My husband passed away recently. I am moving from our home of 44 years. It is a huge endeavor. I am sorting and purging as I pack. I think my future self is going to thank me for this method of packing. I will say, Packing and moving is no joke and I’m getting tire.
I went through a similar thing when my husband passed away a few years ago. It was painful to get rid of some things, but in retrospect, I have a perspective on things. Whenever I have a friend complain that they just can’t let their things go… I just shake my head. When you have to let things go, and there’s so much pain involved, because of a loss of a loved one… I wish you all the best. I wish you peace. Eight years later and I still cry. I miss him so much
My husband passes away at 41 in our home in December 2023. Today actually would’ve been our 20th anniversary. 😢 Everyone important in my life said not to make any big decisions for at least a year, which I’ve stuck to, but next year hopefully I’ll also be doing some purging & packing to move. Big hugs to anyone in a similar situation!!
@@leavdwatt I am so sorry for your loss. Everybody is full of advice, but I learn to only take advice from people who had been in the exact situation I have been in. Some of the advice I was given was wrong. Do what you think is right.
Sending you all a gentle hug ❤ today just breathe and remember the good times will always be in your heart..You are wise to wait awhile to make big changes. I am a widow of 8 years, he stole my heart with his poetry on our first date.
Pro tip from someone with chronic illness: say the words "I'd like it noted that I asked for this test and you said no" and most doctors will then order the test for you. Advocating for yourself is so hard. So it helps to have your words ready beforehand. This whole video was GREAT!!
That is the winner of 'Most Awesome Tip for the Entire Internet Today'! Yep, reverse their words and they suddenly take your illness seriously. (Or at least enough so to cover their arse.)
I love this tip because I feel like I am constantly having to advocate for myself with my doctor. Advocating for yourself is great but when you feel like you always have to do it its irritating. I don't feel like I'm taken seriously half the time because my doctor questions my concerns almost every appointment and its very irritating. Most doctors i've had in the past, who were wonderful, either relocated or retired and they would hear my concerns and knew how to help me without asking why or asking me what I think I have etc.
This is why I love this woman. She's willing to show her messy areas to all of us, so we can see it's possible. It's doable. Even an organizing specialist has seasons where she struggles to keep her house. It gives me encouragement for myself and my house.
Oh my gosh… just what I needed. Thank you Cas 1. 3 Zones list 2. 60 min time limit 3. Audio distraction to help you focus on the task 4. Identity your ‘block’ in the space (e.g. what’s causing you to procrastinate or avoid) Goal… moving forward and seeing progress. Incentive to come back so it doesn’t seem so overwhelming. Looking forward to using these techniques
Okay, I watched this video yesterday and took a bunch of notes. I recently realized that I have combination ADHD and just started taking a non-stimulant medicine for it. I'm still getting used to the medicine, but I do notice that I can focus better and I have more energy. By the time I got off work yesterday, I was so ready to tackle my "doom room". I couldn't start on it until after my 2.5 year old went to bed around 7:30, though. I found my audio book, picked my 3 things I wanted to get done, set my timer for 60 minutes and went to work. I had to pause my timer a couple of times when I had to take care of something outside of the room and then forgot to turn it back on when I got back to work. I completed my 3 things and the space looks way better than it did before I started. It's far from done, but I am eager to get back to it tonight. Thank you so much for your helpful and informative videos!
So, timer set for an hour! Work it, work it! I haven’t cleaned or straightened my bedroom closet (BIG) for over two years. Mind you I have excuses. 48 minutes in, I’m exhausted, sweating, and my back is killing me!! So, I’m resting, but…..back to my excuses, herniated discs in my back due to an injury, not able to move by myself. Three hospital stays, not the back. Two surgeries, no help at home. Well, I’m here to tell you that when I get up, I’m going to vacuum that closet! 4 bags of garbage taken out, 3 boxes in the car ready to donate, and, one 80 year old lady very proud of herself!! Thanks for telling me I’m worth a clean home! Tomorrow, dresser drawers!! I’m on a roll!!
My whole house is as messy as your garage! 😭 But this video is just what I needed on a Friday night. My kids are in bed, my husband is out with a friend, so I’m setting a timer for 60-putting on an Audible book! Our main living space is my goal! 🦸♀️
I used to be a hoarder married to a hoarder. We could not get the house clean. I had to move out to overcome my tendency to hoard. I discovered your channel in my current apartment.
So MUCH better! I heard from a decluttering guru years ago that so often we have our garages stuffed with clutter, while our vehicles -- which are our second most expensive things we own, after our house -- sit outside, unprotected and exposed to the elements! Priorities. That made me stop and think.
TRUTH!! I drive by Mercedes, Lexus & BMWs in driveways and actually wonder what JUNK is so important in their garage instead of their luxury vehicle/s being in there.?!!
Vehicles depreciate. After 8 years most will be worth a fraction of what you bought them for. But I get what you're saying. In the first few years, yes.
My husband and I recently moved into our new house, just 1 week after my C-section. We also have a 2 year old boy😅. What I did that was helpful was, to take pictures of the house before we moved. I was therefore able to organize everything, in my mind, even the kitchen cabinets before we actually moved. (Having a written plan helps a lot).When we moved we just put everything we're they belong, just as I had planned. So moving wasn't so stressful. (I thought this might be helpful ) Love your channel. I watch you every day from Antigua 🇦🇬.
Hey Cass. I set the alarm for 60. I cleared up 2 big laundry baskets I had been sorting into for donation. I went for 43 mins. Till my back was telling me stop. ( herniated discs). But in that time a hurdle was crossed. Now, load the van, lift the saved items in the container onto its shelf and appreciate accomplishing a goal today. Thanks for the video. Get better soon!
Someone recommended you in the comments of a How to ADHD video, and I’m so grateful I saw it. This is so helpful! Thank you! My biggest block is my kitchen, specifically dishes. Storage is second. I have a small galley style apartment kitchen with almost no counter space and no pantry. I’m also need a visual type storage solution because if I don’t see it I don’t have it. Up until a month ago, my “pantry” was actually the coat closet in the living room, which does more harm than good for me. Not only could I not see it, it was a hassle to get what I needed. I finally had the spoons to clean out the closet, and ended up throwing out over $150 worth of expired food. I was so mad at myself. I decided to get rid of my dining room table and put a tiered utility shelf in its place. It made my life a lot easier, and I’m actually using stuff now. If only I could figure out the dishes 😂
Home from work today, going to rotate from room to room every hour and see how much I can get done (remaining in denial about the garage!) Definitely keep up on all of those health checks and advocate for yourself, changing doctors if need be! For TWELVE YEARS I had pains that I described as feeling exactly like a gall bladder attack (gall bladder was already removed) and doctors kept telling me it was female problems. Until I had a hysterectomy and still had the pain. My gynecologist listened and sent me for an MRI of ALL my organs- stones in the bile ducts of my liver! Sepsis and I nearly died because dozens of doctors wouldn’t look beyond “female problems”.
Females are important. Some doctors are so annoying. We have to forgive them from our hearts or we won’t either be forgiven. You matter and are definitely worth a lot. Much love and peace to you!!!
I have been stuck by the idea that I can't do the renovations needed. Four weeks ago I said, I still can't afford those renovations, but I can make it better! Decluttering has been a monumental task to finish. Everytime I do something it does get better and the motivation gets a bit easier.
Thank you for the PSA at the end. I am glad you stood up for yourself and are healing. A lot of time can be wasted in getting the right diagnosis causing an escalated issue. These tests are not expensive. Why not just do them if for no other reason than to prevent spread? Craziness!
This is why I refuse to take on the label of hypochondria. It took 6yrs to get a doctor to even accept that I wasn't making it up and I got my first diagnosis. Since then I definitely still obsess over every symptom, because I learned through experience that I have to find the right ones to tell the doctor using the right terminology for them to sift through all their knowledge and find a match. Also, I had recurring strep as a child and it turned out the cat was a carrier! So if it comes back get your pets tested, they can be treated for it and it's better than the shots you'd have to get if it keeps coming back.
