Story Time...PREGNANT AND MY TUBES ARE TIED.

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  • @robertludwigiii9801
    @robertludwigiii9801 4 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    Baby's happen for a reason . I'm Dignosed with endometriosis stage 1, lost my Right Ovary and Follupen Tube , And I'm 34 weeks right Pregnant. When I didn't think I could, I got blessed . Miracles happen for a reason.

    • @Mizzyvee
      @Mizzyvee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I’m in the same boat , n I think I’m pg, I’ve missed my Period it’s been 2 weeks late already

  • @cherrykendrick5098
    @cherrykendrick5098 5 ปีที่แล้ว +303

    I had my tubes tied almost a year ago after the birth of my twins and now I am 34wks pregnant now. I am so scared but God wasn't done with me yet. This makes baby #7😍😍

    • @cherrykendrick5098
      @cherrykendrick5098 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @Glen CoCo yes 7!!

    • @UndisputedTruthOracle
      @UndisputedTruthOracle 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      That is a blessing. Have a safe pregnancy

    • @alickaramsingh739
      @alickaramsingh739 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Wow I'm on my 6th and I'm having a csection along with my tubes tied. I'm sooooooooo scared

    • @PatraDaQueen
      @PatraDaQueen 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I'm 40 with 7 children my younger is 5 months and my oldest is 23.

    • @branbeelotus
      @branbeelotus 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Cherry Kendrick wow you have your hands full .

  • @fourchickensma4628
    @fourchickensma4628 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Those unexpected babies are so special!! I found out on my 40th birthday that I was pregnant with my fourth child. Very unexpected, I was so shocked!! Fast forward, she is now 18 and the love of our lives. She is the baby of the family and so adored by her siblings, I am so grateful that God blessed us with her ❤️

  • @bubbles3874
    @bubbles3874 5 ปีที่แล้ว +247

    What God wants to be will be

  • @sonywest7586
    @sonywest7586 7 ปีที่แล้ว +404

    Hey Basi, thank you for sharing your story. I too, had my tubes cut, burnt and tied after baby no. 4. Before getting my tubes tied, I consulted everyone about it but God. I went ahead and did it to please my mother & mother in law, but deep down it didn't feel right to destroy the very thing that makes ME a woman. Being able to bring forth life is a gift from God and I took matters into my own hands without first consulting with Him. Just saying ladies, don't do it until you pray about it. Don't listen to this person or that person... not even your spouse lol. At the end of the day it's you & God. This was experience. God bless

    • @UCUZHFZ
      @UCUZHFZ 7 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Sony West I finally found a girl that faced what I did. I tied my tubes at 22yrs after I had my second daughter. my mom really forced me. it hurts because i feel less of a woman.I'm 31 now and want a baby.

    • @lamorena9879
      @lamorena9879 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I feel the same.

    • @Sparkleinhiseye
      @Sparkleinhiseye 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Me too! Listened to my mom & spouse.. now almost 5 years later really want a baby... think I maybe pregnant & this just freaked me out even more 😭🙏🏾

    • @Humblethyself656
      @Humblethyself656 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen!

    • @notsuresurenot9338
      @notsuresurenot9338 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Sony West: Even then it can end up being the wrong choice. I had my tubes tied after 3. My hubby and I truly, after much pondering, prayer, talking to God and really thinking it through, thought we really did not want children. Now, 11 years later, I am only 38, we want more kids and feel it was not a good choice to do something that permanent to body. We are now working on adopting more children.

  • @Jasmine-ro7vn
    @Jasmine-ro7vn 7 ปีที่แล้ว +308

    you can tell how strong she is through her videos! I love you basi 💕

  • @anastasiabrewer4641
    @anastasiabrewer4641 7 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    I'm going thru the same thing it's been 5 years since my tuxes have been tied.. And I just found I'm pregnant again. I'm full of emotions. This video was a big support for me

    • @JusBas
      @JusBas  7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      +Anastasia Brewer oh wow congratulations on the new baby

    • @chizuvamberego2165
      @chizuvamberego2165 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What did you do

    • @l.i.i.twithry5575
      @l.i.i.twithry5575 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’ve been having crazy pregnancy symptoms

  • @musicbus84
    @musicbus84 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    My mom had 5th child with tubes tied! He was a blessing. I love all my siblings! And happy we had a big family!

  • @56contrary
    @56contrary 6 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    People shaming you on not using protection need a life your in a committed relationship and you did the responsible thing of getting your tubes tied so that you wouldn’t have to worry about getting pregnant. I’m sorry for your loss I’ve had a miscarriage even if it wasn’t planned it’s a very sad real loss

    • @lissymyers3699
      @lissymyers3699 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      In sorry for you lost . I wish you the best in the future. Dnt worry I'm sure u be a wonderful mum to someone one day. Xx

    • @ahbikufa
      @ahbikufa 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lissymyers3699 . m. M. K

  • @Ravenclaw_boi
    @Ravenclaw_boi 7 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    What a blessing! My tubes are tied and I pray for more kids. I hate that I got them tied, I already have 4 kids. My cousin got pregnant with twins after she had her's tied ☺☺☺

    • @JusBas
      @JusBas  7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks for watching

    • @Natasha_Good
      @Natasha_Good 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @ramirez homeschooling was she able to carry the twins full term even though her tubes were tied?

