I have a secret… how we made a baby

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  • @idkanymore12
    @idkanymore12 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2868

    The amount of vintage clothing this child is going to wear excites me

    • @lizmowrey9866
      @lizmowrey9866 3 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      If they want to, yes!

    • @ptlovelight2971
      @ptlovelight2971 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      Most glamorous baby ever! LOL

    • @karen1894
      @karen1894 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😂👌🏻

    • @TraDLaw.
      @TraDLaw. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +89

      @@lizmowrey9866 i mean as a baby-toddler they kinda dont have a choice 😂

    • @dax5791
      @dax5791 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@TraDLaw. They start to be old enough by three to pick their own clothes, so they are going to have to take advantage while there's still time!

  • @agloos8123
    @agloos8123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2380

    i love how half of us in this comment section are gays who don't even want children but we watched the entire thing anyway

    • @frostyskeletons8950
      @frostyskeletons8950 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      I feel seen

    • @Ebrill_Owen
      @Ebrill_Owen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      You didn’t have to get personal about it lmao jk jk I’m just so happy for them

    • @lauryniti1807
      @lauryniti1807 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      10000% true

    • @alicialewis5425
      @alicialewis5425 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      I’m straight, don’t want any children, and watched the whole thing 😂

    • @heathur256
      @heathur256 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      you are absolutely correct

  • @Elowuz
    @Elowuz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +906

    Is it weird that I wish we would be able to send this video back in time to show gay couples in history that this is what the future will be like

    • @summahthevegan3796
      @summahthevegan3796 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      I even want,to send,it back to them when they were crying about the rounds not working so they could see their baby happens

  • @tolbeepies2057
    @tolbeepies2057 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2284

    "I bought my wife... some *_SPAM._* There's no non-weird way to say that."
    That one took me a minute to adjust to the accent, i'm sorry. Seriously thought you guys were building shelves prepping to organize a massive stock of Spam.

    • @salemthesapphic5116
      @salemthesapphic5116 3 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      XD I also heard spam and was quite confused

    • @theemachine3890
      @theemachine3890 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Same

    • @whoanellynelnel3874
      @whoanellynelnel3874 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      I.. I'm glad someone said it. I was waiting for her to laugh or a cut. But no. And now I'm saying it loud and trying to hear it from an American/Canadian perspective because I'm a kiwi. It sounds pretty similar? Lol

    • @rchoo5566
      @rchoo5566 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      I also heard Spam 😂🤦‍♀️ and I'm from England as well.

    • @SpamMusubi1226
      @SpamMusubi1226 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      American/Canadian here. I heard “Spam”

  • @irisnevermind9170
    @irisnevermind9170 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4532

    IVF medication be like: you’re not getting pregnant? Have you tried turning it off and on again?

  • @cryptic_sunflower
    @cryptic_sunflower 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6695

    It’s just to perfect that the lesbian moms, are having a baby during pride month

    • @fae91
      @fae91 3 ปีที่แล้ว +170

      True! I hadn't even realised!

    • @brookeg5979
      @brookeg5979 3 ปีที่แล้ว +150

      Biggest birthday celebrations ever. *explodes with joy *

    • @MiljaHahto
      @MiljaHahto 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Very appropriate!

    • @darklordoftheuniverse7803
      @darklordoftheuniverse7803 3 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      One rainbow baby with 2 amazing mums 🏳️‍🌈

    • @fashioneyesta
      @fashioneyesta 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I hadn’t even realised 😃

  • @shounenai4109
    @shounenai4109 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2126

    A closeted gay guy from Malaysia is rooting for you two. I cried when u cried in the video. All the best for your future 😍😍😍😍😍😍

    • @drshaynescott
      @drshaynescott 3 ปีที่แล้ว +145

      I hope you have a chance to live your best life one day.

    • @shounenai4109
      @shounenai4109 3 ปีที่แล้ว +91

      @@drshaynescott Thank you for the kind words. I hope so too🥺

    • @evaring3917
      @evaring3917 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Malaysian here too!

    • @cassandrahughes2897
      @cassandrahughes2897 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Love and support from Michigan in the states ! I hope your able to be true and live the life you so truly deserve ! Remind yourself that its not your job to make everyone happy and at the end of the day your happiness is whats important. Anyone who truly cares about you will find a way to accept you and be happy for you regardless of their stance on things! 🤍🖤🤎💜💙💚💛🧡🌍🙏🏽

    • @DM-it1qf
      @DM-it1qf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Much love ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @rubygross7684
    @rubygross7684 3 ปีที่แล้ว +786

    This was a whole movie. I never quite understood infertility and pregnancy stories, especially the emotions. Honestly, I thought “How could someone want a baby that much?”. But this has helped me understand, now I wonder “How could I cry over someone else’s baby story?” 😂 Thank you so much for sharing this. Love y’all.

    • @Luka___
      @Luka___ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      This is absolutely wholesome

  • @libbywelsh4628
    @libbywelsh4628 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1701

    If you’d ever like to adopt a 21 year old, please consider my application 🥺

  • @madeinbusanjkjm
    @madeinbusanjkjm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10587

    The moment I saw the thumbnail I was like "they're pregnant!"
    I think this is the first time I've ever been excited for a pregnancy announcement in my entire life. Warm congratulations to both! 💛

    • @worldsbiggestholdthegirlfan
      @worldsbiggestholdthegirlfan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +122

      I also was extremely excited for Rose and Rosie! I just love lgbtq families so much

    • @Randoplants
      @Randoplants 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      That was my thought too! So happy for them! :)

    • @Mae_______
      @Mae_______ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      💯

    • @KaitlinGaspar
      @KaitlinGaspar 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      SAME every other pregnancy announcement i’m indifferent but this had me jumping for joy

    • @lauriehand1021
      @lauriehand1021 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I thought that too

  • @ddubfan
    @ddubfan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +839

    My ex husband and I tried to get pregnant for 10 years. Holy fuck I do NOT miss all of the ovulation tests and meds and shots and ultrasounds and blood draws and deciding e-v-e-r-y-t-h-i-n-g is an early pregnancy symptom... GAH.
    We got pregnant 7 times but miscarried them all because of an unknown genetic issue I have that wasn't discovered until our last loss :(
    I am SO fucking excited for you both and can't wait to continue to love and support you both 💖
    CONGRATULATIONS 😍❤️

    • @spammyspammy5958
      @spammyspammy5958 3 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      Oh my gosh, I am so sorry for your loss. Sending love your way🥰

    • @Cjv123
      @Cjv123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      Sending prayers, good energy, hopes, wishes and lots of love to you. That you can cheer for others even when faced with your own pain says a lot about you and the type of mom you will hopefully get to be some day. Even if you don't go through birthing, I still hope you'll continue to love and support those around you. That's mothering on a huge level! Thank you for being awesome.