Thank you for being so real and relatable, Cas! From everything to decluttering to having to stand up for yourself at the doctor's when you've had a history of thinking you were dying when everything was fine. You always make me feel better about my imperfections and super motivated to get into action. Get well soon! Love you, Cas!
Yes! Thank you for talking about hearth issues and doctors who diss you. A new doctor i saw said, "I don't see any ____." I said I'm on treatment that works. Never went back.
Pro tip from someone with chronic illness: say the words "I'd like it noted that I asked for this test and you said no" and most doctors will then order the test for you. Advocating for yourself is so hard. So it helps to have your words ready beforehand. This whole video was GREAT!!
I have a house Full of stuff!! I am recovering from a total hip replacement and a small stroke/TIA. I need to get this house on the market and find something smaller. I am by myself. No help! Thank you for you videos! They are giving me the strength to get this stuff out of here!
I did get encouragement!! Paperwork is my BLOCK! As I listened and watched, I picked up all my scattered files. Hung up jackets and robes, and have time to sort the papers. My special distraction is YOU CASS❤
I was raised with the "do it right the first time" mentality. I cannot put something away with the intentions of fixing it later. I also struggle with comparing my newly clean space to an adjacent space and not cleaning the whole house!!!
Just stumbled on your channel recently and this particular episode really got me going. I have several illnesses that prevent me from doing a power hour but today I have been trying power hour in 2 hours. I power for 30 minutes, rest 30 minutes, and repeat. I've paid bills, balanced the checkbook, cleared my kitchen counter, and folded 2 loads of clean (from last week) in about 3 hours. I REALLY appreciate you!
So sorry you were so sick Cass. Strep is horrible, but that the doctor let it develop into pneumonia is really shocking! I strongly suggest that you change doctors. Please don’t blame yourself for not fighting hard enough for decent care. With a good doctor , you wouldn’t have had to! Honestly, strep tests are pretty matter of course for a really bad sore throat.Three visits before you even got a test is not a sign of a caring or thorough physician. Hope you heal up completely and quickly. We all love you and want the very best for you. ❤️💕
So, I was a caretaker to my hubby with PPMS for 12 long years. We lived in campers, because I couldn't manage his care and my big 2-story house simultaneously. He recently moved to a nursing home because his care is now 24/7. Imagine my poor house after a dozen years of neglect! I've made some progress, but am sooo overwhelmed! Will try your "hour of power" on my front room today to at least create a warm, cozy space for relaxing. Turning music on. My "block" is the crap piled up that doesn't belong in my front room. O man! Wish me luck, fellow clutterbugs!😵💫💓
I truly appreciate how motivating you are. I came here for a study break from Calculus, I've been here for years for organization but today everything you said helped me with empowerment for college :) Also, in my weekly schedule I have "give our home a hug" which I totally got from you!
Yes, it can apply to studying for Calculus & Programming. Good Job, Gal...Keep it going! Not enough women understand that they can be successful in Calculus. :)
Thank you so much for this. I just became a SAHM after having my 3rd baby, and have been so overwhelmed with the clutter in my house. This gives me motivation. 😍
So needed this! I’m trying to work on my whole house and it’s definitely been a challenge after all these years. Recently my neighbors were so kind to remove a non working refrigerator from my garage and, just getting that out, has given me the motivation I needed to start cleaning and organizing. One part of me feels like I should complete one room completely before moving on to another but at the same time I keep thinking that anything I do, wherever it is, is definitely an improvement over all. 🤷♀️
I definitely started doing 'just one thing' years ago, and it makes a difference - especially when there is something you've been stuck on, like that fridge. Best of luck!
Weird that I just watched this video today, but yesterday I did just what you suggested! I found an audio book that lasted 7 hours, turned it on and got to work. I cleaned out my entire pantry, cleaned the rest of the kitchen, did laundry and a bunch of small chores. I did not cook dinner, Lol. I sent the hubby for take out. I finished that book in one day and felt so accomplished!
I started straightening up my bedroom, giving it priority over the rest of the house they way you suggested, and it makes a big difference in how I am sleeping. It lifts my mood to go to bed and not looking at all the junk that got deposited there. Thank you for your suggestion, Cas! As always, your advice has made a world of difference in my life.
My stepson has ADHD, depression, and mobility issues. His bedroom is a disaster, and he doesn’t know how or where to start. I happen to be a (cozy) minimalist, who believes in taking care of little things before they become big things. He’s much more amenable to that concept than his dad (that’s a whole other clutter battle). Since there is no room outside his bedroom (it’s a tiny hallway with a stairwell), my usual method of decluttering (pulling out only what I want/need, and getting rid of what’s left; thank you Joshua Becker), won’t work. We’re just going to start clearing off the bed, and work our way around the room. He’ll do the choosing, I’ll do the heavy lifting. Starting with 15 min increments should help cut down on decluttering fatigue. Wish us luck.
Cass, I’m in Mississippi, USA. I am recovering from two broken arms. I have been binge watching your videos and am so psyched about getting back to decluttering my home. Thank you for all you do. You are great!
I’m glad you are on the mend. I had something similar happen to me with a sore throat and I I ended up hospitalized with septic shock. We definitely have to be our own advocate! Listen to your body and don’t be afraid to speak up! I’m going to tackle a bedroom today! I moved to a new place a couple of months ago and I have been procrastinating finishing up the last of the boxes. I’m inspired to make some progress! Thank you!
You saved the best advice for last. Doctors are just human beings- with an overinflated confidence in their knowledge and judgement because they knew how to study when they were young. They are neither gods, nor infallible. They don’t own your health. You do. You pay them- they are your servant. Take responsibility, educate yourself, and never let them gaslight or bulldoze you into disbelieving what your body is telling you. 💖
I have been shamed and not gone to the dr a few times and it doesn't go well. I've asked my dr for a referral for ADHD and she said no. I'm going to ask again. Crazy how intimidating it can be! Love the bedroom tip. I kept our bedroom spotless when my husband was fighting stage 4 cancer but now that he's doing better and it's been a few years - it's a complete mess again! I need to do your 3 steps. I feel overwhelmed and I know half the things in there do not have a home and I don't want to make decisions, but I can do an hour. I remember how peaceful and healing the bedroom was when he was sick. It can be that way again with a little effort (or a lot of effort broken down into manageable bites) Thanks for the tips. I love your candor! It's refreshing!
Hi Cas, watching this video really motivated me. I related so much. Thank you! I also wanted to share a small tip/hack . You may already know this. Whenever I move; I take photos of my furniture layout/ bookshelves/ even kitchen cabinet and drawers. Than I share these photos with who ever is helping me get settled into a space. Especially with the kitchen. Many times we do it ourselves and get fatigued by making the decisions, where are these wine glasses going now? Etc. Well I did this with three friends and each one got a cabinet and they placed all the stuff like the photo. This is also great for books! And I’m sure kids could do It! I would also do this for closets. Like towels. Etc. you get the idea. I learned this trick when I used to open flagship department stores in the US. I got so tired of explaining to folks about space planning etc. I just started sharing photos of what I had done at a previous store. Hope this helps someone! Also it’s a good tip just to keep things tidy. My mother has dementia so I printed the pictures and added them inside kitchen cabinets.
Always, always, always advocate for yourself if you think something is wrong. My mom died because she didn't. I've told every doctor since that I will sometimes be a pain in their backside because although they know bodies better, I know MY body better and I will not let it go when I know something is wrong.
I'm so glad I found your channel. You motivate me so much and my house is getting more organized every day because of it. Both my daughters moved out within a month of each other and my one daughter was a packrat and very sloppy. I never thought I'd get my house back the way it was before children but lo and behold, it's looking terrific. Thank you for all the wonderful advice, it's working! My basement is the next room I'm tackling using your one hour advice.
Can I just say I love your short stories, you always make me laugh 😂. Aside from the short stories, I am so proud of myself because I followed one of your decluttering videos for paper organization, and I did it! It's not perfect the way I want it, BUT at least the clutter is gone!! Thank you!!
It makes sense to me that you would have trouble doing this in your own home. Yeah, it's what you DO, but when it's your home, Cas, it's totally personal! Everything looks great! You should be proud!
