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He didn't "choose" her. He kept her from realizing that she could do better and finding her ACTUAL husband. Run girl. He didn't propose out of love, he proposed because he didn't want to lose her during his shenanigans. That is MANIPULATION!!! RUN GIRL!!!!
I lived through this…he chose to ultimatum me to marry him because he felt that our individual families did not want us together. He told me he didn’t want to lose. He knew the abandonment wounds. He knew I didn’t want to start over. He definitely played on that. Now there’s healing. There is peace..but I had to find it in me. Had to realize that I could save myself. No matter who was there. No matter who walked away…
I think women forget that we, as women, is the one that choose our spouse. Not the other way around. It is different if she said we choose each other! But "He chose me" makes my skin crawl!
THIS PART! even when shes smiling she looks soo hurt. I pray for her. I hope she's gets the happiness she's looking for. Deep down inside she knows he's not the one.
The long pause when she asked him if there’s a possibility of him reaching out to the other woman?!! Baby, if it’s ever between you and someone else, you never want to be the one he chooses. EVER!
@@indiabrowne7549right! He didn’t even answer the question! That’s a big problem! It’s emotional abuse and she needs to run! Let him go back to the other woman since he can’t let her go! He only gave her that ring to keep her on lock down, when he doesn’t want to be with his side piece! 🙄🤷🏾♀️
I loved the look on her brother's face! He wasn't phased and he made sure he repositioned himself to ensure he wasn't attacked from behind . . . he knew that Kouri is a weak, immature man.
You are so right. Its concerning that she doesnt realise that if Kouri doesnt respect her brother he doesnt respect her either. The brother has genuine concerns yet he wants to intimidate him into not expressing those concerns. This guy is still very immature.
I seriously feel because it seem like his mother emotionally manipulates him… so he does not fully understand emotional boundaries. His mother have no emotional boundaries/ regulation.
Sometimes you can't give what you never received, and it seems that's the case here. If he was never shown affection, he won't recognize when to give it or how.
Yes he has been prepping her on what to accept. He's also teaching her to hide things from her brother because of how he will react. And the fact his own family didn't know about his cheating is a huge red flag.
6 mins in.. girl run!! This is a prime example of people will treat you how you allow them to. Edit:Chef kisses to the verbiage of the therapist. She was so on point this episode. ❤
True In my opinion we can’t teach the unreachable. People are either naturally respectful or not. Time to go. No teaching our spouses. A conversation is not a lesson. We must leave the disrespectful abusive competitive partners n lovers❤❤❤❤❤❤
I don't think she wanted the title so bad, I think she wanted commitment like adults should want/single parent; her problem= WRONG MAN!!! He definitely wasn't the relationship type
@@virgo7956 So if he cheated before the proposal and afterwards. He also do not care about her son and after all that she still said yes. She is desperate to be his wife lol
She doesn't have self esteem. She's still running after a man who openly said he's gonna entertain his mistress again. She can't stand up for herself, how can she stand up for her brother. 💀
So wait he paused when he was asked he may reach out......I would have left there and then.!!!! He obviously still loves the other woman! It's definitely an emotional attachment. Sorry but he will not be faithful in marriage.
I thought I was the only one who noticed that! I was tapping my screen like did it pause 😩🤣 I feel soooo bad for her. An emotional connection is deep! No way he’s ready to let that go. Smh.
She looks tired .. I had this look when I was in a relationship with a cheating narcissist.. it literally is a spirit that gets on you and can even change the way you look.. I looked drained, puffy and tired all the time smh ..
As a mother who raise a son alone. You do not want this character being praised and valued by your son at all. She is sad and holding on, let go sis its hurting you and your son.
As a mother who raised 2 sons alone I would NOT be focused on that woman and her brokenness. I would be more concerned about my son's brokenness: his emotional disconnect, immaturity and lack of integrity. He is sad, unprepared and HE needs to let go. He's hoping/waiting for her to let him out of this mess he's created.
@@coveredcovered20 Yes you are so right, I also noticed that. So if he knows that his childhood was not idle, why doesnt he make the changes that he wants to see. He seems to be living in the past and stuck in teenagehood.
