Natasha Joseph ,,,,,you saw your black skin, I saw my white skin. But what was missing THEN was the hate and SINFUL nature that life would expose us both to NO MATTER our upcoming experiences. There are NO BOUNDRIES to such, yet we are forced to live in a society that kills all t hat is good and promotes what is bad. Your text was short , but said volumes. Just wanted to leave you with a BIBLICAL TRUTH . ""WOE TO THOSE WHO SAY GOOD IS BAD AND BAD IS GOOD "". STAY STRONG and DON'T GET SUCKED IN BY THE WORLD . Someday ALL this will be over and we will DANCE IN GODS KINGDOM.
I heard of a situation similar to this. So a family who had a son, later had a daughter with special needs. As such, she needed alot more attention from her parents. Now this boy, between the ages of 3-5 started to play with girls toys and befriend girls and began saying he was a girl. Now the parents took him to a therapist, and the boy said "Mum and dad don't love me when I'm a boy" This boy developed the misconception that he was female because his sister got more attention, and so he tried to be female too. The boy after therapy is fine now. I'm not saying gender disforia doesn't exist, I am saying 5 years old is too young to make decision to change your gender. Also, my sister loves trucks, cars, has built computers and plays games, watches violent movies, and plays football all supposedly male hobbies but she never thought "I'm a boy because I like these things" the misconception that boy toys and girl toys, are taught by parents and media. This is ridiculous.
Really ridiculous! I was also a Tom boy but my mama never encouraged me to continue wearing boys clothes. I also used to like football and all sort of boys games but my mama really whipped me up and i stopped. I believe the parents encourage their kids to change their genders whereas kids don't even know what is to be a boy or a girl. Kids will always speak and talk i want these, i want that but a parent should take it as normal and with time, they will change their talk and indulge into other activities and they will forget what they used to talk but, never should they encourage them to follow the steps they want while they grow. As a Teacher i have seen many kids who have features of different gender to who they are but, as they grow they change and their God gave gender shows up. So parents should be patient and take it slowly their children will actually change as they grow in stead of encouraging them and taking it tooo seriously to follow what they always say who they are. SAD TO THE KIDS AROUND THE WORLD WHO ARE IN THE SAME SITUATION WITH PARENTS OF THIS TYPE.
*ahem* uh okay? I'm transgender and I'm sick of this misconception. Some people DID know at that age. Just because some people did go through a phase of it or something, doesn't mean everyone is that way. Jacob might be going through a phase, he might not. Why does it matter so much to you? Does it offend you in any way? I'm getting sick of all this stimulation, saying kids are 'too young'. I was told that at 11. I'm fifteen now and I'm still crying whenever I take a shower, see myself, etc. I cry every time someone says my birthname. I'm sick of this. Just let it be, let children be children. Let people be themselves. Even if he does change his mind, you can still stay out of it. Quit telling him he's wrong. Cool.
I think that they should let him cut his hair short but but transition or call him a boy/ change his name a pronounces yet until he’s 8 or something but before puberty reaches
Thats probs because you could only count until ten. Our neighbours daughter could only count to ten a 8 years ago and she said very proudly "my dad is ten years ooOoold" and I said "cool and I'm twelve" she was so confused xD
Worst kind of child abuse......... parents using and castrating their children to beg before those leftist NGOs for money........These children are just doing and saying what their parents have forced them to learn........This should be illegal
Colbie Robloxgirl 90% of them grow out of it, do you think hormone blockers for little children is appropriate? How about the horrible side effects? Permanent gender disphoria? Bone degradation, constant hormonal issues, depression???
I have like 10 memories from when I was 5. Imagine knowing that you chose your life's course when you hadn't even entered full consciousness. It would be like waking up in a nightmare.
He has a ton of time before he's gonna go on anything that can cause irreversible changes. He's probably gonna go on testosterone in 8 years so he didn't make a single choice at the age of 5.
LCradio, The kid is way, way to young to make a decision like that. A child has no concept of gender identity, or the world and society in general. It is not the kids choice, this is the parents projecting that onto their child. One may even call this child abuse. This kid will be so utterly confused when they reach puberty, as if kids aren't confused enough by that age.
Okay. As someone who has been in the shoes of that kid I can confirm that is false. I had concept of gender identity at such a young age and acted much like how the kiddo in this did, yearning for that haircut, new name. The parents don't particularly like that their kid feels this way, feels different, you can tell by when the dad said he hoped it was a phase. I was more confused by why society suppressed me for so long during puberty than my gender identity. Those parents are good parents, they're doing things that makes the boy happy and it's not even permanent.
Fair point on the "so everybody does then since you did?", I'll admit that was a weak point for me. I can tell you though when I was truly questioning and asking my friends about their phases there was a clear difference, none of them hated themselves because of their identity.. We can infer from the video that this child hated the identity they were left with, from the name crossing out thing and the "why did God make me this way". What decision has truly been made here? The biggest decision truly made is the name and the pronouns, nothing permanent and almost like having a nickname if you think about it phase or not. These parents aren't going crazy with it signing this kid up for anything unreservable so no "final decision" has been made? So I don't see what point you were making there. They don't need to wait to fulfill the basic wishes of the child, how controversial they gave him a haircut and let him wear masculine clothing!
I'm not being negative or hateful. But is there not such thing as being a "tomboy" anymore? I went through a phase when I was around age 8 where I wore boy clothes, high top shoes and wore a hat for a few years. I played with boy things and liked basketball a lot. But I grew out of that and I'm now as girly as they come. Liking fashion, makeup, jewelry etc. Your mind is not developed and a child is very easily influenced in adolescence. I just think it's a bit crazy to label your child as transgendered when that may not be the case at all. It could just be a phase. That's why we make choices for our children because their minds aren't ready and cannot make quality choices. Supporting them wearing the opposite sex attire is one thing but labeling them as transgendered is something totally different. I would have been pretty upset with my parents if they labeled my stage of wearing boy clothes as being trans. I was an unsure adolescent that had to develop into who I am today. I just don't understand why parents are jumping to this conclusion so quickly when children can't make quality, logical decisions yet.
+Sam Adams yes, I completely agree with that. But what I'm saying is that parents want to do interviews and such blasting their 3, 4, 5 year old child as transgendered. i can't understand why parents can't SUPPORT their child by letting them dress however they please. But By bringing them on TV and in the public spotlight and stating they are transgendered only confuses and influences their adolescent minds. When they get a little older is when they can rationalize and make more accurate decisions. But being that little is way too young to label your child. That's why at that age we believed in Santa Claus bc our elders made a big deal out of it and told us he was real. An adolescent mind is formed and manipulated by influences, good or bad. So by screaming to the world that your child is trans is influencing them to believe in their mind that it's true. Support is one thing, but introducing this idea on your child at such a young age just isn't right. Let them decide when they are old enough to make coherent decisions.
You seem to be missing the all important fact - this is not a "decision". It's just a fact. Children self-identify by gender at a very young age - as early as two or three (that fact is reaffirmed by the doctor in the vid). And if this child is too young to know that he's a boy the same must hold true for every other child he goes to school with. The boy that sits behind him? To young to know. The girl that sits in the next row? Too young to know. The rest of the kids in his karate class? Too young to know. And I don't see this as the parents "introducing the idea" but rather accepting the situation for what it is. They don''t have three daughters. They have two daughters and a son. BTW, male and female brains are physically different - they are composed of different types of cells and they think with different parts of the brain. Think of this as someone with a boy brain in a girl body.
I was the same way. I wore boy clothes, played with a lot of boy toys (girl toys too, though), played with mostly boys. I was jealous of my boy friends who didn't have to wear a shirt outside. Sometimes kids who didn't know me would ask me if I was a boy or a girl. And do you know what my answer was? "I'm a girl." That's the difference. I was fine with being a girl, I identified as a girl. I never actually wanted to BE a boy.
+Jenny N Exactly. It has everything to do with whether or not you are comfortable in your skin and with what you were assigned, not how you dress and what you like. There are still tomboys it just shouldn't get confused with transgender. Being insistent on what you where and the activities you partake in is different than insisting that your body is wrong and that how people gender you upsets you. Hope this helps not being rude. just explaining the difference as I see it.
That's right. It's hard for people to wrap their head around the fact that these people don't care about us, have lied about everything or at least tried to cover it up, and consider us inferior and ultimately like cattle that they can't eat. I was in my 20s when I realized that. I'm almost 50 now and boy, you don't wanna know what I know now.
When I was 5 I walked outside naked, my mom stopped me and said "people shouldn't be naked outside". When I was 6 I went into the street, my mom said "don't play in the street". This is not because she oppressed me but simply because she realized I didn't have enough of an understanding of the world to make choices like when to cross the road and what to wear. That is what this child needs, a parent not a door mat.
Or we know nothing of their relationship based on a few minutes of video unrelated to the topic of their relationship, and people are just projecting what they want to see so they can say whatever they want to.
This is common in families with lgbt kids. The dad is a beta and skulks around doing whatever the mom wants. The father should be the leader and the wife the helper. That’s how a healthy family is born
when I was around 4..I told everyone I was a boy and wanted to be called scott...the reason behind that was my cousins ( male ) always got more attention from my grand parents than my sisters and I. I thought I had to be a boy to be special.