I just found your channel today, doing a search to help me get unpacked and organized before I resort to a bulldozer and a match! You are such a breath of fresh air! I am so excited to have found you! I have hope of getting this mess organized…FINALLY! Thank you so much!
Hang in there. I remember when I used to think a house fire was the simplest solution. I am still sometimes tempted by the thought of a small skip!. 2 tips I recently heard. Declutter for the life you have now. The person you are now. And, instead of thinking ' what if I get rid of this?' think, what if I keep this? Where will it be kept, and what will its purpose be?' Sometimes it's easier to let it go than answer those questions!
Cas. Always be your own advocate for proper health care. I had bilateral breast cancer with a "normal mammogram". Things didn't feel right, so I pressed on for additional testing which revealed my cancer. I might not be here today if I didn't listen to my gut instinct. Get better soon!
The best part about this was it felt like you were having a direct conversation with my inner voice. Especially the part about our bedroom.. it absolutely comes last and you were answering my thoughts as I thought them (how did you do that?!😂) thank you ❤ I’m inspired
Love love love the tips💕💕 My closet... the various sizes and stuff i have not touched in years... is what overwhems me. I dont want to start the new year this way... so will be ising your tips. Btw... loved you dance of excitement 👏👏💕💕
I found you on your podcast and was motivated to start decluttering my 2800 sq ft house. I had to put many things I would have wanted to do these last 7 years on hold because I had my hands full already being full time caregiver for my elderly daddy who suffers from Alzheimer’s & strokes. Daddy now lives in an Alzheimer’s unit close to me so after recuperating for 4 weeks due to complete exhaustion and strep throat, I can finally tackle my own projects. I had your podcasts going in the background cheering me on for the last 4 days now. I am amazed how good it feels to fill my trunk w donations. I called a men’s shelter today and asked if they needed winter coats.He said absolutely . Thank you Cass for your encouragement and even your tough love. I am grateful 🙂 5:46
I must say, you brighten my day! Thank you for the zone idea, that was so practical. As always, I come for the teaching, but I live for the end! Glad you're feeling better, pneumonia is no joke!
As a bonus, this is a great way to « walk » the dog. That lovely dog of yours has been following your every movement. The four of you deserve a pat on the back and a good rest after that efficient work. Thank you for the good motivating tips.
I grew up with my mom playing Motown on the record player for Saturday cleanings! It's definitely something I do too, feels like having a dance party while also getting stuff accomplished...and a great way to play off the crazy dancing when someone walks in🤣🤫❤🙏🏾
This came ay the petect time. We finally have a break from 100+ degree weather. It's time to clean the shed. It is 18x32 and stuffed wall to wall floor to rafter of junk! Perfect plan to get started😊
😂 “… and it will not be done, …” Thank you for this. I don’t know where it’s going to go, that’s why it stays in the boxes. My office also became the storage room and last place to unpack. Was the throat stuff around the time you re-did the basement? Yes, mama!!, we have to stand up for ourself. Any doctor is just one person… Congratulations on parking indoors!! 🎉
Love you Clutterbug!! You always make me laugh and smile. Going back into the sittingroom this evening that I left like a tip to get it sorted💪 Was avoiding it as I got overwhelmed. I now know I need to pick 3 tasks and 60 minute timer. Got your advice and great video to watch over again Thanks so much❤Love from Ireland!!
I was recently thinking about when I go to the doctor. I end up telling him or her my symptoms and do you think I have this or do you think I have that? I realize that I’m doing the work for them they don’t check for anything else they just go with what I say. I decided in future visits. I will tell him my symptoms and that will be it. I will let them figure out what is wrong. As you said, you know your body, and they need to listen to that, but I want to make sure they figure it out on their own with me making sure I’m taken care of. Also, thank you for your encouragement on this video I really needed it. I’ve been working on redoing my closet for a couple of weeks trying to go through clothing and organizing things, etc. I did away with dressers originally because I’m a butterfly and then just recently got a small dresser for my pants and workout clothes. so far I’m doing pretty good with putting things back and the fact that the drawers only hold my pants, just butterflies. Able to keep it organized. I am now trying to figure out ideas to store my purses. The top rack of my closet has all of mine seasonal decorations because I live in a tiny apartment and have virtually no storage. I thought about taking them out of there but I really have nowhere to put them. It is all a work in progress, however, your videos have always been encouraging and I know I will eventually get it done! Thank you for what you do!
This was so helpful. For me it's knowing something will take a long time. Knowing it's okay to accomplish 3 things, AND it doesn't have to be perfect, AND zoning has inspired me to tackle my office 1 hour at a time. Thanks! So glad you insisted on the strep test 💪 Something that may make it easier in the future: Each visit costs insurance money and possibly an additional co- pay. That's what helps me: unnecessary expenses - and extra time, lol!
Last June, I had a dull pain in my lower right abdomen. It was a little more the next day. It wasn't "pain", but it didn't feel right. I went to the doctor. Due to the location she sent me to get an MRI or CT? I get them mixed up, I couldn't get the test until the next morning. After, I got home from my test, my Dr called and said that I "have acute appendicitis!" She sent me to the ER, and told me to be prepared to be admitted because my surgery will be in the afternoon. Whew! This saved me the experience of the pain getting extreme, or of having my appendix rupturing. It was a good lesson in "listening to my body." I feel like I am bothering my doctor sometimes too. She is very nice about it though. I am able to message her on her portal too. I get concerned that I message her too much sometimes. Yes! Mammogram & Colonoscopy!
My mom is an independent family practice physician and when she turned 50 she invited all her female patients to “Dr. Lucy’s Bagels and Boobs” where they all went together to get mammograms and she brought bagels and coffee for everyone. It was meant to help those who might have been nervous to go themselves and otherwise wouldn’t have. I didn’t go (I was only 22) but I heard it was a blast.
Thank you; I needed to see this video. I'm working through my craft room and converting it in to a multi-use space now. It will be both my office and craft room and I've been feeling super overwhelmed. In regard to ourselves; we absolutely need to self-advocate!
To add to the going to the doctors also also also have someone at the hospital with your loved one who is the patient no matter what age a person who can advocate and coordinate otherwise that sick relative/loved one can get forgotten about by busy hospital staff
I'm so glad you got the help you needed when you needed it. Your journey is YOUR journey.... don't get caught up in the comparison trap. No one else is walking it but you. You're such an inspiration to others and raising better awareness of mental health, no matter the diagnosis. Thank you for sharing your life so openly.
What I love is that the dog laid in the same spot like "Meh. Hey, y'all do know that a warm spot & ear scratches are all that matters? Right?" Sometimes I think our fuzzy children are around to keep us from going overboard. Thanks Cas for all of your podcasts, videos and the tv show. I'm a bachelor cat-daddy & there are times your podcasts are the ONLY motivation that reaches me where it counts as I'm also ADHD MOUSE OR WTF-EFFAH they call us easily distracted folks. Keep on sharing your story & tips - it really does help, perhaps more than you'll know. Besides - the dog said he'd bite you if you stopped. Well, maybe he said he'll just nibble enthusiastically for treats? (Hope the Oliver fiasco was resolved as best possible given the circumstances.) (I'm a cat daddy & would have been devastated!)
BTW - thanks for the tip on those 'spritz mops' like seen at 8:30 or so. You mentioned them before and I, as a cat father of six fuzzy children (and one human grandchild) appreciate SO MUCH being able to just spritz, mop/sweep and take care of all the critterly tummy aches on my hardwood floors!
Gotta add this: If you don't know where to start... start with your garage! That way it can become your staging area for 'trash/donate/keep' etc. You have to bust down the beaver's dam before the stream will flow again... the garage is the cluttered up collection of crap that you need to unclog & get rid of first! Then you can tackle a room/zone/etc elsewhere in the house and use the garage to sort & get it gone! A large bonfire helps too. Especially when the ex leaves behind their crap and refuses to come get it. Not that I'd do anything like that. :D (But the roasted marshmallows over piles of home interiors debris/boxes were delicious!)(Toxic, but delicious!)
