i am hiv positive (and no i can't transmit it) // coming out

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  • Hey everyone! Short and sweet, my name is Diana and I was born with HIV.
    I just turned 25, was born and raised in California, and have been living in Germany for a while now.
    This is just my 'coming out' video, and the first of many where I will talk about what it was like growing up with HIV. My goal is to stop the stigma around HIV by sharing my story, my experiences, and by educating HIV negative people in a fun way. I also want to share my tips and tricks of what I've learned like the big one being, how to tell someone. If I can just help one person, then I feel like I've done my job :)
    I want to have fun doing this so please send me any cool ideas! I'm open to it all.
    Hope you can join for the journey ;D !
    Just wanted to send a major shout out to all my friends, family, and doctors for their continuous support, love, and motivation. Without you I wouldn't be where I am today. Thanks again for the endless support :)

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  • @olddirtyfuzz3963
    @olddirtyfuzz3963 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +563

    My wife is HIV positive and has been for over 30 years. Also from California. She has been undetectable for over 20 years. I am HIV negative. Her HIV status doesn’t bother me in the least. Unfortunately she doesn’t share your positivity toward having HIV. It still depresses her even though I try to explain to her that it doesn’t change who she is. The stigma of HIV is worse than the virus in my opinion. I’m so happy that you are able to show the positive attitude, as you should!! I wish my wife was able to make the same video. I think “coming out” would show her that people would show nothing but love and support. God bless you!!

    • @myyoutubechannel3161
      @myyoutubechannel3161 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What test can one take to know ? I know there are multiple test, i know of the 4th generation test duo,

    • @reaganrwaka8827
      @reaganrwaka8827 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      U did great to mention God in the end ,tell your wife that Jesus Christ can heal her ,and if he doesn't heal her he loves her ,the only way to deal with HIV is to take your medicine while praying to Jesus Christ to help you endure it ,and give her his peace a peace that the world cannot comprehend

    • @youtubeuser7267
      @youtubeuser7267 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      What a good spirit you have. You have inspired a lot of people I believe

    • @ChrisChris-yr2mq
      @ChrisChris-yr2mq 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Did you know your wife was HIV before dating her? Or did she get HIV during you guys marriage?

    • @olddirtyfuzz3963
      @olddirtyfuzz3963 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

      @@ChrisChris-yr2mq she told me when we were dating. It was definitely harder for her to tell me than it was for me to hear it. She was diagnosed in 1990. We were married in 2011. Unfortunately for her, she contracted it during a time when people were terrified of it and she was told she wouldn’t live 5 years. After she told me she had it, it didn’t change how I felt about her at all. It only motivated me to educate myself on the topic. I think I know more about it than her. lol. She’s very healthy and continues to live undetectable, but the stigma is still there and that’s the hard part. If everyone was educated about it, it would make things much easier!!

  • @rameshjagaswaren8928
    @rameshjagaswaren8928 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +77

    Just found out I'm HIV negative today after doing confirmatory test...One month ago I was initially misdiagnosed being positive at another healthcare provider. I genuinely understand the mental agony of it and I truly salute people who are living and staying positive with HIV...God bless.

    • @islandknight6105
      @islandknight6105 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You’re very lucky. False positives are extremely rare. I would not trust that lab for any other type of test.

    • @user-sq8ve1bl7z
      @user-sq8ve1bl7z 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hello

    • @luciamagallanes4279
      @luciamagallanes4279 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Question did u just retake all tests

  • @susiekim5728
    @susiekim5728 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +298

    You have to tell your partner before sex. Your partner has the right to know. It doesn’t matter how you feel.

    • @MegaRyan123456
      @MegaRyan123456 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      There is allways one
      Everyone knows mate
      Don't be a gronk

    • @Tazza19931
      @Tazza19931 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      Your statement is undeniably true, but also very obvious. I am sure she knows.

    • @user-cw4dm5qc1w
      @user-cw4dm5qc1w 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I mean...duh.

    • @theRPGmaster
      @theRPGmaster 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +63

      @@Tazza19931 Nope. She tried to defend hiding it. People like that belong in prison.

    • @Tazza19931
      @Tazza19931 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@theRPGmaster Ah, did she? I didn't know that.

  • @FiveMCity
    @FiveMCity 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +527

    If you have HIV, tell your partner before sleeping with them, it’s selfish not to. They’re a human being and deserve, at the very least make the decision to or not. That’s something you don’t forget to do.

    • @excusemehello5904
      @excusemehello5904 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      Why would you if you can't make them sick anyways?

    • @stacialid1663
      @stacialid1663 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@excusemehello5904such low probability may exist. It is a life threatening disease not just a chronic condition

    • @FiveMCity
      @FiveMCity 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +163

      @@excusemehello5904 because that’s the human thing to do? So you’re saying as long as a person isn’t caught, it’s okay to deceive your partner, right?

    • @excusemehello5904
      @excusemehello5904 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      @@FiveMCity you don't get it. As long as an HIV + person takes meds, they can't make their sex partner sick.

    • @rigl5496
      @rigl5496 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +136

      @@excusemehello5904 It`s not about the medical condition, its about honesty.

