@@btstalks7947 No dude... She has giving always truthfull messeges .. I thing u can not able to understand her speech, PLz hear more and more time thenonly u can understand and get the points clearly ..
what awareness will she bring this toxic women will tell stupidity that red and vibrant colour lipstick is one the reason for rape adhukk dhan ivanagal invite pannuma
உண்மையான வார்த்தைகள் சுதந்திரம் என்பது எதற்கு என்று கூட தெரியாமல் சில ஆண்களும் பெண்களும் நடந்து கொள்வது தான் எல்லாம் தவறுகளுக்கும் பதில்கள் ஆக இருக்கிறது. கண் போகும் முன்னே சூரிய நமஸ்காரம் செய்ய வேண்டும். தனிமனித ஒழுக்கம் மிகவும் தேவையாக இருக்கிறது🙏💕.
She has made a great blunder statement about women’s clothing. No matter how a woman clothes herself, no one has right to touch her or make a remark about her Dressing is each one’s right
Then you have not understood Men. Men's brains work different than Women's. I agree we can be self restraint but that is for highly evolved, matured, seen it all Men, not for all.
@@RameshkvRamesh-qy6pe first of all what is the problem in exposing u r asking this blunder because u have seen the people in this country only and exposing doesn't means sexual concent.
@@RameshkvRamesh-qy6pe First of all why men are so worried about women’s clothing ?! Are you the moral police officer for all women ?! Come on ! 🤷🏻♀️ Dressing is a matter of comfort for the weather and place. If you are a sick minded country fellow, it’s your problem alone. No one cares about you at all
There are a small percentage of people who get sexually attracted to young children, they are called as pedophiles in medical term, they find joy in molesting only young children. Its a psychological disorder.
கவர்ச்சிகரமாக உடை அணியும் பிரபலமான பெண்கள் கற்பழிக்கப்படுவது இல்லை! மாறாக சிறுமிகளும், வயதானவர்களும், வெளியில் சொல்ல முடியாதவர்களுமே கற்பழிக்கப்படுகிறார்கள்! இது Dr.Shalini ஒரு நேர்காணலில் கூறினார்!
@@arunaselvi7343 ordinary peoples can't go near the famous peoples : they have bouncers they will through them out they will come outside with tight security
@@samsonxavier997 its not mental disorder. They know what they doing is wrong. They can control it. And not all pedo's are abusive/molest children. And not all child molestors are pedophile
Okay is she saying because men is attacking or approaching women because she is getting dressed sexually. Getting dressed is individual choice that shouldn’t be based on society’s choice or what others would think. This makes me think we don’t even have freedom to wear the clothes she/he deserves ? This is what should be changed in Indian society and humans mentality. Based on miss Shalini’s story “everyone please wear burka” so everyone would respect you.
@@btstalks7947 a girl cannot walk nude ok showing exposive clothes is sexualising the body so.dont anyhow support without knowledge understand what she saying
What Ms Shalini is saying is simply victim shaming/ blaming! Appalling! Can you think of any particular style of clothing which will stop abuse/ eve-teasing of women?! Advising girls on the colour of lipstick to wear - for God’s sake - how regressive can Indian thinking get?! What the first Lady spoke is so valid- teach boys/ men to respect the female species as humans- at home/ in schools/ in workplaces!
Azaga toxicity aa inject pannitteenga .. dressing depends on one's desire and fashion sence and behaving proper is one necessary duty even if a a person is half nude or even nude you are not given the right to express your sexual feelings in anyways without the opposite persons concent....neenga doctor aa irundhalm ungaloda view point ivvlo toxic aa irukk.
@@RameshkvRamesh-qy6pe stupid question! I'll complaint but I'll not show my sexual intentions to him, u got it? But here man doesn't behave properly even if a woman dressed up properly they are looking at her like slut if they want you don't know what is actually happening
@@RameshkvRamesh-qy6pe common!! even if the entire world changes one will not change if their own way of thinking and view point changes and that's what is clearly happening in baby rape case, are they showing themselves as sex object then how they r getting raped?
