Struggle With Being Turned on When Meeting Women? | Fearless Fundamentals

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  • In this video, I share a few ways to awaken your turn-on. Whether you're struggling with being turned on when meeting women or just want to know how to be more confident around them, these tips will help!
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    05:34 How to develop your turn-on
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    09:31 Practice awakening your turn-on for 10minutes every day
    12:20 How to move and explore the lower part of your body
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  • @DaveNagrom
    @DaveNagrom 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I am a poet, and I understand exactly what you mean about turn on. I think there are three aspects of turn on, appreciation/inspiration, desire and cultivation. I NEVER set out to write a poem. I experience an instinctive, involuntary inspiration, it prompts my desire to nurture what is inspired, and then I cultivate it, and culminates in a poem. I can only create a poem, when I am allowing my appreciation and desire to flow. The poem is merely my attempt to encapsulate the depth of my inspiration, in words. I must embrace the emotion, in order to experience that flow. That kernel of passion, comes from a deeper place. It requires surrender. That is when the most honest expression emerges.
    The same can be said for interactions with women. Women will not reject you because you failed to construct the perfect sentence. They will reject you when you lack the courage to be sincere, and when you appear to be needy. Needy men, are often verbose with women. They are not attempting to forge a connection, they are desperate to avoid rejection, and ironically, they often illicit it, by desperately trying to convince a woman to pick them! Almost the way in which a car salesman who needs to make the sale to meet his quota, will pressure a buyer. This often leads to failure.
    A man who is genuine, unafraid, and unapologetic for being attracted to and inspired by women, will be desired by women. The women who readily reject other men, will be drawn to him. His bold authenticity is magnetic.
    His sub-communication of confidence, makes him charismatic!

  • @clancularius.t
    @clancularius.t 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Having just participated in their latest Sexual Transmutation Intensive (as of this video, October 2021), Brian is only showing you the very basics of all of this. The stuff they cover in the actual workshops...just incredible, and I'll leave it at that.

  • @HousesEdgeEntertainmentLLC
    @HousesEdgeEntertainmentLLC 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wow. That pelvic rotation exercise really works! Felt a difference almost immediately

  • @noahseip3722
    @noahseip3722 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Even in the first 10 minutes, my energy dropped low in my body, it’s a different feeling. I realized how high I am in my body

  • @robertwaudby5553
    @robertwaudby5553 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love your stuff man. It’s been pretty revolutionary for the way I deal with my emotions.

  • @Jubileebound
    @Jubileebound 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very valuable

  • @AsAManFeeleth
    @AsAManFeeleth 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is the best inner game video tutorial I have ever seen.

  • @cameronmiller6240
    @cameronmiller6240 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I like “quantum leaps come from the 1% rule”.

  • @AntonioDavisJr
    @AntonioDavisJr ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm definitely going to do this for 90 Days no bs.

  • @derrickupshaw3008
    @derrickupshaw3008 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is my 1st day doing these hip movements. I never noticed how stiff my lower body was. 😆 im gonna continue with it. Thanks for the video

  • @mrrbt6328
    @mrrbt6328 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great content again Brain. I would say in this video compared with the 1% one....That you come across lighter, like you're enjoying your 'turn on' more and seem more happier with way you're expressing it.

  • @user-pw4ps4qe3c
    @user-pw4ps4qe3c ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Best man on youtube! Love you Brian!

  • @petarvucinic818
    @petarvucinic818 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Brian much better than before...nice vid

  • @Monica_Andrei
    @Monica_Andrei 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very interesting!

  • @thyagobrod
    @thyagobrod 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have been feeling this for years, but I don't know how to direct it. I noticed that, as you mention, when Im writing code that I feel are very innovative and have great potential, I always felt "horny" - I believe it's what you describe as turn on. The problem is that I have always correlated it with sexuality and women, so I often have to escape into masturbation because it just kinda "stays there when I want to concentrate on the code". As I hear you, I'm trying to re-interpret it as a drive for creation, but it still keeps "bothering" me. It's hard to untie it from wanting that easy sexual release.

