Over 100 Million Leftover Women in China: 38-Year-Old Master’s Grad Opts for Rural Old Bachelor?
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 28 เม.ย. 2024
- I am 38 years old, with a master's degree. I am a high-quality single woman. I originally thought that in Hangzhou, I could find an equally high-quality bachelor. But until I turned 38 this year, I realized that those high-quality single men didn't even look at me. Now, the ones chasing after me are rural bachelors. In other words, if I want to get married, I can only marry into the countryside.
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Rich men will marry poor woman, but rich women want richer men... 😅😅😅
No they want equal, don’t be misogynist
And loving, trust worthy wife that is not a drag ie expects everything to be handed to her cause she has pair of tits, hence just wasting money, not understanding its value is what men look if they are looking actual wife for marriage and family. These women sure seem great financially, but lack before mentioned traits witch someone from countryside most likely has. I'm decently well off, but even if was millionaire, i would not even consider trophy wife, ones that dont have mental capability to consider, "hey this job needs to be done, theres a shovel, lets start shoveling manure", specially if its for the betterment of your new family/husband/children. If you go gagging for idea of changing the diapers or not grabbing the shovel cause your nails might get damaged, you are nothing more than wall ornament and once your best by date is due... well these women already know it.
@@quincyjones5676 don't be ignorant of the market dynamics 🤣
@@quincyjones5676Did the dating markets change? All of the data is out there. Money up ladies dont date down 😂
true, as long as she is pretty and kind.
They became the men they are seeking
Nah, they wouldn't date themselves, because they can't paradoxically make more money than themselves, and thus not be up to their own stadards of "be better than me in every way possible"😂
@@Ren33469 you were so close to saying something much better than that: they wouldn't date each other because they wouldn't like their own reflection and they'd end up making it a competition.
@@D0NU75
I like what I said >.>
that happens to people in general, if you’re a nasty person you’re probably going to attract a nasty spouse. Men there aren’t immune to this either. the gender indifferences in those countries are deeply rooted in their cultures, in ways some westerners misunderstand. Both men and women in that society have done horrible things to each other, since they’re taught to value themselves over anyone else in their lives everything by default becomes a competition there. Western society has its faults, but you’d never see something like the 1 child policy be put into place, which is something deeply rooted in misogyny, not misandry. People trying to view this in a western anti-feminist lens arent getting the full picture. Can it not be argued that their male supremacy views of the past are what’s causing the social turbulence they’re seeing right now?
Thank God I was raised how to be a housewife!
"My requirements aren't particularly high"...
"I prefer someone over 1.8 meters tall, good-looking, fair-skinned, with big eyes"
The freaking delusion I swear. The worst part is that we're talking about China where the average height is lower...
Would be 1m90 everywhere else
I would not go near that crazy hello kitty princess
So she wants a white man basically?
Fair skinned 😂
@@lilze69 but with Chinese princeling money
Remember guys... ALL these women could get married... but due to hypergamy, their exceptional high standards have created an artificially small dating pool...
Absolutely correct.
Hoeflation
Better be free from modern women
Asian women generally don't do hypergamy. Especially not in Asia. It's just straight up delusion.
they built their own gilded cages, now they trapped themselves in them.
"My requirements aren't particularly high"
"He should be over 1.8m tall..."
In China... 😂
North Chinese and Korean are quite tall actually
Average is 1.75m according to Google so 1.80m is not a high standard
@@EdoHP If your standard is above what is average then by definition you have a high standard.
Rofl 😂 true dude
@@splizzex And average 175 I think is not even norm in Europe.
@@EdoHP You took the one province where people are the tallest in all of China and that standard is still above, so yes your standard is not just high but borderline unrealistic if you take into consideration all the other standards that she may have
help me understand, how does a degree or piece of paper from an education institution makes you a high quality potential wife?
I'm failing to understand that too... Also, it's not hard to get married. People are making it seem so complicated. I got married when I was young with my h.s sweetheart, we had a very small wedding and told our parents if they want to party like animals they can pay for it....and that was it. After that we built our lives together... These women have been sold such a b.s that you need to wait until....until idk when at this point lol.
No wonder she is in trouble getting married. Wrong view of value.
chinese society be like that
Only someone with limited education would write something this stupid. How about potential income?
That's China for you. It's more about what you have than what you are.
I'm an American. I lived and dated in China while I was teaching there. I feel sorry for these girls in the video. They don't seem to understand men at all. However, it should be said that not all Chinese ladies are this clueless.
Do u know y hk people dare not get married with Chinese women?
@alfredlaw. No I don't know for sure. Because some may report you to the Chinese government?
Im british so have no idea about china. How accurate is this video? Are there really this many single 30+ women?
Their mothers would have told them daily
Yes they are
their parents made them like that
she studied, she went to cram school, she played piano, she went to good university, she pursued her carreer. SO THAT THEIR PARENTS CAN BRAG ABOUT HER.
but now, she's broken, she doesnt want average, cause she's not average, all those times she sacrificed, all the achievements, just to get below average man? no way.
sorry but if a guy goes to a good school but has no social skills he's still a loser, (a otaku in japan), why would anyone consider a girl in the same position, good school but bad personality, be considered any differently.
This sums it up😢😊
"Below average men" do you listen to yourself? No one wants you yet you're still being difficult.
Then she will go into middle age without a partner.
she has no value then. She didn't bother to grow her social skills.
These women hit the Great Wall
LOL
😂😂😂😂
🤣Yup.....the only difference with AMERICAN women is THEY AREN'T RICH!
This one right here is gold
This comment won😂
Rich women want equally rich or richer men . But rich men want young women
Bingo.
💯%Correct
Real
I'd say they just want a woman that wants them, a partner not a competitor.
@@Viconius Men want YOUNG CHILDESS woman.