அருமையான பதிவு மேம் ... நெறய பேருக்கு இது வெலங்கமாட்டேங்குது குறிப்பா பெரியாரிய பெண்களுக்கு .. பெரியாரின் கருத்துகளை தவறாக புரிந்துகொண்ட பென்களுக்கு .... 💯
@@Berrygirl6784 if she is harmed/molested/raped… is that her mistake…this is called victim blaming… everything also u blame the women..its the most easiest thing to do
@@undercoveragent1182 there is no connection between sexual attraction and rapes. Dress causes sexual attraction not rapes. Rapes are 100 percent that guy's fault. But the revealing dress will cause a sexual attraction so by wearing those dress they are objectifying themselves.
@@pot8735 are men that weak… tat easily get attracted… that means something wrong with that men isnt it… avlo weak… the advice u r giving have been given a million times. That is my point…mayb just mayb men should change they re way of looking… like how they will look at their mother or sister to outside women… will they get sexually attracted to their mother and sister… no right athe tan my point …
@@undercoveragent1182 for example when a sister changes her upper body clothes her brother will go out of the room but when a brother changes his upper body clothes her sister can stay in that room coz it won't disturb. So when a men reaches puberty man will feel that way when he sees the women body no one taught us. It's because of hormones. Learn some science hormones can't be controlled. It's not we think that way but we feel that way. Thinking is associated with brain and feeling is associated with hormones . There is a difference between harassment and sexual attraction. Harassment is because of uncontrollable mind but the sexual attraction is because of hormones. And hormones can't be controlled. Know some science.
Rapes, harassment are because of the uncontrollable mind of a person but the sexual attraction is because of men's hormones. There is no connection between dress and harassment.
what u r feeling same? dress nala rape nadakudhu na so what answer do you have for all the babies who are raped, are they wearing lipstick or atractive dress??? think little atleast, before clapping for these blunder
Intellectual, so the point is how women dress does make an impact in opposite genders actions or assumption or simulating core biological signals. What If this was told my a man?
What was said can be right or wrong but surely can be misinterpreted by many and justify crimes 🙃 Except for the objectifying point, I don't agree to any single point of her completely, but yes to a certain extent but these doesn't matter if a man's mentality is right, no use of exposing or covering completely, if a man's intention isn't right, there is no use of covering head to toe too, he will still see a woman as flesh. Included personal and known experiences.. 🙏 I dont this is the only thing psychology says about why men objectify women.. She should have either given a clear and complete point or kept quiet instead of almost rejecting the point of education to men regarding gender... People would just comment the way SHE dress, SHE objectify, SHE smiles, all blames on 'SHE' and HE will be treated like a king...
I don't agree. How is feminity related to fertility? How can she talk abt a transgender like that, it's their wish to choose their attire and the stalking of transgender may not be becos of their dress but becos of their vulnerability to violence since society do not care for them. Leggings is okay it's sexy, what abt shorts, it's a comfort dress, not a sex signal, most boys wear it in summer but no one gets attracted or takes it as a sex signal but girls wearing shorts for comfort is taken as sex signal... it's outright nonsense... first thing first is to groom boys into well mannered being from birth. The sexist jokes, stereotypes, moral codes for women etc is the means by which society teaches him that girls attire can be taken as sex signals.. stop this non sense at least from now... Molesting can happen to anyone irrespective of dress, there are thousands happening this very minute and half of the cases are done to girls who never wear anything sexy... And term sexy dressing is vague... to a boy brought up in a village, Jean may be sexy, to someone brought up in city, sleeveless may be sexy, to someone brought up in western countries, bikini may be sexy, so should we analyse the boys we might meet that day and dress accordingly... this very speech can justify a boy's need to force sex from someone based on their attire... this perception is wrong.. raping and sexual assault is never justified and the solution is sex education and self defense practise for all boys and girls.
