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- Omar and Laterrica went from dating to instant family last year when their daughter, Penelope, was born. Now, they are planning a wedding to make it official, but the groom's attachment to his mother has Laterrica questioning her place in his life. (Original air date: October 15, 2022)
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I had to leave a mama’s boy. I am not competing with nobody’s mother
I did as well, one of the most traumatic experiences of my life😅
Me too and she was a narc on top of the fact he was a mama’s boy literally a terrible experience
@@neenastylez576 Omg sounds like my ex and his mother as well! At least we now know to look for the signs and exit as soon as possible🤣
I had to divorce one. I will never put myself under that amount of stress ever again! 😞
@@sunlight8366 THE worst stress ever😩😩
The fiancé was dismissive walking past them in the kitchen and not introducing everyone
I saw that too!
Yessss I agree with you she has a guard up & is setting the tone for separation and not resolution… even when she said “this is the lit crew” … & cutting his mom off as she was expressing her concerns in the beginning -everyone else got the floor
I was shocked. Nobody spoke on that that was disrespectful. I wouldn’t live with her after that.
Totally agree! Just rude..they came in wt disrespect leaving a negative vibe in air already
Yeah that was disrespectful regardless of what has happened, they all made the decision to come there to work on it
They tried to make it seem like Omar was him 😂 His mom popped his bubble saying "Omar don't support me financially. He CANT"
right a couple houndred here and there is minor support he definitely not him
Omg. I love Tracey. She's the MVP. She cuts through all people's excuses and really makes them get honest with their behavior.
I love how Tracy doesn’t baby the boomer parents!
Diane looked at her like who you talking to lol
It was much needed
You really have to marry someone that wants to be a husband and a father. Not someone that just wants a wife and a kid. He’s not prioritizing the family he created. They’re the most important right now. This guy is a walking red flag. You’re not a kid anymore.
This is what the emasculation of Black males looks like. men unable to severe umbilical cord and remain Mama's boys.
That was a WORD! 🙌
Trauma. As the show went on, we started to see the childhood trauma and that is a red flag. Getting into relationships with unhealed people is a lot to handle
No one comes to you healed. Black folks in America must realize that we stay married to help heal each other's generational trauma. Then we can pass some healing on. It will take several (many) generations to get healthy, to trust, to exhale. There has been so much abandonment (death, separation, substance abuse) impossed on our families... Let's have Kwanzaa every month!
Thats his got damn mama, he can love the women wo birth him AND his wife
Both the bride and the groom's mother did a great job of trying to mend and move forward, once everything was on the table. The mother was a little rough at first but that meeting with Tracy got her together.
😊
What a beautiful ending🤗 When Miss Diane said, “I’m too old of a cat to be licked in the butt by a kitten”🤣😂🤣Love the old school sayings.
I hollered and I’m at work 😂
Mama standing on business!!!!!!
Oh I gotta keep this one for the books
Boom🎉
I am adding it to the books!!!😂 my holler hollered!!!
Tracy got that Motha ALL the way together 😅😅😅 (Taking away her Power)😮😅😂
Cutting the umbilical cord from his mother is painful for him and his mom... But must be done
True but it must be done in a logical, reasonable and gentle manner. Remember she's now old too. All she has known is her son.
@@MistyEE21 old not dumb
If she has another son, why is she so hung up on Omar? He says he has a brother who helped split the cost of his mother’s rent, I’m confused.
Bride is beautiful! And their baby girl is so beautiful and precious😍
Tracy was the MVP in how she handled Omar’s mom. She came in *strong* but Tracy didn’t back down! And there was actually a breakthrough 👌
I love Terri McMillan!! She does not bite her tongue!!
Tracey*
Diane doing too damn much 😂 Mam that’s your son, not your SIGNIFICANT OTHER 🤷🏾♀️
Omar's mother came in with an attitude and Laterrica probably too that sets the whole process up for failure. In this case he's playing both sides laterrica and his mom 😂😂😂
He has a family and is a father now- the same grace that her family showed him should be reciprocated by his family to her. What a foolish woman to lose her granddaughter - she used him as emotional support once her husband/his father died
THE WAY SHE BROUGHT HER FAMILY IN WAS SO RUDE IM IN TEARS WOW 😢
Just because you birth a baby that never asked to be here does not mean that the child owe you something. That man will not be successful if all of his extra money goes to his mother before he could build it up and turn it into something.
