the globe.
Those who are interested in the law should take there children there, Africa is not ready to become Babylon yet. The Bible says , train a child the way he should go and when he is old he will not depart from it. Sorry I quoted Bible forgetting that many of you don't believe in God.
Sweetheart don't ever apologise for quoting the bible jesus is the only way 🙏❤🙏@@OlierOnah
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I’m Carribean British.
I had a friend from Sierra Leon who sent for his children and his daughter did exactly the same thing.
She refused to go to bed in a timely manner, started getting mouthy to her parents.
Ultimately she went to school and told her teachers that she was being chastised by her parents and taken into care.
I told him the minutes he started to play up you should have sent her back home.
This country don’t care about families, they are happy to break up a family.
Once children get into the system the family will never be the same again.
My advice stay home!
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This law is very good as it protects children from many factors as abuse, anger, violence and it gives opportunity a child to develop good attributes without cohesion or force. Africans lets learn to put sense in our children in a calm and peaceful way. Allow children to express themselves by talking honestly for you to understand them. Beating, shouting, punishment, arrogance and aggressiveness destroy the will power of a human being.
There is a big difference between parenting in Nigeria and parenting in the UK, but a wise person would ask why that is the case. Why have the laws been made so strict to protect the rights of the child? It is not intended to destroy families. Why has the law been made this way? Over many year there have been too many high profile cases where children have fallen through the safety net and everyone in this country is aware of those cases: Maria Colewell, Jasmine Beckford, Victoria Climbie, Logan Mwangi, Arthur Labinjo-Hughes, and Baby P and many many more. If you look up these cases , you will cry. This is why there is a legal obligation laid on every member of society to report any suspected child abuse. Note suspected not proven. This is why so many neighbours report when there is any signs that a child may be in trouble. A wise person will learn from this.
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I see why my late dad insisted in the 60's, we go back to Africa and never come back! I later came back as an adult, asvwas born in the Uk. But was happey I grew up in Africa. The children are in charge in the western world, and not the parents!
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No parent should hurt their children. It is very wrong for parents to think they can assault their children just because the children belong to them.
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I disagree with your statement that in the western world the children rule. In Africa some methods of discipline is draconian in nature you can discipline without being brutal.
@@wanjikuwaititu8591and you are wiser than God who says that you will spoil the child when you spare the rod.
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what exactly is your point here? That we are all lost in slavery again. The law is the law. Agreed. But does that justify the children's behaviour in exposing their parents to this hardship by taking advantage of Western Law to support their indiscipline? Many parents have made a wise choice of relocating back to Nigeria having observed the waywardness and indiscipline of their children abroad. They choose to depart from the ease and privileges of living abroad rather than losing their children to wildlife. Or what is the point of gaining pound sterling, dollar and having all the world vanities to lose your children to cultures that are alien to our heritages? This you need to advise parents to do rather than becoming a spokesman on behalf of alien cultures and indirectly casting blame on the parents and justifying degradations of moral values on the side of the children.
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Well said.
The children are going to go into a care home where they will not only be mentally abused but racially abused they will not stay with the foster carers but will be subjected to various different foster parents the child’s behaviour in school will start to deteriorate before the child gets expelled at 16 the child will get a flat and a grant and left to fend for themselves
Worse of all, the children are put into forster care and then legally abused with the protection of the system.
The social worker is just protecting his job by using the most detrimental word to describe the situation.
What he needs to do is educate the system as to how the Nigerian culture works like other cultures have done and not sellout your people.
How would anyone who has their lives threatened with being detained in prison still insist that the child was wrong if they didn't feel that what they cautioned the child on was justifiable???
He then makes a contradictory statement by saying melanated people are disproportionately represented in the system.
He should question himself what is the cause of that.
He is simply far removed from what the Nigerian culture is and should improve the system by starting a program to integrate both systems.
So my advise is to take a closer deeper look into the system to improve it as there are many abuse cases when it comes to children placed in care.
Hmmm, I hope they'll not be exposed to the worst abuse with no one to care or speak up for them!
Parents must learn a lesson.Never mistreat kids😮
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Thank you for the update
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This happened to a west Indian couple I know the children was separated in different foster homes and about to be moved when the mother requested they be given to the father. Success story they've all done well; apart from the one who reported the issue. The father has just forgiven the daughter who reported him and visited her along with the last child.
I've professional friends who took their children back to the Caribbean/Africa see what life is like outside the 🇬🇧. Some Asian families do so too when the children start becoming wayward.
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If your children are not behaving.Take them to the store.Ask them to pick out whatever they want.Purchase it for them.Wrap it very well.Keep it outside the home.Tell them what you want them to do to get the gift.And watch them doing everything you want them to do.Turn tv on and enjoy your peace.No. Do not put your hands on them, but you have to discipline them.
