On the last issue i strongly agree with Mrs Mumba, you have to draw a line to the things you can take from someone, the chances you can give them. In trying to fix someone if you are not careful you will end up just like them. If they want to change they will do that on their next relationship ,
Matshediso reminds me of someone..matshediso,be urself,when u have a good heart,u want to see the good in everything...sometimes it works in ur favour,and sometimes not...don't feel the pressure to cut the lady off....everyone is different,..be urself...I felt bad because I feel the pressure u have to endure in this case,seeing that Tshediso does not fancy the friend,...nice video ladies
It's difficult not to inherit your sister's battles, but Maison is right.... protect your sister but don't inherit her beef..love you girls... you're so real....❤
This is such an intriguing conversation. I get both perspectives, and as people, we are different . Those with strengths to hold on and those with strengths to let go.
My sisters sometimes you crack my rips by laughing and now I'm in pain. I don't mind about the issue of being not invited. I used to take it personally before, but when times goes on I usually no longer entertaining such things.
This one is like the church thing, Mrs Mumba distanced herself first 😀you will catch up, I don't think she'll change at this age except if she actively works on it through therapy or something..
Don’t ever rekindle with a fren u fell out with guys , it’s worse than a bf. Those people are usually narcissistic and Dey will make u seem like wa tlhanya
I really enjoyed this topic. I know it's not easy but I learn a lot when you guys disagree/argue. It makes me curious if you guys have any thoughts on what is happening with Tia and Tamera and them not being close anymore. Please share (in your opinion) what situations could cause twins/sisters to drift apart? (marriages, fake friends, money etc.) Thank you! ♥
Aowa as nice human beings as we are. Shame but that friend is definitely not a friend, and I know maiso deep down knows it she just feel socially responsible for her. I bet maiso is her only friend, so she might feel guilty to let go. But in the same breath, perhaps you letting go as well can be an eye opener for her to change
Black people can be so unprofessional and overly familiar to black patrons! The other day I am doing my nails at a nail salon, I asked about some product and how good it is. The first thing the lady said “ eish white people love it, it’s so expensive”! Obviously assuming it’s expensive for me. I was so annoyed, I just bought it. 😂
Ahhh Maiso, no friendship is worth the relationship with your sister! Latlha motho yoo 😂! She is toxic ! It doesn’t sound like there’s any value add to your life from her !
Matshediso atsea Tshediso wao rata and wena you being stubborn ba ho kare wa bakisa. Please allow her to love you everyday and more. I love you Tshedi❤
Thanks for letting us to have a say in this: Tshediso I'm glad that even through your hardness and being a punisher 😅 you realise that you and Maiso are completely not the same 🙏. Maiso you are being you and being honest and trying to go for something that might even hurt you back, stay real you are sending HOPE to the world so cruel 🙏 we all deserve second chances if not thirds❤❤
Very true, but she must just be careful in the process of sending hope and not expose herself to more hurt, coz chances are she might nit be aware that she hurt ppl but becoz Maiso is patient with her she will always be her Victim.
Maiso, Tshediso has a point on putting your mental health 1st. These people know what they are doing, wena you'll be giving chances and having empathy, but friendships are a two way street despite our traumas, especially when we are adults and we can correct our behaviours so that we are healthy for people we say we love. The lady is low key competing with you guys, and for the fact that Tshediso rekindled the friendship but the behaviour and energy was still off, it's really sickening. Maiso does not want to let go and it's an opportunity for her to explore her own traumas as well. What does holding on to people who hurt you say about you? What fears aren't you exploring and you're redirecting your energy towards finding the good in others? Boundaries are a way of showing ourselves love, even if it means they hurt others. I say this because I was like you Maiso, until I went on my own healing journey. It hasn't been easy, I distanced myself from a lot of people so that I could see things clearly. I discovered that I'm a people pleaser and this is what I learned in childhood. Sometimes we have to find what's good about us, and it might look like being perceived as us being bad by people who benefited from our lack of boundaries.
