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Her saying it was crazy for him to be cheating 24 hours before he proposed & not understanding that moving forward with the engagement is even CRAZIER! Although she may have found out after saying yes, she still could have stopped it at that point. Because he would have to earn that trust back if it were me!
If your partner cheats or has cheated and you decide to forgive them, please keep that between your relationship because once you tell your family, they won’t forgive as easily as you forgave.
It's not about being perfect it's about respect. She doesn't want to be alone and be single so her desperation is making her stay. This just isn't healthy.
I’m surprised no one told Chase about the fact that cigarettes aren’t healthy either for fertility or a fetus and that is her go-to for avoiding fully experiencing her anger.
she just doesn't want to be alone and wants kids. stop blaming your mom cause she has health issues and she thinks she can't do better and no one will take on her health issues. the mom can be more softer in her delivery but the mom is definitely telling the truth
My ex (in college) proposed to me after I found out he was communicating with his ex. She said it wasn’t physical but I was still heartbroken. I told him I needed time to process things. The next day he proposed (we already talked marriage when i graduated but he proposed a year early). Umm sir no and it’s over completely now because I can’t trust you. That’s some manipulative ish there!
And skewed priorities clearly 😭😭.. cause how can you take money and go have fun when we are struggling... what is she planning to build with him..? A life of scarcity..?😢
Apparently Chace is afraid about her glaucoma and the meager prospects of having a baby as the reason she chose to stay with him. Familiarity isn't a good enough reason to stay, INHO.
If you refuse to leave, please allow that man to cheat in peace. The daughter needs to comprehend that no one is obligated to agree or participate in your toxic cycle. This couple is completely delusional and are emotional leeches who feed off of each other's brokenness. It is important to understand that broken adults tend to create broken children, and if they do not break the cycle, it will spill into their future offspring.
I’m sorry, she said that the night before he proposed to her, he was out CHEATING on her…clearly he’s NOT ready for marriage, he’s selfish and doesn’t take his partner’s feelings into consideration and she’s so scared to be alone that she’s willing to settle for disrespect and trash…smh🤦🏽♀️
First of all, Eric ain’t even attractive enough to deal with all that mess. A wreck. Second of all, her self-esteem is SO low that she’s almost at a Stockholm Syndrome level, where she is literally defending her abuser. A lot of it comes from the fact that she’s scared because of losing her vision. You can tell she wants to accomplish everything now like getting married and having children while she can still see. So she’s willing to stick with some piece of man, because at least it’s familiar and will make things possible for her. Sadly, though, I don’t think he will ever have true love for her. She’s just as much a convenience for him as he is the means to an end for her. She doesn’t want to be alone like her mother, but she’d be better with a roommate than with this guy. And yes she has anger problems and needs to calm down, but it’s easy to understand why she’s so angry when her man is constantly cheating on her while she’s going blind. I mean…who wouldn’t be upset. She needs to move on!
Eric has no ambition, he's okay with making 3500 a month while going out and spending more money. He cheated the night before professing his forever commitment. I'm not judging but Chase needs to choose happiness.
3500/month net is not bad. It’s pretty average actually. I net 4000/month and that’s grossing 85k a year (I have retirement and insurance on top of taxes held out)
Yes, I make 3,700 a month it’s not enough especially is you have children. I have a 2 year old and currently pregnant with my second. My man makes the same amount now but there was a time he quit his job to find another and was not working. It was really hard. If only one person is working and you have even one child you cannot survive on that amount of money. Lucky, we had help from grandparents. Also, you need to make enough for your children’s retirement or saving and your retirement and savings. You also have to think about daycare that’s over a grand at some places. Toys, diapers, wipes, baby snacks, baby clothes, and formula. I spend over 600 now on groceries with two children and as they get older is gonna be over a grand. That money is not enough even if it’s just a two person home it’s pushing for me.😂
How rich is it that she blames her Mom. She keeps saying her Mom raised her in a negative environment and the only thing she mentions is her Mom’s reservation of her dating a man who is a serial cheater. Stop bringing people into your relationship issues if you don’t want their advice
The best friend gave the worst advice ever bec the problem isn't the Mothers attitude. This woman is making a mess of her life & she in return expects a hug from her Mom that's unrealistic. I get that its a hard pill to swallow bec they came from an place of arguing. But this situation is screaming I'm desperate for a man. He isn't the last man on earth & the last thing the two of them need is a baby. $45 after expenses and they really don't get along on top of health issues. It's not just on the man if she is smoking as well. Just let this relationship go. How many signs do you need before you realize this isn't working?