Loved this video!! I really needed this to motivate me, so thank you so much. I have a crap ton of audio books to listen to while I organize my entire house. Also thank you for reminding us to listen to our bodies & stand up for ourselves!! We know ourselves better than anyone & it's super important to be our own advocates!! I'm sorry you didn't get the proper care you deserved Cass, but I'm very happy you're on the mend!! I LOVE your end of video "round ups"; they're so helpful, very funny, entertaining & never disappoint!! LOVE your channel!!!
You are so right about standing up for ourselves. I went to clinic and they told me I just had a viral infection now I'm back at the clinic with a positive Covid. We know our bodies!!
I'm saving this to replay for myself once I'm feeling better physically because it's fantastic. Thank you so much for all of this, and especially, I want to say KUDOS for sticking up for yourself at the docs. Next time you won't need to think twice about it. ❤ We need to hear things like this as women... From women! 🎉
I have a method of start at the door with a trash bag, donate box, and a box for stuff that goes in another room. Start by picking up the first thing you come to, and work your way through the room. When you walk out to take a break or get a new box, etc. You come back to see a clean space right at the door. It's motivating. If you just walk around grabbing trash or something else, you come back and there's is still a room full of clutter. It gets harder to keep motivated when you don't see results.
It sure makes a difference when you have someone to help you! I am on my second day of sorting, organizing & purging of what looks like a hoarding situation caused by covid fatigue. Good tips, thanks!
I am getting over Covid (4 weeks of extreme fatigue) but am finally feeling better. So glad I was fully vaccinated or I am sure I would have been hospitalized. Thankfully my house is pretty decluttered and minimal (thanks to Cass and Dawn and Dana) so I could keep up with laundry, dishes and simple meals with rest periods in between. I got a sense of what chronic fatigue would be like and it’s no joke. Having less stuff to deal sure helped.
Oh gosh, Cas! I was literally just sick for 6 weeks. A horrible cough that would not go away. COVID and strep tests negative. Antibiotics, then Prednisone, then Albuterol and nothing helped. Had a chest X-ray in car of pneumonia, and it was normal. Then my cough started to get better, but I started having horrible pain in my ribs from coughing for more than a month straight. It was horrible. Glad you're on the mend. You are not alone!
Love it Cas! You are inspiring. 🤗 So,b once my new kitchen and utility room are finished.... 😊 I now have to zone each "new" area and establish where everything is going, just once, cause I'm not moving this stuff again! 🥵 😂
One of the first times I ever moved, my mom told me to unpack and prepare the bedroom first. Put the bed together, put on fresh linens, put things away... her reasoning was the same as what you said here... everything else is chaos during a move, but let yourself have a place of peace when you go to bed and when you first wake up. While the bedroom gets a little chaotic, it's one of the rooms that we try not to let too much extra stuff get into. (except for a weird "suitcase corner" but we keep it neat.. we just travel a lot for work)
You are always on time with just the video I need... literally I just searched "adhd clutter" and here I am with you... one of my top favorite youtubers!!! Thank you!!!!
Cass - you're so the best - the things you have shared in the past and lately makes me always think that you so amazing! This video is no different - totally adore this idea of a 1 hour timer and just the simple steps - can't wait to tackle what's left to do in my office to get it done this way... then have to move on to the cat/exercise room disaster, but that's another day. Thanks Cass!!!
When I started my decluttering-in-earnest phase, I started in the bedroom. Even though the rest of the house was a depressing mess, my bedroom was clean, clear and clutter free. Starting and ending my days in that way was very motivating.
Love this video...sooo helpful!!❤ YES...to being your own medical advocate!! Similar experience...slight abnormalities in routine bloodwork, doctor ran again & I requested an additional test just to be sure it wasn't something...came back abnormal & now I'm 4 weeks postop from having an adenoma in one of my parathyroid glands removed!! 😉
I just declutter my garage this weekend. I zoned everything and 2 car load of trash later the garage looks amazing!! Thanks for your continued support and encouragement ❤😊
You are a superstar 💫 Thank you so much for this! I came here to acknowledge and say how much I value and appreciate your presence in the online organizing space. I’d never heard of Peter Walsh till I listened to your podcast 💪 He is slowly becoming my hero as well🥇 Thank you thank you thank you!!
Hi, love watching yr videos. We were a family of 7 now only a family of 4. We just moved from a big 4 bedroom to a very small 3 with no storage.. I'm so overwhelmed I'm so glad you make these videos cuz I have a lot of great ideas it's just getting my ADD mom brain to function correctly 🤔🥺😭😂
I am so excited to see wash time you post a new video!! You give me so much encouragement and motivation to do things!! Today I’m going to work in my kitchen. I have so many things that I do not use so the things I do use doesn’t have a home. The stuff I use get moved from place to place so I can never find it when I need it!! It’s so frustrating and my kitchen looks so cluttered all the time. It’s a really small space anyway and the more I have the worse it looks. My bedroom is very cluttered as well so that will be my next place to work. I know you said bedrooms are a huge priority but I kinda started the kitchen last night so I am going to continue today. Thank you for all you do for us women who just need an extra boost and sometimes a gentle kick in the butt to get going!! ❤️😀
Cass, I just wanted to thank you for saving my life, ok maybe a bit dramatic, but i watched your video all the way to the end and your story about step and pneumonia made me go to the doctor today after suffering for over a week and surprise, i have strep and bronchitis. Would totally not have gone if it wasn't for your story and insistance that you needed a strep test. Thank you!!
Thank you for telling your Dr. story and encouraging others to stand up for themselves. I was in pain for 19 years and told the pain was normal and was gas lit by Dr.s. I ended up in the ER and found out that the reason I was in pain was because I had an undiagnosed condition. It was the reason I hadn't ever gotten pregnant after 6 years of trying. I'm about to have surgery next week and hopefully this is the answer to starting our family. I am no longer afraid to stand up to Dr.s or do my own research and trust my own instincts. Thank you for saying this! ❤
I feel like this video is so much more useful and helpful than all your videos put together. Please don’t misunderstand, I’m not saying your other videos weren’t helpful, just this one is my favorite and the most helpful for me.
My husband passed away recently. I am moving from our home of 44 years. It is a huge endeavor. I am sorting and purging as I pack. I think my future self is going to thank me for this method of packing. I will say, Packing and moving is no joke and I’m getting tire.
I went through a similar thing when my husband passed away a few years ago. It was painful to get rid of some things, but in retrospect, I have a perspective on things. Whenever I have a friend complain that they just can’t let their things go… I just shake my head. When you have to let things go, and there’s so much pain involved, because of a loss of a loved one… I wish you all the best. I wish you peace. Eight years later and I still cry. I miss him so much
My husband passes away at 41 in our home in December 2023. Today actually would’ve been our 20th anniversary. 😢 Everyone important in my life said not to make any big decisions for at least a year, which I’ve stuck to, but next year hopefully I’ll also be doing some purging & packing to move. Big hugs to anyone in a similar situation!!
@@leavdwatt I am so sorry for your loss. Everybody is full of advice, but I learn to only take advice from people who had been in the exact situation I have been in. Some of the advice I was given was wrong. Do what you think is right.
So so sorry for your loss. Jesus loves you ❤️ 💖
Sending you all a gentle hug ❤ today just breathe and remember the good times will always be in your heart..You are wise to wait awhile to make big changes. I am a widow of 8 years, he stole my heart with his poetry on our first date.
Pro tip from someone with chronic illness: say the words "I'd like it noted that I asked for this test and you said no" and most doctors will then order the test for you. Advocating for yourself is so hard. So it helps to have your words ready beforehand. This whole video was GREAT!!
That is the winner of 'Most Awesome Tip for the Entire Internet Today'!
Yep, reverse their words and they suddenly take your illness seriously. (Or at least enough so to cover their arse.)
@@Le_Comte_de_Monte_Felin exactly!!
Ran to comments to write the same thing! Love it
I love this tip because I feel like I am constantly having to advocate for myself with my doctor. Advocating for yourself is great but when you feel like you always have to do it its irritating. I don't feel like I'm taken seriously half the time because my doctor questions my concerns almost every appointment and its very irritating. Most doctors i've had in the past, who were wonderful, either relocated or retired and they would hear my concerns and knew how to help me without asking why or asking me what I think I have etc.