This is a manchild. The disrespect to her, his family, and he cheated. The way he threatened her brother and left the table was just a hint on wtf she will endure. No thank you
@ceenichole6866 you are so right. I was hoping the moms would not bless the wedding and ask them to postpone until the manchild matures into a real man and she comes to a point of loving herself more.
That's why I'm convinced she thought this was her final option. That man literally tried to break down her defense system. We know a brother will always protect his sister. He threatened him right there that it will never happen no matter how long he hurt his sister. That's not okay.
He's a horrible person and she's miserable. I've never seen a woman cry this many times in a one hour show. She just doesn't want to be proven wrong. Also, i bet he sees that other woman till this day.
If there's something in your childhood or you thar blocks you from showing me empathy, compassion and instantly want to comfort me when I'm sitting next to you crying, GOODBYE ! because that's when your so called love should show up !
Girl he isn’t the one he got mad because he was being held responsible for his actions and he tried to transfer the blame onto everyone else! He got called to task and didn’t like it. He’s immature and not ready
He reminds me of all my ex’s friends that told me to RUN lol. They told me I was selling myself short and it was so true..They even started saying it while he was there smh. I was miserable just like this lady…I’m now happily married now to someone else
He doesn't have my blessing. 😂 He's the same person and he wants her bc he knows if/when he cheats again she won't leave. These are the types of women men choose to marry. Carry on....
He doesn't want to let go because she's a CATCH. Go play around if that's what you want. WOMAN, you deserve so much better ughhh. His ridiculous attitude is so scary, and he's very immature.
I think a large part of his disconnect is that he does not want to be faithful. I can only buy for so long that your dad was not in the picture. There are plenty guys out there who are stepdads to children they can conquer this quicker than he has.
The body language with the sit down tells it all.She’s leaning towards him for comfort and he’s leaning away from her because he’s being put in an “uncomfortable” situation with everyone calling him out for his behaviour and how he treats her.Huge red 🚩.RUN babygirl!!!!
Because when you don’t deal with childhood trauma, it does play a part; he is just dealing, with the help of Tracey, that he harbors certain behavior traits because of it.
@@lovewins8914yes I get it, but he either needs to continue with therapy to be a better man or not get married! We all dealt with some type of trauma or lack of affection in the household because our parents worked long hours to keep a roof over our heads! He shouldn’t get a pass for bad behavior just because he defaults to “his childhood”! Now that he knows some of the reasons he cheats, he needs to seriously work on himself! She also needs therapy to figure out why she is lowering her standards and self esteem to think he is a prize, because he “chose her”! He is still emotionally tied to the other woman and did not answer the therapist question if he would get in contact with the other woman again! Even though he didn’t answer, that was his answer, it wasn’t a “maybe”, it read loud and clear that he wasn’t through seeing the other woman! I feel bad for her son, because he is going to endure seeing his mother hurting and emotionally drained from this toxic relationship! 🤦🏽♀️
That’s crazy. Both families were willing to give blessings just based off of him, saying some words and that’s good enough? Without him proving his words with action I would not believe anything he says.
I don’t even believe her when she said yes after her brother asked her if she was really happy. Wasn’t convincing at all. Don’t be with someone just because. And that’s what it seems like to me.
I feel like she is so emotional because..in every fiber of her being, the whole family's being... She KNOWS this is the wrong decision. But because she has invested all this TIME ⏲️ she thinks she may as well keep investing, she half way there..😔 side note. She so prettttyyyy ❤🥰😍
*desperate 😢 He really isn’t mentally prepared to be a parent or know how to be one. He needs a male mentor to guide him into manhood. She wants her son to have a dad, but she is overlooking that he ain’t the best model. She needs to build her self esteem instead of looking for a bf to raise!
No ones EVER talking to my brother like that. That made me want to cry. He knew her brother wouldn't challenge him. What shocks me the most is that no one addressed the issue. He's not it
Candace is so beautiful and sweet. Your tears speak volumes. Pray and let The Lord lead you because when He (God) speaks your cries will be heard. Love is patient. Love is kind. True love heals and its faithful. God bless you my dear sister 🙏🏽Take care
I don’t understand people why stay with their partners after cheating. It only takes one time for me to leave the relationship after breaking trust like that. She needs to cut him off and never look back.
