Deceived into Catching HIV: My Story

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  • @mrschinadoll921
    @mrschinadoll921 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4000

    Any person in this day and time that refuses to use condoms right off the bat is not a person you want to be involved with.

    • @longbranch11207
      @longbranch11207 5 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      Thank
      You

    • @shawnafuego26
      @shawnafuego26 5 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      Period

    • @swine13
      @swine13 5 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      He didn't refuse, though. He ended up saying "fine" then taking it off later.
      I agree that him being adamant about unprotected sex was a red flag, though.

    • @mrschinadoll921
      @mrschinadoll921 5 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      @@swine13 I was going by what he said..... He said right off the bat that the man was ready to dive in RAW!!!! Then he stated that the man tore a hole in the condom and then sent him a taunting text about what he done. He said that both of his parents died from HIV so I doubt it if he was a willing participant to his shenanigans.

    • @TonyTony-oq8kk
      @TonyTony-oq8kk 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Big red flag

  • @OMGJOELLE
    @OMGJOELLE 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3627

    Wow he got life in prison??? I'm surprised justice was actually served.

    • @Persvades
      @Persvades 5 ปีที่แล้ว +137

      Joelle R. In America he would have been in jail for two weeks

    • @Cultsurvivor
      @Cultsurvivor 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Justice would be lenny getting to have his way with him

    • @oneiceb5974
      @oneiceb5974 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@Persvades It depends on what State he's in.

    • @patrickbateman3244
      @patrickbateman3244 5 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Joelle R. Life in prison over here in the uk is about 8 years with good behaviour

    • @happy5808
      @happy5808 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I'd be scared for the inmates closento him there in prison. He shouldn't be near men in general

  • @stefaniamalatesta8076
    @stefaniamalatesta8076 4 ปีที่แล้ว +462

    If someone is refusing to wear a condom, that’s someone you don’t wanna mess with. I am still so sorry for this man. He is so strong to share his story. He’s potentially saving lives.

    • @M60gunner1971
      @M60gunner1971 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Pack not fudge

    • @sandersonbr18
      @sandersonbr18 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      making hiv criminal is wrong... hiv is no longer death sentence.... And any person that does have unprotected sex is responsible for his or her actions and life.... shouldn't hold any hiver guilty. This man sentenced in life prison... can and must sue the goverment for this situation he is in right now. He has to be set free... where are his lawyers?

    • @stefaniamalatesta8076
      @stefaniamalatesta8076 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@sandersonbr18 someone who knows they have HIV, doesn’t disclose it to their partners, etc is a horrible human being and doesn’t deserve to live.

    • @sandersonbr18
      @sandersonbr18 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@stefaniamalatesta8076 they don't have to disclose.... prejudice is all over.... hivers now being undetectable through medicine can have babies and never infect people... people should take care of themselves and never play unsafe... if you play ... that means you are responsible for yourself.... Hivers have the same rights... and what do you think how they got positive?// well, doing unprotected sex... you reap what you saw..... NO more drama queen! he who does play unsafe, will have his or hers.... for others diseases too..

    • @stefaniamalatesta8076
      @stefaniamalatesta8076 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@sandersonbr18 I’m sure you’d feel differently if someone purposely gave you HIV. Grow up.

  • @oliviap8490
    @oliviap8490 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2310

    The sexual aggression without a condom was a BIG warning

    • @14Jezka831
      @14Jezka831 5 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      Olivia P Yes! Honestly, that was a huge 🚩

    • @kenshinscott
      @kenshinscott 5 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      Olivia P The riskiest part having blind sex with someone you hardly trust that’s the huge warning people today seem to ignore

    • @lndingalle9605
      @lndingalle9605 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I had a guy do this with me once, guy who never met 😂

    • @tequisaholloway1738
      @tequisaholloway1738 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Absolutely

    • @johnvaldivia4718
      @johnvaldivia4718 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🤦‍♂️

  • @shaecolon692
    @shaecolon692 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2140

    THIS IS A WAKE UP CALL FOR ALL PERSONS GAY OR STRAIGHT

    • @lillylazer429
      @lillylazer429 5 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      @@stalkerdarwinstalkerdarwin4854 Stop. Judging ppl. It is not some disease sent by God to make ppl sick for their behaviour. No one deserves to die from this disease. You religious ppl make me sick. Thank the Goddess that I'm Pagan. We have love for everyone and don't judge ppl. What this man did to ppl was wrong. He purposely infected ppl. Those men didn't deserve this.

    • @gamerincorporated154
      @gamerincorporated154 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@stalkerdarwinstalkerdarwin4854 First off, HIV doesn't kill you, AIDS do. Next, his mother died from AIDS when she caught it from her STRAIGHT HETEROSEXUAL HUSBAND, who caught from drug use. So there are two people who died from AIDS not HIV who were straight and married. Have you even read the Bible or are you just recycling stuff you heard from other others in your cult?

    • @stalkerdarwinstalkerdarwin4854
      @stalkerdarwinstalkerdarwin4854 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Lilly Lazer READ CAREFULLY I NEVER JUDGED. ALL I SAID IS SIN IS THE CAUSE
      AND AGAIN SIN IS THE CAUSE
      PETER 5 verse 8 BE ALERT AND SOBER OF MIND, YOUR ENEMY THE DEVIL PROWLS AROUND LIKE A ROARING LION LOOKING FOR SOMEONE TO DEVOUR.
      SO THE BIBLE STAND THE TEST OF TIME AGAIN. Beg to differ?

    • @stalkerdarwinstalkerdarwin4854
      @stalkerdarwinstalkerdarwin4854 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Kevin Dukes AND BLASPHEMY IS THE UNFORGIVABLE SIN. YOUR ONLY CHOOSING PAGAN SO YOU CAN BE HOMOSEXUAL AND FEEL GOOD ABOUT IT BUT LISTEN TO THIS
      th-cam.com/video/--l0M963b5A/w-d-xo.html start at 15:06
      That’s all I can do for you

    • @jinxterpinxter
      @jinxterpinxter 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@gamerincorporated154 AIDS doesnt kill you either. It is the opportunistic diseases that do.

  • @DeeDee-ww9ve
    @DeeDee-ww9ve 3 ปีที่แล้ว +187

    How mad is it that his parents died from HIV. Then later on in his life he got hiv himself from a total psycho. God bless him

    • @aresjerry
      @aresjerry 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      His dad was on the down low.

    • @DrAriba-rt8zo
      @DrAriba-rt8zo หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@aresjerryhi

  • @323hernandez
    @323hernandez 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1496

    Never trust forceful overly kinky psychopath men

    • @sssdrrrv3759
      @sssdrrrv3759 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Anonymous Panacea dafuq?