  • @SpiritDonkey
    @SpiritDonkey 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +734

    Please don’t shame people that aren’t comfortable dating someone who has HIV/AIDS. In this world, we have one life to live and there is NO CURE for this disease. It is still a serious illness and an expensive illness to manage.

    • @davidpowers9178
      @davidpowers9178 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +82

      Yup trying to pawn off the blame for a lot of people being promiscuous.

    • @ba8898
      @ba8898 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +85

      It's a serious illness, but an HIV-positive person cannot transmit the disease if his/her viral load is undetectable due to treatment. HIV treatment has come a very long way. I have a different chronic condition, type 1 diabetes, but I'd say that HIV is now the easier-to-manage illness out of the two.

    • @Heather-cc7wv
      @Heather-cc7wv 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ignorant comment

    • @sethaldrich6902
      @sethaldrich6902 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

      @@ba8898 its still an if and the results are only a snapshot of that day, tomorrow the results could be positive. Diabetes easier if you stick to ketogenic and intermittent fasting diet with daily exercise and sleep. You won't have to take a much body damaging insulin. I say this having managed it for a long time.

    • @PrettyNerdTingz
      @PrettyNerdTingz 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@sethaldrich6902that’s false and you’re spreading misinformation about how it works. Stigmatizing it incorrectly is why diseases spread in the first place.

  • @RastaAfricanGentleman
    @RastaAfricanGentleman 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +53

    ❤ My two female cousins also went through the same journey as you. Both born HIV+ and have been healthy ever since as one is married with a HIV- husband with a HIV- child, the other is successful in her chemical engineering job. Ages 26 and 30. People need more stories like this

    • @nicolemariee7940
      @nicolemariee7940 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wait what the whole family has hiv?!

    • @RastaAfricanGentleman
      @RastaAfricanGentleman 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@nicolemariee7940 nope only the sisters have. The family is negative. One positive is married and her family is negative.

    • @ottodavids7943
      @ottodavids7943 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Nice ​@@RastaAfricanGentlemanI'm a positive man from Africa could you link me up with your cousin who's not married been searching so hard for a partner.

  • @Chinchilla56
    @Chinchilla56 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +120

    I nursed HIV positive patients here in Australia during the 1980s and onwards. It was a scary time and it was a death sentence back then, thank goodness it isn't a death sentence these days. ❤xx

  • @Famouzlastwrds
    @Famouzlastwrds 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +67

    It's not a death sentence. You are beautiful and still have a beautiful life ahead of you ❤

    • @whiteknob7944
      @whiteknob7944 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      It IS a death sentence. Treatment isn’t cheap.

    • @chico9687
      @chico9687 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@whiteknob7944treatment is free

    • @TruFilmProductions
      @TruFilmProductions 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It is if you can't afford the meds or if it becomes unavailable in the future.

    • @N3omega
      @N3omega 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Dude, I try so hard for these types of people. I think it’s due to corruption in the system still why they can’t get what they want. I think long and hard for them why they can’t get what they want. I really do. Guys she should just give people hiv dude you don’t even go to prison for it anymore and its so much money on TOR because of these pharma drug kidnappings (antipsychotics uck) have you guys ever seen them? They literally don’t even know they’re in the hospital. I don’t know how people get away with this legally but my family tried making software for Defense for the French and they still do it. That’s why you don’t go to prison anymore. If you give someone HIV you just go to a psych ward I bet you just go to a psych ward I mean I have to look it up again. I just wanna know why people still get kidnapped from their homes or property to go to a hospital and get drugged against their will it’s not a law I’ve been looking into it so that’s how I know you you guys could give people HIV and not worry about prison

    • @Kite166
      @Kite166 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@TruFilmProductionsthat's the same thing with food and any other necessities. One day you might not be able to find food

  • @zombiegeekboy
    @zombiegeekboy 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    I actually worked on the HIV/AIDS hotline when it first came out. At that time magic Johnson first came out and told people it wasn’t a “gay” disease. There was so much fear then, and I’m really happy you are making this video. I lost a lot of friends to it, and it’s so wonderful that it’s not the same as it once was. I wish I could give you a hug.

  • @hextorcampis6113
    @hextorcampis6113 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +255

    People should go to jail for not telling their sexual partner they have hiv or any other std before having sex with them.

    • @eatnplaytoday
      @eatnplaytoday 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      It used to be a felony actually. But now it’s just a charge/fine. But the victim has to prove that transmission was intentional by the HIV positive person. Most victims don’t want any more attention to their condition.

    • @a.d.4536
      @a.d.4536 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@eatnplaytodaythat’s disturbing. Tue victim is not the one with HIV its the one who got it from the deceiver

    • @visas_y_viajes
      @visas_y_viajes 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Why you have to tell them? You are not forced to tell anyone your privacy. Take the medicine as yoi have to, and that is all.

    • @Biochemistry-Debunks-Corona
      @Biochemistry-Debunks-Corona 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@visas_y_viajes * *psssst* * the "Medicine" IS the disease

    • @Ben-xc3rw
      @Ben-xc3rw 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +84

      @@visas_y_viajes Because informed consent is important. Many people would not want to have sex with a HIV positive person, regardless of whether they are on medication or not. And it is misleading and manipulative to withhold that information.

