I was being ignored by my SP as I was always the one making moves, texting him and he wasn't responding much. I didn't know what was happening until I started watching Shelly's videos. She mentions a lot that our inner reality creates our outer reality. I eventually realized that I was the one constantly expecting him to ignore me because I believed that he thought I was annoying or that he just wasn't interested. Shelly's self-love videos changed my life. I started telling myself that I am worth it and I won't take him treating me the way he is. I changed the story in my head and convinced and believed that I am everything to him. I eventually stopped reaching out to him because if he's not gonna do the same then I don't need him. I stopped feeling lack and focused on myself. It has been three weeks now that he's constantly messaging me and we're going on a date next week
Nobody has the power to ignore me in my reality unless I don’t want them in my life anymore and intend for them to go away. Everyone is me pushed out😝 I am the god in my reality.
I forgive myself for ignoring me and giving my attention to others first.I choose to look within and feel the divine presence, love and peace in me. I detach from him and allow him to reach out and shower me with attention, affection and love and respect only.
1-ignoring is a type of rejection .. and the solution is being present with urself and ask urself why am I giving my energy and love to someone who is rejecting and ignoring me while I’m here the one who’s ignored the one who needs love ? 2- give ur energy , your love , ur care and ur acknowledgement to urself bc u’re the one that needs these things not the person that’s ignoring u 3- stop identifying with the person who is ignored ( especially by urself ) and start affirming and identifying with being acknowledged and loved by everyone and know that the beauty is really in the eye of the beholder and that u’re loved in the way u like to be loved rn 4- ask urself was I really giving my care and attention and energy to someone who were rejecting me ? Who do they think they are ? 😂& have a laugh at urself ( you will never do that again !! ) YOU WON’T EVER ACCEPT LESS THAN U DESERVE !!!
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,l got help from a great man who brought us back together....♻️♻️
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,l got help from a great man who brought us back together....♻️♻️
This SP Journey is like peeling back the layers of an onion, but I’m grateful to uncover the true source of my problems as I’m going along. It’s quite a wake up call to think about the ways we make ourselves smaller and how we accept only partial attention just because that’s what’s we know.
Self love is my priority right now. When I begin the think of him, I switch my thoughts and my focus to me. It’s about not trying to “get” something from the outside and providing it for yourself.
Shelly, I acted in my relationship on a auto pilot, my inner child was running the show, I followed. I knew something was “off but I didn’t understand why I was acting that way. I was attracting good looking successful guys but I was suffering with fears, and accepting they will soon find someone else... it is soo understood now!! In fact inner child work , your videos and courses really help me !! I wish I had you before but better late then never. You are amazing!!!
Reading your comment I so relate to this. Weirdly the SP I would like to attract back (when we are both ready) said I hope the adults get to run more of the show from now on referring to my inner child. I've been really working on inner child work in counselling. At 41 and a counsellor myself I want to finally be free of this negative thinking. The relationship ended because I was struggling to feel worthy of love. He held my inner child as much as he could but I need to hold her and soothe her so she believes herself that she is worthy of love.
I've watched this a few times and I've never had the realization I just had because I thought --- well I don't recall being ignored when I was younger, however I have been ignoring myself! ignoring my needs what my body needs what my soul needs and just pushing forward towards goals, now that I know I won't zone out I'll stay present with myself, excited to see what happens!
Two things I have to say: 1) inner child work - whenever I feel low/hurt/ abondoned..I go back and soothe myself, which has made me feel lighter from the inside. I am not sure of whether I am /am not triggered by what's going on outside,but I am sure I am not adding to any more wounds on my inner child! That's a done deal 💕 2) changing my inner expectation: since I am learning to keep MYSELF FIRST, I have started to set inner boundaries which don't allow me to waver from me being my first priority. And what I've observed is , one of my recent affirmations is : I am the queen and my sp (SM) treats me like a queen! And I am so glad that it popped up naturally!I don't feel lack anymore. Though we're in regular contact now, I'm sure that he'll soon show up the way I want him to! So basically, if I change my inner expectations I'll automatically expect it from others because EIYPO!❤️
Thank you so much Shelly, it's been a month since I've following your channel and learn how to manifest my SP, I learn how to love and focus on myself first then suddenly he texted and asked me out last night even though we didn't talk or see each other for 6 months. I'm so grateful that it finally works!!
@@ShellyBullard I listen to your self-love meditation every night, I repeat to myself that there's no 3rd party, I can feel him coming towards me, this rls is mine, I am worthy...then recently I started to see tons of happy couples, wedding dresses ads on my newsfeed and 11:11, it was amazing. Now I'm starting to manifest him to text me and want to spend time with me.
