Aw, I totally get that-it’s such a big decision, and you're being so thoughtful about it ❤ Just know there’s no ‘perfect’ time, and you’ll figure things out as you go! Kids don’t need fancy stuff, just love and a happy you. Cheering you on for whenever you feel ready! 💕✨
@@TheRashidies thank you, I feel like i want a lot of kids and my husband makes me feel like we cant afford them but poor people should not be shamed for wanting a lot of kids usually people in poverty are the kindest they want to share everything so they want to raise kids
Advice and your time much appreciated. Im 40 and my partner is 37. We have 12,11, and 1 year old but thinking of having a 4th?? Our 11 year old has c.p due being premature and has opened my eyes how lucky having a health baby. Our youngest was perfect everything went perfect and i wouldnt want to risk gambling my partners health for having a 4th. Everything atm works fine and we all happy. My partner feels 10 year in the future will we regret. We dont have family support and im work allday so bringing up babie and toddler together is hard task but before that stage its a life risk and weve already been granted and blessed with our youngest which im grateful for and wouldnt want to take a gamble. Any advice appreciated.. thank you
I've been thinking about how to respond to your comment (sorry it's taken so long). At the end of the day, you need to do what's best for you guys. We didn't think about growing our family, we always wanted 4 and so we did it. Like all things in life, there are some days that are tremendously difficult, and some that are extremely rewarding. We will never regret the family we have been blessed with. When our youngest joined us, we truly did feel complete. Our journey has been filled with loss and challenges, but it has strengthened our marriage and our values as a family. Hope this helps. Blessings!
Your comment helped me. I had complications both my pregnancy and had c sections. I'm 25 but, I have a boy n girl I'm absolutely done and been getting guilt because of it. But I want to tie my tubes
Heya :) We have a Kia Carnival, we purchased it second hand in 2020 (I think its a 2018 model, was used as a rental). Love it, we'd probably upgrade to a newer model in the future but are extremely happy with it.
I definitely found the smaller age gap tricky for the first 12 months. Now that the kids are 18 months, 3 years, 5 years and 7 years - It's getting more manageable and I don't have any regrets! Congratulations for expecting your third. Praying for a healthy and full term pregnancy
We had a date today and that was the thought I had leaving the house. One day, I'll be the grandmother coming over to look after my kid's kids! That's mental. It's hard having the four of them close, but we wouldn't change it.
Loops. They are great otherwise I have JBL noise cancelling headphones if I want to listen to music, podcast, audio book. Just depends on whether I need to have an audio break or get minimise the sound.
Love your sense of humor
Thanks :) I appreciate you connecting in the comment sections. Hope you have a Merry Christmas.
Thank you Bek for sharing this great video. Can you please tell us what brand your headphones are please and where you got them from?
They are called loops. These are the ones I have :D
au.loopearplugs.com/products/experience
Thats good advice to document things because with more kids i hope to have a kid some day i keep putting it off because i feel i can not afford one.
Aw, I totally get that-it’s such a big decision, and you're being so thoughtful about it ❤ Just know there’s no ‘perfect’ time, and you’ll figure things out as you go! Kids don’t need fancy stuff, just love and a happy you. Cheering you on for whenever you feel ready! 💕✨
@@TheRashidies thank you, I feel like i want a lot of kids and my husband makes me feel like we cant afford them but poor people should not be shamed for wanting a lot of kids usually people in poverty are the kindest they want to share everything so they want to raise kids
Advice and your time much appreciated.
Im 40 and my partner is 37. We have 12,11, and 1 year old but thinking of having a 4th??
Our 11 year old has c.p due being premature and has opened my eyes how lucky having a health baby. Our youngest was perfect everything went perfect and i wouldnt want to risk gambling my partners health for having a 4th. Everything atm works fine and we all happy. My partner feels 10 year in the future will we regret. We dont have family support and im work allday so bringing up babie and toddler together is hard task but before that stage its a life risk and weve already been granted and blessed with our youngest which im grateful for and wouldnt want to take a gamble. Any advice appreciated.. thank you
I've been thinking about how to respond to your comment (sorry it's taken so long).
At the end of the day, you need to do what's best for you guys. We didn't think about growing our family, we always wanted 4 and so we did it. Like all things in life, there are some days that are tremendously difficult, and some that are extremely rewarding. We will never regret the family we have been blessed with. When our youngest joined us, we truly did feel complete. Our journey has been filled with loss and challenges, but it has strengthened our marriage and our values as a family. Hope this helps. Blessings!
Your comment helped me. I had complications both my pregnancy and had c sections. I'm 25 but, I have a boy n girl I'm absolutely done and been getting guilt because of it. But I want to tie my tubes
What's your minivan?
Heya :) We have a Kia Carnival, we purchased it second hand in 2020 (I think its a 2018 model, was used as a rental). Love it, we'd probably upgrade to a newer model in the future but are extremely happy with it.
You are doing great job I am pregnant with my third thinking if I can handle having a fourth child.
I definitely found the smaller age gap tricky for the first 12 months. Now that the kids are 18 months, 3 years, 5 years and 7 years - It's getting more manageable and I don't have any regrets! Congratulations for expecting your third. Praying for a healthy and full term pregnancy
Nice. You know, once they will be teenagers or even adults and they will have their own life/family. I don't know why this makes me emotional
We had a date today and that was the thought I had leaving the house. One day, I'll be the grandmother coming over to look after my kid's kids! That's mental.
It's hard having the four of them close, but we wouldn't change it.
Yeah, and in between you might have plenty of time
What are the headphones?
Loops. They are great otherwise I have JBL noise cancelling headphones if I want to listen to music, podcast, audio book. Just depends on whether I need to have an audio break or get minimise the sound.
You should have 4 more
That's super kind. We're definitely at capacity at the moment, especially working full time.
You look so tired, you definitely deserve a nap
You know me too well 😅 A nap would be amazing, but you know how it is-mum life doesn’t pause! ☕