Surviving Mistreatment in Foster Homes

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 1 ก.ค. 2024
  • Today on Unfiltered Stories, Dr. Stacey Patton shares her remarkable journey from being an adoptee and child abuse survivor to becoming an award-winning author, journalist, and child advocate. As a former foster youth, Dr. Patton has faced immense challenges but has turned her experiences into a powerful force for change. Join us to hear her inspiring story of resilience and dedication to advocating for children's rights.
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  • @Jay-n262
    @Jay-n262 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +19

    She went through more trials and tribulations than any child should ever go through. She's an inspiration.

    • @truckingwithtobee
      @truckingwithtobee 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Absolute scary thing is this happens to a lot more children than you would think. I’d say more than half of people that are on this planet were abused when they were children. Maybe even more.

  • @mic47013
    @mic47013 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Such a hero, never understand why adults do these awful things to children.

  • @positivevibesonly9536
    @positivevibesonly9536 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    You’re such a beautiful woman. I’m sorry you were mistreated🙏🏽

  • @spiritualvibrations2825
    @spiritualvibrations2825 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

    That woman sounds so evil and she hid her evil behind love and religion.

    • @sexyalleycat
      @sexyalleycat 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      These types of women always do 😤

  • @SuperBigdaddywood
    @SuperBigdaddywood 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +25

    There's 14k children in fostercare in PA alone. Please consider doing something to help a young person in your community.

  • @sheribanitt5659
    @sheribanitt5659 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    So very sorry for all the trauma you endured. Inspired by your determination to heal yourself and others.

  • @truckingwithtobee
    @truckingwithtobee 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    My father would tell me the same thing. It hurts me more than it hurts you. And he would also tell me I brought you into this world and I can take you out of it. I was 13 when I first ran away and then ran away again at 15 and never returned again.

  • @ivonkwAn6443
    @ivonkwAn6443 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    Your story makes me cry 😭....

  • @bridecolbourne1305
    @bridecolbourne1305 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Lady you are awesome ! You are an inspiration to the world 🥰❤️🙏🏼

  • @nicoleaavang381
    @nicoleaavang381 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    I had the same vision about meeting my birth family “why won’t someone write Oprah and tell her my story”omg I’m crying thank you for sharing

    • @MSSHARIII
      @MSSHARIII 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      🥹🥹💖💖💖

  • @celestelee5138
    @celestelee5138 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Love her story! She's now a friend "in my head". Well-spoken woman and a thriver.

  • @shanicesparks4848
    @shanicesparks4848 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    You are so BRAVE. God bless you & your journey to healing❗🙏

  • @spiritualvibrations2825
    @spiritualvibrations2825 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    You are a true inspiration for many, please continue to share your story with the masses. I am proud of you. Keep going, healing looks great on you 🎉❤

  • @melissaconrad5084
    @melissaconrad5084 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank you Dr. Stacey Patton for your story. I was a foster child and I was also adopted. I understand the challenges of being in a foster home. Continue showing the world your strength and show them how children should be loved.

  • @Annie-ol3jx
    @Annie-ol3jx 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Thankyou for sharing your story, and I'm sorry you had to go through this. You are so strong 💪, beautiful and smart. You survived for a reason.

  • @Wendmera2379
    @Wendmera2379 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I know how you feel. I was adopted also & my adopted parents didn’t love me. So i searched for my biological family. My father is dead & his kids don’t want anything to do with me. I feel the same way about myself as u did. I’m so glad u got help. Most days it doesn’t bother me, others it does.

  • @tiadekattu9096
    @tiadekattu9096 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    God Bless You 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

  • @LGW27
    @LGW27 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Thanks Stacy for sharing your story. It helps for victims of trauma to hear experiences similar to their own. I feel for the child in you who was abused so harshly.
    I appreciate how you explain your trauma in both biological and psychological terms. Many people don't know how trauma changes the brain. I've used EMDR to "rewire" mine. It has pleasantly surprised me how well it works.
    I just got the Audible book of your bio.
    Take care.❤

  • @rosalialima7
    @rosalialima7 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    so proud that you could realise yourself and become successful ❤❤

  • @Darkchild547
    @Darkchild547 16 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    I also remember the first strike from adult. It was brutal. My stepsister beat me blue black because I rolled my school socks down. She beat me for what seemed like hours. The lashes she inflicted on me didn’t hurt me as much as the betrayal I felt that this was someone I loved so deeply. My mom had died when l was 6. It as a frightening time for me. Trying to understand all the abuse I endured from various people. I never told a soul to this day about what l endured .

  • @TTXX455
    @TTXX455 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Dr. Patton, thank you for sharing your experience. It is profound. We love hearing about your journey and perseverance.

  • @carolhardin7397
    @carolhardin7397 20 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you for sharing your inspirational story.