When I was 6 I wanted to be a boy but now that Im an adult Im happy with being a woman. Im so thankful that my parents weren't crazy enough to call me trans.
@@bam3915 your 13 not 5 big difference, you wanna turn yourself into a freak thats your call i still think you will regret it when your an adult but what ever
@@SignsWonders I'm not a freak, I just look a little different. And its not a choice. I wont regret this at all, seeing as I've been diagnosed by 3 doctors with gender dysphoria
G M When I was that age, I thought I was becoming a girl because of how high my voice was. I was so worried, and didn’t want it to happen, and then I learned you don’t automatically change gender! I was so happy, and relieved
when i was 5 i use to think anime characters were real after watching sailor moon. i thought i could find and marry sailor Mercury when i got older.....
@@rawrxd7391 I'm not saying I agree, or disagree, nor do I have a links to the studies, and/or research paper (s), so you'll have to do the research yourself ...but there is an assertion that single mothers contribute to more issues with children compared with '2 parent' households. I guess because there are different things a child will learn from either parent, and a single parent is likely unable to provide the amount of attention, or emotional support, that s traditional 2 parent family can (maybe having something to do with the single parent having to work and whatnot, meaning there is no parent to be with the child).
Worst kind of child abuse......... parents using and castrating their children to beg before those leftist NGOs for money........These children are just doing and saying what their parents have forced them to learn........This should be illegal
Worst kind of child abuse......... parents using and castrating their children to beg before those leftist NGOs for money........These children are just doing and saying what their parents have forced them to learn........This should be illegal
I mean, did these parents think of the consequences? First, they allow their daughter to become the boy she always wanted to be, even changed schools. Then, they paraded Jacob around on the news to make sure people new that Jacob was born female. It's so counterintuitive.
You don’t know what was going on at the previous school, for some reason it was better to change schools for this child. They were proud of their son and out as a trans family, this, to me, indicates the change couldn’t be successfully accomplished within the confines of the old school. To me they aren’t making sure people know Jacob was assigned a female gender at birth but that Jacob is transgender. Transgender being an identity too.
Liri 👽-"Punisher5FDP Exactly because *_she's still a girl with XX-chromosomes inside of her body + she'll never be a real true natural-born boy (just a regular tomboy going thru a phase) or a cockroach wearing a human suit pretending to be an human_* & parents like this needs to be put away ASAP!!!! because this is sick, wrong, twisted, & evil at the same time."
Kid: I want to eat nothing but candy. Mom: Don't be silly that's bad for you. Kid: I want to be part of a community with a 41% suicide rate. Mom: Okay!
@@0Snowx That's simply not true. For the large part, Trans people are accepted (at least in America). Also, 41% is a higher rate than what was found among slaves during pre-civil war America, who were undoubtedly treated far worse than trans people are today.
Why do you think there’s a 41% suicide rate? This child abuse does not represent the community as a whole, but people think it does, and they go after people who are actually experiencing a professionally diagnosed mental Condition.
@@FirstNameLastName-wt5to... Oooohhhhh! Because a child should be allowed to make life changing decisions at that age, got you. If you actually believe that, you and the therapist should be the one in therapy. SMH 🤦♂️
@@bighen636 I think you misread my comment. I said the reason to not go to a therapist is because they provide affirmative care (going along with the kid/parent). So while taking a kid to a therapist sounds like the answer, it’s the therapists who are responsible for kids transitioning. In many states, it is illegal to not provide affirmative care.
Whether or not he's going through a phase, the physical transition has not begun. It truly doesn't matter. At such a young age before puberty, the kid has time.
+grim night - I kinda get what you're saying & I admire your introspective effort. If you please, the piece(s) you seem to be missing from my little perspective have to do w/a non-threatening & listening environment....When folks feel permission to be their true self (or at least explore it) then we are a step closer to being honest & authentic w/ourselves & those who supposedly care for us. - Also, I'd encourage you to express your furry behavior freely. You're not hurting yourself or anybody else & it certainly is part of the extraordinary spectrum of human behavior & awareness. Others seeing you & meeting you as your real self may help you affirm that identity, or you may find some other insight....But I certainly understand your concerns about social rejection, which is why I specifically talk about a listening & non-threatening environment. - Best wishes to you & yours.
+coldflame It is one thing to have "furry" or "tran" feelings but it is quite another to require that everyone "accept" your different views. grim night chooses not to wear fur in public. Why can't a family have privacy instilled as well. This child's identity is not yet formed. Her parent's have made it a foregone conclusion. Sad.
How does a 5 year old decide this, they are not old enough. When I was 5, I was thinking about my DBZ card collection and wanting to learn martial arts because of Picolo.
@@StephenFromCorrie hes 5 bro his brain has not developed. This is your life bro, a 5 year old shouldn't make decisions that will affect the rest of his life
Year 2030 4 year old boy tells parents "I'm a spaceman" is recruited by NASA and sent on a mission to Mars. Parents surprised but happy to discover their child is an astronaut.
I worked with 5-year olds. At that age, their sense of gender and sexual identity is somewhat fluid. So are their personal boundaries. This is why they need guidance. It's called parenting. You do not let a toddler or child make major life decisions. This is absurd.
Turning that fluidity into a solid brick without considering anything else is also not helpful. Let people crossdress, let people act feminine / masculine independent of their gender, destroy gendered names
It’s not a major life decision. At 4, they don’t need puberty blockers, hormones, or surgery yet. If they change their mind at puberty, they can revert back.
So much respect for these parents. They put away their fear and ignorance and traded it with love and knowledge so quickly and realized a happy child is the best thing, and that letting someone be a gender they weren't born as isnt an issue we need to be fighting against on this world. Happiness is all that matters.
+WillyFrisco4ever Wow you really have nothing to say or an actual counter argument so you just pop off the first thing that comes to your mind. have a nice day😸
+WillyFrisco4ever I know no one gives a shot but if these kids grow up and realize they screwed up then their most likely course of action will be suicide. and I don't want that. That's why I tell parents of kids like this make 100% sure this is what they want before jumping in head first.
***** I had a very good friend who's parents were very liberal and jumped in head first to help him when he said at ten he wanted to be a girl. But they didn't realize he was being influenced by someone else and later in life he realized he wasn't a woman and hated what he had done to himself. How do I know this? Cause his suicide note is still in my office desk. He was my best friend and it tears my heart out that I didn't see it sooner. I could have been there and stopped him but I failed. That's why I'm passionate about things like this. Sorry if I care to much sometimes but I just don't want others to go through what I did. Is that a bad thing?
Victoria Gibbs Instead of letting their girl do what she wants, they want to cripple her with hormones. These parents are not tolerant, they are criminals
Worst kind of child abuse......... parents using and castrating their children to beg before those leftist NGOs for money........These children are just doing and saying what their parents have forced them to learn........This should be illegal
My kid wants to be the Hulk so I'm gonna get him tattooed green and put him on enough steroids to make baseball players look like there taking pez and call everyone hulkphobic if they question my parenting!
it's you're not your! And the Hulk is a comic book character that doesn't exist not another species, you idiot! Lmao!!! and you might change the way you look, but you're still what you were when you were born
Sam Adams the mentality that all that matters in happiness is ignorant, also God does not make mistakes the mistake is these parents not sticking their foot in the way and explaining to their child that changing is simply a wrong decision and that changing is disobeying god which is hypocritical that he said " why did God make me wrong?" These parents need to learn facts about the Bible.
+Erich Durst - yep put their foot down and when the kid commits suicide the parents can put their hand on their heart and say that they took your advice and forced their son to pretend to be a girl. This is not the result of their upbringing. It's simply a fact. One question - why should the parents learn facts about the bible? Why not the Vedas? Or the Upanishads? And if "god does not make mistakes" this boy is exactly what god wanted him to be.
Sam Adams exactly, a GIRL (as God intended) who likes things and fassions typically marketed to BOYS. Nothing wrong with that. Doesn't make her a boy. 4 or 5 years is too young to be pushing gender roles regardless.
I don't think the parents should say "You're trans" to a 5 year old, I don't think they should say "You can't have that cuz it's for boys" I just think they should support the kid until the kid grows up and figures out how they really are
@@avastars3393 Well SHE doesn't even know what a happy life is. She can't even add basic numbers together. I hope you're mental brain capacity for knowledge is okay. SHE IS FIVE. 5. tell me, how much did you know about life, gender and race when you were in kindergarten?
Skippy I think he knows better what makes him happy and comfortable than you do. So please respect that and call him by his pronouns. Doesn’t matter if he doesn’t see himself as a boy in a few years but right know it makes him happy so please respect that.
These people seem to believe cookie cutter ideas. I played with what is deemed as " boy toys " dressed in jeans no dresses, it didn't make me less of a GIRL. These parents are allowing confusion into the home. Loved the dinosaurs too! :)
as long as these parents arent giving this child hormones i think its okay to let them be happy right now dressing up as a boy. they could change their mind as they get older
True - somewhere along the line they'll have to consider hormone blockers but all those will do is delay puberty. Completely reversible - stop taking them and puberty restarts. That gives him (as well as his parents and his team of doctors) additional time (years actually) to decide how to proceed.