I wish I could like this 100 times! How you feel after spending time with a 'friend' is enough information to let you know if they belong in your life or not. Social media is also very problematic - I tell all my 'friends' that I do not follow friends on Insta or TikTok - I only do celebrities or strangers. I don't want the pressure of liking and commenting and "keeping up". I'd rather you tell me or you don't, life goes on. ♥ No "friend" should steal your joy.
@@ThandiweBolsiek-ug1og I have a problem guys. Everytime I have to turn my back on a person, everything that was good about them plays in my mind and suddenly I feel so bad 😭
Why youtube e sena voice note banabeso😢. This topic hits home. You can't fix this person Tshili.imagine this negative person ele your relative😢😢life ke tissue paper hle
Friendship tse ling ke scam straight,I just found out that hona le friendship tse wena o bang friend to them e be bona ha se your true friends,but now ha ke sa Lula moo ke bonang hore I'm not valued or welcomed
I think the friend who got married wanted you guys le mo fate-fate ditaba, and y'all didn't give her that. Hape what did she want to achieve? Why was she hinting instead of tell you guys?
On the last issue i strongly agree with Mrs Mumba, you have to draw a line to the things you can take from someone, the chances you can give them. In trying to fix someone if you are not careful you will end up just like them. If they want to change they will do that on their next relationship ,
@@Tee-mz9nu Tough love….thank you ❤️
When you guys argue is the most realistic thing ever, 😅 its rare to see real conversations that were not rehashed before
@@khomotsosekgala1121 Thank you, some arguments we even cut them out 😂😂
I always laugh 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Matshediso reminds me of someone..matshediso,be urself,when u have a good heart,u want to see the good in everything...sometimes it works in ur favour,and sometimes not...don't feel the pressure to cut the lady off....everyone is different,..be urself...I felt bad because I feel the pressure u have to endure in this case,seeing that Tshediso does not fancy the friend,...nice video ladies
It's difficult not to inherit your sister's battles, but Maison is right.... protect your sister but don't inherit her beef..love you girls... you're so real....❤
@@DitlaboMogapi Thank you, we love you too ❤️❤️
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This is such an intriguing conversation. I get both perspectives, and as people, we are different . Those with strengths to hold on and those with strengths to let go.
@@mamotsemokabe9435 🙏🏾🙏🏾
You both have strong points but with Tshidiso’s mindset you gonna survive this world
@@tshepishoselepe6514 🙏🏾🙏🏾
You guys so real!!!!!
@@XoliM_space Thank you 😍
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My sisters sometimes you crack my rips by laughing and now I'm in pain. I don't mind about the issue of being not invited. I used to take it personally before, but when times goes on I usually no longer entertaining such things.
@@lufunonemakonde3993 😂😂😂
Maiso just listen to the big sister i always like her advises are so true❤
@@mavismokoena6856 Big sister 😂😂😂
This one is like the church thing, Mrs Mumba distanced herself first 😀you will catch up, I don't think she'll change at this age except if she actively works on it through therapy or something..
😂😂😂Mina I love it here ,the realness
Any you should consider posting QnA on your socials so that we get to ask you questions
@@tshepishoselepe6514 Okay, great idea. We’ll do it ❤️
Eish I hear you sisters, knowing when to let go can be very difficult when you are too sympathetic
@@bonolomokhele9960 😭😭😭 I wish it was easy
Ja this topic is close to home, relatives will be the one on your case during family gatherings yoooo😮😂
@@bonolomokhele9960 Hai no 😂😂😂
Love u guys , you really keep me sane , you are appreciated ❤.
@@kwandamiya824 Thank you so much Kwanda. We love you more ❤️❤️
The therapy i needed after such a horrible day😊😊😊❤
@@DM-rm5ec ❤️❤️
Don’t ever rekindle with a fren u fell out with guys , it’s worse than a bf.
