09:53 that's exactly how I feel... It's like I'm trying to put together a puzzle with thousands of pieces, but a lot of them are like "blank". It's confusing and overwhelming. I strongly feel that childhood and teenage years where really stressful, but I can't explain or figure out exactly why. I wrote a lot of memories, it's helping me a lot. Thanks ❤
Oh my goodness! This explains so much! Even today, I woke up in a great mood- first day of VACa- showered, dressed up, looking forward to a relaxing day and after about an hour, I start having anxiety about what should I be doing- Proverbs 1:33. "But whoever listens to me will dwell secure and will be at ease, without dread of disaster." Wow! Thank you again, Michelle!
I swear your making these videos personally just for me😁everyday I check and you have posted a new video that relates to exactly what I’m dealing with. It’s amazing!
Michelle. If it okay to say you are stunning and excellent at your job. We pray that you will have a peaceful, relaxing and blessed Christmas and Happy New Year for 2022 x
Life is not perfect for anyone ! The past cannot be changed to the perfection of today's thoughts ! Maturity is another level of heat and emotions ! Today you might feel new excitements that the past levels never experienced !!! Coach M is a very decent person and has so much to live for !! She will try to help us understand trauma and how to get rid of it ! I back you up Coach !!!😇🙏😎🆒
Im out and safe ♥️ Mistakes are derailing me. The ex, when I would make mistakes, would yell and scream at me, berate me for HOURS until I'd break down crying as well as felt like I was going crazy. In my mind, when I said I'm sorry to people, they'd see my sincerity and we'd make up 🤷🏻♀️ Not with Him. It. Was. Insane. Thank you for this video!! My intrusive thoughts have been really bad the last few weeks....like I was going bonkers!!!! Michele! 😭😭😭 Thank you!!
Fear of your OWN THOUGHTS . EXACTLY YOU HIT THE BULLS EYE . I cant begin how your work has helped me and helps so many people , you are a blessing to everyone on here and we love you
I've been binge watching narcissist videos for 8 months now and it is kept me strong and I have learned so much. I'm ready for your videos with just happen to come along and now I'm binge watching yours. The way you present the information with statistics graphs and the way you speak like you're not talking down to us or angry from your own experience. You are such a professional. I noticed that while watching you LOL I've had plenty to compare you to haha I just wanted you to know that
That s so true! I just wrote that in my comment, Michele is pretty and careful and professional... I have recommended her channel as one of the best! The champion of the youtubers!! 💐❤️🤗👠💆♀️💅
Is Michelle the most beautiful woman in the world...? Yes!... Michele, thank you soo much for your amazing videos! They are soo calming and is like a godmother or fairy explaining me all these things for my recovery... Thanks🙏💐
Don't look at it as a painful past ! Puppy love is real innocence and can awaken sensations in the imagination !! And if a girl is more than pretty she can control any fantasy without fear ! A good man that attracts you and you feel you can trust will not think twice into fulfilling your secret desires !!! Am I right Coach M?????
Has anyone had constant trauma 24/7 for like 60+ years? I feel like such an extreme case as I was singled out and battered physically, psychologically and emotionally wherever I went. It went waaaaay beyond childhood into old age. I don’t think there’s any hope for a person who has undergone that much abuse. I really want to give up. I’m ruined for good. I think if I could afford a good therapist instead of the abusive ones I’ve had that could help but I know that won’t happen. These videos are good but they don’t do it for someone like me.🥺
Had abuse my hole life I cannot forget it the amount I have lost after an abuser parent and abuser x partner my life never waa amazing ever only ripple effects of abuse
A little off the subject when here 'you' infer 'beating yourself up' around the 14 minute mark. Take-away the idea of trauma for a moment. People have the superficious flow of emotions but they are statically disengaged, their memories are not relevant to the current state of flow but they're in this timeless moment in sense anyhow. This state can range from regular, often, rarely to stagnant and can enhance or deplete our sense of presence and in a stimulated tense our sense of worth. Trauma can feel like being out of touch even without a trigger. Here we are looking for something tangible to integrate to the sequence of time, like a creative energy for which we'd might be in a daydream totally unaware of, the motors running but the cars up in jacks so to speak, neutrality. What's theraputical is to guide the concentration to either resolve an unresolved conflict of mind primarily or, to envelop a renewing sence of reason (slightly contrary to the normal active state of mind) so to put something into gear, effective reasoning/contemplation. The primary can assist with shaping up the later for generating greater productivity in state of mind, lucid and conclusively from the train of thought in the moment. A special sequencing to reason emotional manifestation of energy, mama. Tertiary to this is to return to an active state of operations I.e. to actually do something in the physical sence. Whats amazing and less of a play unto 'traumatization within the body', we just primed our emotional condition to activate and prime activity in a greater sense of awareness, to be present. De-shocked the system. How we residually cary this state (somewhat a mindful meditation in itself) can append our interest to further explore the state next time with intention (criterion) to make better use of in explorative terms and procure greater effect of it with our subconscious reasoning, however that might come to yeild benefitially or with exactness to what we might cognitively place or expect it to achieve and therefore do. Basically we just manipulated ourselves in a nice way non-intrusively, self-ideation. A bit like putting a penny in the slot machine. ✌😃
I personally don't take any - this is my personal opinion only - meds can help someone to calm symptoms down enough for them to then begin doing the inner work to rewire the brain and nervous system and to process and release the trauma - but they do not 'heal' or remove the trauma - they only treat the symptoms. For anyone that really wants to be free of the side effects of narcissistic abuse, childhood trauma or cptsd symptoms - it's really necessary to do the inner work!!