Today I wrote in my gratitude journal that I am thankful for Shelly Bullard entering my life and giving me the light, peace and meaning beyond everything. I can see clearly. Feel fully. Live calmly. And it is forever, not for a period of time. 🥰💗💫
I love that you’re open about the fact that you have practiced what you’re teaching and that is has brought your results. You being living proof is very encouraging to me and I’m sure many others. 💓
Make someone stop ignoring you..!! What do you do to make someone stop ignoring you..? * Essentially we create our reality. * If we are the reality of being ignored we have create this by our own. * You threw your own beliefs expecations or beliefs , you have someone kind of expecation within you to be ignored, left or abandoned. * This comes from usually past , way back from childhood. * We are exposed to behaviour as kids from our parents , any ongoing experience from childhood. * You dont actually dont have to go back and findout to heal the wound . * This experience comes in your reality due to this past experience. How to create a new reality of not being ignored. :::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::: 1.) To create a new reality you must change your expectation whats gonna happen to you. * Changing your self concept, your beliefs etc. * The main to stop ignorance is changing your inner reality. * Everyone is you pushed out. They act acoording to your alignment of your expecations. * We are living with some sought of expectation in our realitionship that this is gonna happen. ********************************** A.) SELF - LOVE. * self love incredibely potent in treating ignorance. * when you show up to yourself when you want the same way to be treated by others. * You automatically develop the expecation of people showing up to you. * You also raise your self standards that you wil be only treated in a certain way * Self love is huge when it comes to change your entire experience with self and others. ************************************ B.) INNER CHILD WORK. * The best thing to do also is inner child work * if you notice a pattern of ignorance in relationship this is the best practice to do. * this a potent practice to do. * This is a indication that there is a wounded self within you who expects to be ignored and by practing child work you say to your self that your gonna be there for the wounded self.❤ * When you start to feel ignored or triggerd. * Go within yourself hold yourself tight and talking to him/ her. * That your here for them, you are never gonna leave them. * When you do this consistently it is gonna heal you from within. * By doing this you no longer be triggred from outside reality. * You dont expect to be dropped any more since you show up to yourself. * When you change your expectation you will change your reality. #################################### 2.) You must create a new expectation what the person is doing with you in your reality. * Dont jump to this step directly. Do the first step nicely. * Once you develop a deep self love you can move step two * When you feel confident and centered in your self then you can go within and create a new reality of how will the person show up to you. * dont focus completely on them ignoring you what you focus on create more of. * Raise your self more often deeply. * Start to imagine a new scenario with your sp. + they are not ignoring me they are coming towards me. + they are thinking of me all the time. + They wanna reach out to me. + They are starting to come back. + I feel them coming to me. * Feel the truth of these affirmartions. * Feel this new reality and amplify this new reality. * people have to.allign to your expectations. * Do this on a consistent basis . * Change your self concept. *and you will see the evidence in the outer reality❤ Thank You Shelly ❤️
Yes, become focused on your own life + worth and you probably will stop even caring if they are ignoring you (and then ironically, watch them contact you) haha!
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,l got help from a great man who brought us back together....♻️♻️
I love the inner child concept - that is very important to know for those of us who have no idea how it works. I used to work as a social worker for street children and I know how hurt they are inside when they are abandoned and have no one to look up to. Thank you and hope to have more from this concept.
I never comment but this was too much not too. As I was watching this I realized I've identified those inner child issues before but I was looking for an outside source (i.e. my specific person) to heal those past traumas instead of loving myself. As I was watching the video and making the connection I replayed a few parts especially her affirmations until I really felt good about them. The part that forced me to comment was that no sooner did I do this I got a text from my S.P.! Today is 4/9 and we haven't spoken since 3/27! I realized this was the first time during that separation that I was focused only on loving myself. This works!!! Shelley you are a true blessing for sharing this with the world!! From the bottom of my heart I thank you and Im so unbelievably grateful! Life changing!!
I'm going to watch your inner child Playlist. this is something I keep coming back to. I want to stop doing this. thank you for this. you're awesome Shelly!!
Dear Ms. Bullard, I have watched so many videos, such different aproach to everything and you are the first one to land everything for me. I am sure you have your own purpose to make your videos, but I am that individual who was in profound need for some clear guidance, and I thank you deeply for your generous teachings. I wish you success and I will totally buy your courses as soon as I can. Much love ❤
That's some pretty powerful information there, Shelly! I remember feeling 'not enough' when i was about 2yrs old...so i'm not sure where that came from! Im 57 now, and hardly worth digging into, put certainly time to show myself some empathy and compassion!
I keep telling myself she loves loves me and constantly thinking about me...I am worth loving.... So far no change still ignore me same way she did when we broke up 5 years ago....she has third party that they call steady friend to her....i think it hurt me....I keep working on me bc I know someone does love me in future...
One thing I realize is I one doing chasing making mistakes of fixing what broken in her life instead of fixing broken part of my life..I started focusing on me .
I did the inner child work through one of your courses purchased through MBG a few years ago. I remember sitting at my table crying huge tears of years of release!! It was life changing.