  • @crimegeek
    @crimegeek 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Amazing! Glad you made this video for people to stop having such a stigma. Randomly came up on my algorithm and everyone needs to hear this. Have a long blessed life dear

  • @EmmanuelMotelin
    @EmmanuelMotelin 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    I wouldn’t risk it but, I respect you for coming out!

    • @dianakoss2686
      @dianakoss2686  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      totally respect your decision too!

  • @ramnikagarwal8035
    @ramnikagarwal8035 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The way you express yourself in front of the world and live your life is really appreciated 💗 God bless you Diana ✨

  • @knitbelove
    @knitbelove 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Fabulous Diana!! I love how you speak on camera and your editing skills are great :) As someone living with a poorly-researched health condition (and as a woman, no less), having a condition makes you a special kind of expert on it, especially when you've lived it for so long. Very eager to see more from you!

    • @dianakoss2686
      @dianakoss2686  3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thanks Sarah!! Speaking on camera alone in the room is so strange but I’m trying to spread the message :) happy that you’ll be watching!

  • @Evan.280
    @Evan.280 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +118

    had no idea hiv could be undetected and untransmittable, glad to know you're doing well and can thrive despite it!

    • @Anonymouse166
      @Anonymouse166 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      Yes, and statistically sex with an undetectable is much safer than with someone who never got tested and just assumes they’re negative.

    • @reardelt
      @reardelt 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      There has been several breakthroughs in HIV research and there is an anti-viral drug that can virtually kill it

    • @abjectmadness1111
      @abjectmadness1111 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Anonymouse166really? Wow that’s interesting

    • @sanaishere18
      @sanaishere18 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Tbf there’s so much misinformation about HIV and a lot of the advances aren’t spoken about. I think speaking about these things and being open about it will help more people in the long run.

    • @melchysomba9690
      @melchysomba9690 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Me too
      First time I'm hearing it

  • @Mamaratchet
    @Mamaratchet 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Thank you Diana- I don’t have HIV or AIDS but You are very up front to tell it which was easy to understand and you are also compassionate and full of love- i am one of those people who do sometimes have a preconceived idea of someone and you really changed my mind- you are human and look just like us- stay strong W content ❤

  • @jankicheese
    @jankicheese 3 ปีที่แล้ว +222

    You’re awesome, Diana. As a medical student I thought I knew a lot about HIV, but your story makes me realize I have so much to learn. I can't even imagine what it was like for you holding this in for so long! It's a privilege to hear your story. I'm so proud of you!!

    • @dianakoss2686
      @dianakoss2686  3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Janki the future doctor ;) get ready to learn a lot more about it :P

    • @user-vd6oc2gu5z
      @user-vd6oc2gu5z 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dianakoss2686 are you cured now?

    • @cvayyart3963
      @cvayyart3963 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@user-vd6oc2gu5z How can I keep calm after Dr Abiola on TH-cam helped me beat HIV virus .......

    • @sherrysimpson9536
      @sherrysimpson9536 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Toni-iw2ql th-cam.com/channels/Eb0CljXb94xP7L-EWPO0QA.html

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      @laviciussnell ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @deepakdwivedi3319
    @deepakdwivedi3319 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You are super strong Diana. Happy to see you speak out about HIV, irrespective of what the world would think of you. More power to you Diana!! :)

  • @beatrizlourenco2482
    @beatrizlourenco2482 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Hello Diana! Thank you so much for this video, there exist such unnecessary stigma around STDs!! I can not even imagine how many people this video has helped!! You should be extremely proud for posting this video :)

  • @Divakaran_Varatharajan
    @Divakaran_Varatharajan 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I can see there is a lot of pain inside you but yet you reveal it out bold and with a cute smile on your face. Hats off for you guts Diana😇

  • @MermaidKerri
    @MermaidKerri 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Thank you for having the courage to tell your story and putting great factual information out there!

  • @serenachang9377
    @serenachang9377 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    U=U r amazing!!! I've never commented on TH-cam but I guess this was what I've been saving myself for (first time, so nervous 😬). In all seriousness, I'm so proud of you, what you are doing takes a lot of courage and strength, and I am so excited to follow your journey!

    • @dianakoss2686
      @dianakoss2686  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Nailing the jokes 😂👏keep em coming. Thanks Serena, lucky to have you :)

    • @cvayyart3963
      @cvayyart3963 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      How can I keep calm after Dr Abiola on TH-cam helped me beat HIV virus .............

  • @sdoren_9074
    @sdoren_9074 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    This was really informative for me. As an 80's baby, I have been a victim of the stigmas and stereotypes. I had no idea that undetectable means untransmittable. This was a real eye opener 👍 Very informative.