Some children need disciplined , buying them things is only bribing them . These parents are too prideful
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@annejames890 Abuse is not discipline. You people are simply backwards. And I am 100% African.
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A family friend from Sudan called me and was crying that U.K system has destroyed her children. Family is very important oooh. Hummmmmmm!!
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You can't beat your children in England they will take them
Western west not only England
This is one or the worst place to grow your child. You are not allowed to grow your child/children in the fear of the Lord. They are taught that if their parents administered corporal punishment, then they are being taught to spare to rod and spoil the child. The reason why there are so much teenage murders is because these children is being taught that their children that their parents has no right to put their hands on them. So these children think that it is right to go out with a knife and take each others life because they have not being taught right from wrong. A parent has no right to grow their children. The bible says that you should train up the child in the way that they should go and when they are old they would not depart from it. Very few children ever go into care and do not grow up offending, not only here but in most western countries
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Well said sir. GOD BLESS YOU
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Thanks 4 the update ❤ 🇬🇧
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My children are all destroyed because of social services and uk police and I can't say nothing.
na wa ooo
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Dont blame social service. Seek the fault by yourself. Always blaming others. Smh
Same story in Ireland.
God knows I’m not going to raise my kids in this useless country
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It's not a useless country rather it's about systems and if you are able to adapt to it, however you could make a good decision as well not to raise them here.
@@sijisiji8100It's a useless country with children mostly becoming drug addicts and criminals for lack of proper discipline.
Are the laws in your country upheld or is it one of those countries where you batter your wife without recourse?
Children has to be disciplined,just don’t put your hands on them.There are many ways of making children cry without putting your hands on them. They will do whatever you want them to do.
Exactly! Discipline is not abuse! Why do some parents think that discipline is to punish severely? There are so many ways to show someone that they are wrong and this includes even adults!
@moremogolomoremogolo5328 Exactly!
Thanks , very informative
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Frances it’s so glade that you are helping Nigerian family’s and my ex girlfriend hit her daughter and she removed her from the school social services got involved. Thank you for educating people here
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Hearing about the wife refuses to listen to her husband whose been in the UK for some years, and now their children are in the system because of her hard head if I was him, I would have her deported back to Nigeria 🇳🇬 what purpose is she serving in the UK? It's not about her anymore it's about their children send her packing. And focus on his children who has been out of his life for years.
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I'm not in support of the abuse of both children and women, but I won't have a situation where my child or my woman decides to use the "western law blackmail" to frustrate me to d.eath. I would rather keep them in Africa if I can't comply 100% with the system.
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I absolutely agree with you.
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You are so right sir .
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Children should not be abuse, but should be discipline in the right way, this is the reason why so many of them are dying or getting into trouble, society allow them to do what they want, when they get into trouble authority then abuse them does discipline apply to adult only,a child should be train to respect their parents and themselves while growing then everyone would be discipline enough to deal with a bad situation
My dear brother you are doing great job for devices. Am sorry both mum and dad are very wrong by getting people back home to get involved. They will be lucky to get this children back. That is what is been happening even,back home their are law.thanks
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God bless you so much sir for this vital information. I will share to as many contact I can. For that woman, she has character disorder. She needs to put her character in order. I pray that God should help them recover those. Children back IN JESUS NAME AMENNNNNNN
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It is the same law in America.I worked as.a school Nurse.They regard it as child abuse.
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Just recently they did that to a Ghanian man too
It is happening every day .
Very inspiring 👍🏽 please I am currently studying masters in public health what kind of jobs should I start applying for to get sponsorship?
Yes , are you in the UK 🇬🇧
Trying to manipulate the children away from the case is an additional crime - obstruction of justice - the parents or whoever is asking the children to “beg their parents”should be charged for doing so.
Here in the USA, the parents are not at liberty to work with the authorities, they are under obligation to work with the authority or get prosecuted for child endangerment.
Stop making it a black and white issue, child abuse is treated similarly irrespective of the abusers color. Based on what you are saying, this couple is primitive and still lives in Nigeria in spirit, their children have been removed because of their primitivism, not because of the color of their skin.
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Some women are very adamant.........I had a red flag from the mother of my kids in Nigeria when I corrected her on child training and she made the same comment the woman in this case made. However, I decided not to bring them over here but the kids could come when they are older.
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God bless you
Amen
Life in the UK for u
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This is stupid and rubbish law since is not of God. Where is the Bible the White missionaries brought to the African. Children obey your parents so that your days may be long on earth
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Its better to co operate with the authorities
Thank you very much for your information to all they have to follow the law in other peoples countries.
