How we got engaged after 5 months

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  • @VelvetVolcano
    @VelvetVolcano ปีที่แล้ว +1101

    "Although this book has no pages, inside is the start of our story" 🥺🥰

    • @PhoebeFayRuthLouise
      @PhoebeFayRuthLouise ปีที่แล้ว +22

      So romantic!

    • @nicksiii
      @nicksiii ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Soooi beautiful and romantic!!! ❤ love this couple so much

    • @HorizonOfHope
      @HorizonOfHope ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I know that’s the sweetest thing ever.

    • @katwitanruna
      @katwitanruna ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Made me tear up.

  • @melodybales2038
    @melodybales2038 ปีที่แล้ว +531

    I love the dichotomy of Claudia trying to have a casual summer fling and then boom gets a house and agree to marry eachother in under a year. The peak lesbian energy is overwhelming

  • @ufoesferico1050
    @ufoesferico1050 ปีที่แล้ว +659

    Hearing about Rupert being obsessed with the engagement story and marrying his dolls melted my heart, so sweet! ❤

  • @SailorDonut
    @SailorDonut ปีที่แล้ว +419

    Ahahaha Jessica not liking the dating app story is exactly like my brother-in-law. He and my sister met through an app, but that also didn't fit HIS romantic narrative, so he told people that they were at a Pokémon Go meetup downtown and he literally bumped into her and to apologize he offered to take her out to lunch, he had this whole story made up, and then at the wedding reception people asked my sister how they met and she just totally blanked and went "honey am I allowed to tell the real version or are we telling the Pokémon version still" 🤣🤣 So cat was out of the bag there

  • @kate4781
    @kate4781 ปีที่แล้ว +1267

    Thank you for making this content.
    I used to feel like same-sex relationships were... odd. I thought I was accepting because I wouldn't have stopped being friends with someone or think they were bad if they ended up in a non-straight relationship and I wouldn't have said anything negative about it, but, I'd still feel odd about internally.
    I think I first became aware of this channel through a combination of the disability and vintage sides of it and was really surprised and uncomfortable when I found out about the LGBTQ+, but I was hooked and kept watching.
    Watching your videos has normalised LGBTQ+ relationships so much for me. My past internal reactions seem ridiculous to me now. Recently, my sister came out to me, and it felt like the most natural thing in the world for her to be in love with a woman with whom she has decided to build a life. When she decides to tell more of my family, there will be a negative reaction from a lot of them.
    Thanks to you, I can stand up for her (and her partner) not just because I know it is right to do so (I think I would have done so before), but also because it feels right and natural for her to make that choice and nobody should stop her from doing that.
    I am sure I am not the only one who your videos have helped in this way.

    • @jennifers5560
      @jennifers5560 ปีที่แล้ว +99

      What a great comment! ❤

    • @LeCielIndigo
      @LeCielIndigo ปีที่แล้ว +134

      Oh my God, your whole comment resonates with me! Every. Single. Sentence. I also found same sex relationships odd although I supported them, but it was just because it was the right thing to do. Thanks to youtubers like Jessica or Jamie, it now feels absolutely natural to me and my past feelings seem so ridiculous. So thank you for your comment, I totally agree.

    • @althyastar
      @althyastar ปีที่แล้ว +114

      It is so fantastic that you were able to confront your uncomfortable feelings and push through towards acceptance over time. That is so great, I wish more people would do that.
      I feel like sometimes people have a hard time even recognizing that they have these internal negative feelings because they aren't *logically* against anything, and don't want to be seen as bigots. But really, we are all on a journey of becoming better and more accepting people, and it's okay to admit that you have some negative feelings towards others that you want to work on. It's all part of the process.

    • @babablacksheepdog
      @babablacksheepdog ปีที่แล้ว +21

      I guess we all grew up in a world where being straight was considered the default. I always think it's better late than never - as in, it's ok if becoming comfortable with being around people who are different than you takes time, as long as you are willing to change and are open-minded. I think a lot of us (especially those of us who grew up in conservative environments) only started becoming allies once we found out that people close to us were LGBTQ, and it opened our minds to the fact that LGBTQ are no different than us straights. I remember that in my late teens/early 20s a few of my dearest childhood friends came out, and that was the watershed moment for me.

    • @marleylayton1950
      @marleylayton1950 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      I mean I'm gay and I had the same issue, even thought I didn't want to, which was a fun bit of mental gymnastics. But without representation it's hard to normalise anything, especially when the alternative is presented as the only option. I also found watching Jessica's videos with Claudia really helpful in re-educating and accepting myself, so it's not just you.