Yesterday I was listening to this random meditation music for positivity on TH-cam. During the meditation there was me and a mirror image of me. N i im telling myself" i love you ","you are enough ","everything is going to be ok" . I cried i cried so hard because im pretty much a loner and i keep myself busy but sometimes it's so much especially since im unemployed, broke and still have bills and rent to pay. When i was working I would check upnon different ppl ask if they're ok... no one has done that 4 me. My sp n i were really close it's been a while I've been trying to manifest him. I know its not entirely to do with what she was saying but it was the highlight of my day. I've never cried during meditation. I was actually hugging me.i hope this helps someone out there.
As ever this advice is invaluable and Shelly you are simply AMAZING!!Everything you say and express is so true and resonates with every corner of my soul.Recently I've changed the reality in my head and rather than a running commentary of "why hadnt he messaged me,doesnt he care?Why does he treat me like this blah blah blah" I've now gone to "He loves messaging me,he is thinking about me inbetween the messages,his messages are filled with what I want to read,he's always showing up,he cares and he is present". It's been working beautifully and I am getting a steady stream of very present-messages that Express what I want to read. My inner reality is manifesting as my outer reality....the future is exciting and what lies ahead is my inner visualisation. Thank you Shelly....and cannot wait for more of your words of wisdom!! 🙏🌻🙏🌻🙏🌻🙏🌻🙏🌻
@@ShellyBullard I've got it!!!Thank you so much again...this is the first time I've ever won anything!I'm so grateful...and thank you for everything you do and say to help and reach people like me.You're an angel!🧚🏽♀️🧚🏽♀️🌷🌷🙏🙏🧘♀️🧘♀️🌼🌼
I have been doing this very thing......i am going to make self love and reassure myself daily that I'm here......i need to change myself concept....thank you!!!!you have really helped keep me centered.
I'm so glad I found your Channel. You explained everything so well. A while back I listen to Louise Hays, she explained how to look into your eyes in the mirror and tell yourself, I love you. At first it was strange. But I started really feeling the love. I like how you put your hand on your heart and hold yourself. You don't feel I'm alone so much you're putting that love back into yourself. It sounds kind of strange. But I feel it actually does help. Thank-you for all you do!🤗🌻🥀💖
Thank you. I'm triggered and whilst feeling immensely disappointed in myself after a few weeks of major improvements (and bought your course), this reminded me that being able to self soothe is part of the work I need to do (self concept can include not wanting to exist when 3D hurts bad. Eugh). I totally dodge inner child work. I can't bear the idea and yet I probably really need to do it and I suck at the self talk currently...which says a lot. Anyway, sorry tedious long msg but thank you for showing it's part of the process. Part of my seeing them with love is to flip all the blame on myself which is so heavy to bear. If you haven't done so, I'd appreciate a video on hormones. My period is due tomorrow and I am genuinely feeling total chaos. A few days ago, until a friend totally undermined my belief system, I was in a good place!
New subscriber! I really needed this video and I’m so glad I found it. Thank you so much Shelly. It’s late but I can’t stop watching. You’re like my own therapist and I’m showing up all the time.
Yes add me, the last 3 months have been total inner child parties. You'r videos on this subject are great. I had an unexpected crying outburst a few days ago..and the holding heart, chest action really works. Even rocking... Exactly doing what your teaching. It's very much working.
I forgive myself, that i ignored my feelings and wishes and make me my number 1. I forgive myself, that i hoped, that someone give me all love that i'm seeking for. I give my self love, bliss and pleasure. Now i'm chancing my self concept. Thank you Shelly❤️
Wonderful video! I have been working on this topic for a while as this was a recurring pattern with my ex, who is avoidant (looking forward to tomorrow’s video!). I really can see a difference in how my ex shows up more and communicates more when I am in a deeper center and expecting him to.
Inner child work, raising one's standard, self love ....techniques really help to heal the wound....this 1st step is essentially important. Yes, it is true. We have to be confident with 1st step. And then....go to the 2nd step. Yes , I too have changed the concept about my sp. I want my sp to be available, more concern about me, to love me more...
For me, just realizing that I need to love myself was in itself life changing. Like true, deep self love. Everytime I have anxiety I start my affirmations and focus on being and feeling loved, because I know I am. I've even started declaring that I do not have anxiety and anxiety does not have me and it fades everytime. I filled a while piece of loose leaf sheet with affirmations that I recite at least 3 times a day, I completely saturate myself in this truth, these facts. I feel great 💕🌞
I'm getting to love the self-love and inner child talk ☺. I have just realized/learnt that everyone acts or behaves in alignment with the energy you give off. When someone it "seems" someone is ignoring or rejecting you it's actually you repelling them with your energy and expectation of getting ignored, rejected, abandoned,lack of love etc. EIYPO is really true. I'm really learning alot from you Shelly. Thank you 💗💜💗
I walked away from my ex he ignored me and I expected him to ignore me. Now I do love myself and I embrace my inner child. But I don't know why I always feel like the universe knows who is the one for me. I do love my ex but I love myself so much more that I don't want to force him to love me. I believe that the universe / God will lead me to my sp.
