228‒Improving body composition, female-specific training principles, & overcoming an eating disorder

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    Holly Baxter is an accredited practicing dietician (APD), competitive bodybuilder, fitness and nutrition educator, and coach. In this episode, Holly discusses her experience as an athlete and competitive bodybuilder. She also opens up about her struggles with mental health, her long battle with an eating disorder, and the important steps she’s taken in her road to recovery. From there, she explains how she would design a nutrition and training program for a hypothetical female client wanting to improve her physique through the addition of lean muscle and loss of body fat. She explains reasonable expectations for gaining muscle and the value of a “reverse diet” for maintaining weight loss, and she shares her favorite exercises. She also talks through some female-specific training considerations such as programming, reps, volume, hormone replacement therapy, and more.
    We discuss:
    0:00:00 - Intro
    0:00:08 - Holly’s background and passion for sports and nutrition
    0:03:07 - Holly’s struggle with depression and an eating disorder
    0:19:49 - Reflecting on her eating disorder, body image, and a wake up call
    0:30:23 - Road to recovery: therapy, meditation, self-compassion, and a breakthrough
    0:43:58 - The effect of competitive bodybuilding on women
    0:52:55 - Holly’s competition prep and how she guides her clients wanting to improve their physique
    1:05:05 - Training principles for muscle hypertrophy
    1:10:16 - Training advice for an inexperienced person wanting to build muscle
    1:13:15 - Training program for a hypothetical woman wanting to add lean muscle and lose body fat
    1:24:10 - Lower body lifts: Holly’s approach to leg workouts with clients
    1:36:32 - Upper body exercises: Holly’s approach with her clients
    1:47:03 - Importance of nutrition and protein during the muscle building phase
    1:54:20 - Changes to nutrition and training during a fat loss phase
    2:04:54 - A “reverse diet” after a cutting phase to help prevent weight gain
    2:08:53 - Female-specific training considerations: programming, reps, volume, sex hormones, and more
    2:23:34 - Holly’s future in bodybuilding and helping struggling women
    2:26:19 - Looking forward: Holly’s focus on longevity, bone mineral density, and wellness
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  • @PeterAttiaMD
    @PeterAttiaMD  ปีที่แล้ว +64

    In this episode, we discuss:
    0:00:08 - Holly’s background and passion for sports and nutrition
    0:03:07 - Holly’s struggle with depression and an eating disorder
    0:19:49 - Reflecting on her eating disorder, body image, and a wake up call
    0:30:23 - Road to recovery: therapy, meditation, self-compassion, and a breakthrough
    0:43:58 - The effect of competitive bodybuilding on women
    0:52:55 - Holly’s competition prep and how she guides her clients wanting to improve their physique
    1:05:05 - Training principles for muscle hypertrophy
    1:10:16 - Training advice for an inexperienced person wanting to build muscle
    1:13:15 - Training program for a hypothetical woman wanting to add lean muscle and lose body fat
    1:24:10 - Lower body lifts: Holly’s approach to leg workouts with clients
    1:36:32 - Upper body exercises: Holly’s approach with her clients
    1:47:03 - Importance of nutrition and protein during the muscle building phase
    1:54:20 - Changes to nutrition and training during a fat loss phase
    2:04:54 - A “reverse diet” after a cutting phase to help prevent weight gain
    2:08:53 - Female-specific training considerations: programming, reps, volume, sex hormones, and more
    2:23:34 - Holly’s future in bodybuilding and helping struggling women
    2:26:19 - Looking forward: Holly’s focus on longevity, bone mineral density, and wellness

    • @rosamoreno4794
      @rosamoreno4794 ปีที่แล้ว

      She had parents and family and she attempted suicide in the 11th grade? 😳 Holy Moly! Geez

    • @SMOOTHB340
      @SMOOTHB340 ปีที่แล้ว

      J

    • @sharonallison8991
      @sharonallison8991 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What is her last name??

    • @jenniferleighfitness2386
      @jenniferleighfitness2386 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Baxter@@sharonallison8991

    • @pinarofdag
      @pinarofdag 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@sharonallison8991Baxter

  • @susanschwartzenberger9351
    @susanschwartzenberger9351 ปีที่แล้ว +455

    When I started working out in my early 60s (weight and resistance training, and swimming) I lost only 3 pounds, but went down four clothing sizes! Everyone complimented me on my weight loss, but it was "fat loss" and lean muscle gain. I'm still at it, and I'll be 70 soon.

    • @BillyJeen
      @BillyJeen ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Wow!! Congrats on such a stellar body recomposition!

