Yes, I make a hard introduction, there are always exceptions there, I mentioned this, but I accidentally cut it, I'm sorry, only this video is for informational purposes. ℹ️ First of all, in order for the relationship to be successful, the person who works at the bar or in the nightlife must quit his job and be with you.
Great video 👏 Many foreigners who have lost everything due to their lack of knowledge about Thai culture, can only blame themselves for their lack of understanding and experience✌️🤦💰
Great video Earn! Like you said many TH-cam videos explain that most bar girls and girls from dating apps are trying to get money. To meet a normal girl one must take time and have a way to live in Thailand. Long distance relationships and short term vacations do not lead to healthy relationships. Also, I love how you appreciate beautiful nature and your wonderful Thai culture. Na krap!
ive tried having a Thai Girlfriend on two occasions, I watch her body language & she act like a butterfly & I say something & I just got abused, both times it ended in less than a week because all she wanted was my money & acted like a butterfly & I am not stupid on female behaviour, actions speak louder than words. Both were not working girls but I think they lied to me, second girl was not from, or living in a tourist area & still act like such a money hungry butterfly it was disgusting.
Hello Earn I sometimes watch your videos to see how you are improving in speaking english and be in front of the camera. You are doing a great job. My experience is that I have a Vietnamese girlfriend in Saigon. She is able to make her own money being a Yoga teacher. I support her financially just because i like her 🙂
As some say here so are the reason a thai lady asks about money from farang NOT only for herself, she also supports her family. That is regardless she is a "working girl" or have a regular job. Thanks for your nice videos Earn!
Most foreigners in Thailand don't know much about Thailand and so many areas in Thailand they haven't been to either it is quite sad. I have also been seeing online a lot of foreigners have been getting kicked out of Thailand for drugs, putting their hands on Thai police, and overstaying their visas😔. I want you to know Earnt there are still good quality foreigners out here and the ones of more quality are the ones that are finally coming there now☺.
Good video Earn, presentation, informative subject and content. Subject matter was balanced and good informationfor those that are open to hear both sides. Good visuals and voice over with great content and super cute presenter Earn Lucky. I can see much work went into this, Congratulations Earn 🤟
Here is how I put it. If you are a millionaire in the US, and go into strip clubs to spend 10-20K a night, you will get the same type of women in the US that you get in Thailand. This is not a Thai only thing. The difference is in Thailand, is you get to live like a millionare. The issue is 99% of men who come to Thailand, don't have the experience of what it's like to be rich like that, and how that changes everyone around you. All the attention and what feels like emotional connection, takes time to get used to, and experience to realize it's not real. Or at least, it's not what you think it is.
An American story: My friend married a girl from high-school. It was his first and only girlfriend. Over 15 years she put on 200 pounds. They bought a nice house and had 4 kids. He stayed in the marriage until she got bariatric surgery and lost the weight when she replaced him with a wealthy man. When he looked at the equity in the house he found that there wasn't any. He was broke despite paying on the house for 13 years. She wasn't paying the mortgage for a year. He was giving her money for it and she was buying thousands of lottery tickets. He was depressed for years. She pulled the same thing with the new guy and he divorced her. I just heard that my friend married her again.
Great video Earn I can see a lot of thought has been put into it and you look amazing The bottom line is it’s never a good idea to buy love I hope the guy is ok but at 39 he should know better love is in the heart not in the wallet Thank you Earn for research you do 🙏♥️
Hookers are just for fun and to practice your verbal skills. Some guys have hard time understanding that. Heck even regular chicks should just be for fun until they prove they are wife material, which most aren't anyways lol 😂
Overall Thai people are VERY nice & friendly to Farangs but you need to be really carful so you don't get taken advantage of because a lot of girls just see you as easy money. And I would definitely not go to a bar looking for something serious...
a bar girl tried to convince me to marry her. when that didn't work, she moved on and got a Taiwanese man marry her soon after. He is spending alot of money on her. his heart will be crushed when he finds out she is using him for money.
A girl working in Patataya or Soi Nanna can earn $40,000 a month tax-free, and she sends most of this money home to her family,so her younger sisters or daughters don't have to do this sort of work , why should she care about some farangs, who fly in just for sex and get caught up ,in a scam.