The fact that his excuse for everything he doesn’t do is that “he didn’t have that growing up” but hasn’t worked on how to do what he’s not doing is a huge red flag.
Baby, I was "he chose me" at 18yrs old til 34yrs old. Married him at 23yrs old had two children by him and everything. It still wasn't enough, they truly drain you of your youth and energy. I hope she realized it and ran 🏃♀️
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He didn't "choose" her. He kept her from realizing that she could do better and finding her ACTUAL husband. Run girl. He didn't propose out of love, he proposed because he didn't want to lose her during his shenanigans. That is MANIPULATION!!! RUN GIRL!!!!
I lived through this…he chose to ultimatum me to marry him
because he felt that our individual families did not want us together. He told me he didn’t want to lose. He knew the abandonment wounds. He knew I didn’t want to start over. He definitely played on that. Now there’s healing. There is peace..but I had to find it in me. Had to realize that I could save myself. No matter who was there. No matter who walked away…
She is sacrificing her health physically and mentally by allowing him to have a side chick. 😮
"He chose me." That response speakes volumes. Don't be so desperate to be with someone that you accept any and everything.
A "Pick me"
She’s a pick me
A pick me who unfortunately has a child to bring into this mess. Women, stand up!
I think women forget that we, as women, is the one that choose our spouse. Not the other way around. It is different if she said we choose each other! But "He chose me" makes my skin crawl!
Thats said everything @helena3631
The bride to be has the saddest eyes, even when she smiles. On another note, the mothers on this episode are gorgeous! 🤩
THIS PART! even when shes smiling she looks soo hurt. I pray for her. I hope she's gets the happiness she's looking for. Deep down inside she knows he's not the one.
The long pause when she asked him if there’s a possibility of him reaching out to the other woman?!! Baby, if it’s ever between you and someone else, you never want to be the one he chooses. EVER!
I would have left that house right then..🤨
What's that saying. If you even have to choose, choose her/him 😂
This is the moment she should’ve walked away. 🤦🏾♀️😩
That pause would’ve been it for me..
@@indiabrowne7549right! He didn’t even answer the question! That’s a big problem! It’s emotional abuse and she needs to run! Let him go back to the other woman since he can’t let her go! He only gave her that ring to keep her on lock down, when he doesn’t want to be with his side piece! 🙄🤷🏾♀️
“It stopped for the most part.” What does that even mean?! She needs to focus on herself, her son, and her self esteem.
I caught that one too; if red flags was a person. 😂
How did the family not catch any of his redflags?
i didn’t understand that either. i would have been so mad
He has some NERVE catching an attitude when he’s the whole problem! Her brother was not aggressive, he was just an easy target.
I loved the look on her brother's face! He wasn't phased and he made sure he repositioned himself to ensure he wasn't attacked from behind . . . he knew that Kouri is a weak, immature man.
He was hoping the brother would take the bait. A physical altercation is easier than hearing the truth about himself.
You are so right. Its concerning that she doesnt realise that if Kouri doesnt respect her brother he doesnt respect her either. The brother has genuine concerns yet he wants to intimidate him into not expressing those concerns. This guy is still very immature.
Agreed and kouri was deflecting
Exactly his not going to say that crap to her, his mother or anyone else who chimed in…He needs to apologize to her brother.
He don’t want her. He needs to stay single. Selfishness is a real word.
He never comforts her when she cries 🚩
I seriously feel because it seem like his mother emotionally manipulates him… so he does not fully understand emotional boundaries. His mother have no emotional boundaries/ regulation.
Because he doesn't care. It doesn't matter what they said about his mother being manipulating. If a man cares for you he will comfort you.
Sometimes you can't give what you never received, and it seems that's the case here. If he was never shown affection, he won't recognize when to give it or how.
He Is The Cause Of Her Tears And Can't Say That He Won't Continue To Selfishly Cause Them
Recently separated from a man who did this and my light finally came on .
