Escaping The Monster: Exposing Stepfather's Abuse
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 1 ต.ค. 2024
- Today on Unfiltered Stories, Tammy Leavy bravely shares her harrowing experience of enduring 8 years of sexual abuse at the hands of her mother's husband, whom she calls the MONSTER. For years, no one believed her until her aunt acted as a decoy and caught him in the act. Tammy's story is one of incredible resilience and survival. Join us to hear how she overcame unimaginable trauma and found the strength to expose her abuser and reclaim her life.
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I’m so happy your auntie was there for you
Your Mom is just as bad as him. She allowed it and then gaslit you to believe you were the problem. And for her to apologize on her death bed was the icing on the cake. She had a lifetime to prevent it or after the fact apologize. SHE was trying to get to heaven low key 😩🥺
Yup she knew what was happening the whole time!
She was genuinely miserable as well as hopeful I am sure.
@@jessicaedwards4160quite. 👣
Why did her mom have to press charges? Law enforcement should have had her taken to the hospital and checked and arrested him. They should be ashamed of themselves.
Your mother failed you deeply honey you didnt owe her anything but thank God for your strength!!!! Sending you love on your continued healing journey
💯💯💯💯💯😔😔😔😢😢😢😢😢😢🎯 I AGREE!!!!!!!!!
A lot of Mothers judgment is off! They invite men into their homes, leave their children with whomever will take them.. and that leads to abuse.. it’s PURE neglect! The thing is if you don’t wanna be a parent give those to someone who does
Noooo we are not going to put the blame for men molesting, on the girl's mother.
Heck no, keep that blame to yourself
I agree. 💯
What I don't get is how and why TF a person would date anyone if they got kids! Like, if you're a woman and you got kids, why TF are dating? Why TF are you inviting men over?!
Its disgusting! 🤢🤮
She would’ve never seen my children yet alone be alone with her! WTF?
That part. 💯
I wouldn’t let my mama Watch NOBODY!! what in the world!! Your mama the same mama that didn’t believe you! The same mother that allowed a man to abuse you for YEARS! you let watch your kids 😢
You have not walked in her shoes. Abuse is a difficult thing to grasp. There is so much involved. Don’t be too hard on her. She certainly has done her share of suffering.
@@michellecox5543she sure has however decision making for our children after abuse should be number 1
And that’s the problem we have in our black community
Stockholm Syndrome
There is absolutely no way I would allow my children to be around my mom, especially when she gave up on me and chose him
Her mother knew the whole time you couldn't tell me otherwise!
Ain’t no way in hell I would’ve let her watch my children! I would’ve NEVER dealt with her!You could’ve loved her from a distance!
Too many stories like these… so sad
Exactly!!! What is wrong with these mother's, blaming their daughters for a pervert taking advantage of them??
Acknowledging that BM are dangerous to the community is 1st. Let's protect the girls and women
I don’t understand how women can hear stories like this and STILL risk moving a man into their homes around their daughter. It is too risky, and “love”, and being able to say you have man ain’t worth it! I would never take this risk. Ever.
I hear this story Way too many times and it hurts my heart with each one. A CIVILIZED SOCIETY CAN DO BETTER.
There are too many predators out there. Sometimes it seems like there are more of them than us.
PERIOD.
My mother died when we weren't speaking at the time. She was a selfish unkind woman; cold and controlling yet completely uninvolved with my children and I. I loved her, but I am also relieved that I don't have to experience her scorn ever again. What I'm getting at, is that my mother didn't hurt or injure me nearly as much as your mother allowed to happen to you. Any speaking or kindness that you showed her was more than she ever deserved. I just hope you don't feel guilty for not being there when she passed because I sure don't. It's a peaceful place to be in life. Good luck
100% agree
THIS
So sad for a mother to hold a man in home knowing your daughter being raped. Such ashame that they choose men over children..
You Are Beautiful. Inside & Out. Thank You For Sharing.
Aunty was sent from heaven.
I would’ve never spoke to my mother again. She would’ve never had the chance to watch my kids. She handled the situation totally wrong and is a horrible mother. Thank God for the aunt… if it wasn’t for the aunt that man would’ve kept doing what he was doing
What a strong woman you are! Thank you for sharing your story. I was hurt too by a neighbor. I only have flashes of memories. I simply cannot remember all the actions only the deep fear. Much later in life, my mother married a man who hit me up for sex. Of course I told her. She never left him, and at one point when it came up she blamed me. That part of your story when your mom blamed you hit me hard. You’re a survivor! I am to. I wish you the best in all you do.