Those people are usually narcissistic and Dey will make u seem like wa tlhanya
@@shamilyahessy6127 it’s really tricky 🙆🏽♂️
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@@tumichapo7448 ❤️❤️
Real talk
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@@ednasekhaolelo2458 serious one
Bathong this video was hot 😀🔥 I hope you guys were okay after this 😂 Mrs Mumba you must bring a glass of water next time hle. 😂😂
@@lindiwemtshali1643 😂😂😂😂 we were okay, it’s gets rough
I really enjoyed this topic. I know it's not easy but I learn a lot when you guys disagree/argue. It makes me curious if you guys have any thoughts on what is happening with Tia and Tamera and them not being close anymore. Please share (in your opinion) what situations could cause twins/sisters to drift apart? (marriages, fake friends, money etc.) Thank you! ♥
@@tumimashego I’m quite aware of Tia & Tamera’s situation. I tried to ignore it, I even convinced myself that’s it’s public stunt 🙆🏽♂️
Aowa as nice human beings as we are. Shame but that friend is definitely not a friend, and I know maiso deep down knows it she just feel socially responsible for her. I bet maiso is her only friend, so she might feel guilty to let go. But in the same breath, perhaps you letting go as well can be an eye opener for her to change
@@PhodisoS I’m really trying guys😭😭🙆🏽♂️
Black people can be so unprofessional and overly familiar to black patrons! The other day I am doing my nails at a nail salon, I asked about some product and how good it is. The first thing the lady said “ eish white people love it, it’s so expensive”! Obviously assuming it’s expensive for me. I was so annoyed, I just bought it. 😂
@@katlego5077 😂😂😂😂😂 imagine being saying that to the client. The owner of that salon is losing money because of her
This is a relatable …😂
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@@shamilyahessy6127 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Bathong Mrs Mumba is right, we are just hearing “my boyfriend this, my boyfriend that” 😂😂 Mara dololo update. 😅 Do we have a new mkhwenyana?
@@lindiwemtshali1643 Il be talking about my Ex, not used to referring him as Ex yet😂😂
Maiso nnake ❤❤❤...
Ahhh Maiso, no friendship is worth the relationship with your sister! Latlha motho yoo 😂! She is toxic ! It doesn’t sound like there’s any value add to your life from her !
Matshediso atsea Tshediso wao rata and wena you being stubborn ba ho kare wa bakisa. Please allow her to love you everyday and more. I love you Tshedi❤
I agree with Tshidiso. 💯 ❤
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U guys … I can relate with u so much
@@shamilyahessy6127 Thank you 😍
I’m number one again. Looks like I camp here😅
@@shitshembisomabunda7522 Yeess, good 1️⃣ ❤️❤️❤️
Thanks for letting us to have a say in this:
Tshediso I'm glad that even through your hardness and being a punisher 😅 you realise that you and Maiso are completely not the same 🙏. Maiso you are being you and being honest and trying to go for something that might even hurt you back, stay real you are sending HOPE to the world so cruel 🙏 we all deserve second chances if not thirds❤❤
Very true, but she must just be careful in the process of sending hope and not expose herself to more hurt, coz chances are she might nit be aware that she hurt ppl but becoz Maiso is patient with her she will always be her Victim.
@@rudzanikharivhe6294 this!!!
@@MsThandi1 Thank you Thandi, I’m glad to hear that. Watseba most times I ask myself if I love other people more than I love myself 😢
@@rudzanikharivhe6294 il try to take precautions, hai nna Ekare ke Domnyana😂 guys
No you are not, you are writing your story and letting the world know that we are uniquely different
I agree with tshidiso your mental health first
@@johannamasethato4588 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Kannete 💯❤️
😂😂😂 mara, you behave like me and my sister. We can randomly start arguing 😅
@@mpumimg6000 😂😂😂😂 I get you
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Maiso, Tshediso has a point on putting your mental health 1st. These people know what they are doing, wena you'll be giving chances and having empathy, but friendships are a two way street despite our traumas, especially when we are adults and we can correct our behaviours so that we are healthy for people we say we love. The lady is low key competing with you guys, and for the fact that Tshediso rekindled the friendship but the behaviour and energy was still off, it's really sickening. Maiso does not want to let go and it's an opportunity for her to explore her own traumas as well. What does holding on to people who hurt you say about you? What fears aren't you exploring and you're redirecting your energy towards finding the good in others? Boundaries are a way of showing ourselves love, even if it means they hurt others. I say this because I was like you Maiso, until I went on my own healing journey. It hasn't been easy, I distanced myself from a lot of people so that I could see things clearly. I discovered that I'm a people pleaser and this is what I learned in childhood. Sometimes we have to find what's good about us, and it might look like being perceived as us being bad by people who benefited from our lack of boundaries.