He still has emotional soul ties to the side piece and she needs to love herself a whole lot more than she does.
If you’re this miserable before you even get married, what are you hoping for after? She’s basically dehydrated from crying.
😅
😩😩😩
Giiiirrrrl!😂😂😂😢😢😢😢😢
Yoooo! 😂😂
Dehydrated from crying😂😂😂
I love Keyon. Every woman needs a brother like him
She better run for the hills.. He is already showing what he is going to put her through when they get married smh 😢
Okay! Run and run fast
Right we pray and ask God to show us signs and when he does we just ignore it😢
Yes he has been prepping her on what to accept. He's also teaching her to hide things from her brother because of how he will react. And the fact his own family didn't know about his cheating is a huge red flag.
@@justjools6156facts
She's constantly crying - clearly very unhappy. You shouldn't be this sad in a relationship.
Yesssss! She can do bad by herself...
Yea she sad af
She's lacking self love and worth, the heart chakra is out of balance.
True.
6 mins in.. girl run!!
This is a prime example of people will treat you how you allow them to.
Edit:Chef kisses to the verbiage of the therapist. She was so on point this episode. ❤
True In my opinion we can’t teach the unreachable. People are either naturally respectful or not. Time to go. No teaching our spouses. A conversation is not a lesson. We must leave the disrespectful abusive competitive partners n lovers❤❤❤❤❤❤
We need an update on this couple ASAP 🤷🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
Girl she want that wife title so bad 😅😅 " He wasn't the relationship type." So why continue with him.
She saw a challenge. Her life became a bit dependent on him " choosing" her over the single life😢
I don't think she wanted the title so bad, I think she wanted commitment like adults should want/single parent; her problem= WRONG MAN!!!
He definitely wasn't the relationship type
Yea ! Like infidelity is for married people lol
@@virgo7956 So if he cheated before the proposal and afterwards. He also do not care about her son and after all that she still said yes. She is desperate to be his wife lol
We need to choose better
He disrespected her brother and she asks him if HE’s ok🤯
Yo!!! I’m irritated by that and I’m not even apart of their family lol. It was unwarranted and misplaced anger.
She went straight to him despite the fact that he threatened her brother b/c he can’t face the truth 🤦🏾♂️
I did not like that at all. She should’ve checked her “fiancé “ because he was totally wrong.
She doesn't have self esteem.
She's still running after a man who openly said he's gonna entertain his mistress again.
She can't stand up for herself, how can she stand up for her brother. 💀
@CashUnlimited8 HE DEFINITELY HAS A ANGER PROBLEM. scary
So wait he paused when he was asked he may reach out......I would have left there and then.!!!! He obviously still loves the other woman! It's definitely an emotional attachment. Sorry but he will not be faithful in marriage.
Right
Agreed 💯💯💯
I thought I was the only one who noticed that! I was tapping my screen like did it pause 😩🤣 I feel soooo bad for her. An emotional connection is deep! No way he’s ready to let that go. Smh.
I think they edited the show for the dramatics
It’s all about her self esteem. She doesn’t have any
She looks tired .. I had this look when I was in a relationship with a cheating narcissist.. it literally is a spirit that gets on you and can even change the way you look.. I looked drained, puffy and tired all the time smh ..
Absolutely. So pretty but really drained.
I agree. She's a beautiful woman and yet she looks so lost inside.
Wow🤯 it caused you to take on another appearance.
Yes, me too. I started looking older and was depressed to the max. All I did was sleep.
Exactly- I wish she knew that this is not how the love of your life is supposed to make you feel.
This man doesn't respect her or her family. You call them there for their opinions, then wanna fight when opinions are spoken. RUN CHILE..RUUUUUNNNN
Him not answering if he would go back to the ex he probably never left alone did it for me!!!
Me tooo. He gave her his honest answer 😂😂
As a mother who raise a son alone. You do not want this character being praised and valued by your son at all. She is sad and holding on, let go sis its hurting you and your son.
As a mother who raised 2 sons alone I would NOT be focused on that woman and her brokenness. I would be more concerned about my son's brokenness: his emotional disconnect, immaturity and lack of integrity. He is sad, unprepared and HE needs to let go. He's hoping/waiting for her to let him out of this mess he's created.