Its not because you view it other way, men wont change for you.
degree ????? Nobody cares
LOL😂
All those degrees didn't get her a husband.
those degrees only make her more arrogant, but not any smarter.
In China degrees are more important than in western countries for finding good jobs.
There's nothing new to see here. As a man the importance of a woman's wealth is approximately 0%. If I'd want children, I'd look for a woman who looks ok, isn't annoying and isn't too old. Common interests and maybe similar education wouldn't hurt either.
Yeah, but by age 30 90% of her eggs are gone, if she's a carrer women she'll think she worths her weight on gold and will have a terrible attitude
@@howdareyou5800 do you need 10children or smth? If having children is a primary importance for the marriage, then you can get married after a baby ;)
@@borincod a high value man wants the best children out of the healthiest young fertile woman
not second best
having a baby before marriage just like feminist do is what makes society unstable and women´s life bitter, miserable and resentful ;)
i´m cool with that tho 🤗
@@borincod did you not know? marrying an old women make your children have an high likelihood of having something wrong with them, just marry your sister if you don't care about your offspring
Isn't annoying is the most important
A 38 year old woman with a hello kitty bedroom and still needs to be praised for washing the dishes by her parents... Alarm bells are ringing in my head.
That means she’s lazy
No better way of saying it than you did.
Lol
She needs a servant and a daddy more than a husband.
She's spoiled
Nothing wrong with liking Hello Kitty, responsibilities are important though
Damn….almost $700k to marry a chick who lives at home with her parents and is clearly full of herself? No thanks. Would rather keep my money.
They do that in Trinidad 🇹🇹. A bride price
Confucius say, to marry like spider web, soon lead to undoing of fly.
With her high monetary wants and the arrogance. She would be a bad investment. The marriage would not last long.
She is beautiful.
But her beauty is only skin deep. Sad.
@@les8518 and her beauty will last just a few years
Aint that the woman who only makes 3500 chinese yen a month. JESUS!! XD HAHHA
Men don’t care about your money, degrees and degrees. Just be feminine, sweet and loyal .
This. Can't believe it's so hard for women to understand such a simple concept.
Are they the rational ones?
The problem with that is we all witnessed feminine, sweet and loyal women get treated like trash. Most women don’t want to be in their place.
@@sylviaj270 to be loved by a husband and the kids is to be treated like trash but being miserable and alone but working yourself to an early grave crying yourself to sleep every night isn't?
Lol thanks feminism for saving men from women
@@sylviaj270 "The problem with that is we all witnessed feminine, sweet and loyal women get treated like trash. Most women don’t want to be in their place."
We? You mean you? Since men are looking for sweet women it's quite contractionary to claim that these women are the ones being threated like "trash", and not all the other low quality entitled women that likes to cause a scene.
The real GREAT WALL of China
😂😂😂
Rich men have options, rich women don’t.
Rich women have options, but it's none they like. A rich man has his own money, and doesn't need a woman's... what he wants is a woman in her early 20's.
like a 19 year old
Rich women have options, too, but their women's nature won't let them see it.
Rich women are cougars
Agreed! The irony is that the wealthier a woman is the less options she has.
"i prefer a guy over 1.8m tall, good looking, fair skined with big eyes, humorous and able to have fun with me, must have own career." give this woman a dog!
For god's sake......crazy. if she didn't mention her age i would think she's nearing 50. And this narrator told me us she's sweet looking. Delusional
Looking for toys or what??
If I say , I need girl having juicy and tight boobs, gloosy lips 👄, virgin ?? So what you think
a 1.8m dog would be something else..
You mean a half-dozen cats?
And, I agree: She looks 54, not 34. @bryanleong5939
Seriously, when will women realise men value youth and fertility, it’s not hard.
See, that's the thing. They know already. They're just liars.
@@Alazar654 they lie to themselves all the time, oh well.
@@PlayingUnfairly I know right. They're crazy.
@@Alazar654 it’s no wonder we’re walking from them, they’re cross the line of borderline lunacy. I’d rather be single than deal with the headaches of these women.
🍻 cheers brothers let's be free
Imagine entering the workforce, competing with men as providers then complaining about the lack of providers. You voted for equal opportunity, now’s the time to spend your money.
Ikr?
But this is China, you can only vote for one party.
A rich man will always look a broke woman’s way. A rich woman will never look a broke man’s way.
No clue of basic instincts. A man will always get a better job and earn more as soon as he gets a family. .They MUST have the NEED, it is the trigger for the instincts. It all comes in a set, you can not pick a part and leave aside some bits.
Everyone gets exponential power, they do things they would have not dare, they find doors they didn't know.
Even the woman choice of someone earning more is just hidden instinct used wrongly as it has not been acknowledged .
A man with less money power is wrongly perceived weak when you don't know basic things in life.
You are supposed to use your instincts, no the other way round, as they are automatic with no coordinated logic, popping up according to your age, circumstances and genre.
Use them, they get you to depression if left aside, as they give the power to keep your life. The family instincts are the strongest. It may not be paradise but if you go against them it certainly can be a "frog being slowly boiled alive without noticing".
they are the selfish sex. RICH women who have everything rarely give back to their partners or society.
The more. Money the more. Delusional and more greedy
It's in their nature to TAKE.
This is why even LESBIANS divorce 80% of the time. They hate equality. They hate 50/50 or give back.
Rich man will look a broke but beautiful/sexy woman.
@inesdamonteines3985 cope
@@princessleia9794man literally find nearly every woman attractive but woman only sees 5-10% of men as human let alone a possibility for dating. Problem is feminism and casual widespread missandry.
Personally i wouldn't date any of them. They might be smart / attractive, they aren't looking for love but a wallet.
But not all of them. Some of them here for marriage/family wanted something very important.
