And loving, trust worthy wife that is not a drag ie expects everything to be handed to her cause she has pair of tits, hence just wasting money, not understanding its value is what men look if they are looking actual wife for marriage and family. These women sure seem great financially, but lack before mentioned traits witch someone from countryside most likely has. I'm decently well off, but even if was millionaire, i would not even consider trophy wife, ones that dont have mental capability to consider, "hey this job needs to be done, theres a shovel, lets start shoveling manure", specially if its for the betterment of your new family/husband/children. If you go gagging for idea of changing the diapers or not grabbing the shovel cause your nails might get damaged, you are nothing more than wall ornament and once your best by date is due... well these women already know it.
I'm failing to understand that too... Also, it's not hard to get married. People are making it seem so complicated. I got married when I was young with my h.s sweetheart, we had a very small wedding and told our parents if they want to party like animals they can pay for it....and that was it. After that we built our lives together... These women have been sold such a b.s that you need to wait until....until idk when at this point lol.
34 years old, masters degree, two homes, two cars ("This is one of my BMW's"), and she's single. In Los Angeles we call that The Lottery for broke men...
Educated women get matches from Educated men. That's how it is in Asia. I am Indian even here families arrange marriages like that. A well educated Indian girl will have a better chance of securing a educated husband. We don't marry for infatuation likes Westerners do. We see family and future compatibility.
A 38 year old woman with a hello kitty bedroom and still needs to be praised for washing the dishes by her parents... Alarm bells are ringing in my head.
Nah, they wouldn't date themselves, because they can't paradoxically make more money than themselves, and thus not be up to their own stadards of "be better than me in every way possible"😂
@@Ren33469 you were so close to saying something much better than that: they wouldn't date each other because they wouldn't like their own reflection and they'd end up making it a competition.
that happens to people in general, if you’re a nasty person you’re probably going to attract a nasty spouse. Men there aren’t immune to this either. the gender indifferences in those countries are deeply rooted in their cultures, in ways some westerners misunderstand. Both men and women in that society have done horrible things to each other, since they’re taught to value themselves over anyone else in their lives everything by default becomes a competition there. Western society has its faults, but you’d never see something like the 1 child policy be put into place, which is something deeply rooted in misogyny, not misandry. People trying to view this in a western anti-feminist lens arent getting the full picture. Can it not be argued that their male supremacy views of the past are what’s causing the social turbulence they’re seeing right now?
With her high monetary wants and the arrogance. She would be a bad investment. The marriage would not last long. She is beautiful. But her beauty is only skin deep. Sad.
Chinese Parents to there kids: 8 Years old - Stay in school and away from boys 14 Years old - Stay in school and away from boys 20 Years old - Stay in School and away from boys 25 Years old - How come I don't have any grandkids yet
what about stay away from girls? but go figure, 18 years up both men and women can take their own desitions what about starting to take accountability?
You are forgetting they choose the path they took But ladies can't have accountability "Culture" and her parents also pressured her to marry before 27 to don't be a zhiang yiu (left over woman)
Precisely. However a good education will help the daughter to remain in good employment hopefully even though she may be backing in suitors. No harm, plenty of middle age Chinese women do find romance in Western partners or non Chinese partners too
"i prefer a guy over 1.8m tall, good looking, fair skined with big eyes, humorous and able to have fun with me, must have own career." give this woman a dog!
I listen to these stories and the only thing I hear is people who want economic value. A woman making 42K Yuen per year wants a man making 1 million yuen. The dowry has to be 5 million yuen. She brings her height as a 'value' to the table. It's like I woke up in a circus. The value of true friendships doesn't even enter the equation. One woman has two houses and two cars because that does what for her social status? In the mean time buying a house should no longer be out of reach of most Chinese because the housing market is tanking hard. This real estate bust won't be resolved for decades. In the mean time the high status women aren't getting younger, young men have no means to pursue a decent family life. None of them, or so it seems, is even considering actually loving the person they see, for marriage. It's a passionate love story from one bank account to another. AND they have to have degrees. China is not going to have to fear over population in this century and housing will become very cheap as the population is aging out and young people don't care to marry [not an essential for building a family] and having a family. You also heard about the people who were raised as an only child. Those people are used to being doted on and they never had to learn to share with siblings. Those are not the people who want children because then all the attention will have to go to the child, no longer to them. They said the human population would climb to 10 billion. That's not going to happen. There are too many people not having children. About 250 million young Chinese don't want to marry and have children. Imagine how many fewer children that will yield.
No clue of basic instincts. A man will always get a better job and earn more as soon as he gets a family. They MUST have the NEED, it is the trigger for the instincts. It all comes in a set, you can not pick a part and leave aside some bits. Everyone gets exponential power, they do things they would have not dare, they find doors they didn't know. Even the woman choice of someone earning more is just hidden instinct used wrongly as it has not been acknowledged . A man with less money power is wrongly perceived weak when you don't know basic things in life. You are supposed to use your instincts, no the other way round, as they are automatic with no coordinated logic, popping up according to your age, circumstances and genre. Use them, they get you to depression if left aside, as they give the power to keep your life. The family instincts are the strongest. It may not be paradise but if you go against them it certainly can be a "frog being slowly boiled alive without noticing".
Which is true how rural men been raised like a king and been brainwashed they are superior than anybody. There misogyny attitude make them indeed less of a person
@@EdoHP You took the one province where people are the tallest in all of China and that standard is still above, so yes your standard is not just high but borderline unrealistic if you take into consideration all the other standards that she may have
No clue of basic instincts. A man will always get a better job and earn more as soon as he gets a family. .They MUST have the NEED, it is the trigger for the instincts. It all comes in a set, you can not pick a part and leave aside some bits. Everyone gets exponential power, they do things they would have not dare, they find doors they didn't know. Even the woman choice of someone earning more is just hidden instinct used wrongly as it has not been acknowledged . A man with less money power is wrongly perceived weak when you don't know basic things in life. You are supposed to use your instincts, no the other way round, as they are automatic with no coordinated logic, popping up according to your age, circumstances and genre. Use them, they get you to depression if left aside, as they give the power to keep your life. The family instincts are the strongest. It may not be paradise but if you go against them it certainly can be a "frog being slowly boiled alive without noticing".
they are the selfish sex. RICH women who have everything rarely give back to their partners or society. The more. Money the more. Delusional and more greedy It's in their nature to TAKE. This is why even LESBIANS divorce 80% of the time. They hate equality. They hate 50/50 or give back.
@@princessleia9794man literally find nearly every woman attractive but woman only sees 5-10% of men as human let alone a possibility for dating. Problem is feminism and casual widespread missandry.
I’ve been told it’s much better to go to the hills and rural areas. To absolutely stay away from Beijing. The farm women are much better looking, hard working and more affectionate to their spouses.
Wait so that one chick wants a man who has like $650k for a dowry, makes over $138k a year and she makes a grand total of about $500 a month? Those are some wild numbers.
She might be from a rich family. My brother is getting married to a jobless Chinese woman from a rich family. And they told him he has to have a house, and he gave a dowry of 50k usd, which is considered too small.
Most men want feminine, attractive women with a pleasant demeanor. Thats about it. Rich tall men, who most women want, have a lot of options. I feel sorry for women who think only rich tall men are worthy of them, especially if the only thing they have going for them is an education. May as well get a dog.
Dowry is not even a thing on my culture and we can still find a few decent wifes around here, the fact that some of those women who really dont intend to be good wifes think that they can demand dowries is histerical.
"My requirements aren't particularly high" 180cm tall Fair skinned Big eyes Humorous Fun Successful career That is rare in the West, let alone China. The delusion is unbelievable. I'm actually shocked.
@@sylviaj270 to be loved by a husband and the kids is to be treated like trash but being miserable and alone but working yourself to an early grave crying yourself to sleep every night isn't? Lol thanks feminism for saving men from women
@@sylviaj270 "The problem with that is we all witnessed feminine, sweet and loyal women get treated like trash. Most women don’t want to be in their place." We? You mean you? Since men are looking for sweet women it's quite contractionary to claim that these women are the ones being threated like "trash", and not all the other low quality entitled women that likes to cause a scene.
You live you learn or in today's world when it comes to many women they don't learn at all. Sure they have book smarts but not when it comes to what's important in life or relationships. Too many prideful women and pridefulness is one thing that God our creator doesn't like. We didn't create ourselves. 💯🤷♂️
Absolutely,,,what they don't realize is that as the woman gets older she looses her value in men's eye,,,but as the man gets richer his vulue goes up and he can get any woman that's he wants
Chinese culture is like that.I was seeing a man sat on the sidewalk in Hanoi with a sign "I want to buy a wife" while being mocked by Vietnamese people without even knowing it!
Chinese women are extremely hyper and controlling and loud! They are not japanese women sweet soft spoken. These chinese women if you cannot handle them, you will die of heart attack, hypertension, too much stress. They are a headache! Most! Not all!
@@gerardocordero5788creating unnecessary drama on daily basis like shouting, frustrated, shouting on child husband, making her mood swings a big fuss,......
@@LearnEveryday-qr4jlit's pretty common actually for anybody growing up with trauma. But in reality I agree. You can keep your trauma to yourself. No men need charity cases.
Then why don't the men whining like this? Lol. Does that mean few women are promiscuous, that 1 woman can get railed by two husband? 😂 Gay is strictly prohibited in asia, so same sex relationship is out of the picture
that isnt true, i watched a documentary were they explained everything, maybe in the cities, but actually there are like 30M more women in china than men at least
It's the same in the US. but women here sleep around and party into their 30s. Then they are all used up with reputations and want the good-looking 6 foot tall man who earns a lot. I'd rather have the Chinese girl who has a degree rather than the party animal. That gets old real fast.
@@briancole7024so how do we know the Chinese girl didn’t sleep around. Or are you saying the one that end up with degrees end up not sleeping around cause if so I would agree I’m just lost and need clarification
@@HackersSun no it's not the same, ugly short guys are fertile can produce children Women reject based only on looks While for women when they got 30 90% of her eggs are gone, send the healthiest ones are fine Men need fertility to begin a family with a woman, it's not wanted out of women it's needed
@veryslyfox - He was using hyperbole. These women are not leftover; they are extra, extra, super duper leftover on steroids with NOS pumps hooked to the leftover woman gas tanks
"My requirements are not high, I prefer someone over 1.8m tall" in China this is significantly above average, shes 38 and not attractive. Shes spoiled.
So much cope in this video. Old, barely fertile entitled women with busted faces think they are "high quality" when they bring absolutely nothing that a man wants.
Remember guys... ALL these women could get married... but due to hypergamy, their exceptional high standards have created an artificially small dating pool...
Why would a Queen ever lower her crown to that of a peasant? Men are flailing and failing all of the globe and that is why they are begging women to "lower ther standards" because men refuse to meet them 🤷🏾♀️.
Well "not looking" is a bit strong, but does not care for her degrees/education at all (for the most part) would be more accurate... A women degrees rarely gives a man a woodie.
Even if she did own them with 0 debt. What will this do to the rich guy she is looking for? If the rich guy was looking for 2 more properties and 2 cars, he could work for a few yeas and obtain them himself.
@@captainvanisher988 Because at least then what she said would at least be true; instead she comes across as ignorant which in context results in her sounding condescending.
@@captainvanisher988I’m pretty sure she’s saying that to show that she’s capable of sustaining a potential family with her assets not cause she wants to provide for her husband
Rich women have options, but it's none they like. A rich man has his own money, and doesn't need a woman's... what he wants is a woman in her early 20's.