So why do women or men groom themselves or choose attires just to make them feel good ??? definitely not, they are trying to showup or showcase themselves against their opposite genders, you have completely misinterpreted what she said.. and your statements are not gender neutral it is completely biased except the last statement
@@luifermorningstar8183 I got her point but I don't agree because it's again a victim blaming, that the person getting molested is due to their attire. I was specifying the female gender because 90% of the victim blaming happens to them. And yes there are a lot of people out there who groom for themselves rather than attracting other gender I can vouch for that. Most people here will agree.
@@ratnakanagavel5825 you're again speaking for the elite, and your views are from the top tier, she's speaks from, what she has seen directly from her experience, she's not making up things there, You get judged based on your looks and it's pretty common, no one is opressing them to wear only certain clothes, she's insisting on to wear them at appropriate place that's all, She clearly states that a women trying to reveal her body is weak, where do you stand by it??
Mens sexual desires based on body looking. If a girls body parts visible it will attract him more bioLogically and that girl get high attention among all other girls in a crowd. That is what discussed here. She is telling to girls don't show you as a sexy doll. Dont fall in that trap. Because that is not a feminism. That is what she try to convey
ஓவியா, ஷாலினி. இவர்களை நேற்று வரை பெண்ணிய வாதிகள் என்று நினைத்தேன். பிரான்ஸ் தமிழச்சி புட்டு புட்டு வைக்கிறாங்கல.. அப்புறம் தான்.. இவர்கள் யார் என்ற உண்மையை புரிந்து கொண்டேன்.. தூ..தூ..
பெண்களின் சுயசார்பு என்பது முற்றிலும் பொருளாதார ரீதியிலானது. ஒரு குடும்பத்தில் தலைவனின் பொருளாதார தோல்விகள் அந்த குடும்பத்தை பாதிக்கலாம் ஆனால் குடும்ப தலைவியின் தொழில் முயற்சி, முன்னேற்றத்தை வங்கிகளின் சிபில் முறை செயல்பாடுகள் தடுக்கிறது. அழிக்கிறது
A girl's dressing is not always to attract men. It can also be her way of admiring her self by way of presenting her. Is it a fault to admire herself in fashionable clothes. Unless it isn't too revealing and open everywhere.
Dressing as sexy i.e revealing or tight dress exposes women body structure. Men are attracted to women bodies it's because of hormones. But the women say they dress for themselves it's their point of view but it plays a role in attraction for men coz that's how our biology works.
@@pot8735 according to biology is child also attractive to men because rape happens with children too. As well if the same mother or sister wears will the person find it attractive to their structure. Who says women aren't attracted to men who is walking in the road they do get attracted by the arms, bicep and to their body structure it's just we don't pounce on them. As hormones work in our body our brain and common sense also works. In some case only hormone but brain doesn't then it's applicable to them.
@@sharonmathew3241 according to biology men won't get attracted to children.first u need to understand that men won't sexually attracted towards children and older women there is particular age range men are attracted to women's body coz it's a sign of fertility that's how the evolution happened to select a mate the women breasts are a sign of fertility that shows a women that she can breastfeed the baby. The waist to hip region attraction is because it shows the sign that a women can carry a baby and men attracted towards leg areas from the standpoint of evolutionary biology, we could definitely point to strong, shapely legs as an indicator of fitness, and no doubt human legs have evolved in terms of both length and shape because of both natural and sexual selection.so the attraction is based on the reproduction process to select a mate.men have to pass down the sperms to the fertile women to reproduce This is a evolutionary understanding,This is hardwired in our genes that happened like millions of years.so by the evolution the hormones work that way. So the hormones can't be controlled if the hormones didn't work the men will not be interested in sex. And women won't get the same sexual attraction as men coz women's attraction is based on the men's social hierarchy, dominant, height, braveness, chivalry, competence and only specific body types so for women the attraction is not only the men's body but for men the attraction is only women's body.and u r confused between the sexual attraction and rapes, rapes are because of the man who grew up in bad environment and rapes happens because of the uncontrollable mind but the sexual attraction is because of hormones. There is no relationship between sexual attraction and rapes. Sexual attraction is because of hormones and rapes are because of uncontrollable mind.
