What’s The Most Shocking Lie Your Parents Told You?
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11:09 parents would rather have a dead kid over a lot of different kids: sexually active, neurodivergent, queer, or otherwise just not a carbon copy of them. It's sadly very common and you see it exhibited in the form of "eh my kids will just get measles and they'll be fine, don't want them getting autism!" And other horrible sentiments
"I won't get mad at you".....lies. There's a reason I never told my parents about that sort of activity. My parents weren't particularly strict, however, that might have set them off. They sort of assumed? But never got it confirmed until I was well into adulthood and under my own money and control.
A lot of these parents are so evil.
The money borrowing bit hits close to home,
Growing up, whenever I’d get money from relatives for Christmas or Birthday, every other time, my folks would immediately need to borrow it.
9/10 times, they’d promise it back by a particular date and never pay up when promised. It was always “one more week” or “two more weeks”. One time it took almost two months past the due date. My father even made up a nonsense story about giving it to someone at his work who needed it more than I did.
I feel sorry for the kid that dad was raped, and he lost the woman he loved all in the same day. The comic book invincible did the same thing, but all they did was mock the guy for what happened, and moved on, they didn’t even try to help him with his situation.
The cartoon reworks parts of the story, so I hope they give that part more gravity
@@Icalasari same, it felt like they were just mocking the subject in the comics, Mark was even protecting, lying for, and defending his rapist, with that kindness being respected with threats of her doing it again, and being mocked for it happening. Along with his dad just telling Mark that it happened a lot on Viltrume, and called it a day.
*_s h o c k i n g n_*
Some of these are the most shockingn things I've seen. Shockingn, very shockingn.
Ah yes, *s h o c k I n g n*
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"We don't have a favorite kid."
Yeah right. Why did I spend half a decade begging for a DS while my brother (7 years younger than me) got his when he was 3 or 4 (like, immediately after)? Why was I silenced when I was just trying to get his attention to ask him to stop screaming at the top of his lungs? (I'm autistic, so he was overstimulating me.) Why is he in a behavior correction facility for teens while I didn't want to burden my parents with extracurricular activities during my time in high school?
Kind of in the same boat, my Dad’s girlfriend’s have constantly pointed out that he’ll talk about my brother and younger sister non stop but barely brings me up. It’s funny when they meet me and I tell them half of the stuff I’ve done in my life and they’re always like “all you dad ever says about you is you like video games!” There’s a reason we barely talk now!
I got a phone at 12 because I was going to my grandma’s house after school. My brother got a phone when he was 9 because he wanted one.
My adopted mother Irene stole $20,000 from me and then lied to my father after I went off to college she told him that I had it that she gave it to me. She didn't she also told all of our relatives that I've never went to college that I went to drug rehab so my adopted mother was not only abusive she was batshit crazy
Timestamps:
0:04 story 1 (I won't get mad at you)
4:14 story 2 *!!!!TW SA/R***!!!!!* be careful. (Split, affairs and secret children)
7:59 story 3 (car lights)
9:41 story 4 *!!!!TW SELF TERMINATION!!!!* be careful. (Scaring children with VD)
13:03 story 5 (family mental illness)
13:34 story 6 (I'll keep your money safe in my wallet)
16:19 story 7 (don't sneek up on us, we could accidentally hurt you)
17:09 story 8 (we don't have money)
20:25 story 9 (long lost siblings)
20:52 story 10 (father in prison)
I had the same thing happen to me with my mom. “I won’t be mad and you’ll need to get on birth control so tell me.” She WAS mad. She flipped her lid and berated me, she told me my boyfriend was just using me and I was acting like a HOR and he would just leave me anyway. (She literally brought him home to meet me, I had never met him before). This from a gold digger who was always hustling men for money and often had three guys around who always thought that they were the only one in her life. She was a lifelong cheater and liar. She had usually screwed whatever friend of who she was “dating” just for extra sleaziness, unbeknownst to the boyfriend of course. So while she’s yelling and telling me that I’m a HOR my mind sort of imploded with rage. Like “how dare SHE call ME that with the way that she’s lived her life???” The AUDACITY, man. At least mine was innocent and I was actually in love with mine. I wasn’t cheating, lying, stealing, etc. Anger made me stupidly brave. I raised my chin and I said in a steely cold voice “well if I’m a HOR mom, maybe it’s because I’ve learned from the best.” This was a strong abusive woman. My bio dad once told me that she was the only woman who hit him and made him see stars. That she hit like a man. Needless to say I don’t remember much after that because she knocked me the frick out 😂. I remember waking up on the floor with a headache and being grounded for a very long time. And all chores became mine, and they were basically page long on a routine basis. Think evil step mom on Cinderella. And I couldn’t pull off being gracious about it like Cinderella 😂. Karma came back around though. She fell in love HARD with a massively abusive man who could more than handle her bullsh-t and she got hers and then some. Not that I condone violence between partners, but she picked him. It was on her what happened to her. And I ran away from home at that time and finished school living with kind friends with caring parents, bouncing from house to house so I didn’t wear out my welcome. My boyfriend worked hard to secure us housing while I finished school, and then we moved in together. We’ve been married ever since the year after high school ended. No cheating, no problems. Just love. And mom? The old saying is true-cheaters never prosper. She never did, and the money was easy come, easy go. She’s old now and her life is ten times worse than mine ever was. She’s a miserable bitter old woman. Her looks faded and so did her ability to hustle multiple men.