HES ALWAYS TALKING ABOUT HIS CHILDHOOD AS AN EXCUSE
@shamioshi agreed but she is trying to heal the son with him.
@@coveredcovered20 Yes you are so right, I also noticed that. So if he knows that his childhood was not idle, why doesnt he make the changes that he wants to see. He seems to be living in the past and stuck in teenagehood.
The bride looks so sad. She’s hurting
It is palpable
It's kind of hard to watch, because she looks so sad..SMH
Infidelity is one thing but a 2 yr affair is different, especially with his pause about going back to the side piece…no
Absolutely 💯 3 yrs infidelity??? and the pause that accompanied Tracy's question was eerie!! His spirit is elsewhere. Poor Candace .
lol he was in a relationship, SHES the affair
@@phillycheesedog1 that’s still a red flaggg 🚩🚩 he could do that to her too
This is a manchild. The disrespect to her, his family, and he cheated. The way he threatened her brother and left the table was just a hint on wtf she will endure. No thank you
@ceenichole6866 you are so right. I was hoping the moms would not bless the wedding and ask them to postpone until the manchild matures into a real man and she comes to a point of loving herself more.
Yes. And that girl is probably still around
He's already doing this. She's already experiencing this.
The threatening behavior towards her brother was concerning. Im afraid for her and her son. The son wouldn't benefit from him as a male figure.
That's why I'm convinced she thought this was her final option.
That man literally tried to break down her defense system. We know a brother will always protect his sister.
He threatened him right there that it will never happen no matter how long he hurt his sister.
That's not okay.
@@sattasana7753 absolutely
💯Facts!
It was a very alarming and immature response. He definitely needs to grow tf up.
I was waiting on him to step up and apologize at the blessing ceremony
She is beautiful and deserves better in life.
I totally agree but she has to see it and want it for herself,so sad
She’s going to stay with him until there’s no more tears left and her eyeballs are damn near falling out the socket. SMH
Unfortunately
@CashUnlimited8 thats so funny🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂😂
He's a horrible person and she's miserable. I've never seen a woman cry this many times in a one hour show. She just doesn't want to be proven wrong. Also, i bet he sees that other woman till this day.
I bet so too. I'm glad someone else concurs.
If there's something in your childhood or you thar blocks you from showing me empathy, compassion and instantly want to comfort me when I'm sitting next to you crying, GOODBYE ! because that's when your so called love should show up !
He’s figured out how to cheat better
Literally 😂😂😂
Tell it.
His brother don't play with him lol.. I love it! ❤❤❤
That’s his cousin , not his brother. I’m sure they are close like brothers though. 🙂
Engagement was just to stop her from walking away. Why doesn't she love herself?
Desperate
@@jaylenefarrell7175maybe her issues come from her son’s father leaving her.
Girl he isn’t the one he got mad because he was being held responsible for his actions and he tried to transfer the blame onto everyone else! He got called to task and didn’t like it. He’s immature and not ready
Not he a bad step daddy 🤦🏾♀️ girl red flags already
Terrible
I'll never understand why a person would come in a person life, propose knowing dam well their not ready 😒
Exactly
This relationship needs to end. She is still hurt, and he isn't ready to be a one woman man & a father figure.
I like the fact that the groom to be friend is a man. He will hold his friend to the fire. That's an honest friend and man.
It’s his cousin! I have respect for him because he expects him to step up and for her to stand her ground and set boundaries.
He reminds me of all my ex’s friends that told me to RUN lol. They told me I was selling myself short and it was so true..They even started saying it while he was there smh. I was miserable just like this lady…I’m now happily married now to someone else
@YourFavoriteRealEstateAgent good for you sis. Life is too short
He doesn't have my blessing. 😂 He's the same person and he wants her bc he knows if/when he cheats again she won't leave. These are the types of women men choose to marry. Carry on....
It's not just him here. She needs therapy
😅😅😅 mine either!
😂
I think he uses his childhood as an excuse for bad behaviour. How is your childhood responsible for you not comforting your fiancé when she's upset?
