Initially, it’s all about enjoyment and excitement, which is what makes the start so exhilarating. There are no commitments, just a relaxed atmosphere until one of you chooses to escalate things or step back. If you genuinely like a guy, continue to have fun together. Men are attracted to women who can maintain a lighthearted and playful attitude; that sense of intrigue is incredibly appealing. Keep in mind, ladies, don’t allow him to believe he has you completely understood. Make him work for you !!
I kind of disagree. I think people nowadays are way too focused on doing what feels good and pleasurable. Usually when things start off so exciting and exhilarating it just goes downhill from there. One day you wake up and sh*t falls flat. We live in a very narcissistic society it’s all about instant gratification. I’m not suggesting you should be miserable while dating, but the focus shouldn’t be on cerebral pleasure. Stay true to your values and often times that means you need to do what’s right, not what feels good. Otherwise you might bend your boundaries for a guy you really like but deep down inside you know he’s not good for you in the long run. I know so many women who go out, have a great time on nice dates, go back to the guy’s house on date 3 or 4 then when all is said and done they feel terrible in the morning because they don’t know where they stand. That’s the recipe for situationships and those are the absolute worst types of relationship. You can lose years off your life catering to a guy who doesn’t even want you like that. My advice would be to create a list of must-have values and morals. Create rigid boundaries based on those values. Don’t always do what feels good, focus on doing what you know will be the right thing not only in the moment but also in the future
@@TravelBug189 I totally get your perspective. In the end, it really boils down to personal choices. Some women choose to focus on the present and may not feel ready for settling for a variety of reasons, and that's absolutely okay. Conversely, others are excited to pursue a serious relationship. What we can both agree on is the importance of staying true to your values, and the good news is that you can uphold those values whether you're in a committed relationship or just having fun
@@jennifermarieconnectedthat’s a very shortsighted perspective because women who sleep casually with men undermine and damage other women’s chances of having a marriage or relationship by conditioning men to expect everything a woman has to offer for minimal effort. So in the end it’s a lose lose for both sexes. That’s what we are seeing today and it’s hard to come back from it, as Elliot wouldn’t need to make 1k videos to demonstrate it otherwise. It’s not just women ‘having fun’ but selling themselves short and this has damaging repercussions, as we see today in the dating world.
@@GuessWho-i5o Wow, for a moment I had forgotten about this perspective, but you are totally right. It's basic supply and demand. Women are totally ruining the "economy" of dating and long-term relationships by selling such sacred and high-valud good at practically no cost. Were basically living a market crash bubble in dating that is caused by women themselves wreaking havoc and undervaluing something so special that should have never been given freely.
@@athenachavez8The blame isn’t on just women. Men are responsible too for going that far with a woman they’re not serious about. Honorable men are almost impossible to find because most of them take advantage of women and emotionally and physically abuse them.
Being avoidant this comes so naturally. I just don’t want to be “caught” and funny enough it works like a charm sometimes even when you actually don’t like the person
2 things i heard about men: "men love b*tches" and "men love there homies but are attracted to women" which i saw a lot...kind F up that now you have to be kind narcissic to get a men...i prefer to be alone then play those games.
Can you make a video on how to navigate dating in a big city like NYC? I agree guys are resourceful and that seems to be the problem. If they don’t get the goodies right away they’ll just move on to the next girl because chances are, she’ll be easier. If Path A is investing and waiting and Path B is just hooking up real fast they’ll always choose path B. Especially if the guy is attractive and has options. How can women stand out and is there anything we can do to be chosen even when we want to take things slow
Damn, now I know why he may have vanished. Or at least, this sounds like a reasonable explanation. Thanks for this. And yes, this happened to me after 3.5 months!
Fantastic video My five-year relationship ended a month ago. The decision to part ways with the love of my life is something that truly consumes me. Though it's all in vain, I've tried everything to get him back, and I can't fathom my life with anyone else. Even though I've made every effort to quit thinking about him, I can't help but miss him and can't stop thinking about him. Why I am stating this here is beyond me.
It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤
Ugh... the guy I like stalks my social media and even stalked me at the store not too long ago. He didn't even care about being seen by me. He tried to play it off at the store, but I could tell he was stalking. So weird.
Yeah, not worth it 😥. I prefer to be celibate and stick with living life for myself and focusing on my other dreams in life and cultivating my friends and family ✨☘ and doing things I like. If the universe decides to surprise me one day with a unicorn man, then great. But I will NOT be expecting it. Forget men 🥱
😅he doesn't have the crystal ball. But he has few vedios that say, if you are confused after 2 months this is not good, move on. A serious guy about you would give you clarity. So save your money.
Ive had 4th dates at a man house he he ordered food, we watched then i had my friend call me at 11pm and i left. Period. Im not fuckin just because he spent cash. Might as well make it transitional from the jump and offer the money up front lol
it’s wild how no one talks about Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki even though it completely shifts how you see things, but I guess not everyone is ready
Initially, it’s all about enjoyment and excitement, which is what makes the start so exhilarating. There are no commitments, just a relaxed atmosphere until one of you chooses to escalate things or step back. If you genuinely like a guy, continue to have fun together. Men are attracted to women who can maintain a lighthearted and playful attitude; that sense of intrigue is incredibly appealing. Keep in mind, ladies, don’t allow him to believe he has you completely understood. Make him work for you !!