    • @nicksiii
      @nicksiii ปีที่แล้ว +6

      So sorry to hear 😞

    • @skyelorspacex
      @skyelorspacex 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I know I’m 2 years late but thank you for sharing your story. I hope you and your husband are doing well. I’m so sorry you went through so much loss I truly hope you are doing well

  • @ienzio7795
    @ienzio7795 3 ปีที่แล้ว +988

    I have literally no idea who this person is, but I watched anyways because I'm always happy to see more lgbt+ creators, makes me feel warm and fuzzy inside as a gay man

    • @isaniart
      @isaniart 3 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      Jessie and Claud are wonderful people. I definitely recommend joining their community

    • @annieyu72
      @annieyu72 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Same, but as a straight woman.

    • @cheesecakelasagna
      @cheesecakelasagna 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      In summary: Jessica and Claudia are the real life version of Princess Bubblegum and Marceline.

    • @renabethea4702
      @renabethea4702 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same!

    • @elianna_ecc
      @elianna_ecc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@annieyu72 the community loves allies

  • @jessicaoutofthecloset
    @jessicaoutofthecloset  3 ปีที่แล้ว +5998

    Thank you so much for watching- this was quite an edit to put together!
    Can't wait to go on this amazing journey and share it with you, Jessica and Claudia xxx

    • @aliesha9871
      @aliesha9871 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Congratulations! I'm so excited for you, you'll be amazing mothers. Best wishes for the future ❤

    • @brigidscaldron
      @brigidscaldron 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I just saw your Instagram post!!!!
      Hurray!!!!!! Hahahahaha Yes!!!!

    • @serenitymercer
      @serenitymercer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Congratulations! I'm SO happy for y'all!

    • @brigidscaldron
      @brigidscaldron 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      I went through 11 years of infertility before my first pregnancy. It is crazy making. Now, my kids are 16 & 14!

    • @nicolew8328
      @nicolew8328 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Omg what a beautiful BEAUTIFUL video!!!!! I loved watching it so much and wished it would never end . Congratulations!!!

  • @OrlaHynan
    @OrlaHynan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2702

    As someone who doesn’t personally want children I don’t normally care about pregnancy announcements but this made me so excited. They are going to be incredible mothers.

    • @kandace4088
      @kandace4088 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      same. i love how happy these two are. they're gonna do great.

    • @kamishy_Art
      @kamishy_Art 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      so relatable! i am terrified of tiny babies and pregnant people but this make me scream of joy

    • @kristenblount8422
      @kristenblount8422 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same here 😃

    • @sean-michaelgettys6176
      @sean-michaelgettys6176 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Ditto. I gave it considerable thought actually, as a transgender person. Before my starting T and again before my surgeries.I considered even tho I don’t want a kid today will I ever want to have kids? Even when I was a kid myself I thought adoption was a great plan in an overpopulated world, so I decided even if I changed my mind in the future and wanted kids, we Could go the adoption route. But it wasn’t easy coming to that conclusion. Even so... we never changed our minds, we would rather be related to someone who has kids and borrow their kids occasionally to spoil them, (I’m told I’m an excellent uncle) then go home to our cats and dog. So who would think I’d be excited about someone’s baby announcement who isn’t related to me? But...I know how much they wanted this, and how intentional having children can be in queer relationships. I think maybe that’s why it’s doubly exciting. We know they really want this. It’s not like someone’s condom broke and oops should we keep it?

    • @smolcreepercat851
      @smolcreepercat851 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Same. I have no desire for children but seeing the emotion you both experienced in the process was extremely touching.

  • @Renee-wo8pe
    @Renee-wo8pe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +535

    the fact that jessie and claud & rose and rosie are pregnant at the same time is TOO MUCH for my lesbian heart to handle

    • @leeyli
      @leeyli 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      imagine if their children met and were friends😢😢

    • @cheesecakelasagna
      @cheesecakelasagna 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Links to those other creators pls? I wanna know more budding gay parents :3

    • @nataliebasin5966
      @nataliebasin5966 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@cheesecakelasagna I’m just replying so I get an alert when someone responds to your question

    • @cutiepiemania45
      @cutiepiemania45 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@cheesecakelasagna @Natalie Basin here is a link to Rose and Rosie's video about their current baby if you have not seen it. There's also some older videos about their first baby (they lost) which are also moving. th-cam.com/video/RLkb3dl8MSw/w-d-xo.html

  • @maximilianwelch5447
    @maximilianwelch5447 3 ปีที่แล้ว +508

    Congrats! I was one of the first people in my town to be a biological child of lesbians and I’m very excited to see this cute baby!

    • @swearv3396
      @swearv3396 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Hun, if someone EVER insult you for that, just ignore them alright. Hope for the best for you.

    • @LoveHannahsRizz
      @LoveHannahsRizz ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I feel so happy for them. They are so persistent, confident and caring. Also I feel less weird when a gay couple says "we're pregnant"

  • @tatianaleutwiler1867
    @tatianaleutwiler1867 3 ปีที่แล้ว +681

    "For Christmas 2019 I bought my wife… some sperm" was honestly the best way to start this video 😂😂😂😂
    I'm so so so so happy for you, congratulations!!!

  • @mirandashea9191
    @mirandashea9191 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3994

    Definitely heard “got my wife some spam” and was like canned meat? That’s a cool gift I suppose. Congratulations on your new little love.

    • @sts0519
      @sts0519 3 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      I thought the same thing lol

    • @TheGirlChris
      @TheGirlChris 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      Im so glad I'm not the only one!

    • @caitlinb.5267
      @caitlinb.5267 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Same!

    • @wmdkitty
      @wmdkitty 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Oh, I'm not the only one!

    • @fionascarlett1532
      @fionascarlett1532 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Hahahaha same! Took me a good 20 seconds to realise what the hell Jess was talking about! 🤣🤣🤣

  • @miles62546
    @miles62546 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    Loved Jess saying "I just really want a baby" and to think little Roo might see this one day. You guys are such a good moms

  • @naynerboppers5254
    @naynerboppers5254 3 ปีที่แล้ว +265

    When my husband and I first started dating, I accidentally clicked the wrong area of Craigslist and saw a post looking for a known donor for a lesbian couple. It was like they were describing my husband and the couple reminded me of my mom's cousin and her partner that couldn't afford the standard insemination routes available long ago. Anyhow, he is a known donor to a lovely young lady. Our son and I had a chance to meet her .....and she had his personality and you'd have thought our kids were raised together. Anyhow, I just found your channel but I'm so excited for you both! You'll make amazing parents!

