Couple Can't Agree On Wedding Plans - Rich Bride Poor Bride 507 - More Is More
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 22 ก.ย. 2024
- Bride Patrycja and groom Tom met, they quickly began their journey down the matrimonial aisle. Although the couple has no problem foreseeing a beautiful life together, they do lack vision for their big day...
My favorite part of this show is the snippets of the older married couples stories
Me too because it is the only part of this show that is real😂
Me too
Me too
Me too. We were married 40 years ago. My daddy said you can have a wedding or $1000. We chose the wedding and kept it at $1000.
Yes, me too. Some of them are so cute!
Never go bridal shopping with another bride and be careful on your entourage. Her 'friend' that is pushing for the princess gown is choosing it because that is what she would wear. By the way the other girl who also wanted the dress was very generous to give up the dress for her. I hope she finds something prettier because she is far more deserving and is far more deserving of better friends. She should kick these two to the curb.
Don't ever go wedding shopping with another bride-to-be.
If you shop with another bride then you'll be influenced by their choices. It's a normal psychological phenomenon to not really want something until someone else has it. If the other bride picks a dress and it looks good on them, you might want it then too, even though there could be a dress that is good for just you. Her friend then was the same girl who had a whine about not getting the bridesmaid dress she wants when it's not ehr wedding
My thought exactly
Her friends were fake af I wouldn’t try on a dress my friend was clearly considering before they pressured her to change her mind
I really hope that part was fake and set up by production for extra drama because that was awful of the featured bride to do to her friend that is also a bride and loved that dress and had it on first. And the friend that wasn't a bride sucks in every way too, so rude. Also wasn't that the first dress the featured bride saw on the rack and passed on because of the color and told her friend to try on...then was only interested in it when her friend loved it. Disgusting behavior in my opinion. The only way I would ever try on/get a wedding dress that my friend that is also getting married had on first would be if she didn't like it on herself at all and encouraged me to try it out for myself
The groom keeps saying "I'll just work some more overtime" whenever he proposes some ridiculously expensive accessory. Sounds like he's already living paycheck-to-paycheck; what happens when the economy tanks and he gets laid off? Will he cherish the memories of the seven-layer cake and $150 centerpieces while he and his bride are living in their car?
He works in a jail. Talk job security! But he's an obnoxious idiot.
Pretty sure when you're newly married, the last thing you or your spouse wants is for you to be doing overtime
Sure, a wedding is a day, marriage is for life, debts are dangerous.
He is better than many brides on this show.
He is saying he is going to WORK for paying It.
Most brides on this show ask others (husband, mother, father etc) to pay for their expensive taste.
Also, I want to say that he wanting the expensive ring isn't different from what most brides on this show (and in real life) do . Most brides on this show think her dress is the most important thing on a wedding and they pay for dresses that are over their budget ( +800, +1000, +2000...).
On the other hand, the ring can be used many times, the wedding dress can only be used 1 time.
There's literally no way this marriage lasted.
This is a joke. He has to see how ridiculous he is. So immature.
Groomzilla has entered the room. Perhaps he should just marry himself, he’ll be happy. What a nightmare.
You know it's bad when the voice over person actually says the bride should marry someone else
$55,000.00 would be a wonderful down payment on a house.
What folks don’t realize is that they made back MORE from the money envelopes between family & friends than they spent on the ENTIRE WEDDING! That’s how these things go!!!
Polish give on average $300 versus Americans $20 as a gift . I'm sure a half of it will be covered.
@@WS-zs1ss That means they got money from his side, at least.
They'll never own a home, but if they should somehow get one, they won't be able to keep it - FORECLOSURE!!
Where did you get the idea that Americans give $20 as a wedding gift! Are you crazy? Back in 1965 I MIGHT have given $20 as a wedding gift...probably even more though.
This👏 is 👏 why 👏 you 👏 don't 👏 go 👏 wedding 👏 dress 👏 shopping 👏 with 👏 another 👏 bride 👏
(and her friend who would take her side every time)
💯 And I would use the term ‘friend’ loosely with the other two ! I felt so sorry for the other bride 😕….with friends like that who needs enemies!
Exactly! She wouldn't have gotten my dress!
Yeah she was sort of bullied out of the dress
Honestly, the other woman does have a year still to find the right dress. It’s not really a make or break situation like it is for the bride in the episode. I know dresses take about 8 months to come in, but she could shop around some more. AND the sales woman was on her side asking her repeatedly is this the dress for her and she didn’t respond. But I definitely agree, never go shopping with another bride.
@@nikitabudgets4201 Her planner Heidi told her not to go dress shopping with another bride she didn't listen all she did was go behind her planner's back going dress shopping with her and their friend but when is time she has a year to get wedding dress when she gets married cross them out of the guest list and not invited them either didn't listen to her planner either.