    • @jazminrocha1994
      @jazminrocha1994 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Amber adet I regret getting my tubes tied! I pray I get to have one more baby! 😩

    • @tamedphya3720
      @tamedphya3720 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@jazminrocha1994 me too

    • @Ravenclaw_boi
      @Ravenclaw_boi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@shaziayasin1307 I actually had them untied in March 2018 and got pregnant 2 months later :) My baby boy is 13 months old now.

  • @tabathabrown9814
    @tabathabrown9814 6 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    No joke I got pregnant in my tubes too I was so upset wanted a abolition but I dont believe in that.. My son was born with a learning disability and bowel disordered( hursburg).. But now I look at it as a blessing he mines Amen

    • @briannetaylor437
      @briannetaylor437 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wait you got pregnant in your tubes? Like a tubal pregnancy? I didnt know those could be viable! And of course he is a blessing! Every child is ❤

    • @dianahanna170
      @dianahanna170 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      AMEN 🙌

    • @hessastutzman8884
      @hessastutzman8884 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@briannetaylor437 they are not viable. Shes lying

    • @DivineSoul999
      @DivineSoul999 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Every person close to me who has had a tubal pregnancy lost the baby so *maybe* in your case it *wasn't* a tubal pregnancy after all... especially if your baby was saved.

  • @takishasage-freebeautyzone
    @takishasage-freebeautyzone 7 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    I'm sorry for your loss Basie. It's not easy sharing something so personal. I'm not gonna lie though, you got me a little shook. I'm 42 and had my last child at 38. I also had my tubes tied. We have suffered so much loss we were just at the end of our ropes. Our first baby passed away when she was 7 months old. Our son is 9 and healthy. We had a second son that was stillborn. And 5 miscarriages after that. When God decided to bless us with our second daughter, I was clearly worried. But she's 3 years old now and quite the sassy little addition. Even though there's a little part of me that would be happy and feel super blessed, I've had 9 pregnancies in 8 years and I'm tired. So the thought of an ectopic pregnancy scares me to no end. But I really appreciate you sharing your heart with us.

  • @angelicdazzle
    @angelicdazzle 7 ปีที่แล้ว +635

    Wooow u r super fertile! Your hormones should be tested and recreated for woman who can't get pregnant.damnnnnn

    • @JusBas
      @JusBas  7 ปีที่แล้ว +102

      lol lord I wish that could happen

    • @ms.truthmusic9842
      @ms.truthmusic9842 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I was thinking the same thing lol....i am sorry to hear about your loss. I can't wait to get pregnant

    • @prettiigurlsonlii113
      @prettiigurlsonlii113 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      +JusBas I have 3 kids and I had 3 csections but I know ppl that had more csections then me and didn't have their tubes tied I was 20 when I had my tibea tied I was way to young. I'm not happy I think I have a lawsuit. What u think basis?

    • @prettiigurlsonlii113
      @prettiigurlsonlii113 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      +JusBas *basi

    • @prettiigurlsonlii113
      @prettiigurlsonlii113 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      +Jay Codrescu Im raising my children now and i also want to create more wym.

  • @AllInWithBreRaTv
    @AllInWithBreRaTv 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Sorry for your lost I went through the same thing after getting my tubes tied hubby and I lost our lil one I was pregnant in the tube and lost a tube and was told I would never have anymore kids and God blessed us a year later with a little girl. Stay strong sis appreciate your story.

  • @danigurl7458
    @danigurl7458 5 ปีที่แล้ว +111

    I had my tubes tied almost three years ago and now I'm 4 months pregnant. So yes it can happen.

    • @theoneanonlyverrena1986
      @theoneanonlyverrena1986 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Dani Gurl wow so how do you get pregnant without it being in your tubes?

    • @tammiesaunders9302
      @tammiesaunders9302 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Well I have mines done 3 years now and I cant get pregnant for nothing and I want 1 so bad 😭😭☹

    • @crystalvasquez6503
      @crystalvasquez6503 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@theoneanonlyverrena1986 same question i wanna know.

    • @TheSimpleWaywithDelila
      @TheSimpleWaywithDelila 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@tammiesaunders9302 get a tubal-ligation reversal

    • @BossLadyArtistry
      @BossLadyArtistry 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Dani Gurl wow! God is good!

  • @classydiva
    @classydiva 7 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Big hug Basi!!! I'm so sorry you went thru that girl. that's a lot :-( you know you're my bestie in my head girl! Thanks for being strong enough to share that with us.

  • @ShayOfficial317
    @ShayOfficial317 7 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Aww... that is sad... I know it took a lot for you to share this... y'all have y'all personal angel in the sky!!! I can tell this was hard for you... thanks for sharing.