The main problem is that these women automatically inherent their country's centuries old martial burden, much like those women in Japan, India, and Africa. Without that, these women would just be single, childless, and basically happy, sans typical parental pressure, which is timeless and borderless.
"My requirements aren't particularly high"... "I prefer someone over 1.8 meters tall, good-looking, fair-skinned, with big eyes" The freaking delusion I swear. The worst part is that we're talking about China where the average height is lower...
Water is wet, when womens status and wages go up, she keeps adding more and more to her requirements. In reality, in mens eyes, status and wage doesnt matter as much. Her personality, looks and age (eggs) does.
Makeup technology distorted society more than anything else. Now women really believe they deserve better, despite being genetically ugly (sorry), instead catfishing men. But men got smarter, they can eat a catfish once in a while, but next day get back to healthy proteins and gym. ;)
@@Maayaa117 No, because men don´t want to handle it. It is better to get a beautiful young lady who has not the skyrocketing expectations. A talented man can always earn money, they don´t need a woman for this. But wait: The woman with high expectations expects you to cash out tons of your money for some useless luxury shit he really don´t need. So a smart man is not looking for this, easy as it is.
@@Maayaa117 no it's because most older women are emotionally damaged. Young girls have less trauma and less drama most of the time. Most older women are full of shit.
@@Maayaa117 no it's because most older women are emotionally damaged. Young girls have less trauma and less drama most of the time. Most older women are full of shit.
Me to Chinese woman: "Do you want to go to dinner sometime?" Chinese woman: "WHERE YOUR LUXURY CAR?? WHERE YOUR MANSION?? WHERE YOUR MIRRION DORRA??? YOU NO GOOD ENOUGH!" The mystery of leftover women continues.
I had a similar experience when dating Chinese/Asian women. One was shocked when I suggested we get pizza, saying she wanted better food. Another seemed disappointed that I was driving an old car etc etc.
I believe that the problem lies with some women's expectations, rather than with all men. Many women seem to be looking for a perfect partner who earns more than them and may not consider the preferences of men. Additionally, some women do not seem interested in meeting new people, and as a result, they might struggle to find a suitable partner. It's important to be open-minded and respectful when it comes to dating. It's worth noting that according to biology, the optimal age for women to become mothers is between 20 and 30, with fewer complications. After 30, there may be some challenges, and after 40, fertility declines and there can be risks for both the mother and the baby. The reason why people often prefer younger women is that they have more time to plan their families. Overall, it's important to consider various factors when thinking about starting a family.
@astrozoo so many asians have this problem. Like my sister. Parents don't allow dating or any relationship with boys and then suddenly when they 30 with no male friends at all they want them to get married. Shit makes no sense they have no foresight at all.
Parents want their daughters to inherit the family legacy, but as many parents of both women and men are realizing, there's no legacy without the children@@astrozoo The bigger problem is that nobody wants to compromise. Men - and their families - expect these career women to simultaneously fulfill the traditional female roles, or worse, to quit their high paying, prestige bearing jobs to become stay at home mothers and glorified nannies. Women want men whose prestige and status match their self image, but simultaneously expect the men to be available at their whim to take care of their emotional needs. Everyone is used to working ridiculous overtime in full commitment to the job, and many lack even basic social skills to make a relationship work. No wonder marriage is a problem.
And who said that a poor man is a plumber, electrician, or a carpenter cause I know many of them who is holding a hell of a bag but not for narrow minded people.
it's hilarious that people still think trade jobs are "poor man's work" Not a single one of those professions pulls under 6 figures unless you're just starting out as a journeyman.
Those men still make a very good living in China today. It's the western woman's view that has creeped into their society and is destroying it. This is actually planned by the elites so that they can reduce overall planetary population and you will have to admit that it is a genius plan.
@@cjgparas3 his? not sure what your talking about sounded like you want to stay home with mummy treating you like a child until you got to the bit about "his"
@@GreatSageSunWukong it can be that but not necessarily. I think you have no concept of giving love in acts of service and love languages. And you act like a man doesn't give anything...
A rich woman wants to marry someone with money, status, fame. But a rich man just wants a woman who will be his and take care of his children, regardless of how educated or rich she is. Women will never understand that.
@@_aPaladin no they made it to themselves, it's women nature, feminism is just the name of what they do, it's not something outside them Women have to start taking responsibility for the first time in human history
The young woman at the beginning of the video is so beautiful. By the way ladies, for good or bad most men don't really care a jot about your educational qualifications although many of us do admire genuine intelligence.
It's really not that bad, considering these girls don't do OF, and have an actual high paying job and degree, unlike in the US which are just equally entitled but are even worse.
@@lucasljs1545 They're not that old, at least not old enough to be menopausal. It matters, because a two-income household ensures that a family has a steady stream of income. If one of the breadwinners get sick, their partner can cover for the expenses. If we were in the 1970s then a one-income household would be more than enough, unfortunately with the current global economy, everything from basic goods, insurance, healthcare, to real estate have become increasingly difficult to pay off.
25 years ago, when I was approaching 30, two young women asked me out. Both of them were wealthy beyond belief. I turned them both down. I just wasn't interested in them. Their money meant nothing to me. Another woman I dated was from a wealthy family and went to an elite private college, and is now a lawyer. I dumped her. Even in the decades since then, when I've been broke and unemployed at times, I never look back on those women and regret not pursuing them. Meanwhile, I have two master's degrees, and the girl that I was obsessed with was a massage therapist who had no money and never went to college. We really clicked, and we had the same values, but I was 9 years older and I think that intimidated her. It wasn't until recently that I understood that we men as a whole just don't care about a woman's money or academic success.
Maybe im wrong but i think we love down to earth people. Simple, goofy, funny most rich man are more grounded than most rich woman, its how i see, woman take life sometimes too serious maybe a reason why man do dumb things more often even if they are rich😂
Men care how hot women are. Many will say it is superficial but that's just how men are wired. If you can't get past the looks, nohting else matters then...
Men go for looks, butt, hips, and chests but most importantly face/eyes. It helps if she’s not dumb as bricks but is reasonably independent. Some of the most successful girls I know also look the most miserable, flat chested - sure, there are exceptions but I just needed a woman that can cook and be a great mother. My wife is amazing.
Women just need to understand that what they find attractive in a man is not what a man would find attractive in a woman. Just because you're highly educated and draw a good salary does not mean that a man will automatically choose you, because that's what you would want in your man. A man with options would take a 20-year-old girl over a 38-year-old PhD 90% of the time.
In other words, men don't want to meet the standards and expectations of a grown mature woman so they settle for an inexperienced little girl they can shape and mold to meet the bare minimum and cry about it later when she finds a much healthier, attractive, financially stable man in her age group, right cry us a river buddy 🤣🤣🤣🤣!
Doesn't matter if a woman is rich or the cars she drives, why, you ask? Because the men won't get to use any of that money or even the car. A rich man will marry a poor woman. A rich woman will never even spit in the direction of a peasant.
Exactly. A rich man in his 40’s is high value as he will provide for his wife and kids. A rich woman in her 40’s won’t, so it doesn’t matter if she’s successful. She won’t share her wealth with you. She wants you to be more wealthy so you can buy her things that she can’t afford. “2 apartments and bmw”… well, she’s looking for someone that buy her a Ferrari. Simple as that. She’s a high value debt. Nothing else.
i'm not rich, but i could provide for a wife and 3 children alone, but women don't understand not everyone is worth such effort. i have my own house and a popular car, and i cook on my own, i wouldn't care if the woman has a house and cars, but over 99% of women on my situation would reach for a even wealthier men while giving little to no effort on the relationship at all. men wants partners, women wants walking ATMs. Cultural BS around here.
Delusional you fool no one Men care that she is fertile so therefore beautiful, by age 30 90% of her eggs are gone Biology made women to nurture not to work
Yeah, they are like beautyful fruits from outside, but full of bacteria, larva and worms inside XD (BUT i think is not only asian women, but all modern women in the world)
Imaging bragging about your master's degree while failing to understand why you are having such a hard time getting into a serious relationship. _"Come on, high quality young bachelor men! Why aren't you lining up?! I'm showing you all of my red flags! What's keeping you from woo-ing me?!"_
Women won't share any money they make AND they force the guy to pay their student loans. Their money is their money and your money is their money. If they guy loses his job she'll dump him in short order but on average women work full time in their degree less than 5 years in their life, so even female doctors, lawyers, accountants and engineers, become part time or don't work once married, and if they can't they resent it highly and will punish the guy daily for not being a billionaire(even billionaires can't keep a wife, so ..) Key part of her statement, at least to men was "once", who cares how beautiful she was at one time, how beautiful is she now and in the future?
Im not a college graduate and was a cocktail waitress when I met my husband. He was making 75k a year and in the 5 1/2 yrs we’ve been together he’s gotten a raise every year and 3 promotions and now makes 140k base salary a year plus bonuses. He’s a high value man and didn’t need or want a college graduate, just someone who loves him and is loyal with morals and takes care of him. I got very lucky ❤
It's easy for a half decent woman, if a half decent man worked as a barman or something like that he would never get that opportunity from a rich woman.
@@tigerstripey4885 Rich women marry rich men. Rich men marry rich women. Working class men and women doing decent to low income should stop demanding higher class people. And it's not just femcels like the women on this video the ones who do this. Incels do it, too!
The exact same thing is happening in America too. You guys may not realize it but women that are divorced and have children. They're in their early forties. They're not sought after they're having problems. Meeting guys that are serious that want to get together and have a serious relationship. It's a problem here in the US right now
As an nordic man, ivé encounterd many examples of this while dating online. It´s highly rule-based and utterly soulless. Most of the women I talked to, had to resort to alcohol for getting some sleep. The deeply rooted culture "appearance above everything", is deeply troubling and fragile.
And high value in the dating market is different for men and women. For men it's a fat bank account and status for women its youth and beauty. Man, look at that smoking hot bachelors degree said no man ever.
That one women made 3000 x 12.= 36,000 but want "her" man to make a million a year. I understand 50,000 but the arrogance and entitlement. Unbelievable.
8:20 Agreed, even with her "qualifications" putting her at 42,000 Yuan per year ($5800/€5400/£4600 per year); 1 million yuan to too much ($140,000/€130,000/£110,000 per year).
Yeah and you can buy pretty damn impressive house with that sum around here. Why anyone would put that much into high maintenance woman even if dowry system is a thing. I havent and wont pay for even a coffee on dates. 10 year relationship only happened cause she didnt even blink a eye when she went and paid her own drinks on the first date and answered to my question about whos paying, "obviously each of us our own". Now she was a keeper, too bad we grew apart due lack of common interests and become just room mates over time. Thought to help out family while i was visiting and she by her own imperative took gloves from the car, had zero issues taking the shovel and start clearing manure... those girls are keepers, just damn hard to find these days, specially if they are from well off families.
Average women over 30: I want a rich good-looking man with a sense of humor, well-educated and has 2 car and a house. Average men over 30: I just want a young pretty woman; it doesn't matter if she's rich or poor. Rich good-looking men: I want 10 women, under 25 with a measurement 38-26-36, preferred super models.
Women have only recently been liberated from reproductive slavery, domestic slavery. Men are adjusting to the new reality. If you want a wife and kids, be kind, and a partner, not a toxic overbearing MAN!
It's the other way around: Aside from chopsticks and Chinese characters, Shanghai, Shenzhen look basically the same as Seattle, Chicago. But most Americans have partners.
Capitalism and communism are two cheeks of the same backside. Secular ideologies that put material acquisition the goal of life. They just take different routes.