We need a 'Where are They Now?' episode! I'd be willing to bet he's still a cheater and overweight. Hopefully she didn't bring children into that dysfunction.
I agree. To add, him not being more mindful of their finances. Their entire situation is a pot waiting to boil over. I'm not a proponent of people trying to heal together..usually one comes out even more damaged on the other end.
This one made me cringe. She blamed her mom for her honesty. After 7 years, there is no soft way to tell you you’re making a mistake. Why no one told this woman she’s sabotaging herself by smoking? This one was just ugly to me. I hope she gets individual counseling because she needs it.
She should absolutely listen to her mom. If she does go thru with the marriage she should accept the fact that her mom will not accept it. She shouldn’t come to her mom about anything involving her relationship because her mom’s response will be the same.
5 minutes in and the way the bride decided to violate another woman because her man is a cheater is absolutely vile and disgusting. This alone tells me that she is a horrible, foul individual. If your "man" cheated then why didnt you expose his parts?
I thought the exact same thing. If your man cheats on you then leave him. Posting someone's nudes online without their knowledge/consent is unacceptable, vile, and a crime. I lost all respect for her as soon as she said that
While smoking is a terrible habit it doesn’t necessarily affect fertility. He has the low sperm count and would need to address that behavior if they need to reproduce.
They also didn't ask the right questions for Eric. They asked did he ever fly her out on his dime he said "No" which may be true, but to put on a uniform for 1& 1/2 years to go to a train station I'm more than certain he was putting her on the Amtrak and she'll met him there. Can't run game on me.
So you always run and tell your mom about him cheating but you want her to approve your decision to stay? Girl are you okay? Your mom is not a yes-man like your friends are, she’s keeping it all the way real. She doesn’t think your dumb, she loves you and wants better for you and can’t seem to understand why you wouldn’t want that for yourself.
Chase needs a wake up call. She should stop blaming her life on her mother and try listening to her. That man has no respect for her and everybody sees it but her
Says who? That's a lot in this economy...especially if they were affected by the pandemic, he had no job, she has health issues, etc etc. They should have something but Eric doesn't seem to have been taught financial literacy...
For some people cheating is not a deal breaker. She has pent up anger that she can't handle properly, it comes out extremely easy verbally and non verbally. The man clearly feels emasculated and less that her. Hence his cheating and his weak financial muscle. Both should be kinder to themselves and each other and heal or MOVE ON.
She mad at everybody else because she choosing to be with a man who she continually complains about. Stop telling everyone how wrong he doing you just to turn around and defend his behavior just cause you dont want to be alone.
So she’s willing to accept him wanting to cheat, cool.. the mom can’t talk to her . the daughter is slow. she knows she making a dumb decision, and is misdirecting her anger towards the mom cause she’s bringing inner feelings to the front.
He cheated because he is trying to get out. He doing what i would call “slow breakup” or he wants her to do it. Her way of handling the situation to the cheating is alarming. Both of them are a no and let it go. just like his moms said Let it Go or LET IT GO! The word Single is not a bad thing! All the signs and literal words were said and there. HE don’t want YOU sis! And he don’t know what else to do to get out of it. The audacity of calling his mother and talking, and blaming his actions on his mother. GTFOH!!!!! everything is the woman’s fault never his for her! I bet she would cry if she had a baby reveal and it turns out a girl. Some thing I don’t like talking about but I promise you with all seen these mannerisms within our community when it comes to BW. she’s favors, the phenotype of the angry black woman or mean girl or “boss babe”!
She doesnt say she wants him to lose weight to be healthy and be around so they can have a child that she can see. She's willing to put up with whatever he gives so she can get what she needs. I read insecurity for the anger and screaming and shouting. He doesnt seem remorseful at all. If he can say he would have stopped before they got married, but spebding the money etc was keeping that as an stumbling block. That would have continued if she didnt find the pictures.