  • @KHANDI455
    @KHANDI455 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Fast forward November 2019 your Pregnant it was ment to be

  • @thecasualchic
    @thecasualchic 7 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Wow Basie. This was visibly hard for you to do.. but as a lot of these comments suggest, you are one STRONG WOMAN. Sorry for your loss... sharing your journey may be a healing source for someone out there going through the same thing. Though you didn't have to, thank you for sharing. 💕

  • @whitneygilbert428
    @whitneygilbert428 7 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Fertility is a beautiful thing and you are a beautiful woman. Your so strong Basi!!! ❤❤❤

    • @trinia.d4444
      @trinia.d4444 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I need your help I have had my tubes burned tied etc but I feel pregnant now did a pregnancy test came back positive clearblue can u give me some advice

  • @SensationalFinds
    @SensationalFinds 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Sending you love and hugs! You're one strong women!

  • @hRwA289
    @hRwA289 7 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I had a tubal pregnancy last year. I am staying strong and optimistic, I love you Basie and appreciate your transparency

    • @lisaeleanor8559
      @lisaeleanor8559 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      My tubes are tied and I thought I was pregnant for two months straight. It's been 21 yrs since they have been tied and mother nature came this month. I was shook and so was hubby. He was happy that he thought we were having another unit.lol

  • @natalieshepp641
    @natalieshepp641 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are so real and authentic ma'am! I'm so sorry that you went through this. Your an amazing mother and your so strong! Loyal viewer and my heart aches for you.

  • @HezKiefer1976
    @HezKiefer1976 7 ปีที่แล้ว +205

    i just had baby 6 on 2/9. I was sterilized 3 years ago with Essure. I love my baby, but I was not prepared to be a mom again at almost 41. To top it off, my 20 user old made me a grandma 2 days later. I'm going to be the oldest mom at kindergarten :(

    • @vanessajohnson3299
      @vanessajohnson3299 7 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Hez Kiefer You're blessed to be able to have a baby. I wish I was able to, no matter the age 😔

    • @vincentdailey2224
      @vincentdailey2224 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Hez Kiefer that's my baby's birthday! He's 3 now and I'm 14 weeks with baby #2.. congratulations on the baby!

    • @rainingpeace437
      @rainingpeace437 7 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Hez Kiefer My mom had me at 42 and I would not change that for the world!! Both of my parents are older than most in my age group and it has never ever bothered me. I actually think it's beneficial to have older parents so please don't be concerned. Your child will only see it as odd or a problem if you make it seem like it is

    • @GenaGilder
      @GenaGilder 7 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      I'll be right with you. I will be 39 with a newborn. I'm infertile. I lost a tube and an ovary to an ectopic pregnancy at 30. Then I met my husband and got pregnant again right away. We have a little girl. 7 years later, we are pregnant again and boy was that a surprise!

    • @priscillamarquez1115
      @priscillamarquez1115 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hez Kiefer did your pregnancy turn out ok

  • @tonic1916
    @tonic1916 6 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    My mom had hers cut tied nd burnt then had my sister 3 yrs later. I had mone cut tied nd burnt but had pregnancy scare frw yrs later. Which i fount out i wasnt pregnant. But anyways the doctor said after 10yrs of having the tubal done you are higher risk of pregnancy. my mom friend got pregnant on her 40s she just started going through the "change" she was pregnant at same time as her daughter in law was. But there was approx 27 yrs between her kids but the good outcome she finally got her baby girl.

    • @earthangel6858
      @earthangel6858 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      27 years??? Well, damn!! How old was she each time?

    • @MsCShyne
      @MsCShyne 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Beautiful ❤❤❤🙏🙌

  • @foxxdeadass
    @foxxdeadass 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    your voice calms me down so much I wish my mother was as gentle and soft spoken as you. 💜

    • @JusBas
      @JusBas  7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +Mariah Jackson Thanks

  • @mermaidrachelle6152
    @mermaidrachelle6152 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am so sorry for your loss. It takes alot of courage to share this with strangers. Blessings to you girl 💜

  • @starlitosway1005
    @starlitosway1005 7 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Click that button with lightening speed! I'm always here for my Basi videos. Yaasss! Hey Basi!

    • @kurleyawashington5738
      @kurleyawashington5738 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Starlito's Way 100 Same! You actually kinda favor Basi in your profile picture❤

    • @JusBas
      @JusBas  7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Starlito's Way 100 Hey luv

    • @Dr.StraightGutta
      @Dr.StraightGutta 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Got-Damn you look like KeKe Wyatt!!!

  • @taes.9696
    @taes.9696 7 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    I can't stop staring at your beauty......girl yassssss😍😍 #slayyyybasie

    • @JusBas
      @JusBas  7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      +Tae S. Thank you

    • @keera9922
      @keera9922 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Tae S. Omg yess neither can I

    • @amandawilson3118
      @amandawilson3118 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Agree, beautiful!

  • @chantiom2201
    @chantiom2201 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I’m a momma of five too. I truly salute you sis!