I’ll just tell you that they overdosed me on them and it seems to have permanently trashed my brain and nervous system so that I can’t stand up, walk, sleep at all and am constantly feeling faint. Maybe one or two as a short term solution to calm down, sleep and do the real work as Michelle said. Don’t let them ruin your life like they did with me.
09:53 that's exactly how I feel... It's like I'm trying to put together a puzzle with thousands of pieces, but a lot of them are like "blank". It's confusing and overwhelming. I strongly feel that childhood and teenage years where really stressful, but I can't explain or figure out exactly why. I wrote a lot of memories, it's helping me a lot.
Thanks ❤
❤️😔
Oh my goodness! This explains so much! Even today, I woke up in a great mood- first day of VACa- showered, dressed up, looking forward to a relaxing day and after about an hour, I start having anxiety about what should I be doing-
Proverbs 1:33. "But whoever listens to me will dwell secure and will be at ease, without dread of disaster."
Wow! Thank you again, Michelle!
Have experienced this alot. too!
I swear your making these videos personally just for me😁everyday I check and you have posted a new video that relates to exactly what I’m dealing with. It’s amazing!
Michelle is awesome.
Michelle. If it okay to say you are stunning and excellent at your job. We pray that you will have a peaceful, relaxing and blessed Christmas and Happy New Year for 2022 x
I love you for existing and your work . i hope you enjoy all the success this world has to give
This is so true. We must get the trauma out of our system. We must get both parts of our brains working together again. Thank you so much Michele.
Life is not perfect for anyone ! The past cannot be changed to the perfection of today's thoughts ! Maturity is another level of heat and emotions ! Today you might feel new excitements that the past levels never experienced !!! Coach M is a very decent person and has so much to live for !! She will try to help us understand trauma and how to get rid of it ! I back you up Coach !!!😇🙏😎🆒
Im out and safe ♥️ Mistakes are derailing me.
The ex, when I would make mistakes, would yell and scream at me, berate me for HOURS until I'd break down crying as well as felt like I was going crazy. In my mind, when I said I'm sorry to people, they'd see my sincerity and we'd make up 🤷🏻♀️ Not with Him. It. Was. Insane.
Thank you for this video!!
My intrusive thoughts have been really bad the last few weeks....like I was going bonkers!!!!
Michele! 😭😭😭 Thank you!!
Fear of your OWN THOUGHTS . EXACTLY YOU HIT THE BULLS EYE .
I cant begin how your work has helped me and helps so many people , you are a blessing to everyone on here and we love you
Thank you Michele, I appreciate everything you do 👍👍👍🏆🏆🏆
Wow, this is the first time I've heard someone describe my experience so precisely.