Hi Shelly. I’m so grateful that I found your channel. Everything you teach is so powerful. I’ve been listening to these topics for a long time & I honestly thought I knew it all. But you put things in such a different perspective for me that it’s mind blowing. You’re incredible. Thank you ✨
Inner child work is so powerfull, especially when combined with the self love work, thank you Shelly :) ps. i absolutely love your inerchild meditation too :)
Hey shelly I manifested your video..Your videos are always there in my home page but from last few days I have not saw a single video of yours in my home page so I was thinking to see one of your videos without searching by your name and guess what Veronica isles just shared your this video and I know this is one of my manifestation and I did it..I am sure that everything that I am desiring is already mine and its making its way to me anytime now I am receiving in my 3d..Its a done deal❤ Thankyou universe😗
I absolutely love your approach of manifesting a SP. Thanks to you now I know even more about what I have to change to finally be with my SP. Thank you always Shelly ! ♥️
The bad things that we identify with came out of nowhere and we decided they’re our beliefs for good .. so we can easily identify with new beliefs that also came out of nowhere and we can keep affirming them just like we did the old beliefs .. and these new preferred beliefs are urs forever and nobody can change them or take them away from u , they’re always going to be and stay inside of u
Shelley you are looking beautiful with this amazing dress 🌼 my favourite color .... Thanks for the video 🦋 truth is I manifested it may be somewhere in past to see you in yellow 💛☀️🌻
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I was being ignored by my SP as I was always the one making moves, texting him and he wasn't responding much. I didn't know what was happening until I started watching Shelly's videos. She mentions a lot that our inner reality creates our outer reality. I eventually realized that I was the one constantly expecting him to ignore me because I believed that he thought I was annoying or that he just wasn't interested. Shelly's self-love videos changed my life. I started telling myself that I am worth it and I won't take him treating me the way he is. I changed the story in my head and convinced and believed that I am everything to him. I eventually stopped reaching out to him because if he's not gonna do the same then I don't need him. I stopped feeling lack and focused on myself. It has been three weeks now that he's constantly messaging me and we're going on a date next week
Wow Congratulations! I’m happy for u.
@@Dimitririchi Thank you so much!!
Can't tell you HOW PROUD this makes me!! GO GIRL!!!!
My exact situation and my exact thoughts Im having! you gave me so much hope
How much time it took you to land in the fulfilled feel completely
Nobody has the power to ignore me in my reality unless I don’t want them in my life anymore and intend for them to go away. Everyone is me pushed out😝 I am the god in my reality.
YES YES YES!
I never thought of that, gonna try it😊 Thanks for the awesome idea
😅😅😅♥️♥️♥️
You go girl!!!🥰
True
I forgive myself for ignoring me and giving my attention to others first.I choose to look within and feel the divine presence, love and peace in me. I detach from him and allow him to reach out and shower me with attention, affection and love and respect only.
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Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together
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Hello it's work I can't believe
Wh@tspp him
1-ignoring is a type of rejection .. and the solution is being present with urself and ask urself why am I giving my energy and love to someone who is rejecting and ignoring me while I’m here the one who’s ignored the one who needs love ?
2- give ur energy , your love , ur care and ur acknowledgement to urself bc u’re the one that needs these things not the person that’s ignoring u
3- stop identifying with the person who is ignored ( especially by urself ) and start affirming and identifying with being acknowledged and loved by everyone and know that the beauty is really in the eye of the beholder and that u’re loved in the way u like to be loved rn
4- ask urself was I really giving my care and attention and energy to someone who were rejecting me ? Who do they think they are ? 😂& have a laugh at urself ( you will never do that again !! )
YOU WON’T EVER ACCEPT LESS THAN U DESERVE !!!
YYYYYEEEESSSSS! ;)
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,l got help from a great man who brought us back together....♻️♻️
👆👆Contact him for help👆👆👆
Shelly, you look pretty in yellow...this color suits your personality.
💛💛💛 Thank you!
It does
Yes I agree!
Along with the red💄lipstick a lovely combination
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,l got help from a great man who brought us back together....♻️♻️
He is thinking about me all the time and coming back to me 💕
Yes!
@@ShellyBullard please help me sissy...i need it...can you please help me
so what happened since u posted this?
@@ShellyBullard hi uu
This SP Journey is like peeling back the layers of an onion, but I’m grateful to uncover the true source of my problems as I’m going along. It’s quite a wake up call to think about the ways we make ourselves smaller and how we accept only partial attention just because that’s what’s we know.
Yes, it's so eye opening to realize this and then make the necessary changes to become the people we're really meant to be. Happy you're here.
Self love is my priority right now. When I begin the think of him, I switch my thoughts and my focus to me. It’s about not trying to “get” something from the outside and providing it for yourself.
Yesss
I’ve been doing the exact self love practice you talk about for a while now, and I’m getting more attention than I’ve ever gotten before haha
Love it!
He is calling and texting me everyday
🤍✨
how much did TH-cam pay you to say that?
