How to Get Our Sh** Together (The Power of Personal Responsibility)
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In this episode of The Charged Life, high performance coach and motivational legend reveals the power of personal responsibility. It's basically an episode about how to get our sh*t together by taking control of our aim, attitude, attention, affections, and actions.
This is Brendon unscripted and filmed in a single take without notes or prompter.
Brendon Burchard is a #1 New York Times bestselling author whose books include THE CHARGE, THE MILLIONAIRE MESSENGER, and LIFE'S GOLDEN TICKET. He is also the founder of High Performance Academy, the legendary personal development training program for achievers. Larry King named Brendon "one of the top motivation and marketing trainers in the world."
After a car accident at 19 years old inspired him to turn his life around and follow his dreams, and then having the blessings to become a multimillionaire writer and trainer by the age of 32, Brendon has dedicated his life to helping others find their charge and share their voice with the world.
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1) Have AIM in life; be mindful of directions, goals, dreams, aspirations, intentions - got to be able to keep focus on them
2) Pay ATTENTION - guard attention from all negative, unhealthy or pointless distractions
3) Choose an ATTITUDE about life that is open, positive, enthusiastic, grateful, constructive and ultimately good
4) Allow AFFECTIONS throughout life; the people we effect, effect us, are affectionate towards; share love & connections
5) Take ACTION in life - not just talk or think, DO! what we do repeatedly over time becomes who we are
Thank you Brendon for your distillation and luminations.
Antoine Robinson inspired sir. Thanks
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Lml If I had have seen this b4 watching, stopping, watching, stopping, watching the video
Antoine Robinson thanks
Antonine Robinson thank "YOU" fit your distillations and Luminations.
Isn´t it amazing how many people who feel a bit lost and search for some inspiration on youtube and came across this video, we all have the same intention, we really are not alone, we just have to open our eyes and look around ´n we´ll find somebody with the same intention!
So true
this is the first supportive comment I've ever seen. Thank you
I really needed to see something like that,Thank you brother
Amazing
Truee
Aim, attention, attitude, affection, action.
Everyone should watch the Whole video.
It’s quality content. -there’s no substitute, quick answer or instant gratification.
I need you, Brendon. A few minutes ago I was wondering why I would get out of bed. Now I'll grab my planning materials and do something intentional with this day. Grateful here.
So hows life been treating you five years later?
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Oh I love this part soooooo much! "If we're not overcome with emotion ... and just connection and ... and we [don't] just want to grab someone and kiss them all over the FACE.. then you know what? We're not paying attention to people anymore. We got too trapped in our own thing. Other people...they should FASCINATE US. We should be EXCITED to meet them! Our brain is hard-wired to love novelty. Well guess what. We got 7 billion people that can give us that dopamine drip just by talking to them and connecting with real emotion with them."
calonstanni just do drugs for dopamine xd
You talk about taking personal responsibility, taking control of our emotional state and loving people; Yet you emphasize the look on people's faces and heavily judging them. Heck, they could be suffering from neuropathy, where literally every step they take is steeped in pain! It's easy to love people who gratify us, but it's truly loving to love the challenging ones in our daily walk. Love equals no judgment, just moving on after eye contact and a smile.
im completely lost, i dont know what i want, i feel like im drowning in the hopeless doldrum of every day work and i dont know how to just do things and make things happen like a normal fucking person.
Im currently experiencing this and im not even an adult but thinking about being one makes my brain hurt and makes me feel more hopeless. I hope you are doing well at the moment.
I hope you have a nice day.
I got to say though being lost is probably the most human and normal thing you can do.
Depression is becoming more overbearing worldwide
Start always by being THANKFUL and grateful for what you do have. If you don’t do that. How can you expect more? I find that so many say they “can’t. It’s not that -it’s that they won’t. Take a step toward something . Don’t even let yourself go towards depression! It’s harder to pull someone out of a pit, then it is from getting into one (depression). You are the driver of your own life. Take the wheel! Don’t be emotional be rational. Your time is more valuable then $$$. And you only have “so much” time. You have to also enjoy and live in the moment. Also happiness is a CHOICE. People will die trying to make you happy. And you will drain their battery. And still complain. Appreciate others too, especially those who do good and help you. Noone likes being taken for granted either.
Could you figure out? I feel the same now😪
@@FloridaGirl- love this
I'm gonna take this to heart for like two days max then just ditch school to get drunk and eat burgers
Hey, time to watch this video again.
Why not just do it after school? That's what I did but instead of getting drunk, I was getting faded.