Tom is a “keep up with the Jone’s” kind of guy. He’s too worried about what other people think and how they perceive him. Not a good combo when your bride is more on the fugal side. I don’t even think she’s frugal, she’s reasonable. I have a male friend amongst my circle of girlfriends, we are forever teasing him about his pretentious attitude. He only drinks a special type of expensive coffee and turns his nose up at anything else. If it’s more expensive then it must be good. We tricked him by switching his coffee and put Folders in his coffee can. He swears that he would know the difference.. but he didn’t! LoL We didn’t have the heart to tell him either, we just held our breaths as he sipped a good ole cup of Folders and bragged about how delicious it was. LoL
Lol 😂
I had watched a show set in the UK where they swap some of the items family's use to see if they can cut costs. At the end of the week, the family has to say if it was the same or swapped.
she doesn't seem to be very good at standing up to him though. Saying things like, well if you want a 2 grand cake we'll have to get it. Or, if you propose to be again you can have a 4k ring. Not exactly strong stuff when thousands of dollars on frivolities is at stake. He knows she'll cave so he just pushes the buttons
Folgers
Or maybe he didn't have the heart to tell you the coffee you got him was crap
He's an excellent sales person. He aims so high their compromise is still way over budget. He does it every time.
He's got serious problems, thinking that the most expensive thing is always the best.
The centre pieces aren't really fall themed either imo.
I feel really sorry for her.
They could have saved so much money by just buying a massive mirror for him.
That jewelery store clerk pushed her into buying that ring. The groom is obnoxious. Chicken Cordon Bleu is not Polish.
How do they expect this marriage to work when they are so opposite on their financial views?
Seriously! That would be red flag #1 for me!
Compromise…
That’s a good question.
Not the size of the wedding that counts it's the quality of the marriage that follows.
You could not have said it better!!
Agree 💯
She needs to drop that big mouthed bridesmaid who thinks it is all about her!!! It is the brides choice!!
How could anyone want to marry an unreasonable person?
There's never understanding, compromise or peace😪
I would keep our money separate from his.
I don’t like him at all … and she “acts” like she doesn’t want or like expensive things but she just says “ok get it if you want it”
I would never become a legal couple with this man.He spends too much.
I would be rethinking marrying him. He just wants to spend spend spend.
He’s not balancing his wants. Has no give.
He seems to feel entitled.
And she keeps giving in. All that money adds up.
It seems like the start of a lifetime of arguing over money. Starting off in debt.
No. She should bail.
I vouch for that, too.
someone is very obsessed with size. Hum. I wonder what he's trying to compensate for.
Take a look at the 1st cash box he picked. Thank me later..lol.
This man is ridicules! As bad as the worse prima donna I've seen on these videos.
LOL
ez guess lol
Our wedding cost approx £250. We had a cheap caravan honeymoon and fishnchips and a bottle of champagne in a beach pub, after a reg office in Cornwall. Two witnesses as guests only. It was lovely. My dress was a vintage ebay find for £25. It's not all about the money and a big wow effect, it's about commiting to someone for the rest of your lives.
Good for you. We spent even less - $75.00. Of course that was 44 years ago!
Groom seems to be overcompensating for his own lack of “wow-factor”.
Got it in one! He is definitely “the grass is always greener”
That Groom wil bring them into the poorhouse, Spend, Spend, Spend
This woman faces a lifetime of debt.
He is so whiny. Sounds like he's about to cry. Ugh
He wants a Polish dish and the caterer offers Chicken Cordon Bleu, ahh does she not realise chicken cordon bleu is French. I'd run and find another caterer
Right!!!!
Right- and pierogies & stuffed cabbage are not expensive.
It honestly really bothers me when people make such a big deal out of an ivory dress "not being white". It is so white. Ivory is just a shade of off-white, and I think it still totally counts.
He would give me a nervous breakdown. He stopped maturing ages ago. 🙄 I would run!!!
Can we please say something about the ridiculous jeweler?!!
Why? Her job is to make sales. She definitely made a sale.
She teamed up with the guy against her and backed her in the corner to spend an extra 9000 dollars! Jewelers should be respectful of your budget
@@gabbyoliver21 nope. She did exactly right-She supported what the man was willing to spend. It’s not her job to make less money for the boss. The salesperson is likely working on commission-This is her grocery money-this week she eats steak! And her boss has steak n lobster. If they both agreed on a budget then it would be her job to even test that just a bit. I am a master jeweler who also has done many high end sales and it is always good to close a sale which makes everyone happy. The bride capitulated after making him play the romantic again...so all happy.
This is working my nerves just listening to him. All he cares about is impressing people. No way would I have let him talk me into a $2000 cake.
11:00 I feel so bad for her friend! She really loved the dress and was so uncomfortable. I hope she found her perfect dress.