That is an amazing tip! Thank you!
This is why I love this woman. She's willing to show her messy areas to all of us, so we can see it's possible. It's doable. Even an organizing specialist has seasons where she struggles to keep her house. It gives me encouragement for myself and my house.
Glad I can help!
Oh my gosh… just what I needed. Thank you Cas
1. 3 Zones list
2. 60 min time limit
3. Audio distraction to help you focus on the task
4. Identity your ‘block’ in the space (e.g. what’s causing you to procrastinate or avoid)
Goal… moving forward and seeing progress. Incentive to come back so it doesn’t seem so overwhelming. Looking forward to using these techniques
Just found this video, and I, too, really needed it. Now I have a plan. 😅😊
Okay, I watched this video yesterday and took a bunch of notes. I recently realized that I have combination ADHD and just started taking a non-stimulant medicine for it. I'm still getting used to the medicine, but I do notice that I can focus better and I have more energy. By the time I got off work yesterday, I was so ready to tackle my "doom room". I couldn't start on it until after my 2.5 year old went to bed around 7:30, though. I found my audio book, picked my 3 things I wanted to get done, set my timer for 60 minutes and went to work. I had to pause my timer a couple of times when I had to take care of something outside of the room and then forgot to turn it back on when I got back to work. I completed my 3 things and the space looks way better than it did before I started. It's far from done, but I am eager to get back to it tonight. Thank you so much for your helpful and informative videos!
So, timer set for an hour! Work it, work it! I haven’t cleaned or straightened my bedroom closet (BIG) for over two years. Mind you I have excuses. 48 minutes in, I’m exhausted, sweating, and my back is killing me!! So, I’m resting, but…..back to my excuses, herniated discs in my back due to an injury, not able to move by myself. Three hospital stays, not the back. Two surgeries, no help at home. Well, I’m here to tell you that when I get up, I’m going to vacuum that closet! 4 bags of garbage taken out, 3 boxes in the car ready to donate, and, one 80 year old lady very proud of herself!! Thanks for telling me I’m worth a clean home! Tomorrow, dresser drawers!! I’m on a roll!!
My whole house is as messy as your garage! 😭 But this video is just what I needed on a Friday night. My kids are in bed, my husband is out with a friend, so I’m setting a timer for 60-putting on an Audible book! Our main living space is my goal! 🦸♀️
How did it go?
I used to be a hoarder married to a hoarder. We could not get the house clean. I had to move out to overcome my tendency to hoard. I discovered your channel in my current apartment.
Some hoarders like to call themselves collectors.
Asking basic questions before the items come in our home, helps lighten the process.
So MUCH better! I heard from a decluttering guru years ago that so often we have our garages stuffed with clutter, while our vehicles -- which are our second most expensive things we own, after our house -- sit outside, unprotected and exposed to the elements! Priorities. That made me stop and think.
Truth. Not only that, in my area they are stealing catalytic converters so extra reason to garage your car at night.
TRUTH!! I drive by Mercedes, Lexus & BMWs in driveways and actually wonder what JUNK is so important in their garage instead of their luxury vehicle/s being in there.?!!
100%!
@@homethatilove4595 they could just be wanting to show off their luxury cars too though hahah..
Vehicles depreciate. After 8 years most will be worth a fraction of what you bought them for. But I get what you're saying. In the first few years, yes.
My husband and I recently moved into our new house, just 1 week after my C-section. We also have a 2 year old boy😅.
What I did that was helpful was, to take pictures of the house before we moved. I was therefore able to organize everything, in my mind, even the kitchen cabinets before we actually moved. (Having a written plan helps a lot).When we moved we just put everything we're they belong, just as I had planned. So moving wasn't so stressful. (I thought this might be helpful ) Love your channel. I watch you every day from Antigua 🇦🇬.
Hey Cass. I set the alarm for 60. I cleared up 2 big laundry baskets I had been sorting into for donation. I went for 43 mins. Till my back was telling me stop. ( herniated discs). But in that time a hurdle was crossed. Now, load the van, lift the saved items in the container onto its shelf and appreciate accomplishing a goal today. Thanks for the video. Get better soon!
Great job!!!
Someone recommended you in the comments of a How to ADHD video, and I’m so grateful I saw it. This is so helpful! Thank you! My biggest block is my kitchen, specifically dishes. Storage is second. I have a small galley style apartment kitchen with almost no counter space and no pantry. I’m also need a visual type storage solution because if I don’t see it I don’t have it. Up until a month ago, my “pantry” was actually the coat closet in the living room, which does more harm than good for me. Not only could I not see it, it was a hassle to get what I needed. I finally had the spoons to clean out the closet, and ended up throwing out over $150 worth of expired food. I was so mad at myself. I decided to get rid of my dining room table and put a tiered utility shelf in its place. It made my life a lot easier, and I’m actually using stuff now. If only I could figure out the dishes 😂
Home from work today, going to rotate from room to room every hour and see how much I can get done (remaining in denial about the garage!)
Definitely keep up on all of those health checks and advocate for yourself, changing doctors if need be! For TWELVE YEARS I had pains that I described as feeling exactly like a gall bladder attack (gall bladder was already removed) and doctors kept telling me it was female problems. Until I had a hysterectomy and still had the pain. My gynecologist listened and sent me for an MRI of ALL my organs- stones in the bile ducts of my liver! Sepsis and I nearly died because dozens of doctors wouldn’t look beyond “female problems”.
So glad you finally got a correct diagnosis! Hope all is well.
Females are important. Some doctors are so annoying. We have to forgive them from our hearts or we won’t either be forgiven. You matter and are definitely worth a lot. Much love and peace to you!!!
Wow!
Hoovering is my block. Can't stand the idea, but every time I finally get to it, I feel great satisfaction, for a little while!
I get that!
I have been stuck by the idea that I can't do the renovations needed. Four weeks ago I said, I still can't afford those renovations, but I can make it better! Decluttering has been a monumental task to finish. Everytime I do something it does get better and the motivation gets a bit easier.
Good for you!
Yes anything you do makes you feel so motivated as you feel so accomplished. Keep on going.
Thank you for the PSA at the end. I am glad you stood up for yourself and are healing. A lot of time can be wasted in getting the right diagnosis causing an escalated issue. These tests are not expensive. Why not just do them if for no other reason than to prevent spread? Craziness!
I agree.
This is why I refuse to take on the label of hypochondria. It took 6yrs to get a doctor to even accept that I wasn't making it up and I got my first diagnosis. Since then I definitely still obsess over every symptom, because I learned through experience that I have to find the right ones to tell the doctor using the right terminology for them to sift through all their knowledge and find a match. Also, I had recurring strep as a child and it turned out the cat was a carrier! So if it comes back get your pets tested, they can be treated for it and it's better than the shots you'd have to get if it keeps coming back.
@@Clutterbug where did you get the round mirror?
Thank you for being so real and relatable, Cas! From everything to decluttering to having to stand up for yourself at the doctor's when you've had a history of thinking you were dying when everything was fine. You always make me feel better about my imperfections and super motivated to get into action. Get well soon! Love you, Cas!
Yes! Thank you for talking about hearth issues and doctors who diss you. A new doctor i saw said, "I don't see any ____." I said I'm on treatment that works. Never went back.
Pro tip from someone with chronic illness: say the words "I'd like it noted that I asked for this test and you said no" and most doctors will then order the test for you. Advocating for yourself is so hard. So it helps to have your words ready beforehand. This whole video was GREAT!!
I have a house Full of stuff!! I am recovering from a total hip replacement and a small stroke/TIA. I need to get this house on the market and find something smaller. I am by myself. No help!
Thank you for you videos! They are giving me the strength to get this stuff out of here!
You got this!
I did get encouragement!! Paperwork is my BLOCK! As I listened and watched, I picked up all my scattered files. Hung up jackets and robes, and have time to sort the papers. My special distraction is YOU CASS❤
I was raised with the "do it right the first time" mentality. I cannot put something away with the intentions of fixing it later. I also struggle with comparing my newly clean space to an adjacent space and not cleaning the whole house!!!