    • @naynerboppers5254
      @naynerboppers5254 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Oh...and my birthday is 6/12 so I'm rooting for that date!

    • @juniper3238
      @juniper3238 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      What a marvelous gift he gave to them! Babies are so wonderful. 😍

    • @naynerboppers5254
      @naynerboppers5254 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@juniper3238 It has also been an unforseen gift for both of our families! All of this took place when my husband and I had only been a couple for a few months. Stumbling upon the ad, realizing that what they were looking for in a known donor matched my boyfriend at the time, and remembering the heartache my mom's cousin had while trying to find a known donor that was affordable for her and her partner.....I felt it was a sign and had to at least ask if he'd be willing to give such a precious gift to complete strangers.
      Fast forward a couple years into our relationship, while pregnant with our first child, I was t-boned by a semi and haven't been in good enough health to handle a second pregnancy since this accident (16.5 years ago). The two moms have since split up but prior to that we did donate a second time (unsuccessful) and left the option open to both of them even after they separated. We both ended up only being able to conceive one child. While our communication is limited and she lives primarily in Israel, my son and I have met her twice and my husband met her on the second visit. I love that they have the option to have a sibling relationship at any point and in any capacity. Ironically, despite being raised in two separate households and in different parts of the world (her primarily in Israel, he in the SF Bay), they both have the same sense of humor, are wildly creative, and got along as if they'd known one another their whole lives. Both had wanted a sibling so, hopefully, they are able to connect and grow closer once they are older.

    • @skyelorspacex
      @skyelorspacex 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@naynerboppers5254gosh what a wonderful heartwarming story! Hope you are doing ok after being in the accident

  • @Jammidodger
    @Jammidodger 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11934

    YAY!! So happy for you, you’re both amazing 💛💛💛

    • @oj5015
      @oj5015 3 ปีที่แล้ว +229

      AHH YES, THE DINOSAUR-LOVING DIVINITY IS HERE

    • @thatroez932
      @thatroez932 3 ปีที่แล้ว +109

      jAmiE the god of memes has arrived! Tell shaaba hi

    • @ginnyjacobs99
      @ginnyjacobs99 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      JAMIE!

    • @jennivamp5
      @jennivamp5 3 ปีที่แล้ว +127

      Can't wait for baby to meet uncle Jamie and auntie Shaba!

    • @Jinka7
      @Jinka7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      I just came from Shaaba's video on people's announcements, so you primed me for this vid. 😂
      EDIT: Shaaba's not pregnant, they were just looking through announcements.

  • @jillianrose2891
    @jillianrose2891 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1949

    As a young lesbian, this video made me cry. I’ve never actually seen this process before and I had a moment of, “this could be my future.” Of course, it wouldn’t be me because, well, disability, but still. This was so beautiful. Congratulations!!

    • @kathleenanne7868
      @kathleenanne7868 3 ปีที่แล้ว +237

      It can. Like Jessica, your partner can carry the baby and disabled people parent all the time!
      Who knows what your future might bring.

    • @engagingathena9965
      @engagingathena9965 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      same it honestly gave me hope in the world

    • @maskedpanda8502
      @maskedpanda8502 3 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      I'd say research your disabilities, one of mine(which is actually one of my most dangerous ones) has no known cause and no genetic causes. Ofc not saying you have o be the one to get pregnant if you just don't want to or just don't want to take any risks, but don't let a disability make you go 'nope not getting pregnant' if you are genuinely okay with it other than your disability.

    • @whatthetrend8323
      @whatthetrend8323 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      If you don’t mind me asking, what disability do you have

    • @___LC___
      @___LC___ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      As a 45 year old lesbian, I couldn’t make it through the video.

  • @whitney3258
    @whitney3258 3 ปีที่แล้ว +261

    Sitting here nursing my 3.5 month crying. My husband and I tried for 5 years, experienced loss, before having our beautiful daughter in September.
    Wishing you all the best. ❤❤

    • @dollsNcats
      @dollsNcats 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Congrats on your baby girl 🥰🥰🥰

    • @datgaydangernoodle1315
      @datgaydangernoodle1315 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Congratulations! You sound like you deserve it more than most ❤️❤️❤️

  • @oddmnemosyne2869
    @oddmnemosyne2869 3 ปีที่แล้ว +290

    The heightened smell is honestly like the worst imaginable super power.
    It's funny because I normally have a sweet tooth but whike I was pregnant I craved hummus and brown rice, and kiwis. After my son was born it was like a switch flipped and I went back to wanting chocolate. 😂
    I cried happy tears when you finally got that first positive test result. I am so excited for you both, I genuinely can't imagine two better people raising a child.

    • @teekotrain6845
      @teekotrain6845 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      My pregnant co-worker said she had to fight herself not to eat the cat's wet food because it smelled wonderful to her. Lol

  • @XANDRE.
    @XANDRE. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1014

    Everything is a sign of pregnancy. My husband has a “mystery” illness and if you look up any of the symptoms online he’s pregnant. At this point i just ask him when he’s due.

    • @unicornburgers302
      @unicornburgers302 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      Omg congratulations!🥳😀

    • @cocobone5127
      @cocobone5127 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      Ahaha as someone who had a “mystery” illness for 6 years and has only got my diagnosis this year I definitely relate to this every time I was at hospital is their any chance you could be pregnant? Me : I’m in the pill a lesbian and painfully single so no no there isn’t any chance

    • @Sophie_Cleverly
      @Sophie_Cleverly 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      @@cocobone5127 Oh man yeah I know that feeling too! As a teenage girl with undiagnosed Crohn's Disease I was so sick of that question lol

    • @yeetomosquito8904
      @yeetomosquito8904 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@Sophie_Cleverly lol same except I have ulcerative colitis. It was just me *laughing in lesbian*

  • @turtle_toad1698
    @turtle_toad1698 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1867

    Jessica: I have a secret
    Also Jessica : puts secret in thumbnail

    • @annabees
      @annabees 3 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      That's when you are far too exited about things. That's how I announce secrets as well.
      Makes me terrible at telling jokes as well lol

    • @ndzhelin2651
      @ndzhelin2651 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      I think I remember the thumbnail was different when this was first posted and she updated it once it was settled that most people knew what the video was about.

    • @MsZarate88
      @MsZarate88 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I like the thumbnail made it clear what the video was going to be about

    • @Alina_Schmidt
      @Alina_Schmidt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yeah! Did we thank Jessica for that „spoiler“ yet? A very genuine thanks. For news like this it really helps to know it has a happy ... end beat, for that video at least. Even though it‘s rather the beginning, actually.😊

    • @theyxaj
      @theyxaj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I really appreciated the thumbnail being "spoilerific" myself!