@@tabithan2978 yes. With all the degenerative behavior we see in our society how can you not. We to caught up in this myth of freedom and as a human being your not free to do what you want. There is a cosmic order that must be followed.
If (as a male) you are not from China, you need to be VERY careful opting into a long term relationship with Chinese women .You are not just marrying them, but the whole family. (Note: I just said to be careful, not rejecting it). Next thing you know, you'll be sponsoring the brother in law to live wherever you live, then her mother and father. Then of course they will need somewhere to live and GUESS WHERE THAT WILL BE! ... Spoken (unfortunately) from experience. By the way, the very first comment from the woman in Hangzhou is that she thought she could find an equally high quality bachelor. That statement says everything you need to know - it's all about the money. I left after 18 years of her abuse and because I am male, of course I lost the house as well.
their parents made them like that she studied, she went to cram school, she played piano, she went to good university, she pursued her carreer. SO THAT THEIR PARENTS CAN BRAG ABOUT HER. but now, she's broken, she doesnt want average, cause she's not average, all those times she sacrificed, all the achievements, just to get below average man? no way.
sorry but if a guy goes to a good school but has no social skills he's still a loser, (a otaku in japan), why would anyone consider a girl in the same position, good school but bad personality, be considered any differently.
If any women read this, and you don't understand this, let me enlighten you. Men DO NOT CARE ONE IOTA about how many degrees you have. Please stop telling guys how many degrees you have, we don't care. If you thought you would find some guy who would throw himself at you because you got 74 PhDs and 38 masters, aside from a "that's cool", guys just could not care any less
Unfortunately among some Asian communities especially Chinese, educational qualifications are highly desirable but over hyped. I have a Singaporean Chinese friend who, at 80 years old, still thinks very highly of his MBA obtained 50 years ago. I don't have a university degeee yet my net worth is as high as his. My friend doesn't realise academic qualifications from ages ago mean very little today.
The ONLY thing a guy looks for 1-Youth 2-Beauty 3-Kindness 4-peace. In that order. If you lack one of those, he will put up with you as long as he gets sex. Ecample: You are young but ugly, but bring him peace: He will hide you and have sex with you. You are older but give him peace and quiet: he will have sex with you. If you bring all 4, he will marry you.
@@sktoh4469 HIS, which is exactly my point. For a guy to have some sort of "leg up" on other guys makes him more attractive to women. Women having degrees isn't something men look for.
I'm amazed at how intelligent they are yet lack core basic feminine common sense about their market value at a younger age. I thought Girl-brain learns this at a very young age?
Women are now refusing to take the risk of being financially dependent on a man since that put us in a vulnerable position. What’s worse ? Living a luxurious life for 20 years without working then your husband dumps you for a younger woman and you finish poor with nothing or don’t ever marry, work hard, earn a good salary and finish your life with 20 cats ? I personally would love to have children and a husband but I’m not taking such a risk especially in a world where basic necessities are so expensive…
@@lilbean2239 let me tell you, the current life you are living is soon cooming to an end. War is coming, China and US will soon plunge the world in a world war. The alliances are alredy formed and the blocks knowns. Ukraine is only the first sign of what is to come. If you think that in the future you will be able to have a so called "carrier" in an office, you are delusional. When electricity will be out and food shortage will come you will wish you had used your youth and beauty to secure the protection of a man. Feminism can only exist when the society is in an excess of ressources. But as soon as the barbarism of wars and destruction come, you women go back straight to the instinctual behavior : trading what's between your legs for ressources and protection. You think you have a choice between being a housewife and being independant and making your own money. You are wrong the second choice is going to disappear soon. And war isn't even the only threat to your plan. AI (Artificial intelligence) is rapidly rendering many jobs obsolete. And most of theses jobs are women jobs. Human ressources/ Accounting/ Retail Cashier / or any job that requieres you to enter data into a machine. All of these jobs are bound to disappear. We are standing in near a precipice of changes and the next 20 years are going to be extremely chaotic. But please, go ahead and traverse it without the protection of a man. I'm sure a big girl like you will be able to fare well in it. And if you are in a bind and there's bo food or you can't pay rent. And you are not too old maybe you will still be able to sell what you have down there for a slice of bread
This is what feminism and gender equality bring to this world. It's not only in China. It happen in South Korea, Japan, European, America, Australia, New Zealand. And many countries where feminism and gender equality get strong and become stronger.
So according to you women should only focus on body and produce child ,they don't have their own identity, sorry to say this but you seem to be very mysogyinst and orthodox
I'm an American. I lived and dated in China while I was teaching there. I feel sorry for these girls in the video. They don't seem to understand men at all. However, it should be said that not all Chinese ladies are this clueless.
it's better for her to stay single. Otherwise, if she gets to have kids, they will be raised in a very strange manner and society will repeat the problem of having such a nuts person. Not a social win.
Ouch. I never thought of that...but I guess men do think as such. If only she knew how she is seen from men 's perspective. I am afraid she doesn't know she needed to be appealing and attractive to men/understand what men want in a wife.
Hmm. The 34 year old, making $41k usd a year at her peak ($20k usd current) with a $70k usd EV, a $25k usd EV, and 2 properties.... Something really doesn't add up there...
The whole family, parents, etc., works to pay the mortgages. Plus, leasing a domestically-produced BMW in China isn't too expensive compared to in the West.
China's one child policy helped. She is probably the only child in her family. People who are single children in their families count parents networth as their own.
So the lesson is, no matter where you come from be willing to compromise and find someone ON YOUR LEVEL. If I had to guess, probably the same as western women-be too picky when you’re young and when the nice, submissive girl lands the guy you rejected, act surprised. 🙄
I think too many believe romance novels and movies are blue prints for reality. Most relationships start out as awkward friendships not star crossed lovers. Theres nothing wrong with enjoying fiction. Problem is when they demand fiction matches reality
thats funny because i see women talking about horrible male expectations from fiction homie 90% of my favorite relationships and even my favorite writing trope my self is friends to lovers cuz it feels real
master degree, PHD, two cars, two house, etc has nothing to do with looking for men. yet with that high education and thinking those girl cant process the situation
True, but it probably means a bit more to Chinese men since Chinese are so materialistic... and it's not like you can be a Chinese stay at home mom unless you live in the countryside or marry a millionaire so there is a definite advantage to having a bachelor degree. Just not as much as other things, especially youth.
@@linmal2242 here we see the most common tactic women use, shaming tactics. No argument or anything to provide something useful to the conversation, or a good argument as an rebuttal. Just strait up ad-hominin, as the person has nothing to contribute
These women’s requirements for a man are not realistic, 1.8 meters is 5 feet 11 inches, how many Chinese are that tall lol 😂 and a million yen is 140k us dollars per year, most people in America don’t even make that much.
Sounds just like American women, only with more education. Same ridiculous 'must haves' in a man, while completely disregarding what men actually WANT in a wife.
chinese diplomas aint worth shit, thinking is forbidden in china, so they only memorize things, thats why they are unable to innovate, the steal ip from abroad and act like they invented things
I lived single my entire life, not letting relationships tie me down. It was a conscious choice and honestly, a selfish one. But throughout my life I was able to make choices that made my life better, including walking out on employers without worrying about people depending on me at home. I do my own things, pursue my own interests and walk my own path. I don't regret it.
Hell has many roads that lead to it. And many of them are paved with selfish interest. Those who water will be watered. And those that with hold will only find want.
@@alive_twicedead_once34 WOW dude. Threatening someone with eternal torture because they live differently than you. You must be a shite person. I live singly too. Being able to be bored and just leave when you can is great. Not having ties to a place that force you to stay in a place you hate is one of the most freeing things in the world. So glad there are people like you to tell us how to live. Pious bullshite makes me dislike you immediately. Being forced into living like everyone else makes me sick. I just left my city to move somewhere else because i was bored. Didn't have to worry about schools or my partners job. Just pack the car and go. Can't do that with a family, can we? A lady/dude has to be pretty awesome to make me give up my freedom. They have to prove to me that they are worthy of it. F*ck outta here with your crap. Threatening folks with ghost stories online must be a kink or something.
A Dowry??? Is that like buying an older cow that is about to stop giving milk? Doesn't sound like a good idea. Maybe a price for a young vital cow that has a whole life of giving milk ahead of it is the better idea. When buying a cow, the cow doesn't have a say who buys it. No one gives money to a cow to buy it. I'm just talking cows here. If you relate this to people, that's on you.
@@kanizfatima3447Why'd his mom need to have value in the dating market? She's already married with children. She's loved, respected and looked after as a mother, wife and as a respectable elder.
@@ehsansiam3123 ur right but the comment is saying that in general women lose value as they grow old.. his mom should already have inherent value as a human
@@kanizfatima3447 the comment is saying women lose value as a potential life partner partner as they age and that's true. And his mother has other intrinsic values as I mentioned in the previous comment. Obviously you don't get valued as a mother or a grandmother if you don't become one.
I thought the same. They think that a degree, house and car make them high quality, as if they were men. They are actually extremely low quality women.
There's nothing new to see here. As a man the importance of a woman's wealth is approximately 0%. If I'd want children, I'd look for a woman who looks ok, isn't annoying and isn't too old. Common interests and maybe similar education wouldn't hurt either.
@@howdareyou5800 do you need 10children or smth? If having children is a primary importance for the marriage, then you can get married after a baby ;)
@@borincod a high value man wants the best children out of the healthiest young fertile woman not second best having a baby before marriage just like feminist do is what makes society unstable and women´s life bitter, miserable and resentful ;) i´m cool with that tho 🤗
@@borincod did you not know? marrying an old women make your children have an high likelihood of having something wrong with them, just marry your sister if you don't care about your offspring
0.001% 😂 Because tall and handsome is actually less than 1%. Remove 80% of those guys who are already taken, add up the status and money requirements, then tone of voice, charisma... They want a man who doesn't exist
@@HCforLife1 In European countries tall and handsome are the norm. Where do you live? I think these Chinese women just want an European male. And there are videos about this and how Chinese men are mad because these supposed "left over women" are actually marrying handsome, tall, charming, rich white males. It's actually Chinese men who are left overs. Chinese women don't want Chinese men genes because they think they are ugly and they don't want ugly children. Basically Chinese women will "clean" the gene pool and most Chinese in the future will look like Eastern Russians. Remember, women ALWAYS are the ones who choose their partners and they want the best genes possible (best looking males) so their offspring will have better health (looks = health).
It's same tick box Amazon approach on western dating apps. Women's objective needs: 6foot or taller, high income, university /masters degree etc = reduces the potential available dates pool to less than 1%!n😊
Not to mention in asia those 180cm+ height would show a lower percentage than our western counterparts. Plus if you put her age there (38), i feel she is just trolling lol
There's always a 20 year old girl for a rich man to have, and old women are desperate still shamelessly having those unrealistic standards and can't accept the truth yet ignore the fact that they had countless chances when they were young... this is how this market works.
@esquizoafectivo Why not build something together? Also, as a man, is it fair for you to struggle to build something all alone, get married, and lose all or half of it in the divorce?
@@Guess_Wh0o Is it fair as a man? Is it fair if you wanted to be the only source of income in the relation. If you have a wife who is young, would stay at home, do laundry, raise kids, wash the dishes, clean the house and cook, she is basically giving up all of her potential and future for you. If the relationship breaks after some years she would end not having a college degree, not having any work experience or skill to get a job and being too old to start learning. So yeah, it's fair.
Assuming your numbers are right the odds that her ideal man exists are 0.0003%. But of course the men in this diminutive pool have their preferences too... this is why demographic collapse is inevitable in most countries with decent standard of living.
