STOP Receiving "Crumbs" from Your Specific Person

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  • @ShellyBullard
    @ShellyBullard  3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

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  • @inlovewithme3096
    @inlovewithme3096 4 ปีที่แล้ว +311

    Omg Shelly, my sp was feeding me crumbs. I watched this video earlier today and made some changes within myself and repeated those statements that you mentioned in this video. I'm super shocked right now that my sp asked me to go boating with him and meet his family. Wow, I was not expecting this to work so fast.

  • @duncanbest1031
    @duncanbest1031 4 ปีที่แล้ว +245

    I don't believe in "partial manifestation" anymore. The universe always knows what you want delivers even better than you imagined

    • @vintagesparkles4289
      @vintagesparkles4289 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      it just shows how aligned you are

    • @janica182
      @janica182 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I've experienced it, but it was my own fault. I think it gave me too much hope and then I got lazy. Or assumed the rest was on the way. Either way, I should stop believing in it too.

    • @loraincesare3743
      @loraincesare3743 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      You go 👍

    • @Mistysfedora
      @Mistysfedora 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nice

    • @kathie554
      @kathie554 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Great video. Very helpful

  • @e11zabeth714
    @e11zabeth714 4 ปีที่แล้ว +235

    Crumbs don’t satisfy me, I am manifesting the 5 course meal! 🥰

  • @WendyMHammer
    @WendyMHammer 4 ปีที่แล้ว +198

    Yessssss.... I AM NOT AVAILABLE FOR CRUMBS! I only accept the whole damn loaf! 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🔥

    • @yaarahaim6143
      @yaarahaim6143 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Wendy❤😘

    • @ShellyBullard
      @ShellyBullard  4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yess!

    • @WendyMHammer
      @WendyMHammer 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yaara Haim Hi!!! ♥️🥰

    • @emilymann4056
      @emilymann4056 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It does work

    • @birdiesong573
      @birdiesong573 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I only accept someone fully for comment me too I do not accept crumbs

  • @katharina1439
    @katharina1439 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    My father always gave me crumbs and never held his word when he promised to be there for me. 30 years later EVERY MALE HAS GIVEN ME CRUMBS. IT IS ENOUGH. I'm valuable, I deserve to be chosen and I will only accept 100%!

    • @Capeverdeprc
      @Capeverdeprc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I know your response is from a year ago but I had to comment because this resonated with me. In fact I had a conversation with my father a year ago telling him because of the way he showed up in my life are reasons I’ve accepted men who showed up as such. At that moment I had to change what I was accepting.

    • @ciggytwiggy
      @ciggytwiggy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Capeverdeprc omg same girl. Im so sick of this. Im gonna choose me everyday and forever.

    • @Capeverdeprc
      @Capeverdeprc 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ciggytwiggy yes choose YOU every single day!! We got this!!

    • @BrooklynBaby100
      @BrooklynBaby100 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Capeverdeprc omg same!! It’s so wrong that we are like this, but it starts NOW! We are loved and worthy of great love 💗

    • @Capeverdeprc
      @Capeverdeprc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@BrooklynBaby100 yes, we deserve the very best and nothing less! No more crumbs 🙌🏽💛

  • @samhitaparab
    @samhitaparab 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    If you become a person who's not available for crumbs, you are gonna start responding to differently to them, and they're gonna start responding to you differently!💖love this!

    • @ShellyBullard
      @ShellyBullard  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes!

    • @samhitaparab
      @samhitaparab 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ShellyBullard thank you Shelly♥️
      But, will he not mistake my not responding to crumbs as being arrogant or being not available?😅

  • @arvj123
    @arvj123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +161

    This is very important info, especially those who are fond of manifesting text messages from their SP. Crumbs you want, so crumbs you're gonna get.
    I don't want just text messages from my SP. I want us to be together in the 3D reality. It's all or nothing. And so I saturate myself in the inner experience of us already in a relationship :)

    • @AAPAI_24
      @AAPAI_24 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      arvj123 absolutely- same for me. I don’t want texts and I don’t want an apology. I want us together and that’s what I shall have. He knew from the beginning that I do don’t crumbs so the contact is very sporadic but never ‘crumby’

    • @ShellyBullard
      @ShellyBullard  4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Love it!