Hormones in a women doesn't know a man social status, his salary etc. It same as men they do like the look, their moustache, beard, biceps, chest, arms abdomen, thigh, leg and on... Attraction isnt necessary that he is educated or rich. You may have a misconceptions. Yet in a men hormone works on peak beating another human part which is brain not allowing to think what is right and what's the border. We know that it's men choice of wearing shorts or vest indeed getting we attracting to it while they walk around but it's their Comfortable until it's nudity. As well hormones does work after getting married but it's also our Brain our inner conscious which works stopping us and make us stick with one man. According to biology if women or men will listen to hormones after marriage and keeps on attracting to all women and men. It's difficult to stay in a marriage life. Can anyone say that no body gets attracted after marriage looking at a man or woman our hormone does work even then. But we make use of our brain and conscious to differentiate what right and what wrong. Hormone can't over power us. Many of them keep in control.
@@sharonmathew3241 if u know some science u will know that hormones can't be controlled. Hormones also don't know women bodies but when we see women bodies we get that feel because of hormones same way women don't know the male social behavior and competence but when u experience in real life u will feel that way because of hormones. U don't know anything about science.
However we cannot justify female sexual abuse . If someone who visits supermarket is tempted to eat an expensive choclate he knows well he has to pay for it or obtain something in a legal way . Otherwise he is well aware of consequences he has to face if he steals. Similarly a women also when a meare product has so much safety why not a Women .
It it's not just about dressing but also the mindset about transgender. Even if the transgender was dressed like a man, it would have been the same behaviour by the perverted men around
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I like shalini mam... She is always giving geniune and fact speech... I am her fan..
S bro .semmaya pesranga
Rethink and tell wether she is telling right
But being a doctor giving wrong information is very bad.
@@btstalks7947 No dude... She has giving always truthfull messeges .. I thing u can not able to understand her speech, PLz hear more and more time thenonly u can understand and get the points clearly ..
@@PriyaPriya-mm6cp Yes sister , You are Correct..
சாலினியின் பேச்சை கேட்பதற்கு மிக பெரிய கூட்டமே காத்துக்கிடக்கிறது
Athil nanum oruvan
True
Shalini lecture is required to be arranged in every college and she can make the awareness in the society.
what awareness will she bring this toxic women will tell stupidity that red and vibrant colour lipstick is one the reason for rape adhukk dhan ivanagal invite pannuma
உண்மையான வார்த்தைகள் சுதந்திரம் என்பது எதற்கு என்று கூட தெரியாமல் சில ஆண்களும் பெண்களும் நடந்து கொள்வது தான் எல்லாம் தவறுகளுக்கும் பதில்கள் ஆக இருக்கிறது. கண் போகும் முன்னே சூரிய நமஸ்காரம் செய்ய வேண்டும். தனிமனித ஒழுக்கம் மிகவும் தேவையாக இருக்கிறது🙏💕.
She has made a great blunder statement about women’s clothing.
No matter how a woman clothes herself, no one has right to touch her or make a remark about her
Dressing is each one’s right
First of all why women wants to expose there body? Answer me this.
Then you have not understood Men. Men's brains work different than Women's. I agree we can be self restraint but that is for highly evolved, matured, seen it all Men, not for all.
@@RameshkvRamesh-qy6pe first of all what is the problem in exposing u r asking this blunder because u have seen the people in this country only and exposing doesn't means sexual concent.
@JOHN Xina i can go without dress if I want to. It’s my choice.
But you have no rights to come and touch me or molest me or rape me
Mind it !
@@RameshkvRamesh-qy6pe
First of all why men are so worried about women’s clothing ?!
Are you the moral police officer for all women ?!
Come on ! 🤷🏻♀️
Dressing is a matter of comfort for the weather and place.
If you are a sick minded country fellow, it’s your problem alone. No one cares about you at all
நான் நினைத்தது எல்லாமே இங்கு கூறி இருக்கிறீர்கள் இவ்வாறு தான் நானும் பெண்களை எதிர்பார்க்கிறேன்
Shalini Maam is very practical .Respect your body ,thats the most beautiful thing a feminine. gender should do.
I accept her statements to certain level but how come the kids are being hurt and even 70 Year old grand MA is being assaulted?