  • @feleciarenae91
    @feleciarenae91 7 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    You are so strong.. Stories like these are not easy to talk about.. I'm so sorry this happened to you.. ❤

  • @EstheticianDee
    @EstheticianDee 7 ปีที่แล้ว +163

    Sorry for your lost and thanks for sharing your story....

  • @GeorgiaGirl__
    @GeorgiaGirl__ 7 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    I didn't think I could get pregnant but I had my daughter in 2011. I really want another child but my pregnancy was so rough that I'm scared! Thank you for sharing your story ☺️

  • @starlitosway1005
    @starlitosway1005 7 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Thanks for sharing Basi. Hate you went thru this. My baby would have been 2 months old this month. So I definitely know how you feel. I know I will always think about it no matter how I try to block it out.

  • @joywatson95
    @joywatson95 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Never the less , planed or not ... I am very sorry for your loss ! I have 5 living children .. I had 2 miscarriages... Not all of my children were planned , yet. There is emptiness in my heart for the children that I never held... God bless you!!

  • @storytimewithgrammawmaw
    @storytimewithgrammawmaw 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I know this is late, but I just came across this video and I have a similar story. I had my tubes tied after having twins. 16 years later I was at the hospital thinking I had the flu or something. They did a pregnancy test only because I was 18 days late. It said negative but changed to positive. They then followed it up with a blood test that also came back positive. They didn't do an ultrasound because it was so early. 2 weeks later I miscarried on my husbands birthday. I already had 4 but this would have been his first. I still have a hard time with it and it's been 2 years. I commend you for being able to share your story. God bless you

    • @jocelynkaeka5938
      @jocelynkaeka5938 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm so sorry for your loss and thank u for sharing your story.

  • @brimartinez7383
    @brimartinez7383 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Sorry for your loss, I am currently 35 weeks pregnant with my 1st baby it's a boy I named him Emmanuel, I can't wait for him to be here already

  • @blupen3785
    @blupen3785 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hey, Basie, I am so sorry for your loss. God bless you and Terrence, and may you all remain strong as ever. By the way, I love your videos like always; keep up the good work.

  • @TheSaltySiren
    @TheSaltySiren 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Basi, I just stumbled upon your other channel. The first video I watched was with Baby #6, that is newer than this video. I’m glad you have your messages here. 💗 Your makeup and hair are ON POINT!!!! Gorgeous!!! Congratulations on Baby #6, for real! You guys are married now, and no one else pays your bills! Enjoy your growing family! Much love! Muah!!! 💋

  • @WinWithKeshia
    @WinWithKeshia 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are strong. You remind me of myself. I had 3 miscarriages but I don’t cry about it when I speak on it. It is what it is. I have 3 children and I never wanted children so I’m grateful. I hate when people call me fertile because it’s not just me it’s my husband too. I commend you for making this video.

  • @TheRealEvvonne
    @TheRealEvvonne 7 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    I had my second miscarriage in 2013. Devastating. No heartbeat. I felt like a failure because my, now husband, has no children. I have a 19 year old son. PS: My husband's name is Terrence. Thank you for sharing your story. Bless you..

    • @ExtraAF
      @ExtraAF 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Glen CoCo 😯😯😯

    • @itinavarait
      @itinavarait 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Glen CoCo really 😒

    • @keishajohson2852
      @keishajohson2852 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Glen CoCo why would you say that dumbass comment

    • @chimenelouis6862
      @chimenelouis6862 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m scared now because they just cut my tube I can be pregnant again

  • @theadventuresofkeira866
    @theadventuresofkeira866 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Oh honey thank you so much for sharing. I'm 1 week late and I'm never late. I've had three babies and my last I had my tubes tied. I'm so scared and nervous, I can relate to ALL of your feelings and emotions! I literally had no idea u could get pregnant, I thought it was a one and a million chance. Not a 1/200 chance.

  • @murphymtamina
    @murphymtamina 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    thank you for sharing. There is nothing worse then thinking you don't want something until your told you can't have it. I understand your pain so well 😇

  • @unapologeticallyme19
    @unapologeticallyme19 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    sorry for your loss Basie stay strong thanks for sharing your stories and helping other woman going or have been through these struggles

  • @phairfullymade8582
    @phairfullymade8582 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Justbasnbeauty
    sorry for your loss n
    that you went through such
    an ordeal n still having the emotional effect of it,but we all
    have a story n go thru things in life
    that either shape the path of our destiny or makes us stronger of which I believe you're stronger bc
    u can help other young ladies.When you feel Overwhelmed,pray bc God is only a prayer away!You're beautiful n tfs👍

  • @Just_Loren
    @Just_Loren 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Aww I'm truly sorry you had to go through this, thank you so much for sharing your story I never knew you could get pregnant with your tubes tied and burned...

    • @e.michelle2424
      @e.michelle2424 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      MegaCutie86 It's 99.68% effective. That means that out of 500,000 procedures, there are about 300-400 pregnancies each year. So yes, it does happen. Also, the risk of failure goes up significantly after 3, 5, and 8 years. It's all in the pamphlet. I read that thing like crazy.