    • @musiclover1057
      @musiclover1057 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes me too 😭 sometimes i feel like its best for me to stop responding to text messages so they worry about me and wants to ask to see me in the 3D

    • @barkha717
      @barkha717 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If i want to manifest our marriage, but i don't want to get married till 3years. But i am now friends with my sp. So what should i do, shall i manifest relationship also? Or it will happen eventually? Please tell me

    • @Glamyougirl17
      @Glamyougirl17 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow dear & how do you do that?

  • @janica182
    @janica182 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Don't allow BETTER THAN NOTHING contact-- and boom, there's the ton of bricks. Shelly, you are absolutely on point with this video. Obviously we are creating our reality, but when we get a little bit of contact and run with it (because maybe this is all he's going to give me, so I'll take it), the result is disappointment. We have to do a lot of SELF LOVE practice as well in order to get the total package that we ordered from the universe. And that sucks for some, because they think it sets them back-- maybe it will, depending on your self awareness. But you can do self love practices and manifest an SP at the same time. You'll do it a lot easier after you have done that deep soul searching and recognize your own worth, but whatever works for each person. Thanks for this!!

  • @DianeD
    @DianeD 4 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    I'm shaking my head as I listen to this because YES -- this is so true and I have definitely done this in the past. "Take your attention off their pattern and construct a new imaginal reality of who they are and how they're being with you." Brilliant! I especially appreciate the practical suggestions in this video.

    • @ShellyBullard
      @ShellyBullard  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So glad you liked it!

    • @sherrietate3289
      @sherrietate3289 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I am absolutely blown away by the simplicity of what she's sharing. We create from the inside out. Our feelings tip the scale in our favor!

  • @mrsp8999
    @mrsp8999 4 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    I’ve not only been accepting crumbs, but have been grateful for them too. This has got to change, and I’d like to do that in a quiet non dramatic way so that ties aren’t cut. Thank you Shelley for your ongoing work, I view a lot of your video’s and can take something useful from all of them.🙏

    • @ShellyBullard
      @ShellyBullard  4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      So glad you like them❤️

    • @janica182
      @janica182 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Yes, non-dramatic... that's exactly how this should be handled. Just work on it from the inside and let the other party come to you. I agree that stirring a pot and telling them you're demanding more out of them probably isn't the best way to go about it.

    • @shriyachopra2148
      @shriyachopra2148 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      How to go about it when they text once in a day but not showing up fully as I want I have told him to talk to me when he wants me fully or not text me at all he still texts once in a day

    • @Mimi-mb1yn
      @Mimi-mb1yn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How would you do that? For me it's either I continue answering him or not at all! How to make him feel I don't accept breadcrumbs if I am still replying him?

    • @jennmanos2521
      @jennmanos2521 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      And if I don’t reply he gets so mad like we need to know how to reply to this the Shelley way lol

  • @dikshita9475
    @dikshita9475 4 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    Wow, did I manifest this topic? I genuinely was thinking on this as it’s my situation lol. Thank you Shelly

  • @JohnnyD-518
    @JohnnyD-518 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    LOVE THIS VIDEO! My SP has been initiating contact all week after implementing some of these practices.

    • @saharelias8248
      @saharelias8248 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      John DeOca hi will you share some of your practices? I love to hear what others do

    • @ShellyBullard
      @ShellyBullard  4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Amazing!!

    • @EadsB7002
      @EadsB7002 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same! Would love to hear more

  • @IammilliondollarmonthMauimama
    @IammilliondollarmonthMauimama 4 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    Yes!! I have decided that I am only receiving daily conversations and seeing eachother daily.. we are building an commitment, passionate, faithful and fun relationship only! Thank you hun

  • @georgianacatescu4551
    @georgianacatescu4551 4 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    This is so true... I only had success in my love life when I was fully confident in what I was bringing to the table and I wouldn't settle for less than I truly wanted. Once I lost than, I lost the relationship too... I really need to get back on track!