  • @madalynreed333
    @madalynreed333 3 ปีที่แล้ว +240

    It’s so crazy to me how some people can get pregnant on accident not even trying and yet people who try so hard because they want to baby so bad have to go through this much stress. My heart goes out to you! Congratulations love y’all!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @tareag993
      @tareag993 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Well, a 16yo me was not ready for a child whatsoever

    • @josy6364
      @josy6364 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      My mom was also trying very hard and the moment she stopped trying she got pregnant maybe it is easier to get pregnant if you don't focus and stress on it too much you have the best chances. That is my guess but it is not medically based at all only my thoughts.

    • @N0pleaseN0
      @N0pleaseN0 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I got pregnant at 19 even though I had an implant but couldn't keep the baby even though I wanted to (I was very ill)
      But now, my fiancé and I have been trying for 2 years with no success...

    • @bleechrcreechrr
      @bleechrcreechrr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      It's also because the people who get pregnant by accident are usually younger like late teens early 20s, whereas people who feel prepared to have kids are usually older like late 20s early 30s, and unfortunately a lot of time fertility is best when you're younger :(

    • @bleechrcreechrr
      @bleechrcreechrr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@tareag993 I mean protection+plan B if the protection fails. It's not hard to avoid pregnancy

  • @Indiegirl007
    @Indiegirl007 3 ปีที่แล้ว +158

    My mom didn't know she was pregnant with me until she was 5 months along. She had periods up until that stage, and she was used to them being spotty, so it wasn't anything new for her. Lol. Having spotting during a pregnancy is veeeeeery common.
    I'm so happy for you beautiful mothers. I wish you all health and happiness!

    • @tracifromshreveport7364
      @tracifromshreveport7364 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      My mom had her period up until she was 8 months pregnant with me. They told her it was a psychological pregnancy...I'm 45 so technology wasn't as advanced...

  • @amparovaldivia3059
    @amparovaldivia3059 3 ปีที่แล้ว +678

    imagine when the baby watches this and realizes that nearly 300,000 people were so exciting for they/them to arrive
    Edit: English is not my first language and in my country we have other inclusive pronouns so I didn’t know what they were in English but now I do. In Spanish is “le” and I bet most of you didn’t know but that’s not a reason to be mean to someone

    • @dantefloressq
      @dantefloressq 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      Them

    • @Bananastroodle
      @Bananastroodle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      Using them works just as well as him/her, and it normalizes using the singular them which helps a lot of people :)

    • @Correctrix
      @Correctrix 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It.

    • @Vibinh1gh
      @Vibinh1gh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@dantefloressq thats what i was thinking!

    • @emmajenkins4732
      @emmajenkins4732 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Baby already has a huge fanbase :D I'm so happy to see these two become mums!

  • @lostinpencils4254
    @lostinpencils4254 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1619

    60% of this video - “we’re taking an early pregnancy test”

  • @Cjv123
    @Cjv123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Nobody will ever be able to claim your baby wasn't a planned pregnancy. I'm so excited and wish your family well! Congrats!

  • @pepryan2183
    @pepryan2183 3 ปีที่แล้ว +143

    These two have the healthiest relationship bond of all the lesbian couples I've watched on TH-cam
    #goals

    • @2nd3rd1st
      @2nd3rd1st 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Oh, you just haven't met the Internet's Canadian god-mothers Teya and Kristin (and goblin son Bingus) yet 🤓
      th-cam.com/video/-qWkMwsbchc/w-d-xo.html

  • @snowcrystal01
    @snowcrystal01 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3078

    As a lesbian who lost her left ovary and fallopian tube to a rare ovarian cancer when I was a teen, this gives me so much hope that I will be a mother one day.

    • @beatrice_penna
      @beatrice_penna 3 ปีที่แล้ว +121

      I really, really wish you so, from the bottom of my heart

    • @Jadesmorot
      @Jadesmorot 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      I’m cheering you on from Sweden 🇸🇪!

    • @KittyO7878
      @KittyO7878 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      I really hope it happens for you.

    • @Candy102297
      @Candy102297 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I pray you get your wish someday!

    • @CoZmicLime
      @CoZmicLime 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Wishing you luck from canada

  • @Author.Noelle.Alexandria
    @Author.Noelle.Alexandria 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1302

    When Claudia pointed at a vial and said, "This one hurts," I cringed. Menopur. It felt like fire! Took three tries for me, but the final result is sleeping next to me right now. She turned 11 years old a month ago. :). Enjoy it! The time goes too fast.

    • @mom23js
      @mom23js 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      My oldest turned 11 Christmas eve.. congratulations!

    • @Courtney_Blake
      @Courtney_Blake 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@mom23js My only son will be 10 this year! And he has EDS!

    • @mom23js
      @mom23js 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@Courtney_Blake they grow up so fast! My 2 oldest have autism. Kiddos with disabilities have struggles, but they seem more precious to love. Much love!💜🖤

    • @Courtney_Blake
      @Courtney_Blake 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@mom23js More to love and understand, grow with and that bond is forever no matter what!

    • @frostyskeletons8950
      @frostyskeletons8950 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@mom23js I’m sure you are, but make sure you give the neurotypical siblings lots of extra support too depending on if the older ones are low functioning or not. As a younger sibling who loves my brother with my whole heart and now is his secondary guardian and one of his main caregivers, I’ve seen many low-functioning families fall apart due to the other kids feeling like they don’t get enough attention. Unfortunately, nearly every family we keep in touch with has a child that becomes estranged due to resentment in adulthood. Much love ❤️

  • @linmax300
    @linmax300 3 ปีที่แล้ว +235

    As an adoptee, I love how you documented your journey! Although my parents aren’t lgbtq+, I can’t wait to see how many kids grow up loving + accepting the lgbtq+ community in the future! ❤️

  • @stokleyxj3
    @stokleyxj3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    The worst pregnancy pain for me was NOT when my hips separated to prepare for birth... it was after birth when they went BACK TOGETHER! No one tells you about this!

    • @jessicaharrison4719
      @jessicaharrison4719 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      And the rib cage returning to its normal position! So painful!

    • @KpopLover1013
      @KpopLover1013 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Wait what....... Is this was dilation is?? That makes me so scared...

    • @KpopLover1013
      @KpopLover1013 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      **what dilation is

    • @mxmmianaxo1160
      @mxmmianaxo1160 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I had severe spd while I was heavily pregnant, lucky I didn’t suffer no more once she came out 😭

    • @stokleyxj3
      @stokleyxj3 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@KpopLover1013 No, dilation is when your cervix opens during birth. One of the hormones your body releases causes your joints and ligaments to loosen up. Your pelvis separates to make room to push a baby out. After you give birth, it needs to tighten back up.