Man is just business for thai girls or ATM. They love you as long as you have money. They have a saying boyfriend today gone tomorrow. I live here so I have a little bit of experience. Even if it's a business type, WOMAN, and make their own money.They'll be happy to take your money as well. After having said all that, Thai women are beautiful. As a man , you just need to be careful. I really enjoyed your video.Please do more.Thank you very much.😊
Foreigners will have to learn the culture of Redlight Districts worldwide. We all have to experience life's lessons of love, heartbreak, and relationships. Allow your experiences, positive or negative, to be a learning and growing experience. Money can be replaced in time, but not the years you lose wasting your time. Focus on finding someone you can be with long-term.
Hope your having good day today I like some of your explanation but please explain i thought the following Their are many classes in most world cultures Tourism. Freelancers (independent workers in entertainment and nightlife, including "bar girls") might be involved in sex work but do not always identify themselves as "working class" in the traditional sense. While prostitution is technically illegal in Thailand, it's widely tolerated and forms a part of the nightlife industry, particularly in tourist-heavy areas. Some freelancers do not see themselves strictly as sex workers but as service industry workers providing companionship, entertainment, or other services. Ladyboys (Kathoeys): Kathoeys are a visible and socially recognized group in Thailand, though they often face stigma, particularly in more conservative areas. Many work in entertainment, tourism, or nightlife, and some do engage in sex work. However, not all kathoeys participate in the sex industry-many work in mainstream jobs or as performers. Westerners Meet Mainly this type of Thai women Thai Ladyboy when visit on holiday they get mixed up thinking all thai women are like this because in most western Cultures it would be not only illegal like in Thailand also to practice Prostitution they would get locked up in a public setting where as in Thailand even though its illegal people have let it carry on as part of Thailand & it is not Cultural but the more popular it has become through social media it has been In All Honesty TH-cam should bann Bar girl on youtube because it promotes Adult content so why it has not been i am not sure maybe you can find out why ? Enjoy rest of your day would like to see How western women meet Thailand man for relationship too.
You can't buy a regular woman that has her own career and money. That is why some guys goto the bars looking for a girlfriend or wife which is foolish. For every one guys success story there are probably tens of thousands who had the opposite result. It's simply a business transaction, nothing more or less. If you want a wife then make yourself desirable to a good woman. Present yourself well. Be respectful and have something to offer her in life. I never understood why some guys do this but I have been seeing it for the last 25 years when I first visited Thailand.
I agree with you, if you want good wife or girlfriend you shouldn't look for 1 at bars , like you say for every one success story there are thousands of men who get destroyed, most people learn the hard way
Completely agree, good quality women are the same the world over. Provided they aren't poor then you'll have to offer them a lot more than just money. The question to ask yourself is "Would I want to date me?" I see a lot of "Simping" in Thailand and the crowd doing it are getting younger and younger. It's a shame.
100% true, I've seen it so many times, the bar girls will treat you amazingly, encourage you to break the 3 day rule, and then you are caught in the trap. A guy I know is now living in his car but still sends his girlfriend money every payday
Even regular women are not immune to foreigner "wealth". Even ones with good jobs like a teacher or a bank manager don't earn that much compared to a foreigner so don't think just because they're "regular" that they won't take you for a ride and clean you out. You should judge women by their character and watch out for their tricks. I've known people who have married bar girls and been together 10-20 years and I've also met people who have married a "good" girl who's taken them for everything in a divorce within 5 years. I've personally met so called "good" Thai/filipina women with good jobs and it's become pretty clear that they still expect me to pay for eveything and take them on holiday etc so don't go into it thinking some women are more moral than others just because they have a better job or are not working in a bar etc.
Men should not go to Pattaya or the Bangkok red light districts looking for love! But, when you do go to those places, do not disrespect the girls. They are there to make money.
I enjoy seeing the most beautiful girl it’s you. I do not know why I like you because I know you’re very lucky. Smart. Tell the people the right things yes I know there are a lot of countries are bad Philippines the same way to I seen the stories but they have weird laws on outside men that’s why never went there. Yes Philippines, but I wish we can become good friends and hopefully you will chase me and you want me to be on your side care for you love you respect you have a good life. Have you looked around American? Maybe you wanna start a business you have a good day my friend take care of yourself and I know a lot of boys isn’t good too, just want one thing me a while nice long relationship respect each other trust each other and never ever hurt each other and I hope you’ve been safe too specially scammers I know it’s hard in the world. People would do anything to hurt someone but that’s not me. I don’t want anyone. I love you.
Bull crap. You think Thai women doctors, nurses, engineers and rich ones are going to go with farangs? Bull crap. I won’t marry them because they have big big egos and no time for me.
