Seems like a lot of people are missing the point of the video. He's not saying psychology is wrong, he's saying psychology which removes Allah from the equation - ie modern psychology which looks to using drugs and therapy as the first solution - is the problem. So then you get all these people with the most rudimentary knowledge spreading misinformation and diagnosing people left and right - including themselves - with this toxic trait or that mental illness without the full scope of the issue. And it's true bc look how many people are suffering from mental health issues bc they've turned away from Allah, don't wanna follow His commands and then end up taking wrong paths and ruining their lives and those of people around them. We need to turn back to Allah when we need help. If getting medical help is the best option for our situation, Allah will guide us to that. If it's something we need to change in our own perspective or lifestyle, He will guide us to do that instead. Modern psychology isn't necessarily the first step, especially when so many people abuse and misuse it for gain today. (I'm not hating on psychology in general bc Allah even teaches us about the psychological state of humans and what happens when we neglect worship of Him in the correct ways)
It is okay to act within your feelings as long as you are not willingfully going against ALLAH swt. We are human beings, not robots. Feeling emotions is a beautiful thing as long as it does not dictate you that's fine.
Just like his pop culture like teachings? No researxh, no actual mean of gaining his knowledge just his confabulation of thoughts and opinions for what he FEELS is accurate, misleading and misinforming, thru his means of presentation and articulating it to be pleasing.
Allahu akbar, I was sceptic at first by reading the title, but the way he explains it shows a truth that truly hurts for the non believers, how can you be guided without Allah ? How can your hapiness be forever when the core of everything in this life is to end ? I'm actually experiencing a Big depression since one or two years I think, I never got to a psychologist, I dont want to take pill as they can hurt me, but I feel better now by simply doing two things : Taking my time in Salah, putting effort into it, And Reading Quran until I feel the urge to open it, Elhemdulillah, Allah guides who he wants and misguides who he wants, and he is the way to success. ❤️❤️ Take care of you and be with Allah as he is always here for you ❤️
You are talking about a psychiatrist, those aren't interested on the clien, only on selling. It isn't the same as a psychologist as the other comment said. Greetings
⚠️⚠️TITLE IS MISLEADING⚠️⚠️ it should be "pop psychology is a scam", not the field of psychology as a whole. Not every single psychologist on the planet thinks the exact same way, as Nouman is describing. There are so many Muslim psychologists who are greatly knowledgeable.
Exactly. Iv heard him talking about it differently.. this is just few mins of full video. Very misleading... He has even asked to go to doctors /expert psychologists/psychiatrists when we need them ..
As a Muslim majoring in psychology, I couldn't agree with the content of the video more (not the misleading title, haha). I believe psychology, when applied properly, can work harmoniously with faith. Pop psychology has definitely led to misinterpretations of psychological teachings via people who don't really know what they're talking about, and it's no surprise that in an individualistic society, people will take psychological practices/habits that can (and should!) otherwise help people and abuse them for self-serving purposes.
This is unfortunate that being such a popular Islamic scholar This guy doesn't have proper knowledge about psychology and misleading a huge crowd through his speech. May Allah provide him the knowledge to distinguish what is right or wrong!
This is unfortunate that being such a popular Islamic scholar This guy doesn't have proper knowledge about psychology and misleading a huge crowd through his speech. May Allah provide him the knowledge to distinguish what is right or wrong!
Wrong Interpretation about Ustaz Nouman.. He just want to supreme Al Quran which is words of true God, Allah SWT over psychology.. Yes indeed psychologyg good for a certain way but as Muslim follow Quran guidance with a proper teaching from Muhammad SAW is the best method.. Its overpowered western method (psychology) which is maybe fall for 2nd rank after Quran guidance as a first rank. Its true indeed. Which guidance is the best, Quran miraculous(Allah word) or human word/method?
It’s not about pleasure. It’s about understanding and growth. Growing in relationships… especially that within your faith. As I knew Muslim, I find it disturbing to see how looked-down upon psychology is. As in every industry, you have to be cautious who you listen to but sweeping statements demonizing mental help is extremely problematic. The majority of Muslim women I know are depressed and on medication and the Muslim men refuse to do any therapy and look at their feelings and actions. It’s quite sad.
Slightly misleading title - he never specifically said that psychology itself will misguide you. It's just that the way it's being used by the masses for the last few decades or so have been very commercial-ish and is very destructive.
But with half cooked knowledge by non professionals who are trying to solve peoples problems by selling psychology as a whole sum of every possibility and purposes
This video came out at the right moment for me. I’ve really been trying to be more kind and loving but I recently discovered that I was emotionally unavailable and I had issues with being vulnerable in front of my beloved ones so I couldn’t says what I wanted to say even if a wanted to hug them I wouldn’t be able to do it. The psychology aspect has really help me but they said to cure you childhood emotional and touch neglect you have to give it to your self. But I thought that Allah is the one who can cure me, he is the one who would give me love, care, empathy without asking anything back he is the most reliable source of comfort and love and that’s when for the first time I felt the love of Allah DEEP inside my heart. I do have some other issues to fix and I really want to find the balance between psychology and Islam😭. May Allah bless you for reading until the end 😘 May Allah make it easy for us to cure our traumas and bring us closer to him Ameen 🌸🤲🏾
Which is in the end making people more depressing because they are cautious of little things about human behavior they are not only destroying their own mental peace but also of others around them.
