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When you go to Thailand, learn their concept of losing, keeping or gaining face. That's very important in the Thai culture. Always be calm, friendly and smile, no matter what happens.
If you are falling in LOVE with a Bar Girl, don't ask about her past unless you don't care about the past. The way I look at it even in my past, it's like a grave, dig it up and it's going to stink, maybe not all of it but there will be parts you won't want to share.
@@truckn If it's real love and not platonic, both parties need to know everything about each other, or you are simply wasting your time in a relationship of secrets with no trust. IMO, going to Thailand to fall in love with someone who is simply looking for a tourist as a meal ticket for her family, is not ideal way to base a meaningful and structural relationship on.
@@MynamesEARN"all the time" is MUCH different than "don't ask at all". There are very big issues at play here: she could still be married, she fould be a bar girl, or she might have kids. Not knowing she had children then you have to take care of them...that's a huge issue to hide. Deception is not a foundation for a healthy relationship
Also, when visiting with her family show a smiling face and be very respectful. This is very important to her and how her family sees you and sees her. She doesn't want to have to explain why she brought home a bad example of a boyfriend.
Great information!! Thank you for sharing with us Khun Earn! I hope I can come visit your beautiful country one day!!! Thank you for making and sharing your videos!! Best wishes to you and your family!🙏❤❤
One thing ive learnt personally, is never to believe lots thai girls tell you, i had a long term partner, a professional career woman.... told so many untruths...
The other side of the argument about her past is, if she has nothing to be ashamed of, why wouldn't she offer to tell you about her past? My wife is Thai, she told me about her romantic history, and I told her about mine. Neither of us has anything to feel ashamed about or wants/needs to keep hidden. Given the state of the western societies today, and the problems they cause men in dating/romance, a Thai woman ought to understand and make the effort to show foreign men they are not like the women in the west.
Hi Earn we all have a past it’s what makes us the person we are today .If you truly love someone you love who they are now not who they once were . And never play games with someone’s heart this is not good. Thank you for all the information and support you also give us 🙏♥️
I would say with me being born and raised in The United States a first world country many people are impatient and short tempered bevause thats how the econony is in USA.Everything is always a hustle because with most jobs in USA if you are just a few minutes late they will fire you or even at school you come late you get detention.Sonwe were raised to hustle and to rush our way through everything.So you can only imagine there is always a lot of tension in USA so people express themselves through rap,anger and being aggressive.In Asia specifically southeast Asia it is entirety different culture and an entirely different way of life so it is hard for many of us to adjust to that.They don't teach us much about the rest of the world most definitely when it comes to countries that are completely different so we completely unaware about other cultures.
Not certain whether " don't ask, don't tell about the past" rule works for farangs. Agree with other points you make- 'Respect' is the cornerstone of Thai culture; if one expects it, then they need to show it to others. @Earn- For balance it would be great if you can make a similar video about what Thai girls should not do to farangs.
Hi Earn thank you for a video with lots of good information I have a lovely Thai girlfriend I always try to be respectful and always try to learn to learn about Thai culture and little by little the language I have made mistakes I am not perfect but my girlfriend will guide me or I ask her for help How should I do this or that ? Is it ok to touch or look at ? In any relationship it should be 50-50 If you think you are better or have no respect then you don’t deserve that man or lady If you are in Thailand try to learn some of the language My Thai is quite basic but I try and i find that if Thai people see you try I have found they will smile and try to help or talk with you . Look forward to another great video Best wishes 😊🙏
Respect, accepting others as they are and tolerance must come from both sides. Yes, when you are in another country, you should adapt to the customs a little, but not submit to them. Especially another person. So when it comes to sensitive things... the ladies should take a look at their own noses. Calling constantly and the jealousy should be curbed
What about kissing my Thai wife in public? I guess the same applies because not everyone will know we are married. I understand what you are saying about the downcast look when trying to get an answer to a question like directions or something. It's mostly just an exercise in frustration, it's not meant to be disrespectful towards you or anyone it's just a natural reaction. I will try to be more mindful but sadly my face always looks so serious yet that's not how I feel inside. Thanks for the tips. Be well.