I tell myself, "See that clean space? I can ignore the rest for now because I know it will look just as good soon!"
Just stumbled on your channel recently and this particular episode really got me going. I have several illnesses that prevent me from doing a power hour but today I have been trying power hour in 2 hours. I power for 30 minutes, rest 30 minutes, and repeat. I've paid bills, balanced the checkbook, cleared my kitchen counter, and folded 2 loads of clean (from last week) in about 3 hours. I REALLY appreciate you!
YAY!!! I'm so proud of you!
So sorry you were so sick Cass. Strep is horrible, but that the doctor let it develop into pneumonia is really shocking! I strongly suggest that you change doctors. Please don’t blame yourself for not fighting hard enough for decent care. With a good doctor , you wouldn’t have had to! Honestly, strep tests are pretty matter of course for a really bad sore throat.Three visits before you even got a test is not a sign of a caring or thorough physician. Hope you heal up completely and quickly. We all love you and want the very best for you. ❤️💕
So, I was a caretaker to my hubby with PPMS for 12 long years. We lived in campers, because I couldn't manage his care and my big 2-story house simultaneously. He recently moved to a nursing home because his care is now 24/7. Imagine my poor house after a dozen years of neglect! I've made some progress, but am sooo overwhelmed! Will try your "hour of power" on my front room today to at least create a warm, cozy space for relaxing. Turning music on. My "block" is the crap piled up that doesn't belong in my front room. O man! Wish me luck, fellow clutterbugs!😵💫💓
You've got this!
@@ClutterbugThanks, Cas. It's looking better!🙂
I truly appreciate how motivating you are. I came here for a study break from Calculus, I've been here for years for organization but today everything you said helped me with empowerment for college :) Also, in my weekly schedule I have "give our home a hug" which I totally got from you!
Good luck! I know how hard college is. You sound like you are on top of everything. Way to go!!!!
Yes, it can apply to studying for Calculus & Programming. Good Job, Gal...Keep it going!
Not enough women understand that they can be successful in Calculus. :)
I love that!
"It won't be perfect, but it will be better". The best words ever. ❤🙂
"Power of an hour" Yes girl ❤ Decluttering is so overwhelming! Love your videos.
I'm so glad!
Best advice ever! Be your own advocate at the doctors office. Also for loved ones that can’t do it for themselves.
Thank you so much for this. I just became a SAHM after having my 3rd baby, and have been so overwhelmed with the clutter in my house. This gives me motivation. 😍
I'm so glad!
One room or section at a time. Are you in Florida, I can come help?! I love organizing.
You have helped me thru some really dark times. Thank you for your inspiration.
Glad I could help!
Me too. You've felt like my best friend during some difficult days . Thank you
So needed this! I’m trying to work on my whole house and it’s definitely been a challenge after all these years. Recently my neighbors were so kind to remove a non working refrigerator from my garage and, just getting that out, has given me the motivation I needed to start cleaning and organizing. One part of me feels like I should complete one room completely before moving on to another but at the same time I keep thinking that anything I do, wherever it is, is definitely an improvement over all. 🤷♀️
I definitely started doing 'just one thing' years ago, and it makes a difference - especially when there is something you've been stuck on, like that fridge. Best of luck!
Weird that I just watched this video today, but yesterday I did just what you suggested! I found an audio book that lasted 7 hours, turned it on and got to work. I cleaned out my entire pantry, cleaned the rest of the kitchen, did laundry and a bunch of small chores. I did not cook dinner, Lol. I sent the hubby for take out. I finished that book in one day and felt so accomplished!
I started straightening up my bedroom, giving it priority over the rest of the house they way you suggested, and it makes a big difference in how I am sleeping. It lifts my mood to go to bed and not looking at all the junk that got deposited there. Thank you for your suggestion, Cas! As always, your advice has made a world of difference in my life.
I'm so glad!
My stepson has ADHD, depression, and mobility issues. His bedroom is a disaster, and he doesn’t know how or where to start. I happen to be a (cozy) minimalist, who believes in taking care of little things before they become big things. He’s much more amenable to that concept than his dad (that’s a whole other clutter battle).
Since there is no room outside his bedroom (it’s a tiny hallway with a stairwell), my usual method of decluttering (pulling out only what I want/need, and getting rid of what’s left; thank you Joshua Becker), won’t work. We’re just going to start clearing off the bed, and work our way around the room. He’ll do the choosing, I’ll do the heavy lifting. Starting with 15 min increments should help cut down on decluttering fatigue.
Wish us luck.
Cass, I’m in Mississippi, USA. I am recovering from two broken arms. I have been binge watching your videos and am so psyched about getting back to decluttering my home. Thank you for all you do. You are great!
Oh my goodness, I hope that you feel better soon!
Get well soon!
You're so funny and i love you for being genuine.
I’m glad you are on the mend. I had something similar happen to me with a sore throat and I I ended up hospitalized with septic shock. We definitely have to be our own advocate! Listen to your body and don’t be afraid to speak up!
I’m going to tackle a bedroom today! I moved to a new place a couple of months ago and I have been procrastinating finishing up the last of the boxes. I’m inspired to make some progress! Thank you!
I hope you're OK now? No after worries from that septic shock? Sooo sorry that happened to you!!!
@@sonyad7723 Yes! I am perfectly fine now. The entire ordeal was due to my tonsils needing to be removed. I had them removed and I was good as new.
You saved the best advice for last. Doctors are just human beings- with an overinflated confidence in their knowledge and judgement because they knew how to study when they were young. They are neither gods, nor infallible.
They don’t own your health. You do.
You pay them- they are your servant. Take responsibility, educate yourself, and never let them gaslight or bulldoze you into disbelieving what your body is telling you. 💖
The wall paper on your bedroom is gorgeous! Glad you kept it. ❤
I think the wallpaper is gorgeous
The whole bedroom looked great at the end,I wouldn’t change a thing!👍
I have been shamed and not gone to the dr a few times and it doesn't go well. I've asked my dr for a referral for ADHD and she said no. I'm going to ask again. Crazy how intimidating it can be! Love the bedroom tip. I kept our bedroom spotless when my husband was fighting stage 4 cancer but now that he's doing better and it's been a few years - it's a complete mess again! I need to do your 3 steps. I feel overwhelmed and I know half the things in there do not have a home and I don't want to make decisions, but I can do an hour. I remember how peaceful and healing the bedroom was when he was sick. It can be that way again with a little effort (or a lot of effort broken down into manageable bites) Thanks for the tips. I love your candor! It's refreshing!
Hi Cas, watching this video really motivated me. I related so much. Thank you! I also wanted to share a small tip/hack . You may already know this. Whenever I move; I take photos of my furniture layout/ bookshelves/ even kitchen cabinet and drawers. Than I share these photos with who ever is helping me get settled into a space. Especially with the kitchen. Many times we do it ourselves and get fatigued by making the decisions, where are these wine glasses going now? Etc. Well I did this with three friends and each one got a cabinet and they placed all the stuff like the photo. This is also great for books! And I’m sure kids could do It! I would also do this for closets. Like towels. Etc. you get the idea. I learned this trick when I used to open flagship department stores in the US. I got so tired of explaining to folks about space planning etc. I just started sharing photos of what I had done at a previous store. Hope this helps someone! Also it’s a good tip just to keep things tidy. My mother has dementia so I printed the pictures and added them inside kitchen cabinets.
Always, always, always advocate for yourself if you think something is wrong. My mom died because she didn't. I've told every doctor since that I will sometimes be a pain in their backside because although they know bodies better, I know MY body better and I will not let it go when I know something is wrong.
Good for you.
I'm so glad I found your channel. You motivate me so much and my house is getting more organized every day because of it. Both my daughters moved out within a month of each other and my one daughter was a packrat and very sloppy. I never thought I'd get my house back the way it was before children but lo and behold, it's looking terrific. Thank you for all the wonderful advice, it's working! My basement is the next room I'm tackling using your one hour advice.
You’re the best! ❤I loved it when your dog rang the bell and then come sit by you❤
Can I just say I love your short stories, you always make me laugh 😂.