  • @dupre5338
    @dupre5338 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you for sharing! You're a beautiful soul, educating people, dispelling myths, and empowering others. You're are amazing light to the world :)

    • @dianakoss2686
      @dianakoss2686  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      These are incredibly kind words, I take them to heart thank you :) and it takes one to know one 💕

  • @ariannamussobarcucci2454
    @ariannamussobarcucci2454 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Great video Diana! Already in this short video I learnt a lot about this topic that I did not know before!! I am looking forward to the next videos to keep learning about it! Thank you for sharing :)

    • @dianakoss2686
      @dianakoss2686  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Woo that's great Arianna!! Hope you will continue to learn interesting stuff from the future ones :)

  • @anthonymeetsastranger
    @anthonymeetsastranger 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    You are awesome Diana!! Excited for what's to come for you :)

    • @dianakoss2686
      @dianakoss2686  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks Anthony!! Let's see what happens :D

  • @Greksallad
    @Greksallad 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you for this interesting and enlightening video! I'm sorry this is something you have had to deal with but I'm really glad you've never let it hold you back. Best wishes to you from Sweden 🇸🇪

  • @Jason-TheChad-Muska_circa1995
    @Jason-TheChad-Muska_circa1995 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    One of my oldest friends is HIV positive and has been since we were teenagers. The progression of and the breakthrough treatments we have seen over the last 20 years is incredible and a literal lifesaver. There was a time period that we weren't sure he was going to make it. Thankfully he's healthy as a horse and loving life. I do want to elaborate on something you said. You said that those who aren't showing a viral load cannot transmit HIV. That is not completely true. First off I don't particularly like that statement because I think it's a dangerous outlook and I'll explain why. Those who are HIV positive and have that mindset could start having unprotected sex over and over and over again because they believe can't transmit it. Though it's incredibly rare, The fact of the matter is it can occasionally happen. It can be a complete anomaly or your body could potentially stop reacting to the medication and the way that it once did and slightly raising your viral load but could happen in between your checkup testing and of course would end up not being known to you and through that you can end up passing on HIV. Again highly unlikely and a near certainty that it won't but remember and near certainty isn't certainty. So I do still think that those who HAV positives should continue to practice safe sex and being honest with their partners about it.
    I want to make clear that I don't judge you nor would I unless under one circumstance and I'll explain that later. If I met you and we had a true connection then this would not stop me from wanting to date you and get to know you. Nor would it stop me from being sexually active with you. But I am a willing participant at that point because you've been honest and made it clear to me. However everybody should have that same choice. You said that "people with HIV make mistakes and forget to tell people". That is absolutely and absurd statement that honestly makes me question whether or not you're a good unless I took that out of context and miss interpreted what you said in and if I did then I Truly apologize and I'll admit that I was wrong. Aside from being under the influence to the point where you are not aware of your surroundings and end up getting in the heat of the moment Then there is no excuse whatsoever for not telling your partner before interacting with them sexually. There's no way that a sober individual forgets that unless they just simply don't care about people. I was talking to this about my friend a few months back. Keep in mind he's had HIV for 20 years now and there hasn't been a single time in which telling somebody slipped his mind. Oh and if somebody claimed to forget while sober then I would lean towards them not being honest with you and instead just being selfish and not wanting to admit that they didn't want to feel embarrassed or didn't want to get into the conversation and was simply horny and hadn't had some in a while so decided not to say anything. Anybody who does that is a horrible person. Nobody should have that choice taken from them. Again for me it wouldn't make any difference. As long as you're a good person and you have no viral load and it's not going to stop me from interacting with you or looking at you any differently. But the truth of the matter is not everybody looks at it the way I do. You cannot lose sight of that. All that aside I think you are incredibly brave for making this video and I admire you for that as well as respect you and I hope that you have a wonderful life full of joy and love. God bless.

    • @theRPGmaster
      @theRPGmaster 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Yeah this video and her attitude rubbed me the wrong way. Sounds arrogant and selfish. It's disgraceful to put others in danger, even if it's not a big risk (she also said knowingly hiding it is a "simple mistake").

  • @angelacosta466
    @angelacosta466 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +215

    You are blessed Diana. Both my parents died from HIV. I could of had it but it turns out there’s no HIV in my system. I’ve had numerous blood tests and I’m HIV negative. But it is hard telling people how my parents died because they will think I have HIV.

    • @anniesok868
      @anniesok868 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

      Don't tell them. It's irrelevant because you don't have it.

    • @inflation1139
      @inflation1139 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      Why you feel like you have to tell them

    • @beachplease_
      @beachplease_ 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      It’s personal. Unless it affects you or that person, you don’t have to reveal anything. It’s none of their business

    • @ln5747
      @ln5747 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Because "HIV" is not a transmissible virus.

    • @dianakoss2686
      @dianakoss2686  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      Wow that’s heavy I’m so sorry you had to go through that experience. It’s such a double edged sword that on the one hand you are spared from hiv, but on the other hand, both your parents passed away. Sending you warmth and good energy ✨

  • @lil6806
    @lil6806 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +81

    I learned so much from this video! Thank you for helping remove the fear and stigma from HIV.

    • @trenlay
      @trenlay 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Same here

    • @dianakoss2686
      @dianakoss2686  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yay that’s the goal ☺️

    • @guruhnajmuddin650
      @guruhnajmuddin650 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@dianakoss2686glad you are still active and read the comment

    • @kagawadroadtriptatskie6577
      @kagawadroadtriptatskie6577 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

  • @Nimona-FTW
    @Nimona-FTW 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Whatever happens in your life in the future and I hope it will be as amazing as possible, just know that you speaking openly about your HIV status and informing people is a very positive signal, that really helps a lot of people profoundly and just for that you give me hope in humanity. I'm not personally directly impacted in anyway, but I was raised with the fear of HIV. It is very profound and only learned very recently about PreP and today I learned about U=U. We need more people like you to speak up and as you say get rid of the stigma and this touches a lot of topics not only HIV. What I'm trying to say is you are amazing and you definitely deserve all the love and sex you want and like you said no one should feel bad about it. I wish you the very best!