I am so sorry this happened to you 😢😢
Your mom was in denial because she knew what was going on; she could not except her responsibility for knowing and not doing anything about it; she is just as evil as he was; You are amazing and beautiful; you have an amazing spirit you are a Warrior
Facts a mother knows. She knew & gave that man full access
What kind of warrior sends her children into the battlefield with people that ruined her life?
Im so sorry this happened to U.... God Bless u, Ty for sharing ur truth, I also endured SA at the hands of my so-called step father, At an very young age. I to believe my mom knew abt it. I also started a book , However I never finished it due to so many ppl in my family that ill have to tell the secrets abt as well. I plan on finishing it soon, Stay strong my sista 💜💪🏽🤞🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🥂🖤
Thank God she is doing amazing. That monster created sickness in her body but God healed her
Why would you allow your mom to keep your kids?? Why did you even deal with her. Healing doesn’t mean you have to deal or forgive your mom!! This is how things continue to happen in families. I commend you for surviving and being a beautiful person in spite of.
Omg god bless the aunty!
Auntie is a HERO
You are a remarkable woman!!
This is so awful ! 😢 How could someone do that to a baby?
Why would her mother not believe her own child?
This is heart breaking.
This story has completely wrenched my heart !! He is one of the sickest ppl living!! He did not deserve to b breathing & the ‘mom’…🤬 I have no words. Idk if I would have the mercy to care for her at her bedside 😤.
Wow Tammy, so pleased to meet you. Thank you for sharing your amazing story.
Never have i been so disappointed on a situation like this. She's still manipulated at the end of the day and nobody's telling her...
16:20 No shes not sorry!!!! SHE KNOWS SHES F*CKING CAUGHT! Wtf she knows that you are crying every single f*cking night !! SHE HEARS IT! This woman was so manipulated. Dear lord your mom knows wtf is going on bc when you mentioned, "Why are you guys still up last night" Yoo thats the sign. Why didn't you come huh? U know they were both up arent that odd? whats ur senses?!?!!!!!!!!!!!!!! NO BC UR MOM IS IN DENIAL SHE IS NOT SORRY. I kid you not.
OMG tieing her up?! What the eff
"tying"
I just have held on to that angry from my mom props to her for forgiving but nah I couldn't
With all respect for your inspiring story, I think you’re still trauma bonded to your mother 😢❤
I'm sorry for all the trials and devastation you've endured. I'm proud of your therapy and your fight for life ❤.
Ms. Tammy u are beautiful 😍 God bless u and ur Auntie! I'm so happy that ur Aunt stood up for u. Thank God u were saved. Thank u God! And Thank God for ur father also! U are so pretty 💙
Wow your auntie is smart. And you're strong. I gotta learn to be more strong and not scared of men
You are a survivor. Thank God for healing. Your story and perseverance will help so many thru these battles. Love you Tink
Love you more tinker
I knew when your mother saw your underwear as a child,....she knew. She knew her husband and she knew what he was doing. Sometimes, I am not trying to justify your mother's behavior, but people who have not processed their own abuse,..childhood SA or other forms of abuse,...they are the worse alleys. Because they have not dealt with their trauma, therefore, cannot help their children. I knew she knew when she saw your underwear, and I guarantee you, that as a child, your behavior changed. Your mom knew and did nothing.
This was GOD!!!!! I am a cancer survivor (breast) too. You're strength is PHENOMENAL!!!! sending prayers of healing your way.🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Damn horror story.that monster has a date with Dr karma.and it won't be pretty.guranteed we get by no one gets away no one.. So sorry my sister.karma has a long long long memory.you will get justice.by the way you're gorgeous
No child looses their virginity that's abuse.
You should never ever ever ever ever speak to your mom again .
ever
Wow
Most definitely
This brought me to tears. I am so sorry that this happened to you but everything happens for a reason and I wish you nothing but blessings and plenty of love and safety and protection. I'm in tears right now
Thank God for your aunty for supporting you. So sad what happened to you. Shame on your mum and her husband .
Your mom was in denial because she knew what was going on; she could not except her responsibility for knowing and not doing anything about it; she is just as evil as he was; You are amazing and beautiful; you have an amazing spirit you are a Warrior
Jesus, a real Nightmare on Elm Street.