I've been binge watching narcissist videos for 8 months now and it is kept me strong and I have learned so much. I'm ready for your videos with just happen to come along and now I'm binge watching yours. The way you present the information with statistics graphs and the way you speak like you're not talking down to us or angry from your own experience. You are such a professional. I noticed that while watching you LOL I've had plenty to compare you to haha I just wanted you to know that
That s so true! I just wrote that in my comment, Michele is pretty and careful and professional... I have recommended her channel as one of the best! The champion of the youtubers!! 💐❤️🤗👠💆♀️💅
Need more on covert narcs and that whole dynamic
Is Michelle the most beautiful woman in the world...? Yes!... Michele, thank you soo much for your amazing videos! They are soo calming and is like a godmother or fairy explaining me all these things for my recovery... Thanks🙏💐
So grateful for you in my life
Let's get Michelle up to 250k following by January 1st. 😎
Don't look at it as a painful past ! Puppy love is real innocence and can awaken sensations in the imagination !! And if a girl is more than pretty she can control any fantasy without fear ! A good man that attracts you and you feel you can trust will not think twice into fulfilling your secret desires !!! Am I right Coach M?????
Thank you 🙏 going through it now .
You are awesome Michele❤
Thank you
Great content Michelle. Excellent delivery of information. I appreciate you and your work. Thanks for all your efforts. Keep up the good work.
Que Caliente son tus explicaciones de trauma y deseos !!!!
Has anyone had constant trauma 24/7 for like 60+ years? I feel like such an extreme case as I was singled out and battered physically, psychologically and emotionally wherever I went. It went waaaaay beyond childhood into old age. I don’t think there’s any hope for a person who has undergone that much abuse. I really want to give up. I’m ruined for good. I think if I could afford a good therapist instead of the abusive ones I’ve had that could help but I know that won’t happen. These videos are good but they don’t do it for someone like me.🥺
Please don’t give up. Please don’t let your abusers win. I’m sorry for what you have suffered. Things can get better. I’m rooting for you.
Had abuse my hole life I cannot forget it the amount I have lost after an abuser parent and abuser x partner my life never waa amazing ever only ripple effects of abuse
Wow. This hit hard.
Thank you so much x
Can you do a vid on suicidal ideation?
A little off the subject when here 'you' infer 'beating yourself up' around the 14 minute mark.
Take-away the idea of trauma for a moment.
People have the superficious flow of emotions but they are statically disengaged, their memories are not relevant to the current state of flow but they're in this timeless moment in sense anyhow. This state can range from regular, often, rarely to stagnant and can enhance or deplete our sense of presence and in a stimulated tense our sense of worth. Trauma can feel like being out of touch even without a trigger.
Here we are looking for something tangible to integrate to the sequence of time, like a creative energy for which we'd might be in a daydream totally unaware of, the motors running but the cars up in jacks so to speak, neutrality.
What's theraputical is to guide the concentration to either resolve an unresolved conflict of mind primarily or, to envelop a renewing sence of reason (slightly contrary to the normal active state of mind) so to put something into gear, effective reasoning/contemplation.
The primary can assist with shaping up the later for generating greater productivity in state of mind, lucid and conclusively from the train of thought in the moment. A special sequencing to reason emotional manifestation of energy, mama.
Tertiary to this is to return to an active state of operations I.e. to actually do something in the physical sence.
Whats amazing and less of a play unto 'traumatization within the body', we just primed our emotional condition to activate and prime activity in a greater sense of awareness, to be present.
De-shocked the system.
How we residually cary this state (somewhat a mindful meditation in itself) can append our interest to further explore the state next time with intention (criterion) to make better use of in explorative terms and procure greater effect of it with our subconscious reasoning, however that might come to yeild benefitially or with exactness to what we might cognitively place or expect it to achieve and therefore do.
Basically we just manipulated ourselves in a nice way non-intrusively, self-ideation.
A bit like putting a penny in the slot machine. ✌😃
Even Frankenstein monster had a trauma and had a wife too !!!!
My parents used it as supply? They loved it and why I’m conflicted perhaps
EFT ???l? I don't have hamigdalas !!! But I can shake it and not break it !!!! 😀
🙏🕊♥️
What's your take on meds? Do you take them?
I personally don't take any - this is my personal opinion only - meds can help someone to calm symptoms down enough for them to then begin doing the inner work to rewire the brain and nervous system and to process and release the trauma - but they do not 'heal' or remove the trauma - they only treat the symptoms. For anyone that really wants to be free of the side effects of narcissistic abuse, childhood trauma or cptsd symptoms - it's really necessary to do the inner work!!
I’ll just tell you that they overdosed me on them and it seems to have permanently trashed my brain and nervous system so that I can’t stand up, walk, sleep at all and am constantly feeling faint. Maybe one or two as a short term solution to calm down, sleep and do the real work as Michelle said. Don’t let them ruin your life like they did with me.
Thank you