It would not be an appropriate age at all to prescribe hormone therapy for this boy. That happens in adolescence where pubertal developmental occurs. And he is choosing to dress as a boy because he is a boy. Simple as that.
Nobody is pushing hormones on this boy. He's simply being allowed to live his own life. Hormone blockers won't be prescribed until he nears puberty and cross sex hormones won't be administered until he's somewhere in his teens. And then only if he (and his parents and the team of doctors that will have been monitoring him all along) is in agreement
Exactly. Just let the child be happy. Isnt the pursuit of happiness our main purpose in life? You dont have to conform to any societal stereotypes on haircut dress code etc on child that young. Just let them be. No harm done. When they are older they can see where they are at.
And now we’re teaching them they can be a different gender. Do you know how confused and uncomfortable the child will be growing up with female puberty? Are they going to mutilate the child and prevent puberty? I fear for our children
They probably got the same idea from the same set of UN psychologists and their pseudo-science research papers. (Btw these people contradict each other and their egos for a living) Good grief, what happened in the course of a decade where this is now acceptable.
This is borderline child abuse. It's okay for someone to act differently when they're young. When I was little, I climbed trees and dug in the dirt and hated dresses. I'm so glad my parents told me I was a girl, because they were right. This child is confused. This is a permanent decision, and this isn't right.
When I was 5, all I care about is play outside in the playground and play with toys. I didn’t even thought what was my gender even was, I just wanted to play with toys, watch cartoons and just have fun with imaginations
Worst kind of child abuse......... parents using and castrating their children to beg before those leftist NGOs for money........These children are just doing and saying what their parents have forced them to learn........This should be illegal
I mean, it’s not really abuse. Yeah, you may have families who do this to their kids for popularity, but some children genuinely experience this. It’s not something we can control, it’s something we’re practically born with.
I love how almost every negative comment says theyre letting a 5 year old get surgery and be on hormones when the parents and the news story explicitly said mulitple times that this child is NOT undergoing medical treatment to transition.
+Dead Heart If you really think that and that this is right your heart isn't the only thing that is dead. Too bad there is brain surgery for people like you.
jethro035181 I know. I said i wanted to be a girl. I played with dolls and played dress-up and put on make up. My dad never gave in to the thought i was transgender. It was a phase. it lasted until i was 5. I know my place. I was born male. Im glad im male. And its who i am. No changing that
so your telling me my cousin of 5 doesn't know if I'm a boy or a grl because I'm just saying ifthey can chose the toys they want pick out a pretty pink shirt I'm pretty sur they knowif they wanna wear something else and everyone is like omg they are hurting her (him) no they aren't its honestly a hair cut and boy clothes if he wanted to wear girl chothes the next day it would onestly be possible for it to happen in a snap
I think the problem is that when you encourage a young child that you something they are not they start to believe it. Kids believe anything. Nobody cares if you are trans but kids don’t know what they want.
Jdjdnxb 201 im sure it was hard for the parents to come to turns with saying that, plus kids really do whatever they want so if he wanted to stop doing certain things he would do it, again having lots of time and opportunities to change his mind
Hèracles Pirena children’s ideologies and beliefs and upbringings should revolve around what gender they are. It doesn’t matter how he identifies because identifying as male is simply allowing the world to perceive you in that way, it’s what an identity is. The only person who would actually be effected if he detransitioned before he started any hormone blockers or testosterone are the people around him due to the name change and such. He shouldn’t be treated differently and have different opportunities based on the gender he is, he should be given those opportunities and such based on his merit and skill as a person in the community. TLDR; his gender doesn’t define the opportunities he gets in life therefore his identifying as a boy before he does anything permanent, such as hormones or surgery, isn’t at all permanent to him and couldn’t scar him in any way.
@@kendraa8289 It wasn’t hard for HER parents to stop being parents. But it will be hard for HER to live with the fact that her parents failed her because they decided they wanted to be virtue signalers instead of strong, loving parents. The father disgusts me.
My daughter wanted to be Santa when she grew up. According to these parents logic I should have fed her cookies and dressed her in red. And added hormones for a beard... 🤪
Worst kind of child abuse......... parents using and castrating their children to beg before those leftist NGOs for money........These children are just doing and saying what their parents have forced them to learn........This should be illegal
@@strangelittlegirl yes, I do believe everything in bible, as it says that men should not act or dress as women (Lev. 18:22, Rom. 1:18-32, Deut. 22:5). I definitely don't have a problem with anybody as I know that my God is not a God of hate, He is a God of love. In the end I am trying to help, because as a Christian I know that when judgment day comes the truth is God will say to some part with me as I never knew you.
look. right now this child says he is a boy. so call him a boy and talk about him like one. if he decides this didn't suit him either and says he is a girl, THEN talk about him as such. (that IS possible, you know. he's only transitioning socially at this age. if he turns out to be a girl after all it's only a matter of changing haircut, name, and wardrobe, and perhaps schools.)
90sdance Moves I have a transgender friend and she is fine and happier with herself after her transition. You can chose who you want to be in life. It is something you can’t escape. You are born with it. There is nothing bad about it.
@@Maru-pp7pl As a 5 year old, you don't know the difference between genders, you only know there's male and female. It's clearly the parents forcing it on their children to be presented as “heroes“ by the media.
now... his parents are allowing him to live as the gender he is/"wants to be", they are not giving him hormones or even changing his sex with surgery (hes 5, that isnt even legal). However, even if it turns out to have been a phase, he will have been happy in his childhood and thats what matters. If his parents decide to give him puberty blockers later on, that only stops puberty, it doesnt affect anything else and it is completely reversible. Experiencing gender dysphoria and not being able to be who you want to be as a child can have seriously bad influence on your future as far as mental health goes. So please shut up about him being "too young"
@@Nyabot-mh2zi *She* He's still in elementary school, *she* barely knows what's up and what's down. Let *her* grow up to an age where *she* can make thorough decisions, before throwing a *her* into something *she* may regret later.
She's 5. She can't comprehend the idea of numbers over 100. I couldn't, and I see so many other 5 year olds with the exact same thing. She has to be a teenager to make this decision when she knows the area of a 12 x 12 square
The chosen 1 It's amazing that a 5 year old can walk. Or talk. Or eat. How the hell does he know? Most persons that identify as transgender very young ARE going through a phase. This is known as being gender fluid. This is why the kids are not pumped for of hormones when they are 8. A lot of this is wait and see but for a lot it is pretty clear
When I was 5 I wanted to be white, I hated my dark skin. If being "transracial" was a thing I might've actually been pushed to that. I'm 18 now and I'm happy with myself, because the option of even transitioning never crossed my mind. I immediately disregarded it because I knew it was impossible. These kids are told being transgender is a thing, and they see it as an actual viable option, which is why they actually transition. Think about that.
There's no way her as a 5 year old made the intelligent and wise decision to become a boy. Like, the parents should have not taken it so seriously. I'm not transphobic, I just don't agree with it. Please don't hate me for my opinion
This is just ridiculous! If a kid says I feel like killing myself, do you just shut up and let him do it? This is stupidity at it's peak. Why would you allow a boy tell you that he is a girl or vice versa? Clearly there's something off, he needs help and the sooner you get him that help, the better. Stop this nonsense!
When I was 5 I still thought my parents’ names were “mom” and “dad.” You really just can’t make good decisions for yourself this young… shame on these parents.
Something is going on with that mother or father. You’re bringing that into your home at that age. They are getting those ideas from somewhere, and it isn’t from themselves. Mia is not a boy, and never will be.
What have they done to them? Just cut their hair short and live as a boy? Jacob has had no medical intervention whatsoever to permanently affect them. If their Dysphoria subsides by Puberty, they can just go back to living as a girl.
@ew ew ew If you give your children everything they want, which could make them "happy" in the moment, then you're quite irresponsible as a parent. You should act in their best interest, not in favor of pointless wishes that they'll most likely regret later in life.
@ew ew ew lol please... When I was 5 I used to dress liked a girl, or watch tv shows/movies mostly girls watched (That, I still do actually). Here I am almost 20 years later, feeling more like a dude than ever. I also wanted to be Spiderman, do you think I grew up depressed because I couldn't be Spiderman? No, I grew up. My point is, the child is FIVE, how could you know how he's gonna feel in 8-10 years when he reaches puberty? It's most likely going to change. Just like every kid ever Besides he/she's not old/wise enough to make such a life changing decision. The parents put that on him, didn't choose by himself
@@very7962 How am I sick for suggesting a medical treatment that has been proven to work. Not only have they been proven to work, but they have no permanent effect. If the kid finds out they arent actually trans, they can get off of puberty blockers.
When I was 5 I thought I was a Jedi. Would even practice staring at objects for hours in order to try and move them with my mind. Eventually I realized I was wrong and learned to make peace with the disappointment.