14:02 Tom uses the technique - door in the face. He makes extra large requests which he knows will be denied like, a ten tier cake to someone who wants a four tier and then makes a smaller demand (seven tier) which seems like a compromise but is not.
17:41 Same for the centerpieces, where even 55$ was over budget initially but 65$ seems acceptable later.
14:36 and 23:36
The girl too wants the bigger cake and the expensive ring but just acted reluctant.
That is why 2 brides,especially friends should not shop together for a wedding dress...
He also says "It's easy for you guys to cut x, y and z but not for me." Like he's in therapy and can't give up drinking or he's a little toddler being asked to give up his teddybear
I'm afraid Tom's technique is getting a way for them to compromise on things, and the longer Patrycja is with him, the cheaper she would want everything to be and the gap between them will get bigger and bigger...
Tom is like a kid that gets his way all his life I would not want to marry someone like that
This groom is grade A manipulative. Shoots for the stars so the bride "compromises" even higher than her regular standards
why? he pays for the wedding and he got what he wanted?...
I can't think of one thing I like about the groom. I don't even like the way he combs his hair into that stupid mohawk.
The groom is ridiculous....I hope he was acting.
This is one of the few episodes where the groom is the sole problem!
To me, the money is already “theirs”. I don’t understand how it’s “his” money. He’s not manly, he’s a little boy making his Xmas list.
Why did they even get married
The dark haied friend said she really liked the dress and she found it first. Let her keep it
Why don’t they use fake layers of cake to make a six tier cake? The bottom two layers and the very top layer would be the actual cake, the others decorated to match the design, but hollow inside…(?)
This groom needs to see shrink about his obsession with size. Honestly dude.
They'll be bankrupt and divorced in less than 5 years. That guy is seriously disturbed.
We walked down the aisle together - the same way this couple did. My hubby is 1/2 Finnish, and it’s a tradition for them to not have the father give the bride away. My father died when I was 15, so I didn’t have a father to give me away. I think walking together is a great compromise - especially if your father isn’t around anymore for whatever reason.
My dad walked me down the aisle at my wedding and gave me away. It was one of the happiest days of my life.
Nice tradition
I would never never never marry a man like this yuck
Really. He whines and pouts until he gets his way. Ugh.
He's adorable!
Yeah, a lot of red flags here. I personally think she was crazy for going through with it.
At least he tried to get her things too
He's a man child
I bet they went through bankruptcy at some point during their marriage because of him.
She really needs to pick her battles…and start with his hair cut. 😂
I bet he buys the MOST EXPENSIVE HAIR GEL!
The groom is driving me nuts!! I am not sure she knows what she is getting herself into. He has no impulse control whatsoever!🙉
I bet the groom has a lousy credit score & no savings. They’ll argue over money until she gets tired of his immaturity & she’ll pay for her divorce. His desperate need to show off & always be the center of attention is pathetic. Hope the bride gets therapy so she doesn’t get involved with another egomaniac.
They will be divorced within 5 years. He is selfish, headstrong, a spendthrift, and never even considers her opinions.
She needs to run away. And get a good lawyer.
The girl is very nice but she should run. He is not right in the head.
This Man is awful. They will never be able to save for a house. Can you just imagine a future with such a wastrel?
I feel bad for the brunette girl who clearly wanted that dress ... and that big girl was as much of a jerk as the blonde bride.
In this case the groom is worse than the bride 🤣 I usually think poor groom in this case I am thinking poor bride🤣
This is painful to view The groom is seriously immature and stupid about finances. He sounds like the forever-five-years-old brat whining for more...and more..and more.
Who brought him up as parents? Why does the bride just scold him like a naughty boy, and then give in? Strange relationship. He has no respect for the bride, the planner, the girlfriends-maybe he hates women, or is gay? A prison guard sure would not wear that blingy girly ring around the prison, either. Talk about a target to be jumped, too.
He spends a lot but he's also cool because he wants her to have the best time ever. However, I'm not gonna have a wedding cos it's way too much headache and cost. I'd rather eat out with my darling a million times :-)
OMG I was having anxieties just hearing him talk. Lol 😂😆
Oh my gosh, yes!!! I almost couldn't finish the episode, he gave me so much anxiety.
He’s sounds staving
I cant stand him!
Only go wedding dress shopping with a friend if you're 100% sure that you're looking for totally different things, and you have different taste. If not you might end up fighting over a dress like this, and it could turn out much messier than this was.
dude makes me think, he wants everything big. is he compensating for something? idkkk
I'm sorry but the Groom is a very sad person. So unsure of himself he confuses the amount of money to be spent equals good taste.
This couple is by far my favorite! It looks like they had a blast.