I have never been this early to an upload in my life.
I didn't get my first period Until I was seventeen and a half and between the ages of 12 and 17 there were many trips to the doctor because she thought I was pregnant
Any specific reason it took that long? I’ve never heard of anyone getting it that late but I’m sure it’s not impossible
Too be fair a visit to the gynecologist might have been warranted to make sure it wasn’t a sign of something worse like cancer, malformation, or serious hormonal imbalance. But immediately jumping to pregnancy and refusing to check for anything else is just dumb
That my mother loved me.
I knew a guy who was R. He had just broken up with GF and was lonely. He was looking for a hookup and went to meet up with someone. He got there with her and changed his mind. He felt guilty and still loves his ex. He wanted to leave and was told she was underage and threatened to accuse him of R if he left. The deed happened. He is upset all the time, guilty and feels so disgusting. Just telling me he couldn't stop crying. Men can be R'D and can traumatized. Don't brush it off just because of the gender. They need help too.
However the biggest lie that My adoptive mother Irene told me was that my brother died in 1995 I believe that until she passed away in December of 2019 then I simply looked on Facebook and realize that he's still alive and well in Atlanta. All I can think about is all that time we lost
God i have seen it with multiple people around me (friends of mine had it happen and me happen myself) the 'be honest and we won't get mad' is always the biggest bs parents tell. Ffs my harshest punishment (one that lasted six months because i didn't ask about it being over yet and got it renewed after 4 months) was because i was honest about 1 freaking sip of goldrush to try it(a whiskey with sheet gold flakes in it in the netherlands,don't know what it is called in other countries) aside from 2 f-ing beers. Ever since they pulled that on me i closed up to them entirely and didn't trust them anymore.
7:51 More people need to understand that someone deliberately taking advantage of someone else who is not in a state of mind to consent is definitely assault. That is literally what Masterson was just convicted of; that being the most recent and public example I can think of to prove the point.
Damn, it's almost as if parental love is an evolutionary trait to prevent mothers from smothering their infants to death, only to go away once the child gains conscious thought.
This video is simultaneously making me so sad and so thankful for my amazing parents.
My dad is one of the people that say “either you tell me the truth and you will be punished less or you lie I found out you get in trouble longer”
I am a gay man. I had not drank before and my female friend knew this. Went on a trip with her and she gave me a drink. It was so strong that i wound up pouring it out. She made 2 more drinks. I switched them and she wound up intoxicated. When she was drunk she admitted that her goal was to get me drunk and take advantage of me because she wanted her kid to look have my traits. I was shocked
Sure, jan. Sounds like a wild fantasy to me.
I was told the same lie by my “father” and all but 1 of my step moms: “I love you”
It was very evident that they “loved” me until I did something to remind them that I was a person who made mistakes and had difficulties with proper social interaction. (I’m on the spectrum)
Once I went back to being a “good girl” they’d tell me that lie but I stopped believing them when I was 14
9:00 - this is the reason why I will never complain when someone keeps the interior light of my car during night time. Yep, it impairs my visibility. That's a smol price for me to not repeat what my mom did to me.
Shockingn
The story about op's dad being r*ped for a military baby by the bartender reminds me of the time I found a group on FB of women sharing tips/strategies on trapping military men. It was so gross.