    • @lillady1770
      @lillady1770 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yeah I thinking the same red flag...

    • @MiguelSanchez-ll3ty
      @MiguelSanchez-ll3ty 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Never trust Anonymous Panacea

    • @TASconfidential
      @TASconfidential 5 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      Red flags:
      1.) forceful
      2.) in a rush for sex
      3.) don’t want to ask clarifying questions
      4.) try to guilt you into their kinks/fetishes

    • @TASconfidential
      @TASconfidential 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      beverly ledbetter he was naive, but not careless. If he was careless, he wouldn’t have used condoms in the beginning. He was just too trusting, of a predator.

  • @ZLM88
    @ZLM88 5 ปีที่แล้ว +807

    I'm shocked daryll hasn't been murdered...you can't play with people like that

    • @kaymanning4227
      @kaymanning4227 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      juicy mae Thank you

    • @myfuckeduplife-kw1em
      @myfuckeduplife-kw1em 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Okurrrtz

    • @shesagoddess3592
      @shesagoddess3592 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Thankfully he wasn't because in prison he will be beaten up regularly and have to live through it.

    • @thinblacknoodles
      @thinblacknoodles 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      If he pulled that shit in America straight or gay would have killed he or at the very least whipped that ass

    • @harshnemesis
      @harshnemesis 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Hiv terrorists are too pussy to tell their real status, I doubt anyone of them has actual balls to harm anyone without their virus.

  • @18000rpm
    @18000rpm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +437

    "He was very adamant about not using a condom" - there's your warning right there.

    • @mauriceboyd1910
      @mauriceboyd1910 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Then he said he trusted him in the next sentence. He just met him

    • @GuyAye
      @GuyAye 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Facts

    • @michellejackson1096
      @michellejackson1096 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      He should be angry 😡 at himself. The hand ✍️ was on the 🧱

    • @張家豪-f1y
      @張家豪-f1y 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      DRETIKOCURE on TH-cam thank you for using your herbs to unravel the complexities of HPV and provide me with the finest medical care possible.🚩

    • @kabiruahabu4357
      @kabiruahabu4357 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You assured me of getting healed and surprisingly after 21days of taking the medication I was tested for HSV Negative. Thanks Dr Etiko Cure I will keep letting the world know about your TH-cam channel.

  • @Cultsurvivor
    @Cultsurvivor 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1195

    I couldnt imagine gettig a text from someone laughing saying they have hiv and that i was going to burn. I just cant process this. This is some next level shit. This is crazy i cant i have to take another walk to go cry

    • @breannedixon9712
      @breannedixon9712 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      At least he knows he’s got it. It’s very treatable these days

    • @infectedfunerals5670
      @infectedfunerals5670 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Aaliyah 😍😘

    • @sirquincywashington7584
      @sirquincywashington7584 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      girl please these dudes dont care

    • @Elbaz8
      @Elbaz8 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes, that pretty messed up!

    • @solomongrundy1467
      @solomongrundy1467 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@breannedixon9712 I just read an article about hiv being cured in mice. Scientists are hoping that this treatment will work on humans.

  • @rimmy1819
    @rimmy1819 5 ปีที่แล้ว +827

    You saved so many other men.. honestly heartbreaking to hear this

    • @M60gunner1971
      @M60gunner1971 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      He saved no one

    • @josecabrera7346
      @josecabrera7346 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@M60gunner1971 he saved others by having that guy locked up wtf you mean he saved no one?

    • @erucya2799
      @erucya2799 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He really did!

    • @MsLA-tz4si
      @MsLA-tz4si 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He couldn't even save himself. The guy told him he only has unprotected s_x. Then the guy tries to force s_x on him without a condom and then the dumb guy still lets the other guy have s_x with him. 🤣🤣🤣Just dumb or dumb horny.

    • @張家豪-f1y
      @張家豪-f1y 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      DRETIKOCURE on TH-cam thank you for using your herbs to unravel the complexities of HPV and provide me with the finest medical care possible🚩

  • @clare_jordin
    @clare_jordin 4 ปีที่แล้ว +810

    Nothing good comes from this hook up culture. God bless this man.

    • @dadiva2475
      @dadiva2475 4 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      TRUTH! In the end, someone is going to pay a price 💯

    • @christianchappell4193
      @christianchappell4193 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      It's too late he had sex with a man that's a sin men are supposed to be with women and he had sex before marriage so it's nothing he can do

    • @whitlock1988
      @whitlock1988 4 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      Christian Alexander thanks for sharing your 2 cent , what else? What other sins would you like to play judge, and juror to?

    • @M60gunner1971
      @M60gunner1971 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@whitlock1988 you're gay

    • @ГолландвандерЛинде
      @ГолландвандерЛинде 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@christianchappell4193 u do know we're all sinners right no bodies sin is greater than anyones. Smh🤔😬

  • @myfoot_urneck3571
    @myfoot_urneck3571 5 ปีที่แล้ว +529

    Omg! When he shared that both of his parents died from HIV because of his junkie father contracting it via a contaminated needle and then passing it into his mom...that just broke my heart even more!!! 💔 This man has incredible strength 💪 and courage for not only sharing his personal story, but also for standing up to the asshole who intentionally infected him and all those other innocent individuals! Justice may not have been fully served, and more people could have gotten purposely infected, if it weren't for this amazing man!! The world needs more courageous and outspoken people like this super man!! 💕👍✌🌟

    • @amaranthinebeauty
      @amaranthinebeauty 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Myfoot_urneck yes It really made me 😞 what a beautiful mom.

    • @angelaxtrium2213
      @angelaxtrium2213 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Is died from Aids not HIV

    • @elicapers2446
      @elicapers2446 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      He should have stood up for his own butthole.

  • @naut_nigel
    @naut_nigel 5 ปีที่แล้ว +564

    Such a horrific story considering the condom was ripped without his consent and his parents died of the disease he was so adamant about preventing. All the best to him. ❤

    • @patriciaguiden5858
      @patriciaguiden5858 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Nigel Murillo they keep being victims.hes lying .he could have said no get up was he black

    • @itsfaithkay
      @itsfaithkay 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Patricia Guiden what’s race got to do with this ?

    • @helena3631
      @helena3631 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      This is a generational curse hopefully someone in his family can break this curse

    • @beatricedevarenne2621
      @beatricedevarenne2621 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Patricia Guiden stfu with race moron

    • @courtnmoopsmama
      @courtnmoopsmama 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Right?! My heart hurts for him!!!