    • @AnnTsungMD
      @AnnTsungMD ปีที่แล้ว +6

      That’s amazing kudos for starting very inspiring

    • @reba5679
      @reba5679 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I am also in early 60’s, work out on a pilates reformer, some free weights. I am confused on how I should eat to maintain/optimize muscle building. May I ask what/how you eat? How do you get enough protein? I do 12-15 hr. intermittent fast daily.

    • @susanschwartzenberger9351
      @susanschwartzenberger9351 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @Reba 567 I was vegan at the time and didn't change my diet other than adding one plant-based protein shake per day. I am not qualified to advise you how to eat. Best of luck on your fitness journey!

    • @avocadodoggo6236
      @avocadodoggo6236 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Wow

  • @mariettr125
    @mariettr125 ปีที่แล้ว +660

    The comments down below about Holly's clothing and nails absolutely sicken me. This lovely lady shared her trauma and experiences with us very openly and you want to focus on her nails and clothing! Holly you are beautiful inside and out! Ignore the haters!

    • @anitamartini5144
      @anitamartini5144 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      She is probably fine with the haters, seems very strong and self-confident and these trolls clearly have no power over her. These shitty comments stem partly from narrow-mindednesses, ignorance, jealousy and/or outdated, strict, inequitable expectations as to how a woman should appear in public. They can’t just listen without unfairly judging what they see. It’s the reason they remain uninformed and mystified by someone wearing gym clothes to a fitness-themed pod. Pathetic YT lowest common denominator crap.

    • @kathleen4376
      @kathleen4376 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      I agree. I respect and appreciate Holly for sharing her relatable story and professional expertise. She is helping many women and should very proud of that.

    • @ginobeast2951
      @ginobeast2951 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      💯💯💯💯💯
      Fu😘 k the trolls... you are an absolutely beautiful person and a beast.

    • @modest.vanity
      @modest.vanity ปีที่แล้ว +22

      The nails are fierce 💅🏼 🔥

    • @whatthef50
      @whatthef50 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Talk about missing the forest for the trees. Thank you Holly.

  • @mrogelj
    @mrogelj ปีที่แล้ว +279

    I’ve had the privilege of being coached by Holly and am so glad that someone with respect for science and a specific focus on women’s health and wellness, both mental and physical, is being featured on your platform. The discussion of mental health is greatly appreciated as well, especially as it relates to body image.

    • @calista1280
      @calista1280 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I love how developed her muscles are! That's no easy feat, lots of consistent, hard work required.👍🏻

    • @HH-gv8mx
      @HH-gv8mx 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That’s awesome. Where did you train with her? My first personal trainer was a female and she wasn’t good at all. She just walked around and placed me on machine after machine at the gym. With no goal and no explanation and I’ve never felt like she challenged me or pushed me. But she sure did make a lot of money.. I switched to a male and he randomly kissed me at the end of a training session one night, so that ended up after that I’ve never had any training.

    • @uyouhaveyou
      @uyouhaveyou 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@HH-gv8mx I appreciate it's really difficult to not feel the lesson from such experiences is "don't go back". But in a way we can never "go back" and every situation is unique, so i really hope you in your future find a trainer who has more integrity. There are so many gyms around these days... But also a lot can be effectual at home. I have dumbbells up to 9kg and there's a lot i can do with those. I've got a wooden bench i got for £1 at the tip which is perfect for doing a dumbbell press.. and a pull up bar i just flip onto the door frame with a set of resistance bands that altogether cost less than £40. And there are various ways to practice push ups.. Loads i can do. I'm blessed with a lot of body awareness from history of dance and qi gong and yoga.. but a class of such kind could help you work on your posture because that's crucial when lifting else we overtrain some muscles and undertrain others and more significantly lay ourselves open to injury when lifting free weights. But some yoga/pilates/qi going... meditation on posture.. alongside a home gym.. can make a lot of progress over time. I did a course with Mindvalley online on basically hypertrophic style lifting (8-15 reps) and a course like that could really empower you to experience and build on the benefits of weight training. Then when you go into any gym you will feel more empowered and know what to avoid. Sounds like the "trainers" you engaged with were actually rather weak individuals. I wish i'd got into this area of body work years ago, i might have loved to healthily help people with their fitness journey.

    • @FastJen39
      @FastJen39 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Was your coaching received via distance or within the same community? What a very strong woman to achieve that

  • @kookoo4mike
    @kookoo4mike ปีที่แล้ว +190

    Could you hv her back again and speak more on how female hormones impact fitness and nutrition in depth particularly for us ladies in peri or post menopause?