  • @katrinabattad9399
    @katrinabattad9399 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Shelly, I watched this video this morning because I was frustrated with my SP. I wanted to confront him but I kept telling myself that everyone is me pushed out. Tonight I liked how we talked. We have so much connection and I know that he is starting to realize that I am special and irreplaceable.

  • @i3ernal
    @i3ernal 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I think it’s important to realize that manifestation is mainly about yourself. We give our own power to others. Thank you for this video.

  • @TheMissAlira
    @TheMissAlira 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I got a text from SP today. It's been months since we broke up.We are talking respectfully and friendly to each other right now.

    • @TVDandLPSlover
      @TVDandLPSlover 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      If it’s okay, are you willing to share an update?

  • @michellecrocco2588
    @michellecrocco2588 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I love those powerful declarations! “I only accept someone is fully shows up for me!” ❤️👍🏻

  • @deepikabali9199
    @deepikabali9199 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I wish I had a love icon for loving this video, this is the actual ultimate thing I needed, to start slow and live in the end of that they're coming towards us and if they don't meet up to your standards, then it's nothing. All or nothing! Period! Love you Shelly ❤️❤️🌹🌹🙈🙈💞💞🤞🏻🤞🏻

    • @ShellyBullard
      @ShellyBullard  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wonderful! Glad you liked it ❤️❤️

  • @sreemoyeeghosh9672
    @sreemoyeeghosh9672 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Yes yes yes... and with each passing day I am feeling like the wish fulfilled already...easy breezy..💞💞💞💞💞

  • @EllieLouiseBell
    @EllieLouiseBell 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I don’t accept crumbs! I only accept someone fully showing up for me fully coming in and fully ready for commitment nothing less 😊

  • @erikamiglioranza1559
    @erikamiglioranza1559 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    this is exactly the missing link I was looking for. for a long time now I couldn't understand how to focus on both the manifesting process (mostly with imaginal acts and feeling the experience inside me, my favourite methods) and the "3d approach" of intentionally behaving a certain way, that I still value and I think might be the "path of least resistance" sometimes, for example asserting my boundaries and be respected and valued as a natural consequence of it. thanks to your video I've just realized that making the effort to not accept crumbs means that I show myself what kind of woman I am, and makes creating my new self-concept much easier. I mean, I have just showed the world, and myself, that I'm rare and valuable! it also means that I simply refuse the realities that I don't want, for example a reality where he never calls me, a reality where he's half friend/half boyfriend, etc, and allowing only THE reality that I want.
    this is a huge breakthrough for me Shelly, thank you so much. You keep changing my life and I'm forever grateful.

    • @ShellyBullard
      @ShellyBullard  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Beautiful! So glad you’re here❤️❤️

  • @danielagurule1296
    @danielagurule1296 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    OMG! I saw you on one of Matthew Coast’s videos. And I truly believe that I was divinely guided to you. You have blessed me with this video! I look forward to diving deeper into your work. Thank you for this loving guidance. We are beautiful beings, and we can manifest anything that we desire! When we believe in and love ourselves first! I’m learning! Thank you.
    💖🥰💖

  • @norsolehamohddali1500
    @norsolehamohddali1500 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    My SP came back but the same pattern happened. He showed up, then he is gone. He messaged me, then he left it hanging. But then he actively messaging other people at night, while leaving my messages hanging. I always wonder why the same pattern happened. Now I understand the reason. My imaginal experience and self concept. I must work on my self concept. That really needs consistent work.

  • @NinaBanina647
    @NinaBanina647 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    No more crumbs! 🍞 Not this lady. Lol 😂

  • @michaelmurray1716
    @michaelmurray1716 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    At one time this WAS the case...not anymore I changed my mindset and accept nothing less than what I give..