It is okay to act within your feelings as long as you are not willingfully going against ALLAH swt. We are human beings, not robots. Feeling emotions is a beautiful thing as long as it does not dictate you that's fine.
According to Hollywood, the purpose of life is happiness. In actuality the purpose of life is the obedience of Allah (the creator). Which ultimately leads you to the eternal happiness of achieving jannah but not before going through the test of life in this world. Psychology is just another tool to achieve “happy life” removing God out of the question crossing the boundary of haram and halal which in actuality is the message of western psychology, isn’t it!
WOW thats so true ! Subhan Allah ! I never thought about that in this way. Wow. Baraka Allahu Feek for this Video. May Allah bless and protect our Brother Nouman. Amin !
the title is misleading lol psychology itself will not misguide nobody. it's simply a branch of knowledge that's studying human behaviour/ thought processes etc in order to understand human better thus creating a better life for human being. NAK never says that psychology gonna misguide you. if you're not learning it properly from authentic sources duhhh that's a no brainer.
Psychology isn't necessarily following your emotions but rather understanding them. It's also not just the study of your emotional processes but also your logical ones. It could be used wrong but advising against it should be said with much more nuance
Agree 100%. Ironically enough, he is also acting somewhat in the same way as the people he is criticising- talking about a vast subject as a layperson. Maybe he talks about it more in the original longer video but this short clip absolutely lacks nuance. So many Muslims avoid getting mental health help because stigma + they are fed so much misinformation about psychological help and this short clip even though made a few valid points, lacks depth and nuance and adds to the problem. In my opinion. As a psychologist :)
@@mahnoor2775I think he’s trying to make a case of people who victimise to avoid accountability but that has nothing to do with psychology, it’s not psychology fault, these guys are ignorants anyway
Half videos made me think he is talking bullshit but the 2nd half of the video has completed the image, he is absolutely right. Being born here living this life doesnt mean that you have to do everything just to make urself feel better. Accepting the realities of life the way they are is required a lot of times. Always trying to feel better or good is something that ruins alot of things in life, its not a solution
yeah, BEFORE I watch mr. Nouman talk about this, I'm already start feeling like this, I feel, I can almost diagnose myself with this with that with this with that, I start to "distancing" what I think "problem", yeah, mr. Nouman right, I was distancing myself with "harsh-truth", when I start not to self diagnose myself with these kind of lgbt-thing jargons, I start to "brave" to take an actions, take challenges, not too afraid to act to someone, now, the person who can "diagnose" myself is professional psychologist, not myself (now I'm not too interested with psychology), and I feel great about it
Psychology is not a science. It is not based on facts and the analyses of different Psychology enthusiasts may not be consistent. It is a concept of studying the human mind based on opinions, not facts. The only thing useful about Psychology is the introduction of terminology for different behaviors. But the set of behaviors which are defined by these terms, too, may lack consistency.
Psychology that QURAN tells about humans is enough for us. Btw I'm not talking about medicines but just human psychology and it's phycological solutions.
No, it is not. Ideally psychology has to be derived from the sources of Quran and sunnah primarily. But we can use any other psychological technique and therapeutic technique that aligns with Islam. Psy from the Quran is not enough exactly the way medical science from the Quran is not enough.
he's talking logic bro, Qur'an is the mainly the book for hidayah of humans, not for psychology or medicine some verses might have those topics but he's talking about details
If psychology removes someone's belief system then its not proper psychology. Blaim people but not the subject... This subject heals people every single day…
My question to people who give therapy to others is - How are you doing in your life? How is your relationship with others? How is your marriage? How is your relationship with your children and parent going? If you are not doing great yourself , then do not counsel others with your own brand of psychology that you learned by going to the community college.
He has missed the point totally. Allah is never removed from the equation- thus is misguiding others I am a clinical psychologist and have come closer to my Deen since qualifying and practicing psychology I feel he needs to get his facts and remove his bias against the subject
When your heart is properly linked with Allah , it never misleads you , even what you think is a mistake is usually just a plan to prepare you for the bigger picture
What's he actually talking about is pop psychology which isn't really psychology. It's ppl with little knowledge of a topic making media content for popularity and that content either is false or not the whole story. Biggest example of this is "anxiety attack", there is no such term in the clinical psychology field.
Psychology debates it's Science or Religion to understand people emotions. From Science perspective, mental disorders are caused by brain chemicals imbalance. Where else Religions look at much deeper insight; spirituality; inside the heart. The condition of the heart then shown by the behavior. And there is a study of Behaviorial Science.
Islam is our guide,we can learn Islamic psychology,our religion always comes first. I like sister Yasmin’s lectures and also Nouman Ali Han‘s Islamic psychology. (We should learn psychology from trusted sources.)👍
Ustaz please answer i used to be a very forgiving person and tried not to hurt to anyone to try and please Allah i ended up with depression and so much anxiety and very bad self esteem, i want to be religious but the expense seems to be my mental health and i cant do that. Give me advice
I think the main problem of the current state of psychology, is that it either aims to satisfy that drug-addict mentality of "feeling good" at all costs, or aims to turn the person into a happy corporate slave, a lot of time perverting or oversimplifying spiritual teachings.