  • @tommertuck1041
    @tommertuck1041 5 ปีที่แล้ว +385

    I just got Herpes from tinder. The last thing on my mind is wanting to give it to someone else.

    • @em-or7qc
      @em-or7qc 5 ปีที่แล้ว +138

      It's just not normal is it? To have the mindset of giving people a disease! I feel guilty if someone catches a cold/cough from me! He's a complete sociopath.

    • @timothytillman6513
      @timothytillman6513 4 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      I'm sorry you caught that

    • @bodylotionv7230
      @bodylotionv7230 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Wow smh

    • @Kanal7Indonesia
      @Kanal7Indonesia 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I think herpes is curable

    • @rinogeorge8232
      @rinogeorge8232 4 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      indonesian cat holic herpes is not curable

  • @xingxi2497
    @xingxi2497 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2123

    Nothing good comes off of Grindr.

    • @Penelope416
      @Penelope416 5 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      True dat

    • @Mslovely42
      @Mslovely42 5 ปีที่แล้ว +157

      I barely trust people I meet on a daily basis meeting someone off the internet I do not trust

    • @chamariano4833
      @chamariano4833 5 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      Agree
      Grindr is for hook ups only
      If u meet someone that leads into a relationship from this app it will not end well for both parties

    • @dpcisunbreakable
      @dpcisunbreakable 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Speak for yourself. You make bad choices, not all of us.

    • @johnsmi213
      @johnsmi213 5 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      I met Darryll on Tinder because I'm anti-Grindr. Luckily, after telling him I had to sign off to do something, I came back to finding out he had gone ape shit telling me I was ignoring him and cancelling our plans. He was cute and I would have gone out with him.

  • @TheRazorTongue
    @TheRazorTongue 5 ปีที่แล้ว +155

    Don't ignore red flags especially if you're going to be on the receiving end of any sexual encounter. If a person tries to get you to lower your defenses it's because they're trying to hurt you. Good people respect boundaries.
    If you think something like this has happened to you please report it to the police. Don't let someone like this getaway with it.

    • @lizzy4827
      @lizzy4827 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      It was a huge red flag, if he keeps insisting once you said no, it means he's gonna try to do what he wants anyways, he doesn't respect you.

    • @TwinFalls88
      @TwinFalls88 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Receptive partners bear most of the risk. Should DEMAND many dates, wining and dining, and emotional support BEFORE sex is given. Being the receptive should give one LEVERAGE to demand much more.

  • @kenjipolicardpolicard6986
    @kenjipolicardpolicard6986 4 ปีที่แล้ว +274

    Hid father died of HIV and then he caught it himself? Oh man what a curse.

    • @maryem8263
      @maryem8263 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Kenji policard Policard and his Mom

    • @justinamusyoka4986
      @justinamusyoka4986 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      So sad.it still will continue to wreak havoc to others in the family.its a generational curse.

    • @janekimani2269
      @janekimani2269 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Sure,it will only be broken if they know Jesus

    • @Joshua-dc1bs
      @Joshua-dc1bs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@janekimani2269 LoL

    • @rashimabwirevalentine523
      @rashimabwirevalentine523 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I hate when people do this shit. These comments are total bullshit

  • @treyvorable
    @treyvorable 5 ปีที่แล้ว +231

    I am not blaming him but the guy suggesting unprotected sex multiple times and even forcing himself on you unprotected should have been a cue to kick hiss ass out ASAP!!

    • @yawade8797
      @yawade8797 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Woke exactly and how can you trust someone you've met on tinder 😂😂

    • @ayeevizzy8723
      @ayeevizzy8723 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Woke exactly!

    • @flowerpink33
      @flowerpink33 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Woke you know what I was thinking the same thing. Him keep suggesting unprotected sex was a red flag 🚩. That meant RUN 🏃🏾‍♀️

    • @defrand14able
      @defrand14able 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@yawade8797 He said Grindr, which is even worse.

    • @AwfulDog1
      @AwfulDog1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      hindsight is useful..he was too trusting.

  • @introvertedaquarius5844
    @introvertedaquarius5844 5 ปีที่แล้ว +286

    That was a red flag. Him being so aggressive

    • @cc3184
      @cc3184 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I know right. How can you trust someone who was so aggressively adamant about wanting to not use condoms. Like immediately no.

    • @mehmeh7567
      @mehmeh7567 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Cc That right there would’ve scared the sh!t out of me 😂😂😂...But how it is now people are confused and not educated at all bc you can’t see H.I.V at all smh this isn’t the 80’s where folks was walking around looking like skin & bones dying within 6 months bc scientists didn’t invent the proper medication to curb the gestational period for Aids to manifest making it full blown. They look healthy as hell now due to the MEDICATION but in the eye area (The eyes always sink in). So me personally I always look at the major things in H.I.V patients and that’s The eye area, skin discoloration and last but not least their hair!!!! Which are the things I learned from my aunt who passed away from H.I.V some years back...Her eyes were sunk in really bad and she had pigmentation of the skin as well as her hair went from course to smooth like silky smooth from the medication they take which is real crazy & scary at the same time bc your literally watching them deteriorate”

    • @tiberiusedwards3968
      @tiberiusedwards3968 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Major red flag

    • @M60gunner1971
      @M60gunner1971 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Pack not fudge

    • @ernagoofy9540
      @ernagoofy9540 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mehmeh7567 oh my

  • @dropdeadhysteria
    @dropdeadhysteria 3 ปีที่แล้ว +120

    Imagine the trauma and therapy and overall shit this guy had to go through just to be able to have the strength to give this interview. I'm sorry that happened to him and anyone else like him. 😢😞

  • @kekoakaawa8879
    @kekoakaawa8879 5 ปีที่แล้ว +568

    I feel sad for this beautiful man. I would not wish this on anyone. I hope that this handsone bearded man lives a good long healthy life full of peace and joy.

    • @sahkouyate435
      @sahkouyate435 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Amen

    • @mdawson8386
      @mdawson8386 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sahkouyate435 STOP WITH THE MONOTHEISTIC MYTHOLOGY AND PROPAGANDA!

    • @j-stilt9746
      @j-stilt9746 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sexy woman

    • @Donnie-sg2cj
      @Donnie-sg2cj 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Kekoa Kaawa Why do you keep focusing on his looks? If he weren’t attractive to you would you still care?

    • @SmartRobot-wc2fb
      @SmartRobot-wc2fb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@Donnie-sg2cj 😂Most probably she / he / it wouldn't!