He must stay single and take care of his mother! He's not going to keep his word!
I’m not Gona sto a man from taking care of his mother,.. because I wouldn’t allow no man to stop me for taking care of my mother period!
Nobody's ever gonna tell me not to support my parent financially They should've only focused on the other things
The bride is such a sweetheart. I don’t agree with Mom, but I understand. I hope this just works out for them. This is one of the ones I really want to work out.
The bride annoyed me at the table. She was loud and kept over talking everyone.
What is wrong with supporting your parents financially? Not giving away your entire check, but maybe a bill or 2
Exactly. I couldn't live with myself if I ignored that responsibility - it's morally right.
I agree, I think it was more of a combination of him not being 100% honest about it & the fact that he has more responsibility now. He has a finance & a new baby so his finances have definitely shifted. Like the aunt said, balance.
Me too but I'm from west Africa so I don't even have a choice. I'm definitely preparing for my father's retirement. With everything he's sacrifice for me and my sister, there's no soul on earth that can stop me.
This is what I was trying to understand .
Nothing at all!! They took care of us. ❤❤❤❤
Just because you come into someone's life doesn't absolve them from their moral responsibilities to their parents.
I just know if my parents needed something and i have it, i'm giving it.
Good that they worked it out.
Then you missed the point. If you get married and it negatively hurts your home then that’s a problem. And its not the kids responsibility to financially support their parents. Yall need to stop with this toxic foolishness
Totally agree. It's not about separating family members from their close relationships, it's about people finding way to be loving family and strengthening the family. everyone will have to make adjustments.
that's correct but ur parents should never make u feel as though u have to choose
Absolutely agree with the rebuttals. When the son gains a wife he leaves his parents and cleaves to his wife. No one is implying that you leave your family alone. But when mama leaves this earth…. Wife is by his side. You can not let parents dictate how you show up in your own household. Patents will not let their CHILDREN dictate what goes on in theirs. They are now parents. They have to raise their household the way they see fit.
Can I ask if you are married? Because if I tell you how its DIFFERENT once you take the leap and commit to your person. My husband comes first and he puts me first above his mother and his mother is a single parent but cutting the cord is a healthy part of life. We still do holidays and weekends with both sides of the family HOWEVER our nuclear family comes first.
How does miss Diana feel like her son's fiance don't like her! She was the one who asked her to move in with them... ppl don't ask you to move in with them if they don't like because that can just cause a huge burden on everyone
It can be used as a form of control. She can dictate what they can and can't do, how they can and can't interact with each other in front of her. Always look a gift horse in the mouth.
This is the best family group that I see on this channel.The bride is very valuable and beautiful person .I'm glad that the mother was able to open and understand priorities.I wish all of them happiness.
Laterrica is a bit much. She needs to allow her man to talk as well...not over talk him
Yes, she runs the house. U never speak to yr sig/other in front of others like that..He’s being pulled between 2 strong women
he needs to be a man and talk up! that's the whole problem now. he needs to speak up to his moms
He’s marrying a woman just like his mother; strong and opinionated. He needs to “man” up and speak up.
so his mom doesn’t come over cause she doesn’t feel comfortable yet threatening grandparents rights?! 😂 lady just miserable
😂😂😂 facts
Manipulative!
Her brother more sassier than me 😅😅😅
what's ur point in saying that? he's gay so duh!
Mommas boys r a nightmare to b in a relationship with and they will never see it
Not all. Thank God.
Tracy is Amazing!
@@apriljoy425 yes she is!!
In hell with one now. Hard lesson to learn
Omar needs to set boundaries with his mom when you joining as one your lady has to be first, it doesn’t mean you love your mom any less .
Nakita and Katina are beautiful and their names are one in the same if you rearrange the letters.
Its funny how Laterrica said i want to have a relationship with you and the mom understood she doesn't care for me
"I'm too old and kept." Your son isn't your husband. It's not your DIL's fault that you didn't plan ahead.
She said “I’m too old of a cat to be licked in the butt by a kitten”. Please rewind
@@chelee8804 Which doesn't negate what I said. I simply summed up what she was saying for 75% of the show.