  • @tommitchell1662
    @tommitchell1662 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    Holly has amazing courage to share her history of bulimia. I am a male in my 60s and suffered from bulimia for 35 years. As with most people with eating disorders I suffered in silence. What a resilient species we are!

  • @emilypasquale4333
    @emilypasquale4333 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    She’s absolutely stunning and so very brave to share her story! Thank you Holly! 🙏💪

  • @avicenna1977
    @avicenna1977 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    Huge thank you to Holly for her vulnerability and honesty about her journey. I have noticed this same pattern that I'm sure she is aware of - an experience in a woman's youth that is linked to a serious tresspassing of boundaries (usually sexual), a development for the need for control and striving for perfectionism (typically these women are seen as overachievers/excellers in some field), and the subsequent development of an eating disorder and dysfunctional relationship with the body. It is not the food; I believe it is the body that the dysfunctional relationship is with. It seems there is a greater than expected proportion of such women going into fields related to nutrition, exercise physiology, training - as it both justifies their focus and also helps them eventually come to terms with their body and its needs. I thus think that going into these professions is actually a good strategy (instead of it being a red flag for continued dysfunction) as it lends itself to lifelong building of this relationship and acceptance (and hopefully love) of one's body.

  • @katebruno9255
    @katebruno9255 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    Thank you for covering this. I’m a registered dietician specializing in eating disorders and this is such a valuable topic to discuss in a healthy environment like you offer here.

  • @christinasmith9368
    @christinasmith9368 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    So much of her story resonated with me. I'm truly ashamed to say I almost didn't listen to this because of her appearance. :( ED is a lifelong struggle and I can find myself triggered by fit women on restrictive diets. I believed I was cured from years of bulimia when I no longer purged, but calorie restrictions and orthorexia is also ED. It was very very hard for me to stop weighing food and counting macros and letting go and eating freely and intuitively. I was a cyclist and I'd say almost all the peloton except for sprinters seem to have an ED. It took a diagnosis of osteoporosis before age 40 to make me truly commit to less training and accept that a bit of fat is ok. My mentor was always telling me I could lose 3 kg more, and all my male friends kept telling me if I just trained more and got the few extra kilos off I could stay fast on the bike. I had to move completely away from the cycling community for years in order to heal. Amazingly my body eventually learned to menstruate and self regulate and I was able to eat more and enjoy a steady healthy weight. By enjoying less structured cross training activities and keeping my hormones healthy I've been able to recover sufficient bone density to hopefully enter menopause in a safer range. This talk was great and I wish Holly health and well being and appreciated the open sharing and solidarity.

    • @HH-gv8mx
      @HH-gv8mx 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      This topic needs to discussed more. I signed up for a gym membership in 2007 just to get toned and leaner for my sister’s wedding. I worked so much that I never had time to work out and didn’t realize I guess I had packed on a couple pounds although I was not fat. They assigned me a personal trainer a guy who didn’t seem to know what he was doing. He told me I needed to drop at least 10 pounds and get down to 10% or 13% body fat, which is quite low for females.fast forward 2yrs and I was an avid gym rat taking spin classes and body sculpting classes a few times a week and running on the few days that I was not in the gym. I was super lean I and toned. My mother kept calling me anorexic, but my doctors were saying otherwise. They said I was a healthy body weight. But I was all muscle. I lost my period for six years. I was also diagnosed with Osteoarthritis BEFORE the age of 40 and started breaking bones.
      This is the first year in over a decade that I’ve really stopped being so strict about exercising. I’m lucky if I get a bike ride or a run in once a week. But I’ve started really being strict on intermittent fasting and many of these doctors are saying that you need to prolong your fast to see any results.. but I’m wondering how this new lifestyle borders on anorexia. Now I e swapped exercise for daily intermittent fasting and one 24hr fast per week.

    • @uyouhaveyou
      @uyouhaveyou 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Have you listened to the work of Dr Stacy Simms? She is a trainer who does not advocate intermittent fasting periods of much longer than 12 hours for women. She's a good listen. I too could be easily seduced by fasting... but i know it's not ideal for me. 15 hours is ok... but not every day. I focus on nutrient dense food and mostly eat whole foods. It's helped me reverse osteoporosis from stupid restrictive dietary behaviours (i call the stupid now, because experience has shown me better). I am absolutely sure that eating well consistently is better than fasting and cleansing. Believe me, i've done a lot of fasting and cleansing and i just ended up on a process of losing in so many ways. Took a lot to gain back. So just look after yourself cause your words resonated. Give yourself a big hug of self love and acceptance. Whatever you feel or decide for yourself, you know, you know yourself, i know you do. @@HH-gv8mx

    • @AngelaShippert
      @AngelaShippert 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you for sharing this as well. Her story is so resonating with me too. I’d love to get to a place where I can eat intuitively and not stress over it. I exercise constantly and weight food, etc. I think to heal would feel amazing.