The idea that I should not show negative emotion is something that often occurs when my girlfriend and I play pool. If she hits a bad shot, I will make a "not good" face and she gets upset. I realize from what you said she takes this as a disapproval of her, which it isn't. It's normal to for American to react emotionally to minor stuff, but I guess she is always seeking approval no matter the circumstance. You teach me something today.
I found the worst thing you can do when dealing with a Thai woman is to lie. Better to be an honest bad man, than a good man who lies, because if you get caught in a lie, Thai people will never trust you again. I used to go to the girlie bars in the cities, and often a lady would sit beside me and say "Hansoom man, you must have many Thai lady", and I would answer "Yes, but I am here now". They would slap me on the arm playfully and say "you bad man" and I would agree, then all would be good and we would have a laugh go from there. Nobody was insulted. But, if I answered same question "Oh no, no have any Thai lady" then the lady would know I am a liar, not to be trusted, and treat me as such.
Earn you are so sweet and humble. So so beautiful. No respect is a must and we are equals together both on the same level. I really love the Thai culture and the beautiful places and people. Earn you would be an amazing partner for someone.
Your broken English is so cute ☺️ You still speak very good English though. You can trust me because it is actually my Native Language. I am English and from England.
Good information, I feel this is general information all men should be told for dealing with anyone. Not just Thai girl. What I mean is just respect others. For example everyone has something they are not proud of in their past and members in their family who aren’t very good people. And we all as people regardless of race/gender etc don’t want to be reminded all the time.
One exception to not kissing in public is when you say goodbye at the airport. The strange thing is i see very young thai people who are affectionate when working in a store in the mall.
Sorry, but one of the things people talk about - not just men but also women - when they're in a new relationship is one another's past. It's a natural human thing to do. So if someone is going to be defensive about their past, or get offended if you ask about their past, then that is a huge red flag.
I respect not talking about someones past, the past is the past, talk about what is happening now. Thank you for not having public displays of affection in your culture, it''s mostly not done in the West that much any more. Your English sounds very good.
A woman’s past is very important to a masculine Man. It is the opposite for a Woman. She is more concerned with how good of a future you can make with them.
I get what you're saying and agree mostly, but there are also some disrespectful thai people,(although few and far between) like the ones that do scams and steal from tourists on the not government buses...i had one try attack me for calling him out for stealing from the buses as they had gone through everyones bags...that is also DISRESPECT to tourists/farang.
We were not raised in Thailand culture so therefore will not act like Thai people. We are foreigners. No matter how much Thai culture we learn and do, we will always be regarded as foreigners. I will be myself always. If they can't accept it move on to the next ATM. All the ones I have met are purely interested in being financially supported. Period. So for me to do that you are going to have to put up with my ways. Having a real relationship with Thai women is hard to be successful. I have given up and just pay for companionship. Much easier for me than to walk on eggshells and being afraid of saying or doing the wrong thing to piss her off. In the end all she wants is $$$$
Thank you for your opinions but l think you need to be a bit flexible. If you ask coconut from street seller with Thai language very easy very simple he will give you good one cold one big one so some simple things if you do Thai s will help always to you na Ka
I would love a thai girl, but I live in a very dry hot place in Arizona. I would feel horrible taking a girl out of Thailand which is a beautiful paradise of food, fertile and plenty. If you want a Thai girl you need to learn the Thai language.
Hi baby the truth is I like you you’re very nice. You’re very gentle. very respectful, caring very sweet, beautiful girl and I wish we are together. Have a good life trust no games. I’ll keep my cool. I don’t like y’all. I’m a good person, caring trusted, and don’t drink beer no more. I’m trying to change my life trying to be good. I don’t like to be lonely, I want be happy with someone special like you. I want to coffee money but I don’t believe in it no more got hurt. I never met a nice girl to be happy with spend my time with good time bad times I have not date no one since my ex passed away, and she really hurt me before she passed away in it hard you take care of yourself. Don’t let no one take advantage of you then that’s not good person loving person I mean stay safe and please don’t get hurt no where and I promise. I’ll keep you safe where ever we go. See you later, baby.
