Accepting (and Defining) Reality
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In this episode of The Charged Life, high performance coach and #1 New York Times bestselling self-help author Brendon Burchard shares how our definitions and meaning of reality can impact our lives.
This is Brendon speaking freestyle, recorded in one take without prompter or notes.
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SUMMARY:
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Some people never accept reality. And perhaps that's a good thing, for what is real? If we aren't careful about how we define reality or attach labels and meaning to it, we can begin to drown in negativity and pessimism. People with personal power accept what is in front of them only after they have carefully defined its meaning for themselves. Learn how, get the full summary of this episode, and download the free podcast, all right here: tmblr.co/ZTb1Dv1b1saju
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ABOUT BRENDON
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Brendon Burchard is one of the most followed personal development trainers of our time, and he is in the Top 100 Most Followed Public Figures on Facebook. A #1 New York Times bestselling author, his books include The Motivation Manifesto, The Charge, The Millionaire Messenger, and Life’s Golden Ticket. A car accident at the age of 19 inspired Brendon to turn his life around and follow his dreams to be a writer and trainer. After failing at first - he went bankrupt trying but he never gave up - he became a multimillionaire by the age of 32. Since then, he has dedicated his life to helping others find their charge and share their voice with the world.
Brendon's posts now reach more than 10,000,000 people per week worldwide. He is the star and executive producer of the #1 self-help show on TH-cam, and his podcast, The Charged Life, debuted at #1 on iTunes across all categories in multiple countries. His seminars include High Performance Academy, the legendary personal development program for achievers, and Experts Academy, the world’s most comprehensive marketing training for authors, speakers, coaches, and online thought leaders. For these works, Larry King named Brendon "one of the top motivation and marketing trainers in the world" and SUCCESS Magazine named him in their Top 25 Most Influential in Personal Development along with legends like Oprah, Tony Robbins, Joel Osteen, Dave Ramsey, Deepak Chopra, and Wayne Dyer.
Meet Brendon at www.BrendonBurchard.com
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It's interesting, but there is a quote from 'Winnie the Pooh" that comes to mind when I hear something like this. He said, "I'm not lost. I'm right where I'm standing."
My wife served me divorce papers tonight and we have three daughters. I have been in a lot of pain since then. This video helps at the moment.
I hope the hope continues.
Thanks
Stay Encouraged!
Christian Weatherbe .... Hey Christian, I feel your pain.... Ive had a divorce a few year ago as well and it was painful... We have two children... But like Brandon said, I learned to accept that situation for what it was, then I create a new reality which I am living right now. The process was hard but you will come through as well... I am praying for you and your family.... I hope your wife reconsider and change her mind, but if she doesn't, you and your daughters will eventually be okay.
Hope you get through it ok!
But now you are free of marriage and you can create even better reality .
Dear, how are you doing these days ? Hope you are all healthy and doing well.
So true, our perception = our reality. the key word is OUR reality, not those imposed upon us by others. We are the masters of our minds and our bodies and we can control what we put in it. Great topic Brendan.
Yeah. The key thought here is to realize that reality is not a fixed thing, it's always an interpretation of the facts. As Brendon said there is no fact we don't attach meaning to it. So defining reality in helpful ways is choosing good and empowering meanings to attach to it! I think people find that difficult because we can think: am I a naive person seeing everything on the bright side? It's not real! Like this is faking reality, reality is not that beautiful fairy tale. But if we think a little bit more we can notice that this thought too is just a result of a pessimistic interpretation of life that most people choose and we learn from them. Unfortunately it's more frequent than the positive, happy and empowering interpretation of life so it can trick us making us think that's the most wise way of thinking just because that's where the majority lays. Yeah... Thinking differently is a challenge, because of the herd behavior humans tend to have. But if pay attention and realize that the majority is unhappy, unfullfilled and unmotivated we became sure that the wise atittude is, in fact, not to follow.
@@JessicaPastura ugh. Too long, but nice.
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Yeah. The mind filters all the external.
your positivity is so inspiring and contagious and gives me incredible amounts of inspiration to become more positive about everything
So how have the last 6 years been.
Ive been telling people to stop listening to a lot of pop news media. They show us a version of ourselves/society thats just not real. Beam positivity into each others lives. That becomes real.
Amazing!!! Brendan, you are the first person who has helped me blend my religion with a spiritual approach while complementing my belief. Thank you so much! I'm entering the super charged life after years of being lost.
You articulate your ideas so beautifully. Thank God that I found your work! You've really inspired me to be my best self. I talk about this idea presented in the video all the time. Keep the amazing work up!
I first heard you speak in a youtube commercial, and when I realized how similarly we think, I visited your page. when I saw what your video selection consisted of, I knew we must speak. You and I share in common an intellect that is rarely matched and the only thing running through our minds are everything all at once, and all we want to do is use it to aid others. I applaud your nobility and generosity for sharing your wisdom with the people.