  • @PonderNRave
    @PonderNRave ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Love Peter's interview style. He's just so sharp and thoughtful with his questions.

  • @bashayeralghareeb4222
    @bashayeralghareeb4222 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I love love love peter attia’s questions, the best person to lead a conversation. So thoughtful & enjoyable how you question the guest

  • @yvonnekiwior9633
    @yvonnekiwior9633 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Still listening: but I am feeling so proud of this young lady, sharing her story has got to be the best ever for both her and others who may be going through this. I feel happy, happy she can rise above all of this trauma. Love her!!!💞💞💞

  • @sandram6913
    @sandram6913 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I am so happy to have watched this. I will definitely follow her. I'm 61 now and truly excited to start muscle training.
    I love hearing more women focusing on the woman and hormones that are so unique to women.
    Thank you both so much!!

  • @user-mz6xe8zq3c
    @user-mz6xe8zq3c 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I appreciate her being so raw and giving so much in this interview. I think it's very relatable-especially with young people. It's funny how some of us will LOOK at someone and think-they have it all together but find out out we are all struggling...

  • @BLE000
    @BLE000 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Discovered Holly many years back; thrilled to catch her on your show. She's a treasure trove of knowledge-genuine and highly informed. Eager for her return!

  • @trytoparse
    @trytoparse 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    The honesty and openness of this story is incredibly soothing and encouraging. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

  • @vitalitymindbodymedicine2993
    @vitalitymindbodymedicine2993 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you so much for this podcast! Dr. Attia, please do another on eating disorders. Binge eating is an epidemic and not getting enough attention. Thank you to this brave woman for being so transparent!

  • @sarawagstaff122
    @sarawagstaff122 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Really appreciated this interview. Thank you both for shedding light on eating disorders experienced by girls and women of “healthy” weight. Particularly appreciated Holly’s highlighting of control and the impact of praise for the body. X

  • @ermolaevatania
    @ermolaevatania ปีที่แล้ว +42

    omg so excited for this one! thank you for taking an effort and talk about female health and fitness

  • @fijevj
    @fijevj 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I LOVE LOVE LOVE this episode, and so grateful that you brought Holly on the show. You do however interrupt Holly frequently and answer questions for her instead of letting her answer your questions. Would have been even more insightful and pleasant to listen to this episode if we could hear more from her perspective.

  • @MindfulSimpleSolutions
    @MindfulSimpleSolutions 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    🙏 thank you Holly so much for being so vulnerable with us, I appreciate it!! As a female, mom, Grandma, and aunt to all girls 💝

  • @juliaates-masalkina3654
    @juliaates-masalkina3654 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Holly, you are a great advocate. You are❤ Thank you for being open and sharing your experience with us. It's was an awesome interview. This is also how I see myself growing older. I like esthetic but it's nothing without being content, happy, healthy and functional. Thank you Peter for interesting questions and your guests. I'm finishing reading your book. It's such a solid work. I am amazed by the number of references. It's a life changing experience. Thank you guys! Greetings from Amsterdam, Julia

  • @Tcgrande77
    @Tcgrande77 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    She is so inspiring… I completely identify with her story… and am so grateful that she shares her journey and lives her truth. Strength and beauty personified 🙏💕

  • @Monas99
    @Monas99 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I"m very impressed by Holly and her performance, this was a great podcast. Thank you for interviewing her, Peter. As a woman, I'm not interested in male health issues, so please bring more women on your show to talk about women related issues, I'll watch more of your videos.

  • @meatvenus
    @meatvenus ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I cannot believe how much I identify with this story! And I’m nearly 60 now. I grew up on the other side of the planet and yet the similarities are uncanny!
    Thank you so much for this discussion 🙏💕🙏

    • @lynnluisi6226
      @lynnluisi6226 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too. I’m 59 and just about the entire time while listening I kept saying “OMG me too!”

  • @hello46100
    @hello46100 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    May be the very best podcast I’ve ever listened to! Thank you both, for the relative questioning and answers on how to train for specific outcomes! Good stuff here!

  • @jennyrstanley1
    @jennyrstanley1 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This was such a good episode! I love her! She is an amazing woman and role model. So intelligent, well-spoken, driven, and not to mention drop dead gorgeous. Thanks to her for sharing her journey and hard won new healthy outlook on fitness and health.