    • @lovehopefully5463
      @lovehopefully5463 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      E. Michelle thanks for sharing! this gives me hope! I was in a bad relationship and I, too, kept getting pregnant. From the time I was 17 to 21 I was pregnant with one miscarriage and a child conceived on the Depo shot! So at 21, I'm in a bad marriage with 3 children so I decided to get a tubal. Fast forward to now, I'm 38 and have been married for 5 yrs and want desperately to have a child with my husband! I pray often that God would forgive the arrogance of my youth, and bless me one more time with a child. After reading your comment and listening to Basi's story, I'm more hopeful that redemption is possible for me. Although, either way, I'm still blessed because I am with the man that God created for me, so even without a child, we're still solid. It would just be really awesome to see someone that was created from our love, walking around loving my husband as much as I do!

    • @lakendramontgomery5826
      @lakendramontgomery5826 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It happened to me. I got clipped tied and burned and 8 years after I got pregnant and miscarried at the 3 month mark. The baby was in the right place. My baby would be turning 2 soon.

  • @Andrewg2451
    @Andrewg2451 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    First of all, I’m very sorry for your loss. But I truly appreciate you sharing this. I also just had my tubes tied. I had 5 children by the age of 24 and my baby is now 8 years old. Becoming pregnant again is my greatest fear! You’re very brave! You made me realize I still need to be careful! 😰

  • @chanterriatarver-stembridg4087
    @chanterriatarver-stembridg4087 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Morning entertainment!!! A break from my house work... thanks Basi! Thank you for sharing your story. to be completely honest, I started commenting before even watching the full video. However, I have had dreams that this same thing would happen to me. Glad it was just a dream.

  • @heatherghimire8929
    @heatherghimire8929 7 ปีที่แล้ว +164

    I had my 4th son in 2012 I got my tubes tied 8 months later I was pregnant with twins one in my tube and one in my uterus but I miscarried both I know ur pain

  • @yascantu4787
    @yascantu4787 5 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    Wow! There’s hope for me😳I was 21 when I had my 3rd son and got a tubal ligation which they said it was a no reverse method. Like cut,burnt and tied. I was 21 still young and dumb! Now I’m 31 and I really want a girl so it just feels nice to know there is hope if that’s God plan 🙏🏽

    • @christinawright6485
      @christinawright6485 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Girl I just got married and I want to give my husband a son..

    • @naturallyquita1839
      @naturallyquita1839 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It's most definitely still possible 😍 wishing you the best

    • @TheVlogLife
      @TheVlogLife 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Praying that GOD blesses you with a baby girl

    • @Phillfam
      @Phillfam 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You know you6can get ivf with your tubes tied ne and my husband is gonna do ivf soon we're researching and reading and listening to other people stories and the sucess rate is good

    • @Portuguesemami88
      @Portuguesemami88 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It definitely can be reversed I’m having my surgery next year ... it’s got a good price tag on it but I know it will be worth it. ❤️

  • @locddenturedandblack5569
    @locddenturedandblack5569 7 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    There is absolutely nothing wrong with having a large family . I am a mother of 7. The only hardship I have with raising my family is the fact that I have 2 autistic sons. I would to it again and again. Don't let people make you feel bad about having a family. Having a family is the best decision that I have ever made.

    • @JusBas
      @JusBas  7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thanks for watching

    • @ChenelleBABALOLA
      @ChenelleBABALOLA 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Im a mother of 7 as well

    • @Usagi22912
      @Usagi22912 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for your reply

    • @lydiaevazquez3464
      @lydiaevazquez3464 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      God bless...but I believe you did not planned to have a preagnancy after pregnancy..right? I mean..where was the birth control!?

    • @gloriabarajas9731
      @gloriabarajas9731 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have 6 sons and 1 daughter my daughter is the baby my 4th son has autism. I love having all my kids its the best feeling being a mom

  • @charliebiamher
    @charliebiamher 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This just make me feel what is meant to be will be. Blessing on blessing on blessings love!

  • @vanessaholloway1403
    @vanessaholloway1403 7 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    As a double rainbow 🌈 mom, I send you my love

  • @tracyhainer4645
    @tracyhainer4645 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    All of these stories of pregnancy after tubal ligation.. I'm freaked out now. I just had mine done 9 months ago after baby #3. I hope mine doesn't fail me.

    • @elenahernandez1442
      @elenahernandez1442 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here. What I have noticed is that most that had tubal ligation-tied tubes,clamp, burned are the ones who end up pregnant. It's been rare if I see a video of tubal ligation removal of tubes and pregnant.

  • @toyawilson1803
    @toyawilson1803 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I got my tubes tied after my 2nd baby almost 16 years ago. At the time I was like I don't want any more kids so me being 25 and getting my tubes tied was not such a big deal to me. Well the last few relationships that I've been in either one of the guys had kids. My last relationship my ex didn't have kids and wanted a child badly. Now that I'm 40 I've also kinda had baby fever and been wanting a baby. I really wish that I wouldn't have tied my tubes. Thank you for sharing your story and sorry for your loss. May God continue to bless you and your family.