  • @AnnikaVictoria24
    @AnnikaVictoria24 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4393

    I think you may be the only couple for whom I've watched an entire pregnancy vlog/story by because usually I'm like eh, babies - but OMG I cannot think of 2 better future parents and I'm really really SO thrilled for you both! Im so glad that this thing you really wanted is coming true!!!! So excited for you. You'll be in my thoughts!! 💗

    • @exandah383
      @exandah383 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Oh You should see Rose and Rosie announcement

    • @dapper-ant2634
      @dapper-ant2634 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      ikr I really don't like kids so I don't watch anything about them but I'm just super Happy these two finally get to have their baby

    • @PixelatedFaerie
      @PixelatedFaerie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Same. I don't like babies or baby anything. But I'm genuinely happy for these two. ❤

    • @MSYNGWIE12
      @MSYNGWIE12 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      check out a wonderful, natural home birth on a channel called Talasbuan, a Swedish couple who live in a cabin, the true off the grid life, so moving... Namaste Z.

    • @scemat
      @scemat 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      SAME!! I'm just so happy for them!

  • @jenniferglatz5885
    @jenniferglatz5885 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1709

    This is literally the only pregnancy announcement I ever cared about in my life this is AMAZING

    • @lynnburch261
      @lynnburch261 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      AS SOON AS I SAW THIS COMMENT I ACTUALLY WHISPER SHOUTED "I KNEW IT!!" BECAUSE I KNEW IT JUST HAD TO BE ABOUT PREGNANCY

    • @marzipanmango
      @marzipanmango 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      This and RawBeautyKristy's announcement for me 😊

    • @szigetizita2698
      @szigetizita2698 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here! I almost cried haha

    • @amz1653
      @amz1653 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      SAME THIS AND ROSE AND ROSIES

    • @tanjafahndrich1477
      @tanjafahndrich1477 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes absolutely true! I teared up and I normally never do. So happy for you Jessica and Claudia!

  • @bobfish278
    @bobfish278 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Seeing Jesse cry made this so real and how hard the processes is and how brave you both are for sharing all of the Real parts of it and not just sugarcoating everything so thank you so so much. Watching this in the future and you too are amazing parents❤️❤️🏳️‍🌈

    • @TheOneTheyCallChris_
      @TheOneTheyCallChris_ 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      My old account lol still true ❤❤❤❤

  • @lenaknight2335
    @lenaknight2335 3 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    This reminds me of my husband and my journey through infertility. My son will be 34 yo the end of this month and my twin girls turned 31 in November. All IVF. This just back all the emotions. I got pregnant on our 3rd and 4th tries. Being pregnant was one of the best times of my life! Enjoy every moment!

  • @seulgisjoy7439
    @seulgisjoy7439 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1246

    When she was crying and said: but maybe next time, right? It will work next time.
    I got teary eyes because that was so heartbreaking🥺

  • @mallunovais491
    @mallunovais491 3 ปีที่แล้ว +908

    youtube recommended this to me for some reason and now, 40 minutes later, i am feeling very attached to these women and their unborn baby

    • @missserenity1090
      @missserenity1090 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      I would die for these two women and their unborn baby

    • @jax178
      @jax178 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Same

    • @gretchentrumper9423
      @gretchentrumper9423 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Same!🥰

    • @hunter-ip4mz
      @hunter-ip4mz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      listen i am 4 minutes in and feeling that

    • @TextheT_Rex
      @TextheT_Rex 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Stay for a while!

  • @roisindunne7639
    @roisindunne7639 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    The baby took so long cause it was waiting to be pals with Rose and Rosie's baby

  • @wolffisu
    @wolffisu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    My mom was inseminated for both me and my brother. My dad didn't want biological children (for major health issues), but they both decided to look into other options as my mom felt put on this earth solely to be a mother. This really helps me understand what they went through to put me into this world. I'm so excited for you two!

  • @aon02b
    @aon02b 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1091

    Oh I actually cried when they got the positive test. A couple years ago I donated my eggs, and watching this made me realise how happy I've made someone who otherwise wouldn't have been able to conceive. Big congratulations you guys

    • @MoreCoffeePlease.
      @MoreCoffeePlease. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Thank you for your most precious gift. ✨💛

    • @lilkatdevil
      @lilkatdevil 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Thank you for giving such a wonderful gift.

    • @noelleg3890
      @noelleg3890 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Thank you! You have definitely changed somone life for the better!

    • @SamWest96
      @SamWest96 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      So much respect for you! It's a crazy intense process. It's awesome that you did. I was hoping to but because I have endometriosis they won't take mine sadly.

    • @andromacha83
      @andromacha83 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yeah I got emotional too. Unfortunately I have health issues and with my husband we won't be able to have a kid of our own. We are looking into adoption, also because we are starting to be old (38 and 39 this year). I just really wished things had gone differently for us

  • @henlex6424
    @henlex6424 3 ปีที่แล้ว +484

    My adhd ass really watched this 100% uninterrupted because I'm just That invested

    • @xAlecto
      @xAlecto 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      omgosh same!!

    • @Kiki-7
      @Kiki-7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Good for you👌❤

    • @callmekc9793
      @callmekc9793 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same lol

    • @SkyelarEagle
      @SkyelarEagle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same

    • @cg6314
      @cg6314 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same but the ads about KILLED ME lol

  • @sanazlol7433
    @sanazlol7433 3 ปีที่แล้ว +228

    I’m so happy,i’m a baby bisexual who’s closested and probably can’t ever come out,BUT this gives me hope.
    Congrats you guys🥺i’m so glad we could get the great news

    • @yachinpnueli4333
      @yachinpnueli4333 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      hopefully your friends will sport you

    • @ariannapelletier6491
      @ariannapelletier6491 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      You just came out on youtube which is the first step. So proud of you!

    • @mentallydisturbedllama473
      @mentallydisturbedllama473 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Ah, sorry you haven't been able to fully come out yet. However I know you can do it whenever you feel like you're ready. And as a previous comment said, you've come out on here which is a good first step. Great job, you can do this! Much love.

    • @unicornburgers302
      @unicornburgers302 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah same, I don’t think I’ll ever get the chance to.

    • @sanazlol7433
      @sanazlol7433 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@yachinpnueli4333 i mean I only have one true friend and i’m not sure even he’ll support me.
      The others just keep me around cuz i help them.plus they’re super homophobic.but i hope to immigrate and be able to live in a less judgmental society.