  • @Silvia-0
    @Silvia-0 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Just started listening but I had the same path with a short bout of anorexia followed by binge eating and bulimia. 12 years in all. I’m glad you are in a good place now, Holly. I know for me it felt impossible. It’s great to be on the other side 👏

  • @Scarl3tYAWEH
    @Scarl3tYAWEH 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I have been watching this interview for a series of 4 days. Thank you so much for this information and very insightful! Thank you Holly for your vulnerability, and expertise!! Awesome interview!

  • @tracey6258
    @tracey6258 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Thanks for this informative and fascinating conversation. Holly is such a role model. Learnt so much. Really appreciated Holly's comments about choosing exercises based on different anatomies. This isnt emphasised enough.

  • @SL_5555
    @SL_5555 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Holly, this interview has blessed me. I also relate to your journey and am still struggling with binge eating. Thank you so much for your vulnerability and being so honest with us about how your transformation has been. God bless you and I am so grateful for your healing and your encouragement to all of us who are in and have been in your shoes.

  • @Shwettyapple
    @Shwettyapple ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What a wonderful interview, with deep honesty. Thank you!

  • @k__r
    @k__r ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Amazing interview and so thorough. Touching on almost all the topics i would have liked to hear about.

  • @enidosbourn8945
    @enidosbourn8945 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is one of the best episodes I have ever watched. Thank you.

  • @ellenvolkomer269
    @ellenvolkomer269 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    GREAT podcast. Thank you for providing such informative and interesting discussions. Her story is quite moving.

  • @deborahcambria3005
    @deborahcambria3005 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is a great talk and I admire both of you so much for your vulnerability and sharing your struggles and accomplishments! Thank you ❤

  • @jennifersacco6598
    @jennifersacco6598 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have watched/listened to countless podcasts from Peter and others and while they have been helpful and informative, I’ve never really understood what was going on with my body (and why I’ve probably struggled to lose weight and the damage I’ve done) until listening to Holly. Thank you so much for being so informative and you’re a beautiful human being.

  • @faithandgrace8244
    @faithandgrace8244 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Holly, thank you!!!! What you've shared is so beneficial for many. I needed this!!!

  • @velvetcoconut
    @velvetcoconut ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Excellent conversation! These topics are barely ever discussed. Thank you for sharing.

    • @Disastrous_Macaron
      @Disastrous_Macaron ปีที่แล้ว

      There's many podcasts on eating disorders out there and healthcare professionals including dietitians, psychologists, psychiatrists, therapists, who talk about this on Twitter, Insta and TH-cam (I'm in the UK). As well as lived experience. I recommend doing a search and following some! Lots of useful information and sharing of stories :)

  • @udonloews1301
    @udonloews1301 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What a triumph Holly’s has accomplished from being herself to now! She walks by herself, stands by her side. Wow🏆

  • @AnhNguyen-bi6vg
    @AnhNguyen-bi6vg ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very informative episode, not just the exercises but also the healthy mindset discussed. Thank you

  • @willow05
    @willow05 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    great podcast with great info. As a woman who has always been active and in my mid 50s , I really appreciate all the training info! I feel re-motivated! I had never heard of Holly and am so glad I watched this, she is a lovely human (love the dark hair, btw! I was shocked , upon Googling, to see she had always been blond!) and I wish her all the best in the future!

  • @MollySpilberg
    @MollySpilberg 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow! What a story! Thank you so much for sharing openly and being vulnerable. I could relate to so, so many things in your story. Even if i never had a eating disorder, or wasn't sexually abused. I had my fair share of trauma in my childhood. And just listening to your story, Shelly, felt like " yes, yes.. me too. " and "oh, there's liberation at the end of prolonged hard work" . Thank you for your courage! I wish you resilience and self compassion to continue the journey! ❤️

  • @cynthiacosse3487
    @cynthiacosse3487 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    As someone who is 9 months postpartum and 40 Yrs old. I needed this information. I need to be kinder to myself.

    • @MrDosanjh28
      @MrDosanjh28 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You got this, momma! 💪

  • @wyltk6279
    @wyltk6279 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Love this podcast, love her but I strongly disagree with the advice she’d give to the 40 year old mother of three. If there is any group that needs exercise as a component to their day, it’s this group. They also need to know that, yes, it IS possible to get your body back. As a trainer and mother of 3 at 44, exercise is critical to our lives for mental, emotional and physical health. They need to be told it’s not only OK to take an hour each day but that it’s critical for your relationships and well being. Postpartum depression is crippling and this hour a day is the way out of that! Thank you for this podcast, you both have a wealth of knowledge!