  • @anya.darling
    @anya.darling ปีที่แล้ว +118

    when Claudia said "you were quite witty and obviously pretty" my brain just went for the "feel pretty and witty and GAY" reference.. and i love how perfectly that fits 😄❤

  • @heathertaylor3103
    @heathertaylor3103 ปีที่แล้ว +542

    I know meeting online doesn't seem all that romantic but honestly it was really nice to learn that that's how yall met. I've been hesitant to try a dating app because I think I also have those romantic ideas about meeting someone irl and moving from there. But so far in my life that hasn't really panned out at all. So to hear this really well-established couple talk about how they met online and finding the story just as romantic as any other was kind of inspiring to finally make a dating app profile.

    • @elsamarie222
      @elsamarie222 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Same!!

    • @dolphinloser6546
      @dolphinloser6546 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      I met my partner online and we've been together a good while now! We're not married/engaged (yet) but our relationship hasn't suffered for the fact that we met online

    • @SamarkandChan
      @SamarkandChan ปีที่แล้ว +33

      If anything it opens you up to more people you wouldn't normally meet. People get tied up in the how they met, instead of the why.
      (Met my ex boyfriend during my uni days in real life. We were togheter 8 years. And met my current girlfriend online. Both amazing people and how we met has no impact on who they are.)

    • @KumikoChanNyan
      @KumikoChanNyan ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I met my husband online 9 years ago, been together for almost 8 years, married for 2 years and our first baby will be born at the end of July. ❤

    • @annaf4720
      @annaf4720 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I met my husband on a dating app (Bumble). Literally couldn't think of a better match for me, and it's highly unlikely we would have met in real life. Do it!

  • @HelennaRose
    @HelennaRose ปีที่แล้ว +343

    I first found Jessica as Jessica Kellgren. Wow. It’s been so many years already. ❤❤❤❤❤

    • @jennifers5560
      @jennifers5560 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      You’re a long-time follower! ❤

  • @ReisigSeeds
    @ReisigSeeds ปีที่แล้ว +98

    My dad asked my mother to marry him 4 months after they went on their first date.
    They were married for 50 years, 6 months and 18 days.
    May you be happily married longer than they were!

  • @l5468
    @l5468 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    The lesbian urge to get a joint mortgage 3 months into a relationship hahahahah. That is so insane to me. But I'm so happy that it worked out for you so well! You two are the perfect match!

  • @dairyfreelemonstreams9493
    @dairyfreelemonstreams9493 ปีที่แล้ว +263

    My oldest sister recently came out as bisexual but also in the "I'm married to someone already so it's not like it would matter unless they died before I did ideally when I'm 80?" so Claudia being in a similar category has gotten some smiles out of me in these times

    • @selenamutchler3498
      @selenamutchler3498 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I love hearing y’all’s story ❤

    • @ellie-1678
      @ellie-1678 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      polyamory?(not polygamy)

    • @rilesywilesy2920
      @rilesywilesy2920 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Lol same. Not really a “coming out” moment because I didn’t like, announce it to people, but yeah it’s not really news because I’m happily and monogamously married so not planning on doing anything with that information any time soon.

    • @suiyinwang5622
      @suiyinwang5622 ปีที่แล้ว

      L
      L

    • @suiyinwang5622
      @suiyinwang5622 ปีที่แล้ว

      Llll
      Llll

  • @sweetlorikeet
    @sweetlorikeet ปีที่แล้ว +71

    Thank you Paige for representing ALL OF US with whatever face you made when you heard that Jessica somehow found and dated someone MORE high-femme than her.
    (Also, Grindr and Her give location in exact kilometer distance for reasons other than forming stable long-term relationships. It's so their users can quickly and easily arrange a convenient hook up.)

  • @PhoebeFayRuthLouise
    @PhoebeFayRuthLouise ปีที่แล้ว +133

    Your relationship is a beautiful blend of romance and practicality, laughter and seriousness! 100% couple goals!