The girls in Pattaya and Sukhumvit are vampires. As long as you go there knowing that and don't fool yourself that it is a place where you can go to find love then you will be fine. Pattaya is full of expat men that lost everything to some starry eyed bar girl after thinking that they had found love. *********Isaan is full of beautiful independent Thai women that are dying to meet you.☺😍😍************
Good advice, Earn. There are always exceptions, but these are helpful general guidelines.
Yes, I make a hard introduction, there are always exceptions there, I mentioned this, but I accidentally cut it, I'm sorry, only this video is for informational purposes. ℹ️
First of all, in order for the relationship to be successful, the person who works at the bar or in the nightlife must quit his job and be with you.
Great video 👏
Many foreigners who have lost everything due to their lack of knowledge about Thai culture, can only blame themselves for their lack of understanding and experience✌️🤦💰
Great video Earn! Like you said many TH-cam videos explain that most bar girls and girls from dating apps are trying to get money. To meet a normal girl one must take time and have a way to live in Thailand. Long distance relationships and short term vacations do not lead to healthy relationships. Also, I love how you appreciate beautiful nature and your wonderful Thai culture. Na krap!
Earn, you have an amazingly good heart, one of the best there possible. Thank you for your genuine, thoughtful content!
Well, it worked out for me... she turned out to be a good thai lady...
For how long..
@hobo1704 well... 5 years now. We just bought a house too! Everything is happy!
@@jamie1453 good luck
@@hobo1704 I imensly enjoy your skepticism 🤣
It can work out for some, but it's extremely rare. Good luck, athai ladies are the best
I'm in love with your humility 😊😊
Yes, you are 100 % right with everything you say in this video! 😊
ive tried having a Thai Girlfriend on two occasions, I watch her body language & she act like a butterfly & I say something & I just got abused, both times it ended in less than a week because all she wanted was my money & acted like a butterfly & I am not stupid on female behaviour, actions speak louder than words. Both were not working girls but I think they lied to me, second girl was not from, or living in a tourist area & still act like such a money hungry butterfly it was disgusting.
Good video thank you
If "bar girl" was called their actual job "hooker", there might be fewer misunderstandings.
How could you possibly not know how these ladies make a living ? 😅
This one is true 😂
Good luck and hope for ur success.
8:52 Hello to you and your friends, that looks like a great location👍☺
Wonderful video, full of good information and some interesting places to see. Great job!
Nice job Tiger! Short and sweet. So many more options in Thailand women than bargirls or short time love. Much love!
Love to find a lady like you😉😊💎
Thank you for your honesty. KEEP SMILIN;)
Thank you for making and sharing your videos with us Kuhn Earn!!! Best wishes to you and your family!
sawadee khun Earn. very interesting video
No Money
No Honey 🤣🤣🤣
Hello Earn
I sometimes watch your videos to see how you are improving in speaking english and be in front of the camera. You are doing a great job.
My experience is that I have a Vietnamese girlfriend in Saigon. She is able to make her own money being a Yoga teacher. I support her financially just because i like her 🙂
As some say here so are the reason a thai lady asks about money from farang NOT only for herself, she also supports her family. That is regardless she is a "working girl" or have a regular job.
Thanks for your nice videos Earn!
Thank you for share this Video khun Lek ring ring Na Ka :-)
Most foreigners in Thailand don't know much about Thailand and so many areas in Thailand they haven't been to either it is quite sad. I have also been seeing online a lot of foreigners have been getting kicked out of Thailand for drugs, putting their hands on Thai police, and overstaying their visas😔. I want you to know Earnt there are still good quality foreigners out here and the ones of more quality are the ones that are finally coming there now☺.
Khun poot jing-jing, Khunying Earn! Kob khun mahk! 🙂
Good video Earn, presentation, informative subject and content. Subject matter was balanced and good informationfor those that are open to hear both sides. Good visuals and voice over with great content and super cute presenter Earn Lucky. I can see much work went into this, Congratulations Earn 🤟
Great video Earn!!!💯💖
'she really did a number on him!' 👏🏼 classic!
I couldn't have said it better
wuu 400,000 thai baht = $12,000 usd ouch
Hello how are you from Philippines 🇵🇭
Awesome job on this video!