They’re using a beauty filter, don’t actually know what they look like
@@JosephineBovain not really
They want a business partner, they don't want to become loving wives and nurturing mothers.
@@JoeBlow-fp5ngthey're looking for a client to earn her Louis-Vulttons, a chive field to reap...
In Philippines we dont have a problem like that... Because if we love a person.. it doesn't matter if he/she is poor or rich... What matter for us is if our partners love us and can take cake of us...
One hopes that your country does not get infected by the moral diseases of the West.
That's why we love the Philippines! Yeaah😂😂😂
We have to stop saying "high quality women" for 40 y.o rich women. They're not quality if no one wants them.
Any women above 30 yo, is not high quality anymore. Women above 40? Some of them can no longer have a baby.
maybe factors of high differ from culture to another
@@erroriser You're not half as bright as you seem to think
@@ZipMapp thanks 😊😊
Same for men.
90 percent of people have absolutely no idea, whatsoever, how incredibly privileged they truly are to have genuine friends, family and loved ones.
I listen to these stories and the only thing I hear is people who want economic value. A woman making 42K Yuen per year wants a man making 1 million yuen. The dowry has to be 5 million yuen. She brings her height as a 'value' to the table. It's like I woke up in a circus.
The value of true friendships doesn't even enter the equation. One woman has two houses and two cars because that does what for her social status?
In the mean time buying a house should no longer be out of reach of most Chinese because the housing market is tanking hard. This real estate bust won't be resolved for decades.
In the mean time the high status women aren't getting younger, young men have no means to pursue a decent family life. None of them, or so it seems, is even considering actually loving the person they see, for marriage. It's a passionate love story from one bank account to another. AND they have to have degrees.
China is not going to have to fear over population in this century and housing will become very cheap as the population is aging out and young people don't care to marry [not an essential for building a family] and having a family. You also heard about the people who were raised as an only child. Those people are used to being doted on and they never had to learn to share with siblings. Those are not the people who want children because then all the attention will have to go to the child, no longer to them.
They said the human population would climb to 10 billion. That's not going to happen. There are too many people not having children. About 250 million young Chinese don't want to marry and have children. Imagine how many fewer children that will yield.
No clue of basic instincts. A man will always get a better job and earn more as soon as he gets a family. They MUST have the NEED, it is the trigger for the instincts. It all comes in a set, you can not pick a part and leave aside some bits.
Everyone gets exponential power, they do things they would have not dare, they find doors they didn't know.
Even the woman choice of someone earning more is just hidden instinct used wrongly as it has not been acknowledged .
A man with less money power is wrongly perceived weak when you don't know basic things in life.
You are supposed to use your instincts, no the other way round, as they are automatic with no coordinated logic, popping up according to your age, circumstances and genre.
Use them, they get you to depression if left aside, as they give the power to keep your life. The family instincts are the strongest. It may not be paradise but if you go against them it certainly can be a "frog being slowly boiled alive without noticing".
good comment
The need to be a slave?
BS
Like saying that women have to have the need for a man in order to love him 🤗
The "high quality" men she's looking for are NOT looking for an educated high quality female.
High value my ass! Most of you basement bros are low value at best 🤣🤣🤣🤣!
Why would a Queen ever lower her crown to that of a peasant? Men are flailing and failing all of the globe and that is why they are begging women to "lower ther standards" because men refuse to meet them 🤷🏾♀️.
Well "not looking" is a bit strong, but does not care for her degrees/education at all (for the most part) would be more accurate...
A women degrees rarely gives a man a woodie.
Correct, the more educated they are the more entitled and headaches they tend to be.
@@rpphoenix8253just be with men at this point
master degree, PHD, two cars, two house, etc has nothing to do with looking for men. yet with that high education and thinking those girl cant process the situation
I don’t know about china but all of that stuff really doesn’t matter much to men when looking for a mate . They want attractive and kind .
Future Catwoman
Flaunting achievements will be intimidating in some men.
@@Elliott_R😂😂😂😂?😺😸😹😻?
@@edisongatuz6411 some sort of filtering method
High quality men want a woman who will love them, take care of them, take care of the family, and be feminine. A woman with all of the degrees, the cars, homes, and careers, are essentially men. Enjoy that life, because we are not looking for that.
They want a woman in her peak fertile years too
At age 30% of her eggs are gone
_'I have income of $484 per month. Please give $691,000 dowry.'_
its absurd
Dowry is not even a thing on my culture and we can still find a few decent wifes around here, the fact that some of those women who really dont intend to be good wifes think that they can demand dowries is histerical.
That's why prostitution is so common in China. You can buy better looking girls for her daily and still be cheaper than the dowry.
😂
Earns 3,500 yuan monthly salary
Wants 5,000,000 yuan dowry
5,000,000 / 3,500 = 1428.5 months
That’s 119 years of salary.
"I own two homes and two cars"
No, they belong to the bank. You own the debt.
Astronomically BASED
You beat me to the punch
Even if she did own them with 0 debt. What will this do to the rich guy she is looking for? If the rich guy was looking for 2 more properties and 2 cars, he could work for a few yeas and obtain them himself.
@@captainvanisher988
Because at least then what she said would at least be true; instead she comes across as ignorant which in context results in her sounding condescending.
@@captainvanisher988I’m pretty sure she’s saying that to show that she’s capable of sustaining a potential family with her assets not cause she wants to provide for her husband
At that moment they realised...arrange marriage set by parents and grandparents in early to mid 20s wasn't bad.
For her
For him is a terrible idea
Men don't care about a woman's degree, job, or salary. What men want is a woman who will take care of his needs, respect his position as head of the house.
Weak men raise weak weak daughter who then raise weak men.