  • @soarkjwyd2.045
    @soarkjwyd2.045 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks so very much for sharing your story. I am going thru a similar situation. ❤❤❤

  • @embracinglady-jess3080
    @embracinglady-jess3080 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    😟😟😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢 I am so sorry u guys had to go through that..... I am praying for you and the family..... love you family!!!!!

  • @Mylittlelight29
    @Mylittlelight29 7 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    you are so lucky im trying to get pregnant and i cant im tired of seeing negative on the 100 tests I've bought :( i really want a baby.

    • @JusBas
      @JusBas  7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Don't give up just keep trying

    • @shacoriabrown1044
      @shacoriabrown1044 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      go to if and look up @yummyyonipearls and dm her she will help you!

    • @lissymyers3699
      @lissymyers3699 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      The time will come hun. I'm sure you be a mother one day xx good luck

    • @Ken_opp
      @Ken_opp 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      JusBas I got my tube's untied on 3/29/19 what's good to help me get pregnant fast

    • @katiepope663
      @katiepope663 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Why yes, she's lucky.. how?! She did everything to prevent getting pregnant and she went through a super shitty loss. I wouldn't wish that on ANYONE. Yes, I'm sorry for your fertility issues, but some people have the opposite issue. Which (although it may be what YOU want) it's not hers.

  • @pinkleo7735
    @pinkleo7735 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sorry for your loss...thank you for sharing 💜

  • @candaceh.h.961
    @candaceh.h.961 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    That’s a very tough story to work through. You’re a very brave and beautiful woman, thank you for sharing your story.

  • @excellentyummymummytv4721
    @excellentyummymummytv4721 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks for telling the story. Well done mama!

  • @TheCarnivoreSoprano
    @TheCarnivoreSoprano 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My condolences to you. I thank you for sharing this with us. so many ladies have these issues and it only heals when we share. ase
    personally I found out at a very young age that I'd never be a mom. at first I was devastated but I learned that every journey in life is different. and I am ok

  • @alexissconiers1316
    @alexissconiers1316 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Never watched your videos but I’m here for it already that intro is A1.😎👌🏾

  • @addyvillalona
    @addyvillalona 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm sorry you went through that mama, my heart goes out to you! God bless you mama 😘

  • @stormibrooke8900
    @stormibrooke8900 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am so sorry this happened to you. I have had my tubes tied since 2006. I pray to get pregnant because I regret it. Im praying it happens naturally and properly while I await for my tubal reversal.

  • @raecongandules_
    @raecongandules_ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I’m going through the same thing rn. I’m 5 days late, tubes tied 6 months ago. Way too scared to take a test. 😭

    • @Lol78209
      @Lol78209 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Were you pregnant?

  • @jadorenai3458
    @jadorenai3458 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for sharing your story! I got my tubes tied after my third child and I've always been scared of this happening to me.

  • @prophetmarie737
    @prophetmarie737 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Lord why do I keep finding all these stories and I have yet to be blessed like this!?!😭 it’s been over 6-7 years for me and i regret it congrats to all the blessed lucky moms that got to experience this

  • @mariangely9546
    @mariangely9546 7 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    GURL. That contour. Yes. 😀

  • @theerainbochild
    @theerainbochild 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Well I have 5 girls.....with one ovary and tubes tied.....I had tubes tied after my 4th child and when my 4th child was 4 yrs old I got pregnant again with the last child. My tubes we're still tied and was never given a reason as to how I got pregnant.

    • @chasityduffy6911
      @chasityduffy6911 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hoping I get pregnant soon . My tubes been tye for four years ,five years in April 2019🙏🙏🙏🤦🤦 I'm praying ,my wedding in May 2019 as well

    • @briannetaylor437
      @briannetaylor437 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's amazing! God thinks your one amazing mom and wanted to bless you with another baby❤

    • @louriemolato8531
      @louriemolato8531 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm tubal ligation can I have a chance to have a baby?

    • @tellemtash5380
      @tellemtash5380 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      So did they leave your tube tied ?

  • @heatherflanders4772
    @heatherflanders4772 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am so sorry for your loss,but thank you for sharing this video:!):)

  • @marriegoldie1086
    @marriegoldie1086 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for sharing this. You are a blessing.

  • @veronicamamiful
    @veronicamamiful 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It happened to me too. I had my tubes cut and tied and I was pregnant 5 months later. I have a fifth child because of it. I was devastated.

  • @brithegoddess
    @brithegoddess 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing your story. Virtual hugs!

  • @Amlyv
    @Amlyv 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m so sorry for your loss and thank you for sharing your story.

  • @slimshadyslim1877
    @slimshadyslim1877 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I had the same procedure..My daughter 26.. I'm 47..Thank you for sharing.