This is so disturbing in every way possible. I'm a mother of 5 year old, a 5 year old is so innocent, anything you tell them they will listen and believe. This is wrong, the parents themselves are sick. This is child abuse, destroying the innocent kid's life, future.
I didn't even know I was black when I was 5.
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Lmao girl... I'm saying !!
Yes seriously
Natasha Joseph ,,,,,you saw your black skin, I saw my white skin. But what was missing THEN was the hate and SINFUL nature that life would expose us both to NO MATTER our upcoming experiences. There are NO BOUNDRIES to such, yet we are forced to live in a society that kills all t hat is good and promotes what is bad.
Your text was short , but said volumes. Just wanted to leave you with a BIBLICAL TRUTH . ""WOE TO THOSE WHO SAY GOOD IS BAD AND BAD IS GOOD "". STAY STRONG and DON'T GET SUCKED IN BY THE WORLD . Someday ALL this will be over and we will DANCE IN GODS KINGDOM.
Natasha Joseph i think people think you are joking but i get the feeling your not. If only adults thought that way.
When I was 5 I was more concerned an apple tree was gonna grow in my stomach after eating an apple seed
apple seeds are poisonous
Lizyuppy same
True
Same!!! I got so scared whenever I swallowed a seed. I would yell for my parents xD
Lizyuppy and watermelon lol
“After agonizing for years”, the child is only 5.
Emily Hundl So..like 1 year? Haha
this child needs to join islam. that's the only way for an infant to find the truth
@@リンゴ酢-b8g lmao what
Emily Hundl right
Spawny Chancer the child needs to join a normal family.
When I was 5 I told my mom I was a girl. She told me I was a boy... Now I'm 35 and guess what? She was right.
M WOLF I wonder why
I said those exact same words and now I’m convinced I’m a boy
We’re you born as a boy lol?
@@randomcat7246 man pig bear actually
M WOLF aight cool. Glad you have a sensible mom
Why do you think that because something is true for you, it's true for everyone? Seems pretty egotistical.
When I was five I thought the world was a nice place.
When u was five I didn't understand that Barney was imaginary
What happened after your five? I’m so sorry :’c
It still can be. It isn't too late. Trust me. You'll know when it's too late.
When I was 5 I was mad that I had to watch Dora the explorer. Ah good times not worrying about how to pull in income
And the world was a nice place it no longer is
I once told my mom
"Mom i want to be a ninja toy"
Now i'm standing on a shelf in the store
I'm so proud🙏🏽
😂
😂
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Lmao 😂 😂😂😂😂
Lol(≧▽≦)
I heard of a situation similar to this.
So a family who had a son, later had a daughter with special needs. As such, she needed alot more attention from her parents. Now this boy, between the ages of 3-5 started to play with girls toys and befriend girls and began saying he was a girl.
Now the parents took him to a therapist, and the boy said "Mum and dad don't love me when I'm a boy"
This boy developed the misconception that he was female because his sister got more attention, and so he tried to be female too.
The boy after therapy is fine now.
I'm not saying gender disforia doesn't exist, I am saying 5 years old is too young to make decision to change your gender.
Also, my sister loves trucks, cars, has built computers and plays games, watches violent movies, and plays football all supposedly male hobbies but she never thought "I'm a boy because I like these things" the misconception that boy toys and girl toys, are taught by parents and media.
This is ridiculous.
Denham Varas-Curl same
I watched thaf video too
Really ridiculous! I was also a Tom boy but my mama never encouraged me to continue wearing boys clothes. I also used to like football and all sort of boys games but my mama really whipped me up and i stopped. I believe the parents encourage their kids to change their genders whereas kids don't even know what is to be a boy or a girl. Kids will always speak and talk i want these, i want that but a parent should take it as normal and with time, they will change their talk and indulge into other activities and they will forget what they used to talk but, never should they encourage them to follow the steps they want while they grow. As a Teacher i have seen many kids who have features of different gender to who they are but, as they grow they change and their God gave gender shows up. So parents should be patient and take it slowly their children will actually change as they grow in stead of encouraging them and taking it tooo seriously to follow what they always say who they are. SAD TO THE KIDS AROUND THE WORLD WHO ARE IN THE SAME SITUATION WITH PARENTS OF THIS TYPE.
*ahem* uh okay? I'm transgender and I'm sick of this misconception. Some people DID know at that age. Just because some people did go through a phase of it or something, doesn't mean everyone is that way. Jacob might be going through a phase, he might not. Why does it matter so much to you? Does it offend you in any way? I'm getting sick of all this stimulation, saying kids are 'too young'. I was told that at 11. I'm fifteen now and I'm still crying whenever I take a shower, see myself, etc. I cry every time someone says my birthname. I'm sick of this. Just let it be, let children be children. Let people be themselves. Even if he does change his mind, you can still stay out of it. Quit telling him he's wrong. Cool.
I think that they should let him cut his hair short but but transition or call him a boy/ change his name a pronounces yet until he’s 8 or something but before puberty reaches
When I was 5 I thought people have a 10 year lifespan and wwhen u turn 8, you become a grandparent
Triangle Archives so technically you were having a midlife crisis in a sense?
WebFish Yeah, pretty much
Thats probs because you could only count until ten. Our neighbours daughter could only count to ten a 8 years ago and she said very proudly "my dad is ten years ooOoold" and I said "cool and I'm twelve" she was so confused xD
Awww thats kinda cute. Traumatizing but cute 😂
Worst kind of child abuse......... parents using and castrating their children to beg before those leftist NGOs for money........These children are just doing and saying what their parents have forced them to learn........This should be illegal
>A 17 year old can not consent to sexual intercourse
>A 5 year old can change gender
This is what some Americans actually believe. Think about that.
Moolers not just Americans pal
Actually in some states a 16 year old can give consent. ( I'm not disagreeing with you though)
Moolers a 5 year old cannot
@ Moolers - Hint: They all voted for Hellary.
Moolers next thing you know they will be trying to change their race or age or even species. Ridiculous. Let children be children for THEIR sake.
Back in the day we called them tomboys. They grew out of it.
But it’s not back in the day
The Descendant 🙄
Colbie Robloxgirl 90% of them grow out of it, do you think hormone blockers for little children is appropriate? How about the horrible side effects? Permanent gender disphoria? Bone degradation, constant hormonal issues, depression???
whokilled JR ion really care what you say. I mean yea, it is strange that it’s a 5 year old.
Colbie Robloxgirl perhaps i jumped the gunna little;)
When I was 5 i thought transformers existed.
Turns out it’s only transgenders
@@Gehmstoneiguess 😂😂😂
@300bpm there is such thing as being transgender. Why would you even think there isn't?
I wanted to be a mermaid when I was 5 it’s normal
@300bpm your just a big meany
I have like 10 memories from when I was 5. Imagine knowing that you chose your life's course when you hadn't even entered full consciousness. It would be like waking up in a nightmare.
He has a ton of time before he's gonna go on anything that can cause irreversible changes. He's probably gonna go on testosterone in 8 years so he didn't make a single choice at the age of 5.
@@izzysavage4634 And you think that's a good thing
@@Ohfr_ it is because at least he can be who he is now and not have to deal with a load of dysphoria by going through the wrong puberty
@@CBToxicGossipTrain Is it not harmful to his body though plus is there not a better way to treat it
@@Ohfr_ no there's not because making him go through the wrong puberty is even worse
Having a 5 yr old trans kid is like having a vegan cat. We all know who's making the decisions.
On point
Doubt that lad. They made it pretty clear in the video it was more the kids choice. Just the parents making the kid happy?
LCradio,
The kid is way, way to young to make a decision like that. A child has no concept of gender identity, or the world and society in general. It is not the kids choice, this is the parents projecting that onto their child. One may even call this child abuse. This kid will be so utterly confused when they reach puberty, as if kids aren't confused enough by that age.
Okay. As someone who has been in the shoes of that kid I can confirm that is false. I had concept of gender identity at such a young age and acted much like how the kiddo in this did, yearning for that haircut, new name. The parents don't particularly like that their kid feels this way, feels different, you can tell by when the dad said he hoped it was a phase. I was more confused by why society suppressed me for so long during puberty than my gender identity. Those parents are good parents, they're doing things that makes the boy happy and it's not even permanent.
Fair point on the "so everybody does then since you did?", I'll admit that was a weak point for me. I can tell you though when I was truly questioning and asking my friends about their phases there was a clear difference, none of them hated themselves because of their identity.. We can infer from the video that this child hated the identity they were left with, from the name crossing out thing and the "why did God make me this way". What decision has truly been made here? The biggest decision truly made is the name and the pronouns, nothing permanent and almost like having a nickname if you think about it phase or not. These parents aren't going crazy with it signing this kid up for anything unreservable so no "final decision" has been made? So I don't see what point you were making there. They don't need to wait to fulfill the basic wishes of the child, how controversial they gave him a haircut and let him wear masculine clothing!