There are a small percentage of people who get sexually attracted to young children, they are called as pedophiles in medical term, they find joy in molesting only young children. Its a psychological disorder.
கவர்ச்சிகரமாக உடை அணியும் பிரபலமான பெண்கள் கற்பழிக்கப்படுவது இல்லை! மாறாக சிறுமிகளும், வயதானவர்களும், வெளியில் சொல்ல முடியாதவர்களுமே கற்பழிக்கப்படுகிறார்கள்! இது Dr.Shalini ஒரு நேர்காணலில் கூறினார்!
@@arunaselvi7343 ordinary peoples can't go near the famous peoples : they have bouncers they will through them out they will come outside with tight security
There are always exceptions with medical condition, we can only talk about majority.
@@samsonxavier997 its not mental disorder. They know what they doing is wrong. They can control it. And not all pedo's are abusive/molest children. And not all child molestors are pedophile
உங்களைப் போன்ற நல்ல பெண்கள் நாட்டில் அதிகம் நீங்கள் கூறும் வார்த்தைகளை கடைப்பிடிக்க வேண்டும்👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌
Okay is she saying because men is attacking or approaching women because she is getting dressed sexually.
Getting dressed is individual choice that shouldn’t be based on society’s choice or what others would think.
This makes me think we don’t even have freedom to wear the clothes she/he deserves ?
This is what should be changed in Indian society and humans mentality.
Based on miss Shalini’s story “everyone please wear burka” so everyone would respect you.
As the first time a matured speech from a woman.
As the millionth time a stupid comment from a man
இதே விசயத்தினை ஒரு ஆண் பேசினால் தமிழா தமிழா கரு பழனியப்பன் கொதித்தெழுந்துவிடுவார்.. வாழ்க நூறு வருடம் சாலினி Dr.
When fully covered kid, teenager, adult and even older women are being rapped When they are given any signals… what is the reason for that
difference between Predators and perverts ....
Extraordinary speech mam
super super ..Madam..😘😘😘😘
Excellent speech Dr. salani
Stupidity have become excellence
Shalini mam speech it's really true
yes truely toxic
shalini ......good speech
rude speech
Very good argument by Dr shalini... Glamour dress is sexual identity...
Vare vah stupidity level 2.1 glamorous became sexual identity because gaj directors portraited it in that way to the society
@@btstalks7947 a girl cannot walk nude ok showing exposive clothes is sexualising the body so.dont anyhow support without knowledge understand what she saying
@@btstalks7947 know some science. It's biological.
@@pot8735 stupidity is not science she is a toxic person thts all
@@btstalks7947 so science is stupidity ah. Men are biologically attracted towards women bodies it's because of hormones. It's a science not stupidity.
Thanks brother for sharing
What Ms Shalini is saying is simply victim shaming/ blaming! Appalling! Can you think of any particular style of clothing which will stop abuse/ eve-teasing of women?! Advising girls on the colour of lipstick to wear - for God’s sake - how regressive can Indian thinking get?!
What the first Lady spoke is so valid- teach boys/ men to respect the female species as humans- at home/ in schools/ in workplaces!
Azaga toxicity aa inject pannitteenga .. dressing depends on one's desire and fashion sence and behaving proper is one necessary duty even if a a person is half nude or even nude you are not given the right to express your sexual feelings in anyways without the opposite persons concent....neenga doctor aa irundhalm ungaloda view point ivvlo toxic aa irukk.
If a men comes half nude in front of you. Wont u file a complaint? Its his fashion desire then why complain him?
Her point was clear why women want to make themself a sexual object instead making men realise she is not a sexual object.
@@RameshkvRamesh-qy6pe stupid question! I'll complaint but I'll not show my sexual intentions to him, u got it? But here man doesn't behave properly even if a woman dressed up properly they are looking at her like slut if they want you don't know what is actually happening
@@RameshkvRamesh-qy6pe common!! even if the entire world changes one will not change if their own way of thinking and view point changes and that's what is clearly happening in baby rape case, are they showing themselves as sex object then how they r getting raped?