  • @mommacryss1210
    @mommacryss1210 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Got mine done in 2012. Had another boy in 2015! And then lost one (even on birth control ) a month ago

  • @michelefranklin8176
    @michelefranklin8176 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My doctor don't even believe in me the only believe I'm pregnant I took test and it came back positive and they still don't believe it once you go back to the doctor who did your tubal ligation and ask him what happened ask him did they really tied it and clipped it and burnt it my son 20 years old I'm 55 years old all I can think God has something to do with it that's all I can say I know where you coming from I really do I'm just trusting God be blessed thank you for telling your testimony you okay now

  • @michelefranklin8176
    @michelefranklin8176 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Congratulations to the ones they had together Tuesday. Congratulation I really appreciate y'all telling your testimonies it's helping thank you may God bless all of y'all around the world

  • @chrystynb7542
    @chrystynb7542 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    It’s sad and I’m sorry for your loss. I had a miscarriage 10 months ago and just had a second miscarriage last week. It’s sad because it’s still a loss of life. We as women are so strong and thank you for sharing

  • @REBIANASYMONE
    @REBIANASYMONE 7 ปีที่แล้ว +118

    What's the lip combo? You look pretty!!?

    • @JusBas
      @JusBas  7 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Thanks boo it's MAC Chestnut and NYX Lingerie in Corset

    • @jadahoward1745
      @jadahoward1745 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Re'bianaSymone I love your channel so much😍

    • @farazahmad634
      @farazahmad634 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@JusBas hellow please help me what I do that my tube grow back and reconnect naturelly , because I had 5 cesarean but my 2 baby boy lost,I Wana one more baby,but I have had done tubal ligation

  • @shakirarobinson3415
    @shakirarobinson3415 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I enjoyed the story.... and I wish I could have another one smh.... I got my tubes cut off

  • @leanimako1385
    @leanimako1385 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am so sorry that you and your family had to go through that I know it really terrified you, you will be just fine your video was great you explained yourself very well even though you were so nervous I am so sorry for your loss may God bless you and your family.

  • @Thechasschang
    @Thechasschang 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You're such a strong woman, I adore you! God bless!!

  • @toniass8571
    @toniass8571 7 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    WOW BASIE YOU ARE SO BRAVE, I AM THE OLDEST OF FIVE GIRLS, I HAVE NO BROTHERS, AND MY SISTERS HAVE BEEN THROUGH SO MUCH MY SISTER WHO WANTED A BABY SO BAD WHO WAS THE LAST OF US TO GET PREGNANT FINALLY GOT PREGNANT!!!! THE FAMILY WAS SO VERY HAPPY WE ALL CELEBRATED WHEN WE GOT THE NEWS. A FEW WEEKS LATER SHE LOST THE BABY. WE WERE ALL SO DEVASTATED, HOWEVER TWO YEARS LATER THEY HAD THEIR FIRST BABY, AND THEN WENT ON TO HAVE THREE IN ALL TWO BOYS, AND THE LAST A GIRL. GOD IS SO GOOD, AND WE ARE ALL CREATED EQUAL, BUT DIFFERENT YOU WERE FERTILE, BECAUSE GOD MADE YOU THAT WAY, AND YOU ARE A GREAT MOM WITH A BEAUTIFUL FAMILY. EVEN THOUGH IT HURTS WE SHOULD TRY TO TRUST GOD'S PLAN FOR OUR LIVES FOR HE TRULY KNOWS BEST. SORRY THIS IS SO LONG, I JUST FELT YOUR EMOTIONS, AND IT BROUGHT BACK A FEW OF MY OWN LOVE YOU BAS.

  • @honeym3498
    @honeym3498 7 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I just found out I'm pregnant. I'm about 7 weeks.. my situation is different but stories like this scare the hell outta me 😥🙏🏾 I'm sorry you went through that.

    • @cocozuchanel
      @cocozuchanel 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Schyii m Stay Calm and I wish you all The best for your pregnancy 😊🍀

    • @honeym3498
      @honeym3498 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      cocozuchanel Aww Thank You, Love!

    • @bb6001
      @bb6001 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      my tubes are some and I've had 3 tubal pregnancies....I really wonder if I should have even bothered

    • @deanageorge1692
      @deanageorge1692 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Honey M hope all is going well.

  • @jennifergonzalez4590
    @jennifergonzalez4590 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am so sorry for your Lost😭 you are very Strong and Brave

  • @cherish5178
    @cherish5178 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It sounds like you already had an egg to drop before your tubal, then it became fertilized but just wasn't a viable pregnancy for whatever reason. Bless your heart, I can't imagine how worried you must have been about everything. I had a neighbor lose her life due to a tubal pregnancy. She had no idea she was even pregnant, began to have severe pain, and passed before the ambulance even arrived. So happy to see everything is ok with you and you are doing so well. God Bless Always!

  • @ResilientIzShe
    @ResilientIzShe 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    "Fertile Myrtle" LOL

  • @ravensnaetion
    @ravensnaetion 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Your makeup is BOMB!

    • @JusBas
      @JusBas  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you

  • @adrienneduggins6988
    @adrienneduggins6988 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Basie. that was a Good story because that helped somebody and that experience also shows your strength and wisdom. you're An Amazing young woman to share that story. Now if I would have got my tubes tied I wouldn't use no protection. I would say the problem of getting pregnant was fix. I would do the same as you did. your an Amazing person and God bless you.