  • @The_A_Cast
    @The_A_Cast 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    I’m a gay American Sign Language interpreter and seeing this brings tears of pure happiness to my eyes! Congratulations to you and your gorgeous lady!! ❤️🤟🏻

  • @mariacopley2128
    @mariacopley2128 3 ปีที่แล้ว +484

    "I bought my wife some sperm" ICONIC also I am sobbing, we're all so proud of and happy for you!!!! You're going to be the most loving mothers :)))))

    • @sainel15
      @sainel15 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤣

    • @krissi245
      @krissi245 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I definitely thought they said Spam! And as a vintage Brit, that would be right on brand, so for the next few minutes I still carried on watching the video completely clueless 😂😂😂

  • @thelouisemonarchy5551
    @thelouisemonarchy5551 3 ปีที่แล้ว +918

    Our lesbian moms are finally moms, I'm not crying you are ;-;
    I'm so happy for them

    • @aloevera1855
      @aloevera1855 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      You’re right I am crying! 😭 I’m so happy for them

    • @morganstiefvater2019
      @morganstiefvater2019 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      We are all crying

    • @11sriver40
      @11sriver40 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      hello it me yes I am crying

  • @Bella-bn2lq
    @Bella-bn2lq 3 ปีที่แล้ว +626

    As a lesbian who doesn't really want a baby this made me kinda want a baby, like...I can imagine myself trying for a baby when I watch this

    • @RylieLouise
      @RylieLouise 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      omg same

    • @sarahrose7445
      @sarahrose7445 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Omg sameee.... never wanted a kind. I find them annoying most of the time.
      Bur right now I am thinking that maybe with the right woman.... I might be willing to be a mother
      Hopefully I will one day find love the way jessica and claudia have

    • @KaiseaWings
      @KaiseaWings 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Try baby sitting very young kids, like 2 months or so, beforehand. XD
      Though it is different when they're your own I think, as someone who really has no desire for a baby despite really enjoying caring for and teaching them.

    • @C.Woodford
      @C.Woodford 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too

    • @Kelly-hh7jz
      @Kelly-hh7jz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@KaiseaWings I have two... Your own are very different. Not even remotely the same, actually. Plus there's something so nice about sharing a little person with someone you love.

  • @claireisacamel
    @claireisacamel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Omg this “moment of conception” explanation within the timeline of VidCon is the cutest thing EVER hahah

    • @lss74
      @lss74 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Anyone else never heard of 'VidCon'🤔??

    • @claireisacamel
      @claireisacamel 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@lss74 it’s a convention for video creators put on by TH-cam!

  • @heatherdyson6815
    @heatherdyson6815 3 ปีที่แล้ว +896

    I can’t be the only one who heard “I got my wife some Spam”. I was so confused. At first I thought “pregnancy craving? Weird”.

    • @l3m0nfl00rwax
      @l3m0nfl00rwax 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      That's what I heard, too!

    • @ehaszdawn
      @ehaszdawn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      That’s what I heard as well 🤷‍♀️

    • @MollyWat
      @MollyWat 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      lmao same

    • @lilijennings7316
      @lilijennings7316 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Exactly what I thought too

    • @heatherdyson6815
      @heatherdyson6815 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Honestly, that would be a very strange way of announcing baby, but it wouldn’t be the oddest thing ever said on this channel, and I wouldn’t have it any other way. Congratulations and good luck to the mummys! I hope Claudia continues to feel a lot better now the second trimester is kicking in!

  • @jodibee
    @jodibee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +406

    This is the dramatic clickbate title that a lot of vloggers use to pretend that the secret is something massive and I was like 'No way jessica uses that trope, they must actually be doing something big' and I was soooo wonderfully right❤️ Congratulations!!

  • @spicymayo623
    @spicymayo623 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    "Some of them are just swimming in circles." 🤣🤣🤣 i had to pause to keep laughing.

  • @lunacraveswifi7192
    @lunacraveswifi7192 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    the tiny human is gonna be born during pride month!! 😭 baby wanted to bless us all by making June more wholesome ❤️
    it's going to be a literal coming out party for all three of you (and we'll be celebrating with you from our homes)
    I'm ecstatic. I'm elated. Baby will be so proud to call you their parents ❤️

  • @MxAmericanPi
    @MxAmericanPi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +683

    I'm a sperm donor kid from a single mom so this is super cool for me to see from the parent perspective!

    • @MxAmericanPi
      @MxAmericanPi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      I was so rooting for the 4th try, different donor would work cuz that's exactly how I happened. Three tries with a guy who my mom look liked failed, fourth try with a "perfect match" guy and it stuck first try. I'm so sorry that that didn't work out for y'all but congrats to you two!

    • @remmary100
      @remmary100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Do you miss having a Dad? I’m just curious. Someone I know is contemplating using a sperm donor to conceive because she hasn’t met the right guy and she’s 35 years old. Thanks for sharing your story.

    • @MxAmericanPi
      @MxAmericanPi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +101

      @@remmary100 can't miss what you never had! Honestly, I had a really fulfilling childhood. My mom worked full-time but her best friend would watch me after school and stuff. The only time I ever felt different was when my school had "Me and My Guy Night," but that just makes me wish school would consider that lots of people don't have a "guy." I didn't have a brother, or close uncles; two years that afforementioned best friend dressed up as a guy to take me. I think it's more about the quality of parents than the quantity. I would say if she has the support system, absolutely go for it. my mom had me later than 35 so it's definitely not too late either

    • @Cloudy4Days
      @Cloudy4Days 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That's actually really cool, that might be something I consider it the future. I'm in my early twenties, so I've got some time to find somebody still 😅

    • @clarascats1365
      @clarascats1365 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same for me

  • @hillakauppinen2674
    @hillakauppinen2674 3 ปีที่แล้ว +382

    GUYS OUR MOMS ARE HAVING A BABY WE’RE HAVING A SIBLING

  • @AleshaCorrine
    @AleshaCorrine 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I think the 367 people who clicked the dislike button made a mistake and meant to click the like button. So we should just disregard those. Because this was the sweetest video ever! I cried! I'm so happy for you two! Can't wait to follow the journey!

  • @SweetAsCookiePie
    @SweetAsCookiePie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    The moment that first test after the ivf comes out positive is one of the cutest and most lovely moments ever

  • @oxfordcommalovesyou
    @oxfordcommalovesyou 3 ปีที่แล้ว +637

    Can’t think of a more deserving couple!!! Cried like a baby when the pregnancy test was positive :,)

    • @jennivamp5
      @jennivamp5 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same! 😭😍😭😍😭😍

    • @Luubelaar
      @Luubelaar 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I didn't cry but I do remember how overwhelming that joy is. Finally seeing the two lines. I'm so happy for them!