  • @missnaomi613
    @missnaomi613 ปีที่แล้ว +138

    Happy Pride month to the Kellgren-Fozard family, and this lovely community!
    My daughter (19) is a newly-out trans lesbian, and I pray she finds the same kind of joy as you have found together!
    ❤🧡💛💚💙💜🤎🖤💙💗🤍

  • @wildscotsman1
    @wildscotsman1 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    I might not be the most vocal of your subscribers nor even the sort of person you would expect to be a follower of your channel, but I am still here enjoying your content since the beginning, when you were unmarried and starting out on your adventure in life. I sincerely wish for you, the kind of happiness I've had in my 53 years with my wife. As for passing the one million mark, I guess August 10th 💖

  • @helenross3037
    @helenross3037 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    I remember watching you when I first came out when I was ELEVEN. I'm nineteen now and you two are some of my strongest queer role models. I love you both, happy pride

    • @jennifers5560
      @jennifers5560 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      🌈🏳️‍🌈

    • @jellyesther10
      @jellyesther10 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Omg I also came out around that age range

  • @_andrewvia
    @_andrewvia ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Oh, you two! I'd say "get a room," but you already have an entire house. I hope you will always be this excited to be together.

  • @bethowens8863
    @bethowens8863 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I totally understand how Claudia felt. I came out of a bad break-up when I was 20 and finally had this epiphany that I didn't need a boyfriend to make me feel happy and complete - 3 weeks later, I met my now-fiancee and it was a serious relationship pretty much from the start. The truth is, you never know when you're going to meet that person. I know quite a lot of people who dedicated their twenties to career-building and had zero interest in being in a serious relationship (which is totally fine) but then seemed surprised that someone wasn't magically waiting for them the moment they decided they did want to settle down. Unfortunately, falling in love doesn't happen according to a neat schedule. Sometimes, meeting the right person means disrupting your plans and being open to whatever happens.

  • @kikicogger2284
    @kikicogger2284 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I didn’t realize how much I needed this. I’m 26 and have been struggling with the fact I’m not at as far along in life as I feel I should be, and I’m not sure what direction I will go. I’m currently single as well, and it’s a bit hard watching most of my friends get married while I’m simply not ready yet. It’s comforting to hear that Claudia was my age when she met Jessica and a bit older when she decided to change careers because I might still have time to figure those aspects out. Maybe it’s not too late to have or shape a happy future.

  • @brownstudios5379
    @brownstudios5379 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    I'm 22 and chronically ill (fellow eds potsie with other things) and i started getting sicker at 19, I felt like I missed the most important years of my life to find my future wife and person or to at least get out there and date. Thank you for this because I am hopeful again about dating and finding my person.
    also august 3rd is my 1million guess

    • @lenah9027
      @lenah9027 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Please you’re so young, lots of people don’t meet their life partner till after 40 you’ll be fine

    • @As8bakwTheSage
      @As8bakwTheSage 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You will find your person, I know you will! There is no timeframe for love!

  • @falconeshield
    @falconeshield ปีที่แล้ว +59

    I ran faster than Link looking for Zelda

  • @cucumberr01
    @cucumberr01 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    both of you look MESMERIZING in this video. i love ur relationship storytimes they warm my sapphic heart so much

  • @jesslikescoffee24
    @jesslikescoffee24 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    My spouse and I were engaged after 4 months of our first in-person meeting, and married another 4 months later. We’re champs at speed running a relationship 😅 Married 10 years now though!

  • @katewilson9723
    @katewilson9723 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Definitely enjoyed hearing the story again, so I understand Rupert's joy in hearing it too. Time flies by so quickly.

  • @brianne9
    @brianne9 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I would watch the heck out of Claudia tackling home reno projects. Please make this a series!

  • @roftherealm3418
    @roftherealm3418 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    Thank you both for your content. This is my first pride since coming out as bi, and your channel is one of the influences that helped me accept myself for who I am. It means a lot to me to have a channel like yours that helped me start dreaming about a life with a woman. Happy pride! ♥️💛💚💙💜

    • @kayla6877
      @kayla6877 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Happy first pride!!! ❤

    • @Raddiebaddie
      @Raddiebaddie ปีที่แล้ว +2

      💖 💜 💙

  • @lisam5744
    @lisam5744 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    My husband and I got engaged and moved in together two weeks after starting to date. I totally understand that feeling of quick connection.

    • @marthahawkinson-michau9611
      @marthahawkinson-michau9611 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      My husband and I got engaged after three months of dating. We knew within weeks that we wanted to spend the rest of our lives together.