Lady...when you have a farang boyfriend you want to do everything 100% thai style? Hellooo! You will have to accept 50% farang style. And if that is showing affection in public then this is the way to go. Or... NEXT!
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Never tell them how much you are worth!
If you're 🏧 receipt 🧾 shows less than 500..
Never tell any woman from any part of the world what you are worth!
@@ashleynavin4682 If you want them to leave you alone, say you're broke.
Women perv on men's butts because that is where the wallet is located.😅
When youre more dead than alive youre in trouble😅😅
I agree with everything, but not the part about talking about the past. The past can tell you about the future and protect you long term.
She means don’t keep bringing up the flaws in her past and embarrass her
Good men already know these things, it's not just a Thai thing.
True🙏
No farangs they dont know these things , we have a different culture.
Keep things simple and remain single😉
Yup, too many Simps here.
Yeah that list was crazy and was a list of how to suffer the rule of a woman lol.
Be just like a Rabbit. Hop from one hole to another.🐰🐰🐇🐇🐰🐰🐇🐇 🤣🤣🤣
Wonder if there’s an opposite to this video. Things Thai girls should not do to farangs
They won't listen 😂
They are allowed to beg, steal and lie to farangs.... At least in their mind.
@ haha if you know you know
100% agree!
Like cheating when the farang goes home to work or visit family
Your sweet and gentle explanation makes it easy to accept this important advice. ☺
Glad you think so Thabk you so much 😇🙏❤
Thanks for another great video. You are amazing and so beautiful.
When you go to Thailand, learn their concept of losing, keeping or gaining face. That's very important in the Thai culture.
Always be calm, friendly and smile, no matter what happens.
I am definitely asking about her past
May you misunderstanding ofcourse need to talk but some people can bring past all the time do you think it’s right to connects today always her past ?
If you are falling in LOVE with a Bar Girl, don't ask about her past unless you don't care about the past. The way I look at it even in my past, it's like a grave, dig it up and it's going to stink, maybe not all of it but there will be parts you won't want to share.
@@truckn If it's real love and not platonic, both parties need to know everything about each other, or you are simply wasting your time in a relationship of secrets with no trust.
IMO, going to Thailand to fall in love with someone who is simply looking for a tourist as a meal ticket for her family, is not ideal way to base a meaningful and structural relationship on.
@@MynamesEARN"all the time" is MUCH different than "don't ask at all". There are very big issues at play here: she could still be married, she fould be a bar girl, or she might have kids. Not knowing she had children then you have to take care of them...that's a huge issue to hide. Deception is not a foundation for a healthy relationship
Respect goes both ways.
Right ! Thabk you
She is concerned by a man's future, you should be very concerned about her past! - her body count tells a man everything about a girl.
Also, when visiting with her family show a smiling face and be very respectful. This is very important to her and how her family sees you and sees her. She doesn't want to have to explain why she brought home a bad example of a boyfriend.
Thank you for your comments na ka
IF THE THAI GIRL NOT WANT TO TELL YOU ABOUT HER PASS, THEN THE THAI GIRL DOSNT NEED TO KNOW ABOUT HIS PASS…..SAME SAME!!!
Great information!! Thank you for sharing with us Khun Earn! I hope I can come visit your beautiful country one day!!! Thank you for making and sharing your videos!! Best wishes to you and your family!🙏❤❤
My pleasure!! Thabk you for your kindness hopefully you can come to Thailand as soon as 🙏🇹🇭😇
You have mentioned very important issues
Thanks for the information
Thanks and welcome BB always as your support 🎉🙏
Thanks again for the great information Earn👍
Thank you dear always as your support 😇🙏
never ask about her passed.... then she won't have to lie about being a bar girl....
Most of them have spent time in the bar..
Her passed? Her relatives who passed away?
Body count = 99% of her value.
Very good information thank you for sharing this is helpful for everyone 😊
Glad it was helpful!