I wish I could like this 100 times! How you feel after spending time with a 'friend' is enough information to let you know if they belong in your life or not. Social media is also very problematic - I tell all my 'friends' that I do not follow friends on Insta or TikTok - I only do celebrities or strangers. I don't want the pressure of liking and commenting and "keeping up". I'd rather you tell me or you don't, life goes on. ♥ No "friend" should steal your joy.
@@ThandiweBolsiek-ug1og I have a problem guys. Everytime I have to turn my back on a person, everything that was good about them plays in my mind and suddenly I feel so bad 😭
@@the2wins maybe look for a trauma counselor who will help you unpack Ausi. You can't carry on like this.
@ I will, il try get some help 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Maiso really does close her eyes in the begining😂
@@phumlanisolomon3999 I’m still shy in the beginning of the video 🙈🙈
They measure their lives with yours 😂😂😂😂😂 they make me laugh shem
Love your show ladies❤
@@ncanyiweseelamo 😂😂😂. Thank you ❤️
That’s exactly what they’re doing. Thank you hun ❤
Love you beautiful humbled sisters ❤
@@annadeliwentlahla8353 Thank you, ❤️❤️❤️
Eya hle Maiso o kwala mahlo😅
@@adv.thatomoeeng832 Hau bathong. Il try to bring that energy from the beginning ❤️❤️
That person is not gona change Maiso
@@shamilyahessy6127 Eish, even after this video?🙆🏽♂️
Yoh I got so hurt by a friend that even stole my designer clothes and shoes to a point I don’t want a friend anymore I’m my own friend 59:44
@@kidsbedtimestories554 I’m so sorry, that must be disappointing ❤️❤️
Maiso didn’t update us about her relationship
@@tshepishoselepe6514 😂😂😂😂 iyooooh Tshepiso, il come there 🙈
❤❤❤❤❤❤bo my love
@@Moelo-i2j ❤️❤️❤️
Dumelang no chomi😂Ke batla ho araba empa e re Ke thole. Ke ema le wena Mrs M
@@thatongwenya1029 Buwa feela Thato babe 😂
😂😂😂 u two😂
@@tlhomamootsisitswe3723 😂😂😂
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It seemed like u over explained urself , u are a better person
Why youtube e sena voice note banabeso😢. This topic hits home. You can't fix this person Tshili.imagine this negative person ele your relative😢😢life ke tissue paper hle
😭😭😭 Life is really tissue paper, let's pray for strength.
I hundred percent get you😢😢😢
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@@neomanamela7202 ❤️❤️❤️
Lol you talking about Gugu and kgomotso....
Yes 😊
Friendship tse ling ke scam straight,I just found out that hona le friendship tse wena o bang friend to them e be bona ha se your true friends,but now ha ke sa Lula moo ke bonang hore I'm not valued or welcomed
@@Dorcas-le2vf true, remove yourself quickly
Bathong u know me i prefer a male nurse even my Gyna is a male basadinyana bana ba sele hampe😅
@@mavismokoena6856 Wa buwa, basadi ba Sele hlee
1st one to coment and like ❤I love you big big guys
@@benedictorkhokong4100 Front row seat babe….We love you babe ❤️❤️❤️
Maiso, are you tellibg us that you are now taken"my boyfriend"
Ka nnete. Maiso always looks so bored in the intro. But because I’m used to it, I get it
LOL!
@@PhodisoS 😂😂😂 il still be shy in the beginning 😂
I think the friend who got married wanted you guys le mo fate-fate ditaba, and y'all didn't give her that. Hape what did she want to achieve? Why was she hinting instead of tell you guys?
@@ThandiweBolsiek-ug1og That was so boring I tell you. Imagine at this age Ntse re fatana le motho ditaba.