    • @JankoWalski-hz3lu
      @JankoWalski-hz3lu ปีที่แล้ว +3

      My future husband moved in with me even before we started dating. We were friends with benefits, then he proposed to me like 4 months later xD

  • @DinosaurNick
    @DinosaurNick ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I wish they had more dating apps for bi spec people. I'm a pansexual non-binary person and every app I went on says "Are you a man looking for a woman, a woman looking for a man, a man looking for a man, or a woman looking for a woman?" and I'm like "I'm a person looking for a person. Why do I have to choose???"
    If anyone knows of any let me know!

    • @gslakes9481
      @gslakes9481 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Taimi's pretty popular in the trans and non-binary community where I live - might be worth a try? 🙂

    • @sari9645
      @sari9645 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      If you live in the United States, I highly recommend bumble!

  • @MyInfamousPanic
    @MyInfamousPanic ปีที่แล้ว +36

    My sister came out to me in January, after meeting a girl online just before Christmas. It's her first lesbian relationship so I've been sending her your videos with advice for coming out to the rest of the family (we're Irish Catholic on one side). I love seeing my sister so happy with her partner - I just hope they don't move quite this fast 😂

  • @Lucifersfursona
    @Lucifersfursona ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Claudia being so happy (and drunk) she just fell asleep for a hot minute is *_so cute_*
    “I just assume everything happening right now is going to go on forever😀” Jessica I’m in this photo and I don’t like it

  • @r_r_r_r
    @r_r_r_r 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The more typical romantic parts of the story are so, so sweet! But the real testament of their love is when Claudia divulges the painting deep dive. Both of their reactions reveal how well they know each other, and it was THE CUTEST.

  • @adelheidsnel5171
    @adelheidsnel5171 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    you two are amazing and sooo cute together! Have been "married" to my wife for 18,5 years back in the day. We separated ten years ago, but are still as close as family. She and I always say that love is never questioned, it was just time to live in a different form. I've subscribed btw. Love from the Netherlands

  • @JuMixBoox
    @JuMixBoox ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Hearing you describe your love story and seeing how fast life can change - going from not even knowing someone to living together in the house you both own with a mortgage and an engagement within like half a year - is very inspiring. I sometimes feel like not much happens in a year and it's just the same old things, but to know that everything could be turned upside down so positively is a really exciting kind of uncertainty.

  • @jennifers5560
    @jennifers5560 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Jessica’s look of disbelief, when Claudia was explaining why she did not want to meet her dog, was so funny!

  • @raquelc.c.4195
    @raquelc.c.4195 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I loved hearing about your love story! I’m proposing to my girlfriend soon, and even though she constantly says I’m the love of her life, I’m still nervous. Not because I think she’ll say no, but because it’s such a huge deal. I’m also incredibly excited! Wish me luck ❤

    • @jennifers5560
      @jennifers5560 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Good luck!

    • @raquelc.c.4195
      @raquelc.c.4195 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@jennifers5560 Thank you 🥰

    • @wolfzmusic9706
      @wolfzmusic9706 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@raquelc.c.4195did you do it?

  • @nakymatonlapsiN
    @nakymatonlapsiN ปีที่แล้ว +17

    the fact that you met on HER is incredibly sapphic of you

  • @Mei-Ling-Li
    @Mei-Ling-Li ปีที่แล้ว +21

    When Claudia said witty, and pretty, my brain immediately goes to the "I Feel Pretty" song from West Side Story and finishes with "and GAY!!!" Also accurate.

    • @scilines
      @scilines ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That’s perfect 😄

  • @carriechalfant
    @carriechalfant 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I got diagnosed with ADHD as a 26 year old! And I'm happily married to a trans woman. Thank you for sharing your experience, I've admired you for years and always appreciate your vulnerability on topics like this. Time blindness, executive dysfunction, and emotional dysregulation are all things I struggle with, and luckily they are all things that I feel a lot better about with a diagnosis. And meds. 😁 Unlearning guilt for how we are is such a freeing thing! Now I can work on myself from a much healthier viewpoint. Thank you for sharing!!

  • @blarrr
    @blarrr ปีที่แล้ว +21

    The drawing class story was a complete lie?? It all makes a little more sense now.
    You should make as many videos on this topic as you want. I never get tired of hearing this story ❤

  • @baguettegott3409
    @baguettegott3409 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I paused this video in the middle because it gave me the courage to text the lesbian girl I met last night at the Lindy Hop dance event and ask her if she would like to go out for coffee. Fingers crossed!