  • @conseilbyliliya
    @conseilbyliliya ปีที่แล้ว

    AMAZING information, thank you so much to both of you. Holly's intake on how to place the barbell in a squat with regard to your morphology is priceless. Just tried this morning and it's amazing how this works better.

  • @AngCJ-18444
    @AngCJ-18444 ปีที่แล้ว

    So good Holly 👏 your authenticity is a beautiful thing. I found this really thought provoking, thank you.

  • @mikaylam.5957
    @mikaylam.5957 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Fantastic questions Peter. Thank you!!

  • @tagridmitchell285
    @tagridmitchell285 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you! Been suffering with ED’s for thirty years and this helped a lot

  • @samiraba1
    @samiraba1 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you Peter and Holly for tie wonderful talk, totally enjoyed your honesty about your journey and your struggles. Learned also a lot. Wishing you all the best in whatever you’re going to do next!

  • @laydypena6624
    @laydypena6624 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Amazing guest !!
    I have understood and learned so much from her on this interview. Thanks to both for making available this information 👏🏼👏🏼

  • @Chasebald
    @Chasebald ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I've been watching Holly's channel for a couple years now and it's great. I put on a bunch of Covid weight and watching her videos taught me a lot about how to change my eating and lose weight in a healthy and sustainable way. She's usually so bubbly, it was interesting to see this more serious side of her as well. Really excited to see her on the show!

    • @pryme2013
      @pryme2013 ปีที่แล้ว

      Covid causes weight gain? It sure is a jack of all trades.

    • @kathleenmay3530
      @kathleenmay3530 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What is her last name so I can find her channel?😊

    • @Chasebald
      @Chasebald ปีที่แล้ว

      Holly Baxter

    • @pinarofdag
      @pinarofdag 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@kathleenmay3530I was about to ask the same question.. Thanks

    • @pinarofdag
      @pinarofdag 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ChasebaldTx !

  • @taliplatt5783
    @taliplatt5783 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Great episode, I can really relate to sooo much of what Holly talked about. Thank you Peter

  • @christinamason3297
    @christinamason3297 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    She is so intelligent, beautiful, charismatic, and so strong and brave! She is absolutely so gorgeous and powerful! Having this level of vulnerability is so so so brave! 💕

  • @kathleenmay3530
    @kathleenmay3530 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The interviewer, Dr. Attia is so skilled at asking questions. Holly you’re gorgeous inside and out!! And, you’re so good at explaining things.

  • @nishachauhan2343
    @nishachauhan2343 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Holly, thank you for sharing your story. I appreciate you.

  • @heidimancini
    @heidimancini 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Holly is inspiring and relatable . I have struggled with emotional trauma and have worked through this my whole life. At the age of 40 I decided to change my entire lifestyle and eating. I competed at the age of 43-50. Now I teach workshops on nutrition , self esteem building etc. trying to help others with eating disorders and lifestyle changes. I have gone through periods of differing eating disorders. Of course Holly has an amazing body that she has built with discipline and consistency. I hate to say , most women are insecure and don’t really trust or like each other. I have had haters too. It’s ok. I have many people I have inspired and helped. That’s what matters. Thank you for this information and having her as a guest.

  • @tessawollard1040
    @tessawollard1040 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This has been incredibly helpful to me! Thank you for sharing all this, Holly! I can completely relate!

  • @deborahpiquant2523
    @deborahpiquant2523 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Such a great show. My heart goes out to her.

  • @denisemc607
    @denisemc607 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks for being so brave and public with your story - wow. There is no quick fix but 12 step works for me as long as I 'work it' and challenge my stinking thinking. Weight training is fantastic - I love feeling strong! It is really hard to get bulky.

  • @thefunctionaloncologist7811
    @thefunctionaloncologist7811 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wonderful information! Thank you!

  • @tortugamenor
    @tortugamenor 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Great interview! I mostly appreciated the last part when they talked about hormonal changes and life changes (aging) impact in energy levels and training. However I’d like more focus on this. Women we experience peri-menopause, menopause, that’s a loooot of years. I felt the first part of the show was too focused on young women, with no stress. I am 41 and since last year I noticed how the capacity to gain strength and muscle is fundamentally different from before. Stress affects me in an insane way now. This is conversation was really good at brining a lot of these things up but definitely more is needed! Thanks both for this interview.

  • @casianacasiana
    @casianacasiana ปีที่แล้ว +9

    loved how mature you speak about your hardship, and family distress, being so thoughtful and understanding of your evryones journey, that is true maturity. I appreciate this topics being talked about more, and the body image we assume is target, thanks to screen life

    • @Im_Really_Jesus_4real
      @Im_Really_Jesus_4real ปีที่แล้ว

      Not the podcast for that, facts and science. Not emotions and feelings

  • @noemagno
    @noemagno 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Peter, this podcast helped me a lot. I got two copies of your book Outlive. I hope you can write another book. Thanks a lot to Holly and You for this talk.