    • @hez_am_i2448
      @hez_am_i2448 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me too and I was watching it in a cafe at a major shopping centre

    • @ceroseven4623
      @ceroseven4623 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      SPOILEEEEER I JUST CLICK ON THE VIDEOOOO 😭😭😭😭 IM SO HAPPY 🎉🎉🎉

    • @mirjanbouma
      @mirjanbouma 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ceroseven4623 if the title is suggesting a surprise you should NOT read comments until you know what it is.

  • @xxMikumikitakikaxx
    @xxMikumikitakikaxx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +404

    I saw the title and yelled "OMG lesbian mom's are having a baby"
    Congratulations, I'm so happy for you

  • @aliciaweiss326
    @aliciaweiss326 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Cried my eyes out when I you finally got the positive result, even watching this well after Rupert was born.

  • @martianmuser
    @martianmuser 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    I had 5 IUI’s and 1 IVF as well (also 2 embryo’s in the freezer in the end) This all sounds sooo relatable. My beautiful son turned 5 in december ☺️ Congrats guys!

  • @beanstalk7326
    @beanstalk7326 3 ปีที่แล้ว +779

    Hearing Jess say she just wants to be a mum is the most heartbreaking thing. You can just see how badly they wanted this and I just KNOW that baby is gonna be the most loved in the world!

  • @mirielise1069
    @mirielise1069 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1101

    My wife and I were literally in tears when they got the result! We’re currently in the “trying” stage and this video definitely helps spark hope

    • @Eva-we5pu
      @Eva-we5pu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      i hope that everything will be alright for both you and your wife♡♡♡♡

    • @chloemae5618
      @chloemae5618 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Best wishes and sending all the luck your way! Hang in there!

    • @Ashtree28
      @Ashtree28 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Best of luck!!

    • @ale-dl2tl
      @ale-dl2tl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      good luck to both of you, don't lose ur hope !!

    • @sensen4161
      @sensen4161 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Good luck !!

  • @kristengrimm7340
    @kristengrimm7340 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    It's normal to be very tired, you're growing a baby and that takes a lot of energy. Congratulations!!

  • @smokee1325
    @smokee1325 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    the idea of pregnancy usually makes me nauseous due to dysphoria and such but I almost teared up watching this. you two are so lovely and congrats!

  • @Xxgracejordanxx
    @Xxgracejordanxx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +463

    Jessica and Klaudia are pregnant, Rose and Rosie are pregnant and Jamie and Shaaba are getting married. I’m so happy

    • @mahfuzamaisha2213
      @mahfuzamaisha2213 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Who are the other two couples?

    • @Emma-kw1nx
      @Emma-kw1nx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@mahfuzamaisha2213 Jamie is a trans youtuber (he's called Jamiedodger on here I think) and Shaaba is his soon to be wife

    • @mahfuzamaisha2213
      @mahfuzamaisha2213 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Emma-kw1nx thanks!

    • @o0Avalon0o
      @o0Avalon0o 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's wonderful!

    • @BlazeDupree1525
      @BlazeDupree1525 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Dan and Phil adopted a pigeon...you know that actually makes sence for them...

  • @oldsof69
    @oldsof69 3 ปีที่แล้ว +618

    I love how this video is about babies AND eyebrows
    Edit: I'm not crying....

  • @natalieanderl6464
    @natalieanderl6464 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Around 20 years ago my mom and dad were going through the same thing, IVF is really such a miracle. As a “test tube” baby my self I can say that your child will always appreciate how hard you two fought to have them and will never forget how loved they are.

  • @rachjade8785
    @rachjade8785 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Congratulations! My friends have been trying for 4 years to have a baby and it’s been heartbreaking watching them feel like they are failing but they finally fell pregnant in September and they’ve said that every negative they’ve had was just them waiting for the baby that was meant to be theirs.

  • @sharongibilisco1303
    @sharongibilisco1303 3 ปีที่แล้ว +268

    My daughter and her wife got pregnant in August. Their donor is the twin of my daughter too. I saw his toddler picture and it was uncanny. She took on her second try and in less than a week had symptoms of pregnancy. I am so happy for you guys, for all of us really. Congratulations.

    • @sarahwithstars
      @sarahwithstars 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Omg how genetically perfect this story is!! I love this story 💗 congrats Grandma xxxxxx

  • @aaronb6390
    @aaronb6390 3 ปีที่แล้ว +420

    Congratulations, as someone in hetro relationship (male side), who's experienced more than 10 miscarriages but now have a beautiful child, I can understand the anguish of waiting for all the results.

    • @marina6860
      @marina6860 3 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      wow 10 miscarriages is a lot to go through. i can't imagine. so happy you and your wife have a wonderful child now!

    • @hw5062
      @hw5062 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      rainbow babies are such a gift. 10 miscarriages must be so much to go through but I'm so glad you are happy!

  • @greenjadeofpeace
    @greenjadeofpeace 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I’m due on June 5th, and having a girl. So excited for you two and wish you a healthy and happy rest of your pregnancy!

  • @pinkdoor85
    @pinkdoor85 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I know you guys have Rupert. And I (now) know this video is what informed your viewers of his pending arrival. However, this video popped into my feed today (5 April 2024) and I nearly broke a finger trying to click fast enough to learn the joyful news of baby #2. Rupert is a heavenly delight & #2 will join when the timing is right. Love you guys! ❤

  • @jjinabowtie
    @jjinabowtie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +879

    “Trending on Gaming” clearly the very obvious gaming content every hardcore gamer is looking for. (Congrats btw)

  • @PedanticPig
    @PedanticPig 3 ปีที่แล้ว +462

    For a second I thought she said "for Christmas 2019 I bought my wife some Spam" and I was so confused.

    • @reogrande8020
      @reogrande8020 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I heard that too

    • @-b_i_b_b_y-
      @-b_i_b_b_y- 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same!! haha

    • @mskjaer496
      @mskjaer496 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Me too.. Even after I realized what she ment I still thought she said spam as a slang word.. 🤦‍♀️

    • @TashJansson
      @TashJansson 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      same! had I not come here from the instagram announcement I would genuinely think this was about food lol

    • @alekzrawkz
      @alekzrawkz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same. I also heard spam and was like, “What’s so weird about that?” 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

  • @lewando7687
    @lewando7687 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Claudia on her "menopause" drugs was hilarious 😂

  • @sleepyoldtiger372
    @sleepyoldtiger372 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    It’s so cute to see parents, that have looked forward to having a baby, actually so excited to having said baby. Congrats!! It’s such an exciting time!