  • @ruthcarlisle2663
    @ruthcarlisle2663 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    This is perfect, I was starting to think about how to be at this stage, so we need to keep positive, continue with self love, continue imagining how we want them to be with us, imagining that our meetings with them are successful ( imagining our time spent with them to end successfully, and in relation to Living in the end) .
    Thank you Shelly Bullard, excellent advice as always.
    💕💕💕👌🙂

    • @ShellyBullard
      @ShellyBullard  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Amazing! So glad you’re here ❤️

  • @ninanakinskywalker
    @ninanakinskywalker 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    there are no coincidences, this video came up at the perfect time lol. I've been doing really well yet didn't even realize I was still assuming I'd get such long waited for scattered responses till you said all that. Going to work on it! thanks for this

    • @ShellyBullard
      @ShellyBullard  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So glad you liked it ❤️

  • @rachel_brite
    @rachel_brite 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Yes... He only shows up Fully for me.❤❤🔥 Thank you!🥰

  • @c.v9324
    @c.v9324 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I can't believe I've only just found you! You have helped me realize and actually see what I've been doing wrong and you make everything so clear and calm.
    (I just binge watched on all of your vídeos ...where have you been all my life)!!😊😇🙏

    • @ShellyBullard
      @ShellyBullard  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So glad you’re here 🤍✨🙏

    • @kimdvine
      @kimdvine 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree. She popped up in my suggested and I needed it. I have leaned back with the love of my life and working on me and doing all of her suggestions.

  • @cocochanel6903
    @cocochanel6903 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I actually love this video. It was very helpful. I am going to revisit the claimed and cherished exercise

  • @oliwiajachimowska4090
    @oliwiajachimowska4090 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Going to try that right away, I intend to update with positive results soon

  • @emine9313
    @emine9313 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Your explanation regarding the acceptance of crumbs really makes us identify the level of value and self worth we have even further. Thank you x

    • @ShellyBullard
      @ShellyBullard  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      You’re welcome! Glad you liked it ✨

  • @iffatjahan1111
    @iffatjahan1111 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am also receiving crumbs right now...universe is showing me the way...thank you Shelly ❤️

  • @valeriejoyes8839
    @valeriejoyes8839 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Self love, self esteem...the keys for everything. Thank you so much Shelly. Take care💜

  • @tanishambush
    @tanishambush 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi! I’m a new subscriber and I love your channel!! I’ve been going through old videos and I came across this one last night. I tried this and I eventually fell asleep. Well, an incoming good night text from my SP woke me up! So this morning as I was getting ready for work, my SP called me… he said I sent you a text 5 minutes ago but you didn’t respond. Lol. 🤦🏾‍♀️ So this absolutely works. We are also supposed to meet up for lunch today! I’m going to continue to focus on myself and going within. Thank you.

  • @Maicurls
    @Maicurls 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hey Shelly! It’s funny how recently all your videos are about things I have been wondering about and this video just made it clear. Eg to change my subconscious mind/limiting beliefs I’d wonder do I need to say things like “i know he wants me” or “he wants me” or “I am the woman he wants”, “I know he wants to go back into a relationship”, “he wants a relationship again” “I am the only woman he wants” 🤯. I think a lot of times many of us “allow” or sp’s to breadcrumb us because we are worried if we say/act out that we won’t accept crumbs then we’ll lose them completely even if it’s just crumbs we’d be losing. Without fully recognizing that the crumbs we’re not happy with yet clinging onto are created by us in the first place! And we can change that! Thanks again, Shelly. ❤️

  • @froggiealicia
    @froggiealicia 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I like the concept 💡 of "training" them how to show up. Somehow that clicked.

    • @sherrietate3289
      @sherrietate3289 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Practicing the imaginal concept is fun and takes the focus off what u don't want. Love it!

  • @Bee-you-tee-ful
    @Bee-you-tee-ful 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Amazing video Shelly ( i typed this before watching plus this is the 111th comment, that's a great sign lol)

  • @Innerharmonyhub888
    @Innerharmonyhub888 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Love it!!! ✨ You are queen Shelly👑
    each time I watch your video I always learn something new.
    I'm already living my dream life.
    Thank you for choosing me as winner 😉❤

    • @ShellyBullard
      @ShellyBullard  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      You’re welcome! So glad you’re here❤️

  • @storm8254
    @storm8254 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have been listening to your videos for a about a month then on one you said don't accept crumbs .I thought deeply about that realizing that what I have been doing .So then I was like Im just going to be open to anyone ,not just my specific person . Then I got the self love course ,which is phenomenal . It really helped me . About 2 days after that I met someone online and they are all the things that I was wanting from my specific person . Exactly like I wrote down and thought about .Including their age and body type . .Its so Amazing . !!! Thank you !