  • @AdnAwd24
    @AdnAwd24 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    thank you so much for introducing us to Holly,
    If you can have Holly for another round to talk specifically about eating disorders and body image during weight loss journey.

  • @running4fun863
    @running4fun863 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thanks for this honest brilliant podcasts. I struggled with eating disorder and fitness was the way out .

  • @carlaprata8119
    @carlaprata8119 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Many thanks to you both for this informative and rich podcast!

  • @sunnystephanie1842
    @sunnystephanie1842 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The empathy and grace of this goddess is inspiring .. thank you for sharing your story🦋

  • @peyin6
    @peyin6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    podcast is sooooo much better in person!

  • @Libertyloadedwellness
    @Libertyloadedwellness 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I feel like we lived the same life. Minus a few nuances, this is eerily relatable. Thank you for sharing, and I will certainly be following your journey.

  • @samantha-kemp-therapy
    @samantha-kemp-therapy ปีที่แล้ว

    Such brilliant questions and discussion

  • @traceyann76
    @traceyann76 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Omgosh I just watched this interview.. Thank you for sharing your past challenges.. No one really knows anyones journey .. ❤

  • @pinksole_rach
    @pinksole_rach 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    loved hearing Holly's story, can't wait to follow her.

  • @sd2252
    @sd2252 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you! Great information!

  • @ghadasmallworld
    @ghadasmallworld ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Get it Holly!! So excited to see you on here.

  • @barbbrazes869
    @barbbrazes869 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for this interesting interview!

  • @MindfulSimpleSolutions
    @MindfulSimpleSolutions 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Amazing information!🙏I can testify to the fact that awareness and conscious eating ( less sugar, eliminating fast foods) and daily movement (aerobic and anaerobic exercises) benefit the body, even during our natural hormonal changes during our 40s and above.

  • @felipearbustopotd
    @felipearbustopotd 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for uploading and sharing.

  • @pkstiever
    @pkstiever ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Holly is SO RIGHT about the importance of HRT! Quality of life is immeasurably better when the hormone levels are brought back up where they should be.

    • @anneg7411
      @anneg7411 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Except that after menopause, maybe our hormones *should* be lower because that's how our bodies were designed by our creator. In my mind, thinking older women need to replace hormones to mimic levels from when we were younger is no different than thinking we should "fix" wrinkles in your skin with artificial fillers. Accepting that our bodies change with age and continuing to challenge ourselves with resistance training without falling for all of the other pressures isn't a bad thing, and I say this
      from experience as a post-menopausal woman.

    • @bonnieprestel4093
      @bonnieprestel4093 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Except when the lack of estrogen and progesterone disrupt your life that you can't function, or hold a job, or have intimacy and are in pain every day, hormone replacement therapy (bio identical) is very much needed and a safe way to feel better and enjoy life again.
      @@anneg7411

  • @carolynerickson6417
    @carolynerickson6417 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I appreciated Holly's story and can very much relate. I was a gymnast with bulemia in college. At 60 years old, I still have a terrible relationship with food. Sadly, that feeling never goes away even tho I do not have the disorder any longer. Thank you for sharing.

  • @robinbush1431
    @robinbush1431 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Holly is so inspiring.

  • @jabon112
    @jabon112 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Wow, first one highlighting the intimate struggles of females. Thank you to both of you for making this available.

  • @elizabethgallegos8087
    @elizabethgallegos8087 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Holly you are a gorgeous and inspiring woman! Thank you for sharing your experiences, you give me insight and hope. Thank you!

  • @SusheeNzeutem
    @SusheeNzeutem ปีที่แล้ว

    thank you for this great interview. Helps a lot

  • @valentinajerenec3511
    @valentinajerenec3511 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Now this is an incredible woman! Such an inspiration❤

  • @Lisa-ny2mr
    @Lisa-ny2mr ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Still making my way through the podcast but wanted to thank Holly for sharing her story. I have been battling obesity all my life, but in many ways I was able to relate to the psychological aspect of her story.
    Further in, Peter, you mentioned Orangetheory fitness. I attend OTF 4-5 weeks and on my “off” days, I work as an RN. I have been curious about your opinion of OTF and HIIT style workouts for the overall goal of health and long term physical fitness.