@@RameshkvRamesh-qy6pe exactly yhey say harassement these women are biased
which episode is this one ? Can any one please comment ?
அருமையான பதிவு மேம் ... நெறய பேருக்கு இது வெலங்கமாட்டேங்குது குறிப்பா பெரியாரிய பெண்களுக்கு .. பெரியாரின் கருத்துகளை தவறாக புரிந்துகொண்ட பென்களுக்கு .... 💯
Full episode link plzzz😍
Wow nice speech
🤭
Thank you mam
Dr mam super🙏
Where i get full episode
❤🎉 சமுதாயத்தின் இதயம் சாலினி
Whatever a women do its a mistake… we have heard so much of this already… mayb some advice can keep for the men…
Men also make mistake but women always justify their mistakes never accept
@@Berrygirl6784 if she is harmed/molested/raped… is that her mistake…this is called victim blaming… everything also u blame the women..its the most easiest thing to do
@@undercoveragent1182 there is no connection between sexual attraction and rapes. Dress causes sexual attraction not rapes. Rapes are 100 percent that guy's fault. But the revealing dress will cause a sexual attraction so by wearing those dress they are objectifying themselves.
@@pot8735 are men that weak… tat easily get attracted… that means something wrong with that men isnt it… avlo weak… the advice u r giving have been given a million times. That is my point…mayb just mayb men should change they re way of looking… like how they will look at their mother or sister to outside women… will they get sexually attracted to their mother and sister… no right athe tan my point …
@@undercoveragent1182 for example when a sister changes her upper body clothes her brother will go out of the room but when a brother changes his upper body clothes her sister can stay in that room coz it won't disturb. So when a men reaches puberty man will feel that way when he sees the women body no one taught us. It's because of hormones. Learn some science hormones can't be controlled. It's not we think that way but we feel that way. Thinking is associated with brain and feeling is associated with hormones . There is a difference between harassment and sexual attraction. Harassment is because of uncontrollable mind but the sexual attraction is because of hormones. And hormones can't be controlled. Know some science.
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Super speAch .......poruppuhal kuritha karuththukkal arumai
Which episode is this... If any one knows what is topic and date please let me know
S14 E2510 Mar 2013
Excellent mam
excellent it's true madam most of people admire dress code.better girls can change the dress code
Sari apram yen kuzhandhai vankodumai (child rape,child abuse ) epdi nadakudhu @shalini mam, appo nenga jeans podradhu apdi nenachitha podringla
Ithu muttaal thanamana kelvi child rape pannuranvanga pery pesophilles sex avangala oru mana noyaaligal. Athukum aragorai dress podirathayum compare panni justify pannathinga. Exposive pota ellaruma sexual paaka thaan seiyuvaanga
Rapes, harassment are because of the uncontrollable mind of a person but the sexual attraction is because of men's hormones. There is no connection between dress and harassment.
but her speech about women dress is contradicting to her own other videos
is correct madam
Well said mam 👍👍👍
Super mam , salute for ever mam,my feelings also same😎😎😎😎😎😎
what u r feeling same? dress nala rape nadakudhu na so what answer do you have for all the babies who are raped, are they wearing lipstick or atractive dress???
think little atleast, before clapping for these blunder
Intellectual, so the point is how women dress does make an impact in opposite genders actions or assumption or simulating core biological signals.
What If this was told my a man?
What is the episode no
Indha mam sonna excellent.
Idhaye Muslims sonnalo illai
Saidalo avange pengalai
Adakku murai paduthurange.
Enna double standed people.
First of all ivanga sollradh thapp dhan so idhe maari yar pesanalm it's stupidity only atleast in 2022 you might have realised it
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Superb mam❤
Super mam
Super speech akka
What was said can be right or wrong but surely can be misinterpreted by many and justify crimes 🙃 Except for the objectifying point, I don't agree to any single point of her completely, but yes to a certain extent but these doesn't matter if a man's mentality is right, no use of exposing or covering completely, if a man's intention isn't right, there is no use of covering head to toe too, he will still see a woman as flesh. Included personal and known experiences.. 🙏 I dont this is the only thing psychology says about why men objectify women.. She should have either given a clear and complete point or kept quiet instead of almost rejecting the point of education to men regarding gender... People would just comment the way SHE dress, SHE objectify, SHE smiles, all blames on 'SHE' and HE will be treated like a king...