Yeeeesss!
He has ALOT of text book answers. Something ain’t right about him!!🤨
PR answers 😂😂
@hotoffdapress1018 I love your analogy of "text book answers" very poignant indeed!
I'm gonna use the text book analogy😂😂😂😂😂😂 smooth, simple & chic❤
Indeed
He doesn't want to let go because she's a CATCH. Go play around if that's what you want. WOMAN, you deserve so much better ughhh. His ridiculous attitude is so scary, and he's very immature.
She also needs therapy
@@jaylenefarrell7175Absolutely
BINGO ‼️‼️‼️
I think a large part of his disconnect is that he does not want to be faithful. I can only buy for so long that your dad was not in the picture. There are plenty guys out there who are stepdads to children they can conquer this quicker than he has.
He's lucky the brother dosen't come off as confrontational because I would've match his energy and put him in his place
as an elder brother of a sister, I totally agree.
The body language with the sit down tells it all.She’s leaning towards him for comfort and he’s leaning away from her because he’s being put in an “uncomfortable” situation with everyone calling him out for his behaviour and how he treats her.Huge red 🚩.RUN babygirl!!!!
How long does Kouri get to use "it goes back to my childhood" as an excuse not to show up in a relationship??? How many times did he say that?
Because when you don’t deal with childhood trauma, it does play a part; he is just dealing, with the help of Tracey, that he harbors certain behavior traits because of it.
@@lovewins8914yes I get it, but he either needs to continue with therapy to be a better man or not get married! We all dealt with some type of trauma or lack of affection in the household because our parents worked long hours to keep a roof over our heads! He shouldn’t get a pass for bad behavior just because he defaults to “his childhood”! Now that he knows some of the reasons he cheats, he needs to seriously work on himself! She also needs therapy to figure out why she is lowering her standards and self esteem to think he is a prize, because he “chose her”! He is still emotionally tied to the other woman and did not answer the therapist question if he would get in contact with the other woman again! Even though he didn’t answer, that was his answer, it wasn’t a “maybe”, it read loud and clear that he wasn’t through seeing the other woman! I feel bad for her son, because he is going to endure seeing his mother hurting and emotionally drained from this toxic relationship! 🤦🏽♀️
That’s crazy. Both families were willing to give blessings just based off of him, saying some words and that’s good enough? Without him proving his words with action I would not believe anything he says.
@kaylawright6536 I enjoyed reading your perspective - very insightful.
I DO NOT feel sorry for her. She chose him knowing full well that he is a man of the streets. She did it to herself and it won’t stop.
Some women aren't strong as others so I do feel sorry for her.
I don’t even believe her when she said yes after her brother asked her if she was really happy. Wasn’t convincing at all. Don’t be with someone just because. And that’s what it seems like to me.
She's visibly very unhappy.
Omg. Her brother is fiinnneeee.
As HELL!!😂😂😂❤❤❤
I hope that she realizes her and son's worth. She loves the potential and idea of being with him more than her own happiness. So mamy red flags
What in the struggle love. 🙄 Im sooo sick of it. Some women just want to have a ring so bad.
This!
He can’t be trusted..,
I don't see this man staying faithful
First off the wedding would be called off snapping on my brother like that for no reason... luckily she didn't have a brother that matched energy 😮
This these type of men know who to pop off with
Cuz some of the brothers from other episodes would've gave him what he was begging for lol
Run girl, I think his family would help you escape 😢
I feel like she is so emotional because..in every fiber of her being, the whole family's being... She KNOWS this is the wrong decision. But because she has invested all this TIME ⏲️ she thinks she may as well keep investing, she half way there..😔 side note. She so prettttyyyy ❤🥰😍
Their body language speak volumes! She’s more into him, than he is her.
Her brother really still concerned about his sister
The brides mom was WAY too lenient. It’s actually disturbing!
This is the only show that i dont want the couple not to be together...she is so beautiful
You used a double negative… do you want them to be together or not?
Seems like a cheating bully, I pray she runs quickly😒
As beautiful as she is ,she’s slowly fading from stressing and crying behind a loser
He's probably still out cheating.