  • @LyrinaeSings
    @LyrinaeSings 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is so wonderful and sweet. Oh my goodness.
    As a really femme lesbian into vintage and alternative fashion, I started watching your stuff for the historical fashion-y side of things, and I was FLOORED and SO happy when I learned you were a lesbian! I didn't know about your personal life (wife, kid, etc) til this video and ... wow, I've been smiling through the whole thing. I'm disabled as well, so... yeah, you're an all around inspiration to me! And making me feel less silly about thinking my girlfriend of 6 months may be the love of MY life too.

  • @isyt1320
    @isyt1320 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    a lesbian proposal inside the vatican would have been such a slay though

  • @KathleenMiles-
    @KathleenMiles- 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's so cute how your little boy's favorite thing is hearing his mommas' love story. ♥️ Adorable.

  • @Peace-gm6ct
    @Peace-gm6ct ปีที่แล้ว +10

    the chemistry between them is crazy. love you guys happy pride month! ❤🧡💛💚💙💜

    • @almostTOTALLYvix
      @almostTOTALLYvix 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ikr, they are just so lovelyy ^^

  • @HeyJudie
    @HeyJudie 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love this! I'm bisexual, AFAB and I married a man. I love how this channel shows me what it might have been like if I married a woman. I love women and the love stories between women. This channel gives me that ENERGY! Sometimes I wish I'd married a woman but then I see my husband's sweet face and I know I made the right decision. I can see that between the two of you-- that you know you made a great decision-- and it makes my heart flutter :)

  • @jamesjudge3891
    @jamesjudge3891 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I hadn't looked at this before. You express relatively mid-20s aspirations, and I am so happy for where you were at the time, and where you are now. As a point of reference for me, my queer daughter (married to a man she met at Disney orientation in 2016) and my lesbian daughter (21) are the loves of my life (as is my son, but that isn't relevant to this discussion). We all love Finley's husband, we all like Kerry's current GF, and we're happy for the future in our family.

  • @thecatlurking
    @thecatlurking ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Claud is really glowing here! Seems like the career change is really agreeing with her 😊 I hope to have a love story like yours one day! Happy Pride! 🎉

  • @im19ice3
    @im19ice3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    i'm always impressed at how well-matchwed you two are, how you balance each other out, its really sweet to see and is imbued with all the ongoing effort of honesty and empathy to sustain the connection

  • @helenascribe210
    @helenascribe210 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Oh you guys are so sweet! My hubby and I have been together for 35 years and we too met at university 😊 I wish you many happy years together.❤

  • @jessicalay6553
    @jessicalay6553 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Happy pride, to the both of you are both so inspirational!!! 💜

  • @krooks6367
    @krooks6367 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Must say you two really fits each other. Complements each other well

  • @ERYN__
    @ERYN__ ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Some happy news I'm happy to share with complete strangers on the internet, but I am waiting a little longer to share with people who aren't my 4 best friends. Rainbow Month brings our Rainbow Baby! We got pregnant our 2nd month trying, but they were ectopic. We tried again for a year, and then I took time off to work on my health in non pregnancy safe ways. I refused pills and devices from past issues. I had been taken off of a diet pill because of high blood pressure, and I didn't have an appointment yet for Accutane or Lasik, and it was lucky number 7 anniversary, so we decided to roll the dice as a one off, and let that decide how the next 6-9 months will look. We celebrated our anniversary a couple of weeks later, and I was hoping that my period would wait until Monday so I could enjoy the trip without the wrinkle of managing around it. I had a negative the previous Monday, but this Monday was all positive! Waiting to see the doctor before telling the rest of the family, but probably Father's Day. I ordered a rainbow loading shirt with the customization He or She or They, I will love them anyway! I hope to subtly wear around pride things because I am part of the rainbow, too. At the end of June, they should be gummy bear sized, and I've been wearing my rainbow gummy bear necklace constantly for luck. I was also a rainbow baby.

    • @sarahwatts7152
      @sarahwatts7152 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Congratulations! I hope it goes well

    • @deeehi3
      @deeehi3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Congrats!!!

    • @paadoxal
      @paadoxal ปีที่แล้ว +6

      i wish you the very best of luck!:) happy pride month🌼

    • @PhoebeFayRuthLouise
      @PhoebeFayRuthLouise ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Congratulations, and thank you for sharing your sweet story here!