I know a couple. The guys a 6ft 5 blond giant. Own buisness, works around the clock, 5 kids. Incredible man. But he'd have none of it without his wife. She's a force of nature. Wise, forward planing. Strong, driven. And despite the hight diffrence I'd still put my money on her in a fair fight. Regardless of this. They are a team.
Each leans on their strength. While trusting the other with their weakness.
@@SD-vy7gj yes compliment each other and not be confrontational. Women who think that their achievements are what makes them of high value are always confrontational
@SD-vy7gj you'd lose your money. Simp.
So in other words men want a maid, a cook, a sex worker, a therapist, and a status symbol all for the price of one badly paid employee, or better yet a slave that pays for half your lifestyle.
@juliennepujol5586 lol you're a walking red flag. Enjoy being lonely! 🚩🚩🚩
These people seem to think living in a rural area makes you less of a person.
Sounds like people living in big cities USA, think most country folk are stupid or something
Which is true how rural men been raised like a king and been brainwashed they are superior than anybody. There misogyny attitude make them indeed less of a person
yet they need the farmers more than they need them.
Different values? Different habit? Maybe a quick way to divorce😂
Are u rural
Chinese Parents to there kids:
8 Years old - Stay in school and away from boys
14 Years old - Stay in school and away from boys
20 Years old - Stay in School and away from boys
25 Years old - How come I don't have any grandkids yet
since they wer young, often chinese parents already have chosen their predestined partners of their children through their friends
@@yagskie1984 That's the old, traditional, rural society . . . not modern, urban Hollywood.
what about stay away from girls?
but go figure, 18 years up both men and women can take their own desitions
what about starting to take accountability?
@@freefrombagagetoselfactualizeIt's not mere baggage (2 Gs) You're not acknowledging the power culture has over people's lives.
You are forgetting they choose the path they took
But ladies can't have accountability
"Culture" and her parents also pressured her to marry before 27 to don't be a zhiang yiu (left over woman)
we dont care about your income, your degrees, your possesions or what not. We care about peace and quiet, cooking, femininity, a clean house and a loving ear. thats it.
Why should only women clean and cook if she also works day job? Sounds like you want women to clean up mess
who will tell them that men do not marry for the material or educational qualifications of a lady when it comes to marriage. we just need a girl that will value us and understand how important it is for them to treat us with respect.
You just want to be respected and not loved too? The two are not intrinsically linked. They are separate until it becomes one.
If you marry a queen, you don't become a king, you are a consort. But if a woman marries a king she is a queen.
That's not how that works. Just ask Consort queen Camilla.
lmao what bullshit is this. What happened to princess Diana? We all know if we depend on another gender too much its over for us
@@genevieveaniko6492 well she was in the nobility first
@@FULANODETAL that changes nothing.
Treat her like a queen, she'll treat you like a peasant.
"My requirements are not high, I prefer someone over 1.8m tall" in China this is significantly above average, shes 38 and not attractive. Shes spoiled.
FACTS!!!!!
Spoiled, no. Dreaming, yes.
@@canardeur8390 ofc spoiled... the BS women believe from disney movies
Their demands don’t match what they can give
So much cope in this video. Old, barely fertile entitled women with busted faces think they are "high quality" when they bring absolutely nothing that a man wants.
I dated a Chinese woman on and off for 5 years, I still have PTSD.
I dated a Japanese girl
I understood why they agree dry fish
My off and ons always ended up off. Shoulda quit after the first off.
Single women 38 is never a high quality
Anyone with high iq , good social and financial status is high quality irrespective of their gender
@@Darksouldraws Not when it comes to mate selection in the eyes of men.
She might be a good lesbian partner. But men don't care. Especially the men they want don't care.
Men with options will always go for young and attractive women without a past.
I'm 42, i don't even look at women above the age of 25. Not interested no matter how much money they have.
@@benanders4412 you didn't get why I commented that
@@benanders4412 as a woman below 25 I wouldn't date some 42 year old predator with AN EVER DECREASING SPERM COUNT and sexual ability, the minute I heAR THIS YOU'RE OUT.
Yeah! They old and ugly!
Red pillers watching this and laughing from behind their keyboards
I'm amazed at how intelligent they are yet lack core basic feminine common sense about their market value at a younger age. I thought Girl-brain learns this at a very young age?
Fr
Rollo Tomassi quotes in head and his Books
They become man they wanted to marry
Women are now refusing to take the risk of being financially dependent on a man since that put us in a vulnerable position. What’s worse ? Living a luxurious life for 20 years without working then your husband dumps you for a younger woman and you finish poor with nothing or don’t ever marry, work hard, earn a good salary and finish your life with 20 cats ? I personally would love to have children and a husband but I’m not taking such a risk especially in a world where basic necessities are so expensive…
@@lilbean2239 let me tell you, the current life you are living is soon cooming to an end. War is coming, China and US will soon plunge the world in a world war. The alliances are alredy formed and the blocks knowns. Ukraine is only the first sign of what is to come. If you think that in the future you will be able to have a so called "carrier" in an office, you are delusional. When electricity will be out and food shortage will come you will wish you had used your youth and beauty to secure the protection of a man. Feminism can only exist when the society is in an excess of ressources. But as soon as the barbarism of wars and destruction come, you women go back straight to the instinctual behavior : trading what's between your legs for ressources and protection.
You think you have a choice between being a housewife and being independant and making your own money. You are wrong the second choice is going to disappear soon. And war isn't even the only threat to your plan. AI (Artificial intelligence) is rapidly rendering many jobs obsolete. And most of theses jobs are women jobs. Human ressources/ Accounting/ Retail Cashier / or any job that requieres you to enter data into a machine. All of these jobs are bound to disappear.