The cake has nothing to do with the theme or center pieces, the wedding planner should help with that as well
This has to b scripted. This groom cannot b real. What’s with the rips in his jeans? What year is this?
Groomzilla extraordinaire
57 years married....less than $500 for the wedding.
Congratulations!!! May you have many more years ! X
$500 went a lot further 6
$500 went a lot farther 57 years ago.
@@maryrotman4034 True-but I bought my dress off the rack,it was more formal than wedding,no charge for the venue,tiny cake,borrowed vail,maid of honor's MIL made her dress. Just shows that having a big fancy wedding does not guarantee a long successful marriage. Money can be spent for things that count in the years to come.
I think the dress looked better on her friend. To me Patrycja needed something more glittery, fancy, like her friend was saying.
But she didn't "want" a glittery, fancy, puffy dress..... Imagine the bride buying a dress that "she" wants ....
@@southerngypsy1894 She's had enough of glittery already with the taste level her groom has and probably more to come in coming years...
I can’t finish the video
too irritating .
Me too...🤔
This show proves more money doesn't mean prettier or nicer...yikes I feel so bad for the partner trying to reign it in.
I thought it was messed up her guilting the other bride when her wedding planner told her that both of them should not try dresses on at the same time.
At almost double the budget….. I hope he has a high paying profession to do these double shifts?! Happy marriage to them.
Tom is a real hedonist. His lovely wife needs to toughen up & learn to say no!
They want a Champaign wedding but only have a beer income. You can't fund your wedding on overtime. Well at least they won't starve: they will be eating cake forever. If this guy wants this extravagant wedding they should delay the wedding until they have b=the budget saved to support it. Everyday college students acquire staggering amounts of debt for education but at least it has a purpose that will hopefully give them an income to pay it off and live well. But to acquire this massive debt for one day is beyond my comprehension.
Yes champaign Illinois, not champagne lmao
Ross Gheller level non-stop whininess.
I think she liked the fact that he would spend money on her during dating.. now that it is going to be their " debit”.. whole different story now
This groom is not ready to get married or even do grown up things . He hasn’t cooked enough . Send him back to his mama . Talk about delusional. Smh
My Irish grandmother used to day that American girls should think twice about marrying men from elsewhere, because, for the most part, American women are spoiled by the way men treat them with regard to household chores, child rearing, equality.
Doomed before it even starts
He needs to grow up and become financially responsible
🚩 alert! Tom "If I see something I want to buy, then I will buy it, no matter how much it costs." Run girl run!
The bride was such a jerk to her friend about the dress. And her friend was so gracious toward her even though she was upset.
There’s no reason they both can’t buy the same style of dress and wear it. Almost all dresses come in various shades of white and unless you’re buying the floor sample it’ll be custom fit to your measurements. Order that dress in white white and the friend can order the same style in off white.
This couple is going to always argue about money as he's a spender and she isn't.
This is obviously scripted
If they keep disagreeing on everything their marriage wontlast long but stillI I hope they will be happy 🙏🙏
The cake will last longer than the marriage.
This guy is gunna be working OT for the first 3 years of marriage just to pay for the over budget. They could have totally stayed in budget, with their original figure. Needing to get new rings. Insane!
He is ridiculous 🙄
The groom who wanted his dream and I think it was a good reminder that it is also his wedding. Guys have their dreams also.
This guy is a control freak and an abuser. His passive aggressive "sweetie" makes me want to run as fast as I can!
Tom, please shop atound for a new barber..
I wouldn’t want myfiance to go shopping for shoes with me Never ever
Cracks me up. She wants the more expensive items too. 😂
These brides and grooms are not ready to get married when they cannot agree on their damn wedding and how to come under the budget that's ridiculous
Lol my dress was $400
My shoes? $25
I understand the bride so much 😂
The groom's parents should be ashamed of themselves.
Sounds like this guy is from a very poor house and want everything now.
Don't go dress shopping w someone who has to as well. Her friend tried it on first and wanted it. Even if she didn't say yes at first, that was her dress. She looked better in it. I feel bad for her
Does anyone know if this couple stayed together or not? They don't exactly look like a sure bet for the long run.
This couple with the financial differences will be divorced soon.
All I could say is help for the bride. They're gonna be homeless. How can they buy their cars. They're homes When they are so in debt. He's living in a dream world. He didn't marry a Kennedy.
My father walked me down the aisle and gave me away. I had the full ball gown with the veil and head piece but it fit in with the theme of my wedding. I would never have bought a friend with me to buy the dress cause it would just have caused problems.
In Swedish weddings, the bride and groom always walk both in and out the aisle together.
The "tree" on the table was hilarious. I've watched this probably five or six times. It never gets old. They're like two kids in a candy store. Tom is a hoot!!
The jewelry lady and her mouth.🤔🤔🤔🤔