  • @johnmcdonald5998
    @johnmcdonald5998 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You are simply wonderful! You are saving lives with your open approach. Wishing you a long, healthy and productive life.

  • @steffihudalla7039
    @steffihudalla7039 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Thank you so much for sharing your story with the world, Diana! It's damn brave and so important! Looking forward to learn a lot about HIV and all that stuff! 🤓💪🏼

    • @dianakoss2686
      @dianakoss2686  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thanks Steffi!! Woo I'm so excited you're ready for the journey :D

    • @conradschmidt4676
      @conradschmidt4676 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dianakoss2686 how did you got HIV positive?

    • @cvayyart3963
      @cvayyart3963 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      How can I keep calm after Dr Abiola on TH-cam helped me beat HIV virus .............

    • @cvayyart3963
      @cvayyart3963 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      How can I keep calm after Dr Abiola on TH-cam helped me beat HIV virus .............

    • @ravidasia41520
      @ravidasia41520 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hi

  • @poopydonkey
    @poopydonkey ปีที่แล้ว +557

    You aren't just HIV positive, you're positive about HIV!!!

    • @dianakoss2686
      @dianakoss2686  ปีที่แล้ว +104

      😂😂😂 hell to the yeah! I like that 🫡😆

    • @user-ih9dg3uz5y
      @user-ih9dg3uz5y ปีที่แล้ว

      How can you be positive about an African Virus that will kill you?

    • @aaronwyatt3074
      @aaronwyatt3074 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      I love this video because of your positivity and your very educational.

    • @HappyVibesWorld
      @HappyVibesWorld 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      jesus do you know his words and who he is with you @@dianakoss2686

    • @inflation1139
      @inflation1139 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      I still wouldnt trust sleeping with her. 🤷🏾‍♂️ its like sleeping with a person that has some kind of disorder, i wouldn't want my kids to have if i had kids with them.

  • @BenKlassen1
    @BenKlassen1 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Thanks Diana, I learned something. You're a great story teller. Best wishes!

  • @ilovemycat___
    @ilovemycat___ 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Wow in your 8minute video and I have learnt more about hiv than from anywhere else in my entire 35 years of life. Thanks so much

  • @jtetteroo2919
    @jtetteroo2919 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You are very brave telling people about this. It must be very difficult, knowning how people generally react to these things. I wish you good luck in finding those understanding and loving people. There aren't many about.

  • @AlexanderWuttke
    @AlexanderWuttke 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Hey Diana, that was interesting to watch. Thanks for sharing. Looking forward to seeing what else we'll learn from you.

    • @dianakoss2686
      @dianakoss2686  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks Alex! Looking forward to filming the next ones :)

  • @XloMotion
    @XloMotion 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    wow you're so brave to just come out and say it. Thank you for giving us a lesson on more than just HIV

  • @tiagobotelho2786
    @tiagobotelho2786 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Informative, honest, and brave. Kudos for your courage and for uploading this video to TH-cam!

  • @vincentcarpenter4732
    @vincentcarpenter4732 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    awesome video Diana!! thanks for making this, looking forward to future videos 😊

    • @dianakoss2686
      @dianakoss2686  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks Vince!! Super glad you'll be watching them 😇

  • @dinho_machado
    @dinho_machado 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    quebrou meu coração saber que você nasceu com hiv, mas ao mesmo tempo, fiquei feliz em saber que sua expectativa de vida é tão boa quanto qualquer um de nós. desejo uma longa vida cheia de amor e felicidade a você!

  • @alexanderpetitolivieri
    @alexanderpetitolivieri 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for posting this video. Your experiences will help so many people!! you're amazing!

  • @andyandrade8451
    @andyandrade8451 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hey!welcome and thank you for coming out and educating us!

  • @mayaangelicahernandez3265
    @mayaangelicahernandez3265 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    So proud of you Diana! Amazing first video so excited for the rest of your journey 💕💕🤗

    • @dianakoss2686
      @dianakoss2686  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Mayaaaa lucky to have you for the support ☺😇

    • @joycewilliams2728
      @joycewilliams2728 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I appreciate the great Dr okonofua for his healing herbal medicine he prepared for me, after being a sufferer of DIABETES Disease for 1year. it was very surprising how i got cured from Dr okonofua herbal medicine, that quickly cleanse my whole body and today after checking myself in the hospital i was found negative, dear viewers my doctor personally told me that there was no cure for my Disease at first i thought the world has ended for me but as soon as i got reached to Dr okonofua herbal medicine, my story was not the same again, i only used Dr okonofua herbal medicine for just 3weeks and i was totally cured, no one deserve to suffer for so long,health is wealth my dear viewers no amount of money can cure you except you get the right remedy and be cured completely, today a cure is found and confirm by many others like me, Dr okonofua also has other cure for HIV AIDS, HSV 1&2,HEPATITIS B,CANCER,HEART DISEASE,MIGRAINES,COLD SORES, I am going to keep spreading this good news to the whole world, his email address is: drokonofua052@gmail.com or his What app Mobil:+2349131422916
      mobile.facebook.com/Dr-okonofua-106068134751981/?ref=opera_speed_dial

    • @ravidasia41520
      @ravidasia41520 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hi

  • @jjuarez83
    @jjuarez83 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    A cousin of mine died of AIDS back in the 90's. They got it from a blood transfusion after an accident. The medical advances these days. Bless you and good luck.