We are standing in near a precipice of changes and the next 20 years are going to be extremely chaotic. But please, go ahead and traverse it without the protection of a man. I'm sure a big girl like you will be able to fare well in it. And if you are in a bind and there's bo food or you can't pay rent. And you are not too old maybe you will still be able to sell what you have down there for a slice of bread
Wait so that one chick wants a man who has like $650k for a dowry, makes over $138k a year and she makes a grand total of about $500 a month? Those are some wild numbers.
They missing more than just a chromosome 😂😂😂
She might be from a rich family. My brother is getting married to a jobless Chinese woman from a rich family. And they told him he has to have a house, and he gave a dowry of 50k usd, which is considered too small.
Where do they get these aspirations? Internet? Thinking all foreigners are rich? CCP plan to infiltrate the West?
Yeah Ive had more attractive girls for free
Most men want feminine, attractive women with a pleasant demeanor. Thats about it.
Rich tall men, who most women want, have a lot of options.
I feel sorry for women who think only rich tall men are worthy of them, especially if the only thing they have going for them is an education. May as well get a dog.
Doesn’t matter what your degree is. Doesn’t matter your income. Attitude, demeanor and connection are what matter the most.
These women aren't looking for husband's they're looking for business partners
Me to Chinese woman: "Do you want to go to dinner sometime?"
Chinese woman: "WHERE YOUR LUXURY CAR?? WHERE YOUR MANSION?? WHERE YOUR MIRRION DORRA??? YOU NO GOOD ENOUGH!"
The mystery of leftover women continues.
Mirrion Dorra pronunciation is hilarious when you think about it.
😂😂😂 I love how they're no different anywhere else in the world where the women are raised to be super career driven
I read that in the Chinese accent lol 🤣
I had a similar experience when dating Chinese/Asian women. One was shocked when I suggested we get pizza, saying she wanted better food. Another seemed disappointed that I was driving an old car etc etc.
Confucius say, man with tool in woman's mouth not necessarily dentist.
Feminism lied to women. They were told that their career is more important than being a Mother and a Husband. They think having a degree and money makes them desirable but this is simply a false reality.
Its social engineering to keep population geowth low. Softer version of eugenics.
Women created feminism, and women sustain it
It's not an outside thing, it's her nature
feminists have created this dead end life, but instead of admitting their mistake, they recruit more to bring along with them to this hell they created.
It is pal! It absolutely 💯 👌
In China, this isn't feminism. This is the parents pushing their kids to be this or that and the pressure from society to be more and more. But look at the result. China is suffering on a human scale. This is another failed human experiment by China. And I really like China too and the people.
Your story reminds me of the imperial princess of Japan. She gave up her title as the imperial princess and married an ordinary man. She married a commoner because she loves him. Her status is very high but she went down to the lowly to get married because of love.
She was in her thirties n he a schoolmate of her brother, the Crown prince!
"My requirements aren't particularly high"
180cm tall
Fair skinned
Big eyes
Humorous
Fun
Successful career
That is rare in the West, let alone China. The delusion is unbelievable. I'm actually shocked.
180cm+ and big eye in a chinese man is as possible as winning the lottery twice in the same day
Big eyes in china? 😂😂😂@@Bunnymorphosis
That's quite common in Europe tbh.
@@epickzalpha8273 It's not that uncommon among the Uygurs, whom the Han are sterilizing.
@@TitB1199 That's what happens when you're infatuated with Hollywood, especially James Bond movies.
From my experience, these "left over women" are largely left over because they wont accept a man without a multi property dowry
true
You live you learn or in today's world when it comes to many women they don't learn at all. Sure they have book smarts but not when it comes to what's important in life or relationships. Too many prideful women and pridefulness is one thing that God our creator doesn't like. We didn't create ourselves. 💯🤷♂️
Absolutely,,,what they don't realize is that as the woman gets older she looses her value in men's eye,,,but as the man gets richer his vulue goes up and he can get any woman that's he wants
Confucius say, man who kisses girl's behind, get crack in face.
They aren’t left over, they are too picky. They don’t want any man, they want a man with multiple home
Let's see , an average person makes 25,000 a year, a house is 300,000 thousand, a car is 60,000 thousand, water is 3,000 a year, electric is 3,000 a year, insurance is 1,500 a year, phone is 600 a year. A Chinese girlfriend is worth $3,000,000, million dollars . Hmmmmmm.... Yet men are worth $0 dollars. Yet we are both human beings that have to work for a living.. Wait a minute.. did Eve charge Adam $3,000,000 dollars in the garden of Eden way back then in ancient times . Why are women doing this nowadays . They have not ever done this before . I would rather just spend 20,000 dollars through the next 20 years on $20 lap dances for the rest of my life .
Your right. Just pay a girl for fun time
The youth all over the world are straight up refusing to continue to the human race because its too expensive and standards have become too high (likely because of social media).
Damn, those women aren't leftover, they are untouchable! Women trying to use men's metric for success is destined for failure.
They are leftovers. At their age (mid- to late 30s), they're considered old and well past their peak for a woman. If they were men, it'd be different, as men peak from 35-50.
@@veryslyfox if a man makes good money, he'll be always at his peak
It's also that Asain guys in particular don't like women over 25 :/
Requirements on both sides are very superficial, money and looks ugh
@@HackersSun no it's not the same, ugly short guys are fertile can produce children
Women reject based only on looks
While for women when they got 30 90% of her eggs are gone, send the healthiest ones are fine
Men need fertility to begin a family with a woman, it's not wanted out of women it's needed
@@veryslyfox - He was using hyperbole. These women are not leftover; they are extra, extra, super duper leftover on steroids with NOS pumps hooked to the leftover woman gas tanks
Young men are not disillusioned with love we're just tired of being used as an ATM
women complain about being objectified as a pretty thing, no one talks about men being objectified as farm equipment.
All this education and good careers and these women still don't know what a real man wants.