I'm not being negative or hateful. But is there not such thing as being a "tomboy" anymore? I went through a phase when I was around age 8 where I wore boy clothes, high top shoes and wore a hat for a few years. I played with boy things and liked basketball a lot. But I grew out of that and I'm now as girly as they come. Liking fashion, makeup, jewelry etc. Your mind is not developed and a child is very easily influenced in adolescence. I just think it's a bit crazy to label your child as transgendered when that may not be the case at all. It could just be a phase. That's why we make choices for our children because their minds aren't ready and cannot make quality choices. Supporting them wearing the opposite sex attire is one thing but labeling them as transgendered is something totally different. I would have been pretty upset with my parents if they labeled my stage of wearing boy clothes as being trans. I was an unsure adolescent that had to develop into who I am today. I just don't understand why parents are jumping to this conclusion so quickly when children can't make quality, logical decisions yet.
Being transgendered is very different from being a tomboy.
+Sam Adams yes, I completely agree with that. But what I'm saying is that parents want to do interviews and such blasting their 3, 4, 5 year old child as transgendered. i can't understand why parents can't SUPPORT their child by letting them dress however they please. But By bringing them on TV and in the public spotlight and stating they are transgendered only confuses and influences their adolescent minds. When they get a little older is when they can rationalize and make more accurate decisions. But being that little is way too young to label your child. That's why at that age we believed in Santa Claus bc our elders made a big deal out of it and told us he was real. An adolescent mind is formed and manipulated by influences, good or bad. So by screaming to the world that your child is trans is influencing them to believe in their mind that it's true. Support is one thing, but introducing this idea on your child at such a young age just isn't right. Let them decide when they are old enough to make coherent decisions.
You seem to be missing the all important fact - this is not a "decision". It's just a fact.
Children self-identify by gender at a very young age - as early as two or three (that fact is reaffirmed by the doctor in the vid). And if this child is too young to know that he's a boy the same must hold true for every other child he goes to school with. The boy that sits behind him? To young to know. The girl that sits in the next row? Too young to know. The rest of the kids in his karate class? Too young to know.
And I don't see this as the parents "introducing the idea" but rather accepting the situation for what it is. They don''t have three daughters. They have two daughters and a son.
BTW, male and female brains are physically different - they are composed of different types of cells and they think with different parts of the brain. Think of this as someone with a boy brain in a girl body.
I was the same way. I wore boy clothes, played with a lot of boy toys (girl toys too, though), played with mostly boys. I was jealous of my boy friends who didn't have to wear a shirt outside. Sometimes kids who didn't know me would ask me if I was a boy or a girl. And do you know what my answer was? "I'm a girl." That's the difference. I was fine with being a girl, I identified as a girl. I never actually wanted to BE a boy.
+Jenny N Exactly. It has everything to do with whether or not you are comfortable in your skin and with what you were assigned, not how you dress and what you like. There are still tomboys it just shouldn't get confused with transgender. Being insistent on what you where and the activities you partake in is different than insisting that your body is wrong and that how people gender you upsets you. Hope this helps not being rude. just explaining the difference as I see it.
When I was 5 I thought you could walk to china.
I figured I could dig there till like the age of 9 and I live in Pennsylvania
floweryDraws I thought you had to dig to China
At that age I thought if you dug deep enough at the beach you could get to china, I can’t be the only one? 😂😂😂
I used to think airplanes went into space
I used to think that a monster would eat me alive when I went to sleep in the dark.
When I was 5 I used to think the governemt and media had my best interest in mind.
That's right. It's hard for people to wrap their head around the fact that these people don't care about us, have lied about everything or at least tried to cover it up, and consider us inferior and ultimately like cattle that they can't eat. I was in my 20s when I realized that. I'm almost 50 now and boy, you don't wanna know what I know now.
bruh no u didnt 💀
When I was 5, I was worried about Pokémon
I mean who says trans kids aren't worried about pokemon? Everyone worried about pokemon at that age.
Juice butter Wait what xD
@@sethscarboro2682 i dont care about pokemon when i was 5 u naughty. I care about bakugan
@@haveanicedaythanks1570 oh yeah me too. I cared about a lot of things similar to that as well as bakugan and Pokémon.
@@sethscarboro2682 Hows Christmas?
When I was 5 I walked outside naked, my mom stopped me and said "people shouldn't be naked outside". When I was 6 I went into the street, my mom said "don't play in the street". This is not because she oppressed me but simply because she realized I didn't have enough of an understanding of the world to make choices like when to cross the road and what to wear. That is what this child needs, a parent not a door mat.
Lmao the dad seems like he's saying everything his wife told him to say and she looks like she's keeping him in line.
LMAO!
He's s total beta male
Or we know nothing of their relationship based on a few minutes of video unrelated to the topic of their relationship, and people are just projecting what they want to see so they can say whatever they want to.
This is common in families with lgbt kids. The dad is a beta and skulks around doing whatever the mom wants. The father should be the leader and the wife the helper. That’s how a healthy family is born
The parents are so open minded that their brains fell out
Edit: That's Chesterton by the way, not me. I don't deserve credit for that man's genius.
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I would like it but I wanna keep it at 69
@@spider-man988 i make it 99 :)
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Lol right to OC.
At that age I was still watching spongebob
Fortnite Clips im 13 and I still watch it
Good
So true my friend so true
Fortnite Clips I Still Do I Was A Mad 2 Year Old when sponge Bob went off
Lmaoo, I'm fifteen soon and I watched Spongebob this morning😂😂
when I was around 4..I told everyone I was a boy and wanted to be called scott...the reason behind that was my cousins ( male ) always got more attention from my grand parents than my sisters and I. I thought I had to be a boy to be special.
When I was 6 I wanted to be a boy but now that Im an adult Im happy with being a woman. Im so thankful that my parents weren't crazy enough to call me trans.
Rachel Hollars i know, when i was in highschool i dressed like a boy, but now i dont want to be a boy..
Rachel Hollars SAME. I wanted to be a boy. But now im 18 and im obsessed with make up and all lol
5 year olds barely have a developed brain
What a horrible comment to make Rachel.
Megan Marcotte truth hurts
these parents should be arrested period
Why
I'm 13 and I'm going to do irreversible things to my body with my parents consent. Stay mad
@@bam3915 your 13 not 5 big difference, you wanna turn yourself into a freak thats your call i still think you will regret it when your an adult but what ever
@@SignsWonders I'm not a freak, I just look a little different. And its not a choice. I wont regret this at all, seeing as I've been diagnosed by 3 doctors with gender dysphoria
@@bam3915 You shouldn't be able to make a choice before your 18.
When I was 5, I thought I was a demon, but then a frog kissed me.
When I was that age I thought I was a stegosaurus
good for you. here's a trophy🏆
G M When I was that age, I thought I was becoming a girl because of how high my voice was. I was so worried, and didn’t want it to happen, and then I learned you don’t automatically change gender! I was so happy, and relieved
I thought I was a character in Star Wars.
I couldn’t stop sneezing once and thought I was dying
I thought i was Peter pan
when i was 5 i use to think anime characters were real after watching sailor moon.
i thought i could find and marry sailor Mercury when i got older.....
jmantime i still wish i could even tho i know i cant
jmantime hufhbgghvyg
@@DATH-kc6ei Yes, officer this comment
@GO Life Channel Are you a girl, because I'm not sure that they translated properly but Uranus was married with Jupiter.
@@elenabob4953 I think you mean Neptune? I'm pretty sure I remember Jupiter having a boyfriend.
"Why did God make me this way?" Lol! Sure mom. After all, you and dad are the real victims right?
No,not God, but your sick mind.
@@dogbreaththe3rd851 what does that have to do with anything? Just bc someone doesn't have a dad doesn't make them trans :/
I would bet my rent money the kid never said that
@@rawrxd7391 I'm not saying I agree, or disagree, nor do I have a links to the studies, and/or research paper (s), so you'll have to do the research yourself
...but there is an assertion that single mothers contribute to more issues with children compared with '2 parent' households.
I guess because there are different things a child will learn from either parent, and a single parent is likely unable to provide the amount of attention, or emotional support, that s traditional 2 parent family can (maybe having something to do with the single parent having to work and whatnot, meaning there is no parent to be with the child).
Worst kind of child abuse......... parents using and castrating their children to beg before those leftist NGOs for money........These children are just doing and saying what their parents have forced them to learn........This should be illegal
Let's take you to a new school where everyone will only know you as a boy!
Airs an NBC special about his transformation...
Yeah real hidden now!
No schools they can switch to now
Worst kind of child abuse......... parents using and castrating their children to beg before those leftist NGOs for money........These children are just doing and saying what their parents have forced them to learn........This should be illegal
They meant the kids ,and kids aren't watching BBC
I mean, did these parents think of the consequences? First, they allow their daughter to become the boy she always wanted to be, even changed schools. Then, they paraded Jacob around on the news to make sure people new that Jacob was born female. It's so counterintuitive.
There are potential consequences either way. This way they face with their kid, what he would have to face anyway.
100% agree
I think they might of done it to help other families
You don’t know what was going on at the previous school, for some reason it was better to change schools for this child. They were proud of their son and out as a trans family, this, to me, indicates the change couldn’t be successfully accomplished within the confines of the old school. To me they aren’t making sure people know Jacob was assigned a female gender at birth but that Jacob is transgender. Transgender being an identity too.