@@babyblue8214 this is just affirmation
Shelly, I acted in my relationship on a auto pilot, my inner child was running the show, I followed. I knew something was “off but I didn’t understand why I was acting that way. I was attracting good looking successful guys but I was suffering with fears, and accepting they will soon find someone else... it is soo understood now!! In fact inner child work , your videos and courses really help me !! I wish I had you before but better late then never.
You are amazing!!!
SO happy you're here and doing this amazing work.
Reading your comment I so relate to this. Weirdly the SP I would like to attract back (when we are both ready) said I hope the adults get to run more of the show from now on referring to my inner child. I've been really working on inner child work in counselling. At 41 and a counsellor myself I want to finally be free of this negative thinking. The relationship ended because I was struggling to feel worthy of love. He held my inner child as much as he could but I need to hold her and soothe her so she believes herself that she is worthy of love.
I've watched this a few times and I've never had the realization I just had because I thought --- well I don't recall being ignored when I was younger, however I have been ignoring myself! ignoring my needs what my body needs what my soul needs and just pushing forward towards goals, now that I know I won't zone out I'll stay present with myself, excited to see what happens!
Yes yes yes! Huge realization!
"We teach people how to treat us." just caused an A-ha moment and took on a different definition.
🙏✨
Two things I have to say:
1) inner child work - whenever I feel low/hurt/ abondoned..I go back and soothe myself, which has made me feel lighter from the inside. I am not sure of whether I am /am not triggered by what's going on outside,but I am sure I am not adding to any more wounds on my inner child! That's a done deal 💕
2) changing my inner expectation: since I am learning to keep MYSELF FIRST, I have started to set inner boundaries which don't allow me to waver from me being my first priority. And what I've observed is , one of my recent affirmations is : I am the queen and my sp (SM) treats me like a queen! And I am so glad that it popped up naturally!I don't feel lack anymore. Though we're in regular contact now, I'm sure that he'll soon show up the way I want him to!
So basically, if I change my inner expectations I'll automatically expect it from others because EIYPO!❤️
Beautiful!
I love this 🩵
Thank you so much Shelly, it's been a month since I've following your channel and learn how to manifest my SP, I learn how to love and focus on myself first then suddenly he texted and asked me out last night even though we didn't talk or see each other for 6 months. I'm so grateful that it finally works!!
Very exciting!! How did you manifest this? What techniques did you do?
@@ShellyBullard I listen to your self-love meditation every night, I repeat to myself that there's no 3rd party, I can feel him coming towards me, this rls is mine, I am worthy...then recently I started to see tons of happy couples, wedding dresses ads on my newsfeed and 11:11, it was amazing. Now I'm starting to manifest him to text me and want to spend time with me.
@@vidang9491 love it! Great work!
You're styled beautifully with the yellow and red. You look great.
Thank you love!
@@ShellyBullard You're most welcome! 💗
Today I wrote in my gratitude journal that I am thankful for Shelly Bullard entering my life and giving me the light, peace and meaning beyond everything. I can see clearly. Feel fully. Live calmly. And it is forever, not for a period of time.
🥰💗💫
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Aww I’m so glad you’re here!🤍🤍✨🙏
I love that you’re open about the fact that you have practiced what you’re teaching and that is has brought your results. You being living proof is very encouraging to me and I’m sure many others. 💓
Thank you 🥰🙏
Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together
±2347065219019⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️
Hello it's work I can't believe
Wh@tspp him
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Make someone stop ignoring you..!!
What do you do to make someone stop ignoring you..?
* Essentially we create our reality.
* If we are the reality of being ignored we have create this by our own.
* You threw your own beliefs expecations or beliefs , you have someone kind of expecation within you to be ignored, left or abandoned.
* This comes from usually past , way back from childhood.
* We are exposed to behaviour as kids from our parents , any ongoing experience from childhood.
* You dont actually dont have to go back and findout to heal the wound .
* This experience comes in your reality due to this past experience.
How to create a new reality of not being ignored.
::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::
1.) To create a new reality you must change your expectation whats gonna happen to you.
* Changing your self concept, your beliefs etc.
* The main to stop ignorance is changing your inner reality.
* Everyone is you pushed out. They act acoording to your alignment of your expecations.
* We are living with some sought of expectation in our realitionship that this is gonna happen.
**********************************
A.) SELF - LOVE.
* self love incredibely potent in treating ignorance.
* when you show up to yourself when you want the same way to be treated by others.
* You automatically develop the expecation of people showing up to you.
* You also raise your self standards that you wil be only treated in a certain way
* Self love is huge when it comes to change your entire experience with self and others.
************************************
B.) INNER CHILD WORK.
* The best thing to do also is inner child work
* if you notice a pattern of ignorance in relationship this is the best practice to do.
* this a potent practice to do.
* This is a indication that there is a wounded self within you who expects to be ignored and by practing child work you say to your self that your gonna be there for the wounded self.❤
* When you start to feel ignored or triggerd.