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Social services and child protection have done the right thing bcoz we have seen many children sturved, tortured physical abuse and neglect even when they want a discent meal and wants to play.
Thank you for exposing this. People don't realise that whatever they were back home holds no water here. Rather than being repentent, they become aggressive and confrontational. When parents cooperate, social services help you. If you don't know, they will help you.
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I agree it is so different in the UK, the African culture is sooo different, some parents will even hit there adult children, this is so wrong, learn about the UK culture before taking yr children their.
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As soon as your Child becomes "Incorrigible" take him or her back to Nigeria ASAP as in case of Anthony Joshua and others!! 💖🙏
Good advise
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This couple grew up in the 🇬🇧 joined parents very young age.
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Sir, you are very correct. Because the U.S.A is just the same.
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So if he's been here legally for 18years and the daughter is 11, how come the family only came 2years ago?🤔 I worked in child protection for many years and this man is correct in what he's saying. Physical chastisement in particular will be treated severely, regardless of culture. Please learn basic laws, for your own sake
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These Nigerian parents with their charlatan attitudes and thoughts that without the parents the children destiny becomes unfulfilled. No.
These parents need to abide with the British system laws and local authorities policies.
The pride that they are in control of their children needs be nullified and be humble here in Uk.
Ignorance and disobedience will lead them loosing their children here in Uk.
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Preach it brother. Educate our African parents. In the UK, children welfare is taken seriously here unfortunately, I can say the for my Nigeria culture
Regardless law is law the overall conclusion is that parents emigrated with children should developed new orientation in parenting children in another world to avoid culture conflicts.
Is not parenting in Africa is hockey dorry because many children are living with damages parents has caused them in the excuse of discipline. We need to learn and cause changes . No perfect parents no perfect children either. Peace
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Proverbs 13 verse 24 whoever spares the rod hate their children,but the one who loves their children is careful to discipline them
Thus say the the true and living God of isarel
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exactly what harm was intended by the parent, mr speaker are u of the uk laws or the proper way to bring up children. if the parents can see the children again. let the uk take them. the parent should return to nigeria and bred new kids. na waao
Noted
They must adjust
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You cant beat your children full stop..even when in public...and dont be aggressive to them either.. people/strangers are watching always.. due to a high increase in some kids being killed by their parents due to their uncontrollable anger..Uk has had enough of kids dying at the hands of their parents.. walls have ears and kids need to be protected at all costs..
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The system that gave them this right will be the system that put them in the prison when mess in the society.
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Even the neighbours will report the parents if they hear kids crying or being shouted at...
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What is going on with our brothers and sisters in the U.K?/
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If it is possible, children should be brought to the western world to attend university. At that stage, a good personality must have been molded in them. I don't support the tough Nigerian treatment of children abroad, though. As a parent, if you think that you can't conform to the legal standards abroad, please stay back in Nigeria. What happened here is quite unfortunate.
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Before I could say anything, I first want to know their level of education. And if they pass through any American Institute of Education.
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Good job Francis. Africans, Nigerians in particular, need to be educated about this. Why we are ignorant in this day and age shocks me and from some comments on this platform, the ignorance is still obvious
It is so sad
Kibooko is very important
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But it was the woman who harmed the kids and not the man. Why not remove her instead. The father should still have legal custody of the children
The father is responsible as well as the mother to keep the children safe .
The law wants the parents to go back to Nigeria with the children no more benefits from the uk system that my opinion.
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I am British we use to get the belt we had to say auntie and uncle but the nanny state now but saying that we can’t hit them anymore so it’s law and the has been instances where children have been killed some Nigerians not all believed that there was a demon in the child and beat the child to death. There only doing there Job I use to take phones off my children it seemed to work 😂
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Just emphasize that parents should not be so mad as to beat their children leaving physical marks on them.Usually that's what triggers the Child Protective Services not necessarily because of beating them except it is different in the UK.Usually in most cases in the US you can beat your children but you must not leave injuries on their body.Initially he made it seem like no beating at all adding just in passing that you must not beat them at all.
Yes no beating at all. It is unacceptable. And will not be tolerated under any circumstances. So please do not try it ever.
@@ROZES2009 That is in Britain. I live in Virginia US.Our law is you can chastise your kids but no physical injury which simply means that you can discipline them in that manner but must not go overboard as that will amount to wickedness towards the child.I understand you live in the UK so you can only say what is obtainable where you live but as some point you were talking about the western world which made me to make the clarification.For us in Virginia we try not to beat our kids for the simple reason that you do know just how not to make them have physical marks on their body especially when they drive you crazy.