    • @ShellyBullard
      @ShellyBullard  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wonderful!✨

    • @akansha8022
      @akansha8022 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Can u plzz help with what is there in the free self love course

  • @erikamiglioranza1559
    @erikamiglioranza1559 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    uuuh great topic Shelly!

  • @mann2153
    @mann2153 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you so much sister 🖤 for always reminding me that my life is in my control and settling for anything less than I want is not a option in my life.

  • @karencooper3428
    @karencooper3428 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you universe, perfect timing for this reminder 🤗

  • @mitzaryrosales5989
    @mitzaryrosales5989 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love this video it came at a perfect time! I have a person I'm interested in and we are talking but latetly i only get a text back at a certain time every day. This was starting to piss me off, because conversations like these are frustrating. Anyway I have been thinking about this a lot these days and decided that I wasn't going to take that. Either you talk to me and engage or you don't but I'm not going to sit all day and wait for answers. I know that I was accepting these crubs because I would get excited to recieved that one text. But I'm done I'm worth so much more than that. I'm aware of the assumptions that I created so I'm just going to work on that. I know this stuff works. Plus I know he likes me just it's just me needing to work on the my self beliefs Thank you Shelly, your words confirmed what has been going on in my head!!!👍❤😊

  • @gabriellaguzman9254
    @gabriellaguzman9254 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Your videos relax me. You are so wise and graceful, sending me beautiful vibes. Sending you love and positivity! Xo

    • @ShellyBullard
      @ShellyBullard  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aww thank you! Glad you enjoy them❤️

  • @ganapatiborikar2332
    @ganapatiborikar2332 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Actually very crucial explanation for those who are suffering from depression. Lot of Thanks for encouragement and how to be happy with ourselves. 😊

  • @tanishaslater9305
    @tanishaslater9305 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So glad I found you! This was extremely helpful!

  • @samanthakhan2647
    @samanthakhan2647 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi Shelly. Its Samantha from Cape Town. I love your videos and find it really helpfull. Thank you

  • @estilevi3109
    @estilevi3109 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Very important it really isn't about the other person it's about us and loving ourselves ❤️
    You're awesome,💛💚💜

  • @goddesssokomani8567
    @goddesssokomani8567 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm really glad you made a video on this subject, I remember asking you about this. It just confirms that I'm on a right path because that's the same mindset I had. I've refused to accept crumbs.

  • @spacemonstersmagazine921
    @spacemonstersmagazine921 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I've been trying to manifest my sp for going on 5 months.
    I haven't seen any signs but I do feel an energetic connection.
    I am new to Manifesting but I've been manifesting virtually everything that I want except for my sp.
    But I have been seriously focused on it. I have put everything I have into it.
    But the past few days I'm feeling more at ease.
    I've been doing that guided meditation you made multiple times a day every day.
    I had a lot of doubts and fears about whether there was a third party or not for months.
    But I have been changing my thinking and if any of that comes up I change it to. No she's faithful to me and has eyes only for me.
    So I am doing everything I'm supposed too.
    Now I feel more at peace and I try to maintain the feeling that we are partnered constantly.
    Sometimes I feel very connected. Usually I do when I visualize that our minds, bodies and souls are melded together as one.
    If anyone has any pointers I'd love that.
    I really love this woman but also I kind of think that the reason it hasn't been manifested yet is because I have chased and I've been working on not doing that and I always have it on my wind because I want her with me.
    So it's probably because I just focus on it too much and need to think of other things so the universe can work.