@JessTalkingBooks Thank you! You don't have to be verbatim to get the point! Bottom line, his mother is a manipulator. She's used to having her way! I'm glad that he finally found the courage to stand up and make the decision to be with the family he created!😊
@@misslady5029 she's used to using that to make him feel guilty. He can't afford to pay but she demands his attention.. I'd bet money that she gets a lot of small payments to make up for the rent. The brothers transitioned payments recently. But that doesn't account for years before. And her not knowing her granddaughter is a her thing because she felt slighted a woman who'd just given birth didn't lay out the red carpet. I wish Tracy had really discussed how manipulative the mom really is. And recommended a local therapist straight away.
@@JessTalkingBooksTell her one more time you know some ppl can't comprehend... It's not his responsibility to take care of her grown behind. It's ok to help out every now and then but not all the time.
I enjoyed supporting my parents
My mom gave me life and I will ALWAYS make sure she feels safe, secure and provided for. Grateful to have had mates who feel the same.
When you get married your immediate family now becomes your extended family. His wife and daughter should be his priority. His mom should understand that and she should want him to be the kind of man that puts his wife and children first.
This sounds more like a miscommunication between the mother and fiancé. Glad they made a breakthrough.
Mom was like this prior to a baby. Home girl fcked up when she didnt see that. She shouldve let him go way before the baby came
Just a few minutes in...regardless of the tention....as adults, it is unnecessary to walk in rooms and walk past people like that. It was also unnecessary for the bride to be to make that comment as they passed through
True! The bride should also have put the glass down to at least be able to shake hands or even hug the family members! She was too offish! 😮😮😮
Diane BEING MANIPULATIVE TALKING ABOUT I'LL JUST GO LOL
Fiancé didn’t have to tell her Mother about him financially supporting his Mother. She also did not have to say in front of the group- That’s a lie to his Mom. I thought it was disrespectful.
It was disrespectful and I'm not sure the wife does like the mother. If someone close to my mate believes I dislike them, the tone of my voice would change and I'd want to know what gives them that belief.
I thought the same BUT, as the show was going I thought she has brought up that issue b4 and never got anywhere. Her man and his mama gaslit her. So she is there to have resolutions and they should know from the gate go she won't sugarcoat anything. So they better be honest
The future daughter in law is very rude. She kept cutting his mom off while she was talking and being very passive-aggressive. The way she walked her family through that kitchen set the tone.
I think personally his wife is tripping from the start.
Right... She came in with the "This my Mannnnnnn" attitude
you don't make any sense just like that old BAT and her nipple sucking son
Momma need to pay her own way ! He has a family
Omar if supporting your mom is important to you, don’t marry this chick. You should of picked a women who could accept this and disclosed this in advance to your lady. I see both sides. Momma is kinda needy and manipulative too.
Too late for that once you’ve had a child though
200% ABSOLUTELY AGREE!!!! IT IS LIFE_WE ARE BORN,GROW UP & MOVE ON TO THE NEXT PHASE OF LIFE:):) LIKE BEING MARRIED HAVING CHILDREN...MAKING LIFE'S OWN CHOICES....BLESSED BE🙏🙏🙏 LORI LEE SANTIAGO
Whoo wee.. Own is really spoiling us!!!!!!!!!
I don't think it's anything wrong with a son helping his elderly mother. I found it incredibly selfish that she has a problem with that
The fiance was willing to have the mother move in with them, the mother said no. If money is coming out of the household, which leads to us barely making it, the mother is selfish not to assist and in releasing that burden.
If it is hurting them financially I definitely understand
The problem is that the wife doesn't understand that more than one thing can be true at the same time. He can decide for his mother not to move in. And his mother can decide she doesn't want to move in, too.
Grooms mom: who we going to see? tha witch doctor? 😂
She's not going to change going forward! 😅😅😅😅
Laterrica is SUCH a great person, omg!
This is the comment I was looking for! Her character really stands out! She's a really great woman ❤️
@@jremus301 I mean, honestly! She went to her fiancé’s mother TWICE to try to make things right! I truly hope her daughter takes on these beautiful qualities of hers
@@thebarbieinvestor5428 OKAY?! 😂
I would’ve been like, “Girl, how’d you know??”
And grandparents do not have rights 😂😂 they look so silly when they threaten with that
In some states they do but regardless a grandchild who does not get to experience the joy of a grandmother's love loses something very valuable in their life that cannot be replaced. It's more valuable than gold. Grandparents spoil the grandkids rotten and all children deserve that special bond if possible.