Liri 👽-"Punisher5FDP Exactly because *_she's still a girl with XX-chromosomes inside of her body + she'll never be a real true natural-born boy (just a regular tomboy going thru a phase) or a cockroach wearing a human suit pretending to be an human_* & parents like this needs to be put away ASAP!!!! because this is sick, wrong, twisted, & evil at the same time."
Kid: I want to eat nothing but candy.
Mom: Don't be silly that's bad for you.
Kid: I want to be part of a community with a 41% suicide rate.
Mom: Okay!
HAHA
@@0Snowx
That's simply not true. For the large part, Trans people are accepted (at least in America). Also, 41% is a higher rate than what was found among slaves during pre-civil war America, who were undoubtedly treated far worse than trans people are today.
@adam zarbon it's not
It's just not born in the right body
Julien Stevenson shut up transphobe
Why do you think there’s a 41% suicide rate? This child abuse does not represent the community as a whole, but people think it does, and they go after people who are actually experiencing a professionally diagnosed mental Condition.
How about taking him to a therapist and see if it helps.
Little late for that. But hold that thought when puberty comes. Or will it? Who knows any more.
Because therapists do what’s called affirmative care. That means if the child says they are a boy, you go with it and socially transition them.
@@FirstNameLastName-wt5to... Oooohhhhh! Because a child should be allowed to make life changing decisions at that age, got you. If you actually believe that, you and the therapist should be the one in therapy. SMH 🤦♂️
@@bighen636 I think you misread my comment. I said the reason to not go to a therapist is because they provide affirmative care (going along with the kid/parent). So while taking a kid to a therapist sounds like the answer, it’s the therapists who are responsible for kids transitioning. In many states, it is illegal to not provide affirmative care.
@@FirstNameLastName-wt5to... Understood, my apologies. I read it as if you were agreeing with them.
Whether or not he's going through a phase, the physical transition has not begun. It truly doesn't matter. At such a young age before puberty, the kid has time.
Your a very smart person like yassssss. Your right.
DIVERGENT!!!
+grim night you are so misinformed.
+grim night - I kinda get what you're saying & I admire your introspective effort. If you please, the piece(s) you seem to be missing from my little perspective have to do w/a non-threatening & listening environment....When folks feel permission to be their true self (or at least explore it) then we are a step closer to being honest & authentic w/ourselves & those who supposedly care for us.
- Also, I'd encourage you to express your furry behavior freely. You're not hurting yourself or anybody else & it certainly is part of the extraordinary spectrum of human behavior & awareness. Others seeing you & meeting you as your real self may help you affirm that identity, or you may find some other insight....But I certainly understand your concerns about social rejection, which is why I specifically talk about a listening & non-threatening environment.
- Best wishes to you & yours.
+coldflame It is one thing to have "furry" or "tran" feelings but it is quite another to require that everyone "accept" your different views. grim night chooses not to wear fur in public. Why can't a family have privacy instilled as well. This child's identity is not yet formed. Her parent's have made it a foregone conclusion. Sad.
OH MY
A child saying "I'm a boy" means they are transgender?
What happened world, what happened.
The news media is to blame in all this. Keep this garbage away from our children. Let them growup first
It's called sodom the end of days
Yes! I would get if you’re like 11 or older and experiencing gender dysphoria, yea. But a literal toddler? Wtf
Piers Morgan: the world's gone nuts!
imo people should wait until they're at least 21 to start transitioning surgically
wearing differently gendered clothes is one thing
How does a 5 year old decide this, they are not old enough.
When I was 5, I was thinking about my DBZ card collection and wanting to learn martial arts because of Picolo.
Go to vegeta my boy
Well clearly he knows who he is more than you do
@@StephenFromCorrie You are sick if you support a 5 year old should make that kind of decision.
@@Cyrusrm7 Just let him be happy, it's none of your business. If you don't like it then leave.
@@StephenFromCorrie hes 5 bro his brain has not developed. This is your life bro, a 5 year old shouldn't make decisions that will affect the rest of his life
This child is abused by his parents.
I am a trans boy
young people need time to find themselves
How? 3:27 “No, way too soon for that.”
@@avastars3393
And what age
Yeah no.
Year 2030
4 year old boy tells parents "I'm a spaceman" is recruited by NASA and sent on a mission to Mars. Parents surprised but happy to discover their child is an astronaut.
Not gonna happen, because job dysphoria isn't a thing. You're just making things up.
@@Zatoka. sherlock? You alive?
Not old enough to choose bed time but old enough to change gender.
I told my mom " I WAS A GRANDMA " when I was 5 .
Basically this generation *5 year old kid* "mom I want to be a doughnut" *mom* "alright we'll get you on the news and make that happen"
Casual Hardcore Gamer u r xo ri8 😂😂😂😂
Why do I think that he is right?
I worked with 5-year olds. At that age, their sense of gender and sexual identity is somewhat fluid. So are their personal boundaries. This is why they need guidance. It's called parenting. You do not let a toddler or child make major life decisions. This is absurd.
Turning that fluidity into a solid brick without considering anything else is also not helpful.
Let people crossdress, let people act feminine / masculine independent of their gender, destroy gendered names
It’s not a major life decision. At 4, they don’t need puberty blockers, hormones, or surgery yet. If they change their mind at puberty, they can revert back.
So much respect for these parents. They put away their fear and ignorance and traded it with love and knowledge so quickly and realized a happy child is the best thing, and that letting someone be a gender they weren't born as isnt an issue we need to be fighting against on this world. Happiness is all that matters.
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+WillyFrisco4ever
Wow you really have nothing to say or an actual counter argument so you just pop off the first thing that comes to your mind.
have a nice day😸
+WillyFrisco4ever
I know no one gives a shot but if these kids grow up and realize they screwed up then their most likely course of action will be suicide.
and I don't want that.
That's why I tell parents of kids like this make 100% sure this is what they want before jumping in head first.
*****
I had a very good friend who's parents were very liberal and jumped in head first to help him when he said at ten he wanted to be a girl.
But they didn't realize he was being influenced by someone else and later in life he realized he wasn't a woman and hated what he had done to himself.
How do I know this?
Cause his suicide note is still in my office desk. He was my best friend and it tears my heart out that I didn't see it sooner.
I could have been there and stopped him but I failed.
That's why I'm passionate about things like this.
Sorry if I care to much sometimes but I just don't want others to go through what I did.
Is that a bad thing?
Victoria Gibbs Instead of letting their girl do what she wants, they want to cripple her with hormones. These parents are not tolerant, they are criminals
When I was five I believed I could fly like in the cartoons BUT I never jumped off the roof to test that.
Worst kind of child abuse......... parents using and castrating their children to beg before those leftist NGOs for money........These children are just doing and saying what their parents have forced them to learn........This should be illegal
You never did?
My kid wants to be the Hulk so I'm gonna get him tattooed green and put him on enough steroids to make baseball players look like there taking pez and call everyone hulkphobic if they question my parenting!
Honestly that was pretty funny
it's you're not your! And the Hulk is a comic book character that doesn't exist not another species, you idiot! Lmao!!! and you might change the way you look, but you're still what you were when you were born
Ignorance is an ugly disease.
Daniel Bryer I agree, someone trying to be something they are not is pretty ignorant!
SamuraiChris78 Learn what ignorant meana
Be like chinese people; make your children worry about math before they worry about their gender.
Children self-identify by gender at a very young age. As early as two or three long before most of them can count let alone worry about math.
Sam Adams the mentality that all that matters in happiness is ignorant, also God does not make mistakes the mistake is these parents not sticking their foot in the way and explaining to their child that changing is simply a wrong decision and that changing is disobeying god which is hypocritical that he said " why did God make me wrong?" These parents need to learn facts about the Bible.
Dead Heart God made you they're parents him and me
+Erich Durst - yep put their foot down and when the kid commits suicide the parents can put their hand on their heart and say that they took your advice and forced their son to pretend to be a girl.
This is not the result of their upbringing. It's simply a fact.
One question - why should the parents learn facts about the bible? Why not the Vedas? Or the Upanishads?
And if "god does not make mistakes" this boy is exactly what god wanted him to be.
Sam Adams exactly, a GIRL (as God intended) who likes things and fassions typically marketed to BOYS. Nothing wrong with that. Doesn't make her a boy. 4 or 5 years is too young to be pushing gender roles regardless.
I don't think the parents should say "You're trans" to a 5 year old, I don't think they should say "You can't have that cuz it's for boys" I just think they should support the kid until the kid grows up and figures out how they really are
They aren't saying "you're trans"
They're accepting him for them he is
@@Flightkitten That doesn't make any sense.
These parents are horrible.. She can't even make her own decisions! This hurts me so much
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@@avastars3393 she is a 5 year old child and dosent even have a fully devoloped brain yet, I don't care about your pronouns
@@Joseph-mx1ky see it doesnt matter as long as the child is happy. So HE deserves to live a happy life
@@avastars3393 Well SHE doesn't even know what a happy life is. She can't even add basic numbers together. I hope you're mental brain capacity for knowledge is okay. SHE IS FIVE. 5. tell me, how much did you know about life, gender and race when you were in kindergarten?