One thing ive learnt personally, is never to believe lots thai girls tell you, i had a long term partner, a professional career woman.... told so many untruths...
Another wonderful video Earn, I know your information can be so important to anyone looking to come to Thailand.
Thank you for watching! 🙏
Earn, you are truly graceful, so eloquent and naturally gorgeous
You're very kind 😊
The other side of the argument about her past is, if she has nothing to be ashamed of, why wouldn't she offer to tell you about her past?
My wife is Thai, she told me about her romantic history, and I told her about mine. Neither of us has anything to feel ashamed about or wants/needs to keep hidden.
Given the state of the western societies today, and the problems they cause men in dating/romance, a Thai woman ought to understand and make the effort to show foreign men they are not like the women in the west.
Thank you na ka
Dont let her tell you what to do.
You basically explaining how to be a simp :D
wonderful information
Thank you so much 🙏😇
Hi Earn we all have a past it’s what makes us the person we are today .If you truly love someone you love who they are now not who they once were .
And never play games with someone’s heart this is not good.
Thank you for all the information and support you also give us 🙏♥️
Thank you so much dear ❤️
What Earn means, is don’t keep bringing up the flaws in her past and embarrassing her
Right l mean this 🙏😇
To have a successful Thai relationship, it is important to conform
Thank you Earn for being beautiful and sensible
Thank you na Ka ;)
Thank you for this video
My pleasure, Thank you for your comment and Like support.Ka 🎉❤
Another helpful video Earn. Always enjoyable. Thank you
past is likely future
I respect your opinion but we can’t speak absolutely about this subject can’t talk generally
I would say with me being born and raised in The United States a first world country many people are impatient and short tempered bevause thats how the econony is in USA.Everything is always a hustle because with most jobs in USA if you are just a few minutes late they will fire you or even at school you come late you get detention.Sonwe were raised to hustle and to rush our way through everything.So you can only imagine there is always a lot of tension in USA so people express themselves through rap,anger and being aggressive.In Asia specifically southeast Asia it is entirety different culture and an entirely different way of life so it is hard for many of us to adjust to that.They don't teach us much about the rest of the world most definitely when it comes to countries that are completely different so we completely unaware about other cultures.
Jamal thank you always support my channel also your opinions comments
Thank you Earn 😊
You're welcome 😊
your a very pretty girl love your spirit!
Thank you 🙏 na Ka
Not certain whether " don't ask, don't tell about the past" rule works for farangs. Agree with other points you make- 'Respect' is the cornerstone of Thai culture; if one expects it, then they need to show it to others. @Earn- For balance it would be great if you can make a similar video about what Thai girls should not do to farangs.
Sure good idea 👍
Thank you
Nice and very straight to the point 😊
Thabk you so much na Ka 😇😊
Hi Earn thank you for a video with lots of good information
I have a lovely Thai girlfriend
I always try to be respectful and always try to learn to learn about Thai culture and little by little the language
I have made mistakes
I am not perfect but my girlfriend will guide me or I ask her for help
How should I do this or that ?
Is it ok to touch or look at ?
In any relationship it should be 50-50
If you think you are better or have no respect then you don’t deserve that man or lady
If you are in Thailand try to learn some of the language
My Thai is quite basic but I try and i find that if Thai people see you try I have found they will smile and try to help or talk with you .
Look forward to another great video
Best wishes 😊🙏
Thank you so much for your kindly comment 🙏😇
Respect, accepting others as they are and tolerance must come from both sides. Yes, when you are in another country, you should adapt to the customs a little, but not submit to them. Especially another person.
So when it comes to sensitive things... the ladies should take a look at their own noses. Calling constantly and the jealousy should be curbed
Well said!
This ☝
You´re really adorable ❤
What about kissing my Thai wife in public? I guess the same applies because not everyone will know we are married. I understand what you are saying about the downcast look when trying to get an answer to a question like directions or something. It's mostly just an exercise in frustration, it's not meant to be disrespectful towards you or anyone it's just a natural reaction. I will try to be more mindful but sadly my face always looks so serious yet that's not how I feel inside. Thanks for the tips. Be well.