Most people with tempers never change. She’s with him because she knows most men aren’t going to deal with her bad attitude which is no different than him cheating.
He cheated the day before the engagement 🤦🏾♀️ sis you could've easily said no. Talking about "I was getting it out of my system before marriage" 😂, I hope she moved on. But if they got married they both knew what they were getting themselves into.
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Dont keep telling people that your man cheats and then expect them to share the same forgiveness.
Yes… shut up and let him cheat in peace
Especially if you’re not going to leave
YES LET HIM CHEAT IN PEACE@@HerbalQueen
Right
I don’t recommend telling your family all your problems.
Chase: " When I'm broke I stay home. Eric goes out..what are you celebrating? The struggle? " 😂😂😂😂😂I Hollered!
That had me weak 😂😂😂😂 I agree with her
Right!!!! The way she said it, all calm and half innocent😂...Whatever are you celebrating my fair groom? The struggle u say?
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Okay?! 😂😂😂😂
He's celebrating with his other woman.
BEING ALONE IS OKAY
Getting treated like Eric treat her, I'd love being alone
Hey What ever you need to tell your self to get true them lonely nights girls
NEVER, allow a man to hate on you. Love yourself, ALWAYS‼️
You should rather be alone than NOT to have your peace 💜☮️ ✝️
Sing it louder. She would accept anything. She has been.
Yup! Her fear of going blind won’t let her start over dating.
Her saying it was crazy for him to be cheating 24 hours before he proposed & not understanding that moving forward with the engagement is even CRAZIER! Although she may have found out after saying yes, she still could have stopped it at that point. Because he would have to earn that trust back if it were me!
THAT PART!!!!!!! WHAT ENGAGEMENT!!!!!!! I GUESS SHE DOESN'T WANT TO GIVEUP ON THOSE 7 YEARS SHE HAS INVESTED!!!!!!
Exactly which is why he’s so nonchalant because she took him back. He KNOW he can’t do it again.
She wants that baby. She doesn’t care he cheats as long as he’s a decent dad and doesn’t leave her
I absolutely love her mom. She is so real!!!! Telling her the truth and nothing but!!!!
Finally, someone said it!
1000%. She's preaching self love.
All I could think is that girl got terrible friends. Look at the advice they’re giving. 🤦🏽♀️
That relationship is not made in heaven.
They absolutely DO NOT need any kids! Neither! Both parties need to focus on their selves!
Together or separate
@@tonirome3920 EXACTLY 😭
He not pregnant
Exactly! Why do you want a baby with a cheater.
Her mother is right. That man has no respect for her.
And she is disrespectful too. Disrespectful to him and his mother. She called his mother cursing her out, she would of been beat up.
If your partner cheats or has cheated and you decide to forgive them, please keep that between your relationship because once you tell your family, they won’t forgive as easily as you forgave.
Facts
But then again it not there relationship
It's not about being perfect it's about respect. She doesn't want to be alone and be single so her desperation is making her stay. This just isn't healthy.
Facts. Cuz I'd be gone.
EXACTLY!!!! Also he doesn't love her either
What intrigued me was that he committed to changing for her, but not for HIMSELF. I hope they also are in marital counseling. ✌🏽🙏🏽
Right....a woman never let a man know she wants him more than he wants her. Cheating is a serious issue!
Taking him to the train so he can cheat in a fake uniform… as soon as you realized you were helping him cheat you should have left!
Right! She is insecure and don’t love herself enough to move on. Hopefully she finds the strength and courage to move on.
The deception runneth deep. 😷
I’m surprised no one told Chase about the fact that cigarettes aren’t healthy either for fertility or a fetus and that is her go-to for avoiding fully experiencing her anger.
And so is you swallowing Peter
I said the same thing her smoking & drinking contributes to it too..
And it’s also worsening her blindness
@@LashondaMays I don’t get it.
It also doesn’t help with her finances
I learned to watch these couples as Entertainment Only. They're going to do exactly what they want to do...