Skippy I think he knows better what makes him happy and comfortable than you do. So please respect that and call him by his pronouns. Doesn’t matter if he doesn’t see himself as a boy in a few years but right know it makes him happy so please respect that.
When I was 5, all I was worried about was getting my Daily Dose of Dora The Explorer
Lmao 🤣 🤣 🤣
I used to do this lol I used to play with dinosaurs dress like a boy and I called myself Lee 😂 grew out of it though
Eggslut C.C same 😂 i wouldn't go all out and consider myself a transgender though
Thank God your parents didn't sign you up for gender reassignment surgery I M M E D I A T E LY
These people seem to believe cookie cutter ideas. I played with what is deemed as " boy toys " dressed in jeans no dresses, it didn't make me less of a GIRL. These parents are allowing confusion into the home. Loved the dinosaurs too! :)
GO Life Channel it wasn't just dinosaurs I just had a loove for them I thought they were cool i liked cars, and toy guns also
Eggslut C.C exactly! She’ll regret this later on in life 100%
as long as these parents arent giving this child hormones i think its okay to let them be happy right now dressing up as a boy. they could change their mind as they get older
True - somewhere along the line they'll have to consider hormone blockers but all those will do is delay puberty. Completely reversible - stop taking them and puberty restarts. That gives him (as well as his parents and his team of doctors) additional time (years actually) to decide how to proceed.
It would not be an appropriate age at all to prescribe hormone therapy for this boy. That happens in adolescence where pubertal developmental occurs. And he is choosing to dress as a boy because he is a boy. Simple as that.
Nobody is pushing hormones on this boy. He's simply being allowed to live his own life. Hormone blockers won't be prescribed until he nears puberty and cross sex hormones won't be administered until he's somewhere in his teens. And then only if he (and his parents and the team of doctors that will have been monitoring him all along) is in agreement
Exactly. Just let the child be happy. Isnt the pursuit of happiness our main purpose in life? You dont have to conform to any societal stereotypes on haircut dress code etc on child that young. Just let them be. No harm done. When they are older they can see where they are at.
Its unlikely, but that another reason why medical professionals never approve hormones for children before the typical puberty age.
Kids are so impressionable. For eons, we've taught them everything they know.
And now we’re teaching them they can be a different gender. Do you know how confused and uncomfortable the child will be growing up with female puberty? Are they going to mutilate the child and prevent puberty? I fear for our children
This kid clearly doesn’t understand the full concept of “transgender” these parents shouldn’t have done this whole trans mode on this child
Why do all the parents of transgender children seem to repeating the same thing lol
Because they say they're sending their child to therapy, however it seems like they're all going to therapy to because they do repeat the same thing.
Because trans kids this young show the same signs
The MSM is not going to air stories of kids who don't "transition" and grow out of it as many do.
They probably got the same idea from the same set of UN psychologists and their pseudo-science research papers. (Btw these people contradict each other and their egos for a living)
Good grief, what happened in the course of a decade where this is now acceptable.
It's brain washing. That's what it is.
This is borderline child abuse. It's okay for someone to act differently when they're young. When I was little, I climbed trees and dug in the dirt and hated dresses. I'm so glad my parents told me I was a girl, because they were right. This child is confused. This is a permanent decision, and this isn't right.
When I was 5, all I care about is play outside in the playground and play with toys. I didn’t even thought what was my gender even was, I just wanted to play with toys, watch cartoons and just have fun with imaginations
@@darkstrike1060 Yeah. That one doctor who was like "You know your gender at 3 or 4" doesn't know what she's talking about.
Worst kind of child abuse......... parents using and castrating their children to beg before those leftist NGOs for money........These children are just doing and saying what their parents have forced them to learn........This should be illegal
I mean, it’s not really abuse. Yeah, you may have families who do this to their kids for popularity, but some children genuinely experience this. It’s not something we can control, it’s something we’re practically born with.
Then again, that kid can barely make proper decisions yk
I love how almost every negative comment says theyre letting a 5 year old get surgery and be on hormones when the parents and the news story explicitly said mulitple times that this child is NOT undergoing medical treatment to transition.
WolfgangFTM yea all these transphobic people are idiots
Guess they’re terrible listeners.
All memes aside, this is child abuse.
Probably the most clear example of Munchausen by Proxy
No it’s not. If it was, the doctor wouldn’t comply with their request.
@@excuseyou7198 if they don’t they will lose their jobs as not complying is considered conversion therapy.
....5 year olds don't understand gender, and this kid is the product of his parent's permissiveness and overindulgence
+Dead Heart
If you really think that and that this is right your heart isn't the only thing that is dead. Too bad there is brain surgery for people like you.
jethro035181 I know. I said i wanted to be a girl. I played with dolls and played dress-up and put on make up. My dad never gave in to the thought i was transgender. It was a phase. it lasted until i was 5. I know my place. I was born male. Im glad im male. And its who i am. No changing that
You couldn't be more wrong, young kids can still experience gender dysphoria.
So it's the parent's job to bring them back to reality.
so your telling me my cousin of 5 doesn't know if I'm a boy or a grl because I'm just saying ifthey can chose the toys they want pick out a pretty pink shirt I'm pretty sur they knowif they wanna wear something else and everyone is like omg they are hurting her (him) no they aren't its honestly a hair cut and boy clothes if he wanted to wear girl chothes the next day it would onestly be possible for it to happen in a snap
When I was 5 I thought I could turn into a tornado
LMFAO
Ninjago vibes
Taz from looney tunes
the parents are totally neurotic and unhinged. this doctor is a real piece of work.
liberalism is destroying society.
He’s having a good time, he’s not getting any medical procedures bro everyone needs to relax he has so much time to change his mind
I think the problem is that when you encourage a young child that you something they are not they start to believe it. Kids believe anything. Nobody cares if you are trans but kids don’t know what they want.
Jdjdnxb 201 im sure it was hard for the parents to come to turns with saying that, plus kids really do whatever they want so if he wanted to stop doing certain things he would do it, again having lots of time and opportunities to change his mind
Hèracles Pirena children’s ideologies and beliefs and upbringings should revolve around what gender they are. It doesn’t matter how he identifies because identifying as male is simply allowing the world to perceive you in that way, it’s what an identity is. The only person who would actually be effected if he detransitioned before he started any hormone blockers or testosterone are the people around him due to the name change and such. He shouldn’t be treated differently and have different opportunities based on the gender he is, he should be given those opportunities and such based on his merit and skill as a person in the community. TLDR; his gender doesn’t define the opportunities he gets in life therefore his identifying as a boy before he does anything permanent, such as hormones or surgery, isn’t at all permanent to him and couldn’t scar him in any way.
@@kendraa8289 It wasn’t hard for HER parents to stop being parents. But it will be hard for HER to live with the fact that her parents failed her because they decided they wanted to be virtue signalers instead of strong, loving parents. The father disgusts me.
My daughter wanted to be Santa when she grew up. According to these parents logic I should have fed her cookies and dressed her in red. And added hormones for a beard... 🤪
Worst kind of child abuse......... parents using and castrating their children to beg before those leftist NGOs for money........These children are just doing and saying what their parents have forced them to learn........This should be illegal
Anybody else just scrolling through the comments, looking to start a fight?
Yea basically
I cannot find a worthy opponent
Yeah I love taking down transphobes
@@Matthewgb204 The only thing you took down was your imaginary enemies.
@@scrapedpaint7456 imaginary?
I'm a Christian so I don't agree with this, but the person should know that the person is loved, rather than being shut out.
So you don't hate transgenders?
I dont truly hate anybody
@@mayceehufstedler3287 ok thanks
@@strangelittlegirl yes, I do believe everything in bible, as it says that men should not act or dress as women (Lev. 18:22, Rom. 1:18-32, Deut. 22:5). I definitely don't have a problem with anybody as I know that my God is not a God of hate, He is a God of love. In the end I am trying to help, because as a Christian I know that when judgment day comes the truth is God will say to some part with me as I never knew you.
@@strangelittlegirl Why are you upset? He doesn't have a problem with anything he just thinks it's wrong.
she's 5, holyyyyy 😖 This is getting beyond crazy.
“He’s”
No he’s 5
she
@@TheC.O.-VISIT he*
look. right now this child says he is a boy. so call him a boy and talk about him like one. if he decides this didn't suit him either and says he is a girl, THEN talk about him as such. (that IS possible, you know. he's only transitioning socially at this age. if he turns out to be a girl after all it's only a matter of changing haircut, name, and wardrobe, and perhaps schools.)
We need to protect our children from this.
90sdance Moves I have a transgender friend and she is fine and happier with herself after her transition. You can chose who you want to be in life. It is something you can’t escape. You are born with it. There is nothing bad about it.
Yes
@@Maru-pp7pl As a 5 year old, you don't know the difference between genders, you only know there's male and female. It's clearly the parents forcing it on their children to be presented as “heroes“ by the media.