Help me. Ive skipped school 2 weeks now
If you stay on the right path Daniel Jones gets MVP the giants go 15-2 and win the super bowl
Thank you Brendon Burchard, you say it so well. I'm sharing this because I want to be the one who sticks with their purpose it makes life as good as it can be!
Brandon, sometimes the reason for people who develop bad and negative attitude is because of their lack of ability which could have been caused by their surroundings and the environment they grew up in. For instance think about a child growing up in a very rough area full of criminals and other types of negative people! To avoid being lonely and left alone this person realizes that he has to follow the waves and will get drowned into the sea of ignorance without having a chance to develop a mind of his own and decide his/her own future! I just want to say that sometimes social issues would lead to a person becoming miserable and it is not his/her own fault or lack of motivation!!
I understand that we can easily become influenced by the people around us and the environment we grew up in, but we are not victims of our environment. We always have a choice, as Brendon said, we choose our attitude. Our attitude does not choose us. I came from a broken home and I almost fell into that vicious cycle of negative behavior because I absorbed it throughout most of my life. I had to disengage from a number of people in my life just to keep my sanity. I strongly believe that if you deeply desire a better life for yourself that is more positive and healthier, then you can have it. You have to be the one in control, meaning replace the negative with the positive, don't allow everyone's negative attitude affect you and look at how living in a rough area made you tougher and smarter. You just have to believe in yourself because I have seen miracles happen! I have seen people come from nothing to having the lives that they have always dreamed of. They stayed focused on their goals, learned to help themselves and did not give up! I learned a valuable lesson…life is not about achieving a goal, but it is about learning to not give up on yourself!
What happens if you really have not been taught what is the right thing to do? It all depends on your perception of right or wrong!! You might do something horrible but think that you have done the right thing!!! So before knowing what the right thing is you cannot do it!!!!
Sorry, maybe you did not think in depth when I mentioned the environment problem. What you are talking about sounds good in case the environment has not had an impact on your mindset. If your environment has stopped you from developing an analytic mindset then what you say is very difficult. Think about a guy growing up in a ghetto and started drug dealing from an early age and only surrounded by people who have dragged him into this hell, then it would be almost impossible for him to change his mindset and start an ordinary job. I think your suggestion is good but considering the reality out there, you are portraying a Hollywood scene.
***** Thanks for the TIP bro. ;-)
Alex, I grew up in a not so great neighborhood with not so great parents. It was pretty rough and I understand everything that you said. And when you've been conditioned to think and react a certain way from childhood it's very challenging to break. I'm just thankful that we have angels just Brendon out there that can tell us how to break free from that kind of negative thinking. But just like us being fed negativity for many years during our childhood, we have to feed our minds with positivity continuously by listening to motivational speakers and reading books on how to change our stinkin' thinkin'. God Bless. :)
I wish they could play your audio on loudspeakers across the country. Thank you for helping me with my struggles. I am glad to know someone out there can inspire me to become a better person. Thank you!
Now this is something worth watching on TH-cam, thank you very much, your words are truly inspiring!
I love the personality of this guy. He's just like a golden retriever. It's so refreshing to see someone like him who offers great advice and guidance but isn't depressed or serious like the others, who use their pain to get here and hold on to it as a motivator instead of letting it go and becoming better, you know, all those inspirational videos that sometimes seem like the person who is talking is either mad, disappointed or very bland towards you. But him? He's so refreshing, I love to see such a happy person talking about these things, thank you so much brendon! Your videos are great, keep doing what you do (:
This video has given me a huge insight on what I should do with my life, as a person who absolutely completely lacks responsibility and my own values. Thank you.
what have you done to correct this?
Brendon, your love for life is so refreshing and contagious. Thank you so much for sharing your gift of mentoring, motivation and inspiration. I have struggled with depression and loss of direction my entire life, but as I'm watching your videos and reading your book Motivation Manifesto, my spirit feels uplifted and I'm starting to get a clearer picture of who I am and the steps I need to take to embrace my whole true self. Your gift from God is changing my life. Thank you.
I am your new fan Brandon. This video came in the exact moment. Blessed be you. Thank you for believing in the power of human transformation and spreading the teachings
Awesome Dude been following Brendon for 3yrs. and he has helped me to grow and care for others, and to be how i really am.
Brendon, you are truly very inspiring. From the simplest things that you say and your big beautiful smile, I automatically feel so much more lively and happy. Thank you!
Your explanation of the process of attitude nails it in the head. I’ve seen a few of your videos, you go into great depth and are politely and accurately blunt about growth (on many levels). It’s obvious your passion is explosive on the topic of discussion- even going they all intertwine so delicately.
Well presented Mr. Burchard.