    • @akansha8022
      @akansha8022 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      U r a wonderful person and u deserve what u want

  • @bambi0607
    @bambi0607 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is simply good relationship advice - whether it’s metaphysics or not. 👍🏻

  • @1palyour
    @1palyour 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks for being here to teach us
    ❤️Shelly!❤️ No crumbs from you!👍

  • @Bethms123
    @Bethms123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I've been frustrated with this recently, so I feel like I manifested this video into my reality. 😆 Listened a few times already. I love your channel, thanks so much!

    • @ShellyBullard
      @ShellyBullard  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amazing! Glad you liked it✨

  • @Fany3d
    @Fany3d 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Can’t wait to watch this!

  • @elliptor
    @elliptor 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are so insightful. You have quickly become my favorite guidance for Loa

  • @MichaelGackler
    @MichaelGackler 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I appreciate this video. I believe you may be the only person who has addressed getting "some" attention but not sufficient attention. Thanks for not assuming that it is all or nothing with an SP.

  • @lionesssai5957
    @lionesssai5957 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I definitely needed this video..
    I only receive all the attention.
    Thank you Shelly for creating one

    • @ShellyBullard
      @ShellyBullard  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      You’re welcome! Glad you liked it ✨

  • @lenalauruc9117
    @lenalauruc9117 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This subject I’ve had in my mind since yesterday 😁 even though I’m still struggling with a lot of anger and even hate because of this behavior 😁❤️ thanks a lot Shelly

  • @theoracleyogi2903
    @theoracleyogi2903 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for this video ❤️❤️
    I pulled away my energy completely and will only accept the changed version of him in the 3D😊 and after watching this video I'll starting believing a new pattern 😊😊🌼

  • @sigalm8205
    @sigalm8205 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I do this actually very strongly from the first phone call or date.. don’t have patients for nothing less.
    Thanks for this beautiful video!!
    Great as always😋😋

  • @kate7932
    @kate7932 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Once he started giving me breadcrumbs, I tried to see if it could be solved first, and once I understood there was nothing I could do, (since that isn’t what I want), I let this relationship go and went away.. I’m so proud of myself for not accepting it and not holding on to something that wasn’t making me happy anymore ❤️

    • @kabliyyamuhammad983
      @kabliyyamuhammad983 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together

    • @kabliyyamuhammad983
      @kabliyyamuhammad983 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ±2347025731492⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️
      Hello it's work I can't believe

    • @kabliyyamuhammad983
      @kabliyyamuhammad983 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wh@tspp him

  • @robelbeyene1320
    @robelbeyene1320 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much shelly,this is it(the video).i stopped texting my sp(whom i attracted to be my husband) 3 weeks ago because i was the only who text first and i some how believed i should stop and let him make the move now.and this video gave me courage.Thank you again and i believe that he is missing me and will contact me very soon❤

  • @emilymann4056
    @emilymann4056 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Shelly! This really does work I started manifesting someone to text me when he was only giving me crumbs by pretending he loves texting to to only get more and more attention :)

  • @22tracerose
    @22tracerose 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think I manifested this video since I was thinking about this very topic only a few hours ago! Thank you so much Shelly, for all your guidance. x

    • @ShellyBullard
      @ShellyBullard  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      So glad you liked it✨❤️

  • @melmeow6479
    @melmeow6479 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is so important! Definitely applies to friendships as well!

  • @harpremjeetkaur4956
    @harpremjeetkaur4956 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh Shelly...thank you for this video.... This video nailed it ... I have been very frustrated these last days. We had no contact for almost two months. He blocked me... then he decided to contact me and we have been talking every single day on the phone. We are very close to each other BUT he says he wants me only as a FRIEND. This is painful! As you've well said, I accepted that but made me unhappy. I definitely want him as my partner for the rest of my life.
    To be his friend is not really an option for me.
    I have been imagining, scripting, trying my best to pick the right thoughts....but the situation is not changing.
    I feel frustrated and tired. I would like to give up because I don't see what to do!
    After watching your video, decided to call him and did it!
    I told him this time I will be the one who wants to decide what to do I informed him that I will block him for a while to gain some clarity. I also said that do not want a "half-backed "relationship. I want a full commitment in a relationship and don't want to be friends with him. Everything or nothing!
    He replied: ok!
    What made me even more crazy.
    I feel he has all the power....so I need to see how to change my beliefs... And understand that I am the one who is in charge of what's happening in my reality. It seems to be difficult though to revert this.... I have a strong belief that he is the one who decides ... And he doesn't want to be in a romantic relationship with me.
    What can I do?!!!
    Thank you!!