Correct
🫶🏾 this
True.
she just doesn't want to be alone and wants kids. stop blaming your mom cause she has health issues and she thinks she can't do better and no one will take on her health issues. the mom can be more softer in her delivery but the mom is definitely telling the truth
❤❤❤
Lmao she’s here asking for their blessing then says “I’m going to do what I want” 😂😂😂 girl just let that man cheat in peace and be quiet
She wants to be told what she wants to hear and not what she needs to hear
And he knows that
@@iriemo721preachhhh
Exactly!!! 💯
She’s scared to move on. Let it go and you can’t disrespect his mom.
Chase chasing after a man that's chasing after other women 😅😂😂😂that was a guilty man saying sorry by proposing marriage 😴😴😴
💯‼️
I TOTALLY AGREE!
My ex (in college) proposed to me after I found out he was communicating with his ex. She said it wasn’t physical but I was still heartbroken. I told him I needed time to process things. The next day he proposed (we already talked marriage when i graduated but he proposed a year early). Umm sir no and it’s over completely now because I can’t trust you. That’s some manipulative ish there!
He should've gotten some marked down, deceased flowers like the other cheaters that are sorry do
@@angeleyes3386 exactly. Glad you saw the light 😂😂😂 cause sometimes we'll give in
Smoking and drinking does not help with fertility or glaucoma. Smh
6 minutes in and they definitely shouldn't be marrying 🙄
I got it at 4 minutes with his frivolous spending lol
You mean 2 minutes in when we got the info he cheated the night before they got engaged?!
@@lafleurbleue8936That part!
You lasted .longer than me he cheated on her the day before he proposed and he was with her for 7 years
I thought the same thing😂
He cheated before he proposed
1. You accepted
2. You told the world
Now you want your mom to accept it and be happy with
So instead of holding him accountable Chace would rather target his and her mom along with the mistress. 🤔
Bingo!!!
Yeah
yep
Right, they deserve each other! Both of them 🚮🗑️
I was so confused 🤔🤣 I swear I’m still confused
So y'all broke and trying to have kids... Make it make sense 😮
Girl what Michael ❤ Jackson say if u can't feed the baby than don't have the baby 🍼🍼😮
Broke, drunk and unfortunately going blind. He doesn't want kids with her. She's selfish for wanting kids period.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Pure wickedness...
A man with no money and a loose zipper. Chase away honey, hope its worth it..
And skewed priorities clearly 😭😭.. cause how can you take money and go have fun when we are struggling... what is she planning to build with him..? A life of scarcity..?😢
100!
That part!!
Apparently Chace is afraid about her glaucoma and the meager prospects of having a baby as the reason she chose to stay with him. Familiarity isn't a good enough reason to stay, INHO.
Not a loose zipper!! 😭😭🤣
Don't get how her mom is supposed to support her through the infidelity. Stop the chase my lady. You're worthy of having someone, who just wants you.
I hate when broken people try to be in relationships…. Work on yourself first!
For some reason they don't get that part.
Stop blaming parents for the poor choices you make as adults. I’m so tired of no accountability of these lonely, desperate women.
Literally!! It’s quite simple, he’s an immature man and unfaithful, and her mother is CORRECT
If you refuse to leave, please allow that man to cheat in peace. The daughter needs to comprehend that no one is obligated to agree or participate in your toxic cycle. This couple is completely delusional and are emotional leeches who feed off of each other's brokenness. It is important to understand that broken adults tend to create broken children, and if they do not break the cycle, it will spill into their future offspring.
Absolutely
I’m sorry, she said that the night before he proposed to her, he was out CHEATING on her…clearly he’s NOT ready for marriage, he’s selfish and doesn’t take his partner’s feelings into consideration and she’s so scared to be alone that she’s willing to settle for disrespect and trash…smh🤦🏽♀️
Right! I was like say what now? He did what? And you still said yes!!! 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️ be single then homeboy! Y'all do not need to get married!