My parents never needed an excuse to yell at me, all it took for me to get yelled at was exist at the wrong moment. I rarely talked about anything with them but The minute they said something along the lines of “I won’t get mad at you” I just sort of stared, I don’t even remember the conversation we were having but I’m pretty sure they thought I did something to yell at me for!
My parents wouldnt ever forgive mistakes. My mom’s sister did. My brothers and I are low wage working class. My cousins have a doctorate and masters.
Seems like the “I promise I won’t get mad if you are honest” actually does work if you follow through.
My parents never lied to me about money, or any really serious matter.
When I asked them something they didn't know, they'd just tell mr the truth : that they didn't know.
Recently they had money issues and asked me to lend some. Now the roles are reversed and I went back to their house waiting for my next apartment to be free (my sis currently lives there but is about to move out to somewhere else, and it's really close to my new job). My parents would rather starve than letting my siblings and me starve. We love them and they love us, and I never realized how lucky I was to have such great parents. And I'm especially glad that they never became like their respective parents.
The worst lie I was ever told by my mom- the extreme abuse I was daily suffering from cuz of my dad being a covert narcissistic psychopath prone to explosive violence was nothing because Other kifs have it much worse, they have the same life but also have bombs going off around their refugee hut and besides my dad was the real victim because he couldn’t control his violent outbursts and that was so sad. For Him.
So Dad=victim
And I was:
Too dramatic, too selfish, too loud, too annoying, too unladylike, too whiney, too rude, too sloppy, too fat, too LAZY…
Age 60 I finally realized all of the above were lies and I never had been any of those things. It was just her way to get me to shut up and get back to my job as child slave for the whole house and household. 😅
My mother always said "tell me what you did so i can determine what to do next" i told her and not gonna lie she never got mad just laughed or grounded me for what i did
12:43
My first exam I did bleed, and it hurt really bad. My next one was the same. I need to get one but with how much it hurts, I’m putting it off
"I won't be mad..."
Yeah you were when you called me a whore for sleeping with two guys when I was undiagnosed with bipolar disorder. You know, the disorder that causes mania which makes you do shit like that.
I think the "not mad if you tell the truth" only goes so far. While getting mad should never be the reaction to a kid telling a parent what they did the kid telling what they did should not automatically set kids free from consequences. There is a difference between getting mad and yelling and telling them in no uncertain words that they did something bad and admitting to be very unhappy about that action.
Something like admitting intercourse should not get a kid in trouble. It might inspire the parents to teach them how to be responsible while doing it.
Something like weed or alcohol should not get them mad but get them to also teach and encourage responsibility. Aka tell kids to not accept drugs from strangers, to do it when with trustworthy friends and in a safe environment only.
On the other hand a kid admitting an actual crime like stealing something more than just a chocolate bar, admitting destroying something should not guarantee the kid to get away with it. Wile yelling is uncalled for it should be obvious that parents should tell the kid to replace the stolen item, admit it to the person they stole from, replace what they broke or fix it especially if it was vandalism. Parents should help their kids but helping them in getting away with crimes and to not take responsibility for mishaps is bad.
The way I see it you’re allowed to be angry, but you aren’t allowed to let anger run the show. Keep punishment reasonable and consistent. If you throw a tantrum then you’re just teaching your kids that they’re allowed to throw a tantrum when they’re upset so long as they have power over the person they’re upset with
Being mad at your kids for having s*x is crazy. That shot is so awful 😢 it’s given women such terrible side effects & shouldn’t be on the market. I want my kids to trust me , if they can’t trust their parents what kind of life security will they feel ??
It's understandable when you remember teenage pregnancy is a problem. The fear of having a(n unwanted) child at so young an age is real in my part of the world...
"That shot" is freakin' awesome, lady.
@@theotherohlourdespadua1131true, but abstinence only education never works. If your kid wants to have sex there’s probably gonna have sex. So is it better to let them fumble blind and get hurt or give them the knowledge and resources to minimize any potential risk?
You are lucky. My mom is exactly like that
My mom told my brothers and sisters and myself that if we so much as touched the gear shift while the car was off, it would simply start rolling downhill. So of course we tested the limits by touching it with other objects, then touching with our fingertips. I must say I wonder what it would have been like if she had actually explain things accurately. Once we learned that the scaremongering was false, we didn't know what else could or could not be done in the car. Would we have tested our limits if we actually knew how it worked? Would we have respected that power and just left it alone?