I kind of disagree. I think people nowadays are way too focused on doing what feels good and pleasurable. Usually when things start off so exciting and exhilarating it just goes downhill from there. One day you wake up and sh*t falls flat. We live in a very narcissistic society it’s all about instant gratification. I’m not suggesting you should be miserable while dating, but the focus shouldn’t be on cerebral pleasure. Stay true to your values and often times that means you need to do what’s right, not what feels good. Otherwise you might bend your boundaries for a guy you really like but deep down inside you know he’s not good for you in the long run. I know so many women who go out, have a great time on nice dates, go back to the guy’s house on date 3 or 4 then when all is said and done they feel terrible in the morning because they don’t know where they stand. That’s the recipe for situationships and those are the absolute worst types of relationship. You can lose years off your life catering to a guy who doesn’t even want you like that. My advice would be to create a list of must-have values and morals. Create rigid boundaries based on those values. Don’t always do what feels good, focus on doing what you know will be the right thing not only in the moment but also in the future
@@TravelBug189 I totally get your perspective. In the end, it really boils down to personal choices. Some women choose to focus on the present and may not feel ready for settling for a variety of reasons, and that's absolutely okay. Conversely, others are excited to pursue a serious relationship. What we can both agree on is the importance of staying true to your values, and the good news is that you can uphold those values whether you're in a committed relationship or just having fun
@@jennifermarieconnectedthat’s a very shortsighted perspective because women who sleep casually with men undermine and damage other women’s chances of having a marriage or relationship by conditioning men to expect everything a woman has to offer for minimal effort. So in the end it’s a lose lose for both sexes. That’s what we are seeing today and it’s hard to come back from it, as Elliot wouldn’t need to make 1k videos to demonstrate it otherwise. It’s not just women ‘having fun’ but selling themselves short and this has damaging repercussions, as we see today in the dating world.
@@GuessWho-i5o Wow, for a moment I had forgotten about this perspective, but you are totally right. It's basic supply and demand. Women are totally ruining the "economy" of dating and long-term relationships by selling such sacred and high-valud good at practically no cost. Were basically living a market crash bubble in dating that is caused by women themselves wreaking havoc and undervaluing something so special that should have never been given freely.
@@athenachavez8The blame isn’t on just women. Men are responsible too for going that far with a woman they’re not serious about. Honorable men are almost impossible to find because most of them take advantage of women and emotionally and physically abuse them.
Being avoidant this comes so naturally. I just don’t want to be “caught” and funny enough it works like a charm sometimes even when you actually don’t like the person
Always works great when you don't want it to 😂
As soon as the games start you gotta run!
you are really the best dating coach! You are right about everything here!
2 things i heard about men: "men love b*tches" and "men love there homies but are attracted to women" which i saw a lot...kind F up that now you have to be kind narcissic to get a men...i prefer to be alone then play those games.
Thanks for whistleblowing against these con-artist/scammy men😢
Can you make a video on how to navigate dating in a big city like NYC? I agree guys are resourceful and that seems to be the problem. If they don’t get the goodies right away they’ll just move on to the next girl because chances are, she’ll be easier. If Path A is investing and waiting and Path B is just hooking up real fast they’ll always choose path B. Especially if the guy is attractive and has options. How can women stand out and is there anything we can do to be chosen even when we want to take things slow
You can’t. Just gotta stand by your own principles. The dating apps made it worse because now they just see women as a delivery service.
Damn, now I know why he may have vanished. Or at least, this sounds like a reasonable explanation. Thanks for this. And yes, this happened to me after 3.5 months!
Fantastic video My five-year relationship ended a month ago. The decision to part ways with the love of my life is something that truly consumes me. Though it's all in vain, I've tried everything to get him back, and I can't fathom my life with anyone else. Even though I've made every effort to quit thinking about him, I can't help but miss him and can't stop thinking about him. Why I am stating this here is beyond me.
It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.
Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counsellor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?
His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive
Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤
Ugh... the guy I like stalks my social media and even stalked me at the store not too long ago. He didn't even care about being seen by me. He tried to play it off at the store, but I could tell he was stalking. So weird.
Yep. That’s what happened to me.
I ❤ how funny you are! You sound like you are a Sagittarius??
It’s pretty much a game. You have to play mouse 🐭 and cat games in dating world. You can be too nice or they will take you for granted. Sad 😢
Yeah, not worth it 😥. I prefer to be celibate and stick with living life for myself and focusing on my other dreams in life and cultivating my friends and family ✨☘ and doing things I like. If the universe decides to surprise me one day with a unicorn man, then great. But I will NOT be expecting it. Forget men 🥱
Men are assholes.
How much is it for a one hour session to where we walk away feeling like we understand what’s going on?
😅he doesn't have the crystal ball. But he has few vedios that say, if you are confused after 2 months this is not good, move on. A serious guy about you would give you clarity. So save your money.
Ive had 4th dates at a man house he he ordered food, we watched then i had my friend call me at 11pm and i left. Period. Im not fuckin just because he spent cash. Might as well make it transitional from the jump and offer the money up front lol
Well damn 😅
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it’s wild how no one talks about Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki even though it completely shifts how you see things, but I guess not everyone is ready
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if this resonates with you, you owe it to yourself to read Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, but maybe it’s not for everyone
most people stay stuck because they avoid books like Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, which actually show you how to break through
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funny how people spend so much time on this stuff but ignore books like Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki that actually explain what’s going on
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not saying this isn’t interesting, but books like Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki make this look like child’s play
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not saying this isn’t interesting, but books like Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki make this look like child’s play
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funny how people spend so much time on this stuff but ignore books like Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki that actually explain what’s going on
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