Great shalini mam🌹👍🏻
Super Shalini mam
Brilliant women
I don't agree. How is feminity related to fertility? How can she talk abt a transgender like that, it's their wish to choose their attire and the stalking of transgender may not be becos of their dress but becos of their vulnerability to violence since society do not care for them. Leggings is okay it's sexy, what abt shorts, it's a comfort dress, not a sex signal, most boys wear it in summer but no one gets attracted or takes it as a sex signal but girls wearing shorts for comfort is taken as sex signal... it's outright nonsense... first thing first is to groom boys into well mannered being from birth. The sexist jokes, stereotypes, moral codes for women etc is the means by which society teaches him that girls attire can be taken as sex signals.. stop this non sense at least from now... Molesting can happen to anyone irrespective of dress, there are thousands happening this very minute and half of the cases are done to girls who never wear anything sexy...
And term sexy dressing is vague... to a boy brought up in a village, Jean may be sexy, to someone brought up in city, sleeveless may be sexy, to someone brought up in western countries, bikini may be sexy, so should we analyse the boys we might meet that day and dress accordingly... this very speech can justify a boy's need to force sex from someone based on their attire... this perception is wrong.. raping and sexual assault is never justified and the solution is sex education and self defense practise for all boys and girls.
You are exactly right but see how blindly people are supporting her
So why do women or men groom themselves or choose attires just to make them feel good ??? definitely not, they are trying to showup or showcase themselves against their opposite genders, you have completely misinterpreted what she said..
and your statements are not gender neutral it is completely biased except the last statement
@@luifermorningstar8183 I got her point but I don't agree because it's again a victim blaming, that the person getting molested is due to their attire. I was specifying the female gender because 90% of the victim blaming happens to them. And yes there are a lot of people out there who groom for themselves rather than attracting other gender I can vouch for that. Most people here will agree.
@@ratnakanagavel5825 you're again speaking for the elite, and your views are from the top tier, she's speaks from, what she has seen directly from her experience, she's not making up things there, You get judged based on your looks and it's pretty common, no one is opressing them to wear only certain clothes, she's insisting on to wear them at appropriate place that's all,
She clearly states that a women trying to reveal her body is weak, where do you stand by it??
Mens sexual desires based on body looking. If a girls body parts visible it will attract him more bioLogically and that girl get high attention among all other girls in a crowd. That is what discussed here. She is telling to girls don't show you as a sexy doll. Dont fall in that trap. Because that is not a feminism. That is what she try to convey
Episode date pls
Very true
Completely misunderstanding about a social animal. In name of psycologist these people create a social disaster
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Episode ?
Dr mam speech super🙏 👍
பெண்களின் சுயசார்பு என்பது முற்றிலும் பொருளாதார ரீதியிலானது. ஒரு குடும்பத்தில் தலைவனின் பொருளாதார தோல்விகள் அந்த குடும்பத்தை பாதிக்கலாம் ஆனால் குடும்ப தலைவியின் தொழில் முயற்சி, முன்னேற்றத்தை வங்கிகளின் சிபில் முறை செயல்பாடுகள் தடுக்கிறது. அழிக்கிறது
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Season 14 Episode 25..
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shalini mam super
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Thats true
super mam
well said
Super madam
Incorrect statements made by Shalini 11 years back. I hope she will correct her opinions now.
What incorrect .....she is crt ....he know human mentality more then us.....
Then children and old ladies should not be subject to rape
the real feminists like this we need todays world
Well. ...good one u r important news
A girl's dressing is not always to attract men. It can also be her way of admiring her self by way of presenting her.
Is it a fault to admire herself in fashionable clothes. Unless it isn't too revealing and open everywhere.
Dressing as sexy i.e revealing or tight dress exposes women body structure. Men are attracted to women bodies it's because of hormones. But the women say they dress for themselves it's their point of view but it plays a role in attraction for men coz that's how our biology works.