After China's one child policy created a situation were more male children were born, how are there so many left over women?
those are rich beautiful privillaged and educated women who just don't consider non attractive less financially stable or less educated men an option at all.
"You should marry an alien instead" was personal 😂💀
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Even alien don't want sheng nu. 🤢🤮
Better option than a Chinese man. There are over 50 million more single men than single women. These women are better off single.
@@thornyback - Women can’t stand being single or alone. They are social creatures by nature. That’s why they are angry, bitter and crying on TikTok.
Alien is allergic on wuhan virus 💀💀💀😂
Older High value women want a high value man, but high value men want young beautiful women who make less than own😅
Yup because their ego can't handle it.
@@Maayaa117 No, because men don´t want to handle it. It is better to get a beautiful young lady who has not the skyrocketing expectations. A talented man can always earn money, they don´t need a woman for this. But wait: The woman with high expectations expects you to cash out tons of your money for some useless luxury shit he really don´t need. So a smart man is not looking for this, easy as it is.
Why would a man suffer for a worthless leftover women
They so NOT Worth it!
@@Maayaa117 bcos men and woman looks and expect different things out of each other. Apply some burnol your burn seems to be real.
@@Maayaa117 no it's because most older women are emotionally damaged. Young girls have less trauma and less drama most of the time. Most older women are full of shit.
I didn't know high quality women meant rich women.
Another thing to point out is that marrying a lower status man dishonors the woman's family. Also asian parent's fear of poverty forces daughters to marry into wealth or status. Also disobeying parents in arranged marriage brings shame to family and often guilt the daughter if she does so.
So in conclusion, psychologist and psychiatrist are rich.
High quality woman = down to earth and easy to be around
The greatest trait of a wife is one who loves to cook for his family.
@@cjgparas3 his? not sure what your talking about sounded like you want to stay home with mummy treating you like a child until you got to the bit about "his"
@@GreatSageSunWukongcoping?
yep malding even
@@GreatSageSunWukong it can be that but not necessarily. I think you have no concept of giving love in acts of service and love languages.
And you act like a man doesn't give anything...
The thing that is most striking is that there are more men than women in China.
Then why don't the men whining like this? Lol. Does that mean few women are promiscuous, that 1 woman can get railed by two husband? 😂 Gay is strictly prohibited in asia, so same sex relationship is out of the picture
MGTOW hit Asia hard.
that isnt true, i watched a documentary were they explained everything, maybe in the cities, but actually there are like 30M more women in china than men at least
@@DrCruel Nah, they're just too poor to get a girl from what I've seen.
Poor men from the countryside. Both are picky AF. Men want them younger than 28. Women want a million things from a man.
They forgot "only drones mate with queens."
haha hilarious
Doesn't matter how bad their situation gets, they still only want the top 10% of the men.
More and more men are waking up
Glad to see it
I believe they want top 1%. They often discard 70-80% of men solely based on height. Then adding up looks requirements drop those numbers to 1%. Add up to this intelligence, status, tone of voice, charisma - and here it comes "0.001%"
@@HCforLife1 🍻
Their situation is not bad at all. They have nice homes, nice cars, good jobs. A lot of women around the world would literally envy them, including the married ones. If they want sex without responsibilities - they can get it no problem from much younger but a bit poorer males. There situations are far from a situation of a an unhappy wife that is dependant on her husband she no longer loves. That's a bitter situation for sure. The worst thing that will happen to them - no prince Charming would come their way. But it's ok. In 20 years they will be happy not to have an annoying old men by their sides. They should dry their tears and enjoy the best years of their lives, their freedom (including finanacial one). Travel more, dedicate their time to the things they love doing. Come back to their childhoood dreams. If a right person comes along - fine. If not - it's not a big deal either in modern society.
@@user-gs2fi5gh8q but they're miserable, they cry themselves to sleep and are terrified of dying alone.
How obvious is it that you don't understand female nature. Women are not the same as men.
Having money and a career makes men happy and they can access good women cause of that.
Women's nature crave to give life, to nurture, to take care of children even when they are old and to be taken for by a provider and protector
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Why not marry a poor man with skills like plumbing, electrician, or carpentry. A man with those skills is gold.
They want walking atm fr
Funnily enough those are super high paid Jobs in germany lol.talking 60k to 120k€ per year
And who said that a poor man is a plumber, electrician, or a carpenter cause I know many of them who is holding a hell of a bag but not for narrow minded people.
Not in china. These are labour skill, low paid job for the poor. Very different to countries in the West.
it's hilarious that people still think trade jobs are "poor man's work" Not a single one of those professions pulls under 6 figures unless you're just starting out as a journeyman.
You don’t define yourself as “high quality”, that is defined by the market
It's really not that bad, considering these girls don't do OF, and have an actual high paying job and degree, unlike in the US which are just equally entitled but are even worse.
Werd. 🤘
"The market." 😂
@@ayemjake they are old. What does their degree matters for?
@@lucasljs1545 They're not that old, at least not old enough to be menopausal. It matters, because a two-income household ensures that a family has a steady stream of income. If one of the breadwinners get sick, their partner can cover for the expenses. If we were in the 1970s then a one-income household would be more than enough, unfortunately with the current global economy, everything from basic goods, insurance, healthcare, to real estate have become increasingly difficult to pay off.
Before 22, "Don't think about getting a boyfriend. Focus on your study!"
After 22, "When are you gonna have a boyfriend?"
Before 25, "I want an at least 1.8-meter tall man with at least a master's degree, a condo in inner Shanghai, a good car like Tesla, and a salary of no less than 100k. My dowry should be 1 million."
After 25 before 28, "I want a tall man with a university degree, a condo in Shanghai, a car, and a salary of no less than 30k. My dowry should be 200k."
After 28 before 30, "I want a man with a university degree, a condo anywhere in Shanghai and a salary of no less than 20k. No dowry is required."