  • @RobinJonesrljones20
    @RobinJonesrljones20 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I read my niece your book almost every night. I now understand the message and the powerful story behind it and what you had to overcome so much as a child means everything to me. Thank you so much for sharing your story. Cheers to your healing journey 🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @Warrior_1673
    @Warrior_1673 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Dr. Stacy Patton I'm so proud of you. You have endured so much trauma at such a young age. I hear so many stories like yours and worse and can't imagine being put in the same situations. I don't know why people foster and/or adopt children that have already been beaten down by their very short life to just to be physically beaten down by the one's that are supposed to love, protect, and keep safe. Why do people decide to make a child's life so much more unbearable, unsafe and scary. The people who do these acts of violence should be held accountable and placed in jail. It's not fair or right to the kids being subjected to so much violence and brutal beatings for mundane unnecessary reasons. I'm so happy and proud that you grew up to be such a beautiful, respectful articulate and smart woman. Many many more blessings to you throughout your journey in life and much happiness to you always~🌷💓🌞🙏🏽🦋🌹💐😇💞🙏🏽💫🌼🤗

  • @peanutquezergue99
    @peanutquezergue99 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I love Dr. Patton

  • @sho1470
    @sho1470 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Amazing I am truly touched

  • @stellabellafontay9366
    @stellabellafontay9366 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Foster parents and adoptive parents should be required to sign a ZERO TOLERANCE FOR CORPORAL PUNISHMENT contract. Although all children deserve protection, I feel like children in the system are the most vulnerable. I definitely know about religious schools being allowed to beat on you. It makes a child feel like physical abuse is a parent's right as an adult. Sad story this is. Praying for this woman's healing. 😢 🙏🏽

  • @sylvialyles919
    @sylvialyles919 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ❤I've been wanting to write a book and this video gives me hope and purpose❤Thank you❤Blessings 🙌 and prayers 🙏 for you 🙏❤

  • @rickiericktv3320
    @rickiericktv3320 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Why adopt children to mistreat them 😢

  • @Texas_Made_
    @Texas_Made_ 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I was adopted and my adoptive mother's own mother was a HUGE hypocrite...always hollering jesus in church and claiming to be "christian".....MEANWHILE she would beat her over every little thing,make her the cinderella of the house by having her do all the work,cooking,etc. Theres alot of things black people try to sweap under the rug..this is why i talk to my son now about stuff.

  • @bodaciousbethany0
    @bodaciousbethany0 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    My mother would use news articles about runaways and child abuse in the foster system to scare me from running away. 📰

  • @joankidon4626
    @joankidon4626 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Proud of you sis

  • @rickiericktv3320
    @rickiericktv3320 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Wow! This is too much 😢

  • @caroloates9260
    @caroloates9260 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    My friend have 4 kids, and she will not give them a hug 😢😢

    • @SylisDaCheesCakeGoat
      @SylisDaCheesCakeGoat 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Why ? That’s actually scary cuz her children may grow up to be mean narcissists cuz they don’t feel wanted .

  • @TitusSamuel-qd2uy
    @TitusSamuel-qd2uy 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sad story. Kids do not know options, we need to create options and proactively make them available.

  • @rosalialima7
    @rosalialima7 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    ❤❤

  • @mmcdonald1000
    @mmcdonald1000 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    ❤🙏💛

  • @Texas_Made_
    @Texas_Made_ 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    7:32,LOL she used all those classic lines smdh...

  • @desireemorrell1890
    @desireemorrell1890 วันที่ผ่านมา

    🎉🎉🎉

  • @boopeepope56-ey5gz
    @boopeepope56-ey5gz 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    What takes so long for adults to quit being a punk neighbor TELL OPEN YOUR MOUTH😢😢😢

  • @rapptown5285
    @rapptown5285 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You survived the storm of it all doing all those great things wrote books doing lectures talking on behalf of abused children but you didn’t become a foster parent and rescue other foster children you should have been a advocate for foster children help reconstruct the foster care system

    • @rocb5473
      @rocb5473 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      WTH comment is this telling her what she should have done. Wow. You’ve no clue why she made the decisions she’s made. I’m shocked someone would try to guilt this woman. She was a victim of abuse. She owes no one a damn thing. It’s taken her a lifetime to heal her own wounds and scars. Let her do that however she deems necessary.

  • @F4TiMA.
    @F4TiMA. 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    🌞🌞🌞🌞🌞🌞🌞🌞🌞🌞🙏🏿

  • @kristaquin
    @kristaquin 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Brutal treatment by that foster mom. And to punish kids who hit each other by hitting...how do they not see how nonsensical this is?

    • @SylisDaCheesCakeGoat
      @SylisDaCheesCakeGoat 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      It makes no sense , if you hit the adolescent cuz they hit somone else then that’s not teaching them