    • @mad_scientist5597
      @mad_scientist5597 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I suppose this is part of the reason why when I go donate blood to the hospital, I don't get any money for it (where I live anyways). They just give people a bit of food and something to drink.
      There are private companies where people can go donate blood plasma and they pay around $40 equivalent for one donation. That's different than full blood and I don't know to what extent things can be transmitted by plasma, but it still makes me kinda nervous.

  • @thistlemoontarot5292
    @thistlemoontarot5292 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you for sharing your journey. I had no idea that medication had progressed to the point that it can now be undetected, that's so great! I hope you can stay happy and healthy and keep up your journey helping others.

  • @turcoenrico
    @turcoenrico 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Love You ❤️ Thank you for being honest with yourself and teach others to do the same. And thank you for letting us come into your closet to eliminate the boundaries between your being and that of the society around you. ❤

    • @dianakoss2686
      @dianakoss2686  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you, honesty and vulnerability are very important ❤️ I just want people have an understanding for each other 😇

  • @luckybolt94
    @luckybolt94 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +69

    Everything is positive about you , only point is its unethical to not disclose your status to your partner at any uncondition and to your primary caregiver at any stage , because any person coming knowingly or unknowingly in touch with any body fluid of yours have the right to know and take precautions as per their stands

    • @Biochemistry-Debunks-Corona
      @Biochemistry-Debunks-Corona 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      No need to disclose for anything that doesn't even exist

    • @mouse122809
      @mouse122809 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@Biochemistry-Debunks-Coronaif that person stops taking the medication and then it will exist again it's only dormant. Same with the herpes virus, all future partners have a right to know medical history so they can determine if it's worth the risk for themselves.

    • @BeautyRepublicUnited
      @BeautyRepublicUnited 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      @@Biochemistry-Debunks-Coronawhat doesn’t exist? She has HIV. That’s the point of the video.

    • @Biochemistry-Debunks-Corona
      @Biochemistry-Debunks-Corona 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@BeautyRepublicUnited, you aren't the brightest candle on the Cake 🎂

    • @BeautyRepublicUnited
      @BeautyRepublicUnited 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@Biochemistry-Debunks-Corona I am sorry but I dont understand this comment. I didnt mean to offend you though.

  • @mcchuff
    @mcchuff 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    The video was randomly suggested to me. Glad I clicked because I learnt a lot. Thank you for sharing your story.

  • @dylanrose1003
    @dylanrose1003 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am doing a class learning about HIV, and I was looking at videos on youtube at people's stories and came across yours. I am proud of your journey, and you are a very strong individual. Thank you for spreading positivity throughout this community and helping stop the stigma.

  • @user-ep1wc1jh6c
    @user-ep1wc1jh6c 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You’re so brave to share your story! I’m so proud of you

  • @toddjohnson5176
    @toddjohnson5176 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Such a nice, beautiful person! You go girl!🥰

  • @neventomicic330
    @neventomicic330 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thanks for sharing this, Diana.Through the entire our time together in Germany, never I thought that you have any kind of disease, or physical issues. You seamed healthy as a Cornus (Croatian way of saying). I hope you will touch on many aspects of HIV, AIDS, STD, ...

    • @dianakoss2686
      @dianakoss2686  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I played it good didn't I ;) Thanks for joining the journey Neven :)!

    • @sherrysimpson9536
      @sherrysimpson9536 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am writing this comment with tears of joy a months ago i found out i was diagnosed with HIV #drabiola but now am HIV negative all Glory to Dr Abiola #drabiola 💙💙💕💕

    • @Toni-iw2ql
      @Toni-iw2ql 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sherrysimpson9536 scammer, most probably from west Africa, stop giving false hope to people, only Africa's fall for this doctor embale, or doctor onamo etc, all scams, they give u normal herbs that's tea and tell u it cured cancer and aids

    • @cvayyart3963
      @cvayyart3963 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      How can I keep calm after Dr Abiola on TH-cam helped me beat HIV virus .............

  • @erenyedger
    @erenyedger 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You're straight up strong and brave, I'm proud of you !!! keep living your life with full excitement, god bless ya!

  • @WeBeCourageous
    @WeBeCourageous 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I absolutely admire you for putting yourself out there to help those who are going through something similar. It means so much more coming from someone who lived it. I am a healthcare professional myself and learning everyday to confront certain misconceptions that I have. Thank you for informing me; I believe that you are doing the WORLD a great service by telling your story. God bless you! Take care!

    • @dianakoss2686
      @dianakoss2686  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      This is really sweet thank you for the kind words 😊 and thank you for taking care of people who need it!

  • @emilyjulia9178
    @emilyjulia9178 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +53

    As someone who doesn't know a lot about HIV I'm glad I found this video so I can be more educated about it. This video really helps making the stigma less powerful

  • @tahsyns.1506
    @tahsyns.1506 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You are a gem, just a bright spark of joy and life.

  • @tonythedonluciano
    @tonythedonluciano 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Have no clue what made this video pop up in my recommendations, but it was really informative. Stay safe & stay healthy!