Aside from the short stories, I am so proud of myself because I followed one of your decluttering videos for paper organization, and I did it! It's not perfect the way I want it, BUT at least the clutter is gone!! Thank you!!
It makes sense to me that you would have trouble doing this in your own home. Yeah, it's what you DO, but when it's your home, Cas, it's totally personal! Everything looks great! You should be proud!
Thank you!
I just found your channel today, doing a search to help me get unpacked and organized before I resort to a bulldozer and a match! You are such a breath of fresh air! I am so excited to have found you! I have hope of getting this mess organized…FINALLY! Thank you so much!
Hang in there. I remember when I used to think a house fire was the simplest solution. I am still sometimes tempted by the thought of a small skip!. 2 tips I recently heard. Declutter for the life you have now. The person you are now. And, instead of thinking ' what if I get rid of this?' think, what if I keep this? Where will it be kept, and what will its purpose be?' Sometimes it's easier to let it go than answer those questions!
Cas. Always be your own advocate for proper health care. I had bilateral breast cancer with a "normal mammogram". Things didn't feel right, so I pressed on for additional testing which revealed my cancer. I might not be here today if I didn't listen to my gut instinct. Get better soon!
The best part about this was it felt like you were having a direct conversation with my inner voice. Especially the part about our bedroom.. it absolutely comes last and you were answering my thoughts as I thought them (how did you do that?!😂) thank you ❤ I’m inspired
Love love love the tips💕💕 My closet... the various sizes and stuff i have not touched in years... is what overwhems me. I dont want to start the new year this way... so will be ising your tips. Btw... loved you dance of excitement 👏👏💕💕
With your motivation….I want to tackle everything!!❤I can do it!!
Yes you can!!
I found you on your podcast and was motivated to start decluttering my 2800 sq ft house.
I had to put many things I would have wanted to do these last 7 years on hold because I had my hands full already being full time caregiver for my elderly daddy who suffers from Alzheimer’s & strokes.
Daddy now lives in an Alzheimer’s unit close to me so after recuperating for 4 weeks due to complete exhaustion and strep throat, I can finally tackle my own projects.
I had your podcasts going in the background cheering me on for the last 4 days now.
I am amazed how good it feels to fill my trunk w donations.
I called a men’s shelter today and asked if they needed winter coats.He said absolutely .
Thank you Cass for your encouragement and even your tough love.
I am grateful 🙂 5:46
I must say, you brighten my day! Thank you for the zone idea, that was so practical. As always, I come for the teaching, but I live for the end! Glad you're feeling better, pneumonia is no joke!
Very important message! We have to be an advocate for yourself! Demand what you need. Glad you are on the healing path! 💛
Good for you for fighting for YOU! Glad you are feeling better and thank you for always motivating me to keep on going with organizing my life!!
You're so welcome!
As a bonus, this is a great way to « walk » the dog. That lovely dog of yours has been following your every movement. The four of you deserve a pat on the back and a good rest after that efficient work. Thank you for the good motivating tips.
I just cleaned out my bedroom closet took me 3 days😊 so happy.
Good for you!
I grew up with my mom playing Motown on the record player for Saturday cleanings! It's definitely something I do too, feels like having a dance party while also getting stuff accomplished...and a great way to play off the crazy dancing when someone walks in🤣🤫❤🙏🏾
Lol!
I hope you feel all better soon Cas 🤗!
Thank you!
LOL, the dog just chilling in the corner! 🐶
:)
This came ay the petect time. We finally have a break from 100+ degree weather. It's time to clean the shed. It is 18x32 and stuffed wall to wall floor to rafter of junk! Perfect plan to get started😊
😂 “… and it will not be done, …” Thank you for this. I don’t know where it’s going to go, that’s why it stays in the boxes. My office also became the storage room and last place to unpack. Was the throat stuff around the time you re-did the basement? Yes, mama!!, we have to stand up for ourself. Any doctor is just one person…
Congratulations on parking indoors!! 🎉
Love you Clutterbug!! You always make me laugh and smile. Going back into the sittingroom this evening that I left like a tip to get it sorted💪 Was avoiding it as I got overwhelmed. I now know I need to pick 3 tasks and 60 minute timer. Got your advice and great video to watch over again Thanks so much❤Love from Ireland!!
I was recently thinking about when I go to the doctor. I end up telling him or her my symptoms and do you think I have this or do you think I have that? I realize that I’m doing the work for them they don’t check for anything else they just go with what I say. I decided in future visits. I will tell him my symptoms and that will be it. I will let them figure out what is wrong. As you said, you know your body, and they need to listen to that, but I want to make sure they figure it out on their own with me making sure I’m taken care of.
Also, thank you for your encouragement on this video I really needed it. I’ve been working on redoing my closet for a couple of weeks trying to go through clothing and organizing things, etc. I did away with dressers originally because I’m a butterfly and then just recently got a small dresser for my pants and workout clothes. so far I’m doing pretty good with putting things back and the fact that the drawers only hold my pants, just butterflies. Able to keep it organized. I am now trying to figure out ideas to store my purses. The top rack of my closet has all of mine seasonal decorations because I live in a tiny apartment and have virtually no storage. I thought about taking them out of there but I really have nowhere to put them. It is all a work in progress, however, your videos have always been encouraging and I know I will eventually get it done! Thank you for what you do!
This was so helpful. For me it's knowing something will take a long time. Knowing it's okay to accomplish 3 things, AND it doesn't have to be perfect, AND zoning has inspired me to tackle my office 1 hour at a time. Thanks! So glad you insisted on the strep test 💪 Something that may make it easier in the future: Each visit costs insurance money and possibly an additional co- pay. That's what helps me: unnecessary expenses - and extra time, lol!
Thanks for sharing!
Last June, I had a dull pain in my lower right abdomen. It was a little more the next day. It wasn't "pain", but it didn't feel right. I went to the doctor. Due to the location she sent me to get an MRI or CT? I get them mixed up, I couldn't get the test until the next morning. After, I got home from my test, my Dr called and said that I "have acute appendicitis!" She sent me to the ER, and told me to be prepared to be admitted because my surgery will be in the afternoon. Whew! This saved me the experience of the pain getting extreme, or of having my appendix rupturing. It was a good lesson in "listening to my body." I feel like I am bothering my doctor sometimes too. She is very nice about it though. I am able to message her on her portal too. I get concerned that I message her too much sometimes. Yes! Mammogram & Colonoscopy!
Glad you are doing better! Great tips for cleaning and loving my house!
My mom is an independent family practice physician and when she turned 50 she invited all her female patients to “Dr. Lucy’s Bagels and Boobs” where they all went together to get mammograms and she brought bagels and coffee for everyone. It was meant to help those who might have been nervous to go themselves and otherwise wouldn’t have. I didn’t go (I was only 22) but I heard it was a blast.
OMG I would totally go to "Bagels and Boobs!" BAHAHAHAHA!
Thank you; I needed to see this video. I'm working through my craft room and converting it in to a multi-use space now. It will be both my office and craft room and I've been feeling super overwhelmed. In regard to ourselves; we absolutely need to self-advocate!
To add to the going to the doctors also also also have someone at the hospital with your loved one who is the patient no matter what age a person who can advocate and coordinate otherwise that sick relative/loved one can get forgotten about by busy hospital staff
I'm so glad you got the help you needed when you needed it. Your journey is YOUR journey.... don't get caught up in the comparison trap. No one else is walking it but you. You're such an inspiration to others and raising better awareness of mental health, no matter the diagnosis. Thank you for sharing your life so openly.
What I love is that the dog laid in the same spot like "Meh. Hey, y'all do know that a warm spot & ear scratches are all that matters? Right?"
Sometimes I think our fuzzy children are around to keep us from going overboard.
Thanks Cas for all of your podcasts, videos and the tv show. I'm a bachelor cat-daddy & there are times your podcasts are the ONLY motivation that reaches me where it counts as I'm also ADHD MOUSE OR WTF-EFFAH they call us easily distracted folks.
Keep on sharing your story & tips - it really does help, perhaps more than you'll know.
Besides - the dog said he'd bite you if you stopped.
Well, maybe he said he'll just nibble enthusiastically for treats?