@@pot8735 according to biology is child also attractive to men because rape happens with children too.
As well if the same mother or sister wears will the person find it attractive to their structure.
Who says women aren't attracted to men who is walking in the road they do get attracted by the arms, bicep and to their body structure it's just we don't pounce on them.
As hormones work in our body our brain and common sense also works.
In some case only hormone but brain doesn't then it's applicable to them.
@@sharonmathew3241 according to biology men won't get attracted to children.first u need to understand that men won't sexually attracted towards children and older women there is particular age range men are attracted to women's body coz it's a sign of fertility that's how the evolution happened to select a mate the women breasts are a sign of fertility that shows a women that she can breastfeed the baby. The waist to hip region attraction is because it shows the sign that a women can carry a baby and men attracted towards leg areas from the standpoint of evolutionary biology, we could definitely point to strong, shapely legs as an indicator of fitness, and no doubt human legs have evolved in terms of both length and shape because of both natural and sexual selection.so the attraction is based on the reproduction process to select a mate.men have to pass down the sperms to the fertile women to reproduce This is a evolutionary understanding,This is hardwired in our genes that happened like millions of years.so by the evolution the hormones work that way. So the hormones can't be controlled if the hormones didn't work the men will not be interested in sex. And women won't get the same sexual attraction as men coz women's attraction is based on the men's social hierarchy, dominant, height, braveness, chivalry, competence and only specific body types so for women the attraction is not only the men's body but for men the attraction is only women's body.and u r confused between the sexual attraction and rapes, rapes are because of the man who grew up in bad environment and rapes happens because of the uncontrollable mind but the sexual attraction is because of hormones. There is no relationship between sexual attraction and rapes. Sexual attraction is because of hormones and rapes are because of uncontrollable mind.
Hormones in a women doesn't know a man social status, his salary etc. It same as men they do like the look, their moustache, beard, biceps, chest, arms abdomen, thigh, leg and on...
Attraction isnt necessary that he is educated or rich. You may have a misconceptions. Yet in a men hormone works on peak beating another human part which is brain not allowing to think what is right and what's the border.
We know that it's men choice of wearing shorts or vest indeed getting we attracting to it while they walk around but it's their Comfortable until it's nudity.
As well hormones does work after getting married but it's also our Brain our inner conscious which works stopping us and make us stick with one man.
According to biology if women or men will listen to hormones after marriage and keeps on attracting to all women and men. It's difficult to stay in a marriage life.
Can anyone say that no body gets attracted after marriage looking at a man or woman our hormone does work even then.
But we make use of our brain and conscious to differentiate what right and what wrong.
Hormone can't over power us.
Many of them keep in control.
@@sharonmathew3241 if u know some science u will know that hormones can't be controlled. Hormones also don't know women bodies but when we see women bodies we get that feel because of hormones same way women don't know the male social behavior and competence but when u experience in real life u will feel that way because of hormones. U don't know anything about science.
Supera soneenga shalini mam
Well said
Yes , your body is not an exhibition, attract with your knowledge, and your character.
Looks nice she never watch professional models fashion show on TV.
Waiting for ur video
Semma
However we cannot justify female sexual abuse .
If someone who visits supermarket is tempted to eat an expensive choclate he knows well he has to pay for it or obtain something in a legal way . Otherwise he is well aware of consequences he has to face if he steals. Similarly a women also when a meare product has so much safety why not a Women .
All Feminist in one stage
Semma speech mam
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Good speech மேடம்
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Itha Shalini sonna onnum sollamattanga.
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It's very very true mam
O apdiya
It it's not just about dressing but also the mindset about transgender. Even if the transgender was dressed like a man, it would have been the same behaviour by the perverted men around
Aangalukku kannil thaan kollaru
First we should teach the men's to respect the women's
Do not comment on the dressing codes of the women's
@@lindamary1647 first we need to teach women some biology
Wow super shalini mam
Ppppaaa what a spychology behind dressing.i love u mam❤❤❤❤❤
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