  • @kenise1415
    @kenise1415 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    awe sorru for your loss. but glad to see you bounce back

  • @MtnChic828
    @MtnChic828 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thank you for sharing your story. I needed this . I am currently experiencing Ectopic Pregnancy after a Tubal ligation 11 years ago after my last baby. I'm currently being monitored by the doctors and plan to share my story.. I think ladies need to know this can happen. It's truly disheartening. :(. Good Luck to you

    • @jessicacardenas2069
      @jessicacardenas2069 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      May i ask what your symptoms were? I had a tubal ligation in 2011 after delivering my 4 th son . Now for the past 31 days I have not had a period I’ve missed by a couple weeks as in 1-2 weeks off but not a month . I’ve taken 4 pregnancy test in the last 2weeks and just now the last 2-3 days I feel flutters . I’m discharging nothing major but it’s clear and whitish color . Lower back pain where it almost feels like I’m about to start my period and most of all I look bloated and my uterus area under my belt button I feel tender . I’m so confused. Some nausea but nothing drastic . I’m just so confused right now . If anyone can tell me if they had any similar symptoms.. thanks 🙏

    • @angelrenate
      @angelrenate 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm very late, but I hope you are okay ❤️

  • @evangelistaminahardgraves4190
    @evangelistaminahardgraves4190 7 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    my tubes are tied and I regret it I want another child with me current husband now he wants a baby to but my tubes been tied now for 18 years I don't know exactly everything he did in procedure I just told my doctor I want my tubes tide cause it was my 4th childb and he is the only and he boy the doctor didn't want to tie them he felt I would want more later I should have listened now I regret it now it is too expensive to get untied omg.

    • @iyannaaliyah1617
      @iyannaaliyah1617 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amina Hardgraves u can pay to have them untied

    • @marzplanet6057
      @marzplanet6057 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Amina Hardgraves CNY fertility has a monthly plan to pay for your tubal reversal. You dont get pregnant in 18 months they do a freeIVF

    • @blessedandhighlyfavouredhe8564
      @blessedandhighlyfavouredhe8564 6 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      It's funny that it's free to get it tyed but cost an arm and leg to get it fixed.

    • @mr.reallove7929
      @mr.reallove7929 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Go get ur tubed untied!!!

    • @lifewithaplannerwife9440
      @lifewithaplannerwife9440 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm going through this same thing now. My husband wants a kid, and I can't give him one. We both did have kids already, but he wants one together :(

  • @Tianamischelle
    @Tianamischelle 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ready for number 6! I’m thinking girl.. can’t wait to see if I’m right or wrong

  • @sierraburley5062
    @sierraburley5062 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am so sorry for your loss. I went through a misscarriage myself and it's a difficult process to deal with. When I got pregnant with my now two year old daughter I was so paranoid a scared for the first three months

  • @tiffanystrickland781
    @tiffanystrickland781 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I lost my first child and 2011 me and my husband had a little girl I was about 5 months way before then I had lots of pains I asked people who was pregnant before me the pants I was feeling was it normal a lot of them say yes anyways fast forward to 5 months me and my husband went for ultrasound and we seen you our daughter laying there still we seen the back of her head and the look on the nurse face told it all that was the hardest day of my life but we got through it .

  • @Me200928
    @Me200928 7 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    You look like Lela Rochon (spell check lol) but I'm new here and I love your channel already❤️❤️ I'm sorry you had to go through this:( Much love!

    • @mzmuzyk
      @mzmuzyk 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      kista matthews she definitely does

    • @EricaMorrison
      @EricaMorrison 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I couldn't put my finger on it but yup she sure does. Beautiful😊

    • @1OfdaKoldest
      @1OfdaKoldest 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Everyone says she looks like Kiki Wyatt and I dont see it! I do see Lela Rochon though!!

  • @prettye.noelle8099
    @prettye.noelle8099 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for this ... I think I have had a couple losses the pain is much more intense when you lose one ... now that my young ones are getting older my husband wanted another but now he is regretting suggesting a tubal but anyway love this story time and your channel you are a real person and that isn't something that can be said for many ... when I begin to make your tube vids I hope to be on the same level as you ... thank you again must of been something I needed to hear today 😍😍✊🏽

  • @zahidsiddique827
    @zahidsiddique827 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My left one was removed as endometrosis had damaged it right one was also dilated but still inside .will caster oil pack will help to open it.or repare this

    • @leyvamichelle
      @leyvamichelle 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      YES, Just never think of Surgery to remove Fibroid because it will come back After few months, ok,,Look for good Natural Herbal Medication Like AGBARA HERBAL POWDER , i use it , Mix it with Lime take it first thing in the Morning and night before Bed, ok,, Your Fibroid will be shrunk Remember as you are using this medication, The Fibroid will be moving round your body and you will use the Hot bottle to press on the part you feel the Fibroid any time ok, , It will shrunk very fast