First of all, Eric ain’t even attractive enough to deal with all that mess. A wreck. Second of all, her self-esteem is SO low that she’s almost at a Stockholm Syndrome level, where she is literally defending her abuser. A lot of it comes from the fact that she’s scared because of losing her vision. You can tell she wants to accomplish everything now like getting married and having children while she can still see. So she’s willing to stick with some piece of man, because at least it’s familiar and will make things possible for her. Sadly, though, I don’t think he will ever have true love for her. She’s just as much a convenience for him as he is the means to an end for her. She doesn’t want to be alone like her mother, but she’d be better with a roommate than with this guy. And yes she has anger problems and needs to calm down, but it’s easy to understand why she’s so angry when her man is constantly cheating on her while she’s going blind. I mean…who wouldn’t be upset. She needs to move on!
She had anger issues before him he just adding 😂
@@naomihunter9412 I didn’t say he started her anger issues. Just that he isn’t worth the mess and garbage he adds to her life.
I'll y,f,
😂😂
Glad somebody said it
Eric has no ambition, he's okay with making 3500 a month while going out and spending more money. He cheated the night before professing his forever commitment. I'm not judging but Chase needs to choose happiness.
3500/month net is not bad. It’s pretty average actually. I net 4000/month and that’s grossing 85k a year (I have retirement and insurance on top of taxes held out)
Yes, I make 3,700 a month it’s not enough especially is you have children. I have a 2 year old and currently pregnant with my second. My man makes the same amount now but there was a time he quit his job to find another and was not working. It was really hard. If only one person is working and you have even one child you cannot survive on that amount of money. Lucky, we had help from grandparents. Also, you need to make enough for your children’s retirement or saving and your retirement and savings. You also have to think about daycare that’s over a grand at some places. Toys, diapers, wipes, baby snacks, baby clothes, and formula. I spend over 600 now on groceries with two children and as they get older is gonna be over a grand. That money is not enough even if it’s just a two person home it’s pushing for me.😂
@@angeleyes3386it would be great if he was supporting just himself and not spending extra money on foolishness
She don’t want to be helped. She loves misery.
Low self esteem n self worth
I’m not accepting a cheater. Move tf on there’s better men out there.
Her whole outburst to her mother s reamed Desperate. What mom is willing to accept a cheating azz son in law???
...Wait, Eric cheated 🙊😯???? Girl, move on 🤦🏽🤦🏽🤦🏽🤦🏽
my thoughts exactly lmaooo
Atp🤣I would leave because sir the audacity of YOU😳🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂
The fact that she called his mother and said “This the MF you raised” shows she has absolutely no respect for her.
Zero
She has no respect for her self
He lied about having a job to go cheat. Girl, leave him.
Sis get therapy that explosive anger has no business around a child. It’s the continuation of a generational trauma
Yes!
Chase is just happy to have somebody who may stay with her when she goes blind.. but that’s going to make him cheat worse…baby you is settling
😂😂😂
When Chase stated she wanted to feel safe with her mother, I felt that.
I don't smoke, but I need a cigarette 😂. I hope they can make it.
😅😅😅😅
🤣
How rich is it that she blames her Mom. She keeps saying her Mom raised her in a negative environment and the only thing she mentions is her Mom’s reservation of her dating a man who is a serial cheater.
Stop bringing people into your relationship issues if you don’t want their advice
The best friend gave the worst advice ever bec the problem isn't the Mothers attitude. This woman is making a mess of her life & she in return expects a hug from her Mom that's unrealistic. I get that its a hard pill to swallow bec they came from an place of arguing. But this situation is screaming I'm desperate for a man. He isn't the last man on earth & the last thing the two of them need is a baby. $45 after expenses and they really don't get along on top of health issues. It's not just on the man if she is smoking as well. Just let this relationship go. How many signs do you need before you realize this isn't working?
the best friend is an enabler
She's as confused & damaged as Chase. That's why they're friends.
I’m obsessed with Chases mom! She the realest!!!
We need a 'Where are They Now?' episode! I'd be willing to bet he's still a cheater and overweight. Hopefully she didn't bring children into that dysfunction.
I agree. To add, him not being more mindful of their finances. Their entire situation is a pot waiting to boil over. I'm not a proponent of people trying to heal together..usually one comes out even more damaged on the other end.
@@ShamikaCrouch 💯🎯💯
"Still a cheater and overweight " 😂😂😂
😅😅😅😅
And she's probably still evil. They are both bad people.