Wow Brendon, this is extraordinary, you keep growing and going to next, next, and next level. I can sense how vibrant, wise, intuitive and inspired you are!! Just to be subscribed to your channel and have the opportunity to drink from this fountain is a blessing and something that goes on my gratitude journal. I was already drowning myself into my "negative perspective" of reality and just by watching the first 2:05 min of this video last night, my Sunday night experience shifted completely to a night of amazing love with my husband. And this morning I watched it completely and made my day! Thank You!!!
Thank you Brendon for giving proper words, sentences, perfect explanation to my gut feelings about this phase of my life im having and fully seeing all the negatives of it but I didnt want to give in! I don't want to surrender! I want to believe it will change! Thanks Brendon ❤
I know exactly what you're saying. It's easy to forget, when your emotions fog up the view. I want to remember this time.
Thank you for sharing this idea. I tell this to people all the time. When you change your perspective, your reality changes around you.
It is reality that I do not want to face even though it is not bad as I think just a matter of acceptance and utilizing it for now to make the reality I want. Thanks for this clarity.
Watching this over and over again. Amazing and very helpful.
This is definitely a message i needed to hear right now; setting up the thumbnail with the question "but what if reality sucks?" was genius. Wonderul upload, thank you.
I have came across you channel in the past but did not pay any attention to you because of many distractions ... I would like to take the time to say thank you very much for this video. I am in a time in my life where I feel lost and this video brought tremendous value to me and would just like to say thank you.
Lol @ "my kids are little bastards" but enjoying this so much!
great stuff. this guy sacrifices so much to change lives. hero
Brendon, thank you. You are wise beyond your years.
You one of the few people who actually know what they're talking about LOL
Much love from Bali ❤️
I find it difficult to accept the bad things going on in the world...it bothers me and I can't cope
Sick videos man!! Keep them coming!
Do what you can, with what you have, where you are.
Great advice brendon ! Inspiring as always :)
thank you for your insights Brendon! this is a very powerful and useful message indeed :)
Well done, sire. "Reality" is the ultimate abstract noun -- so imminently subjective. Thank you for calling this out. To me, when someone says, "I live in the world of reality," they're often placing an unnecessary self-imposed box around themselves. Example: "Brendon Burchard's success is a one time phenomenon. That's simply not my reality." Or could it be...hmmmm.....
The possibility is to accept and define opportunity, to accept and define....possibility.
I just can't fantom* the conception of reality it's just the fact that we are existing every thing that we call it and all it just blows my mind
Daniel Lamb same bro
great videos man! still watching it ! learned so much! and its for free ! GREAT MAN BRANDON ! THANK U SO MUCH MAN!!!
It may not be the reality, but the attitude, thank you.
Wise words. I look forward to seeing your videos whenever they're uploaded.
This video answers lot of my queries... Thanks a lot for sharing this...
Love it so much, really it's my fabulous episode...
Thank you Brendon,your videos help me
it got me inspire all the time ,great brenda !
I really like your videos and talks. I don’t often appreciate motivational speakers but your talks are great. Thank you. 😍🥰
You are very kind person Brendon I hope one day I will see you pal
very inspiring, thank you very much !
Brendon.... you are going skyward with your craziness when you flow up and storm your fabulous charismatic talk 👌🏻🎩🎩🎩🎩😃🤪
Peace man... Love you
ur video so real and completely involved in.
I recieved my Book today! Thank you
thanks so much, you realy inspire me!
You're so inspiring!!
i really needed this thanks
And thank you to Kim Jun su for sharing your videos and commercial ads on his music channels. Appreciated it. Appreciate finding someone like you on his channels. 😍🥰🙂
Thanks I really needed this
This is really great. Thank you!
he's very inspiring. what did you love most? :)
this video is 100% real facts and inspiration
Thank you very much.... you helped me a lot :)
You can either be angry for what you don't have or be thankful for what you do have. Sooo...Do your best and God will do the rest.
amazing, truly inspiring
every day is lovely we can dream nobody can take that away
You rock Brendon!!
Wow, this came right on time...
This is a nice presentation. I wish all people could come to these conclusions naturally
you can redefine your reality.......three cheers for this great topic........well explained ..........sm sm sm
man, thank you!
Thank you🌞
You give us some hope🙂
Yes, he is great at doing that :) what are your hopes and dreams?
GREAT WORDS
The best man!
Thanks from Egypt: )
I just can't get those who disliked this video
Excellent!
Brandon I am happy to promote your videos and books in my country because i think you can influence many people .I think you can be of a great help for people in the poorer countries in Eastern Europe like Bulgaria.your talks need to be translated!