    • @OverdramaticAngel
      @OverdramaticAngel ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Big congratulations! 🎉

  • @Toribell1928
    @Toribell1928 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Honestly love hearing this because I am going to be getting married in a few months after a year of dating my boyfriend. People have so many opinions about how quick we moved in or got together but to be honest we know what we want, we’ve talked about our future thoroughly, and we are just so so happy. It definitely depends on the couple, there’s no timeline. Wishing y’all many more happy years.

  • @crumbtember
    @crumbtember ปีที่แล้ว +4

    "Complaining" often being part of love is SUCH a good point. you have to expect a lot from people you love; spend time with, etc., and, you have to expect to give and compromise 😮🎉🎉❤

  • @audiodamnation27
    @audiodamnation27 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Jessica.. your enunciation is quite proper, and beautiful.. as always 💙
    Thank you for sharing your story

  • @julie_uk_
    @julie_uk_ ปีที่แล้ว +10

    You two are a pure tonic of loveliness ❤

  • @MD-dm4dc
    @MD-dm4dc 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    i love how you added "we're monogamous - very" without any sort of energy of an "obviously, what else" behind it. as a polyamorous person, this is the first time I've seen a monogamous couple, so casually, mention that this is just their choice, not as if it is the only one, but simply that it is theirs. thank you for that

  • @alexcallahan1979
    @alexcallahan1979 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Already new most of this story after watching for years but listened to it all again because it’s so lovely!

  • @wonderingwhys
    @wonderingwhys ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Hello! I hope you're both doing well and having a lovely pride month

  • @ellyfox
    @ellyfox ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I watched your videos about your relationship years ago and I'm so happy to listen to your story again 🥰 this time you added more details

  • @karlysummers7196
    @karlysummers7196 ปีที่แล้ว +383

    As a translesbian, i only hope i someday have such a beautiful marriage

    • @Synths-n-Guitar
      @Synths-n-Guitar ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Goodluck 🕊

    • @thebestwillow
      @thebestwillow ปีที่แล้ว +48

      I know a translesbian who's very happy in a long term relationship with a cis woman. Be encouraged.

    • @carolehirsch7315
      @carolehirsch7315 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I hope you do too. Baruch HaShem you’ll find a perfect person for you!