@ThatOneInTenThousand.. oh my god! (I am a female) when u wrote it out like that..I can't help but feel "oppps" fr that HelloKitty lady! Yeah she s appearing not mature and too old fr these...I guess no wonder why men are turned off by her..
@@MelodyKittyCandy0007 the "psychology" side of that room translates to: "I've lost my innocence as a young woman and now I'm trying to hold on to the appearance of innocence (dolls,teddy bear, plushies) ...don't lose yours.
@@grizzlygrizzlethis kinda reads like girls judging guys for playing video games or being into geeky stuff, she might just be an avid fan of the series like I am with Monster Hunter, lets not outright alienate people for their interests, that dowry is ridiculous though.
A strong, high value, successful man has little use for a woman with degrees and ambition. He wants someone to hold down the fort while he slays dragons. He wants someone who is nurturing and will be a good mother to their children, keep everyone fed and cared for, be his lover, and respect him both in public and private. The strong successful man wants a tradwife but they are quite rare in China.
This. I can't understand why so many women just don't get it. Of course they can choose to be something else, be an "independent" ambitious career girl if that's what makes them happy, but it's never going to change what succesful men want from a partner.
You don’t know if someone will be a good mother when they haven’t had children yet. Also, someone with a courier can be a good mother like my sister who has a career and there’s also a good mother.
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Rich men will marry poor woman, but rich women want richer men... 😅😅😅
No they want equal, don’t be misogynist
And loving, trust worthy wife that is not a drag ie expects everything to be handed to her cause she has pair of tits, hence just wasting money, not understanding its value is what men look if they are looking actual wife for marriage and family. These women sure seem great financially, but lack before mentioned traits witch someone from countryside most likely has. I'm decently well off, but even if was millionaire, i would not even consider trophy wife, ones that dont have mental capability to consider, "hey this job needs to be done, theres a shovel, lets start shoveling manure", specially if its for the betterment of your new family/husband/children. If you go gagging for idea of changing the diapers or not grabbing the shovel cause your nails might get damaged, you are nothing more than wall ornament and once your best by date is due... well these women already know it.
@@quincyjones5676 don't be ignorant of the market dynamics 🤣
@@quincyjones5676Did the dating markets change? All of the data is out there. Money up ladies dont date down 😂
true, as long as she is pretty and kind.
help me understand, how does a degree or piece of paper from an education institution makes you a high quality potential wife?
I'm failing to understand that too... Also, it's not hard to get married. People are making it seem so complicated. I got married when I was young with my h.s sweetheart, we had a very small wedding and told our parents if they want to party like animals they can pay for it....and that was it. After that we built our lives together... These women have been sold such a b.s that you need to wait until....until idk when at this point lol.
No wonder she is in trouble getting married. Wrong view of value.
chinese society be like that
Only someone with limited education would write something this stupid. How about potential income?
That's China for you. It's more about what you have than what you are.
Rich women want equally rich or richer men . But rich men want young women
Bingo.
💯%Correct
Real
I'd say they just want a woman that wants them, a partner not a competitor.
@@Viconius Men want YOUNG CHILDESS woman.
Its not because you view it other way, men wont change for you.
34 years old, masters degree, two homes, two cars ("This is one of my BMW's"), and she's single. In Los Angeles we call that The Lottery for broke men...
but that women will not settle for broke guys
Or stray dogs
Not a lottery but a trap.
Educated women get matches from Educated men. That's how it is in Asia. I am Indian even here families arrange marriages like that. A well educated Indian girl will have a better chance of securing a educated husband. We don't marry for infatuation likes Westerners do. We see family and future compatibility.
@@baloo212 but in india now divorce cases are increasing rapidly , what you will do with future compatibility when u dont like the person
A 38 year old woman with a hello kitty bedroom and still needs to be praised for washing the dishes by her parents... Alarm bells are ringing in my head.
That means she’s lazy
No better way of saying it than you did.
Lol
She needs a servant and a daddy more than a husband.
She's spoiled
Nothing wrong with liking Hello Kitty, responsibilities are important though
They became the men they are seeking
Nah, they wouldn't date themselves, because they can't paradoxically make more money than themselves, and thus not be up to their own stadards of "be better than me in every way possible"😂
@@Ren33469 you were so close to saying something much better than that: they wouldn't date each other because they wouldn't like their own reflection and they'd end up making it a competition.
@@D0NU75
I like what I said >.>
that happens to people in general, if you’re a nasty person you’re probably going to attract a nasty spouse. Men there aren’t immune to this either. the gender indifferences in those countries are deeply rooted in their cultures, in ways some westerners misunderstand. Both men and women in that society have done horrible things to each other, since they’re taught to value themselves over anyone else in their lives everything by default becomes a competition there. Western society has its faults, but you’d never see something like the 1 child policy be put into place, which is something deeply rooted in misogyny, not misandry. People trying to view this in a western anti-feminist lens arent getting the full picture. Can it not be argued that their male supremacy views of the past are what’s causing the social turbulence they’re seeing right now?
Thank God I was raised how to be a housewife!
Damn….almost $700k to marry a chick who lives at home with her parents and is clearly full of herself? No thanks. Would rather keep my money.
They do that in Trinidad 🇹🇹. A bride price
Confucius say, to marry like spider web, soon lead to undoing of fly.
With her high monetary wants and the arrogance. She would be a bad investment. The marriage would not last long.
She is beautiful.
But her beauty is only skin deep. Sad.
@@les8518 and her beauty will last just a few years
Aint that the woman who only makes 3500 chinese yen a month. JESUS!! XD HAHHA
I’m old, independent, educated and bossy and want to get married.
Lol
Kinda sounds cool
😂
lol, Nah, You're better to be not cause love is not never be real lmao
Chinese Parents to there kids:
8 Years old - Stay in school and away from boys
14 Years old - Stay in school and away from boys
20 Years old - Stay in School and away from boys
25 Years old - How come I don't have any grandkids yet
since they wer young, often chinese parents already have chosen their predestined partners of their children through their friends
@@yagskie1984 That's the old, traditional, rural society . . . not modern, urban Hollywood.
what about stay away from girls?
but go figure, 18 years up both men and women can take their own desitions
what about starting to take accountability?
You are forgetting they choose the path they took
But ladies can't have accountability
"Culture" and her parents also pressured her to marry before 27 to don't be a zhiang yiu (left over woman)
Precisely. However a good education will help the daughter to remain in good employment hopefully even though she may be backing in suitors. No harm, plenty of middle age Chinese women do find romance in Western partners or non Chinese partners too
"i prefer a guy over 1.8m tall, good looking, fair skined with big eyes, humorous and able to have fun with me, must have own career." give this woman a dog!
For god's sake......crazy. if she didn't mention her age i would think she's nearing 50. And this narrator told me us she's sweet looking. Delusional
Looking for toys or what??
If I say , I need girl having juicy and tight boobs, gloosy lips 👄, virgin ?? So what you think
a 1.8m dog would be something else..
You mean a half-dozen cats?
And, I agree: She looks 54, not 34. @bryanleong5939
90 percent of people have absolutely no idea, whatsoever, how incredibly privileged they truly are to have genuine friends, family and loved ones.
I listen to these stories and the only thing I hear is people who want economic value. A woman making 42K Yuen per year wants a man making 1 million yuen. The dowry has to be 5 million yuen. She brings her height as a 'value' to the table. It's like I woke up in a circus.
The value of true friendships doesn't even enter the equation. One woman has two houses and two cars because that does what for her social status?
In the mean time buying a house should no longer be out of reach of most Chinese because the housing market is tanking hard. This real estate bust won't be resolved for decades.
In the mean time the high status women aren't getting younger, young men have no means to pursue a decent family life. None of them, or so it seems, is even considering actually loving the person they see, for marriage. It's a passionate love story from one bank account to another. AND they have to have degrees.
China is not going to have to fear over population in this century and housing will become very cheap as the population is aging out and young people don't care to marry [not an essential for building a family] and having a family. You also heard about the people who were raised as an only child. Those people are used to being doted on and they never had to learn to share with siblings. Those are not the people who want children because then all the attention will have to go to the child, no longer to them.
They said the human population would climb to 10 billion. That's not going to happen. There are too many people not having children. About 250 million young Chinese don't want to marry and have children. Imagine how many fewer children that will yield.
No clue of basic instincts. A man will always get a better job and earn more as soon as he gets a family. They MUST have the NEED, it is the trigger for the instincts. It all comes in a set, you can not pick a part and leave aside some bits.
Everyone gets exponential power, they do things they would have not dare, they find doors they didn't know.
Even the woman choice of someone earning more is just hidden instinct used wrongly as it has not been acknowledged .
A man with less money power is wrongly perceived weak when you don't know basic things in life.
You are supposed to use your instincts, no the other way round, as they are automatic with no coordinated logic, popping up according to your age, circumstances and genre.
Use them, they get you to depression if left aside, as they give the power to keep your life. The family instincts are the strongest. It may not be paradise but if you go against them it certainly can be a "frog being slowly boiled alive without noticing".
good comment
The need to be a slave?
BS
Like saying that women have to have the need for a man in order to love him 🤗
I was single child and i can tell you i never Had any attention on me. All my life i was left to myself since parents ware never home.
Men do not care about how much money women make, men care for respect and loving women
These people seem to think living in a rural area makes you less of a person.
Sounds like people living in big cities USA, think most country folk are stupid or something
Which is true how rural men been raised like a king and been brainwashed they are superior than anybody. There misogyny attitude make them indeed less of a person
yet they need the farmers more than they need them.
Different values? Different habit? Maybe a quick way to divorce😂
Are u rural
"My requirements aren't particularly high"
"He should be over 1.8m tall..."
In China... 😂
North Chinese and Korean are quite tall actually
Average is 1.75m according to Google so 1.80m is not a high standard
@@EdoHP If your standard is above what is average then by definition you have a high standard.
Rofl 😂 true dude
@@splizzex And average 175 I think is not even norm in Europe.
@@EdoHP You took the one province where people are the tallest in all of China and that standard is still above, so yes your standard is not just high but borderline unrealistic if you take into consideration all the other standards that she may have
A rich man will always look a broke woman’s way. A rich woman will never look a broke man’s way.
No clue of basic instincts. A man will always get a better job and earn more as soon as he gets a family. .They MUST have the NEED, it is the trigger for the instincts. It all comes in a set, you can not pick a part and leave aside some bits.
Everyone gets exponential power, they do things they would have not dare, they find doors they didn't know.
Even the woman choice of someone earning more is just hidden instinct used wrongly as it has not been acknowledged .
A man with less money power is wrongly perceived weak when you don't know basic things in life.
You are supposed to use your instincts, no the other way round, as they are automatic with no coordinated logic, popping up according to your age, circumstances and genre.
Use them, they get you to depression if left aside, as they give the power to keep your life. The family instincts are the strongest. It may not be paradise but if you go against them it certainly can be a "frog being slowly boiled alive without noticing".
they are the selfish sex. RICH women who have everything rarely give back to their partners or society.
The more. Money the more. Delusional and more greedy
It's in their nature to TAKE.
This is why even LESBIANS divorce 80% of the time. They hate equality. They hate 50/50 or give back.
Rich man will look a broke but beautiful/sexy woman.
@inesdamonteines3985 cope
@@princessleia9794man literally find nearly every woman attractive but woman only sees 5-10% of men as human let alone a possibility for dating. Problem is feminism and casual widespread missandry.
I’ve been told it’s much better to go to the hills and rural areas. To absolutely stay away from Beijing. The farm women are much better looking, hard working and more affectionate to their spouses.
True in all countries, not just China
😂😂😂
@@Ana-h3w Sheng na!