After 30 before 33, "I want a man with a salary of no less than 10k. Period."
After 33, "I want a man. Period."
Probably best not to shop for a spouse like you're online selecting an ideal car to buy.
The Chinese variation of 6ft, 6 figure income, or GTFO.
But it goes nowhere because men aren't simps like in the U.S. lol
How many chinese men are over 5'6"?
@@mattyghost3409 Chinese men are turbo simps lol get off the drugs.
@@somethingclever89163 chinese men in whole humanity's history (/s)
Yea, like they have millions of those. The 4th wave feminist are wrapped up in fantasy.
women complaining about not finding a man while keeping a Mount Everest standard for men.
Water is wet, when womens status and wages go up, she keeps adding more and more to her requirements. In reality, in mens eyes, status and wage doesnt matter as much. Her personality, looks and age (eggs) does.
Makeup technology distorted society more than anything else. Now women really believe they deserve better, despite being genetically ugly (sorry), instead catfishing men. But men got smarter, they can eat a catfish once in a while, but next day get back to healthy proteins and gym. ;)
The men have standards too. She doesn't meet them.
More a Mt. Olympus Mons.😁
Straight women problem. If I'm a woman, a "high quality" (in China's standard) woman in China, I would go for a woman easily 🤣
Truth be told. It’s hard in every country. The modern woman and the modern man are no longer compatible.
I wish luck for the younger generation
Because your not finding love you find wealth or perfect disney princess life.😂
As an nordic man, ivé encounterd many examples of this while dating online. It´s highly rule-based and utterly soulless. Most of the women I talked to, had to resort to alcohol for getting some sleep. The deeply rooted culture "appearance above everything", is deeply troubling and fragile.
I think some women see men as a status symbol. "Look at my 6', fit hot rich Bf! We have nothing in common but he goes great with my shoes"
@@somethingclever8916 I think you understand women better than most people.
Interesting idea.
just look up the term "blackpill" and get a detailed answer as to why appearance is above everything
@@somethingclever8916 nailed it, you see this often with women who get with men "boys" that look like the male version of themselves.
The hello kitty lady is nuts.
it's better for her to stay single. Otherwise, if she gets to have kids, they will be raised in a very strange manner and society will repeat the problem of having such a nuts person. Not a social win.
Acting 14 while pushing 40 with that double chin...yikes😬
Weak fathers create these nightmares …
Ouch. I never thought of that...but I guess men do think as such. If only she knew how she is seen from men 's perspective. I am afraid she doesn't know she needed to be appealing and attractive to men/understand what men want in a wife.
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Whenever I feel down, I am gonna come back and watch this video
lmfao
Schadenfreude if fucked up. You're a loser
Your remark is a home run.
Education does not denote intelligence. Just because you have multiple worthless degrees doesn’t make you high value
You're born intelligent. Education merely makes you educated.
And high value in the dating market is different for men and women. For men it's a fat bank account and status for women its youth and beauty. Man, look at that smoking hot bachelors degree said no man ever.
What have you accomplished lately ?
My brother in law got a PhD… We all agreed that it made us have less respect for PhD’s because he ain’t that bright!
In her generation the education in China wasn't that debased, so you could use it as a rough marker.
"Does a woman lose her value as she ages, even if she's accomplished?" The answer is: YES!
Value for getting a man. Many older women are doing just fine.
@@greensorrel6860 That would be the only standard to a man. To a man a woman loses value as she ages. Of course she has value in other areas but that is not what this topic is about.
Those are women with values
@@greensorrel6860 In terms of career and income, yes. BUT, in terms of MARRIAGE prospects, no they are not. If they were, they wouldn't be crying on video.
If the women truly do NOT want a man, then that is their choice. But they won't be crying on camera. They are busy living their life.
@@greensorrel6860they are doing fine only in countries that do have MONEY for governmental forces. Strip that power and there's no "fine"
Marry you f ing books! Master degrees Hahahahhah
If you are a high quality man, you have a choice between a 38 year old and a 21 year old, you're going to choose a 21-28 year old, the child bearing age. Its harsh, but its just human nature.
Average women over 30: I want a rich good-looking man with a sense of humor, well-educated and has 2 car and a house.
Average men over 30: I just want a young pretty woman; it doesn't matter if she's rich or poor.
Rich good-looking men: I want 10 women, under 25 with a measurement 38-26-36, preferred super models.
last one is just rich man, dont even have to be good looking 😂😂
There is hope for the world, Im glad thesse comments are actually based in reality
Last one is still a lie.
Confucius say, wanting ain't getting.
By age 30 90% of her eggs are gone but she think that she worth as much as a 18 year old
LOL
The positive point here is nice to know it's not just the USA.
True, but if you take out the immigrant women to USA, Chinese women look way better than the American ones.
It’s female nature, it’s everywhere on developed countries
They say 2030 will break records for single childless women in the west 🤷
Hypergarmy is what they call it
Interestingly most millionaire men would have no problem marrying a farm girl but most millionaire women would not marry a farm boy 🤷
"cute looking with 34?" JAJAJAJAJAJ
You can see by the words they use how different the Chinese culture is. "My qualifications are..." as if it was a job interview. Also, to pay dowry for a woman... Just baffling for a westerner.
And paying a dowry for an old chick is even more baffling.
Dowry is such a dumb concept to us westerners because you're supposed to be with some for who they are, not what they have..
Hight quality my ass.
Your ass is high quality ? 🤣🤣🤣
I thought the same. They think that a degree, house and car make them high quality, as if they were men. They are actually extremely low quality women.
You’re just jelly they make more 💰💰than you
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@@MufasanoodlesFfds123 they are the ones jelly because I am younger 🤣🤣
A rich woman wants to marry someone with money, status, fame. But a rich man just wants a woman who will be his and take care of his children, regardless of how educated or rich she is. Women will never understand that.