Why do we jump to extremes and never wish for a holistic approach to things? I have watched a few videos of Nouman and have liked them but I find this one extremely misleading and ironically- misguiding. A comment says that he has been severely depressed was considering to go to a psychologist but was sceptical about having medicines and now after watching this, he won't. This is what the problem is with this video. Where that person could have gone for therapy (non pharmaceutical treatment) along with Namaaz and Qur'an , he dropped the very idea of visiting a psychologist. Again Ironically-Nouman himself hasn't researched about Psychology, doing exactly what the 18 y/o kids making TH-cam videos without proper research are doing. Psychology is not the science that is talking about "Feel good" or "Be happy" or "Pleasure seeking". What you are talking about is called Hedonism not Psychology. And if you were talking about the people who spread misinformation about psychology, and not psychology itself, then the video title is extremely misleading.
He's not condemning psychology itself. But highlighting the sickness of "modern psychology" that focuses solely on the self, which removes Allah SWT from the equation.
@@miakamei1751 Psychology or science in general doesn't include God. If you want God to be included in every topic like a participation trophy stick to religious studies.
There’s is growing muslim psychology field which is very in line in finding life problem according to Islamic teachings . However psychology in itself is scientific in the approach but it’s as well heavily influenced by western cultural biases. There is book by Sudanese psychologist malik badri dilemma of Muslim psychologist very interesting about this topic
the title gave me a heart attack. Yes the ultra-modern-social-media-psychology is purely self centered. But when you understand it right you can save your mental health and faith
It's only that people think that Psychology is more accurate than Quran. Quran is about all animals, plants, earth and everything interacting with human beings including its psychology. Every person has its own juz in Quran. Each surah can have psychology meaning for each person.
As someone who studied psychology for a few years at university I wholeheartedly agree. Yes there is some interesting information about the development of the mind, but it gets to the point where they teach you that "gender fluidity" is an important scientific principle, and you have to treat it as fact
@@saudbassier9689 They used to consider gay people mentally ill on the DMS5 but since they had to remove it they are scared of getting acussed harshly and wont investigate the mind on those topics
His right very very right because psychology is something that his is own and our deen has its own rules so we must see and research our deen first than look at psychology and use it in a way that is permissible our deen comes first than psychology second than if psychology does not go according to our deen we leave it if it is we take and use it carefully our comes first every time because it's the only God the true God Allah
Psychology or any knowledge if read excluding the Creator, excluding Allah, will always be misleading. So involve Allah or Creator in everything. Shookar-Alhamdoliliah ✨🙏🕋🙏✨
My 3 months old daughter is highly sensitive. Research says that these kids will have high tantrums and they'll be always not emotional resilient. But they're empathetic and kind people too. Please tell me about highly sensitive people if you know about it. How can I upbring my daughter.
by not asking that to a dummy who just cares about his dreamfriend. psychology that he bullshetted is the solution. speak to psychologists. not mindless book holders.
As a Muslim, I think what you are saying is quite absurd. Religion does not give you solutions to deal with your pain instantly. And unfortunately, when you suffer from various types of abuses as a kid, this changes your neurons in a very adverse way, that sometimes takes so many years to get over. The Qur'an never said that science is incompatible with religion ;on the contrary, it teaches you to seek knowledge. Psychiatry or the science of the human brain is a science. And the human brain is so complex that obviously you will need to find the underlying reasons of your mental state, and your attitude /conduct.
He didnt denounce psychology itself. He criticized the modern psychology by taking God out of the equation entirely. He said that psychology should include God in its equation. Not that psychology and God are incompatible
@@sarfarazhassan1334yes it is.. but that doesn't change who she is. Name is just an identification..your identity is what you are not what your name is
This is not helpfull for people with depression or burn out to come to mental health care. In arab culture there is a shame already and people come to me secretly for help when depressed
Mr Nouman Ali, with all due respect, I really dont think that you have ever listened to a true Psychologist yet. What I mean by that is if you really came across one, you will realise that Psychology itself actually makes you realise about the One Supreme Power, which if all human beings trusted in, they would actually find peace within themselves. All the famous Psychologists around the world have studied the Bible deeply and they all believe in God.
I do understand the fact that there are a lot of people who are spreading false words in the name of psychological advices but it's not true that the whole psychology thing is misguiding. Some people are trying to use this to manupulate others and making them believe that isolation is the best way to live.The fact that human psychology works in a certain way and follows the law of nature is itself a proof of psychology's existance and Well if one take courses on psychology they will understand that the scientists are trying to learn more about human psychology which is the base of psychology. To learn something that is created by god and critical to understand. I'm kind of confused. Like you are a great scholar and you have more knowledge than me. But to define this science segment as something that will misguide one from Allah is a big deal. I study psychology and it's extremely fasinating how brain works and I'm bewildered with the fact that Allah created human with such amazing features. Sir with all due respect can you explain why you think of phychology as a path of misguidence? It's true that the western people are choosing isolation,loneliness etc over a happiness due to the advices they get but a society that normalize cheating, divorce, clubbing etc ; a society were people think that they can defy biology and declare themselves as whoever they think of....what kind of advice can fix the consequences of these? With how the world is being manupulated by the power holder psychology can make you understand how are you being manupulated... but people choose to believe something without even learning about it is what caused the real problem here.
Please correct the title .NAK is criticizing pop psychology or amateur content creators. He isn't criticizing the genuine ones. There are lots of muslim psycologist by the way.