I love how he is actually very energetic. It helped me smile in a stressful time
Thank you Brendon. Once again I am making changes in my changing life. I am encouraged by your encouraging and directed words.
Another phenomenal, powerful and profound message Brendon. We must all take the time necessary to design our lives and take personal responsibility for their directions....Charge Forward!!!
This is one of the truest videos I've seen... I know so many of these people, I wish they'd feel happy.
Thanks so much for creating this video. I've been feeling hurt, fed up and low for a while now after I had my heart broken. This has really made me think and helped me to, quite literally, get my shit together. As somebody who doesn't usually "do" self help and motivational videos, I love the way you approach topics and find your videos really inspirational. So thank you, I'm glad I found your channel :)
Am I the only one who always feels as though he is talking to ME? You're words are always inspiring Brenden, thank you. Your videos are the ones I go to when I feel as though I am lacking motivation, energy, or drive.
You're the man, Brendon! Love your videos. You have a genuineness and authenticity which I really enjoy.
I would say Brendon is perhaps the best motivational speaker for me. Well, he is both motivational, also pumps you with a real positive energy. The most importantly he is not only pumping positivity, but actually gives you tools that you can achieve it too. He goes into smaller bits of those tools, makes steps to pay attention to. And doesn't bash you as lazy or other demeaning words.
I've been with Brendon since day one and still listening most morning and apply a lot to my life.
THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!!!! You have confirmed everything Ive realised this year
Its crazy how you post videos specifically pertinent to situations at hand of myself and clearly other subscribers you have. I am so grateful for your videos and I am so excited to read your book !! Thank you :)
This is true. My distractions include the constant drama that others throw at me.
Brendon,
I refuse to have a bad attitude, even if I attempt to act out I can't. I feel like I'm so blessed and that having a bad attitude is disrespectful to God, or a smack in the face because he has always brought me out of every bad situation.
Wow Brandon I've been at subscriber for quite a while this is one of your most insightful and powerful videos ever! I'm just about to listen to it for my third time in a row, thank you for sharing your heart, your wisdom and your passion
This video is a God send, I am a TH-cam content creator reflecting on my life to this point and I just realized that I haven't gone about succeeding the right way I must adjust my Attitude, Aim a bit higher Pay more Attention to what I do and guard against everything Negative, I must show more Affection, make more connections with people and take Action if I want to succeed, no more talking time to put the work in, Thanks Brendon.
Brendon is probably the most relatable individual who knows something profound which makes this video so convincing. Thanks Brendon 😁
Brendon, its like you're reading my mind. I was just writing about this stuff in my journal yesterday
:)
I loooooveeeee this one!!!
Sounds as fresh as ever 6 years later. Brilliant! Thank you Brendon 😊
Brendon, your message is really common sense, the way a life is lived best. I agree with your message. You come across as a supportive friend. I am so bombarded with outside suggestions, opinions, promises of happiness, & reminded of the status quo too often. Hard to shut it off, when starting a business, but you are so right about where I put my attention! My focus right now is to no longer live with anymore "should" in my life & do it my way. Thanks for your message!
You have no idea of how much this videos have a positive impact on me, thank you!
I have to say thank you. I really needed this video. I typed in “how to be an adult”. I feel like I was thrown into adulthood after law school and I feel like I skipped steps. Excited to start from these tips. Especially embracing responsibility.
Thanks so much for this video. We appreciate you Brendon
You're amazing. Literally my saving grace. I'm going to be a lot more positive towards life from this day on. :)
All of these steps you talk about here are HARD to stay consistent with! Especially if you're not in an ideal situation in life yet (although I definitely know I'm on the right track and working toward it more each day).
It's a lot of inside work. Internal, inside your mind work, and self-control as far as emotions go.
Thanks for continuing to share your inspiring words =).
Jen
ONE OF THE BEST MOTIVATIONAL VIDEOS ON TH-cam...
Amazing Sir, thanks for being the daily motivational pack with charges me day in and out. Thanks again. Peace.
Brendon sir,You are the best motivation speaker on TH-cam I have encountered
Hi Brendon, thanks for your hard work in reminding us that we can all be successful in every aspect of our lives if we change our way of thinking, you are truly a blessing to us all, you are an inspiration. Thank you lord for Brendon. God bless you always.
Thanks for this motivational messages to those and I’m personally saying it’s going to get people that are lost and been irresponsible and careless will definitely be touch. I’m touched . I thank you from the bottom of my heart .
I have just found this and subscribed and I have absolutely fallen in love with all of this! Thank you!
I listen to you daily. Thank you for your service to the world. You are truly gifted and I have taken away great wisdom from your videos and podcasts and just purchased books.