Thank you so much for your kind message 🙏
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The idea that I should not show negative emotion is something that often occurs when my girlfriend and I play pool. If she hits a bad shot, I will make a "not good" face and she gets upset. I realize from what you said she takes this as a disapproval of her, which it isn't. It's normal to for American to react emotionally to minor stuff, but I guess she is always seeking approval no matter the circumstance. You teach me something today.
Thank you na ka
Good to know ❤
I guess thai woman want honesty, right? Then why not tell the farang about her past then?
We can not speak generally
very good advice
Glad you think so!
Correct English is: “Things that you should not do TO your Thai girlfriend”. (You left out “to”)
Nice channel. 😊
Thank you for correcting my English 🙏😇
I am actually English and I like it when she makes them little mistakes.
Ohh dear its the spelling police.
@@Dutchy695nope. Just helping her to correct something that TH-cam notices, even if you dont
She thanked me
@surlyman7970 Good man
I found the worst thing you can do when dealing with a Thai woman is to lie. Better to be an honest bad man, than a good man who lies, because if you get caught in a lie, Thai people will never trust you again. I used to go to the girlie bars in the cities, and often a lady would sit beside me and say "Hansoom man, you must have many Thai lady", and I would answer "Yes, but I am here now". They would slap me on the arm playfully and say "you bad man" and I would agree, then all would be good and we would have a laugh go from there. Nobody was insulted. But, if I answered same question "Oh no, no have any Thai lady" then the lady would know I am a liar, not to be trusted, and treat me as such.
Interesting view 🤔😅😇
Thanks!
Glad you like it! 😊 and support me thank you so much
Earn you are so sweet and humble. So so beautiful. No respect is a must and we are equals together both on the same level. I really love the Thai culture and the beautiful places and people. Earn you would be an amazing partner for someone.
Your broken English is so cute ☺️ You still speak very good English though. You can trust me because it is actually my Native Language. I am English and from England.
Thank you! 😃
Good information, I feel this is general information all men should be told for dealing with anyone. Not just Thai girl.
What I mean is just respect others.
For example everyone has something they are not proud of in their past and members in their family who aren’t very good people. And we all as people regardless of race/gender etc don’t want to be reminded all the time.
Thank you na Ka 🙏
When you say "Thai Girl" I hear "tiger". Are there similarities between the two?
If your lucky😁
They pretend to be kittens, but are in fact tigers ready to pounce on your bank account! Lived here 8 years.
you should never ! I repeat never wake up your Thai girl with a golden shower ! it makes them very grumpy !
One exception to not kissing in public is when you say goodbye at the airport. The strange thing is i see very young thai people who are affectionate when working in a store in the mall.
For good bye kiss normal l talk about from lips sorry if k did not clear but thank you for your comment 🙏😇😊
@MynamesEARN You are right. It was my fault that I didn't make it clear that things are it's strict when greeting or saying goodbye at the airport.
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Thank you Fun Size media always your support 🙏😇
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Thank you @Sir always as you support
Sorry, but one of the things people talk about - not just men but also women - when they're in a new relationship is one another's past. It's a natural human thing to do. So if someone is going to be defensive about their past, or get offended if you ask about their past, then that is a huge red flag.
Thabk you for your opinion na Ka
I respect not talking about someones past, the past is the past, talk about what is happening now. Thank you for not having public displays of affection in your culture, it''s mostly not done in the West that much any more. Your English sounds very good.
Thank you Dan l also appreciate you very kind comments 😇
A woman’s past is very important to a masculine Man. It is the opposite for a Woman. She is more concerned with how good of a future you can make with them.
....for the algorithm! 😊
I get what you're saying and agree mostly, but there are also some disrespectful thai people,(although few and far between) like the ones that do scams and steal from tourists on the not government buses...i had one try attack me for calling him out for stealing from the buses as they had gone through everyones bags...that is also DISRESPECT to tourists/farang.