Ain’t no way I would’ve said yes to his proposal.
Miss Daphne is a cool Lady. This young man have a humble mother.
I agree.
If you’ve been with someone over 1 year and get engaged after 7 years it’s clear it’s not healthy
This one made me cringe. She blamed her mom for her honesty. After 7 years, there is no soft way to tell you you’re making a mistake. Why no one told this woman she’s sabotaging herself by smoking? This one was just ugly to me. I hope she gets individual counseling because she needs it.
Why do people rush and force marriage when their relationship is already toxic or in financial debt
Girl, you mad you said yes. It's okay to say no. Most beautiful word in a woman's vocabulary.
She should absolutely listen to her mom. If she does go thru with the marriage she should accept the fact that her mom will not accept it. She shouldn’t come to her mom about anything involving her relationship because her mom’s response will be the same.
He cheated and then wanted her hand in marriage? I would assume when your asking to be committed in such a way you wouldn't WANT to cheat.
Run!!!! Leave him and find another. Why is her self-esteem so low?
Because she is not stupid. What man wants a woman that behaves like that. And she will be blind in te future. Not really a catch
WTF he cheated 24 hrs before he asked you to marry him and you said YES LOL 😆 past behavior is a window to future behavior
5 minutes in and the way the bride decided to violate another woman because her man is a cheater is absolutely vile and disgusting. This alone tells me that she is a horrible, foul individual. If your "man" cheated then why didnt you expose his parts?
I thought the exact same thing. If your man cheats on you then leave him. Posting someone's nudes online without their knowledge/consent is unacceptable, vile, and a crime. I lost all respect for her as soon as she said that
A baby ain’t gone fix yall problems
She looks like a woman that will beat the brakes off her kids
Absolutely true!
I was shocked to hear Chase called his mom saying this the “mf’er you raised” I would never tolerate someone talking to my mom that way.
This chicken is blaming him for not being able to get pregnant on his drinking but no one is criticizing her about the smoking.
While smoking is a terrible habit it doesn’t necessarily affect fertility. He has the low sperm count and would need to address that behavior if they need to reproduce.
The poor woman is just desperate.
Chase called her MiL? N curse her about her son? You must be tripping..if u not leaving him.LET HIM CHEAT IN PEACE!!!
They also didn't ask the right questions for Eric. They asked did he ever fly her out on his dime he said "No" which may be true, but to put on a uniform for 1& 1/2 years to go to a train station I'm more than certain he was putting her on the Amtrak and she'll met him there. Can't run game on me.
So you always run and tell your mom about him cheating but you want her to approve your decision to stay? Girl are you okay? Your mom is not a yes-man like your friends are, she’s keeping it all the way real. She doesn’t think your dumb, she loves you and wants better for you and can’t seem to understand why you wouldn’t want that for yourself.
Chase needs a wake up call. She should stop blaming her life on her mother and try listening to her. That man has no respect for her and everybody sees it but her
Her mom is so real. She said that don't even make sense to a d@@n fool
I gotta use that lol
7years and no savings. They each should have at least $10,000 saved in 7 yrs 😮😮😮😮
Maybe not that much bc the struggle is real but they should have at least a 1000$ shared like wtf
Says who? That's a lot in this economy...especially if they were affected by the pandemic, he had no job, she has health issues, etc etc. They should have something but Eric doesn't seem to have been taught financial literacy...
they could really have more than that. remember their alcohol bill was 300+/month@@krimezofkolor4683
This episode touched me more than I thought it would. I haven’t been in Chase’s position, but I respect her autonomy. Much love you two! 🥹🥲
Cheated the night before the engagement?!?!!
She’s crying because she knows her mom is right. Maybe her mom can be more soft but she still has to be honest with her.
For some people cheating is not a deal breaker. She has pent up anger that she can't handle properly, it comes out extremely easy verbally and non verbally. The man clearly feels emasculated and less that her. Hence his cheating and his weak financial muscle. Both should be kinder to themselves and each other and heal or MOVE ON.