I too have started listening to him daily.
In all things that i could have watched on youtube, i'm so happy i took a moment to look for how to get my life together.. I really needed to hear this and i'll probably watch it a few times to get it to set but i found it. Thank you.
So do I!! :)
your videos are so inspiring. you not only tell us what is to be done, but also explain what factors are affecting us with clear examples. I like that. Thank you very much for your useful information. Keep inspiring us. I will follow your videos regularly.
May god bless you even more Sr.
Thank you so much for being so inspiring and sharing your energy!
This video is truly inspirational. I learned some really valuable lessons that I can implement in my life.
Every time I see these videos I can help but think GOD BLESS YOU MR. BRUCHARD
thank you bro. thank you so much for this video, this boiles something really difficult and complex to me, down to the essential change I need right now in a way I can focus on, just wanted you to know.
You're the big brother most people never had. My big brother was a jealous backstabber full of contempt. His greatest joy was telling my parents I screwed up at something, so he'd look better. Then he flunked out of high school, and I was placed in the honors sections....
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OK. I playing this again, need it. So common sense & realistic, WOW!
Great video! It's meaningful, funny and well structured one! Thank you!
Great videos Brendon.
You see it clearly, a lot of youtubers spout a deep mumbo jumbo stuff, but your vids are on point.
Fantastic video worth watching. A positive message that could serve to either teach, or remind us all.
Thank you so much
God bless you I needed this video I'm 14 and was feeling down just decided to look something up how to stay discipline and this showed up you don't know what this means to me
Thanks, Brendon! Brilliant input.
Thanks Brendon. Well done as always. I was a victim for many years and had great reasons why I should be…lol
Today I have much more Significance and Truth in my foundation and taking personal responsibility is the source of my personal power…thank you Tony R. You rock B! Coach Marc-Palm Beach
I always feel very motivated and driven after your videos.
Amazing video, like always. Thank you Brendon 💖🙏
you're awesome, THANK YOU
I realize, what makes one person successful verses another is one thing, they see themselves as a creator and the other is at effect. you are so right and I was looking for this message and this guidance
Wow! This is priceless! Life-changing and inspirational.
Im So gratful to Brandon for making this videos. This is worth diamonds.
Thank you,and God bless you!
*Brendon Burchard
You're a great inspiration :) I enjoy your enthusiasm to help your audience set a purposeful life. Thank you for your efforts Brendon.
Thanks Brendon. I got a lot out of this talk...especially about directing your Aim.
I love your outlook on life! we need more people out there like you! 🙂🙂 thank you!
Completely agree! Have a great day! 😁
Brendon Thanks! I love you! I'm put here to encourage love and help people live a fully charged life too. Unfortunately, I've been living that on the smallest level in order to protect my ....not even sure what?! Trust I'm a motivation junkie from Les to Jim to Tony to Lisa and every since your site came up I move quickly to you each morning. Sure we will met in the future, but until then can you give us a list of books that helped you to under stand the human condition especially the ones that changed you early on. Grateful for you really, really grateful thanks.
One of the most inspiring person on TH-cam.
brendon I just Wanna say thanks for ur effort, and you are a great example of how to be a conscious humanbeing .
Thank you Brendon! You are a true gift to humanity
1st point - 2:00 Aim
2nd - 4:13 Attention
3rd - 5:26 Attitude
4th - 7:49 Affections
5th - 10:37 Action
(I see that A is THE letter, this is why the highest note for a test is A and the supreme note is 5 x A) jk
Thank you so much for these videos Brendon! :)
I got it this time Brendon not going to quit thanks.
Thanks for the message. This is video motivates me to get moving in the morning. Keep posting videos, God bless.
This is BRILLIANT - thank you!! God bless!
A number of the items resonated with me. Thanks.
Very inspiring and motivating video. Thank you again Brendon :)
I don’t know how I came across this video, but thank you. I needed this very much.
Wonderful way to start the day.
I really needed this. Thank you.
You literally Changed my perspective of thinking, thank you so much
i binge watch his videos . he is sooooooo correct! wise beyond his years
You have a wonderful energy!
Thank you very much sir, I was very upset and wonder these days but b g watching this video my spirit and my opinion changed a lot.
Very good message!
Very very important advice right here. Thanks.
Outstanding video
very powerfull! thanks Brendon!
Wow, this video is a reality check, thank you!!!
Thanks for this beautiful video
brendon thanks for the videos keep them up please
You are amazing, so empowering.. Thanks so much Brendon... your the man!! :)
Thank you, it seems to be the key to getting things done. Cheers