I would be careful with this things , there are people who needs psychological help or a therapist for their problems or mental health diseases/disorder , it sounds like someone who get this help is not a good or following muslim ... But i agree with the pop culture wanna be psychologist or psychology stuff ...
i dont agree. Psychology is science to develop methods to overcome problems. Psychology doesnt say stop thinking about religion. Even there are existential therapies.
I wanted to pursue my profession in pyschology but this video came up alot of times, i knew he was talking about POP Psychology or the psychology not learned from authentic sources BUTTTT is it wrong to select such a career where you have to treat peoples (specially non religious peoples) through emotions? I mean does it count as a sin for me?
I mean, the base of nowadays psychology is DSM-5, and from my shallow knowledge, there are many statements inside that book that "support" idea about LGBT is NOT a fault, I mean, the base layer is differentiate too much with Islam's base layer (LGBT is real but LGBT is a fault and should be fixed)
@@Soulify-07 I don't know, maybe u can talk face to face to a religious cleric (ustadh / ustadha) near your house, he or she has better understanding about ur topic 😁🙏
If its ok to be religions, its ok to be psychological. Whether you can accept it or not, we live in our minds. So we cannot be seperated from psychology, because its a mechanism created for the human being to function. You cant remove God from any equation, God is not in the sky, God lives inside human beings, hence the scripture says 'when your Lord said to the angels, "Indeed, I will make upon the earth a successive authority." They said, "Will You place upon it one who causes corruption therein and sheds blood, while we declare Your praise and sanctify You?" Allah said, "Indeed, I know that which you do not know." Allah knew that he has put Himself in us. Why is it said that sujood brings us close to God? Because in Sujood we can feel him in our heart. Psychology is not an enemy. Instead of embracing and understanding it, its easy to blame it in an attempt to defend religion but all religions have human origins - despite the fact that they are inspired by God. If you interpret scripture literally, then you ought to be riding a camel and dressing as they dressed in the era in which each scripture was written, but things change and that is the way God fashioned them, to change and evolve. Please rethink your title and its validity.
Seems like a lot of people are missing the point of the video. He's not saying psychology is wrong, he's saying psychology which removes Allah from the equation - ie modern psychology which looks to using drugs and therapy as the first solution - is the problem. So then you get all these people with the most rudimentary knowledge spreading misinformation and diagnosing people left and right - including themselves - with this toxic trait or that mental illness without the full scope of the issue. And it's true bc look how many people are suffering from mental health issues bc they've turned away from Allah, don't wanna follow His commands and then end up taking wrong paths and ruining their lives and those of people around them. We need to turn back to Allah when we need help. If getting medical help is the best option for our situation, Allah will guide us to that. If it's something we need to change in our own perspective or lifestyle, He will guide us to do that instead. Modern psychology isn't necessarily the first step, especially when so many people abuse and misuse it for gain today. (I'm not hating on psychology in general bc Allah even teaches us about the psychological state of humans and what happens when we neglect worship of Him in the correct ways)
@@leirleoblivion exactly 💯
It is okay to act within your feelings as long as you are not willingfully going against ALLAH swt.
We are human beings, not robots. Feeling emotions is a beautiful thing as long as it does not dictate you that's fine.
he clearly states in the video that he is talking about POP Psychology. Stupid misleading title.
The thumbnail literally says "Psychology is a huge scam". Don't pretend you don't know what you're doing.
Just like his pop culture like teachings? No researxh, no actual mean of gaining his knowledge just his confabulation of thoughts and opinions for what he FEELS is accurate, misleading and misinforming, thru his means of presentation and articulating it to be pleasing.
Allahu akbar, I was sceptic at first by reading the title, but the way he explains it shows a truth that truly hurts for the non believers, how can you be guided without Allah ? How can your hapiness be forever when the core of everything in this life is to end ?
I'm actually experiencing a Big depression since one or two years I think, I never got to a psychologist, I dont want to take pill as they can hurt me, but I feel better now by simply doing two things :
Taking my time in Salah, putting effort into it,
And Reading Quran until I feel the urge to open it,
Elhemdulillah, Allah guides who he wants and misguides who he wants, and he is the way to success. ❤️❤️
Take care of you and be with Allah as he is always here for you ❤️
psychologist does not give pills.
You are talking about a psychiatrist, those aren't interested on the clien, only on selling. It isn't the same as a psychologist as the other comment said. Greetings
You mean psychiatrist?
⚠️⚠️TITLE IS MISLEADING⚠️⚠️ it should be "pop psychology is a scam", not the field of psychology as a whole. Not every single psychologist on the planet thinks the exact same way, as Nouman is describing. There are so many Muslim psychologists who are greatly knowledgeable.
I feel he’s just used his limited knowledge of psychology and ranted against a wide subject which he’s not read properly
It's marketing, some title are exaggerated in order to get the attention of the viewer and too often, IT WORKS.
Exactly. Iv heard him talking about it differently.. this is just few mins of full video. Very misleading... He has even asked to go to doctors /expert psychologists/psychiatrists when we need them ..