    • @linh4820
      @linh4820 ปีที่แล้ว

      what's the hang-up exactly? you're opposite-sex attracted then aka heterosexual as any scientific source will prove, hardly illegal to get married anywhere. could go to literally any homophobic country in the world and get hetero married in two seconds, meanwhile most of us lesbians aka female homosexuals (and gay men), actually most same-sex couples can't get married in our respective countries. or have bio children with our partner. or get ivf. or adopt. or even hold our lover's hand in the streets. the only upside is never needing birth control and having this perfect mind-body-soul synergy that opposite-sex couples will never experience. gender-non-conforming straight people may get some odd looks or wrongly assumed to be gay on rare occasions but that's about it. maybe heterosexual people with a gender identity could at least stop co-opting and fetishizing our homophobic oppression and there would be no need for any kind of confrontation considering our identities don't really overlap, neither do our dating pools apart from bi women, and we have completely different struggles in life.
      as proven by neurological studies (e.g. one by Manzouri & Savic from 2018) it is clear that homosexual aka same-sex attracted people have distinctly different brain phenotypes from heteros, including those who identify as the opposite gender. therefore female-attracted transwomen have the same brain patterns as hetero males, which are completely different from lesbians. in fact, the myth of "brain sex" was dispelled by such neuro-studies, because it turns out they previously only tested male-attracted aka homosexual transwomen who Do have similar brain patterns to hetero women because of their shared male-attraction not some magical sex-detached mind/body duality "womanhood". when they tested heterosexual transwomen as well, all these similarities to women vanished, giving instead way to similarities with hetero males. therefore sexual orientation is solely based on biological sex, and heterosexual trans people are not notably distinguishable from their non-trans hetero peers. I suppose anyone can identify as however, although I don't really understand obfuscating the scientific reality which is that exclusive same-sex attraction is innate in a way transsexuality hasn't really proven to be and does not align with the latter, remaining connected to birth sex.
      I'm a lesbian in my late 20s, still haven't properly dated due to horrible discrimination of same-sex relationships in my country and because very few women are same-sex attracted. I have never dreamt of marriage, even as a girl, since I instinctively knew it was disallowed and illegal for me, and only stopped repressing my sexuality in my mid-20s despite of course never dating males either since I knew that would be abnormal for me. my dating life has been miserable since barely bi women lead lesbians on and fellow lesbians are like a needle in a haystack in a tiny homophobic eastern-european country.
      I'm sure that being opposite-sex attracted you haven't experienced any of these issues with your sexuality, considering 95+% of people are hetero-attracted and unlike homosexual people you have grown up in total acceptance of your hetero-attraction, without being actively forced to like males, without being told that lesbian sex is filthy and wrong, or not even real sex, because it never involves a p3nis, or the capacity to breed; without being berated as a depraved vile freak of nature because you don't like males and refuse to date them, without receiving "corrective" r*pe threats from p3rverted lesbian-fetishizing het men who feel entitled to any female person and can't accept your sexuality, thinking they can "turn" you to love d***.
      and despite being a conventionally attractive woman compared to models and actresses, a university lecturer, a business owner I have never been loved back by a woman because the reality is that most of them want d***, even if they hit on me first, even when they say I'm perfect and made them realize they didn't want to date men, I will never be enough for them because I'm female like them, because I only have x chromosomes, because they're not truly same-sex attracted, because I don't have a dangling meat pole which won't even provide women with orgasms 80% of the time.
      but do I blame women for that? for being opposite-sex attracted and act like a victim? of course not, everyone has an immutable non-fluid sexuality unless they are bi, and everyone has the right to reject anyone romantically or sexually for whichever reason, that is the whole meaning of consent and bodily autonomy. and most importantly, no-one is entitled to romantic love nor sex, no-one. this entitled mindset can lead to r*pe culture and is especially harmful towards women because it's instilled into straight males' minds since early childhood. after all, lesbians aren't entitled predatory conversion "therapist" incels like many misogynistic straight males would be in my position. I can just watch this lovely video of this lovely same-sex couple and be happy for them, if a little envious.
      and sure, not conforming gender-wise might narrow the options a little but not as much as what gay people face. I have never struggled with my gender so similarly I can't relate to you either, I just accept that I am female and attracted to the same sex, finding a special most anti-patriarchal beauty in that, although I know that many gay/bi people struggle deeply with not conforming to heterosexist gender norms and have gender dysphoria. also, considering how you identify, you might be bisexual, adopting the new gender theory view of "genderality" instead of sexuality. in that case I'm sure you can find a fellow transwoman just like yourself whom you can completely relate to! the only issue then is finding a country which allows you to marry because obviously then you'd be in a homosexual relationship and gay marriage is illegal in most of the world.

    • @KelseyBeePink
      @KelseyBeePink ปีที่แล้ว +8

      YOU WILL! 💗 You deserve a beautiful wife

  • @angelacanedit
    @angelacanedit ปีที่แล้ว +11

    yessss the optimism entering my body when i remember true (lesbian) love exists

  • @coletteandtulip
    @coletteandtulip ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This was so sweet, you two are so great together and clearly love one another. I hope to be as happy in a relationship as you two are in this video.

  • @nicksiii
    @nicksiii ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Happy pride to you both ❤ I've been following you for years and never get sick of hearing your live story ❤❤

  • @d_eexe
    @d_eexe ปีที่แล้ว

    seeing how much love you two have for each other is so heartwarming ❤

  • @hamba1998
    @hamba1998 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    What an absolutely beautiful video of love, this had me almost in tears🥰I hope one day I have my own story like this!

  • @cpoco
    @cpoco ปีที่แล้ว +1

    AWWWWW... I always happy to hear a "how we got together" story and you both are always so lovely to watch together.

  • @badllama4554
    @badllama4554 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love this. You guys describe your first dates etc in just the same rambling, self deprecating way we do. Happy Pride.

  • @pmbluemoon
    @pmbluemoon ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You both make me feel so warm and fuzzy, so sweet sharing your story! 🥰😀 I loved it!

  • @UncoordinatedPixie
    @UncoordinatedPixie ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I needed the smile today. Thank you for a sweet video. ❤️

  • @SewlockHolmes
    @SewlockHolmes ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's so great to hear your story! I also met my SO on a dating app and it's been hard for me to leave it at: "we met online" because there are so many beautiful nuances to it that the phrase just doesn't cover.

  • @elspethfougere9683
    @elspethfougere9683 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    So sweet to hear your story again.. This makes me realise how long Ive been following you! Im so happy for you guys 💖🙏

  • @Usedfood004
    @Usedfood004 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love you guys!!❤❤
    I have watched the 1st video a couple times. I love this update as well.

