Actually in reality even when women are single, they are mostly dating around and practicing hypergamy as women prefer to date up while men prefer to date down. For men, the lower quality men are who cannot gfs will visit sex workers, while the top men have too many women in their life and will not commit. so its a chicken and egg situation unless women stay on their lane and date someone at same level (who will appreciate you more) instead of dating/sleeping men who are out of their league (as they wont marry you in the end)!
And another thing is .. rich successful men still prefer younger women ..and not keen in an older women who is educated or have a successful career .. there is a biological clock for women in terms of looks and reproduction.. so it does not mean women who focus on their education/careers will get a top guy. because their needs are polar opposite. top successful men have tons of options and will NOT easily settle down. these top men might sleep with you, but wont marry you. while most women FRIENDZONE the good guys at their level just to chase a top guy hence missing forever the opportunities at their prime.
It depends on your personal expectations. Some people are okay with normal or not good looking partners, which makes it much easier to get. And there are some who may prefer good looking people only. This is for looks aspect
For the last part. its not about the timeline, its about MATURITY and its about you being able to say and voice out anything you feel uncomfortable about during any moment with your partner or whoever you're dating. if you cant do that, then this person is not for you.... don't waste your time. I stick with that philosophy and i found mine.
i do agree with Avery, i do have initial checklist but i will ask the girl about her dislikes first to see whether they are matched closely to my checklist.
I think, instead of asking for the checklist straight away, its good to just observe after x no of dates. If by x no of dates, the other party still doesnt fulfill the important points in the checklist, then you should bring up the topic. Dating is a journey so that i dont think it should be rushed at all. My first date with a guy didnt go well but i applied what i mentioned and today we are five years and counting, with marriage and house plans next year. Maybe the current dating scene is tough because people arent patient to see results.
That is why guys hate to go dating. Everywhere is landmine. 1st dates, ladies 99% will not be love at 1st sight with guys. Later do badly, no more 2nd dates etc. So guys better be single, dun need to take on additional stress.
Good chat and questions yall especially from the guy. Something to ponder about for everyone dating. disclosing boundaries and no go zones, it does feel confrontational and maybe excessive when its only one or two fresh dates in.
It boils down to maturity of the person in relationship. And maturity does not equal to age
ahhhh, i cant wait for part 2! ur vid just landed on my feed, new subssss!!
Actually in reality even when women are single, they are mostly dating around and practicing hypergamy as women prefer to date up while men prefer to date down. For men, the lower quality men are who cannot gfs will visit sex workers, while the top men have too many women in their life and will not commit. so its a chicken and egg situation unless women stay on their lane and date someone at same level (who will appreciate you more) instead of dating/sleeping men who are out of their league (as they wont marry you in the end)!
And another thing is .. rich successful men still prefer younger women ..and not keen in an older women who is educated or have a successful career .. there is a biological clock for women in terms of looks and reproduction.. so it does not mean women who focus on their education/careers will get a top guy. because their needs are polar opposite. top successful men have tons of options and will NOT easily settle down. these top men might sleep with you, but wont marry you. while most women FRIENDZONE the good guys at their level just to chase a top guy hence missing forever the opportunities at their prime.
@@jameslim3850stupid right the woman ?
100% agree with what Avery said this episode.
It depends on your personal expectations. Some people are okay with normal or not good looking partners, which makes it much easier to get. And there are some who may prefer good looking people only. This is for looks aspect
For the last part. its not about the timeline, its about MATURITY and its about you being able to say and voice out anything you feel uncomfortable about during any moment with your partner or whoever you're dating. if you cant do that, then this person is not for you.... don't waste your time. I stick with that philosophy and i found mine.
i do agree with Avery, i do have initial checklist but i will ask the girl about her dislikes first to see whether they are matched closely to my checklist.
I think, instead of asking for the checklist straight away, its good to just observe after x no of dates. If by x no of dates, the other party still doesnt fulfill the important points in the checklist, then you should bring up the topic. Dating is a journey so that i dont think it should be rushed at all. My first date with a guy didnt go well but i applied what i mentioned and today we are five years and counting, with marriage and house plans next year. Maybe the current dating scene is tough because people arent patient to see results.
That is why guys hate to go dating. Everywhere is landmine. 1st dates, ladies 99% will not be love at 1st sight with guys. Later do badly, no more 2nd dates etc. So guys better be single, dun need to take on additional stress.
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Good chat and questions yall especially from the guy. Something to ponder about for everyone dating.
disclosing boundaries and no go zones, it does feel confrontational and maybe excessive when its only one or two fresh dates in.