  • @rylandboswell2288
    @rylandboswell2288 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Hey Brian. I’ve been working on releasing for a while now. And I’ve worked on my turn on, and had some decent progress. But in regards to what you said about passion about life, and waking up in the morning wanting to do things, attack the day so to speak. I have struggled with this quite a bit most of my life. Usually very hard to get up in the morning, once I get going I’m somewhat ok. But almost have no drive at all. I have to force myself to do things I need to do, and often don’t get moving. I don’t really have any hobbies that I have passion to do. I have some interests but very little drive. Most of the time things feel like a drag, and too much effort, daunting, exhausting, or just plain lackluster. I’ve heard this called anhedonia. That drive for life, that willpower to go after things, has been very difficult to feel. I sometimes force myself and get going for a little bit, but then burn out quickly and It’s very difficult to build self discipline. Was wondering if you had a suggestion on a specific area to release on that would help with this? Something to narrow it down a bit so I can find more drive for life. Any help would be awesome

    • @TheFearlessMan
      @TheFearlessMan  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hi Ryland, What you are describing is apathy. We have several videos on this topic. Here are a couple to get started. - Andrew, TFM Team
      th-cam.com/video/vGmkEBEUVUM/w-d-xo.html
      th-cam.com/video/9_axX6NMlEg/w-d-xo.html

  • @watkinsrcful
    @watkinsrcful 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nice

  • @DatsyukOn94
    @DatsyukOn94 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Brian thanks for the tips. I've noticed how to do this when I can read a woman's body language and can sense when she's into me and I can be very confident. But as far as a cold approach when I'm attracted and have not quite many signals from her it's a little more intimidating any suggestions? Thanks- Jake

    • @TheFearlessMan
      @TheFearlessMan  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      For sure man. It sounds like your confidence is somewhat attached to receiving her validation which isn't bad but it's only half the picture. She isn't going to give you good feedback all the time and in fact, if she likes you, she's going to give you mixed signals and tests to see what's really up with you. You have to be willing to let go of that search for the validation and have the things you say and do come from a place of deep conviction that you really mean them. - Andrew, TFM Team

  • @bosnicc
    @bosnicc 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Is this something you teach in weekend /dating intensives or only in releasing programs ?

    • @TheFearlessMan
      @TheFearlessMan  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      We teach these things in all the workshops. Everything we do is really rooted in revealing/releasing but the dating workshops have the special focus of working with women. - Andrew, TFM Team

  • @gabrielguzman6018
    @gabrielguzman6018 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You need that vibe in order to do it

    • @TheFearlessMan
      @TheFearlessMan  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You need the vibe to do anything with women. They function fundamentally on energy and what they are getting from the guy. That's the basis of what we teach clients. - Andrew, TFM Team

    • @gabrielguzman6018
      @gabrielguzman6018 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheFearlessMan how do you obtain that vibe/energy?

    • @TheFearlessMan
      @TheFearlessMan  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@gabrielguzman6018 For sure man. That's what we teach. If you're interested in possibly working with us, definitely email me at andrews@thefearlessman.com and we can talk about what you're looking for and find the best move from there. - Andrew, TFM Team

  • @c.angeldelgado6717
    @c.angeldelgado6717 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Are you supposed to do this standing or sitting?

    • @TheFearlessMan
      @TheFearlessMan  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mainly standing, try sitting sometime and just feel the difference. Maybe there will be something helpful for you about doing it sitting. - Andrew, TFM Team

  • @MrGjlewis10
    @MrGjlewis10 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey Brian, have done the "Sexy bastard" meditations and have noticed a change. Any chance of doing a video on the meditation on how to awaken your turn on only as I feel like I'm doing it wrong. Thanks.

    • @TheFearlessMan
      @TheFearlessMan  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi Gareth, see if this video helps: th-cam.com/video/kI0uSht3zG8/w-d-xo.html
      Landon, TFM

    • @launchdealer4509
      @launchdealer4509 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheFearlessMan The link you shared is just the link to this video. They are the same

  • @kennethporst4359
    @kennethporst4359 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey Brian if you have big feelings for a girl but your not dating yet is it ok to flirt with other girls?

    • @tyuy100
      @tyuy100 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Of course it is

    • @TheFearlessMan
      @TheFearlessMan  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That is the voice of Nice Guy Syndrome :) As nice guys, we always put the priority on figuring out if we are being good or bad. We are very afraid to try something because we have a lot of guilt triggered when we feel like we broke the rules because we haven't subconsciously separated from the need for outside approval. As kids this came from Mom and Dad but as grow, unless we give it up, we project it onto other people making them the authority figures instead of developing ourselves into a wise authority in our own life. Women will never want to fuck us if we don't let go of the need to make others the authority in our lives because biologically they know that pairing with us means they become subject to the whims of what other people tell us and we are manipulable and therefor an unsafe partner. - Andrew, TFM Team

  • @agostinochimienti3541
    @agostinochimienti3541 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    During the practice of this movement I feel guilt and shame. In releasing these emotions, after the releasing, I feel tired even for 30 minute after the releasing. Do you guys recommend releasing on shame guilt many times a day or just one or two to avoid the activation of pain/pleasure principle? (I don't want to start to hate releasing guilt/shame).In regard to the tiredness after the releasing on guilt/shame am I doing everything right is it normal? Thanks you guys.