    • @mariposa4215
      @mariposa4215 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      He said very clear, only FRIENDS, you can't force someone to love you.

  • @harpremjeetkaur4956
    @harpremjeetkaur4956 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I believe imagining the wedding ring and staying there while imagining, was a bit of an obstacle.... or not?!
    There is definitely an improvement between non communication to being communicating in an intense way every single day for a month now. But we were stuck there... I felt unhappy with accepting that situation...
    After telling him this, I feel relieved...I hope something changes now!

  • @faith9180
    @faith9180 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for posting this video. This gave me more clarity and deeper sense as to why I should stop receiving crumbs from my SP or anyone. This just heightened my self esteem and will definitely do this. I’m only available for someone who’s showing up fully to me. 😘😘😘

  • @zoobadee
    @zoobadee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am going on a binge of all your videos , You are my new favorite !!! This video is EXACTLY what I needed to watch . Thank you for the video darlin !!!

    • @ShellyBullard
      @ShellyBullard  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      So glad you’re here!❤️

  • @katiuszka9121
    @katiuszka9121 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Omg thank you so much for this video! Now I really know what to work on, I need to believe I deserve full attention and commitment and a great partner, not just breadcrumbs! I've already prepared some affirmations to repeat, I wasn't even aware that I accepted much less than I deserve! Working on my beliefs from now on, no contact with SP, I want to have him fully or not at all 🥳🥰

  • @laurenmichelle1782
    @laurenmichelle1782 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Ooooo, so excited for this one! Amazing, thank you for everything you do!

    • @ShellyBullard
      @ShellyBullard  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lauren Michelle 🙏🏼♥️

  • @queenk1289
    @queenk1289 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh gosh ... I’ve been receiving crumbs and was thinking it was a sign of partial manifestation. I know I am deserving of better and that is all I will accept - thank you Shelley - love it ! 💓

  • @TanayaAmar
    @TanayaAmar 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Learned something new today! 😳 Thank you! 🥰

  • @yiinyang1004
    @yiinyang1004 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    yes! i needed this reminder. i don’t accept crumbs!

  • @musiclover1057
    @musiclover1057 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Shelly, your videos come to me at the right time each time. I just started talking to someone new for over a month and so far we only hung out with other people our friends, never really alone. I am trying to manifest more because thats just “crumbs”. I want a relationship with them and to see him alone! I hope i get this soon. Im trying my best!

  • @shameikar2123
    @shameikar2123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This video is right on time. I am not available for crumbs and half assness. I am a queen and should be treated as such. It is all or nothing!

  • @marisabeltorres2722
    @marisabeltorres2722 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Well I just manifested this video 😊 I was looking for it yesterday, I couldn’t find it. Put out an intention I will find it when I have to see it. I opened up my TH-cam and here you are! 😊🌈

  • @joannaperkins4652
    @joannaperkins4652 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Woah. I think this video set off a major epiphany for me! Haha so funny I clicked on this video, cuz it has nothing to do with my situation 😂 Thanks, Shelly - you are a rockstar!!😘😘😘

  • @autumnk1040
    @autumnk1040 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your voice is so cheerful! Thanks for the video 😙

  • @nessalight8681
    @nessalight8681 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Girl I am just gobbling up your videos. This shit is gooooold.

  • @angelscott8589
    @angelscott8589 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    No more crumbs, I am going to get the whole loaf!

  • @belindairvine1666
    @belindairvine1666 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You have taught me so many tools for self growth in the last few weeks I discovered you! Thanks Shelly 💕

  • @SayItSammy
    @SayItSammy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Shelly you have some of the cutest earrings!

  • @pearcedatri3004
    @pearcedatri3004 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yessss ! Thank you for always giving us real advice in such a way that every one can grasp the concept. And your examples really help and very important .