  • @cthulhutentacles4994
    @cthulhutentacles4994 5 ปีที่แล้ว +207

    I was in a relationship with someone who withdrew the fact that he had HIV until he got meningitis. For whatever messed up reason, he was trying to infect me with HIV, although I was never infected; we were together for almost two years. It makes me furious knowing that such people exist. I wish I could comfort this man and tell him everything is going to be ok.

    • @cthulhutentacles4994
      @cthulhutentacles4994 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      R K ok?

    • @CEDL4072
      @CEDL4072 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Omg I'm glad ur ok though!

    • @sgnibble1
      @sgnibble1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      That was very inconsiderate and selfish of him. I’m glad you are well and that he didn’t change your life drastically. I can’t believe how judgmental people are as this can happen to anyone. Even married couples have infected their spouses. People need to stop being high and mighty and practice more empathy. Take care of yourself

    • @harshnemesis
      @harshnemesis 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Looks like your sick ex didn't know that he cannot infect others while is is on meds. If he didn't use meds then would probably get it, if you guys did raw which you probably did.

    • @em-or7qc
      @em-or7qc 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Bloody hell! Was he on treatment for the HIV?

  • @ladynottingham89
    @ladynottingham89 3 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    A lesson that when people violate your boundaries multiple times, cut them off, NO more chances. After Rowe tried to force himself on him Lenny should have kicked him out. But instead Lenny gives the other guy the condom to put on himself. Let this be a lesson to others. If someone makes you uncomfortable in anyway, you tell them and they continue, that person cannot be trusted and you need to get away. My prayers for Lenny and may Mr. Rowe rot in jail.

  • @StevieMichelle
    @StevieMichelle 5 ปีที่แล้ว +289

    This is why I am scared of sleeping with just anyone :( I don't and this is why I never will.

    • @cbenjamin7582
      @cbenjamin7582 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Are are you sure the reason you haven't had sex with anyone has nothing to do with your outer appearance or your personality. I'm not trying to discredit you at all I'm just trying to figure out if in all honesty you being a virgin is in all truthfulness not in your control.

    • @StevieMichelle
      @StevieMichelle 5 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      Mam, I never said I was a virgin lmao. I said I am scared to sleep with JUST ANYONE which is different. I've only been intimate with people I am very attracted to and have confidence but even then you will never be safe from an STD.

    • @iiabdullahf1699
      @iiabdullahf1699 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Yes don’t sleep with anyone if you want your life 👍🏻

    • @iiabdullahf1699
      @iiabdullahf1699 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      C.C. Benjie i am 28 years old and i never had sex with any girl and I won’t have without marriage blood test 👍🏻👍🏻

    • @StevieMichelle
      @StevieMichelle 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@iiabdullahf1699 I've only slept with my ex boyfriends who I trusted completely. On some occasional I've met guys who wanted to sleep with me like a sexual relationship and that's and I've felt like taking because it's tempting but it's not me! I don't think I could sleep with a guy who's slept with dozens of women not even with protection. I do wish I didn't sleep with those other 2 exes so I would of stayed a virgin till marriage ! So in that I am happy for you I hope you remain that way until you meet the right one.

  • @Ninatoro39
    @Ninatoro39 5 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    This happened to my best friend. He found out after his ex partner died of “pancreas cancer”. Years later someone told him it was because he was HIV positive. People like that should be arrested.

  • @monkeybabydance
    @monkeybabydance 5 ปีที่แล้ว +146

    I had a conversation with him on Grindr years ago wanting to hook up with me. I got a barrage of comments when I didn't come round as soon as I could and thought he was a little of his rocker. I decided not to meet and block him and can't help but think what would have happened if I'd met with him... ,

    • @marcosjuarez1490
      @marcosjuarez1490 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      True story??

    • @monkeybabydance
      @monkeybabydance 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@marcosjuarez1490 yes. I lived in Edinburgh at the time.

    • @elicapers2446
      @elicapers2446 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      You would have been victimized by the sodomite.

    • @monkeybabydance
      @monkeybabydance 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Glen Coco deadass?

    • @M60gunner1971
      @M60gunner1971 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's really gay

  • @VIVABELLAVIVAHERMANO
    @VIVABELLAVIVAHERMANO 5 ปีที่แล้ว +327

    My own brother is s covert narcissist, I have never met anyone who does cruel things as him and he's capable of doing something similar to this. These people do exist

    • @33ladyRAM
      @33ladyRAM 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yes they do!! 💯💙

    • @CocotheNut
      @CocotheNut 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Narcissists will literally try to kill you then try to make you think it was your fault, it's insane

    • @thomasfritz6425
      @thomasfritz6425 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sad but true.

    • @jenniferholmes6644
      @jenniferholmes6644 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      My brother is one too. And my ex... that's why hes an ex

    • @sandersonbr18
      @sandersonbr18 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      making hiv criminal is wrong... hiv is no longer death sentence.... And any person that does have unprotected sex is responsible for his or her actions and life.... shouldn't hold any hiver guilty. This man sentenced in life prison... can and must sue the goverment for this situation he is in right now. He has to be set free... where are his lawyers?

  • @blacktulip2407
    @blacktulip2407 5 ปีที่แล้ว +201

    "I've got u, u stupid!", my God! How cruel, how sick!... I am so sorry... U should have stopped in the very moment u saw he wanted to break ur initial agreement. I dont blame u, but this should be a warning for others.

  • @GoddessAlkebulan
    @GoddessAlkebulan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Although I am sympathetic to his plight, the man told him in word and in deed that he was not going to use protection. Please pay attention and heed the signs of predatory behavior.

    • @chae1557
      @chae1557 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He stealthed him and didn’t tell him until 2 weeks later.....

  • @ghanshyam1990
    @ghanshyam1990 5 ปีที่แล้ว +216

    Most people would have stayed silent but thank your for reporting it to the police. Wrongdoers should be published.

    • @muffdiver240
      @muffdiver240 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      "Published"?

    • @M60gunner1971
      @M60gunner1971 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What did he tell the cops? That guy packed my fudge and I said he could!

  • @Tashaakosah
    @Tashaakosah 5 ปีที่แล้ว +293

    Some people are just soo sick ! How could he do such a thing😢

    • @oliviakirby1409
      @oliviakirby1409 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Because he let him.

    • @oliviakirby1409
      @oliviakirby1409 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Orange Blossom Absolute bullshit. This guy stated Rowe asked him for unsafe sex. He said he didn't do that. At that point he should have walked away, said no, he had the choice. But he didn't. His choice. Rowe then attempted to enter him without a condom - at this point everything should have stopped. Indeed we're at the point of illegality. But he decided, HE DECIDED, to carry on. He stated he GAVE HIM the condom and said 'I'm trusting you' - when Rowe had proven he was not to be trusted. He let him put on the condom, he didn't supervise or check the condom was on and then let him enter him. Moreover, he could have felt that it was an unsheathed penis - there is a difference. He made all the choices, decisions to go through with it, he abnegated responsibility for himself. He let it happen. He is not Rowe's victim.
      I do believe however, given his history he'd been looking for a surrogate father to finish off the job his father started on his mother. This guy is as mentally ill, in his own way as Rowe.