@@mahwashgaba8511 watch from around @1:54 he talks about people who make up things and label them as psychology. the title is indeed misleading.
oh really
As a Muslim majoring in psychology, I couldn't agree with the content of the video more (not the misleading title, haha). I believe psychology, when applied properly, can work harmoniously with faith. Pop psychology has definitely led to misinterpretations of psychological teachings via people who don't really know what they're talking about, and it's no surprise that in an individualistic society, people will take psychological practices/habits that can (and should!) otherwise help people and abuse them for self-serving purposes.
This is unfortunate that being such a popular Islamic scholar This guy doesn't have proper knowledge about psychology and misleading a huge crowd through his speech. May Allah provide him the knowledge to distinguish what is right or wrong!
This is unfortunate that being such a popular Islamic scholar This guy doesn't have proper knowledge about psychology and misleading a huge crowd through his speech. May Allah provide him the knowledge to distinguish what is right or wrong!
Wrong Interpretation about Ustaz Nouman.. He just want to supreme Al Quran which is words of true God, Allah SWT over psychology.. Yes indeed psychologyg good for a certain way but as Muslim follow Quran guidance with a proper teaching from Muhammad SAW is the best method..
Its overpowered western method (psychology) which is maybe fall for 2nd rank after Quran guidance as a first rank. Its true indeed. Which guidance is the best, Quran miraculous(Allah word) or human word/method?
@@MsPeace-pd2nzyou provided zero reason or any logical refutation to his arguments.
He didnt say psychology is wrong. So just watch the vid again , if u have misunderstood 💜
Modern psychology prefers the pleasure of the self over the pleasure of Allah!!
Edit: psychology is not bad in and of itself
Normal for humans
Oh no
Modern society is about hedonism
True
It’s not about pleasure. It’s about understanding and growth. Growing in relationships… especially that within your faith. As I knew Muslim, I find it disturbing to see how looked-down upon psychology is. As in every industry, you have to be cautious who you listen to but sweeping statements demonizing mental help is extremely problematic. The majority of Muslim women I know are depressed and on medication and the Muslim men refuse to do any therapy and look at their feelings and actions. It’s quite sad.
Slightly misleading title - he never specifically said that psychology itself will misguide you. It's just that the way it's being used by the masses for the last few decades or so have been very commercial-ish and is very destructive.
But with half cooked knowledge by non professionals who are trying to solve peoples problems by selling psychology as a whole sum of every possibility and purposes
This video came out at the right moment for me. I’ve really been trying to be more kind and loving but I recently discovered that I was emotionally unavailable and I had issues with being vulnerable in front of my beloved ones so I couldn’t says what I wanted to say even if a wanted to hug them I wouldn’t be able to do it. The psychology aspect has really help me but they said to cure you childhood emotional and touch neglect you have to give it to your self. But I thought that Allah is the one who can cure me, he is the one who would give me love, care, empathy without asking anything back he is the most reliable source of comfort and love and that’s when for the first time I felt the love of Allah DEEP inside my heart. I do have some other issues to fix and I really want to find the balance between psychology and Islam😭. May Allah bless you for reading until the end 😘 May Allah make it easy for us to cure our traumas and bring us closer to him Ameen 🌸🤲🏾
Very well said, thank you for your comment.
May Allah bless you with peace and ease in your Heart, mind and life ❤
The human mind is one of the most complex things, governed by mysterious and elusive rules...
Very interesting. Jazak'Allahu-khair for sharing
Spot on with the emotional people!
Wow.. never think of that. A reminder that all we need is Allah SWT.. ❤
Which is in the end making people more depressing because they are cautious of little things about human behavior they are not only destroying their own mental peace but also of others around them.
It is okay to act within your feelings as long as you are not willingfully going against ALLAH swt.
We are human beings, not robots. Feeling emotions is a beautiful thing as long as it does not dictate you that's fine.
ALLAH is the Most Loving❤
According to Hollywood, the purpose of life is happiness. In actuality the purpose of life is the obedience of Allah (the creator). Which ultimately leads you to the eternal happiness of achieving jannah but not before going through the test of life in this world. Psychology is just another tool to achieve “happy life” removing God out of the question crossing the boundary of haram and halal which in actuality is the message of western psychology, isn’t it!
Yes
WOW thats so true ! Subhan Allah ! I never thought about that in this way. Wow. Baraka Allahu Feek for this Video. May Allah bless and protect our Brother Nouman. Amin !
the title is misleading lol
psychology itself will not misguide nobody. it's simply a branch of knowledge that's studying human behaviour/ thought processes etc in order to understand human better thus creating a better life for human being. NAK never says that psychology gonna misguide you. if you're not learning it properly from authentic sources duhhh that's a no brainer.
Just like his religious teaches, from questionable authentic sources.
@@AAdam2021really 😮
Jazallahu khairan for being the best guide Sir..
Psychology isn't necessarily following your emotions but rather understanding them. It's also not just the study of your emotional processes but also your logical ones. It could be used wrong but advising against it should be said with much more nuance
Agree 100%. Ironically enough, he is also acting somewhat in the same way as the people he is criticising- talking about a vast subject as a layperson. Maybe he talks about it more in the original longer video but this short clip absolutely lacks nuance. So many Muslims avoid getting mental health help because stigma + they are fed so much misinformation about psychological help and this short clip even though made a few valid points, lacks depth and nuance and adds to the problem. In my opinion. As a psychologist :)
@@mahnoor2775I think he’s trying to make a case of people who victimise to avoid accountability but that has nothing to do with psychology, it’s not psychology fault, these guys are ignorants anyway
Extremely true fact of today's situation
Sirrr.. you are absolutely correct but due to some minor causes u cannot nullify the whole discipline of psychology....