Sorry for your experience hope l
Will do another video about that 🙏
You are beautiful EARN LUCKY GIRL!
Thank you na ka
How about what thai girl shouldn't do to western guys like asking for money before sex.
We were not raised in Thailand culture so therefore will not act like Thai people. We are foreigners. No matter how much Thai culture we learn and do, we will always be regarded as foreigners. I will be myself always. If they can't accept it move on to the next ATM. All the ones I have met are purely interested in being financially supported. Period. So for me to do that you are going to have to put up with my ways. Having a real relationship with Thai women is hard to be successful. I have given up and just pay for companionship. Much easier for me than to walk on eggshells and being afraid of saying or doing the wrong thing to piss her off. In the end all she wants is $$$$
Thank you for your opinions but l think you need to be a bit flexible. If you ask coconut from street seller with Thai language very easy very simple he will give you good one cold one big one so some simple things if you do Thai s will help always to you na Ka
I was raised properly 😅I’m just Texas man ❤
Hi to texas 🇺🇸
What to do when you take a Thai girlfriend to restaurant and she brings her friend or friends?
If more than 1 time and did not tell you before or get your permission this is unexpectedly
I would love a thai girl, but I live in a very dry hot place in Arizona. I would feel horrible taking a girl out of Thailand which is a beautiful paradise of food, fertile and plenty. If you want a Thai girl you need to learn the Thai language.
Simple things will be enough , Like hello how are you? How much ? Basic daily life to know Thai language will be very good ❤
I just started watching Earn's videos. I like how she is straight to the point. Also, she is gorgeous 🤩
Thank you for watching! 🥰
Never close your wallet. She will become enraged!
Hi baby the truth is I like you you’re very nice. You’re very gentle. very respectful, caring very sweet, beautiful girl and I wish we are together. Have a good life trust no games. I’ll keep my cool. I don’t like y’all. I’m a good person, caring trusted, and don’t drink beer no more. I’m trying to change my life trying to be good. I don’t like to be lonely, I want be happy with someone special like you. I want to coffee money but I don’t believe in it no more got hurt. I never met a nice girl to be happy with spend my time with good time bad times I have not date no one since my ex passed away, and she really hurt me before she passed away in it hard you take care of yourself. Don’t let no one take advantage of you then that’s not good person loving person I mean stay safe and please don’t get hurt no where and I promise. I’ll keep you safe where ever we go. See you later, baby.
Thank you so much for your kind words. 🙏 Still looking forward to see you as a my member Buymeacoffee Thank you na ka
Don't tell her she's snoring.. 😫
Never tell how much money you have😂😂
01:17 🚩🚩🚩
ALSO DON'T ASK THAI GIRL TO GIVE YOU BRO JOB ON FIRST DATE ! 😂 🤣 😂
Isn't it more important what thai girls never should do to her man?
I’m planning some video but my channel generally foreigners men I’m not sure Thai girls can watch or not 📝 let see
They don't like big ego
Lady...when you have a farang boyfriend you want to do everything 100% thai style? Hellooo! You will have to accept 50% farang style. And if that is showing affection in public then this is the way to go. Or... NEXT!
Thank you for your opinions but what l speak not so much hard things off course maybe your Thai girl friend will like your style na ak
You shouldn't do anything TO a woman.
Not properly.. that’s extremism..
Earn makes Thai Girls look Horrible.....don't know how but she does 😂😂😂😂😂
I burp and fart around my Thai gf every time I visit her in Thailand? Is that ok? Lol
Depend how much she love you 🥰
@ she doesn’t mind me doing those things
Oh my… your that guy…
@ yeah thanks mate
Animal
Don’t give them any idea of what you have don’t trust her or let her bring a suitcase for the weekend
Thanks! For the information Earn. 👸 1rst or 2nd Comment. Not sure 😁🫠😃👍
Thank you so much for your support help me to motivate better contents ❤🙏😇
@MynamesEARN You are Welcome Earn 😊 🙏 🤗
Sometimes I have a problem with expressing my feelings on my face before I know I'm doing it.
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