  • @OneTrueKing23
    @OneTrueKing23 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hello Diana, your video taught me a metric ton about people who live with HIV. You rock and look amazing, I wish all the best to you.

    • @dianakoss2686
      @dianakoss2686  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you ☺️ all the best too!

  • @DizzKola3
    @DizzKola3 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Wow, this is super informative. Being brave and sharing your story is going to be so helpful for so many! ❤️

  • @tschibasch
    @tschibasch ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is amazing. You are a very brave woman. Thank you for sharing your story.

  • @srinathrabel8281
    @srinathrabel8281 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Experience is everything! World is changing and so do the people. Well done with your approach on speaking it up with a big heart., I’m sure some part of this world surely got some healing with how u presented it. Good job n good luck! 🍀 ❤

  • @armantavakoli7926
    @armantavakoli7926 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This video is very educational. Thanks for making it and for being brave to share it publicly. I enjoyed watching it and learning about it.

  • @cockeyedoptimista
    @cockeyedoptimista ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Beautifully done and very informative. Thank you, and congratulations on your courage!

  • @tawabwahab211
    @tawabwahab211 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thanks for making the video. I admire the courage of doing so. I hope we see a cure for it on the upcoming decade.

  • @baddie1shoe
    @baddie1shoe 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is just amazing. I am so happy for how many people can have happy full lives and make many choices that wouldn’t have been possible before.
    Thank you!!I would react by smiling and saying ‘hi’!

    • @baddie1shoe
      @baddie1shoe 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      People get really low on themselves with a diagnosis of herpes too. If you can also talk about this as well?

    • @dianakoss2686
      @dianakoss2686  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      yes i should! Crazy how huge of a role stigma plays. In the US i remember how "disgusting" and "gross" herpes is whereas in germany, it's just seen as a skin condition XD actually doctors say you don't even need to disclose it because most people in the german population have already had some type of contact to it!

  • @julia.viterbo
    @julia.viterbo 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You are super brave. I lost a friend that got sick with AIDS and I feel that the intercession point between you and him was the not knowing if people would accept him. Statements like yours are so important today. I know my friend ended up sick and past but I also know that part of the sadness he carried on was based on the rejection he was getting for the majority of people❤ Thanks for sharing this ❤❤❤❤

    • @dianakoss2686
      @dianakoss2686  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks for the kind words and sharing your experience so openly. I'm sorry that you lost a friend who got sick with AIDS. 100% the stigma is so awful and I feel so sad that he had to deal with rejections, it's so hard on the soul 😔

    • @ravidasia41520
      @ravidasia41520 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hi

  • @MILABRRA
    @MILABRRA 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    YOU'RE SUCH A STRONG SOUL GIRL MORE POWER TO YOU & STAY STRONG

  • @peggymacyful
    @peggymacyful 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Awesome! Eloquent and brave!! An inspiration to the rest of us as we face so much uncertainty in this time of the pandemic.

    • @dianakoss2686
      @dianakoss2686  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Peggy!! Thank you, it means so much that you watched this :)

  • @ClearLightClinicLondon
    @ClearLightClinicLondon 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Love your outlook in life . Thanks for being so courage x

  • @chanauria
    @chanauria 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks a lot for coming out and educating people about HIV. I've learnt a lot today. More-more power to you!

  • @MargauxNyambura
    @MargauxNyambura 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Am a TH-camr and am proud of you for coming out girl. Your very strong

    • @Cesare996
      @Cesare996 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I don't think she is homosexual though.

  • @vblake530530
    @vblake530530 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +86

    I like your name. Also, I’m a physician who cares for a number of HIV positive patients. Your credibility is UNDENIABLE, young Ms. So stop saying that. You don’t need to say that anymore. What you taught us is Spot on CORRECT.

    • @liewchengyeh
      @liewchengyeh 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      as a normal (non-medical educated) person....
      is nice that she show that HIV is not a death sentence....
      most importantly is to know/understand/proper prevention.....
      ** educate is key....

    • @Biochemistry-Debunks-Corona
      @Biochemistry-Debunks-Corona 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@liewchengyeh, it never was a death sentence because "it" never existed to begin with

    • @samtoo8685
      @samtoo8685 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Tell the men to be responsible and get a screen test

    • @Biochemistry-Debunks-Corona
      @Biochemistry-Debunks-Corona 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@samtoo8685, explain to us the screen test.

    • @dianakoss2686
      @dianakoss2686  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Wow thank you for the comment and for your job in helping many HIV positive patients :) Well, you know the world we are in nowadays, we have to prove our credibility somehow!

  • @lordlucan529
    @lordlucan529 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks for putting this out there - I had no idea the virus could be suppressed to this extent. Also “that conversation” sounds like a great way of filtering potential partners

  • @user-ub2kl1ls9l
    @user-ub2kl1ls9l 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Such a brave and beautiful video - thank you Diana!

  • @AyushYadavHere
    @AyushYadavHere 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    More power to you Diana. And thanks for sharing, that was some next level knowledge I didn't have.
    Looking forward to know more about it. Stay Safe!

    • @dianakoss2686
      @dianakoss2686  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ayuushhh glad you watched it and learned something :) hope you're doing well!