Half videos made me think he is talking bullshit but the 2nd half of the video has completed the image, he is absolutely right. Being born here living this life doesnt mean that you have to do everything just to make urself feel better. Accepting the realities of life the way they are is required a lot of times. Always trying to feel better or good is something that ruins alot of things in life, its not a solution
I couldn’t agree more. Accepting the reality either it’s good or bad is the key for better life
then agree that death İS end, and your arab god doesnt even exist. thats reality.
Thanks for the vid ❤ Only caring about oneself to feel good is not always right
When Our ‘Feelings’ Become Our God | Khutbah Highlight | Nouman Ali Khan | Dublin, Ireland
❤ jazak Illah o Khairan. For guidance
Yes such is, and thank very much for Taken it público.
Peace is with You!!!☪️☪️
This is extremely important
It’s pretty simple. Narcissism creates craziness
QURAN is the perfect cure for people✔️ The best therapy❤
It’s not perfect dude
It is very good
But not perfect for sure
ISLAM is the truth✔️ Listen to QURAN
@@mohamedrafi9748
I’ve heard the Quran many times , nothing special bro , it’s just good
@@Think_plstalk sense bro
@@zarabhat.
Ok tell me what to say , il say that
We are infact helping you
It’s not good to be brainwashed
yeah, BEFORE I watch mr. Nouman talk about this, I'm already start feeling like this, I feel, I can almost diagnose myself with this with that with this with that, I start to "distancing" what I think "problem", yeah, mr. Nouman right, I was distancing myself with "harsh-truth",
when I start not to self diagnose myself with these kind of lgbt-thing jargons, I start to "brave" to take an actions, take challenges, not too afraid to act to someone, now, the person who can "diagnose" myself is professional psychologist, not myself (now I'm not too interested with psychology), and I feel great about it
Psychology is not a science. It is not based on facts and the analyses of different Psychology enthusiasts may not be consistent. It is a concept of studying the human mind based on opinions, not facts.
The only thing useful about Psychology is the introduction of terminology for different behaviors. But the set of behaviors which are defined by these terms, too, may lack consistency.
Not all other sciences are based on facts only... most sciences are based on theories, which can be refuted by research...
Psychology that QURAN tells about humans is enough for us.
Btw I'm not talking about medicines but just human psychology and it's phycological solutions.
No, it is not. Ideally psychology has to be derived from the sources of Quran and sunnah primarily. But we can use any other psychological technique and therapeutic technique that aligns with Islam.
Psy from the Quran is not enough exactly the way medical science from the Quran is not enough.
Truee
@@shanzesalman5606who are you?
he's talking logic bro, Qur'an is the mainly the book for hidayah of humans, not for psychology or medicine
some verses might have those topics but he's talking about details
@@sabbirnoor4820 what do you mean??
I wouldn’t say that it is onesided like this. Psychology also teaches techniques to stay or become mentally sane that are also taught in Islam….
The title should be When your feelings become your god
If psychology removes someone's belief system then its not proper psychology.
Blaim people but not the subject...
This subject heals people every single day…
جو کاٸنات میں ہوتا ہے وہی یہاں وقوع پزیر ہوتا ہے۔ہم سب تواناٸ ہیں جو منسلک ہیں۔
Allahu Akbar
Alhamdulillah
Subhanallah
La ilaha illallah
Muhammad ur Rasoolallah (saw)
Brilliant speech
Sub Han Allah his point is so valid . Never thought that way but is true
My question to people who give therapy to others is - How are you doing in your life? How is your relationship with others? How is your marriage? How is your relationship with your children and parent going? If you are not doing great yourself , then do not counsel others with your own brand of psychology that you learned by going to the community college.
He has missed the point totally. Allah is never removed from the equation- thus is misguiding others
I am a clinical psychologist and have come closer to my Deen since qualifying and practicing psychology
I feel he needs to get his facts and remove his bias against the subject
When your heart is properly linked with Allah , it never misleads you , even what you think is a mistake is usually just a plan to prepare you for the bigger picture
You can hear people say no one derserve hell from them
As a Psychology major, I totally agree
I think everybody should listen the whole video
What's he actually talking about is pop psychology which isn't really psychology. It's ppl with little knowledge of a topic making media content for popularity and that content either is false or not the whole story. Biggest example of this is "anxiety attack", there is no such term in the clinical psychology field.
Psychology focuses on the mind. While Allah tells us to focus on our hearts and He Himself talks about our heart
Psychology is basically the brain trying to figure itself out...
But when u have a Muslim male "scholar" think he knows it all
Definitely not... the human soul is definitely part of human behaviour whether western psychology recognises it or not! Muslim psychologist do...
Psychology debates it's Science or Religion to understand people emotions. From Science perspective, mental disorders are caused by brain chemicals imbalance. Where else Religions look at much deeper insight; spirituality; inside the heart. The condition of the heart then shown by the behavior. And there is a study of Behaviorial Science.
Extremely waiting for @Tariq pathan sir one million followers...