  • @Crows23rdChapter
    @Crows23rdChapter 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    He was a previously unknown hook-up, literally. He gave you two HUGE warnings flags. And you "trusted" him? NO ONE deserves to have something like this happen, but, damn...

  • @dawnlee866
    @dawnlee866 5 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    The first time he forced himself on me...his a$$ would've been out the door

  • @AshaAsha-ou1ih
    @AshaAsha-ou1ih 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    The moment someone mentions the word “unprotected” it’s no longer worth the risk at that point. So sad that happened. No stranger deserves your trust especially when it comes to sex.

  • @RescueAlwaysOfficial
    @RescueAlwaysOfficial 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    "He was really adamant to have unprotected sex..." That should have been his SIGN to be done with the man!

  • @cbenjamin7582
    @cbenjamin7582 5 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    I am so sorry about the level of cruelty that you have endured. You are a sweet Angel for helping others for speaking your pain & truth.

    • @M60gunner1971
      @M60gunner1971 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      He brought it on himself. He knew the risks of packing men's fudge but yet he packed it anyways.

  • @TASconfidential
    @TASconfidential 5 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    There are tons of sexual predators out here, especially on those apps. The moment someone proposes doing something you don’t want to do, don’t brother with The negotiations.
    Just say “No thanks,” and move on to the next potential guy.

  • @nikkiarmstrong3991
    @nikkiarmstrong3991 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I hope everyone who has this disease will healed. I hope in the future someone finds a cure for this and cancer.

  • @Lynnvandenbrink
    @Lynnvandenbrink 5 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    This makes me so mad, I can’t😫 So proud of this guy for coming forward.. takes guts. Wish him all the best 💗

  • @lindachicana4214
    @lindachicana4214 5 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    Lenny you are without a doubt a very brave and courageous human being!!

  • @RescueAlwaysOfficial
    @RescueAlwaysOfficial 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    So violating that he was abused with harassing phone calls/messages after being deliberately infected with HIV. My heart goes out to him!
    Thanks for sharing your story and saving lives! ❤

  • @littlebopeeps5852
    @littlebopeeps5852 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    That is so unforgivable. Wishing you good health and a wonderful future.

  • @Prettyboi_Lele
    @Prettyboi_Lele 5 ปีที่แล้ว +194

    Tbh Grindr is pretty disgusting in general it’s honestly degrading getting on grindr

    • @BootyWarrior80892
      @BootyWarrior80892 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      LELE yep! Grindr is a superficial, elitist, ageist, racist app

    • @gshsy6syysudu810
      @gshsy6syysudu810 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@BootyWarrior80892 01

    • @porschenator
      @porschenator 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It's Tinders twin brother.

    • @TheZeeme
      @TheZeeme 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I found my boyfriend of 3 years so far on grindr. But I agree haha

    • @darrenpat182
      @darrenpat182 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I've been on grindr 10 years, had tons of great sex, made lots of random guys laugh too, made good friends, had mutual counselling, its how you use it.

  • @triciaapplewhite4939
    @triciaapplewhite4939 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    As a nurse hearing this story is inspiring. Will definitely share this video with my patients

  • @CityGuyGoesCounty
    @CityGuyGoesCounty 5 ปีที่แล้ว +137

    Trust No One People ! You must protect yourself at all time !😡🤬😡🤬😡🤬😡🤬😡🤬😡

    • @crusaderofthelowlands3750
      @crusaderofthelowlands3750 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He tried, it didn't work. Sometimes those things are out of your control and it just comes down to having bad luck. (By meeting the wrong person)

    • @crusaderofthelowlands3750
      @crusaderofthelowlands3750 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Angel rose He literally said that the guy "forced him down", so he was basically raped.
      Which, judging by the amount of people this guys has knowingly infected, I find plausible.

    • @melissarambo7998
      @melissarambo7998 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@crusaderofthelowlands3750 He wasn't raped. He pushed the guy away, but allowed him to continue after the man agreed to use a condom. The man ripped the condom after without him knowing.

    • @crusaderofthelowlands3750
      @crusaderofthelowlands3750 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@melissarambo7998 Removing/ripping the condom without someone else's knowledge (and most likely against their will) can be classified as either sexual assault or rape, depending on your country.

    • @dustywalter1947
      @dustywalter1947 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen. wait until marriage

  • @ijt3131
    @ijt3131 5 ปีที่แล้ว +247

    May this serve as a wake up call to the gay community. As a gay man I found this incredibly moving and it moved me to tears.

    • @ENZOxDV9
      @ENZOxDV9 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      @@moderator-63 wrong, from 2016, 54% of all new HIV cases were men to men sexual intercourse while only 20% new cases were from women to men.

    • @danielhooper502
      @danielhooper502 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ENZOxDV9 not true, majority are straight and subsaharan, it may be over half for gays in Britain, but that isn't the globe

    • @ENZOxDV9
      @ENZOxDV9 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@danielhooper502 I'm talking about britain since this video was about 2 british people

    • @jemmaj2919
      @jemmaj2919 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@moderator-63 , oh waw stop spreading shit... 67% of tested gays r found to have HIV, they r the highest percentage. Take a look at CDC HIV research. "In 2016, gay and bisexual men accounted for 67% (26,844) of all HIV diagnoses" [in the US]

    • @xXspedXx
      @xXspedXx 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I’m pretty sure straight men stealth/rape by deception/take off condoms just as much and even MORE than gay men. But nice try...

  • @Alexandraalejandro798
    @Alexandraalejandro798 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Casual encounters with random people already is trouble looking for a place to happen. No matter which angle you look at it or excuse to justify it, in every time you are to set off to meet a stranger the closer you get to danger. He is very lucky AIDS these days isn’t like what it was back he is still very young he still has a lot ahead of him.

    • @arvyarvy4242
      @arvyarvy4242 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Underrated comment

    • @el-maiki
      @el-maiki ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What makes you think you’re exempt from this just for having a regular/monogamous partner?

  • @bendu1ba6
    @bendu1ba6 5 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    Awe man! He should’ve followed his instincts. Subconsciously he got a bad energy and aura from that guy and went against it.

