The myth of happy for(n)ever after (also, patriarchy & feminine rage)

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  • @Little_Shadow_
    @Little_Shadow_ หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    When a woman gets rejected, she (most of the time) thinks there's something wrong with her. When man gets rejected, he hurts other people and children.

  • @SP-eg9hg
    @SP-eg9hg หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Wow, as a young woman, this is so useful, this is amazing. Its so eyeopening. I promise here and always that I will live for ME, for my dreams and for myself

  • @charmedprince
    @charmedprince หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This is the most levelheaded explanation of patriarchal problems and women's rights I've ever come across, too. This is how progressivism should be explained. No political leanings and such, but a philosophical humane one.

    • @charmedprince
      @charmedprince หลายเดือนก่อน

      *come across to.

  • @queenneurotica4591
    @queenneurotica4591 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    You articulate so well what I’ve always known about men and marriage from a very early age. After years of being gaslit, bullied, and oppressed by men AND other women who don’t want to believe and see this (believe me there are PLENTY), I finally have the confidence to completely own my long term single status.
    I follow a lot of liberated female speakers on social media but few are not brave enough to call out men to this extent because of the hate they receive from both men and deluded women. I personally, have little time for either hence my circle is very small. I am grateful to you and your channel, not just because I feel less alone in my realisations, but by sharing this it helps validates other young women who have their eyes open too. If they can feel less alone than I did in my teens, 20s and 30s by speaking out we’re doing a great thing.

    • @anonymousa-uy1hk
      @anonymousa-uy1hk หลายเดือนก่อน

      Lucky you! Unfortunately, some of us drank the coolaid but better late than never, I suppose.

  • @droolingg
    @droolingg หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I am so happy I stumbled upon this video. You articulated feelings I didn’t know I had and had forgotten as I have gotten older.

  • @emiliadee1
    @emiliadee1 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Love these longer videos, they are salvation. And as per mythology: I remember looking at paintings of Persephone as a little girl and wondering why her family let her get married to that beast. And as an adult, I thought it was interesting that when the young maiden is gone half the year, the earth is barren.

  • @anonymousa-uy1hk
    @anonymousa-uy1hk หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wow, I already LOVE this creator!!! My first video and I just subscribed!

  • @terrywalters9178
    @terrywalters9178 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This is the best video on any platform,my rage I covered it up I remember,I would speak about this!! I was pushed out OMG I remember.Thank you for posting this EVITA

  • @elenanina
    @elenanina 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Not much time ago I realized I was so scared of some men of my family when I was a kid and couldn't react in any way, that I refused my anger and chose to try to heal men instead. Now I know I don't want to reject my anger anymore and it's not my job to heal men just to keep myself safe, because there are other ways to do that.
    I'm 31, it took all my twenties of bad relationships to gain my power back. 😢

  • @BeautifullyModest
    @BeautifullyModest หลายเดือนก่อน

    My heart hurts about this, it is all so true. I am thankful I am awake to this truth now at 27.

  • @sparksoflife101
    @sparksoflife101 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I was rasied orthodox jewish and its like this to a t ... not all forms of religion are like this but i was raised in the extreme way .. we couldnt sing and dance etc.. in front of men we have to be modest and are shamed so much and raised with so much fear and sold as a wife basically ... when we are young...
    I am unlearning so much and my family got angry at me because i dont submit ...

  • @destroyraiden
    @destroyraiden หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    As a woman noted in the 1900s stories they always fallowed the males path and POV even in romance which was meant for women but it wasn't about her it was about him the lengths he'd go to, the wooing he's doing it was subtile low key still about him and the whole point was to woo her and marry her the womans story was the part after that marrage that was never depicted leaving girls and women poorly prepared for life after marriage, life with sacrifice, grit, determination, removing of the self for others sake, and basically she was speaking on endurism and being a the CEO of the household and husband yet these were not covered and so women felt betrayed, harmed, and had no idea what they were signing up for how could they?
    Coveture burried the woman in her grave of after marriage she became a fourth limb to her husband hence she changed her last name to his and became ms him instead of mr him this is how they knew she was the 4th limb making transactions on behalf of the larger body (him) due to the ms part. and so she was dead, not a person, and her after marriage was her war that never ended. So its been over 100 years since it was taken note of that stories try real hard to exclude women's POV to make sure she has no idea what she's getting into with him and if they do show it's a lie fabricated to get her into a situation that ain't like that kind of like how males get the romanticized war narrative.

  • @srishtyparas
    @srishtyparas หลายเดือนก่อน

    so many dots connected listening to you, thank you so much!

  • @MsGechi77
    @MsGechi77 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The Patriotic System keeps women submissive. The problem is that the economy is terrible and men can't take care of their families or chose not to. So, women have to work.

  • @freeforeverr
    @freeforeverr หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for this 🤍

  • @beachgirl4
    @beachgirl4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you❤

  • @annasartgallery8963
    @annasartgallery8963 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you!

  • @StardustShannon
    @StardustShannon หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you! 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖

  • @sermin1887
    @sermin1887 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you!

  • @laraparks7018
    @laraparks7018 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I think 🤔 love is a lie!!!! 😮....Beth Hart

  • @gavinwerner6356
    @gavinwerner6356 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    A more nuanced, inclusive conversation could foster greater understanding and collaboration rather than division. Most men don't harbour the dark thoughts you mention and have never abused women, yet you seen happy to tar all of us with the same brush as rapists and murderers