"Weak financial muscle" Ima use that one
A woman that smoke cigarettes can’t do nothing for me but “KEEP GOING” ✌🏽
I like this show because I feel like movies make marriage look so beautiful but the reality is it’s another job
😂
A lot of work and sometimes no reward in this case. He dressed up like he was going to work and she dropped him off 😂
She mad at everybody else because she choosing to be with a man who she continually complains about. Stop telling everyone how wrong he doing you just to turn around and defend his behavior just cause you dont want to be alone.
So she’s willing to accept him wanting to cheat, cool.. the mom can’t talk to her . the daughter is slow. she knows she making a dumb decision, and is misdirecting her anger towards the mom cause she’s bringing inner feelings to the front.
He cheated the night before the engagement then continued to sleep with the woman for 3 to 6 months!! Oh baby no ma’am
Chase is absolutely clueless and she will get what she settlrs for.
They are trauma bonding. If he gets fit and gets himself together he will leave her altogether.
He lucky she’s even attracted to him he lucked up frfr
They needed Judge Toler!
He cheated because he is trying to get out. He doing what i would call “slow breakup” or he wants her to do it. Her way of handling the situation to the cheating is alarming. Both of them are a no and let it go. just like his moms said Let it Go or LET IT GO! The word Single is not a bad thing! All the signs and literal words were said and there. HE don’t want YOU sis! And he don’t know what else to do to get out of it.
The audacity of calling his mother and talking, and blaming his actions on his mother. GTFOH!!!!! everything is the woman’s fault never his for her! I bet she would cry if she had a baby reveal and it turns out a girl. Some thing I don’t like talking about but I promise you with all seen these mannerisms within our community when it
comes to BW. she’s favors, the phenotype of the angry black woman or mean girl or “boss babe”!
He could have just NOT proposed if he wanted out. 😂😂😂😂
I CAN'T STAND... ugh. I feel her mother every step of the way.
She doesnt say she wants him to lose weight to be healthy and be around so they can have a child that she can see. She's willing to put up with whatever he gives so she can get what she needs. I read insecurity for the anger and screaming and shouting.
He doesnt seem remorseful at all. If he can say he would have stopped before they got married, but spebding the money etc was keeping that as an stumbling block. That would have continued if she didnt find the pictures.
Her mom never called her stupid. She told her to respect herself. Chase feels stupid so she sees other's reaction as them saying she's stupid.
This is what happens when you stay with a cheater....
Nah Bruh She Looks Crazy And He Lying About Flying OldGirl Out Ninjas With Glasses Stay Tricking
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Lmfao where’s the lie?
@@s.g1340 None detected 💯🤣
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Most people with tempers never change. She’s with him because she knows most men aren’t going to deal with her bad attitude which is no different than him cheating.
Some people have to learn the hard way and some people never learn. I think Chase is the latter.
Dam. So she need her mom to say "baby just tolerate the bs"
The first two mins are always VERY VERY TELLING
SHE SOUNDS CRAZY RUNNING AROUND TALKING ABOUT I NEED A CIGARETTE!!!!I Need a cigarette What🤔😳🤷 and trying to get pregnant
Ok!! I was thinking that the whole time…. like huh???
& BLIND!
But blaming his weight
True.
He cheated the day before the engagement 🤦🏾♀️ sis you could've easily said no. Talking about "I was getting it out of my system before marriage" 😂, I hope she moved on. But if they got married they both knew what they were getting themselves into.
She smokes she is a factor why she can't have a baby too!!
Ding ding! The doctor didnt tell her that part? And it's bad for the glaucoma in her eyes too. She cray.
@@sweetdoc1472and the diabetes that caused the glaucoma
Not this man putting on another job jump suit! Legionnnnnnn is that you?
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you cannot say you forgivesomeone and keep bringing it up
Did this marriage work 😂 poor Daphne thinking of her future grandchildren 😮
Great review
... bless you holding back the tears 😢❤
They are not ready to be married. Their family is just telling them what they want to hear. Their family are just tired of hearing about it.
Kids are not going fix it
Chase's mother is not being holier than thou..she is talking about common sense.
Eric doesn’t want to have kids with you
Good for him because he is Definitely not ready to be a Father...with anyone
@@mrshappilymarried1and she not ready to be a mother. She will beat the ish out off her kids