Islam is our guide,we can learn Islamic psychology,our religion always comes first. I like sister Yasmin’s lectures and also Nouman Ali Han‘s Islamic psychology. (We should learn psychology from trusted sources.)👍
Anytime there’s a misleading title the video should be reported and taken down
Conquer the mind. You will have control of person
Jazak Allah khair
You speak the tru tru. You is smart person.
Ustaz please answer i used to be a very forgiving person and tried not to hurt to anyone to try and please Allah i ended up with depression and so much anxiety and very bad self esteem, i want to be religious but the expense seems to be my mental health and i cant do that. Give me advice
Exactly why we need Muslim psychologist, psychological challenges can impact on the practicing of religion...
I roamed the whole world but came back to Allah.
I think the main problem of the current state of psychology, is that it either aims to satisfy that drug-addict mentality of "feeling good" at all costs, or aims to turn the person into a happy corporate slave, a lot of time perverting or oversimplifying spiritual teachings.
Pls Where can I find the full vedio?
When Our ‘Feelings’ Become Our God | Khutbah Highlight | Nouman Ali Khan | Dublin, Ireland
Why do we jump to extremes and never wish for a holistic approach to things?
I have watched a few videos of Nouman and have liked them but I find this one extremely misleading and ironically- misguiding.
A comment says that he has been severely depressed was considering to go to a psychologist but was sceptical about having medicines and now after watching this, he won't. This is what the problem is with this video. Where that person could have gone for therapy (non pharmaceutical treatment) along with Namaaz and Qur'an , he dropped the very idea of visiting a psychologist.
Again Ironically-Nouman himself hasn't researched about Psychology, doing exactly what the 18 y/o kids making TH-cam videos without proper research are doing. Psychology is not the science that is talking about "Feel good" or "Be happy" or "Pleasure seeking". What you are talking about is called Hedonism not Psychology. And if you were talking about the people who spread misinformation about psychology, and not psychology itself, then the video title is extremely misleading.
Video titles on this channel are sometimes too far stretched. But the actual contents are usually good.
Agreed bro.But i think this was not the intention of Ustad Nouman
thank you for explaining. i was thinking the exact same thing. i feel like he might have misunderstood what psychology even is.
He's not condemning psychology itself. But highlighting the sickness of "modern psychology" that focuses solely on the self, which removes Allah SWT from the equation.
@@miakamei1751 Psychology or science in general doesn't include God. If you want God to be included in every topic like a participation trophy stick to religious studies.
2:58 Can someone provide me the verse number for Suratul Jathiya!
Verse no 23
There’s is growing muslim psychology field which is very in line in finding life problem according to Islamic teachings . However psychology in itself is scientific in the approach but it’s as well heavily influenced by western cultural biases. There is book by Sudanese psychologist malik badri dilemma of Muslim psychologist very interesting about this topic
Amazing 👍👍👍
Both the video thumbnail and the title of the video are misleading. Psychology is not a scam and psychologists don't misguide people.
@@muhammadahsenkhan832 fr
My own psychologist pointed out i needed purpose
That's so true 👍
I want to study of psychology for my higher studies. But after watching this video I am hesitating. Should I not study psychology??
the title gave me a heart attack. Yes the ultra-modern-social-media-psychology is purely self centered. But when you understand it right you can save your mental health and faith
It's only that people think that Psychology is more accurate than Quran. Quran is about all animals, plants, earth and everything interacting with human beings including its psychology. Every person has its own juz in Quran. Each surah can have psychology meaning for each person.
As someone who studied psychology for a few years at university I wholeheartedly agree. Yes there is some interesting information about the development of the mind, but it gets to the point where they teach you that "gender fluidity" is an important scientific principle, and you have to treat it as fact
@@saudbassier9689 They used to consider gay people mentally ill on the DMS5 but since they had to remove it they are scared of getting acussed harshly and wont investigate the mind on those topics
Assalamualaikum wrt
Do look into "economy"?
His right very very right because psychology is something that his is own and our deen has its own rules so we must see and research our deen first than look at psychology and use it in a way that is permissible our deen comes first than psychology second than if psychology does not go according to our deen we leave it if it is we take and use it carefully our comes first every time because it's the only God the true God Allah
Ulema's son committed suicide, he's having mental health issues for a decade. Only God is One , unequalled.
Psychology or any knowledge if read excluding the Creator, excluding Allah, will always be misleading.
So involve Allah or Creator in everything.
Shookar-Alhamdoliliah
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My 3 months old daughter is highly sensitive. Research says that these kids will have high tantrums and they'll be always not emotional resilient. But they're empathetic and kind people too.
Please tell me about highly sensitive people if you know about it. How can I upbring my daughter.
by not asking that to a dummy who just cares about his dreamfriend. psychology that he bullshetted is the solution. speak to psychologists. not mindless book holders.
Full lecture?
Thank you
Gaslighting means putting blame on others for your wrong
Base from video title 'social media' psychology vs The Quran
You talking to me shekh 😢
As a Muslim, I think what you are saying is quite absurd. Religion does not give you solutions to deal with your pain instantly. And unfortunately, when you suffer from various types of abuses as a kid, this changes your neurons in a very adverse way, that sometimes takes so many years to get over. The Qur'an never said that science is incompatible with religion ;on the contrary, it teaches you to seek knowledge. Psychiatry or the science of the human brain is a science. And the human brain is so complex that obviously you will need to find the underlying reasons of your mental state, and your attitude /conduct.