(Hope the Oliver fiasco was resolved as best possible given the circumstances.)
(I'm a cat daddy & would have been devastated!)
BTW - thanks for the tip on those 'spritz mops' like seen at 8:30 or so. You mentioned them before and I, as a cat father of six fuzzy children (and one human grandchild) appreciate SO MUCH being able to just spritz, mop/sweep and take care of all the critterly tummy aches on my hardwood floors!
Gotta add this: If you don't know where to start... start with your garage! That way it can become your staging area for 'trash/donate/keep' etc. You have to bust down the beaver's dam before the stream will flow again... the garage is the cluttered up collection of crap that you need to unclog & get rid of first! Then you can tackle a room/zone/etc elsewhere in the house and use the garage to sort & get it gone!
A large bonfire helps too. Especially when the ex leaves behind their crap and refuses to come get it.
Not that I'd do anything like that. :D
(But the roasted marshmallows over piles of home interiors debris/boxes were delicious!)(Toxic, but delicious!)
Loved this video!! I really needed this to motivate me, so thank you so much. I have a crap ton of audio books to listen to while I organize my entire house.
Also thank you for reminding us to listen to our bodies & stand up for ourselves!! We know ourselves better than anyone & it's super important to be our own advocates!! I'm sorry you didn't get the proper care you deserved Cass, but I'm very happy you're on the mend!!
I LOVE your end of video "round ups"; they're so helpful, very funny, entertaining & never disappoint!! LOVE your channel!!!
You are so right about standing up for ourselves. I went to clinic and they told me I just had a viral infection now I'm back at the clinic with a positive Covid. We know our bodies!!
When I focus on the bedroom it has power! The power to keep me in there all day, because it's the only room I'm enjoying being in !😂😂
I get that 100%!
My 3 year old saw your garage clean up, and he said you cleaned up all your toys!
I'm saving this to replay for myself once I'm feeling better physically because it's fantastic. Thank you so much for all of this, and especially, I want to say KUDOS for sticking up for yourself at the docs. Next time you won't need to think twice about it. ❤ We need to hear things like this as women... From women! 🎉
I have a method of start at the door with a trash bag, donate box, and a box for stuff that goes in another room. Start by picking up the first thing you come to, and work your way through the room. When you walk out to take a break or get a new box, etc. You come back to see a clean space right at the door. It's motivating. If you just walk around grabbing trash or something else, you come back and there's is still a room full of clutter. It gets harder to keep motivated when you don't see results.
Thanks for sharing!
It sure makes a difference when you have someone to help you! I am on my second day of sorting, organizing & purging of what looks like a hoarding situation caused by covid fatigue. Good tips, thanks!
I've got a covid fatigue house
I am getting over Covid (4 weeks of extreme fatigue) but am finally feeling better. So glad I was fully vaccinated or I am sure I would have been hospitalized. Thankfully my house is pretty decluttered and minimal (thanks to Cass and Dawn and Dana) so I could keep up with laundry, dishes and simple meals with rest periods in between. I got a sense of what chronic fatigue would be like and it’s no joke. Having less stuff to deal sure helped.
Oh gosh, Cas! I was literally just sick for 6 weeks. A horrible cough that would not go away. COVID and strep tests negative. Antibiotics, then Prednisone, then Albuterol and nothing helped. Had a chest X-ray in car of pneumonia, and it was normal. Then my cough started to get better, but I started having horrible pain in my ribs from coughing for more than a month straight. It was horrible. Glad you're on the mend. You are not alone!
Love it Cas! You are inspiring. 🤗 So,b once my new kitchen and utility room are finished.... 😊 I now have to zone each "new" area and establish where everything is going, just once, cause I'm not moving this stuff again! 🥵 😂
One of the first times I ever moved, my mom told me to unpack and prepare the bedroom first. Put the bed together, put on fresh linens, put things away... her reasoning was the same as what you said here... everything else is chaos during a move, but let yourself have a place of peace when you go to bed and when you first wake up. While the bedroom gets a little chaotic, it's one of the rooms that we try not to let too much extra stuff get into. (except for a weird "suitcase corner" but we keep it neat.. we just travel a lot for work)
You are always on time with just the video I need... literally I just searched "adhd clutter" and here I am with you... one of my top favorite youtubers!!! Thank you!!!!
That wallpaper in your bedroom...omg! 😍😍😍
Cass - you're so the best - the things you have shared in the past and lately makes me always think that you so amazing! This video is no different - totally adore this idea of a 1 hour timer and just the simple steps - can't wait to tackle what's left to do in my office to get it done this way... then have to move on to the cat/exercise room disaster, but that's another day. Thanks Cass!!!
You're welcome!
When I started my decluttering-in-earnest phase, I started in the bedroom. Even though the rest of the house was a depressing mess, my bedroom was clean, clear and clutter free. Starting and ending my days in that way was very motivating.
Love this video...sooo helpful!!❤ YES...to being your own medical advocate!! Similar experience...slight abnormalities in routine bloodwork, doctor ran again & I requested an additional test just to be sure it wasn't something...came back abnormal & now I'm 4 weeks postop from having an adenoma in one of my parathyroid glands removed!! 😉
God for you to keep pushing!
I'm glad you are starting to feel better. Way to stick up for yourself! Great video as always ❤️
I just declutter my garage this weekend. I zoned everything and 2 car load of trash later the garage looks amazing!! Thanks for your continued support and encouragement ❤😊
You always seem to appear out of nowhere at exactly the moment I need you. Thank you…THANK YOU!!!!! 🙏🏻 🙏🏻
Never been so early to a video!
It's exactly what I need to get started on my house now I'm a SAHM, thank you for the motivation!! 😊
You are a superstar 💫 Thank you so much for this! I came here to acknowledge and say how much I value and appreciate your presence in the online organizing space. I’d never heard of Peter Walsh till I listened to your podcast 💪 He is slowly becoming my hero as well🥇 Thank you thank you thank you!!
Hi, love watching yr videos. We were a family of 7 now only a family of 4. We just moved from a big 4 bedroom to a very small 3 with no storage.. I'm so overwhelmed I'm so glad you make these videos cuz I have a lot of great ideas it's just getting my ADD mom brain to function correctly 🤔🥺😭😂
You've got this!
Yesssss! Everything about you and this video is pure awesomeness! Feel better soon ~ I'm so blessed you advocated for yourself.
I am so excited to see wash time you post a new video!! You give me so much encouragement and motivation to do things!! Today I’m going to work in my kitchen. I have so many things that I do not use so the things I do use doesn’t have a home. The stuff I use get moved from place to place so I can never find it when I need it!! It’s so frustrating and my kitchen looks so cluttered all the time. It’s a really small space anyway and the more I have the worse it looks. My bedroom is very cluttered as well so that will be my next place to work. I know you said bedrooms are a huge priority but I kinda started the kitchen last night so I am going to continue today. Thank you for all you do for us women who just need an extra boost and sometimes a gentle kick in the butt to get going!! ❤️😀
Cass, I just wanted to thank you for saving my life, ok maybe a bit dramatic, but i watched your video all the way to the end and your story about step and pneumonia made me go to the doctor today after suffering for over a week and surprise, i have strep and bronchitis. Would totally not have gone if it wasn't for your story and insistance that you needed a strep test. Thank you!!
Okay, so how did you just align all of those photos perfectly like that by hand?? ❤
Yes!! There has to be a hack to what she did! 😂
Thank you for telling your Dr. story and encouraging others to stand up for themselves. I was in pain for 19 years and told the pain was normal and was gas lit by Dr.s. I ended up in the ER and found out that the reason I was in pain was because I had an undiagnosed condition. It was the reason I hadn't ever gotten pregnant after 6 years of trying. I'm about to have surgery next week and hopefully this is the answer to starting our family. I am no longer afraid to stand up to Dr.s or do my own research and trust my own instincts. Thank you for saying this! ❤
Love watching these videos for inspiration ❤
Yay!
I feel like this video is so much more useful and helpful than all your videos put together. Please don’t misunderstand, I’m not saying your other videos weren’t helpful, just this one is my favorite and the most helpful for me.