I am trying to take control of the narratives I say about reality, but when I am in a negative mood, my body rejects positive statements as inherently false. I guess I need to keep trying to install positive beliefs that are somewhat grounded in reality to help me reach my goals.
amazing ideas, but past hard childhood can make all of that HARDER, i think therapie can be a really strong help too.
God bless you
It sounds good but I find it difficult to apply. Lets say a specific example: you lost a child, what could you possibly tell yourself to not drown in negativity and reframe it in such a way you are able to go on with life or that constant reminders dont make you lose your mind
Remorse is useless most of the time. If you are certain you could have done something to prevent it to happen, then learn the lesson so that you can be more cautious next time with someone you love. Else you are losing time.
I know many people who lost their child and joined weird organizations, sects, etc, (mostly after losing their first child), but these took all their money away ! After losing their child, their lost their life and the life of their family for generations !
So most importantly, do not let emotions over helm you, do not overreact. Pray, meditate, do something for yourself, something positive that you like.
phoggee right people think it's so easy to get over things not just things traumatic things too
5/5 it will be 3 years ago that I lost my only child. I chose to do everything I could to be well again. I reached out to God and chose to walk this journey with Him. I stayed connected with family and friends and allowed them to support us. And I stayed focused and embraced anything and everything that would take me to the next step. And God has been absolutely faithful, many lives are touched and changed through positive thinking that I can only thank God for! I can be positive because I know where my son is, and I too have the hope of glory! Blessings in Jesus!
because I'm happy .
We all basically have that power that Neo has at the end of the Matrix. We create our Reality with our perspective
What if you done all these things and the negative things in your life are the people you love ? You try try try what do you do then ?
what's the name of the tune in the background of the video?, i used to know it...
accepting reality it doesn't mean to lose or surrender to the current situation but to understand and defining it. Because if you don't understand it, how can you resolve it.
What if what you work towards isn’t achievable but it’s the only thing that gives you meaning?
Could you do one about accepting failure?
Right
Brendon - what do you think of human besides all these conflict in different areas such as religion or ideas? what do you think is the world's major problem? Are all people naturally tempted or very hungry to power or greed? Because I personally think that your voice should be exposed around the world so that people would understand each other.
Because the way you change people by your words should be enough reason to change everyone in a good way in such that maybe those in power might realize to free themselves from the temptation of greed and addiction of power
Huh, you know, I guess you're right, I don't hate reality, I hate myself... Now I gotta figure out how to stop that.
Great
God will make everything beautiful in its time
Class-lessons
Where is the surname "Burchard" from? Is it an Americanied version of "Bouchard", which is a French surname and often a French-Canadian surname?
Wow
How to not care what other people think ??? Answer that please
What I do sometimes is think, "Stop caring." It works for a little bit. What I'm doing right now is not rejecting what's going on. Kinda like a "I'm not running/come at me attitude."
Ohhhhhh you sound like handsome jack
The thing is is that I don’t want to do life.
Brandon I've come to the conclusion that the more intelligent you are an easily more easily bored that you are the more things that life will throw at you keep you entertained otherwise you'd be extremely bored
I know that it my reality isn't horrible it's mediocre-at-best I think I do have some wonderful things in my life but very limited for a 44 year old never married never had kids really no long-term relationship and then my careers kind of plateaued biggest entitlement always been my is I find it difficult to continue with my goals because I forget my goals this is a real problem that's why I don't play chess while I get the rules I can play the game but I can't play well because I forget what I shouldn't do after assessing what I shouldn't do
I have a question if you don't mind did your life improves since 2017..?
I live in Syria and I keep saying i'm totally safe i'm totally safe i'm totally safe. is that bad? :P
@@ehmgg7936 Thank you very much. Sending love back to you
Hindi
If we’re accepting, then people will take advantage of it? 😰
are you happy ? ?
what
+Glenn Walters hue
Rearly
Can you do one for anxiety
This is very effectively framed, actually. I scoff at 99% of affirmation stuff...
this is very close to the truth but still so off, intense realism is the only truth, you cant puff up the reality w positive thinking so that you can accept it, its just as bad as being negative, you fear nothing more than the sober real truth, not negatively not overly positive, so at the end of the day your a fool,
Good to be a realist, but also good to have a good attitude and often that changes your reality.
The power plant generates electric energy
Of course it’s my fault that is my life sucks
Fbj
Tutorial: How to be pluralistic ignorant...
But yes the wild west needs that to stay a human being.
No matters if a guy in Irak is gonna be killed by some Drones or something like that etc..
The real reality is physics and if we ignore or don't absorb the issues of politics we will lost our compassion for the participating; we will get punsihed for this kind of blinding ...
Mate don’t make my mind think that I can achieve marrying Grayson Dolan cause I’m here to accept that will NEVER happen😂😢
Just give up there is no hope in this life
this doesnt help me at all.