  • @Silvia-0
    @Silvia-0 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Also, that is so interesting that you telling yourself you would no longer binge and purge is what helped you stop. I had the same exact experience. I always felt like it seemed ridiculous because for years I had “wanted” to stop. But there was something different the final times I told myself no more.. I truly meant that it was not an option anymore to binge and purge. Once I got past the first few months, I realized my urges to binge/purge were basically gone. It felt like my brain reset. 7 years later I haven’t binged or purged again. Sometimes I overeat, but the important thing is how you frame it. Now if I eat more than I “should’ve” I just wait until I’m hungry to eat again. No punishment for it, I just follow my body’s cues. I will say that the body image piece of the eating disorder is harder to get over in my experience. I’m still working on that, but it no longer controls my life.

  • @FatForWeightLoss
    @FatForWeightLoss ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved this!

  • @samantha-kemp-therapy
    @samantha-kemp-therapy ปีที่แล้ว

    Incredibly important discussion.

  • @Jean-yn6ef
    @Jean-yn6ef ปีที่แล้ว +9

    💚🏜️ great message, thank you for sharing the importance of spirituality and your faith 💚

  • @Maine931
    @Maine931 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow she is so inspirational! I just subscribed to her channel. She is awesome!

  • @kathleen4376
    @kathleen4376 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This was very specific and helpful in framing my expectations for healthy realistic , weight training program. One pound of lean muscle takes 8 weeks and 1.8 grams protein per pound . Thanks for the video links to the pull ups, hamstring curls and RDL’s

    • @niritzagofsky7473
      @niritzagofsky7473 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi Kathleen. I believe she said 1.8 grams protein per kilo.

  • @MyShirin2010
    @MyShirin2010 ปีที่แล้ว

    Fantastic info Holly! ❤️🙏🏽

  • @shelleygower9843
    @shelleygower9843 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    really enjoyed this conversation

  • @newbeginnings1543
    @newbeginnings1543 ปีที่แล้ว

    Holly THANK YOU!

  • @awyman05
    @awyman05 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing podcast Ty

  • @anneg7411
    @anneg7411 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I posted this as a reply to another comment, but wanted to include it as a separate comment for any other peri or post menopausal women out there who may have watched this. Please don't get discouraged just because you don't have time to work out like a body builder preparing for an event. You can be a stronger and healthier version of yourself without spending hours in the gym every day and counting your calories... No two bodies are the same, but speaking from experience it IS possible to avoid (or reverse) post-menopausal weight gain and stay strong and fit as you age.
    I am not naturally muscular (to put it mildly), so I need to do regular resistance training to build and maintain muscle and not look and feel flabby and weak. I started weight training in high school (in the 1980s) but had stopped and was only doing "power" yoga and jogging for close to a decade while focusing on my family and other priorities. Then I started putting on visceral fat and losing muscle during menopause, and I knew I had to make some changes to counteract that. About a year and a half ago I drastically reduced my carb intake (I still cook and bake carbs for my family, just don't partake as much), increased my fat and protein intake, and started adding a bit of free weight training back to my routine. I gradually but easily lost most of the visceral fat (around my belly) and built some muscle back. I also tried to make sure I fasted at least 12 hours before having coffee (with cream) or breakfast.
    Just a few months ago I upped the intensity of my free weight routine and now try to do about 30 minutes of dumbbell exercises every other day in addition to a bit of jogging, biking, and walking throughout the week. It's a commitment that I take seriously, but it doesn't run my life.
    The added resistance training made a HUGE difference in the way my clothes fit and the way I feel. I've always prioritized health and eaten pretty well so I wasn't in terrible shape to start with, but my case was similar to the example Dr. Attia used; at 5'10" I weigh about 140 pounds and my weight probably hasn't changed much if at all (I don't own a scale so I'm not sure), but as I've lost fat and gained muscle my clothes fit way better (bras in particular had started feeling tight and uncomfortable) and I feel better than I have in years.
    In the past few weeks I've added in some more extended intermittent fasting as I've learned about the benefits it can have on the immune system. I don't weigh foods or count calories as that just seems disordered and obsessive, and I wouldn't dream of using HRT to try to mimic the hormones I had when I was younger and cycling. It's okay to age naturally, but it's nice to be the healthiest version of ourselves that we can be. I find that when I pray and ask for His guidance, He answers. "Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new." ~2 Corinthians 5:17 💕

  • @sarahgordon2597
    @sarahgordon2597 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    thank you so much for sharing your story. I can identify with much of your experience in my own history with exercise and ed, its hard to talk about :)

  • @juliedurant5837
    @juliedurant5837 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love the female focused health and wellness content, keep it coming . Holly brought me back to competition training days at 24 set me up to strength training for life. I would say its 75% diet. I needed this kick in the ars.