Huge mistake, should have never let your mother with children. If she didn’t care enough to protect what made you think she would take good care of your children. She was a bad person and evil people can be your own family
I am so sorry!! But I would never allow my kids to be with my mom after she did not protect me! 😢😢
It wasn’t only the molestation, he enjoyed torturing that child 😢 absolutely disgusting😢
I love your Auntie ❤️
Tammy is the most courageous individual I have ever heard speak. She is lucky to be alive after the appalling treatment she received from her step father. Prison was to good for him. He deserved worse. It is comforting to know he will not escape judgement when he must give an account of his time on earth.❤
You didn’t have to take care of your mom ! You choose that ! i would of never talk to my mom again she was a sorry mom who didn’t deserve a child ! You should of never let your children even see her /….
Never feel sorry for the devil !!!!
Wtf?!?! if what you say is true then Why would you expose your children to your mother and her husband? She is no better than him.
I ain't even gone say what I wanna say about your mom cause its very mean and it sounds like you still loved her but baby I would've never been at that hospital, you were left alone and neglected so we match energy this way…
I'm sorry 😞
God bless you Tammy, you are very strong and intelligent! glad you told your aunt and started bringing the darkness into the light. very glad you can talk about this and help others going through similar situations.
I love this channel, but I have a question. Is it possible to put the words that you blank out up on the screen, or is that against TH-cams regulations?🤔
We can't even say certain things in the comments because the remove or block you. You know they can't do that ether.
How could her mother have her gran daughters around this Monster.
I’m speechless… she knew from the beginning… again your story is mine… 🌞🌞🌞🌞🌞🌞🌞🙏🏿
Dear lorddd..... This is fucked up
Whoa!!! This is horrifying 😮😢
Your AUNTIE IS THE BEST 🙌🏼🙏🏼🙌🏼🙏🏼🧎🏻♀️➡️🧎🏻♀️➡️🧎🏻♀️➡️🧎🏻♀️➡️🧎🏻♀️➡️
So proud of you beloved. God loves you and He has a purpose
God bless you! You are the strongest woman I've seen in a long time. I pray that the lord touches you and gives you peace, better health and gives you the happiness you deserve.
Wow! Thank God for you, beautiful woman. So sad to listen to your story but are truly a success story ❤. I'm also from Rockford, your story makes me happy, God Bless you and keep you. 🙏🏻
It was literally a nightmare on elm street so sad 😞
Why would a mother blame a child. He’s a grown man.. a child can’t groom a adult it’s the other way around
You are beautiful ❤
Great Book! 👏🏾❤ I'm reading it now
Thank You So Much for sharing your story❤
Thank you I hope you are blessed by this book
The mothers ALWAYS know.
But we focus on the perpetrators.
I would love to hear why living with Dad didn't work out. Between the aunt and dad it seemed like she had a great support system all along
You are very pretty that's the first thing I noticed about your video
😔😢😭🙏🏾❤️
This is one of the worst stories I have heard. Ab Yahuah please bless this lady and all the ones that her testimony is helping. Goodness 😭
You’re such an inspiration! Stay Strong!!! 💪🏻
My God that sounds like my story. My mother called me a liar
Shout out to Auntie, A REAL ONE !
Im sorry that happened to her
I wish I could give you a hug
I would not go back
I’m sorry this happen to you😢 He was the 👿
Noooo!!! Omg! WTF!
You are so not ugly
You are really beautiful ❤
These BM preying on kids, is sad
She is a chosen one!
🙏🙏🙌🙌💪💪
You are a beautiful woman.
You are so beautiful, do sweet. And I'm so sorry you had to go through such inhumane trauma as a lonely child. I pray that you never ever ever feel alone again, the whole world is rooting for you. Live your life, may love, happiness, joy, abundance, warmth fill you and your life in every way. And soon all these memories can be replaced by better ones ❤❤❤❤ i have no right to say this but your mother is a very horrible person. Disgusting. And i hope that his grave is an absolute hell and I hope he goes to hell too.
Poor lady
Oh my sweetheart, I am so sorry.
You are a true testament T! We appreciate you for sharing with us ❤️❤️🫶🏾
Dear lord this is too sensitive for my 16 year old brain why did nobody warn me💀💀💀
It's a lesson.
🙏🏽🥲❤
You are amazing and beautiful... dont ever forget it!
Tragedy to triumph wont he do it
First six minutes make a good story.
You are a Warrior ❤
I’m so sorry you went through that