    • @TheFearlessMan
      @TheFearlessMan  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That is normal. The tiredness is apathy which is a level above guilt and shame. Just keep working at it. Also, here is a video on using anger as a lever to get out of apathy. - Andrew, TFM Team

    • @agostinochimienti3541
      @agostinochimienti3541 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheFearlessMan can you share the link yo the video if you can? Thank you my man!

    • @TheFearlessMan
      @TheFearlessMan  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No, search for it.

  • @ludovico117
    @ludovico117 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Today is 1st day of the week. Not weekend. Since 2004 that guy called benedict 16 manipulate the calendar for their own benefit.

    • @TheFearlessMan
      @TheFearlessMan  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Is that really the most valuable thing to focus on? - Andrew, TFM Team

    • @ludovico117
      @ludovico117 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheFearlessMan You think that I did waste the main message?
      Sorry, man.
      But I did get the principal message. And I liked it.
      Think that if you can be manipulated by the calendar, you could be manipulated with anything.
      That's what religion is doing since 0000.
      See how you react to that comment.
      Look Andrew, I'm not a hater. That was nothing.
      I don't want to make a war for that. And I 'm not apologize with what I think is correct to say.
      Have a good one, Andrew.

    • @mirandusings
      @mirandusings 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You’re throwing shade on Benedict XVI but the Catholic Church acknowledges that Sunday is the first day of the week…

  • @sleepysleepy9913
    @sleepysleepy9913 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Any body who sees this and thinks the hip movement is stupid. Trust me, try it.

    • @RsDeepHalo
      @RsDeepHalo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      So do you basically do the pelvic movement multiple times per day like it’s an exercise in the gym? Say “do 4 sets of 15 pelvic/hip movements per day”?

    • @sleepysleepy9913
      @sleepysleepy9913 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@RsDeepHalo I would just set the time 5 or 10 min and rock the entire time. Idk exactly. I just know I got it from chi gong originally. And before I knew it would help in other areas I felt it.

    • @RsDeepHalo
      @RsDeepHalo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sleepysleepy9913 so the point of activating your turn on is literally doing this exercise? It isn’t some metaphorical thing

    • @RsDeepHalo
      @RsDeepHalo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sleepysleepy9913 I noticed that if I direct my consciousness down to my pelvic area, and out of my brain when around a girl, I feel much more turned on. Is that how this works?

  • @Monica_Andrei
    @Monica_Andrei 2 ปีที่แล้ว

  • @RsDeepHalo
    @RsDeepHalo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What do you mean by sit in your turn on? Do you mean literally sitting in that pelvic tilted position and directing your mindset towards your pelvis? Or are you speaking metaphorically

  • @David-ib8ek
    @David-ib8ek 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This reminds me of when Arnold Schwarzenegger said he would have orgasms when lifting weights ha

  • @Lucid_lifestyle
    @Lucid_lifestyle 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    If you guys were broke and living in your mamas living room would you still pursue girls?

    • @TheFearlessMan
      @TheFearlessMan  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You seem to be making a statement in the form of a question. What are you really trying to say? - Andrew, TFM Team

    • @Lucid_lifestyle
      @Lucid_lifestyle 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheFearlessMan maybe it’ll help if I give some background. Im currently 25 years old. Several months ago I decided to leave my hometown in Ohio to move in with my mom in her apartment in AZ b/c I wanted to try something different. I live in her living room and sleep on a blow up bed and have little to no money in my bank account. So with this information in mind I was wondering if men would still go out to pursue women meaning would they take the time to flirt get her number and meet up at a later date with her even though they know their current situation back home isn’t ideal. I’m asking if you were in my shoes would you say hey I need to get my shit together before pursing women or would you be like as I’m getting my shit together I’ll still go to pursue and approach women that I think are attractive?
      Hopefully this make sense. The reason for the question rather if it’s worth pursing women or not is out of fear that if she gets to know me would she judge me on my circumstances and decide she’s doesn’t want to be me