    • @paulhunter1525
      @paulhunter1525 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Depending on vibes and feelings are NOT protection. Always insist partner wearing condoms. Better safe the life time of regret...

    • @01musicbabe
      @01musicbabe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Paul Masters Johnson but he did use a condom? The guy ripped it off secretly. He should have just not had sex with the guy as he was already giving off red flags

    • @M60gunner1971
      @M60gunner1971 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      But he decided on gay sex and now everyone feels sorry for this homosexual?

    • @reyr.7439
      @reyr.7439 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Men don't think rationally when they are horny.

  • @georgiarogers79
    @georgiarogers79 5 ปีที่แล้ว +156

    Poor guy what that man did to him is appalling

    • @yawade8797
      @yawade8797 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      He has no one to blame but himself! Silly man

    • @Cowiethomas
      @Cowiethomas 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      How was he "deceived"?!?!
      A grown ass man who should be considering his health and safety over "NSA fun" with strangers. It's a joke. 😂 A poor guy because he couldn't resist the urge to have more sex with a total stranger? This is what both gay men and the coutnry have an issue with. Passive carelessness...He let it happen and is a fuckin fool. Period.

    • @zrayne
      @zrayne 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Cowie Thomas he wanted to use protection but his partner deceived him

  • @raywylde210
    @raywylde210 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Whether you are gay or straight and are sexually active, I understand not everyone can or has access to, but PLEASE know your status and get on PrEP as soon as you can. People cannot be trusted.

  • @TigerBlackTigerBlackTigerBlack
    @TigerBlackTigerBlackTigerBlack 5 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    I pray for the cure one day for people like this and many more individuals. Things will get better.

    • @beatricedevarenne2621
      @beatricedevarenne2621 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Trey Bandsaw Phramaceutics don’t want a cure! They earn more money by selling médicament

    • @TigerBlackTigerBlackTigerBlack
      @TigerBlackTigerBlackTigerBlack 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@beatricedevarenne2621 it's sad. But we have to demand it. Hold these people accountable. We can do it!

    • @Soul56293
      @Soul56293 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I think a vaccine is more likely than a cure.

    • @TigerBlackTigerBlackTigerBlack
      @TigerBlackTigerBlackTigerBlack 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Soul56293 I don't know or I don't care if you're trolling but if you're not and you genuinely don't know this then this is kind of how it goes, cure is an umbrella term for anything that treats you of any sort of ailment. Surgery could be a cure. Penicillin can be a cure, and maybe rx glasses, prescriptions, you name it, well all be you actually did! Vaccine would definitely be a cure! So yes, there might be a vaccine! But, it could also be CRISPR-Cas9 injected with saline very similar to how we are given vaccines but, just a little bit different so technically would be named something after the individual that perfected it more than likely or whatever it gets named. But, that could very much be a cure where it can rewrite our genome to just naturally have a resistance to it all together so we can't catch it at all. But, like a lot of things, there has to be a lot of hardcore study on this so we will see what happens. 💛

    • @AnAdorableWombat
      @AnAdorableWombat 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      There is a cure but the money is in the medicine. It's sad

  • @Minnaloushe110
    @Minnaloushe110 5 ปีที่แล้ว +275

    Post the whole documentary for people who are outside the UK and cannot view it on BBC iPlayer.

    • @shittymcrvids3119
      @shittymcrvids3119 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      yes please

    • @ragnarox16
      @ragnarox16 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes!

    • @sianpursglove4346
      @sianpursglove4346 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Is this a full documentary on iplayer then?

    • @pia2904
      @pia2904 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sianpursglove4346 yes

    • @pia2904
      @pia2904 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Guys use vpn I keep commenting this. They only post full documentaries that are under half an hour

  • @millenialfragrancenerd94
    @millenialfragrancenerd94 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    On behalf of the whole humankind, we don't claim Rowe

  • @a.almulla3811
    @a.almulla3811 5 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    People need to stop having sex as strangers.
    Its not normal , never going to be and and its disgusting.
    I feel sorry for this man.

    • @shaktra1563
      @shaktra1563 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I mean, that’s a good thought but at the same time you need to realize the gay community has a lot of repressed sexual tension. Not using it as an excuse but when some people finally come out, they literally go ham because they have had to hide that part of themselves for so long. The best thing anyone can do is take the right safety precautions. That means wearing a condom and not putting your trust into those who give you multiple red flags.

    • @libertasca1636
      @libertasca1636 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Agreed! So terrifying and disgusting!!

    • @melissarambo7998
      @melissarambo7998 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@shaktra1563 oh give me a break

    • @shaktra1563
      @shaktra1563 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Melissa Rambo 🤔 lol you gay? didn’t think so

    • @melissarambo7998
      @melissarambo7998 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@shaktra1563 You are totally using it as an excuse. Take accountability for your behavior.

  • @jadiquaify
    @jadiquaify 5 ปีที่แล้ว +108

    This man is a hero period I appreciate his bravery and he is such a inspiration.... my dad also died from AIDS and it devastated me and my family completely.

    • @M60gunner1971
      @M60gunner1971 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      A hero? You need therapy.

    • @jadiquaify
      @jadiquaify 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      M60gunner1971 And you need to be quite because talking about a subject like this is complicated.

    • @M60gunner1971
      @M60gunner1971 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@jadiquaify I hate to hear that.

    • @sandersonbr18
      @sandersonbr18 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      making hiv criminal is wrong... hiv is no longer death sentence.... And any person that does have unprotected sex is responsible for his or her actions and life.... shouldn't hold any hiver guilty. This man sentenced in life prison... can and must sue the goverment for this situation he is in right now. He has to be set free... where are his lawyers?

    • @sandersonbr18
      @sandersonbr18 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Simply me you wrong! modern drugs now .... HIV-positive patients can expect to live long just as a non-positive people and have happy lives. Treatments are different from 20 0r 30 years ago. People have antiretroviral treatment that makes the virus undetectable and untransmittable to others. Hiv+ can have babies... that's why bareback sexual activities came back at full speed around people. Misinformation of yours and stigma persist in part because of poor sex education you may have at this moment. One pill a day can make HIV undetectable... accept this as a vaccine every single day of your life until the cure is ahead. Hiv is not a death sentence anymore!

  • @Jb-oo4gg
    @Jb-oo4gg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    He must have hated the fact that he was HIV positive. Decided to take other’s with him. Spread the pain.

  • @slave4glue
    @slave4glue 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    To commit a truly wicked act and then to mock your victim after you know there's no chance for them get emergency help...
    You can't really get much more sadistic and cruel can you? A really evil guy.
    Respect to this lad for his bravery and speaking out and going to the police.