Feminism has lied to them...
@@_aPaladin no they made it to themselves, it's women nature, feminism is just the name of what they do, it's not something outside them
Women have to start taking responsibility for the first time in human history
Smart men don't typically seek uneducated women to raise their children.
@@howdareyou5800 that'll never happen.
@@JeffCaplan313 u can be sure about that, better to be free
Men don't care about degrees, and wealth of women, all we want in women are that women humble, young, loyal and sweet to us, that's it.
"my requirements aren't particularly high"
* Proceeds to describe 1% of men *
0.001% 😂 Because tall and handsome is actually less than 1%. Remove 80% of those guys who are already taken, add up the status and money requirements, then tone of voice, charisma... They want a man who doesn't exist
It is fascinating how the US and China took completely different routes, to end up at the same destination! 🤯🤯
Women have only recently been liberated from reproductive slavery, domestic slavery. Men are adjusting to the new reality. If you want a wife and kids, be kind, and a partner, not a toxic overbearing MAN!
It's the other way around: Aside from chopsticks and Chinese characters, Shanghai, Shenzhen look basically the same as Seattle, Chicago. But most Americans have partners.
Capitalism and communism are two cheeks of the same backside.
Secular ideologies that put material acquisition the goal of life. They just take different routes.
@@juliusparacelsus1874 So you prefer theocracy?
@@tabithan2978 yes.
With all the degenerative behavior we see in our society how can you not.
We to caught up in this myth of freedom and as a human being your not free to do what you want. There is a cosmic order that must be followed.
parents forcing their daughters to study and work hard during their youth now complaining about marriage? lol
The Soviet system offered the right to a woman to take a place in society. capitalism has made this an absolute...
@@FADNaRBoth are material obsessed societies that infected the spiritual will of a people.
They didin't date. So they didin't get married. It's not suprising
@astrozoo so many asians have this problem. Like my sister. Parents don't allow dating or any relationship with boys and then suddenly when they 30 with no male friends at all they want them to get married. Shit makes no sense they have no foresight at all.
Parents want their daughters to inherit the family legacy, but as many parents of both women and men are realizing, there's no legacy without the children@@astrozoo
The bigger problem is that nobody wants to compromise. Men - and their families - expect these career women to simultaneously fulfill the traditional female roles, or worse, to quit their high paying, prestige bearing jobs to become stay at home mothers and glorified nannies. Women want men whose prestige and status match their self image, but simultaneously expect the men to be available at their whim to take care of their emotional needs. Everyone is used to working ridiculous overtime in full commitment to the job, and many lack even basic social skills to make a relationship work.
No wonder marriage is a problem.
1.8m is roughly 6ft which is even more rare in China WTF
7:09 she looks unbelievable for 40. If she looks this good at 40 imagine how beautiful she was at 21. Wtf was she doing back then?
“she was once a top student and campus beauty”. That hit unnecessarily hard 😂😂😂😂
Women won't share any money they make AND they force the guy to pay their student loans. Their money is their money and your money is their money. If they guy loses his job she'll dump him in short order but on average women work full time in their degree less than 5 years in their life, so even female doctors, lawyers, accountants and engineers, become part time or don't work once married, and if they can't they resent it highly and will punish the guy daily for not being a billionaire(even billionaires can't keep a wife, so ..) Key part of her statement, at least to men was "once", who cares how beautiful she was at one time, how beautiful is she now and in the future?
@@averybaumannlove to hear men pontificate on their bitter misogynistic views as though they’re stating objective facts.
A misandrist u are typical
@@imlookingforthetoweroflear7871 They are statistical facts, actually. Reliable woman is so rare nowadays.
*ONCE* XDXD
> "My requirements aren't particularly high"
> Proceeds to list absurdly high requirements.
Blood Type, Income, Tax release, Height, History of successful predecessors, at least won two FIFA cups, etc.
I an an American man who genuinely likes Asian females even thought I am of European ancestry. I dated several rather young Chinese women over the internet, my intention was marriage. It did not work out. There was a clash of moral standards with them.
Is it bad that I'm loving this? 😂 It feels so great when women learn what it feels like to be undesired
These women should contact Jeff Bezos. He meets their standards: 1.8m tall, fair skin, round eyes, and makes tons of money.
haha you got the last one right but Jeff is actually 1.7m, fairly tan and has small eyes
Good one.👍But I agree with @wks2291. He is neither tall nor fair, and we know what kind of woman he prefers.🙄
Who ever accused women of rationality.
@@wks2291learn to enjoy the joke
Square eyes
Women just need to understand that what they find attractive in a man is not what a man would find attractive in a woman. Just because you're highly educated and draw a good salary does not mean that a man will automatically choose you, because that's what you would want in your man.
A man with options would take a 20-year-old girl over a 38-year-old PhD 90% of the time.
In other words, men don't want to meet the standards and expectations of a grown mature woman so they settle for an inexperienced little girl they can shape and mold to meet the bare minimum and cry about it later when she finds a much healthier, attractive, financially stable man in her age group, right cry us a river buddy 🤣🤣🤣🤣!
the same goes for a female looking for a man-
@@eutha6 wait are you saying women dont want a NICE man?
a 38 year old man who only wants a uneducated 20 year old is a red flag to all womenkind
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👍👍👍 count me in.....
Willing to be relocated to
Manzhouli....hohot....
$ 100 Franklin : In God We Trust .
100 Women : In Gold We Trust .
Man is simple ! At 18yr he loves 18yr old girls. At 30yr he also loves 18yr old girls and at 50yr old he still loves 18yr old girls :)
And women at any age just seek money and status.
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Comment of the day 😂
And 18 year olds girls find 50 year old men creepy and disgusting