How to HUMBLE a Pretty Girl | The Dark Side of Pretty Privilege | Dealing with Negativity & Bullying
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You are so beautiful
And other humbling tactics people use is
1. Ignoring you
2. Being rude or aggressive (envious men do this)
3.Complimenting others around you Expect you
4. Trying to make fun of you for the smallest things
This!!!!!!!!! And thank you love ❤
#4 yes I notice that often when I am talking ppl will often repeat something I said and laugh. Maybe I’m naturally funny lol. But this has always happened to me. L
@@kristinbrown7144 this happens to me all the time!!!! They mock you, what they said or their voice it’s so weird
My old coworkers did all of these makes me happy I quit with no notice 😂
Another way they humble us is by saying “dark side of pretty privilege doesn’t exist” or the “it’s not just pretty women go through it” like why are you invalidating our experiences on purpose?!
You look really good. I love your style, really eye catching.
I connect with this video. Have had haters my whole life. Beautiful women need to be elitists and stay away from insecure people.
@@Lalaland099 thank you for watching!! And welcome to the family ❤️❤️❤️
I’m so glad to see more women speaking on this subject ! ❤
Yeah, I was very naive too. I got scouted three times as a model in my 20ies. One time in London and two times in Italy. They were serious model agents, but I always said: "No, I dont want to work as a model" I didn't see myself as stunningly beautiful. I got bullied several times at work places. Women never invited me in and they tried everything to destroy my selfworth. One time I opened up to a Psychologist about all the issues, that I have with people and she said: You were not prepared what it means to be very beautiful! A very beautiful women cannot behaive the same way, like other women. Then it made click. Even though alot of people always told me, that I am stunning (mostly men), hearing it from a professional psychologist made all the difference. That was the moment, were I became aware of my beauty and how it effects peoples behaivior. I studied all what comes with this topic. Now I know, that it was never my fault! ALL insecure women will hate you! Its a fact! And you can do nothing about it! Nothing! You have to escape from those women, as soon as possible, or set strong boundaries. Otherwise they will try to destroy you! Envious women are extreemly toxic! Its a fact! In their view it is only fair, that they try to destroy you! In their view they are doing nothing wrong. You are beautiful, so you have already much more, than they have! So dont be sad, if we try to destroy you. It is very important to learn about human behaivior! A beautiful women will always be the target of envy! And when beauty comes with talents, confidence and brains too, than you have to be very selective with women. Cause thats a combo, that 8 out of 10 women cannot handle. I am always so happy, when I know a women with all those criterias! I made the sad expierience, that I can only get along with women, who have the same high standards and qualities.
I just be playing along tbh.. btw 😍 you look gorgeous!
Right 🤣 thank you Jay!! Welcome to the family
I've been looking forward to your next Pretty Privilege video! You look absolutely gorgeous as usual, and I love your sparkly earrings :)
I loove your pretty privilege videos! 😍🙌🏾 , you be on point
@@ChristenAlysia thank you Christen!!! Welcome to the family beauty!!
You look beautiful. Your makeup is amazing.
This is interesting. I, for some reason, am wondering if the halo effect would apply to what you;'re saying? I have had most of these signs throughout relationships, friendships, and so on, but not because of my looks. *Though, back handed compliments have been thrown at times lol*. I find that some people are *perceived* as pretty because they are (1) high achievers (2) take care of themselves and (3) carry themselves with confidence. Which is why I'm thinking of the halo effect. A woman can look attractive because of her traits rather than her looks, and that would also be a target of the kind of "humbling" you're speaking of here. I've never had friends or associates jealous of me because of my looks, but because of my high performing personality xD. And I found a lot of what you said, applied to those situations. like the hyper-criticism drove me bananas! I'm like, so people are just looking for problems to have with me lol. Another sign when ppl tried to humble me for being pretty is gaslighting me like there's no more oil in the Middle East! Bottomline, we live in such a sad world. Anyway, great video! I enjoyed hearing your perspective and looking forward to the next one!
If that is you in your pic you are pretty love!
@@thatgirlbrinna7927Awwwwwwww 🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹 thank you Brinna! ❤❤❤ I appreciate that.
Even your own family members hates you because of the fact that you’re pretty. I’m saying this from experience.
This!!!!! and its so "Taboo" to talk sbout
Omg so pretty 😍
Thank you!! ❤️ and welcome to the family!!!
I just wanted to comment that you’re so gorgeous!
Thank you love!!! And welcome to the family ☺️
Can you talk about mom's who seem to have some small amount of envy towards you?
Omg yess
You look like Kaliwae! ❤
You’re so gorgeous!
@@Sitababyy thank you so much! Welcome to the family love!
olivia loren haters are SHAKING in their boots..