* Go within yourself hold yourself tight and talking to him/ her.
* That your here for them, you are never gonna leave them.
* When you do this consistently it is gonna heal you from within.
* By doing this you no longer be triggred from outside reality.
* You dont expect to be dropped any more since you show up to yourself.
* When you change your expectation you will change your reality.
####################################
2.) You must create a new expectation what the person is doing with you in your reality.
* Dont jump to this step directly.
Do the first step nicely.
* Once you develop a deep self love you can move step two
* When you feel confident and centered in your self then you can go within and create a new reality of how will the person show up to you.
* dont focus completely on them ignoring you what you focus on create more of.
* Raise your self more often deeply.
* Start to imagine a new scenario with your sp.
+ they are not ignoring me they are coming towards me.
+ they are thinking of me all the time.
+ They wanna reach out to me.
+ They are starting to come back.
+ I feel them coming to me.
* Feel the truth of these affirmartions.
* Feel this new reality and amplify this new reality.
* people have to.allign to your expectations.
* Do this on a consistent basis .
* Change your self concept.
*and you will see the evidence in the outer reality❤
Thank You Shelly ❤️
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Thank you, great
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Dimitri Baby you’re welcome 😇
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Thank you shelly! I feel better after trying this and my sp just texted me too
I have noticed that I attract my "fears".... Gonna work on them..! Thank you
Work on self, and always remember inner creates outer! 🥰😘
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Yes, become focused on your own life + worth and you probably will stop even caring if they are ignoring you (and then ironically, watch them contact you) haha!
Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,l got help from a great man who brought us back together....♻️♻️
Absolutely love the new thumbnail style, it adds depth; it becomes more relatable.
Wonderful! Thanks for the feedback. I love hearing this.
I love the inner child concept - that is very important to know for those of us who have no idea how it works. I used to work as a social worker for street children and I know how hurt they are inside when they are abandoned and have no one to look up to. Thank you and hope to have more from this concept.
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I never comment but this was too much not too. As I was watching this I realized I've identified those inner child issues before but I was looking for an outside source (i.e. my specific person) to heal those past traumas instead of loving myself. As I was watching the video and making the connection I replayed a few parts especially her affirmations until I really felt good about them. The part that forced me to comment was that no sooner did I do this I got a text from my S.P.! Today is 4/9 and we haven't spoken since 3/27! I realized this was the first time during that separation that I was focused only on loving myself. This works!!! Shelley you are a true blessing for sharing this with the world!! From the bottom of my heart I thank you and Im so unbelievably grateful! Life changing!!
I'm going to watch your inner child Playlist. this is something I keep coming back to. I want to stop doing this. thank you for this. you're awesome Shelly!!
You’re welcome!
This is so profound. I’m feeling the shift. Thank you for teaching this super important empowering concept.
Shelly, while I do want to attract someone, your video has been really helpful. I have to focus on myself. I have to heal myself first.
Dear Ms. Bullard, I have watched so many videos, such different aproach to everything and you are the first one to land everything for me. I am sure you have your own purpose to make your videos, but I am that individual who was in profound need for some clear guidance, and I thank you deeply for your generous teachings. I wish you success and I will totally buy your courses as soon as I can. Much love ❤
That's some pretty powerful information there, Shelly! I remember feeling 'not enough' when i was about 2yrs old...so i'm not sure where that came from! Im 57 now, and hardly worth digging into, put certainly time to show myself some empathy and compassion!
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Yes, inner child work has been the key to my self-improvement. Great video, and you always wear the prettiest dresses! 😄
She love me. She's constantly texting me. She's constantly thinking about me.
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Is she actually doing that ? Or u just affirming n being happy? Are u seing result?
@@DanielSmith-fm4fs these are Affirmations. And yeah she started following me on instagram yesterday.
I keep telling myself she loves loves me and constantly thinking about me...I am worth loving....
So far no change still ignore me same way she did when we broke up 5 years ago....she has third party that they call steady friend to her....i think it hurt me....I keep working on me bc I know someone does love me in future...
One thing I realize is I one doing chasing making mistakes of fixing what broken in her life instead of fixing broken part of my life..I started focusing on me .
I did the inner child work through one of your courses purchased through MBG a few years ago. I remember sitting at my table crying huge tears of years of release!! It was life changing.
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Yesterday I was listening to this random meditation music for positivity on TH-cam. During the meditation there was me and a mirror image of me. N i im telling myself" i love you ","you are enough ","everything is going to be ok" . I cried i cried so hard because im pretty much a loner and i keep myself busy but sometimes it's so much especially since im unemployed, broke and still have bills and rent to pay. When i was working I would check upnon different ppl ask if they're ok... no one has done that 4 me. My sp n i were really close it's been a while I've been trying to manifest him. I know its not entirely to do with what she was saying but it was the highlight of my day. I've never cried during meditation. I was actually hugging me.i hope this helps someone out there.