@@Maru-pp7pl but it's not ok for. A child tbh
I'm trans myself
i had a imaginary friend was I schizophrenic
Karen Bolton I like this analogy.
It depends on whether or not you acknowledged that it wasn't real or not.
Really Good, gullies is it really you?
Really Good, *gilbird
Stick of Butter you noticed
now... his parents are allowing him to live as the gender he is/"wants to be", they are not giving him hormones or even changing his sex with surgery (hes 5, that isnt even legal). However, even if it turns out to have been a phase, he will have been happy in his childhood and thats what matters. If his parents decide to give him puberty blockers later on, that only stops puberty, it doesnt affect anything else and it is completely reversible. Experiencing gender dysphoria and not being able to be who you want to be as a child can have seriously bad influence on your future as far as mental health goes. So please shut up about him being "too young"
When I was 5 I wanted to be a T-Rex.
I tried to go Super Saiyan when I was 5
i was defeating evil villains with the power rangers when i was 4 get on my level
*reads title*
**cringes so hard my face implodes**
Why though. He's happier this way, and that's what matters! I wanna know why you're against it honestly
@@Nyabot-mh2zi the kid is 5. At 5 you literally and I mean literally take nothing seriously.
@@ProjectCarthage2004 Hmh, but if a child says they identify as their assigned gender they're not to young?
@@EyelessJeff6 dude. The 5 yo kid suddenly decided to be a girl. The kid doesn't know even how to run, let alone know what it's like to change genders
@@Nyabot-mh2zi *She* He's still in elementary school, *she* barely knows what's up and what's down. Let *her* grow up to an age where *she* can make thorough decisions, before throwing a *her* into something *she* may regret later.
She's 5. She can't comprehend the idea of numbers over 100. I couldn't, and I see so many other 5 year olds with the exact same thing. She has to be a teenager to make this decision when she knows the area of a 12 x 12 square
Sadly i just read about a 4 year old trans child. They are just to young
He's*
@@ASSDESTROYERS She's*
@@sirreality5145 how is he a she? Are you blind
@@ASSDESTROYERS A little bit
When I was five I didn't even know what a gender was
& now five year olds are victims of a gender agenda
@theaterkid yes
When I was 5 years old I thought the ATM is where money is made.
SAME LOL
When I was 5 years old I thought that when someone got married a baby would pop up
That 'doctor' needs to be disbarred.
This 'comment' needs to be deleted
and castrated
This is sad, I keep wondering how much using internet devices has affected these children's confusion.
He is 5 how the hell does he know?
thaJagman1971 Damn Sesame Workshop.
The chosen 1 It's amazing that a 5 year old can walk. Or talk. Or eat. How the hell does he know? Most persons that identify as transgender very young ARE going through a phase. This is known as being gender fluid. This is why the kids are not pumped for of hormones when they are 8. A lot of this is wait and see but for a lot it is pretty clear
Peter Katz sesame work shop???
Peter Katz I don't think its too clear, more like mottled and confused.
I wanna be a fish named Geoffrey
Good luck.
I wanna be rich!
donohuek11 I want to be a bow tie named Caroline
Wait wouldn't you rather be a fish called Wonder?
Deex Bow ties are cool *tightens bow tie*
What can I do to make you achieve your dreams of being a fish?
I absolutely am speechless!! Smh what is this world coming to?
When i was 5, i thought cars were sentient.
Knight Rider, the shadowy flight of a man who doesn't exist.
When I was 5 I thought spongebob actually lived in a pineapple 🍍
Pablo Michel wait, he doesn’t?
"a mother's heart knows when their child is suffering"
s0 does my mom not havE a heart??
Maybe
No it just means she knows your faking your depression
are you ok?
@@theplaystationcriminal995 for gods sake dude just leave him alone
These parents and doctors should be in prison for child abuse.
A 5 year old doesn't know anything
Well they clearly do
Dead inside lol no they dont
@@getschooledboi7538 well 5 year olds know what their genders are when they're cis and they know their genders if they're trans
@@CBToxicGossipTrain you sound fricken stupid
@@carlosh6848 You must be talking to a mirror
I'm just glad they're not putting him/her on supplements and procedure. IF it turns out to be a phase, then he/she can easily go back.
Plus he's too young.
People typically can’t legally can’t put any child on hormones until they’re 16
well yeah you can’t experience male puberty at 5 and there’s nothing to get top surgery on
HE
When I was 5 I wanted to be white, I hated my dark skin. If being "transracial" was a thing I might've actually been pushed to that. I'm 18 now and I'm happy with myself, because the option of even transitioning never crossed my mind. I immediately disregarded it because I knew it was impossible. These kids are told being transgender is a thing, and they see it as an actual viable option, which is why they actually transition. Think about that.
a dank lord which means they got to do the change you didn’t get to, it isn’t anything bad to change, and not everyone ends happy without the change.
There's no way her as a 5 year old made the intelligent and wise decision to become a boy. Like, the parents should have not taken it so seriously. I'm not transphobic, I just don't agree with it. Please don't hate me for my opinion
To parents:you should've sent "her" to a phycologist, ounce she had the thought of becoming a boy
Waffle Falafel him*
mikael englund gender identity/gender dysphoria disagrees with your stupid statement
Gender dysphoria is a medical diagnosis. So shut up ignorant swine lmfao
This is just ridiculous! If a kid says I feel like killing myself, do you just shut up and let him do it? This is stupidity at it's peak. Why would you allow a boy tell you that he is a girl or vice versa? Clearly there's something off, he needs help and the sooner you get him that help, the better. Stop this nonsense!
You're just being suicidephobic you bigot.
When I was 5, I thought 1+1 was 3.
I want these parents. anything I ask for, I’ll get.
U want to be spoiled?
eh sometimes its good not to always get what you want spoiled kids are something else but i def agree you should always love and support your children
You want to be spoilt your so ungrateful here is your clown license th-cam.com/video/yevSUv6ujEs/w-d-xo.html
These are the parents that everyone wants
@@Mit2uba.
I think he was being sarcastic
this should be 100% ILLEGAL! I thought i wanted to be a girl, but I was wrong! You are way to young to make this decision.
U can never be too young to decide
How should this be illegal? If someone's happy, nothing should change. You're never too young to make this type of decision.
fnafbonnie21 0 Yes you can, you can’t make a decision at 2!
When I was 5 I thought Beyonce was my secret sister
When I was 5 I still thought my parents’ names were “mom” and “dad.”
You really just can’t make good decisions for yourself this young… shame on these parents.
That is the most pathetic comparison ever.
@@pennywisethedancingclown7835 Regardless of comparison, Max is dead on; you haven't had the experience at five years old to make good decisions.
Something is going on with that mother or father. You’re bringing that into your home at that age. They are getting those ideas from somewhere, and it isn’t from themselves. Mia is not a boy, and never will be.
Agreed
The parents should be brought up on child abuse charges.
What have they done to them? Just cut their hair short and live as a boy? Jacob has had no medical intervention whatsoever to permanently affect them. If their Dysphoria subsides by Puberty, they can just go back to living as a girl.
Yep they should go on child abuse charges, correct
The parents took the kid to a doctor and listened to medical professional advice.
That doctor is a doughnut.
Lastrevio oh and doctors are all knowing aren’t they. Come on get a grip. Some of the most deplorable people I know r doctors.
My goodness what is wrong with the parents these children. This world is falling apart without Jesus Christ.
I love girls and boys 💓
This is insane
@ew ew ew "Happy"
@ew ew ew If you give your children everything they want, which could make them "happy" in the moment, then you're quite irresponsible as a parent.
You should act in their best interest, not in favor of pointless wishes that they'll most likely regret later in life.
@ew ew ew lol please...
When I was 5 I used to dress liked a girl, or watch tv shows/movies mostly girls watched (That, I still do actually).
Here I am almost 20 years later, feeling more like a dude than ever.
I also wanted to be Spiderman, do you think I grew up depressed because I couldn't be Spiderman? No, I grew up.
My point is, the child is FIVE, how could you know how he's gonna feel in 8-10 years when he reaches puberty? It's most likely going to change. Just like every kid ever
Besides he/she's not old/wise enough to make such a life changing decision.
The parents put that on him, didn't choose by himself
When I was five, I thought you could live for over 1000 years, keep growing, and be over 100 feet tall lol
What are you going to do when he starts his menstrual cycle?
Puberty blockers
Hormone blockers
@@izzysavage4634 you are sick
@@very7962 How am I sick for suggesting a medical treatment that has been proven to work. Not only have they been proven to work, but they have no permanent effect. If the kid finds out they arent actually trans, they can get off of puberty blockers.
@@izzysavage4634 You can artificially suspend someone's natural development and not have any adverse reaction? I don't believe it.
When I was 5 I thought I was a Jedi. Would even practice staring at objects for hours in order to try and move them with my mind. Eventually I realized I was wrong and learned to make peace with the disappointment.
This is so disturbing in every way possible. I'm a mother of 5 year old, a 5 year old is so innocent, anything you tell them they will listen and believe. This is wrong, the parents themselves are sick. This is child abuse, destroying the innocent kid's life, future.