These women hit the Great Wall
😂😂😂😂
🤣Yup.....the only difference with AMERICAN women is THEY AREN'T RICH!
This one right here is gold
This comment won😂
DAMN
Wait so that one chick wants a man who has like $650k for a dowry, makes over $138k a year and she makes a grand total of about $500 a month? Those are some wild numbers.
They missing more than just a chromosome 😂😂😂
She might be from a rich family. My brother is getting married to a jobless Chinese woman from a rich family. And they told him he has to have a house, and he gave a dowry of 50k usd, which is considered too small.
Where do they get these aspirations? Internet? Thinking all foreigners are rich? CCP plan to infiltrate the West?
Yeah Ive had more attractive girls for free
Most men want feminine, attractive women with a pleasant demeanor. Thats about it.
Rich tall men, who most women want, have a lot of options.
I feel sorry for women who think only rich tall men are worthy of them, especially if the only thing they have going for them is an education. May as well get a dog.
_'I have income of $484 per month. Please give $691,000 dowry.'_
its absurd
Dowry is not even a thing on my culture and we can still find a few decent wifes around here, the fact that some of those women who really dont intend to be good wifes think that they can demand dowries is histerical.
That's why prostitution is so common in China. You can buy better looking girls for her daily and still be cheaper than the dowry.
😂
Earns 3,500 yuan monthly salary
Wants 5,000,000 yuan dowry
5,000,000 / 3,500 = 1428.5 months
That’s 119 years of salary.
She makes 3500Y ($480) per month, and expects dowry of 500000Y($68000)? Naaah, that's an easy pass. She just wants a man to get out of poverty.
No, she wants 5000000 ($680,000)😂
As do most women bcus why not
"My requirements aren't particularly high"
180cm tall
Fair skinned
Big eyes
Humorous
Fun
Successful career
That is rare in the West, let alone China. The delusion is unbelievable. I'm actually shocked.
180cm+ and big eye in a chinese man is as possible as winning the lottery twice in the same day
Big eyes in china? 😂😂😂@@Bunnymorphosis
That's quite common in Europe tbh.
@@Vanduo610 It's not that uncommon among the Uygurs, whom the Han are sterilizing.
@@TitB1199 That's what happens when you're infatuated with Hollywood, especially James Bond movies.
If you marry a queen, you don't become a king, you are a consort. But if a woman marries a king she is a queen.
That's not how that works. Just ask Consort queen Camilla.
lmao what bullshit is this. What happened to princess Diana? We all know if we depend on another gender too much its over for us
@@genevieveaniko6492 well she was in the nobility first
@@FULANODETAL that changes nothing.
Treat her like a queen, she'll treat you like a peasant.
Men don’t care about your money, degrees and degrees. Just be feminine, sweet and loyal .
This. Can't believe it's so hard for women to understand such a simple concept.
Are they the rational ones?
The problem with that is we all witnessed feminine, sweet and loyal women get treated like trash. Most women don’t want to be in their place.
@@sylviaj270 to be loved by a husband and the kids is to be treated like trash but being miserable and alone but working yourself to an early grave crying yourself to sleep every night isn't?
Lol thanks feminism for saving men from women
@@sylviaj270 "The problem with that is we all witnessed feminine, sweet and loyal women get treated like trash. Most women don’t want to be in their place."
We? You mean you? Since men are looking for sweet women it's quite contractionary to claim that these women are the ones being threated like "trash", and not all the other low quality entitled women that likes to cause a scene.
"A girl's most precious asset is her youth" very profound statements.
Don't send your daughter to school then.....
@@jacksonripper-mp8dr bachelor is finished at 21/22 , master at 24, I mean come on, still very young
@@MoHi-cx8py I am saying education is not important if you want a stay at home wife meant for cooking, cleaning and raising kids....
same for men, because young women deserve young men
@@elsatheicyqueen4651 but young women themselves go after older men....
From my experience, these "left over women" are largely left over because they wont accept a man without a multi property dowry
true
You live you learn or in today's world when it comes to many women they don't learn at all. Sure they have book smarts but not when it comes to what's important in life or relationships. Too many prideful women and pridefulness is one thing that God our creator doesn't like. We didn't create ourselves. 💯🤷♂️
Absolutely,,,what they don't realize is that as the woman gets older she looses her value in men's eye,,,but as the man gets richer his vulue goes up and he can get any woman that's he wants
Confucius say, man who kisses girl's behind, get crack in face.
They aren’t left over, they are too picky. They don’t want any man, they want a man with multiple home
Young men are not disillusioned with love we're just tired of being used as an ATM
women complain about being objectified as a pretty thing, no one talks about men being objectified as farm equipment.
I think it's all men, not just young men. Go ahead - ask my ex. She sure hit the limit on withdrawals for me.
They are not looking for love, They are looking rich, tall, handsom single man and buy him. This is sick.
True. It's not love. It's just a market where the highest quality product gets sold.
They're not buying anything. They expect the man to be richer than them too
Ugly women want to buy attractive man. Doesn't work like that.
Romantic love is a western thing from the renaissance, marriage in China never had this transformation
Chinese culture is like that.I was seeing a man sat on the sidewalk in Hanoi with a sign "I want to buy a wife" while being mocked by Vietnamese people without even knowing it!
In China women remain single because they become to successful. In America they remain single because hey have different baby daddies ! 😂😂😂
I was married to a woman from Beijing, got divorced after 12 years of her abusing me. you all can stay unmarried
How did she abuse you?
Chinese women are extremely hyper and controlling and loud! They are not japanese women sweet soft spoken. These chinese women if you cannot handle them, you will die of heart attack, hypertension, too much stress. They are a headache!
Most! Not all!
Got suckered in by the Dong bei cooch, who told you to do that?
@@gerardocordero5788creating unnecessary drama on daily basis like shouting, frustrated, shouting on child husband, making her mood swings a big fuss,......
@@LearnEveryday-qr4jlit's pretty common actually for anybody growing up with trauma. But in reality I agree. You can keep your trauma to yourself. No men need charity cases.
The thing that is most striking is that there are more men than women in China.
Then why don't the men whining like this? Lol. Does that mean few women are promiscuous, that 1 woman can get railed by two husband? 😂 Gay is strictly prohibited in asia, so same sex relationship is out of the picture
MGTOW hit Asia hard.
that isnt true, i watched a documentary were they explained everything, maybe in the cities, but actually there are like 30M more women in china than men at least
@@DrCruel Nah, they're just too poor to get a girl from what I've seen.
Poor men from the countryside. Both are picky AF. Men want them younger than 28. Women want a million things from a man.
8:21, she wants a man that earns 1 million yuan per year while she earns 40k per year. This is not right, even the interviewer got scared.
Work 5+ years just to pay a Dowry as well lol
It's the same in the US. but women here sleep around and party into their 30s. Then they are all used up with reputations and want the good-looking 6 foot tall man who earns a lot. I'd rather have the Chinese girl who has a degree rather than the party animal. That gets old real fast.
That’s $5,500 usd a year… wtf is she doing with her life
@@briancole7024so how do we know the Chinese girl didn’t sleep around.
Or are you saying the one that end up with degrees end up not sleeping around cause if so I would agree I’m just lost and need clarification
She also wanted a dowry of 5mil, equivalent to 125 years of her salary.. this woman better go marry an alien ....
Even in China, the unrealistic standards and demands are off the chain. Truly, China is becoming ever more westernized.
Why? You think Nobles just married Commoners? 😊
Damn, those women aren't leftover, they are untouchable! Women trying to use men's metric for success is destined for failure.
@veryslyfox if a man makes good money, he'll be always at his peak
It's also that Asain guys in particular don't like women over 25 :/
Requirements on both sides are very superficial, money and looks ugh
@@HackersSun no it's not the same, ugly short guys are fertile can produce children
Women reject based only on looks
While for women when they got 30 90% of her eggs are gone, send the healthiest ones are fine
Men need fertility to begin a family with a woman, it's not wanted out of women it's needed
@veryslyfox - He was using hyperbole. These women are not leftover; they are extra, extra, super duper leftover on steroids with NOS pumps hooked to the leftover woman gas tanks
@veryslyfoxleftovers assumes that they wanted to be married. These women would rather die alone than marry any guy below their standard😂
"My requirements are not high, I prefer someone over 1.8m tall" in China this is significantly above average, shes 38 and not attractive. Shes spoiled.
FACTS!!!!!
Spoiled, no. Dreaming, yes.
Their demands don’t match what they can give
So much cope in this video. Old, barely fertile entitled women with busted faces think they are "high quality" when they bring absolutely nothing that a man wants.
Delusional. 1.8m is about 5'11". Average height in China is 5' 7". It only proves that women are nutty the world over.
Remember guys... ALL these women could get married... but due to hypergamy, their exceptional high standards have created an artificially small dating pool...
Absolutely correct.
Hoeflation
Better be free from modern women
Asian women generally don't do hypergamy. Especially not in Asia. It's just straight up delusion.
they built their own gilded cages, now they trapped themselves in them.
high quality single men want nothing to do with bitter bossy women
The "high quality" men she's looking for are NOT looking for an educated high quality female.
High value my ass! Most of you basement bros are low value at best 🤣🤣🤣🤣!
Why would a Queen ever lower her crown to that of a peasant? Men are flailing and failing all of the globe and that is why they are begging women to "lower ther standards" because men refuse to meet them 🤷🏾♀️.
Well "not looking" is a bit strong, but does not care for her degrees/education at all (for the most part) would be more accurate...
A women degrees rarely gives a man a woodie.
Correct, the more educated they are the more entitled and headaches they tend to be.
@@rpphoenix8253just be with men at this point
"I own two homes and two cars"
No, they belong to the bank. You own the debt.
Astronomically BASED
You beat me to the punch
Even if she did own them with 0 debt. What will this do to the rich guy she is looking for? If the rich guy was looking for 2 more properties and 2 cars, he could work for a few yeas and obtain them himself.
@@captainvanisher988
Because at least then what she said would at least be true; instead she comes across as ignorant which in context results in her sounding condescending.
@@captainvanisher988I’m pretty sure she’s saying that to show that she’s capable of sustaining a potential family with her assets not cause she wants to provide for her husband
Rich men have options, rich women don’t.
Rich women have options, but it's none they like. A rich man has his own money, and doesn't need a woman's... what he wants is a woman in her early 20's.
like a 19 year old
Rich women have options, too, but their women's nature won't let them see it.
Rich women are cougars
Agreed! The irony is that the wealthier a woman is the less options she has.
The main problem is that these women automatically inherent their country's centuries old martial burden, much like those women in Japan, India, and Africa.
Without that, these women would just be single, childless, and basically happy, sans typical parental pressure, which is timeless and borderless.
"My requirements aren't particularly high"...
"I prefer someone over 1.8 meters tall, good-looking, fair-skinned, with big eyes"
The freaking delusion I swear. The worst part is that we're talking about China where the average height is lower...
Would be 1m90 everywhere else
I would not go near that crazy hello kitty princess
So she wants a white man basically?
Fair skinned 😂
@@lilze69 but with Chinese princeling money
women complaining about not finding a man while keeping a Mount Everest standard for men.
Water is wet, when womens status and wages go up, she keeps adding more and more to her requirements. In reality, in mens eyes, status and wage doesnt matter as much. Her personality, looks and age (eggs) does.
Makeup technology distorted society more than anything else. Now women really believe they deserve better, despite being genetically ugly (sorry), instead catfishing men. But men got smarter, they can eat a catfish once in a while, but next day get back to healthy proteins and gym. ;)
The men have standards too. She doesn't meet them.