Wow, these college ones I hit close to home. My parents never officially lied to me about it but they use all my cards from the checks that have been giving me for birthdays and Christmases since the time I was born until my ninth birthday by my paternal grandmother, who died just after my ninth birthday, if you died just a couple months after she gave me my last one as well some from all the family members they took all the ones in my name And cashed them in to pay for my older brothers college because apparently, since I’m autistic, I could never have that much in my name once I turned 18 so I’m in college never been a thing so I had to go to community college my brother got to go to a pretty good university. Stay on campus all four years at the college as well as a whole year abroad between his third and fourth year at the actual school so over five years and all I got to do is local community college, paying out of my own pocket, which I didn’t have of all mine to begin with D even know I could’ve applied for student loans and help and stuff because of my low income and disability, even know that was an awesome paying all my own one class at a time because that’s really all I could afford even having to take semesters off if I had access to my college fund that hadn’t started for me maybe I could’ve gone and taking more classes a time and not have to be even more of a broad college person than most college people. I know the book costume thing is a big truck, but I was more broke than most And that’s with having a part-time job and getting Social Security income and my states disability income, and after a while, even Social Security disability income as well he wants all that I could barely afford to college and my parents won’t help me and I could’ve had the money to pay for it if my parents haven’t cashed it all all my stuff in US before to pay for my brothers college and he has his own And then some because he had three years on me. He graduated high school and OA as well. I was supposed to graduate in 2011 but you know got her back my senior year so 2012 and technically I didn’t start college until fall 2014 and my dad had my brother had a wife long since finish college and had it don’t drive. It was living in the next stay over, and yet I don’t wanna start my college life and I could’ve used that money that was technically rightfully mine. Does it have that my mom is overprotective to lie to me about all of our stuff not gonna go into detail because man it’s just too many things, but so yeah, I feel for the people whose families messed with them in the money with college and stuff, if I see the one where the younger seven got everything paid for them or at least 90% and they didn’t because my brother got 80% paid for his between my parents and my college fund and I had to pay out of pocket just to take one community college class at a time one person that’s it was several semesters off because of my parents weren’t help me at eight they use my college fund to pay for my brother and since I was low income still I am because of my disabilities. Yeah, I was a Nest over to try feel for the people who passed out to them about financial help and stuff for college I feel for them.
The biggest lie my parents ever told me was that I was exceptionally intelligent. Nope.
"Your dad does love you, he's just busy."
Busy drinking.
Oh and on the other side, you're not allowed to show emotions to my mom. It's hard to explain, but if you look anything but happy at all times you get almost an hour of interrogation about how you're feeling and I think she thinks it's helpful. But all it has done is make me wear a mask around her and be really good at lying. I have an excellent poker face. Then she gets angry when I'm not excited about anything.
Because if you're anything but calm demure happy, you were wrong. Excitement always got a calm down or other admonishing about not acting like a young lady.
Daddy drinks, mommy makes everyone wear a happy mask. But don't get too happy and if you're upset, get ready for 20 questions that have nothing to do with anything. And then her telling you how you're supposed to be feeling and why. Typically things like, you don't have bills, you only have to worry about homework. Your life is so simple.
It has molded a very sarcastic snarky sometimes colorful hair'd witch who's fake happy mask has aged into perpetually angry and she gets quite the dressing down if she brings it up anymore.
But those first 22 years. Yeesh. Oh and "she just doesn't know where she went wrong." 😂
Istg it’s like a meme on this channel at this point that there’s always an issue in the video title
How am I this early?
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Wow thats alot of lies
how? I've seen things like this firsthand
My mom sold two cars and cashed out my mutual funds without saying a word
Lights on in a car is illegal. Anything that distracts the driver (including talking) can be considared illegal.
Iv been walked in on when iw as with my gf of yk what I mean💀 was told I need to go to church and need God the most at that moment
My mom told me she would not be upset when I chose to finally do the deed with my boyfriend of 2 years, she was not upset and glad I told her, but after that for a while since I was "now sexually active" I was not allowed to have any friends over boys or girls, (I am a bi male) It was hurtful my mom seen me as someone who would cheat and sleep around or with my friends just because I did it once then. She is better with it now and trusts me, buys me protection when I visit my boyfriend.