  • @eggboy6926
    @eggboy6926 3 ปีที่แล้ว +809

    I'm having a lot of fun with the automatic captions: "gonna help the ovaries produce lots of legs"

    • @zealferal
      @zealferal 3 ปีที่แล้ว +97

      Congratulations Mrs and Mrs Kellgren-Fozard!
      It's a spider!

    • @pieceofpeace35
      @pieceofpeace35 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@zealferal that was my favorite

    • @madisonguyett5332
      @madisonguyett5332 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@zealferal you win

    • @cardinnairn6345
      @cardinnairn6345 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hopefully just two legs ☺️

  • @NexJen
    @NexJen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2644

    I cried in sadness over and over with you, and then literally kicked my feet squealing and crying in happiness for you both. Congratulations!!!

    • @Angelwitch99
      @Angelwitch99 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Omg I am such a hugh fan. This is unreal I was literally just reading the comments and you were probably the last person I expected to see. I love your videos

    • @abigailfritts6424
      @abigailfritts6424 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      omg nexjen so happy to see you on here! love your channel

    • @CurlyDesire
      @CurlyDesire 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too

    • @annieyu72
      @annieyu72 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Did not expect you to watch this video, but you are a lady of good taste, hence the good content!

    • @NexJen
      @NexJen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@abigailfritts6424 thank you so much, I love this channel and have been here for forever. So happy to hear from you.

  • @erikapanick3104
    @erikapanick3104 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    This was the most beautiful thing I have ever seen. You both are the parents I dreamed of having as a child. (Foster kid).
    I am so happy for you. Every child should be so wanted and loved.

  • @cloudhhhh
    @cloudhhhh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    the most important pregnancy announcement on youtube ever

  • @rashep
    @rashep 3 ปีที่แล้ว +399

    I'm a trainee embryologist and it was so incredibly interesting to see things from the other side. So happy for you guys!

    • @lucylulusuperguru3487
      @lucylulusuperguru3487 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      You should put "Pro Baby Maker" on your business card ;)

  • @catherinesucher3308
    @catherinesucher3308 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1262

    I don’t ever want a baby and pregnancy seems like a nightmare but this is SO CUTE.. I’m so happy for them 🥺

    • @mightyaxolotl74
      @mightyaxolotl74 3 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      I’m the same 😆 this is NOT for me and for sure nowhere in my future. But I’m so happy for them 😊

    • @case3474
      @case3474 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Samesies. I'm so delighted they're having a kid, even though I have no interest in having one myself

    • @Angelika5378
      @Angelika5378 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Totally the same. Don't ever want to get pregnant and have something growing in me
      But they are so happy and the kid will be loved very much. So I'm happy for them

    • @carlamedalla9654
      @carlamedalla9654 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Same same. Got lucky that my girlfriend is willing to bear the baby tho and been asking me for a whole month now. =///

    • @oldforestsystem
      @oldforestsystem 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Same pregnancy for me seems like a horror story but when I think about it for others who truly want it, I just feel immense joy, hope and happiness!!!

  • @giot8067
    @giot8067 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    How many times can you rewatch a video before you break it?
    This one just gives me so much joy!

  • @cocli17
    @cocli17 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I cried with you feeling the sadness (the things we do for our babies) and I cried with joy. I’m so happy for you. This is wonderful! Congratulations!

  • @susieenglish302
    @susieenglish302 3 ปีที่แล้ว +599

    Me - your lesbian mums are pregnant
    My 86 year old Dad - well thats the best news of 2021 done early won't have to worry again

    • @mirjanbouma
      @mirjanbouma 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Your dad sounds sweet!

    • @MilicaMoore
      @MilicaMoore 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Your dad is pure adorable xD

  • @giu7210
    @giu7210 3 ปีที่แล้ว +278

    Seeing the baby being wanted and loved even before it was actually confirmed is so, so heartwarming. I honestly cried, I'm glad the baby will grow as a wanted child and with lots of love!

    • @noeladcox8517
      @noeladcox8517 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This is so very important 👏💕

  • @sammiea5998
    @sammiea5998 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I'm gonna cry, y'all where the first lesbians I looked up to and I lost y'all for a while and I come back and see this 🥺 im so excited and happy for y'all

  • @RobinHjelmeirs
    @RobinHjelmeirs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    "genetic contribution" is the best way I heard it described

  • @originalfalloutgirl7
    @originalfalloutgirl7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +262

    My wife and I are pregnant too!!! We did two rounds of IUI and got lucky on the second try. Our due dates are only a week apart!

    • @nebula1oftheseven488
      @nebula1oftheseven488 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Congratulations ❤

    • @Isabel-2
      @Isabel-2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      That’s so cool! I pray the best for you and your wife!

    • @easilydistractedtutor
      @easilydistractedtutor 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      So happy for you! Any advice? We have our consultation on Thursday!

    • @sunshinetonic7454
      @sunshinetonic7454 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Congratulations!!!

    • @watchmedo635
      @watchmedo635 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Congratulations!

  • @paulotex19
    @paulotex19 3 ปีที่แล้ว +355

    52yo man here. I have a 26yo daughter. I had to pause when I saw the two lines, there were all these tears coming out! Thank you for sharing the process!

    • @PowderedFace
      @PowderedFace 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      that's so sweet omg

    • @hanaeve__
      @hanaeve__ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Awwww that’s so heartwarming

  • @transrocks5938
    @transrocks5938 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Anyone else remember when they did a video with Jamie and Shaba about having kids? Congrats!!!!!

  • @elliel4736
    @elliel4736 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    18:13 Jessica really looks like Ariel in this shot.

  • @alycigelnik3231
    @alycigelnik3231 3 ปีที่แล้ว +225

    our lesbian moms are finally going to actually be MOMS !!!

  • @iamsmupton
    @iamsmupton 3 ปีที่แล้ว +756

    I told myself I wouldn’t cry but the second Jess started crying after the positive test I started bawling

    • @annapegnitz3030
      @annapegnitz3030 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Omg me too 😅

    • @Sara-vn2kz
      @Sara-vn2kz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I cried when she cried at the third negative. She took it so hard!💔

  • @Tina-wj8fg
    @Tina-wj8fg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I’ve watch the entire 40 minutes of this video with the biggest smile on my face (and a few tears, but mostly happy tears). You gals are going to make amazing moms and I can only wish I find a partner half as good as you are to each other! Stay amazing and good luck to you both ♥️♥️

  • @I_am_Lace
    @I_am_Lace 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Congratulations to the beautiful Mommies!! I literally ugly cried when you got your first glimpse of the positive line. Many wishes for health & happiness to your family!!
    💌 Much love from Oklahoma 💌