He didnt denounce psychology itself. He criticized the modern psychology by taking God out of the equation entirely. He said that psychology should include God in its equation. Not that psychology and God are incompatible
Religion actually gives you a solution to these problems. You just haven’t searched for them
To add to the above points, having tawakkul gives you ultimate peace nomatter what the consequences are in sha Allah
@@sarfarazhassan1334yes it is.. but that doesn't change who she is. Name is just an identification..your identity is what you are not what your name is
@@saifaramor u r right
So why do Ulema ask Muslims to go get therapy for treating depression? Therapy is from a psychologist/counsellor who is trained in psychology.
I have not seen them recommend therapists. There is shayuookh and tazkiya. But i guess it depends on what kind of scholars.
Then there is
Child Psychology
Adult Psychology
Stages of growth
My dear
Pills ruined my soul... 😢
Where can i find the whole lecture??
When Our ‘Feelings’ Become Our God | Khutbah Highlight | Nouman Ali Khan | Dublin, Ireland
This is not helpfull for people with depression or burn out to come to mental health care. In arab culture there is a shame already and people come to me secretly for help when depressed
Mr Nouman Ali, with all due respect, I really dont think that you have ever listened to a true Psychologist yet. What I mean by that is if you really came across one, you will realise that Psychology itself actually makes you realise about the One Supreme Power, which if all human beings trusted in, they would actually find peace within themselves. All the famous Psychologists around the world have studied the Bible deeply and they all believe in God.
Psychology keeps a person trapped in trauma. It keeps you trapped that YESSSSS , YOU ARE A VICTIM. But it doesn't tell the way to move on.
wallahi, shaykh is so on point
I do understand the fact that there are a lot of people who are spreading false words in the name of psychological advices but it's not true that the whole psychology thing is misguiding. Some people are trying to use this to manupulate others and making them believe that isolation is the best way to live.The fact that human psychology works in a certain way and follows the law of nature is itself a proof of psychology's existance and Well if one take courses on psychology they will understand that the scientists are trying to learn more about human psychology which is the base of psychology. To learn something that is created by god and critical to understand. I'm kind of confused. Like you are a great scholar and you have more knowledge than me. But to define this science segment as something that will misguide one from Allah is a big deal. I study psychology and it's extremely fasinating how brain works and I'm bewildered with the fact that Allah created human with such amazing features. Sir with all due respect can you explain why you think of phychology as a path of misguidence?
It's true that the western people are choosing isolation,loneliness etc over a happiness due to the advices they get but a society that normalize cheating, divorce, clubbing etc ; a society were people think that they can defy biology and declare themselves as whoever they think of....what kind of advice can fix the consequences of these? With how the world is being manupulated by the power holder psychology can make you understand how are you being manupulated... but people choose to believe something without even learning about it is what caused the real problem here.
Please correct the title .NAK is criticizing pop psychology or amateur content creators. He isn't criticizing the genuine ones. There are lots of muslim psycologist by the way.
I would be careful with this things , there are people who needs psychological help or a therapist for their problems or mental health diseases/disorder , it sounds like someone who get this help is not a good or following muslim ...
But i agree with the pop culture wanna be psychologist or psychology stuff ...
Exactly, but not for fools.
i dont agree. Psychology is science to develop methods to overcome problems. Psychology doesnt say stop thinking about religion. Even there are existential therapies.
I wanted to pursue my profession in pyschology but this video came up alot of times, i knew he was talking about POP Psychology or the psychology not learned from authentic sources BUTTTT is it wrong to select such a career where you have to treat peoples (specially non religious peoples) through emotions? I mean does it count as a sin for me?
I mean, the base of nowadays psychology is DSM-5, and from my shallow knowledge, there are many statements inside that book that "support" idea about LGBT is NOT a fault, I mean, the base layer is differentiate too much with Islam's base layer (LGBT is real but LGBT is a fault and should be fixed)
@@prfm_setya95 Yeah so then it means that selecting such a career can be harmful right??
@@Soulify-07 I don't know, maybe u can talk face to face to a religious cleric (ustadh / ustadha) near your house, he or she has better understanding about ur topic 😁🙏
DSM 5 is only a classification and diagnostic system.@@prfm_setya95
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If its ok to be religions, its ok to be psychological. Whether you can accept it or not, we live in our minds. So we cannot be seperated from psychology, because its a mechanism created for the human being to function.
You cant remove God from any equation, God is not in the sky, God lives inside human beings, hence the scripture says 'when your Lord said to the angels, "Indeed, I will make upon the earth a successive authority." They said, "Will You place upon it one who causes corruption therein and sheds blood, while we declare Your praise and sanctify You?" Allah said, "Indeed, I know that which you do not know." Allah knew that he has put Himself in us.
Why is it said that sujood brings us close to God? Because in Sujood we can feel him in our heart.
Psychology is not an enemy. Instead of embracing and understanding it, its easy to blame it in an attempt to defend religion but all religions have human origins - despite the fact that they are inspired by God. If you interpret scripture literally, then you ought to be riding a camel and dressing as they dressed in the era in which each scripture was written, but things change and that is the way God fashioned them, to change and evolve. Please rethink your title and its validity.
you should WRITE MODERN SO CALLED PSYCHOLOGY
Don't mislead people.
Correct