More a Mt. Olympus Mons.😁
Straight women problem. If I'm a woman, a "high quality" (in China's standard) woman in China, I would go for a woman easily 🤣
Older High value women want a high value man, but high value men want young beautiful women who make less than own😅
@@Maayaa117 No, because men don´t want to handle it. It is better to get a beautiful young lady who has not the skyrocketing expectations. A talented man can always earn money, they don´t need a woman for this. But wait: The woman with high expectations expects you to cash out tons of your money for some useless luxury shit he really don´t need. So a smart man is not looking for this, easy as it is.
Why would a man suffer for a worthless leftover women
They so NOT Worth it!
@@Maayaa117 no it's because most older women are emotionally damaged. Young girls have less trauma and less drama most of the time. Most older women are full of shit.
@@Maayaa117 no it's because most older women are emotionally damaged. Young girls have less trauma and less drama most of the time. Most older women are full of shit.
True
Remember, unlike most men these women are single by choice. They most likely had infinite options in their 20s but deemed most men not good enough
Me to Chinese woman: "Do you want to go to dinner sometime?"
Chinese woman: "WHERE YOUR LUXURY CAR?? WHERE YOUR MANSION?? WHERE YOUR MIRRION DORRA??? YOU NO GOOD ENOUGH!"
The mystery of leftover women continues.
Mirrion Dorra pronunciation is hilarious when you think about it.
😂😂😂 I love how they're no different anywhere else in the world where the women are raised to be super career driven
I read that in the Chinese accent lol 🤣
I had a similar experience when dating Chinese/Asian women. One was shocked when I suggested we get pizza, saying she wanted better food. Another seemed disappointed that I was driving an old car etc etc.
Confucius say, man with tool in woman's mouth not necessarily dentist.
These women talking like it’s a job interview. Men don’t care about that. We care about your hospitality, nurturing, common interests, etc
Where those damn woman Robots, We done with Woman.
no they want young women
These women aren't looking for love. They are looking for machines that will just fulfill their needs
I believe that the problem lies with some women's expectations, rather than with all men. Many women seem to be looking for a perfect partner who earns more than them and may not consider the preferences of men. Additionally, some women do not seem interested in meeting new people, and as a result, they might struggle to find a suitable partner. It's important to be open-minded and respectful when it comes to dating. It's worth noting that according to biology, the optimal age for women to become mothers is between 20 and 30, with fewer complications. After 30, there may be some challenges, and after 40, fertility declines and there can be risks for both the mother and the baby. The reason why people often prefer younger women is that they have more time to plan their families. Overall, it's important to consider various factors when thinking about starting a family.
@@passionforMed4 that too but everything else he said was true too.
parents forcing their daughters to study and work hard during their youth now complaining about marriage? lol
The Soviet system offered the right to a woman to take a place in society. capitalism has made this an absolute...
@@FADNaRBoth are material obsessed societies that infected the spiritual will of a people.
They didin't date. So they didin't get married. It's not suprising
@astrozoo so many asians have this problem. Like my sister. Parents don't allow dating or any relationship with boys and then suddenly when they 30 with no male friends at all they want them to get married. Shit makes no sense they have no foresight at all.
Parents want their daughters to inherit the family legacy, but as many parents of both women and men are realizing, there's no legacy without the children@@astrozoo
The bigger problem is that nobody wants to compromise. Men - and their families - expect these career women to simultaneously fulfill the traditional female roles, or worse, to quit their high paying, prestige bearing jobs to become stay at home mothers and glorified nannies. Women want men whose prestige and status match their self image, but simultaneously expect the men to be available at their whim to take care of their emotional needs. Everyone is used to working ridiculous overtime in full commitment to the job, and many lack even basic social skills to make a relationship work.
No wonder marriage is a problem.
Asking for a Chinese guy to be 6 foot tall is like asking to find an American who’s 6”6. Yeah they exist but how often do you see them?
Why not marry a poor man with skills like plumbing, electrician, or carpentry. A man with those skills is gold.
Funnily enough those are super high paid Jobs in germany lol.talking 60k to 120k€ per year
And who said that a poor man is a plumber, electrician, or a carpenter cause I know many of them who is holding a hell of a bag but not for narrow minded people.
Not in china. These are labour skill, low paid job for the poor. Very different to countries in the West.
it's hilarious that people still think trade jobs are "poor man's work" Not a single one of those professions pulls under 6 figures unless you're just starting out as a journeyman.
Those men still make a very good living in China today. It's the western woman's view that has creeped into their society and is destroying it. This is actually planned by the elites so that they can reduce overall planetary population and you will have to admit that it is a genius plan.
High quality woman = down to earth and easy to be around
The greatest trait of a wife is one who loves to cook for his family.
@@cjgparas3 his? not sure what your talking about sounded like you want to stay home with mummy treating you like a child until you got to the bit about "his"
@@GreatSageSunWukongcoping?
yep malding even
@@GreatSageSunWukong it can be that but not necessarily. I think you have no concept of giving love in acts of service and love languages.
And you act like a man doesn't give anything...
A rich woman wants to marry someone with money, status, fame. But a rich man just wants a woman who will be his and take care of his children, regardless of how educated or rich she is. Women will never understand that.
Feminism has lied to them...
@@_aPaladin no they made it to themselves, it's women nature, feminism is just the name of what they do, it's not something outside them
Women have to start taking responsibility for the first time in human history
Smart men don't typically seek uneducated women to raise their children.
@@howdareyou5800 that'll never happen.
@@JeffCaplan313 u can be sure about that, better to be free
The young woman at the beginning of the video is so beautiful. By the way ladies, for good or bad most men don't really care a jot about your educational qualifications although many of us do admire genuine intelligence.
You don’t define yourself as “high quality”, that is defined by the market
It's really not that bad, considering these girls don't do OF, and have an actual high paying job and degree, unlike in the US which are just equally entitled but are even worse.
Werd. 🤘
"The market." 😂
@@ayemjake they are old. What does their degree matters for?
@@lucasljs1545 They're not that old, at least not old enough to be menopausal. It matters, because a two-income household ensures that a family has a steady stream of income. If one of the breadwinners get sick, their partner can cover for the expenses. If we were in the 1970s then a one-income household would be more than enough, unfortunately with the current global economy, everything from basic goods, insurance, healthcare, to real estate have become increasingly difficult to pay off.
25 years ago, when I was approaching 30, two young women asked me out. Both of them were wealthy beyond belief. I turned them both down. I just wasn't interested in them. Their money meant nothing to me. Another woman I dated was from a wealthy family and went to an elite private college, and is now a lawyer. I dumped her. Even in the decades since then, when I've been broke and unemployed at times, I never look back on those women and regret not pursuing them. Meanwhile, I have two master's degrees, and the girl that I was obsessed with was a massage therapist who had no money and never went to college. We really clicked, and we had the same values, but I was 9 years older and I think that intimidated her. It wasn't until recently that I understood that we men as a whole just don't care about a woman's money or academic success.
Maybe im wrong but i think we love down to earth people.
Simple, goofy, funny most rich man are more grounded than most rich woman, its how i see, woman take life sometimes too serious maybe a reason why man do dumb things more often even if they are rich😂
Men care how hot women are. Many will say it is superficial but that's just how men are wired. If you can't get past the looks, nohting else matters then...
Perfect example of how men operate in the dating game
Men go for looks, butt, hips, and chests but most importantly face/eyes. It helps if she’s not dumb as bricks but is reasonably independent. Some of the most successful girls I know also look the most miserable, flat chested - sure, there are exceptions but I just needed a woman that can cook and be a great mother. My wife is amazing.
Not every man, especially quality one, is interested in a simple, village girl. So speak for yourself.
Women just need to understand that what they find attractive in a man is not what a man would find attractive in a woman. Just because you're highly educated and draw a good salary does not mean that a man will automatically choose you, because that's what you would want in your man.
A man with options would take a 20-year-old girl over a 38-year-old PhD 90% of the time.
In other words, men don't want to meet the standards and expectations of a grown mature woman so they settle for an inexperienced little girl they can shape and mold to meet the bare minimum and cry about it later when she finds a much healthier, attractive, financially stable man in her age group, right cry us a river buddy 🤣🤣🤣🤣!
the same goes for a female looking for a man-
@@eutha6 wait are you saying women dont want a NICE man?
a 38 year old man who only wants a uneducated 20 year old is a red flag to all womenkind
👍
I don't see the problem being single, I'm 30 yo and never got a girlfriend, and I feel just fine.
Different for men
Doesn't matter if a woman is rich or the cars she drives, why, you ask? Because the men won't get to use any of that money or even the car. A rich man will marry a poor woman. A rich woman will never even spit in the direction of a peasant.
Unless he is an attractive peasant and she is a cougar.
Exactly. A rich man in his 40’s is high value as he will provide for his wife and kids.
A rich woman in her 40’s won’t, so it doesn’t matter if she’s successful. She won’t share her wealth with you. She wants you to be more wealthy so you can buy her things that she can’t afford. “2 apartments and bmw”… well, she’s looking for someone that buy her a Ferrari. Simple as that.
She’s a high value debt. Nothing else.
i'm not rich, but i could provide for a wife and 3 children alone, but women don't understand not everyone is worth such effort. i have my own house and a popular car, and i cook on my own, i wouldn't care if the woman has a house and cars, but over 99% of women on my situation would reach for a even wealthier men while giving little to no effort on the relationship at all. men wants partners, women wants walking ATMs. Cultural BS around here.
Delusional you fool no one
Men care that she is fertile so therefore beautiful, by age 30 90% of her eggs are gone
Biology made women to nurture not to work
@B_T.E.A.M. no argument. its true.
The positive point here is nice to know it's not just the USA.
True, but if you take out the immigrant women to USA, Chinese women look way better than the American ones.
It’s female nature, it’s everywhere on developed countries
They say 2030 will break records for single childless women in the west 🤷
Hypergarmy is what they call it
Interestingly most millionaire men would have no problem marrying a farm girl but most millionaire women would not marry a farm boy 🤷
I dated a Chinese woman on and off for 5 years, I still have PTSD.
I dated a Japanese girl
I understood why they agree dry fish
My off and ons always ended up off. Shoulda quit after the first off.
@@howdareyou5800What? 😂
@@gintonicx6 called I meant, not agreed
Damn auto correct
Yeah, they are like beautyful fruits from outside, but full of bacteria, larva and worms inside XD (BUT i think is not only asian women, but all modern women in the world)
Imaging bragging about your master's degree while failing to understand why you are having such a hard time getting into a serious relationship.
_"Come on, high quality young bachelor men! Why aren't you lining up?! I'm showing you all of my red flags! What's keeping you from woo-ing me?!"_
“she was once a top student and campus beauty”. That hit unnecessarily hard 😂😂😂😂
Women won't share any money they make AND they force the guy to pay their student loans. Their money is their money and your money is their money. If they guy loses his job she'll dump him in short order but on average women work full time in their degree less than 5 years in their life, so even female doctors, lawyers, accountants and engineers, become part time or don't work once married, and if they can't they resent it highly and will punish the guy daily for not being a billionaire(even billionaires can't keep a wife, so ..) Key part of her statement, at least to men was "once", who cares how beautiful she was at one time, how beautiful is she now and in the future?
@@averybaumannlove to hear men pontificate on their bitter misogynistic views as though they’re stating objective facts.
A misandrist u are typical
@@imlookingforthetoweroflear7871 They are statistical facts, actually. Reliable woman is so rare nowadays.
*ONCE* XDXD
The Chinese variation of 6ft, 6 figure income, or GTFO.