This woman is not happy. Nobody stable or happy is crying so easily. She needs to have self esteem and heal
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DO NOT MARRY THIS DUDE!!!!!
He’s not ready to be a father nor a husband.
The self esteem 😮💨
Please remember that you teach people how to treat you, by what you put up with and don’t put up with. ❤
If i got to tell a man to act like a dad to my child, then i dont want that man. He clearly doesn't want to he a step parent.
He is out of her league. She settled with him.
Most definitely
I’m sorry I’m not seeing what cadence sees🤷🏿♀️🤷🏿♀️🤷🏿♀️lord be a new set of glasses Amen
Amen!😂😂😂😂
@@TheMwendaa 😫😫😂😂😂
Idk what’s the catch!
He doesn’t give off husband vibes at all… she’s so beautiful, I wish she could see that
The fact that he didn’t know if he would reach out to the other woman SPEAKS VOLUMES
He knows exactly what's gonna happen! He's not gonna tell her that he'll continue to cheat ❤
Young lady remember this you are the prize if he don't know this for real he's not the one !!!!!!!!!!!! 😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮
He is in love with the other woman. She better run and never look back, she seems sweet and loving but super vulnerable and open to reality.
Whoever this other woman he was with for the 2 years is still a factor you can tell by his demeanor.
Big factor
He knows he should step up more with the child..
That means he chooses not to.
Girl. You are just taking anything. I pray you discover your worth ✨️✨️✨️
You can clearly see he is not ready.
She is too sweet, he’s a hothead and she needs to RUN!!!
Run 🏃♂️ 🏃♂️ 🏃♂️ 🏃♂️ faster
Girl take your son and run. That will be a cycle.
Run he's not ready. He wants to change but he hasn't. Some counseling would be needed.
She crazy to marry him.
*desperate 😢
He really isn’t mentally prepared to be a parent or know how to be one. He needs a male mentor to guide him into manhood. She wants her son to have a dad, but she is overlooking that he ain’t the best model.
She needs to build her self esteem instead of looking for a bf to raise!
Oh no, if his mama has doubt him, I feel like that’s a red flag
Flag with an 'S'‼️
This is what stood out the most for me. His Mum ... ⁉️
Major 🚩🚩🚩
No ones EVER talking to my brother like that. That made me want to cry. He knew her brother wouldn't challenge him. What shocks me the most is that no one addressed the issue. He's not it
THE BROTHER sees straight through him.
Hence why he asked his sister “Are you happy?” 🥴🤦🏾♀️
I've been her, it's gonna take sleep love, God and therapy. That man has hurt her to her core. I can see and feel her pain and true unhappiness
Candace is so beautiful and sweet. Your tears speak volumes. Pray and let The Lord lead you because when He (God) speaks your cries will be heard. Love is patient. Love is kind. True love heals and its faithful. God bless you my dear sister 🙏🏽Take care
I don’t understand people why stay with their partners after cheating. It only takes one time for me to leave the relationship after breaking trust like that. She needs to cut him off and never look back.
Exactly
The fact that his excuse for everything he doesn’t do is that “he didn’t have that growing up” but hasn’t worked on how to do what he’s not doing is a huge red flag.
I swear it triggered me I wanted to throw my phone😂 but her believing him made it worse
If she don't take her son and run...drop, roll...hide
😂😂😂😂😂😂
She cried the entire episode. He's not done with the side chick.
How do you stop cheating for the most part?
This😂
Tip only?! 😂😂
He’ll put the most part in his side piece, but not the whole thang all at once!!!! 😂😂😂
Uh... he did not end the affair.
If he makes you cry more than he makes you smile…Let him GO!
Baby, I was "he chose me" at 18yrs old til 34yrs old. Married him at 23yrs old had two children by him and everything. It still wasn't enough, they truly drain you of your youth and energy. I hope she realized it and ran 🏃♀️
They are so fundamentally clueless about how to be in a relationship with each other, how are they even engaged?
The groom is way to immature for marriage period.
I couldn't wait for a new episode. I need like 3 episodes per day
😂😂😂😂I know what you mean