Too be fair she might have just wanted you to not make a mess in the house
@@PikachuLittle If you think it causes that much of a mess you watch too much hentai
Besides that, my point was she thought I'd cheat on my boyfriend with my friends, not that it was in my house, she is fine with me doing it with my boyfriend in the house, you skipped right over that.
@@PikachuLittle
very shockingn
@mrfacts can you put a little bit longer pause between the stories that I need to skip please. Because that one was too quick like gimme 10 seconds.
'Shockingn'
What the fuck is up with mother's being to evil towards their daughters after having sex? Is this a common thing? Will I have to be the supportive parent that doesn't lie about not getting mad?
You let me go I won't tell the police
Kinda miss the pre-facecam only because the editing was snappy
Ok, but the mom talking about the gyno was only half lying. A lot of women bleed and cramp after, myself included. Don't tell a kid they scrape your insides tho. That's just wrong and absolutely traumatizing. They stick a pokey brush not unlike a bottle brush into your cervix. Some women don't bleed or cramp after. Some women only cramp. Some women do both. But don't tell your kid part of the truth in a way that traumatizes them like that. Dumb move.
I was sort of wondering if the mom was talking specifically about a cervical scraping procedure instead of a regular pap. That does involve a scalpel and no anesthesia depending on how sadistic the Doctor is.
HOLA
Google says that HOLa means hour and not hello
Crap story # 1 my mom would've just probably be like well just be safe and atleast use protection and if you end up a mom just know we're here for you and just finish school please and let us atleast know the fella incase of DV and know you can tell me anything and me and your dad are only a phone call away mom was like i can't tell you to not do something if I did it but I will tell you play it safe and know you can always ask us for help if you get in too deep..i love my parents and thank God for them & they are amazing and I'm in my 40s and glad my parents allowed me to make my own screw ups..
Misspelt
You misspelled shocking. Just bringing that up.
Nith
Idk who the mom in the first story is evil bro! Wtf!
but why would you tell your mom you were laid tho
What is wrong with people, I have a daughter. Guess what I know she’s going to have sex, because teens do that. I don’t want to know or hear about it. But I had “the talk” and told her it was fine if she was ready and I made sure she was prepared with “products” just in case. I did tell her if something bad happens to tell me and I won’t be mad (I really won’t) I just want to help her.
🪳Shoooockiing!
"I'll be honest that I'm going to get mad at my kid! Anyone who disagrees doesn't want their kids to have consequences!" no, genius, we understand the difference between appropriate consequences, and expressing visceral anger over mistakes.
One is calm and rational and non-harmful and always expressed with love and teaching.
One is you being a cruel person and justifying it with THEY NEED CONSEQUENCES!
Consequences can come in many forms. Gentle parenting, works.
"Gentle parenting" just means letting the kid do whatever without consequence. Please, FFS, keep your kids in line!
That's not what gentle parenting means at all. Gentle parenting means understanding child psychology and that lessons can be taught without inducing trauma. If you need to scream to "keep your children in line", then you're not keeping them in line, and you're not a good parent. You're just an ass who had a baby. @@wmdkitty
@@wmdkittyno Gentle Parenting means not acting like a child yourself and actually resolving the issues without throwing a tantrum. This doesn’t mean freedom from consequences, it means keeping the consequences rational, consistent, and proportionate. Kids make mistakes, that’s how they learn. If you press the nuclear option on every failure and infraction you’re not teaching your kid to be good, you’re teaching them how to hide things from you.
Take the caught having sex thing for example. Instead of locking your kid up in a tower like a Disney princess and forbidding them from any social interaction, you discuss sexual health and safety. Sure it’s awkward and uncomfortable, but if you’ve fostered a relationship of trust with your kid then the conversation should stick.
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S shaming
That’s the biggest problem you point out what about the shot that gave a 6 month period
That was a part of the s shaming dude
Everything that happened was the S shaming, the mom basically took away her bodily autonomy just because she had sex once
I knew a guy who was R. He had just broken up with GF and was lonely. He was looking for a hookup and went to meet up with someone. He got there with her and changed his mind. He felt guilty and still loves his ex. He wanted to leave and was told she was underage and threatened to accuse him of R if he left. The deed happened. He is upset all the time, guilty and feels so disgusting. Just telling me he couldn't stop crying. Men can be R'D and can traumatized. Don't brush it off just because of the gender. They need help too.
Shockingn
Iv been walked in on when iw as with my gf of yk what I mean💀 was told I need to go to church and need God the most at that moment