But it goes nowhere because men aren't simps like in the U.S. lol
How many chinese men are over 5'6"?
@@mattyghost3409 Chinese men are turbo simps lol get off the drugs.
@@somethingclever89163 chinese men in whole humanity's history (/s)
Yea, like they have millions of those. The 4th wave feminist are wrapped up in fantasy.
Im not a college graduate and was a cocktail waitress when I met my husband. He was making 75k a year and in the 5 1/2 yrs we’ve been together he’s gotten a raise every year and 3 promotions and now makes 140k base salary a year plus bonuses. He’s a high value man and didn’t need or want a college graduate, just someone who loves him and is loyal with morals and takes care of him. I got very lucky ❤
It's easy for a half decent woman, if a half decent man worked as a barman or something like that he would never get that opportunity from a rich woman.
loves him and his 75K a year LOL
@@alightinthesky7586 I personally can't blame women for being attracted to high salary when I myself am attracted to juicy DD's. Equal shallowness.
@@alightinthesky7586LMAO for real. Dumb broad just told on herself without realizing it. Husband's gonna lose half his shit in a decade or so.
@@tigerstripey4885 Rich women marry rich men. Rich men marry rich women. Working class men and women doing decent to low income should stop demanding higher class people. And it's not just femcels like the women on this video the ones who do this. Incels do it, too!
The exact same thing is happening in America too. You guys may not realize it but women that are divorced and have children. They're in their early forties. They're not sought after they're having problems. Meeting guys that are serious that want to get together and have a serious relationship. It's a problem here in the US right now
These women should contact Jeff Bezos. He meets their standards: 1.8m tall, fair skin, round eyes, and makes tons of money.
haha you got the last one right but Jeff is actually 1.7m, fairly tan and has small eyes
Good one.👍But I agree with @wks2291. He is neither tall nor fair, and we know what kind of woman he prefers.🙄
Who ever accused women of rationality.
@@wks2291learn to enjoy the joke
Square eyes
As an nordic man, ivé encounterd many examples of this while dating online. It´s highly rule-based and utterly soulless. Most of the women I talked to, had to resort to alcohol for getting some sleep. The deeply rooted culture "appearance above everything", is deeply troubling and fragile.
I think some women see men as a status symbol. "Look at my 6', fit hot rich Bf! We have nothing in common but he goes great with my shoes"
@@somethingclever8916 I think you understand women better than most people.
Interesting idea.
just look up the term "blackpill" and get a detailed answer as to why appearance is above everything
@@somethingclever8916 nailed it, you see this often with women who get with men "boys" that look like the male version of themselves.
Education does not denote intelligence. Just because you have multiple worthless degrees doesn’t make you high value
You're born intelligent. Education merely makes you educated.
And high value in the dating market is different for men and women. For men it's a fat bank account and status for women its youth and beauty. Man, look at that smoking hot bachelors degree said no man ever.
What have you accomplished lately ?
My brother in law got a PhD… We all agreed that it made us have less respect for PhD’s because he ain’t that bright!
In her generation the education in China wasn't that debased, so you could use it as a rough marker.
They behave as though their ideal partner would also find them to be ideal .😂😂
That one women made 3000 x 12.= 36,000 but want "her" man to make a million a year. I understand 50,000 but the arrogance and entitlement. Unbelievable.
8:20 Agreed, even with her "qualifications" putting her at 42,000 Yuan per year ($5800/€5400/£4600 per year); 1 million yuan to too much ($140,000/€130,000/£110,000 per year).
Yeah and you can buy pretty damn impressive house with that sum around here. Why anyone would put that much into high maintenance woman even if dowry system is a thing. I havent and wont pay for even a coffee on dates. 10 year relationship only happened cause she didnt even blink a eye when she went and paid her own drinks on the first date and answered to my question about whos paying, "obviously each of us our own". Now she was a keeper, too bad we grew apart due lack of common interests and become just room mates over time. Thought to help out family while i was visiting and she by her own imperative took gloves from the car, had zero issues taking the shovel and start clearing manure... those girls are keepers, just damn hard to find these days, specially if they are from well off families.
I'm making that much and I wouldn't take her. She's a gold digger.
Life's a Bitch
& then we Die .
These girls are beyond delulu
Average women over 30: I want a rich good-looking man with a sense of humor, well-educated and has 2 car and a house.
Average men over 30: I just want a young pretty woman; it doesn't matter if she's rich or poor.
Rich good-looking men: I want 10 women, under 25 with a measurement 38-26-36, preferred super models.
last one is just rich man, dont even have to be good looking 😂😂
There is hope for the world, Im glad thesse comments are actually based in reality
Last one is still a lie.
Confucius say, wanting ain't getting.
By age 30 90% of her eggs are gone but she think that she worth as much as a 18 year old
LOL
It is fascinating how the US and China took completely different routes, to end up at the same destination! 🤯🤯
Women have only recently been liberated from reproductive slavery, domestic slavery. Men are adjusting to the new reality. If you want a wife and kids, be kind, and a partner, not a toxic overbearing MAN!
It's the other way around: Aside from chopsticks and Chinese characters, Shanghai, Shenzhen look basically the same as Seattle, Chicago. But most Americans have partners.
Capitalism and communism are two cheeks of the same backside.
Secular ideologies that put material acquisition the goal of life. They just take different routes.
@@juliusparacelsus1874 So you prefer theocracy?
@@tabithan2978 yes.
With all the degenerative behavior we see in our society how can you not.
We to caught up in this myth of freedom and as a human being your not free to do what you want. There is a cosmic order that must be followed.
If (as a male) you are not from China, you need to be VERY careful opting into a long term relationship with Chinese women .You are not just marrying them, but the whole family. (Note: I just said to be careful, not rejecting it). Next thing you know, you'll be sponsoring the brother in law to live wherever you live, then her mother and father. Then of course they will need somewhere to live and GUESS WHERE THAT WILL BE! ... Spoken (unfortunately) from experience. By the way, the very first comment from the woman in Hangzhou is that she thought she could find an equally high quality bachelor. That statement says everything you need to know - it's all about the money. I left after 18 years of her abuse and because I am male, of course I lost the house as well.
their parents made them like that
she studied, she went to cram school, she played piano, she went to good university, she pursued her carreer. SO THAT THEIR PARENTS CAN BRAG ABOUT HER.
but now, she's broken, she doesnt want average, cause she's not average, all those times she sacrificed, all the achievements, just to get below average man? no way.
sorry but if a guy goes to a good school but has no social skills he's still a loser, (a otaku in japan), why would anyone consider a girl in the same position, good school but bad personality, be considered any differently.
This sums it up😢😊
"Below average men" do you listen to yourself? No one wants you yet you're still being difficult.
Then she will go into middle age without a partner.
she has no value then. She didn't bother to grow her social skills.
If any women read this, and you don't understand this, let me enlighten you.
Men DO NOT CARE ONE IOTA about how many degrees you have.
Please stop telling guys how many degrees you have, we don't care.
If you thought you would find some guy who would throw himself at you because you got 74 PhDs and 38 masters, aside from a "that's cool", guys just could not care any less
Unfortunately among some Asian communities especially Chinese, educational qualifications are highly desirable but over hyped. I have a Singaporean Chinese friend who, at 80 years old, still thinks very highly of his MBA obtained 50 years ago. I don't have a university degeee yet my net worth is as high as his. My friend doesn't realise academic qualifications from ages ago mean very little today.
The ONLY thing a guy looks for
1-Youth
2-Beauty
3-Kindness
4-peace.
In that order.
If you lack one of those, he will put up with you as long as he gets sex.
Ecample: You are young but ugly, but bring him peace: He will hide you and have sex with you.
You are older but give him peace and quiet: he will have sex with you.
If you bring all 4, he will marry you.
@@sktoh4469 HIS, which is exactly my point. For a guy to have some sort of "leg up" on other guys makes him more attractive to women.
Women having degrees isn't something men look for.
Agreed. No one cares about their degrees
You and your friends don’t care. Many other men care. My husband cares.
Red pillers watching this and laughing from behind their keyboards
I'm amazed at how intelligent they are yet lack core basic feminine common sense about their market value at a younger age. I thought Girl-brain learns this at a very young age?
Fr
Rollo Tomassi quotes in head and his Books
They become man they wanted to marry
Women are now refusing to take the risk of being financially dependent on a man since that put us in a vulnerable position. What’s worse ? Living a luxurious life for 20 years without working then your husband dumps you for a younger woman and you finish poor with nothing or don’t ever marry, work hard, earn a good salary and finish your life with 20 cats ? I personally would love to have children and a husband but I’m not taking such a risk especially in a world where basic necessities are so expensive…
@@lilbean2239 let me tell you, the current life you are living is soon cooming to an end. War is coming, China and US will soon plunge the world in a world war. The alliances are alredy formed and the blocks knowns. Ukraine is only the first sign of what is to come. If you think that in the future you will be able to have a so called "carrier" in an office, you are delusional. When electricity will be out and food shortage will come you will wish you had used your youth and beauty to secure the protection of a man. Feminism can only exist when the society is in an excess of ressources. But as soon as the barbarism of wars and destruction come, you women go back straight to the instinctual behavior : trading what's between your legs for ressources and protection.
You think you have a choice between being a housewife and being independant and making your own money. You are wrong the second choice is going to disappear soon. And war isn't even the only threat to your plan. AI (Artificial intelligence) is rapidly rendering many jobs obsolete. And most of theses jobs are women jobs. Human ressources/ Accounting/ Retail Cashier / or any job that requieres you to enter data into a machine. All of these jobs are bound to disappear.
We are standing in near a precipice of changes and the next 20 years are going to be extremely chaotic. But please, go ahead and traverse it without the protection of a man. I'm sure a big girl like you will be able to fare well in it. And if you are in a bind and there's bo food or you can't pay rent. And you are not too old maybe you will still be able to sell what you have down there for a slice of bread
This is what feminism and gender equality bring to this world. It's not only in China. It happen in South Korea, Japan, European, America, Australia, New Zealand. And many countries where feminism and gender equality get strong and become stronger.
😂education and opportunities are important for every individual
So according to you women should only focus on body and produce child ,they don't have their own identity, sorry to say this but you seem to be very mysogyinst and orthodox
@@shortstories433education is important, not the degrees. Run behind degrees or select men's path, you end up like these women.
@@badshahSelamet is there any other way to get education? and men's path serves their own needs so women should think for themselves.
I'm an American. I lived and dated in China while I was teaching there. I feel sorry for these girls in the video. They don't seem to understand men at all. However, it should be said that not all Chinese ladies are this clueless.
Do u know y hk people dare not get married with Chinese women?
@alfredlaw. No I don't know for sure. Because some may report you to the Chinese government?
Im british so have no idea about china. How accurate is this video? Are there really this many single 30+ women?
Their mothers would have told them daily
If you lived there, maybe you can answer a question. I read Chinese men are not that faithful, thus the hgh divorce rate. True or false.
The hello kitty lady is nuts.
it's better for her to stay single. Otherwise, if she gets to have kids, they will be raised in a very strange manner and society will repeat the problem of having such a nuts person. Not a social win.
Acting 14 while pushing 40 with that double chin...yikes😬
Weak fathers create these nightmares …
Ouch. I never thought of that...but I guess men do think as such. If only she knew how she is seen from men 's perspective. I am afraid she doesn't know she needed to be appealing and attractive to men/understand what men want in a wife.
🤣😭
Hmm. The 34 year old, making $41k usd a year at her peak ($20k usd current) with a $70k usd EV, a $25k usd EV, and 2 properties.... Something really doesn't add up there...