  • @Theterrysuggsjr
    @Theterrysuggsjr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I will be back within 7 days with my success story!

  • @nainjotkaur1042
    @nainjotkaur1042 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks Shelly. Such a nice video. I was thinking on same line. I just woke up and saw this, definitely I have manifested this video. Thanks for shifting my focus.. looking forward for more videos

  • @YaHaHeeHooPondue
    @YaHaHeeHooPondue 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you, Shelly 💙 I went to close things off in the 3d with my SP about 3 weeks ago (break our lease, organise belongings, etc.) and he asked if we could sleep together casually. I said no to this, that I need some degree of commitment, planning in advance, etc. & later said actually, before anyone asks anything of anyone, we should just catch up and see if the vibe is still there. We agreed to stay open to revisiting this down the line, as the timing has been awful and we've had stuff to work through independently
    We were going to catch up on the weekend and he ended up getting tested for covid. He thanked me for my offer of going to pick food up for him and said he hopes I'm well. I sent a couple of texts (that weren't opened) in response and one today saying I hope he's feeling better.
    He still hasn't read any of them and I started to spiral and caught myself (this always ends up in me "talking things out" and getting anxious). I started affirming because I know i'm the damn prize and got busy in my own life and I'm about to head to bed & feel pretty great 😁 I won't accept crumbs and I won't make excuses for other people, either

  • @darrelknight8657
    @darrelknight8657 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Another great video! ❤️
    Want the whole cookie. No crumbs!

  • @daboz8753
    @daboz8753 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    funnily enough, this is super relevant (I mean more than usual, lol) So the person I'm hoping to become friends with, actually faved one of my comments on twitter last night, and I was honestly overjoyed JUST to have gotten that. I've been focusing on getting a full blown message, but that alone to me was extremely encouraging, as they rarely fav anyones comments or responses (and I'd actually made this comment like 2 months ago and forgot about it). I mean it was a big deal to me just for that, it's like 'yes, I'm on my way!', and aside from that there's constantly the repetitive numbers lately. I mean it's crazy, it's gotten to the point where every time I see 1111 or 444 I'm like 'okay universe, I hear you, I'm ready already!' so yea, but this coming up right after that to remind me of what I need to keep doing to get the full blown manifestation, just awesome. Love the universe, and your vids as always.

  • @cc-lc4sp
    @cc-lc4sp 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is perfect timing for me! Thank you 🤍

  • @vivianmontgomery9082
    @vivianmontgomery9082 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks Shelly, as always very helpful. This is what's happening at the moment. But at least it's headed in the right direction.

  • @I_am_perfection
    @I_am_perfection 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video! I realize my mental diet is good but I'm not creating new visions or having a new story running in my head as how I'd like them to be. Now, I know what to work on. Thanks!!

    • @ShellyBullard
      @ShellyBullard  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      ❤️❤️

    • @I_am_perfection
      @I_am_perfection 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ShellyBullard There's so much to remember and think about!!

  • @Nataliyamusic
    @Nataliyamusic 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Also adding to this that I'm not available for crumbs when it comes to jobs / work 🙌

  • @sasaristic1754
    @sasaristic1754 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow, I was blown away for this amaizing explanation.
    The way you resonate with me is really impressive.
    Thank you so much Shelly

    • @ShellyBullard
      @ShellyBullard  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You’re welcome! So glad it resonated with you✨

  • @shehaniliyanage4810
    @shehaniliyanage4810 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh, it is awesome😍😱. I just thought about my sp and this video popped up on my screen. I think I manifest your video lol.😝
    Thank you so much shelly for sharing this valuable knowledge with us. Good luck. Xxoo. Lots of love from Sri Lanka💖💖💕💕

    • @ShellyBullard
      @ShellyBullard  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amazing! So glad you liked it✨❤️

  • @newerachannel9418
    @newerachannel9418 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My comments going to be number 333. Definitely i am going to apply this concept that you mentioned. I love this and i am sure i will succeed

  • @nataliejackson6526
    @nataliejackson6526 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    New to your channel, love your content, self worth rising over here 🙋🏼‍♀️ x