Don't be sad ❤️
Maam you are amazing. Your content inspires us to become a better version of ourselves
So glad you enjoy it🙏
As ever this advice is invaluable and Shelly you are simply AMAZING!!Everything you say and express is so true and resonates with every corner of my soul.Recently I've changed the reality in my head and rather than a running commentary of "why hadnt he messaged me,doesnt he care?Why does he treat me like this blah blah blah" I've now gone to "He loves messaging me,he is thinking about me inbetween the messages,his messages are filled with what I want to read,he's always showing up,he cares and he is present".
It's been working beautifully and I am getting a steady stream of very present-messages that Express what I want to read.
My inner reality is manifesting as my outer reality....the future is exciting and what lies ahead is my inner visualisation.
Thank you Shelly....and cannot wait for more of your words of wisdom!!
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@@ShellyBullard wowwww thank you!Thank you!!That is so exciting!!!My email add is dibsydib@gmail.com
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OMG wonderful! Which one? How to Be Missed, Contacted & Pursued?
@@ShellyBullard yes! I love it! Xx
Never skip step one, love ya Shelly 💚✨
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I have been doing this very thing......i am going to make self love and reassure myself daily that I'm here......i need to change myself concept....thank you!!!!you have really helped keep me centered.
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@@ShellyBullard thank you for responding.....no only are you compassionate and soothing you respond like we're important. Thats class
I am so glad I have found your channel. It couldn't be more appropriate to me right now.
So glad you’re here 🙏
Thank you for this video. I would love your ebook and I’m definitely gonna take that class to heal abandonment
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That colour of lipstick and the yellow look amazing! Looking forward to this video of yours, as always 💕🌞
It turned out to be a great color combo...thanks for noticing ;)
Excellent. It really does come down to self love. Also, you are looking radiant!
Yes!
I'm so glad I found your Channel. You explained everything so well. A while back I listen to Louise Hays, she explained how to look into your eyes in the mirror and tell yourself, I love you. At first it was strange. But I started really feeling the love. I like how you put your hand on your heart and hold yourself. You don't feel I'm alone so much you're putting that love back into yourself. It sounds kind of strange. But I feel it actually does help. Thank-you for all you do!🤗🌻🥀💖
Amazing video working on this, this week! Thank you Shelly
You’re welcome!
Thanks for all you do Shelly!! By the way my wife said your makeup is on point!!!
Aww thank you both!
I just loved your painting behind you ...also your stuff too
Thank you. I'm triggered and whilst feeling immensely disappointed in myself after a few weeks of major improvements (and bought your course), this reminded me that being able to self soothe is part of the work I need to do (self concept can include not wanting to exist when 3D hurts bad. Eugh). I totally dodge inner child work. I can't bear the idea and yet I probably really need to do it and I suck at the self talk currently...which says a lot. Anyway, sorry tedious long msg but thank you for showing it's part of the process. Part of my seeing them with love is to flip all the blame on myself which is so heavy to bear. If you haven't done so, I'd appreciate a video on hormones. My period is due tomorrow and I am genuinely feeling total chaos. A few days ago, until a friend totally undermined my belief system, I was in a good place!
I am amazing. I love myself deeply and this is what the others feel for me..
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Specific person or not,you have change my life because you help me too love myself more and appreciate myself more .thank you
New subscriber! I really needed this video and I’m so glad I found it. Thank you so much Shelly. It’s late but I can’t stop watching. You’re like my own therapist and I’m showing up all the time.
I struggle with major childhood issues and triggers 😫 love your guidance. Thank you
You’re welcome 🤍
Yes add me, the last 3 months have been total inner child parties. You'r videos on this subject are great. I had an unexpected crying outburst a few days ago..and the holding heart, chest action really works. Even rocking... Exactly doing what your teaching. It's very much working.
So glad to hear this!
Your videos are getting better and better!
Thank you!
I forgive myself, that i ignored my feelings and wishes and make me my number 1.
I forgive myself, that i hoped, that someone give me all love that i'm seeking for.
I give my self love, bliss and pleasure.
Now i'm chancing my self concept.
Thank you Shelly❤️
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Wonderful video! I have been working on this topic for a while as this was a recurring pattern with my ex, who is avoidant (looking forward to tomorrow’s video!). I really can see a difference in how my ex shows up more and communicates more when I am in a deeper center and expecting him to.
Beautiful. Love this.
Unbelievable...and i was watching all this years relationship videos of how to act..you opened my eyes..
Amazing! Thank you 🙏💫
Inner child work, raising one's standard, self love ....techniques really help to heal the wound....this 1st step is essentially important.
Yes, it is true. We have to be confident with 1st step. And then....go to the 2nd step. Yes , I too have changed the concept about my sp. I want my sp to be available, more concern about me, to love me more...
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Loved this Shelly 💜
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Absolutely Amazing.I'm going to care and heal my inner me(little girl)No time to focus on him right now,it's all about me.