Yeah, I bet she has a crazy amount of debt, $20k a year and a BMW says it all
@@willb9259 I bet it's all inheritance. No way she's self made at her age with those assets
The whole family, parents, etc., works to pay the mortgages. Plus, leasing a domestically-produced BMW in China isn't too expensive compared to in the West.
China's one child policy helped. She is probably the only child in her family. People who are single children in their families count parents networth as their own.
Lots of loans!
So the lesson is, no matter where you come from be willing to compromise and find someone ON YOUR LEVEL. If I had to guess, probably the same as western women-be too picky when you’re young and when the nice, submissive girl lands the guy you rejected, act surprised. 🙄
I think too many believe romance novels and movies are blue prints for reality.
Most relationships start out as awkward friendships not star crossed lovers.
Theres nothing wrong with enjoying fiction. Problem is when they demand fiction matches reality
What? Are you saying normal men don't ride unicorn and sweep someone away with 5oo million yuan? lol
thats funny because i see women talking about horrible male expectations from fiction homie 90% of my favorite relationships and even my favorite writing trope my self is friends to lovers cuz it feels real
master degree, PHD, two cars, two house, etc has nothing to do with looking for men. yet with that high education and thinking those girl cant process the situation
I don’t know about china but all of that stuff really doesn’t matter much to men when looking for a mate . They want attractive and kind .
Future Catwoman
Flaunting achievements will be intimidating in some men.
@@Elliott_R😂😂😂😂?😺😸😹😻?
@@edisongatuz6411 some sort of filtering method
Women refuse to accept that a degree does not makes them any more attractive or valuable to most men.
It makes them less attractive for most men … 😂
@@ma3stro681 Intimidating ?
True, but it probably means a bit more to Chinese men since Chinese are so materialistic... and it's not like you can be a Chinese stay at home mom unless you live in the countryside or marry a millionaire so there is a definite advantage to having a bachelor degree. Just not as much as other things, especially youth.
@@linmal2242 here we see the most common tactic women use, shaming tactics. No argument or anything to provide something useful to the conversation, or a good argument as an rebuttal. Just strait up ad-hominin, as the person has nothing to contribute
That is what is taught in schools. Honestly, I think it's a deception.
These women’s requirements for a man are not realistic, 1.8 meters is 5 feet 11 inches, how many Chinese are that tall lol 😂 and a million yen is 140k us dollars per year, most people in America don’t even make that much.
We have to stop saying "high quality women" for 40 y.o rich women. They're not quality if no one wants them.
Any women above 30 yo, is not high quality anymore. Women above 40? Some of them can no longer have a baby.
maybe factors of high differ from culture to another
@@erroriser You're not half as bright as you seem to think
@@ZipMapp thanks 😊😊
Same for men.
Sounds just like American women, only with more education. Same ridiculous 'must haves' in a man, while completely disregarding what men actually WANT in a wife.
This proves that delusion doesn't come from ignorance
chinese diplomas aint worth shit, thinking is forbidden in china, so they only memorize things, thats why they are unable to innovate, the steal ip from abroad and act like they invented things
American are better. Sadly. These women are pretty much soulless ATM users. You're the ATM.
Source: dated China women.
The men can go live in the attic while the woman pays for their rent 😂
@@TheNewFlutistwell i wish women were that generous
I lived single my entire life, not letting relationships tie me down. It was a conscious choice and honestly, a selfish one. But throughout my life I was able to make choices that made my life better, including walking out on employers without worrying about people depending on me at home. I do my own things, pursue my own interests and walk my own path. I don't regret it.
Hell has many roads that lead to it. And many of them are paved with selfish interest.
Those who water will be watered. And those that with hold will only find want.
@@alive_twicedead_once34 the more pious and moralistic the talk, the more corrupt the talker.
@@alive_twicedead_once34 WOW dude. Threatening someone with eternal torture because they live differently than you. You must be a shite person. I live singly too. Being able to be bored and just leave when you can is great. Not having ties to a place that force you to stay in a place you hate is one of the most freeing things in the world. So glad there are people like you to tell us how to live. Pious bullshite makes me dislike you immediately. Being forced into living like everyone else makes me sick. I just left my city to move somewhere else because i was bored. Didn't have to worry about schools or my partners job. Just pack the car and go. Can't do that with a family, can we? A lady/dude has to be pretty awesome to make me give up my freedom. They have to prove to me that they are worthy of it. F*ck outta here with your crap. Threatening folks with ghost stories online must be a kink or something.
Same
In time my dear. The wall is never defeated and the regret is like a thief in the night lol.
A Dowry??? Is that like buying an older cow that is about to stop giving milk? Doesn't sound like a good idea. Maybe a price for a young vital cow that has a whole life of giving milk ahead of it is the better idea. When buying a cow, the cow doesn't have a say who buys it. No one gives money to a cow to buy it. I'm just talking cows here. If you relate this to people, that's on you.
"does a woman lose value as she ages, even if she is accomplished?"
Evolution: "allow me to introduce myself"
weird way to say ur mom has no value lol
thats sad, so your mother has no value for you? Or are you going to say something like "yeah she retained her value because she is married" or some bs
@@kanizfatima3447Why'd his mom need to have value in the dating market? She's already married with children. She's loved, respected and looked after as a mother, wife and as a respectable elder.
@@ehsansiam3123 ur right but the comment is saying that in general women lose value as they grow old.. his mom should already have inherent value as a human
@@kanizfatima3447 the comment is saying women lose value as a potential life partner partner as they age and that's true. And his mother has other intrinsic values as I mentioned in the previous comment. Obviously you don't get valued as a mother or a grandmother if you don't become one.
"You should marry an alien instead" was personal 😂💀
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😅
Even alien don't want sheng nu. 🤢🤮
Better option than a Chinese man. There are over 50 million more single men than single women. These women are better off single.
@@thornyback - Women can’t stand being single or alone. They are social creatures by nature. That’s why they are angry, bitter and crying on TikTok.
Alien is allergic on wuhan virus 💀💀💀😂
Hight quality my ass.
Your ass is high quality ? 🤣🤣🤣
I thought the same. They think that a degree, house and car make them high quality, as if they were men. They are actually extremely low quality women.
You’re just jelly they make more 💰💰than you
😂😂
@@MufasanoodlesFfds123 they are the ones jelly because I am younger 🤣🤣
I see feminism is alive and strong in China's city centers
There's nothing new to see here. As a man the importance of a woman's wealth is approximately 0%. If I'd want children, I'd look for a woman who looks ok, isn't annoying and isn't too old. Common interests and maybe similar education wouldn't hurt either.
Yeah, but by age 30 90% of her eggs are gone, if she's a carrer women she'll think she worths her weight on gold and will have a terrible attitude
@@howdareyou5800 do you need 10children or smth? If having children is a primary importance for the marriage, then you can get married after a baby ;)
@@borincod a high value man wants the best children out of the healthiest young fertile woman
not second best
having a baby before marriage just like feminist do is what makes society unstable and women´s life bitter, miserable and resentful ;)
i´m cool with that tho 🤗
@@borincod did you not know? marrying an old women make your children have an high likelihood of having something wrong with them, just marry your sister if you don't care about your offspring
Isn't annoying is the most important
"my requirements aren't particularly high"
* Proceeds to describe 1% of men *
0.001% 😂 Because tall and handsome is actually less than 1%. Remove 80% of those guys who are already taken, add up the status and money requirements, then tone of voice, charisma... They want a man who doesn't exist
@@HCforLife1 In European countries tall and handsome are the norm. Where do you live? I think these Chinese women just want an European male. And there are videos about this and how Chinese men are mad because these supposed "left over women" are actually marrying handsome, tall, charming, rich white males. It's actually Chinese men who are left overs. Chinese women don't want Chinese men genes because they think they are ugly and they don't want ugly children. Basically Chinese women will "clean" the gene pool and most Chinese in the future will look like Eastern Russians. Remember, women ALWAYS are the ones who choose their partners and they want the best genes possible (best looking males) so their offspring will have better health (looks = health).
It's same tick box Amazon approach on western dating apps. Women's objective needs: 6foot or taller, high income, university /masters degree etc = reduces the potential available dates pool to less than 1%!n😊
Not to mention in asia those 180cm+ height would show a lower percentage than our western counterparts. Plus if you put her age there (38), i feel she is just trolling lol
There's always a 20 year old girl for a rich man to have, and old women are desperate still shamelessly having those unrealistic standards and can't accept the truth yet ignore the fact that they had countless chances when they were young... this is how this market works.
Good job buying a house, a car, and making sacrifices, only to die and leave it all to the state. Women are so smart....
It's sad, either they get everything themselves or get married and have nothing.
Good job not buying those things and depending on someone else to survive, and if you separate, congratulations, you'll have nothing...
@esquizoafectivo Why not build something together? Also, as a man, is it fair for you to struggle to build something all alone, get married, and lose all or half of it in the divorce?
What about you, when, like lost men, at 40, you get bored and start cheating on your faithful wife with another women. She then gets nothing.
@@Guess_Wh0o Is it fair as a man? Is it fair if you wanted to be the only source of income in the relation. If you have a wife who is young, would stay at home, do laundry, raise kids, wash the dishes, clean the house and cook, she is basically giving up all of her potential and future for you. If the relationship breaks after some years she would end not having a college degree, not having any work experience or skill to get a job and being too old to start learning. So yeah, it's fair.
Over 1.8m in China is like 10% l, fair skin is 30%, big eyes...1%
finally one comment i can agree :)
O er 180cm in China is closer to 1% than 10%. And they're almost all in the northern parts.
@GeepeBrow above 1.8m then less than 10%?
The alien comment made sense lol
Assuming your numbers are right the odds that her ideal man exists are 0.0003%. But of course the men in this diminutive pool have their preferences too... this is why demographic collapse is inevitable in most countries with decent standard of living.
If a guy has everything why would he settle for older spoiled princesses 😂
The "Hello Kitty" bedroom is a red flag.
@@grizzlygrizzleYeah it was kinda wild ngl
@ThatOneInTenThousand.. oh my god! (I am a female) when u wrote it out like that..I can't help but feel "oppps" fr that HelloKitty lady! Yeah she s appearing not mature and too old fr these...I guess no wonder why men are turned off by her..
@@MelodyKittyCandy0007 the "psychology" side of that room translates to: "I've lost my innocence as a young woman and now I'm trying to hold on to the appearance of innocence (dolls,teddy bear, plushies) ...don't lose yours.
@@grizzlygrizzlethis kinda reads like girls judging guys for playing video games or being into geeky stuff, she might just be an avid fan of the series like I am with Monster Hunter, lets not outright alienate people for their interests, that dowry is ridiculous though.
India would meet the same fate but people marry from parental pressure into abusive marriages
A strong, high value, successful man has little use for a woman with degrees and ambition. He wants someone to hold down the fort while he slays dragons. He wants someone who is nurturing and will be a good mother to their children, keep everyone fed and cared for, be his lover, and respect him both in public and private. The strong successful man wants a tradwife but they are quite rare in China.
This. I can't understand why so many women just don't get it. Of course they can choose to be something else, be an "independent" ambitious career girl if that's what makes them happy, but it's never going to change what succesful men want from a partner.
You don’t know if someone will be a good mother when they haven’t had children yet. Also, someone with a courier can be a good mother like my sister who has a career and there’s also a good mother.
Traditional women are rare anywhere in the world these days. Maybe in the middle east there's more of them, IDK.
@@peekaboo1575 traditional men are rare. The fact is humans evolve so stop looking backwards.
@@dorino9057 Traditional men = providers. Not rare at all.