Here is how I put it. If you are a millionaire in the US, and go into strip clubs to spend 10-20K a night, you will get the same type of women in the US that you get in Thailand. This is not a Thai only thing. The difference is in Thailand, is you get to live like a millionare. The issue is 99% of men who come to Thailand, don't have the experience of what it's like to be rich like that, and how that changes everyone around you. All the attention and what feels like emotional connection, takes time to get used to, and experience to realize it's not real. Or at least, it's not what you think it is.
This
An American story:
My friend married a girl from high-school. It was his first and only girlfriend. Over 15 years she put on 200 pounds. They bought a nice house and had 4 kids. He stayed in the marriage until she got bariatric surgery and lost the weight when she replaced him with a wealthy man. When he looked at the equity in the house he found that there wasn't any. He was broke despite paying on the house for 13 years. She wasn't paying the mortgage for a year. He was giving her money for it and she was buying thousands of lottery tickets. He was depressed for years. She pulled the same thing with the new guy and he divorced her. I just heard that my friend married her again.
Hockey mask time...
She must be a real catch
Great video Earn I can see a lot of thought has been put into it and you look amazing
The bottom line is it’s never a good idea to buy love I hope the guy is ok but at 39 he should know better love is in the heart not in the wallet
Thank you Earn for research you do 🙏♥️
Advice good
When you go to Thailand you have to think with the big head 😀😀
Agree haha😂
Hookers are just for fun and to practice your verbal skills. Some guys have hard time understanding that. Heck even regular chicks should just be for fun until they prove they are wife material, which most aren't anyways lol 😂
Das ist aber Weltweit im Rotlichbezirk, nicht nur in Thailand. Frauen kosten Geld, je schöner, je teurer.
That building across from Asoke is exchange tower, good Mos dentist in the basement!
they can do an implant?
Are thai girls with a good job and their own money interested in foreigners though?
Your so right earn 😂
❤❤❤❤❤❤
You can't buy love. Wish guys would stop doing this it makes us all look pathetic
" the sex worker broke my heart" poor me 🤣😂
The bar girl lied when she say she love me forever?! 😭😭😭
Overall Thai people are VERY nice & friendly to Farangs but you need to be really carful so you don't get taken advantage of because a lot of girls just see you as easy money.
And I would definitely not go to a bar looking for something serious...
a bar girl tried to convince me to marry her. when that didn't work, she moved on and got a Taiwanese man marry her soon after. He is spending alot of money on her. his heart will be crushed when he finds out she is using him for money.
Earn คุณทำไมน่ารักมากแบบนี้. Of course, people shouldn't even try to date a bar girl. You are right.
A girl working in Patataya or Soi Nanna can earn $40,000 a month tax-free, and she sends most of this money home to her family,so her younger sisters or daughters don't have to do this sort of work , why should she care about some farangs, who fly in just for sex and get caught up ,in a scam.
$40000 a month? Are you smoke or drinking too much? 40000 Bht propably but deffo not a $40000. Stop drinking Buddy 😂😂😂
Man is just business for thai girls or ATM. They love you as long as you have money.
They have a saying boyfriend today gone tomorrow. I live here so I have a little bit of experience.
Even if it's a business type, WOMAN, and make their own money.They'll be happy to take your money as well.
After having said all that, Thai women are beautiful. As a man , you just need to be careful.
I really enjoyed your video.Please do more.Thank you very much.😊
All about money money money and guys want the honey honey honey. No one wants to just enjoy life and have a peaceful/fun time.
To help the YT algorithm 😊
Foreigners will have to learn the culture of Redlight Districts worldwide.
We all have to experience life's lessons of love, heartbreak, and relationships.
Allow your experiences, positive or negative, to be a learning and growing experience.
Money can be replaced in time, but not the years you lose wasting your time. Focus on finding someone you can be with long-term.
Are you saying she didn’t love me 😭
i see manny foreighners do meet girl friend slash wife matirial. maybe depends where you look. they do live in thailand tough!
คุณไม่สามารถขอให้ลาเป็นม้าแข่งได้😅
Hope your having good day today
I like some of your explanation but please explain i thought the following Their are many classes in most world cultures
Tourism. Freelancers (independent workers in entertainment and nightlife, including "bar girls") might be involved in sex work but do not always identify themselves as "working class" in the traditional sense.
While prostitution is technically illegal in Thailand, it's widely tolerated and forms a part of the nightlife industry, particularly in tourist-heavy areas. Some freelancers do not see themselves strictly as sex workers but as service industry workers providing companionship, entertainment, or other services.