  • @xochitllee24
    @xochitllee24 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Hello! I conduct HIV quantitative testing on hundreds of patients, and it’s amazing to see patients undetectable for years!! I want to just add that the quantitation sensitivity has only become infinitely better over the last decade and continues to progress. We have the science and power to help HIV + patients live normal and healthy lives. I’m so happy you shared your story. This disease must be de stigmatized. I will say, there are complications that can arise from carrying other viruses, like HBV and HCV, that can complicate HIV prognosis, but by and large, patients can live normal lives!

  • @dianamachado2415
    @dianamachado2415 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I really love your story, and I appreciate how you explain with so much transparency. I believe that will make other people with the same condition look at their disease with hope.
    You are a very kind person...have a good long life❤🎉❤

  • @MatrixofLife
    @MatrixofLife 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I wish you good health dear! You are wonderful human being! ❤❤❤ sending u lots of love and support! You have good energy! ☀️

  • @faisal-ca
    @faisal-ca 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I found your video very inspirational and motivational. Many of us live with things we didn't sign up for.

  • @giadaperon2899
    @giadaperon2899 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    this girl is amazing!

    • @dianakoss2686
      @dianakoss2686  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      nah you are ;P looking forward to the next ones with the new lighting ;D

  • @bloochoob
    @bloochoob 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    ❤ the treatment has come on leaps and bounds, and you are proof it works well! There’s too much stigma around it and people need to educate themselves on up to date health info.
    I have several gay friends who got it in the early days, mid 80s, and some aren’t around now.

    • @berled5990
      @berled5990 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Correct

  • @ashapande9721
    @ashapande9721 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    love you, girl!!! Thanks for sharing your story!

  • @divinelyleo2162
    @divinelyleo2162 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I just love your personality. Blessings to you!

  • @siddharthagoyal41
    @siddharthagoyal41 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I am HIV+ too. Diagnosed in Feb 2022. Currently on meds, happily married and working for a top MNC. Can't thank God more for this beautiful life.

    • @dianakoss2686
      @dianakoss2686  ปีที่แล้ว

      This makes me so happy to read 🥺💕

    • @amberdev5634
      @amberdev5634 ปีที่แล้ว

      Can i contact you bro

    • @siddharthagoyal41
      @siddharthagoyal41 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@amberdev5634 you can ask anything here.

    • @amberdev5634
      @amberdev5634 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@siddharthagoyal41 common bro it's serious, I need help give me your email or something

    • @amberdev5634
      @amberdev5634 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dianakoss2686 dearest diana, I would like to contact you.. Is there a way

  • @angievilla
    @angievilla 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you for sharing and bringing more light into a subject not many talk about.

  • @winonebud
    @winonebud 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm very happy to hear this!

  • @yugandharkombathula4446
    @yugandharkombathula4446 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Your confidence level is superb, zero hatred towards your parents. Long live 🙏

    • @dianakoss2686
      @dianakoss2686  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for the compliment ☺️ it hasnt always been like this - it’s definitely been a journey!

    • @anacorreia8058
      @anacorreia8058 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She’s disgusting for encouraging people to lie by omission about HIV. The chance of transmission is not 0%, it never is

  • @thereal_shemicapatel
    @thereal_shemicapatel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    you are a role model girl,we so proud of you❤

  • @nishanthbaskaran7896
    @nishanthbaskaran7896 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You’re truly amazing and so beautiful Diana ❤ brave soul. It’s not easy to open up regarding this. So sad you have to go through this. It’s true we all are gonna die someday. Don’t give up. Keep inspiring people around you. God bless

  • @stellarroar
    @stellarroar 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Always stay upbeat like this, and have a good time, that's all that ultimately matters. Of course I wish HIV didn't exist at all, but everybody's got their big problem, and this is just that for you and other HIV positive people, at least for the time being. All the best with everything.

  • @valeriapolitino9871
    @valeriapolitino9871 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Finally!! You go Diana, you are amazing for doing this and I can't wait to follow you and watch all your videos

    • @dianakoss2686
      @dianakoss2686  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yessss it's finally happening!!

  • @goodreason3123
    @goodreason3123 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You emit such a bright and positive energy naturaly it warms my heart when I hear you.

  • @usamasajjad4062
    @usamasajjad4062 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi Diana, Stay strong and more power to you girl!!! God Bless You!!

  • @Sonia-cs2vw
    @Sonia-cs2vw 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So super PROUD of YOU!!!❤

  • @axelrice9268
    @axelrice9268 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This was amazing! So proud of you! One question if you may, how did your friends react?

    • @dianakoss2686
      @dianakoss2686  3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thanks Axel :) Do you mean when I came out and posted it all over social media :P or when I told my friends beforehand? Either way they were very loving and supportive 🤗

  • @gamerscouncil2262
    @gamerscouncil2262 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    this was a charming and informative video, it deserves more attention.

  • @JaneEireann
    @JaneEireann 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi Diana, I'm so happy that it's manageable nowadays and that it's suppressed/U=U for you. Your attitude is wonderful ❤
    I've known one HIV positive person but I learned several new things from your video. I think it's important and valuable to share such information 🙂
    I wish you all the best (including with your PhD & related work)!

  • @sowavychris8413
    @sowavychris8413 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    God Bless you Diana ...and everyone watching this