  • @nikolanikola8543
    @nikolanikola8543 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    AVOID dating apps at all costs... It's almost impossible to find a good person there...

    • @dpcisunbreakable
      @dpcisunbreakable 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      They're not designed for dating, they're for hookups at that moment. You want a relationship, go to Christian Mingle.

    • @asumpi34
      @asumpi34 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@dpcisunbreakable what if you are atheist..?

    • @dpcisunbreakable
      @dpcisunbreakable 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@asumpi34 find your dates in nontraditional ways. I mean, I don't subscribe to organized religion myself, so I appreciate your question.

  • @AlbertInSanAntonio
    @AlbertInSanAntonio 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    If you deliberately infect someone with they intent to cause pain and suffering and then taunt your partner with text and voicemails.. you should go to prison or serve time ..what an awful person just awful..

  • @omadjourney
    @omadjourney 5 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    It's a sick ol' world we live in, he needs to be in isolation because who knows how many he will infect in prison.

    • @skilled1015
      @skilled1015 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      exactly!

    • @inoclasism
      @inoclasism 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They all need to be you can't let the infestation roam free.

  • @KAvanAlten
    @KAvanAlten 5 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    But why on earth would you continue with a guy you incist on doing unprotected? I really don't understand it.

    • @TtheeEnd
      @TtheeEnd 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      While he did not make a choice to have unprotexted sex and it is NOT right that this man intentionally infected him, he did make the decision yo have sex with a man who insisted on having unprotected sex. Also, after the man tried to force himself on him without a condom, he made the choice to still trust him. WHY? So...yea...he should take accountability for his stupid choices too. I would have NEVER met this guy after he insists on having sex without a condom and I would have thrown him out of my house the minute he tried go force himslef on me without a condom! No matter how cute he is.

    • @Lil08103
      @Lil08103 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @Deja Boo we too often confuse blame and responsibility. we are all accountable to our inner voice. i imagine his warned him about a man insisting on having unprotected sex. but the jerk calling him stupid is out of line. he is not to be blamed for someone else's actions, but certainly he is responsible for his own sexual health and for the dangers of having sex with a stranger.

    • @mrshonourable
      @mrshonourable 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Deja Boo How can he love and trust someone he just meet on a gay hook up app? He’s responsible for trusting his safety in the hands of a stranger, who didn’t want to use the condom in the first place. There were warning signs and he ignored them because he wanted to get laid.

    • @T3XACAN0
      @T3XACAN0 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The guy had the condom on...but he ripped the tip of the condom and that is why the guy was exposed to his HIV infection.

    • @LuisaD93
      @LuisaD93 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Deja Boo he didn’t love this man! Didn’t you watch it? It was just a sexual hookup w a stranger for fks sake . Sad but he is responsible for 50% of what happened to him

  • @mr.garlicman3134
    @mr.garlicman3134 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    It is a felony to have a STD and not tell someone when you are about to have sex with someone with a STD. major prison time you can get for it.

    • @cornbisque
      @cornbisque 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Depends on what country or state you’re in it’s not illegal everywhere

  • @missmorgue4331
    @missmorgue4331 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    … I'm HORRIFIED
    I feel so bad for him… what kind of person does this.

  • @redsreds6598
    @redsreds6598 5 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    How could someone be so horrible & selfish. Wow I am lost for words God bless all theses people he done this too. This guy will receive his punishment the low life. Very upsetting thinking of poor Freddie mercury too

    • @Samuel115s
      @Samuel115s 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      bcfc red army im negative but none of us know what type of person HIV could turn us into.

    • @redsreds6598
      @redsreds6598 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Samuel115s how could someone do this knowing they had HIV what a horrible person.

    • @viviannamontenegro4841
      @viviannamontenegro4841 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I think it’s the lack of god in their lives actually that would cause them to be that evil:/?

    • @redsreds6598
      @redsreds6598 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@viviannamontenegro4841 your right very sad we all need our Lord Jesus in our life's amen

    • @Gapeaches77able
      @Gapeaches77able 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      it's just me Thank you!

  • @KantusKid
    @KantusKid 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Whatever happened to meeting someone and getting to know them before having any sexual encounters? We live in a selfish day and age where people want instant gratification. There are unfortunate consequences.

    • @TreyParkersBitch
      @TreyParkersBitch 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well…not everyone wants a relationship. Relationships hurt. We’re still human with needs. People sometimes just want the physical without the emotional part of relationships.

  • @priyanktiwari5152
    @priyanktiwari5152 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    I am speechless n I hv this strange feeling in my stomach
    I feel proud of him that he took the task to report that monster n got him arrested

    • @M60gunner1971
      @M60gunner1971 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Is that strange feeling in your stomach you regretting sex with other men?

  • @mariedalencourt3104
    @mariedalencourt3104 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    This is so cruel, I'm lost for words!😪

  • @oki2660
    @oki2660 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    That demon derserves the death penalty.. Also promiscuity with people you dont know has cost folks......

    • @slmdnkasr62
      @slmdnkasr62 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ollie the death penalty is mercy He needs to suffer in jail for the rest of his life

  • @ijosz
    @ijosz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    This is why i dont want hookups.
    One guy is enough even though im single😭

    • @EarthsGeomancer
      @EarthsGeomancer 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You look super cute.

    • @ijosz
      @ijosz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@EarthsGeomancer aww thank u. I think u too.😊

    • @shooklizard9039
      @shooklizard9039 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same

    • @ijosz
      @ijosz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I do believe in marriage so need for hookups👍

    • @ijosz
      @ijosz 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @d n hopefully LOL🤞

  • @blaeck_kitty8149
    @blaeck_kitty8149 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I feel so sorry for you. I had a boyfriend for 6 months, he gave me deliberately genital herpes and I know that it is seen as harmless but it has destroyed a huge part of my life. It is so hard Not to give in those negative feelings like wrath and anxiety. I wish you the best.

  • @keta3341
    @keta3341 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I'm so so sorry this happened to you. Prayers and love to you and the other victims. 💕💕💕

  • @nithinpapdeja6775
    @nithinpapdeja6775 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Without hiv world would have been a beautiful place

  • @fabrizio483
    @fabrizio483 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Do you mean one can't trust a total stranger met in a hookup app for the purpose of having sex? I'm shook!

    • @beautybys9142
      @beautybys9142 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Fabrizio poteva anche incontrarlo nella vita reale solo che se uno vuole fare del male riuscirà lo stesso ad arrivare al suo crudele obbiettivo. Questi mostri lo fanno in app perché riescono a rimorchiare più persone, ma come nel caso di talluti lo ha fatto con persone anche fuori dalla app

    • @shooklizard9039
      @shooklizard9039 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Shook indeed...some ppl want dick desperately without even knowing the person

  • @mamakalami
    @mamakalami 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    He was so unlucky, infected on the first encounter...