Ladyboys (Kathoeys): Kathoeys are a visible and socially recognized group in Thailand, though they often face stigma, particularly in more conservative areas. Many work in entertainment, tourism, or nightlife, and some do engage in sex work. However, not all kathoeys participate in the sex industry-many work in mainstream jobs or as performers.
Westerners Meet Mainly this type of Thai women Thai Ladyboy when visit on holiday they get mixed up thinking all thai women are like this because in most western Cultures it would be not only illegal like in Thailand also to practice Prostitution they would get locked up in a public setting where as in Thailand even though its illegal people have let it carry on as part of Thailand & it is not Cultural but the more popular it has become through social media it has been
In All Honesty TH-cam should bann Bar girl on youtube because it promotes Adult content so why it has not been i am not sure maybe you can find out why ?
Enjoy rest of your day would like to see
How western women meet Thailand man for relationship too.
You can't buy a regular woman that has her own career and money. That is why some guys goto the bars looking for a girlfriend or wife which is foolish. For every one guys success story there are probably tens of thousands who had the opposite result. It's simply a business transaction, nothing more or less. If you want a wife then make yourself desirable to a good woman. Present yourself well. Be respectful and have something to offer her in life. I never understood why some guys do this but I have been seeing it for the last 25 years when I first visited Thailand.
I agree with you, if you want good wife or girlfriend you shouldn't look for 1 at bars , like you say for every one success story there are thousands of men who get destroyed, most people learn the hard way
This 👌
Completely agree, good quality women are the same the world over. Provided they aren't poor then you'll have to offer them a lot more than just money. The question to ask yourself is "Would I want to date me?" I see a lot of "Simping" in Thailand and the crowd doing it are getting younger and younger. It's a shame.
100% true, I've seen it so many times, the bar girls will treat you amazingly, encourage you to break the 3 day rule, and then you are caught in the trap. A guy I know is now living in his car but still sends his girlfriend money every payday
Even regular women are not immune to foreigner "wealth". Even ones with good jobs like a teacher or a bank manager don't earn that much compared to a foreigner so don't think just because they're "regular" that they won't take you for a ride and clean you out. You should judge women by their character and watch out for their tricks. I've known people who have married bar girls and been together 10-20 years and I've also met people who have married a "good" girl who's taken them for everything in a divorce within 5 years. I've personally met so called "good" Thai/filipina women with good jobs and it's become pretty clear that they still expect me to pay for eveything and take them on holiday etc so don't go into it thinking some women are more moral than others just because they have a better job or are not working in a bar etc.
So what you are saying is when a Bar Girl says ;”I love you long time”, She doesn’t really mean it? Im gutted!
Every country I've visited has good and bad people.
I come to Thailand for nearly 40 Years and i think as a FArang you never really find real love .
Men should not go to Pattaya or the Bangkok red light districts looking for love! But, when you do go to those places, do not disrespect the girls. They are there to make money.
🥵🥵🥵better to just not exist
All Asian countries have bar girls. I believe he did not do his homework
You can buy time with a girl, but you can't buy a heart.
Don't look for love in a bargirl.
Leave your heart at the airport.
Thank me later.
I enjoy seeing the most beautiful girl it’s you. I do not know why I like you because I know you’re very lucky. Smart. Tell the people the right things yes I know there are a lot of countries are bad Philippines the same way to I seen the stories but they have weird laws on outside men that’s why never went there. Yes Philippines, but I wish we can become good friends and hopefully you will chase me and you want me to be on your side care for you love you respect you have a good life. Have you looked around American? Maybe you wanna start a business you have a good day my friend take care of yourself and I know a lot of boys isn’t good too, just want one thing me a while nice long relationship respect each other trust each other and never ever hurt each other and I hope you’ve been safe too specially scammers I know it’s hard in the world. People would do anything to hurt someone but that’s not me. I don’t want anyone. I love you.
Weirdo
Bull crap. You think Thai women doctors, nurses, engineers and rich ones are going to go with farangs? Bull crap.
I won’t marry them because they have big big egos and no time for me.
“you may be wrong but you may be right” ha ha
@@Rinaldo2006 winning stupid prize yeah.
Sounds like a loser
Women for rent.
The girls in Pattaya and Sukhumvit are vampires. As long as you go there knowing that and don't fool yourself that it is a place where you can go to find love then you will be fine. Pattaya is full of expat men that lost everything to some starry eyed bar girl after thinking that they had found love. *********Isaan is full of beautiful independent Thai women that are dying to meet you.☺😍😍************