  • @HOHNancy
    @HOHNancy ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you both for the smile. 😊 I enjoyed this video! I also like how you both relate so well with each other in your relationship. ❤

  • @KMM71296
    @KMM71296 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    OH MY GOD, ALMOST A MILLION?! I have been subscribed since right before your wedding happened, I can't believe that it's come this far! So happy for you❤

  • @HarleyQuinnLuvr
    @HarleyQuinnLuvr ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Claudia is my spirit human! When she describes her enthusiasm for painting tiles 😅 that is so me. I'm the one who is in the stores buying EVERY option for every room. If my partner didn't stop me....we'd have all the parts to build a house IN the house! 😂

  • @zanahorialove9026
    @zanahorialove9026 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I find it soooo funny that Claudia wanted to propose to Jessica in the vatican of allll places :D :D

  • @vapniitinerant2829
    @vapniitinerant2829 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wonderful video! May you and your family always be happy !

  • @BethAge95
    @BethAge95 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Aww, I adore you as a couple, you're really an inspiration for how I behave and strive for in a relationship. Lovely to hear the story how it all came to be :)
    Wish you all the happiness in the world!

  • @katielouise210
    @katielouise210 ปีที่แล้ว

    this was so lovely to watch. i wont' get tired of hearing your story, no matter how many times you tell it 💜

  • @aidenLjmz
    @aidenLjmz ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Such a beautiful story!

  • @themarvellousmrsmorticia
    @themarvellousmrsmorticia ปีที่แล้ว +12

    When you know, you know! Happy Pride everyone 🎉 xx

  • @mlvogh
    @mlvogh ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You two are so great! Sweet, supportive and real! The whole world would be better if more couples (heck, if more PEOPLE) were like you! ❤️ Thank you both so much for sharing your life and love with us. 🌍❤️

  • @lagritsalammas
    @lagritsalammas 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This was so sweet to watch! Hearing your whole story told so casually might be my favourite video on this whole channel. Sending you lots of love!

  • @xxmysterygirl101xx
    @xxmysterygirl101xx ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You two are so darn cute. Your journey together is better than any love story ever!

  • @logo9470
    @logo9470 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really enjoyed this video. I’ve heard the stories before but I guess like Rupert, I just love hearing them! And btw how adorable is it that he wants to hear how his parents got married? What a beautiful little boy ❤❤
    Happy Pride 🌈

  • @Kiara.step-daughter
    @Kiara.step-daughter ปีที่แล้ว +10

    ya’ll are one of my favorite couple’s on youTube ☺️

  • @sisisiShimba
    @sisisiShimba ปีที่แล้ว

    What a beautiful and healthy and wise couple, literally goals 🥰💜

  • @nataliap.3519
    @nataliap.3519 ปีที่แล้ว

    Crying because I don't know if I'll ever have such a beautiful love story like this in my life. You two deserve the world. Your love for each other is inspiring to see

  • @elizabethvanek3164
    @elizabethvanek3164 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You two are just the most wholesome couple❤

  • @unicornbaby8588
    @unicornbaby8588 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    🎊 congratulations ladies 🎉😊. LOVE is LOVE!!!

  • @TheMiaOrange
    @TheMiaOrange 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Adorable story! Thanks for sharing!

  • @Anitafilmsvideos
    @Anitafilmsvideos ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is so heartwarming! Hope you both live happily ever after😊❤ And I wouldn't say your proposal was cheesy, it was rather very thoughtful 🥺❤

  • @ladykiwi2946
    @ladykiwi2946 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This cheered me up a lot. I am so happy for you two and for your kiddos, as well as the rest of your loved ones.🥰

  • @asdfzxcvqwert
    @asdfzxcvqwert ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I had to stop the video several times to scream, you two are literally SO ADORABLE 😭💕

  • @chescacarvajal5409
    @chescacarvajal5409 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That was a really good story. Sometimes it's just nice to be reminded of how things started. Happy Pride you two!

  • @zaryaswife
    @zaryaswife ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was so sweet to hear! Been following you two for years and it's so lovely to hear lesbian romance success stories ♥ happy pride, Jess & Claud!

  • @nof9469
    @nof9469 ปีที่แล้ว

    What a wonderful story! I had a blast listening 😊

  • @HotDogTimeMachine385
    @HotDogTimeMachine385 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You two are relationship goals! 🏳‍🌈 Thank you for being yourselves, and for sharing!

  • @catherinel.browne2195
    @catherinel.browne2195 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Happy PRIDE month, Lovelies ❤🎉