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Must they live in the UK? What is so uncooperative? So where do you stand sir? Was this how you were raised. If those children know what is good for them, they better apologize so they don't incur parental wrath. Abuse is wrong. But discipline is quite in order.
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Wow good job the law from protecting the children from the law of discipline and good job the law for veing the first to arrest the same children when the become over spoilt adults and menance to the society for lack of good discipline and parental upbringing.
Mr presenter please tell me what kind of a personality you would have become if your parents have SPARED THE ROD AND SPOILED THE CHILD
I rest my case
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Wat if my children disrespect me...wat y happen
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Address it by talking with them and if behaviour is becoming challenging, apply appropriate consequences such as limiting time to watch TV or behind using the phone. The message is to correct the bad behaviour and not punish the person. Does that make sense?
@@sijisiji8100 As you say, there are so many ways to correct behaviour, the key is to start setting boundaries when they are young.
To hell with that system or society that will not allow me to train my children properly.
Somebody is beaten which one is chastisation
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Show us evidence 😅😅😅
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The man is supposed to know better
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Don't polish it. You mean she was beaten. Anyone under 18 is a minor and should be protected.
When you in UK you cannot beat these kids like we were beaten. They might be put in prison.
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😅go straight to the point, too much talk, talk
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If ur leaving marks on ur child ur child ur yr going to far
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You lie too much sir, show us the proof. Where is your evidence? You dey form accent wey you no get
Thank you so much . It is up to you if you learn or not . Have a nice evening.
You must be in Africa that’s why you sound naive
How can you say he is lying, it's only those that don't fear God believes that the western world is everything. Afterall that all stolen from Africans.
Jafaru, what proof are you looking for? The guy is only giving honest advise , so do not be naive as different law for different countries. No act of lawlessness in UK, like you do in Nigeria. So be cautious.
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@@roselineolaiya7635 they don't take advice, please don't mind them.
Who cares........ Let the government take care of them. It's your tax working for you.
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Can you please define what you mean as chastisement of a child. What is the duty of a parent towards his or her child. Remember, spear the rod and spoil the child. The police themselves chastise their children. I have seen and not exaggerating. You as a Nigerian should speak for your people and not standing with the authority for their detriment. What do you understand as integration. I do not believe that any African parent loves his or her child less except if that parent has an undiagnosed mental issue. Why should the authority remove a paternal or maternal right of a parent and encourage children to do whatever they like and finish in a mental hospital as is the case of children of this generation who are unguided through the right part. I am angry listening to this nonsense. I do not encourage harming any human being let alone a child, but please Nigerians have moral values and obligations towards children and should be allowed to exercise that right and inculcate them into their children.
The law in the UK doesn’t care about nationality . When in Rome act like Romans .
Only God.can.help .children's by His Mercy children's are not responsable for unfaith fulnes to be a sturban wife for her husband I can say she is a cruel and selfish mother we must pray to God who is Wonder Working God for Children's shake
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Repeating the same over and over
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I just stumbled on your video, I must say that your video lack originality and factual content. The word Chastising is vague and loosely used, were the children disciplined with a whip or just verbally chastised, how often was this done, these are all the facts that you as a claimed social worker supposed to tell your audience. You claim that you are a social worker but from your video I think you are part of the problem. How can you allow children to be separated from their biological parent into foster homes when all sorts of societal ills abound, sexual abuse, sexual exploitation children growing up without discipline and respect for their seniors. The Bible says ‘show a child the way to go and when he grows he won’t depart from it’ now that they are in foster care who is going to show them the way to go. Children need to be shown the way to go, this includes punishment, discipline chastisement. The parent needs to show them that there is consequences for their actions be it good or evil so that you have a society that is Godly and worth living by all. But I am highly disappointed by your video as a Nigerian talking like that, were you not chastised in your school back home, didn’t you do chores after school, you Francis is a disgrace to come out as a social worker and be talking in this manner, as a social worker the next best place a child can develop properly outside parental home is the immediate family member but you are placing them under the care of government and we do know that anything the government touches it destroys. As a social workers you will know that children that were placed in foster care back in the 40s 50s,60s 70s 80s and even recently turned out to be sexually abused, go and read the government white paper that was released during the government of David Cameron on sexual abuse of children. Go and read ‘Investigation and Prosecution of Child Abuse Cases’ and be enlightened. Don’t be part of the problem be part of the solution.
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Can you please use good and simple English that people will understand than Nigerian English vocabulary.
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Oh is it about English or about the message?
How do you communicate with children as a social worker in England with your watery spoken English?
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Please can you dm me the mother of the children contact number and offer her motherly advice.
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It's late 😭😭😭. The arrogant Nigerian women behave they know better. I know at least more than 3 African women whose children have been taken away.