  • @mariahyohannes
    @mariahyohannes 5 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    giving complete trust to someone you met off grindr?

    • @paulhunter1525
      @paulhunter1525 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Its not just Grindr, most sex websites, before those it was phone chat lines. Although you can also meet lot of honesty nice guys upon them Be selective, asking questions. Learn other person's sexual history

    • @queensouth627
      @queensouth627 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's not only just grinder you can't trust anyone even if it's not on a website. You can't trust people you meet face-to-face either..

  • @joshpickles9022
    @joshpickles9022 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Lenny, you poor sweet man. Well done for stopping that animal. One day soon a cure will be found. Stay strong.

  • @shesagoddess3592
    @shesagoddess3592 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Lenny, you are so brave. Thank you for standing up for you and the other men. JUSTICE IS SERVED. We are so blessed that HIV cannot hurt us in the same way it did. Keep your head up, you did amazingly to get him jailed. Act on criminals immediately. Stay strong x

  • @agathangenzirabona8339
    @agathangenzirabona8339 5 ปีที่แล้ว +278

    Testing before having intimacy

    • @deenabee6279
      @deenabee6279 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Agatha Ngenzirabona - Exactly. I was best friends with the clinic when I was dating after separating and eventually divorcing my husband! Where I live (at that time, dont know what it is now) U were allowed free hiv testing every 6 months. If u came in between 6 months it was sliding scale, so still affordable. I dont know if people forget doctors exist or what.....AND I still used condoms. But I wanted to know what I was looking at in case of condom mishaps. And this is why.

    • @beneiseoleinmheart5614
      @beneiseoleinmheart5614 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Exactly. If I don't see test results in black &wht I don't want anyone touching me inside. You can't go by looks. Those the ones packing the most!!!

    • @beneiseoleinmheart5614
      @beneiseoleinmheart5614 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@deenabee6279 condoms are the biggest tricks of all. Only abstinence after a negative testing is for sure. Even is someone shows you their last test dates, it doesn't mean they haven't had unprotected sex between then. What's the point of sex if we have to worry about all these diseases!!!!

    • @beatricedevarenne2621
      @beatricedevarenne2621 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Purple Rane well fun fact is most of new contamination are without comdom! So clearly comdoms are not the problem

    • @dustywalter1947
      @dustywalter1947 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oraquick is easy to use and FDA approved

  • @thebeastfromwithin3024
    @thebeastfromwithin3024 5 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    You met him through Grindr? Need I say more? Grindr is a disgusting thing now.

    • @santoshthapa8398
      @santoshthapa8398 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      why?

    • @oldsouljs8042
      @oldsouljs8042 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@santoshthapa8398 it seems that alot of these guys telling their hiv stories have been infected by these grindr hookups

    • @santoshthapa8398
      @santoshthapa8398 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      OldSoul JS80 omg in a way i kinda feel good now becuz no one is talkin to me there . becuz they dont care for asian ppl thta much

    • @thebeastfromwithin3024
      @thebeastfromwithin3024 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@santoshthapa8398 yeah Grindr is a terrible app to use now.

    • @Commentator541
      @Commentator541 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What are you people on about? I am on grindr and I don't have sex with people I meet there loool.

  • @w.urlitzer1869
    @w.urlitzer1869 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    if someone in chat is "adamant to have unprotected sex" then you do not meet that person. period. blame yourself for this one.

    • @EthanLomas
      @EthanLomas 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      💯

  • @louistech112
    @louistech112 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Awe man I’m so sorry about what happened to you. Hopefully today we have some type of cure for HIV keep strong

    • @SageLaFlame
      @SageLaFlame 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      The Mind of Louis Dr. Sebi baby

  • @jordanatara1993
    @jordanatara1993 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    The ending had me crying. The fact that he’s so hopeful about the future is beautiful. He’s a hero for going to the police and stopping that guy from hurting anyone else.

  • @keishawilliams7546
    @keishawilliams7546 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is sad. Red flag number one is him being so set on having unprotected sex with you. I had this happen once and i stop messing with him it was odd behavior to me. Prayers going up to you.

  • @bmja2535
    @bmja2535 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Very difficult living with HIV.
    Also difficult to identify who’s responsible for it. Me or someone else.

  • @dantenelson1624
    @dantenelson1624 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This is so heartbreaking!😢💔

  • @MissSpaz
    @MissSpaz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you for reporting it to police, you have saved so many from also getting infected.

  • @xavierlastra1610
    @xavierlastra1610 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I wish you all the best,.I ENCOURAGE YOU,,hIV is not a dead sentence.Keep going.

  • @RBG-ez7pd
    @RBG-ez7pd 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    You can’t trust someone that you just met that day.

  • @ree3197
    @ree3197 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    He's so handsome btw.. hope he's doing well. So brave and strong for telling his story and going to the police, doing something about it, saving lives for certain. Bravo. 👏🏾😍

    • @M60gunner1971
      @M60gunner1971 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You'd still pack his fudge

  • @shon0032
    @shon0032 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    This was an evil act 😞

  • @gomolemofritz5966
    @gomolemofritz5966 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    This a difficult story to tell, you are really brave ❤❤❤🌹

  • @SilverScreenDreamer
    @SilverScreenDreamer 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My heart just sank watching this. There isn’t even a word to accurately describe how disgusted I am over what Darryl did.

  • @ladytea697
    @ladytea697 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    This is so sad 😢 I feel so terrible for him.

  • @vanessalikesapples
    @vanessalikesapples 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Wow this is bone chilling and I’m sorry this happened to you . My sister was purposely infected with hpv this year by her boyfriend twice her age . She started having sharp pains in her pelvic area and after a year being together he was like “ oops I have hpv”. She shortly had to be hospitalized. I wish she had the strength to report him to police and if I wasn’t pregnant I would rip him to shreds.

  • @cindys2995
    @cindys2995 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is TERRIBLE. The red flags were that he wanted to do it without - that's the time to RUN.

  • @JorgeDiaz-boy
    @JorgeDiaz-boy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    He is a brave guy. I admire him, not everyone can deal with all he's been through.👍👏

  • @karrey2706
    @karrey2706 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is really sad and he seems like a genuine person. Although it's not a death sentence, 20+year olds lived through the days when it was stigmatized and it remains super scary.

  • @amymenjivar3489
    @amymenjivar3489 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for having the courage to report it. 20 something came forward. Imagine how many didn't.