For me, just realizing that I need to love myself was in itself life changing. Like true, deep self love. Everytime I have anxiety I start my affirmations and focus on being and feeling loved, because I know I am. I've even started declaring that I do not have anxiety and anxiety does not have me and it fades everytime. I filled a while piece of loose leaf sheet with affirmations that I recite at least 3 times a day, I completely saturate myself in this truth, these facts. I feel great 💕🌞
Wonderful!
In my opinion this is by far your best video. Thank you!
You’re welcome 🙏🤍
This video is Great! The Child Love technique to heal, I Absolutely Love!!
Thank you 🙏
I'm getting to love the self-love and inner child talk ☺. I have just realized/learnt that everyone acts or behaves in alignment with the energy you give off. When someone it "seems" someone is ignoring or rejecting you it's actually you repelling them with your energy and expectation of getting ignored, rejected, abandoned,lack of love etc. EIYPO is really true. I'm really learning alot from you Shelly. Thank you 💗💜💗
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i love every single video you post!!!!
so much valuable information! you've helped me so much!
So glad to hear this 🤍
I have researched this law, millions of times. But you gave it a new twist. Thanks babe.
I can help
You win back your ex lover into your life again
Words cannot describe how grateful i am to have found your channel. You are amazing and inspiring. Thank you and godbless !!!
Thank you! So glad you’re here🤍
Love the picture in the background. I am loved by myself!
Very insightful. Things that you know until you practice them. Thank you. 🥰
He can’t ignore me🧿
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A combined meditation inner child self love + affirmations of getting the love and attention from sp would be very powerful. Thx for all your videos
I walked away from my ex he ignored me and I expected him to ignore me. Now I do love myself and I embrace my inner child. But I don't know why I always feel like the universe knows who is the one for me. I do love my ex but I love myself so much more that I don't want to force him to love me. I believe that the universe / God will lead me to my sp.
Hi Shelly. I’m so grateful that I found your channel. Everything you teach is so powerful. I’ve been listening to these topics for a long time & I honestly thought I knew it all. But you put things in such a different perspective for me that it’s mind blowing. You’re incredible. Thank you ✨
So glad you enjoy them🙏✨🤍
Good video. I look forward to the day I can e-mail you a success story in regards to my SP.
Can’t wait to hear it!
Good reminder. Whatever we focus on, we get more of
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Shelly, thank you for another amazing video! I learn so much for you always🥰btw.. yellow is such a good color on you! You’re glowing!😍
Thank you!
I really love how u reply to everyone ur so nice , thnk u i just realized ive been ignoring my inner child while wanting attention from sp💕
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you’re such a healer thanks!
Thank you!!
This was a very helpful video! Thank you 😊
Glad it helped!
This was so powerful shelly ♥️ i love it
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Inner child work is so powerfull, especially when combined with the self love work, thank you Shelly :) ps. i absolutely love your inerchild meditation too :)
So glad you liked it !
Shelly Ballard am impressed you said exactly what I wanted to hear.
So glad to hear that!
Hey shelly I manifested your video..Your videos are always there in my home page but from last few days I have not saw a single video of yours in my home page so I was thinking to see one of your videos without searching by your name and guess what Veronica isles just shared your this video and I know this is one of my manifestation and I did it..I am sure that everything that I am desiring is already mine and its making its way to me anytime now I am receiving in my 3d..Its a done deal❤
Thankyou universe😗
I absolutely love your approach of manifesting a SP. Thanks to you now I know even more about what I have to change to finally be with my SP. Thank you always Shelly ! ♥️
Wonderful!! 🙏🏼🙏🏼✨✨
Done all those 3 task ma'am 🙂
Wonderful!
The bad things that we identify with came out of nowhere and we decided they’re our beliefs for good .. so we can easily identify with new beliefs that also came out of nowhere and we can keep affirming them just like we did the old beliefs .. and these new preferred beliefs are urs forever and nobody can change them or take them away from u , they’re always going to be and stay inside of u
Exactly!
God bless you Shelly. I am so moved by your work. This is incredibly profound xxx thank you
My first time here on your channel! I am an aspiring TH-camr and author Thank you for the great content! Hope to win an e-book!!🙏💯🙌🎉😊
Yep! I started focusing on me way more, intending more and the changes are amazing 👏 💖
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Wow!! Nice video and good reminder that we are in control .. thanks 😊
You’re welcome!
Wow this was awesome information and very eye opening!
Thank you!
Oh, my God, Shelly, that was now soo intense! 😭😭😭
Thank you so much Shelly I really love you and your videos❤
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Shelley you are looking beautiful with this amazing dress 🌼 my favourite color ....
Thanks for the video 🦋 truth is I manifested it may be somewhere in past to see you in yellow 💛☀️🌻
You’re welcome 🥰
I'm glad I found this channel💙
I love this message , very wonderful message . I thank you 🙏🏼
So glad you like it🙏
Thank you, you make it sound so easy
You’re welcome!
you're such an angel without wings! beautiful soul!💜💜💜
btw, i want e book yay!
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