This was a such a powerful episode and Tracy handled it beautifully!!!
love this!
Bride looks just like her mom, they’re beautiful
It’s too late to be on this show they already have a child together.
Actually I think it was critical for them to be on the show because they had a child. They needed to have a cohesive family relationship in order to raise a child in a loving environment. All of the other couples could walk away with no attachments , but this couple would always have to maintain contact because of the child.
But the daughter-in-law from hell yelling at dinner dinner
I love Omar’s mom!
I like her too.
Best episode ever!
Love this❤
I have never seen Tracy greet with such an embrace
I would not marry him; his mom so entitled. She always threatening him to go 🙄 she knows he already lost his dad. Money and power.
BEAUTIFUL
With everything that's going on the bride needs to chill out n stop shouting
She going to really be shouting after they get married and the mother moving the house I wouldn’t move in with that woman that mother better go ahead to Texas because
Agree doing way too much for me.
Too much is going on here. I don’t want to say Miss Diana is jealous, but I do see she feels she doesn’t have a strong hold on her son Omar life.
“For my own sanity”
“OH, you mean POWER”🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯
Thé best show ever . Was truthful. ♥️🦋🦋.
I don't see anything wrong with him paying rent for his mother
They don’t have grandparent rights anymore they took that law away years ago.
Really I did not know
Lmao why did they walk through like that with no introductions😂 that was something else
Also grandparents rights don’t exist lol. And bride is loud af like she has that voice that pops eardrums
Each state is different but grandparents rights do exist
Yes bride loud AF. I’m like Ms. Diane at 21:23. 😂
Some times you have to be loud when everyone is talking and NO one is trying to hear you.
His mom just plain out disrespectful
In some states grandparents have those rights.
What a beautiful and inspiring human story
I'M SCREAMING IT I LOVE TRACY I LOVE FAMILY OR FIANCE I'M ALWAYS TYPING IN TRYING TO SEE NEW SHOWS
The best episode
Loved the ending
Omg the ending made me cry 😢
I would NEVER get in the way of a mother and her son 😢 and I'm married myself
All the feels!!!! This was a top episode for sure. Tracey is liquid gold. !!❤
It's like the mom can't win. She says she gonna go. That's an issue. Either you want her around or you don't.
Welcome back Danielle you look happy God Bless🙏🏾❤️
How I love this Episode❤
The Bride is so WISE✨🌙♥️
Mum made huge progress and at her age, was lovely to watch.
The textbook rules are great and all that.. but trust me, Laterrica already knows, if she pushes his Mom out the picture.. Omar is GONE!
Random interjection. The home itself is beautiful but the decor leaves a lot of room for improvement.
I like the grooms aunt😂
Momma if you close your eyes tomorrow you are not going to be concerned about nothing…trust me…😂
😂🤣
Nice blessings 😊
It really seemed like mom and fiance really loved each other, they only began a tense relationship after the moving-in debacle. Perhaps God put in on her heart to not move in specifically to allow all this to unfold.
I guess different continents different cultures, half way through this and I'm heartbroken. Yes black tax kills its youth or next generation but humility and caring for your ageing eneration like they did you and made sacrifices for you and your siblings before the in laws. Are we saying the old must check in on rotten elderly homes not even 3stars elderly homes, that is just wrong, awful. Thank you is a nice gesture when said back. I won't do it to my child God able to take care of myself until my dying day or go to a good elderly home❤
❤❤❤❤
The groom is a liar. Period
And a punk
I hope they see these comments and they work on each other
It is an old episode but okay 🙁
Now thats the tea!are we going to see the witch doctor?🤔😳😅😂
She said I don’t care who baby in there I’m not coming 😭😭😭
They are basically already living like married couples
Tracy is so freaking good at what she does
Ms Tracy is glowing 😊
Mama, that's what you got from that? She's saying she wants a relationship with you.
Because she’s Messy😂
I think Omar and his best friend are living in both worlds. Omar is holding on to Latica...not sure of the bride's name. For the sake of being a father to Penelope because he needs to fulfill that father void.
Leaving and cleaving is a real thing. Parents have to learn to let go of theiradult children.
So true
He didn’t have to marry someone this controlling and disrespectful! Passing their family like that at the beginning spoke volumes! Sleeping whilst her daughter’s grandma is visiting! Good luck dude