Thank you for the video bro. I'm a 26 year old man, i had "aquentences" in school, but didn't talk to them much as i was always nervous. Since leaving school and starting work full tine, I've had no female co-workers as construction is 99% male dominated. I socalize often with my guy freinds, but it's mostly on Tuesdays and Sundays as there's hardly (or any) women present. Over the past few months, i've noticed that I soclaize less on weekends, because there's a higher chance of women being there. Regardless of when and where, I always find that i put way too much pressure on myself to be "Mr. Smooth" and always end up dissapointing myself when i don't acomplish this. I've now stopped visiting my local coffee shop, as i noticed that i spent way too long in the restoom, looking myself in the mirror and attempting to calm down. I don't intentionlly put women on a pedistal as i'm 100% aware that a pretty face DOES NOT mean that somebody can't be a bad person. Due to not spending enough time around women, I've build up the fear and blown it out of proportion. Logcially speaking, i inderstand that talkig to women in a purely platonic sense will help drasticlly as the majoirty of men (myself included) aren't able to do this, without feeling nervous or try-hard. I don't know where i'm going with this long ass speech, but overall, i want to thank you for the video.
well obviously, men who have this problem, for all time, the problem never goes away on its own, another way to put it, my mentality and i know i'm in good company, is that, if you're a guy, the World isn't coming to save you, but for women, the World will come to save them.
Thank you for the video bro.
I'm a 26 year old man, i had "aquentences" in school, but didn't talk to them much as i was always nervous. Since leaving school and starting work full tine, I've had no female co-workers as construction is 99% male dominated.
I socalize often with my guy freinds, but it's mostly on Tuesdays and Sundays as there's hardly (or any) women present. Over the past few months, i've noticed that I soclaize less on weekends, because there's a higher chance of women being there.
Regardless of when and where, I always find that i put way too much pressure on myself to be "Mr. Smooth" and always end up dissapointing myself when i don't acomplish this.
I've now stopped visiting my local coffee shop, as i noticed that i spent way too long in the restoom, looking myself in the mirror and attempting to calm down.
I don't intentionlly put women on a pedistal as i'm 100% aware that a pretty face DOES NOT mean that somebody can't be a bad person. Due to not spending enough time around women, I've build up the fear and blown it out of proportion.
Logcially speaking, i inderstand that talkig to women in a purely platonic sense will help drasticlly as the majoirty of men (myself included) aren't able to do this, without feeling nervous or try-hard.
I don't know where i'm going with this long ass speech, but overall, i want to thank you for the video.
well obviously, men who have this problem, for all time, the problem never goes away on its own, another way to put it, my mentality and i know i'm in good company, is that, if you're a guy, the World isn't coming to save you, but for women, the World will come to save them.